Relationship Issues Counselling in North London, London
Sometimes people come with something specific such as anxiety or a bereavement, following a relationship breakdown or with obsessive compulsive symptoms.
I offer a place to be, a place to be heard, where you can be yourself, or find yourself. A place to understand patterns and roles, to think, to feel, without judgement, if you feel stuck, or want things to be different: a place to explore.
Sometimes people come with something specific such as anxiety or a bereavement, following a relationship breakdown or with obsessive compulsive symptoms.
I offer a place to be, a place to be heard, where you can be yourself, or find yourself. A place to understand patterns and roles, to think, to feel, without judgement, if you feel stuck, or want things to be different: a place to explore.
London Counselling Centre
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North London, London N4
I can support you with anxiety, depression, insomnia, concentration, energy level, family and relationship issues, and stability in parenting.
My name is Bogumila. I am a BACP- and NCPS-accredited counsellor/psychotherapist and authorised mindfulness therapist for individuals and couples. I use cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), Integrative Gestalt, modified Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing (EMDR), relational processes, and differentiation. You might struggle with negative thinking, expressing feelings, making decisions, low self-esteem, not feeling good enough, grief, addiction, bereavement, or ADHD. I can help you build motivation, improve daily routines, deal with your addiction or sexual issues, and form a support network.
I can support you with anxiety, depression, insomnia, concentration, energy level, family and relationship issues, and stability in parenting.
My name is Bogumila. I am a BACP- and NCPS-accredited counsellor/psychotherapist and authorised mindfulness therapist for individuals and couples. I use cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), Integrative Gestalt, modified Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing (EMDR), relational processes, and differentiation. You might struggle with negative thinking, expressing feelings, making decisions, low self-esteem, not feeling good enough, grief, addiction, bereavement, or ADHD. I can help you build motivation, improve daily routines, deal with your addiction or sexual issues, and form a support network.
I am a fully qualified psychotherapist and counsellor and Psychosexual & Relationship trainee Therapist offering counselling and sex therapy for individuals or couples in the Kensington, London Bridge & Islington area or online.
I see clients with common problems such as lack of desire, erectile difficulties, sexual pain and pornography. I have extensive experience working with anger, trauma, abuse and relationships, I believe that our early childhood relationships hold keys to how we navigate the world. I offer both short term and open ended therapy either face to face or virtual.
I am a fully qualified psychotherapist and counsellor and Psychosexual & Relationship trainee Therapist offering counselling and sex therapy for individuals or couples in the Kensington, London Bridge & Islington area or online.
I see clients with common problems such as lack of desire, erectile difficulties, sexual pain and pornography. I have extensive experience working with anger, trauma, abuse and relationships, I believe that our early childhood relationships hold keys to how we navigate the world. I offer both short term and open ended therapy either face to face or virtual.
I have experience working with a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, self-esteem, parenting, family conflicts, narcissistic abuse, bereavement, loss, addiction and trauma.
As an integrative therapist, I will be guided by your unique needs and I will adapt my therapeutic approach accordingly to support you in the best way possible. Approaches I may incorporate include psychodynamic, cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), attachment theory and mindfulness. I offer short or longer term therapy. Sessions can be in-person or online.
I have experience working with a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, self-esteem, parenting, family conflicts, narcissistic abuse, bereavement, loss, addiction and trauma.
As an integrative therapist, I will be guided by your unique needs and I will adapt my therapeutic approach accordingly to support you in the best way possible. Approaches I may incorporate include psychodynamic, cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), attachment theory and mindfulness. I offer short or longer term therapy. Sessions can be in-person or online.
Different Shades Counselling & Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
North London, London N4
My experience also involves relationship difficulties, trauma, and anxiety.
You may be experiencing a period in your life where personal circumstances are proving quite challenging, sometimes these difficulties can become overwhelming causing us to withdraw. The therapeutic process allows room for change and with the support of a therapist, progress can begin towards a different outlook towards yourself, your current circumstances and resources to develop and maintain a greater quality of life.
My experience also involves relationship difficulties, trauma, and anxiety.
You may be experiencing a period in your life where personal circumstances are proving quite challenging, sometimes these difficulties can become overwhelming causing us to withdraw. The therapeutic process allows room for change and with the support of a therapist, progress can begin towards a different outlook towards yourself, your current circumstances and resources to develop and maintain a greater quality of life.
I am trained to integrate a number of ways of therapy that provide the best opportunity to help you and by developing a good therapeutic relationship I can support you in the route through your problems.
There are many reasons to look for a therapist, ranging from a crisis now to a general feeling of unhappiness, stemming from your past. Life throws up many events and difficulties and we aren't always able to solve these on our own. Anxieties, stress, feeling sad, isolation, as well as relationships, families, parenting, marriage, divorce, addictions, bereavement and loss are issues that we will all face at some point in our lives. They can leave us feeling confused and lost and without anyone to help us make sense of it. Therapy is safe, secure & non judgemental providing understanding, insight leading to change for you.
I am trained to integrate a number of ways of therapy that provide the best opportunity to help you and by developing a good therapeutic relationship I can support you in the route through your problems.
There are many reasons to look for a therapist, ranging from a crisis now to a general feeling of unhappiness, stemming from your past. Life throws up many events and difficulties and we aren't always able to solve these on our own. Anxieties, stress, feeling sad, isolation, as well as relationships, families, parenting, marriage, divorce, addictions, bereavement and loss are issues that we will all face at some point in our lives. They can leave us feeling confused and lost and without anyone to help us make sense of it. Therapy is safe, secure & non judgemental providing understanding, insight leading to change for you.
My approach integrates: Psychodynamic and CBT Therapies, with a Relational and Humanistic emphasis on authentic relationship.
There are times in everyone's life when things can feel overwhelming. At others, we can find ourselves repeating unhelpful or destructive patterns in our behaviour or relationships. At these difficult, and sometimes very distressing times, therapy can, quite literally, be a life-saver. For others, therapy can be an exciting and challenging space for personal development, growth and exploration. I have worked in the field of mental health for over 20 years. I work in both the NHS and as a consultant in Private Practice. I am also a senior tutor at the Minster Centre a pre-eminent training organisation for Psychotherapists.
My approach integrates: Psychodynamic and CBT Therapies, with a Relational and Humanistic emphasis on authentic relationship.
There are times in everyone's life when things can feel overwhelming. At others, we can find ourselves repeating unhelpful or destructive patterns in our behaviour or relationships. At these difficult, and sometimes very distressing times, therapy can, quite literally, be a life-saver. For others, therapy can be an exciting and challenging space for personal development, growth and exploration. I have worked in the field of mental health for over 20 years. I work in both the NHS and as a consultant in Private Practice. I am also a senior tutor at the Minster Centre a pre-eminent training organisation for Psychotherapists.
Issues that therapy can help with and that are often hard to overcome include: low self esteem, relationship issues , depression, childhood trauma, sexual issues, anxiety and stress .
The aim of counselling is to increase self awareness and help make the changes that feel right for you. I work collaboratively with my clients to facilitate and enable the changes and movement desired. We can all experience difficulties in our lives: sometimes we feel stuck and we may want to reflect on our lives from a different perspective.
Issues that therapy can help with and that are often hard to overcome include: low self esteem, relationship issues , depression, childhood trauma, sexual issues, anxiety and stress .
The aim of counselling is to increase self awareness and help make the changes that feel right for you. I work collaboratively with my clients to facilitate and enable the changes and movement desired. We can all experience difficulties in our lives: sometimes we feel stuck and we may want to reflect on our lives from a different perspective.
I have counselled individuals and couples for over forty years, offering a wealth of experience - I specialise in relationship issues, as well as anxiety, depression, low self esteem, loss and bereavement, and other emotional difficulties.
Alongside my current private practice, I worked at Highgate Counselling Centre for many years, both as a counsellor for individuals and as part of its Couples and Families team. I also led its Certificate in Counselling Skills course for many years, and taught attachment and loss on its Diploma in Psychodynamic Counselling course.
I have counselled individuals and couples for over forty years, offering a wealth of experience - I specialise in relationship issues, as well as anxiety, depression, low self esteem, loss and bereavement, and other emotional difficulties.
Alongside my current private practice, I worked at Highgate Counselling Centre for many years, both as a counsellor for individuals and as part of its Couples and Families team. I also led its Certificate in Counselling Skills course for many years, and taught attachment and loss on its Diploma in Psychodynamic Counselling course.
Gail Wilkinson Pgdip Mbacp (Accred)
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
North London, London N16
We will build a relationship that allows you to express what you have longed to say, but have not had the space to, yet.
Perhaps you’ve felt stuck for a while, or have been feeling that something isn’t right but can’t quite identify what that is. You may be anxious, depressed, have low self-esteem. Maybe you are struggling in relationships, or finding it difficult getting your needs met? You may have often felt that you don’t belong, or that you’re not supposed to be doing the work you do. Perhaps you’d like to feel less frustrated, angry or alone? You may be experiencing grief, or struggling with addiction, you might have low libido, or want to explore your sexuality. It might be a family or historic issue you’d like to make sense of. I can help.
We will build a relationship that allows you to express what you have longed to say, but have not had the space to, yet.
Perhaps you’ve felt stuck for a while, or have been feeling that something isn’t right but can’t quite identify what that is. You may be anxious, depressed, have low self-esteem. Maybe you are struggling in relationships, or finding it difficult getting your needs met? You may have often felt that you don’t belong, or that you’re not supposed to be doing the work you do. Perhaps you’d like to feel less frustrated, angry or alone? You may be experiencing grief, or struggling with addiction, you might have low libido, or want to explore your sexuality. It might be a family or historic issue you’d like to make sense of. I can help.
My specialisms include working with relationship issues, depression, anxiety and work related issues.
I have over 18 years post qualification experience as a psychotherapist/ counsellor Jungian analyst and Group Therapist working privately and in the NHS. I also work as a psychotherapist at the University of London and teach and supervise trainee counsellors and psychotherapists.
My specialisms include working with relationship issues, depression, anxiety and work related issues.
I have over 18 years post qualification experience as a psychotherapist/ counsellor Jungian analyst and Group Therapist working privately and in the NHS. I also work as a psychotherapist at the University of London and teach and supervise trainee counsellors and psychotherapists.
Meet Our Relationship Issues Counsellors
Erin Hope Thompson (Online Sessions Available)
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
North London, London N21
I specialise in working with anxiety, depression, OCD, bereavement, health difficulties, and relationship counselling.
At the heart of all of my work is being collaborative and tailoring approaches to peoples’ specific needs. In an initial assessment I will listen to what you are struggling with, I’ll ask a number of questions so I can best understand what is going on for you, and I will propose a plan for moving forward.
I specialise in working with anxiety, depression, OCD, bereavement, health difficulties, and relationship counselling.
At the heart of all of my work is being collaborative and tailoring approaches to peoples’ specific needs. In an initial assessment I will listen to what you are struggling with, I’ll ask a number of questions so I can best understand what is going on for you, and I will propose a plan for moving forward.
I am qualified to see couples having trained with Relate as a Relationship Counsellor.
There can be times in our lives when we experience distressing events or feelings which seem overwhelming. This can be due to a particular circumstance such as difficulties in our current relationships, work related stress, illness, bereavement, or dealing with painful memories from our childhood. Sometimes we have no idea what is making us feel the way we do. All we know is that life has become distressing, or even intolerable. It could be at these times a talking therapy may be a helpful option.
I am qualified to see couples having trained with Relate as a Relationship Counsellor.
There can be times in our lives when we experience distressing events or feelings which seem overwhelming. This can be due to a particular circumstance such as difficulties in our current relationships, work related stress, illness, bereavement, or dealing with painful memories from our childhood. Sometimes we have no idea what is making us feel the way we do. All we know is that life has become distressing, or even intolerable. It could be at these times a talking therapy may be a helpful option.
All our clinicians aim to build a safe, non-judgemental and confidential relationship with you - allowing you to talk about your most difficult private feelings and experiences.
If you’re ready to take an in depth look the issues facing you, we’re a group of experienced practitioners, committed to helping you achieve change. We work online to provide flexibility about when and where you access help - including at the weekend or evening. You decide whether you want long-term help as you transition through life, or whether you’re looking for short-term help to deal with a particular, pressing problem. Either way, we will make sure you feel safe, understood and helped to achieve the change you seek. We are fully insured, highly trained and registered with the largest professional body of therapists in the UK.
All our clinicians aim to build a safe, non-judgemental and confidential relationship with you - allowing you to talk about your most difficult private feelings and experiences.
If you’re ready to take an in depth look the issues facing you, we’re a group of experienced practitioners, committed to helping you achieve change. We work online to provide flexibility about when and where you access help - including at the weekend or evening. You decide whether you want long-term help as you transition through life, or whether you’re looking for short-term help to deal with a particular, pressing problem. Either way, we will make sure you feel safe, understood and helped to achieve the change you seek. We are fully insured, highly trained and registered with the largest professional body of therapists in the UK.
So, finding a relationship where you feel trusting enough to speak freely, can be transformative.
Supported by extensive clinical literature & evidence base, psychodynamic psychotherapy offers a confidential, exploratory space where confused, unsettled or disturbing feelings can be safely revealed. Historical patterns & unconscious processes underpin emotional distress & so this would be a starting point, as we develop and observe what occurs between us.
So, finding a relationship where you feel trusting enough to speak freely, can be transformative.
Supported by extensive clinical literature & evidence base, psychodynamic psychotherapy offers a confidential, exploratory space where confused, unsettled or disturbing feelings can be safely revealed. Historical patterns & unconscious processes underpin emotional distress & so this would be a starting point, as we develop and observe what occurs between us.
Dr Erlend Slettevold
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North London, London N3
I believe that spending some time on forming a positive therapeutic relationship is helpful at the start as well as throughout the therapy process.
Hi everyone! I'm Erlend, a Clinical Psychologist. My priority is always to provide you with a safe and confidential space and help you feel like you can express yourself. I will be guided by your pace and values to help you work towards living a more fulfilling life. I also place great importance on being genuine and honest when working with people, so am always keen to review our progress and make sure the process is working for you. I studied Psychology at the University of Bergen, Norway, before moving to the UK to study my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the University of Essex.
I believe that spending some time on forming a positive therapeutic relationship is helpful at the start as well as throughout the therapy process.
Hi everyone! I'm Erlend, a Clinical Psychologist. My priority is always to provide you with a safe and confidential space and help you feel like you can express yourself. I will be guided by your pace and values to help you work towards living a more fulfilling life. I also place great importance on being genuine and honest when working with people, so am always keen to review our progress and make sure the process is working for you. I studied Psychology at the University of Bergen, Norway, before moving to the UK to study my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the University of Essex.
Additionally, I work with a range of issues, including depression, low self-esteem, relationship challenges, life transitions, and personal growth.
If life feels overwhelming, like a cluttered desk full of disorganised papers, I’m here to help you make sense of it all. Your thoughts, feelings, and emotions may feel scattered, but together, we can sort through them, piece by piece. Think of the counselling process like going through those papers, organising them, and putting them back in the filing cabinet. This process will bring you clarity, help you understand your past, and guide you forward with purpose.
Additionally, I work with a range of issues, including depression, low self-esteem, relationship challenges, life transitions, and personal growth.
If life feels overwhelming, like a cluttered desk full of disorganised papers, I’m here to help you make sense of it all. Your thoughts, feelings, and emotions may feel scattered, but together, we can sort through them, piece by piece. Think of the counselling process like going through those papers, organising them, and putting them back in the filing cabinet. This process will bring you clarity, help you understand your past, and guide you forward with purpose.
Emmalyn Williams
Psychotherapist, MSc, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North London, London N13
The importance of a therapeutic relationship is to build an alliance and a connection to work together.
Bereavement, Mental Health, Addiction, Drugs and Alcohol misused, Abuse, loss, Shame, self-harm, relationship issues, young people issues
The importance of a therapeutic relationship is to build an alliance and a connection to work together.
Bereavement, Mental Health, Addiction, Drugs and Alcohol misused, Abuse, loss, Shame, self-harm, relationship issues, young people issues
Anxiety - self doubt - depressive feelings - anger - relationship issues.
My approach is concerned with helping you gain a deeper understanding of your feelings, experiences and behaviour, past and present, conscious and unconscious. This process can be particularly helpful if you are feeling stuck.
Anxiety - self doubt - depressive feelings - anger - relationship issues.
My approach is concerned with helping you gain a deeper understanding of your feelings, experiences and behaviour, past and present, conscious and unconscious. This process can be particularly helpful if you are feeling stuck.
We specialise in working with people who experience emotional intensity, impulsivity, and relationship struggles—helping them build resilience, balance, and deeper self-understanding.
We also offer Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT), a twice-weekly programme that supports people in recognising and reshaping unhelpful patterns of thinking, feeling, and relating to themselves and others. This approach is particularly helpful for those who struggle with self-doubt, relationship difficulties, or persistent emotional distress.
We specialise in working with people who experience emotional intensity, impulsivity, and relationship struggles—helping them build resilience, balance, and deeper self-understanding.
We also offer Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT), a twice-weekly programme that supports people in recognising and reshaping unhelpful patterns of thinking, feeling, and relating to themselves and others. This approach is particularly helpful for those who struggle with self-doubt, relationship difficulties, or persistent emotional distress.
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Relationship Issues Counsellors
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.