Infidelity Counselling in North London, London

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Mehmet Erdil
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
North London, London N5
I specialise in relationship issues such as; communication problems, trust issues, affairs, intimacy issues, low self-esteem, past relationship difficulties, separation and divorce, difficulty forming relationship, family and parenting style issues, anger issues, porn addiction and sexual difficulties.
Through the years of practice I have developed my own integrative approach to the relationship therapy. I have been trained in a range of relationship therapy approaches including psychodynamic, systemic, humanistic and cognitive behavioural therapy traditions. In my work, I prioritise my client's needs and we work together to achieve their goals.
I specialise in relationship issues such as; communication problems, trust issues, affairs, intimacy issues, low self-esteem, past relationship difficulties, separation and divorce, difficulty forming relationship, family and parenting style issues, anger issues, porn addiction and sexual difficulties.
Through the years of practice I have developed my own integrative approach to the relationship therapy. I have been trained in a range of relationship therapy approaches including psychodynamic, systemic, humanistic and cognitive behavioural therapy traditions. In my work, I prioritise my client's needs and we work together to achieve their goals.
020 3962 0129 View 020 3962 0129
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Lizzy Duverney
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
North London, London N3
Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression?
Successful therapy is the relationship between the client and therapist where there is trust, openness and the opportunity to explore your whole self where you can feel safe and brave to talk. I offer a professional, non-judgemental, empathic counselling relationship where you can become the expert in your life story and journey to emotional confidence.
Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression?
Successful therapy is the relationship between the client and therapist where there is trust, openness and the opportunity to explore your whole self where you can feel safe and brave to talk. I offer a professional, non-judgemental, empathic counselling relationship where you can become the expert in your life story and journey to emotional confidence.
020 3763 8562 View 020 3763 8562
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RJUTherapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
01905 672311 View 01905 672311
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Couple's Counsellor @ Islington & Brixton
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
020 3962 0928 View 020 3962 0928
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Barbara Elaine Finch
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
North London, London N12
I know how hard it can be to reach out and take the first step when you need help. A problem can become so large that it takes over most of your life. It can be something from the past that refuses to stay buried or a current situation that you can't move beyond. Whether it's depression, anxiety, bereavement, stress or a relationship breaking down, you can't see a way out and you feel overwhelmed. Sometimes it's different, you've reached a point in your life when you know that something needs to change, or maybe change is being forced on you. You feel trapped or stuck. You want to live life, but don't know how.
I know how hard it can be to reach out and take the first step when you need help. A problem can become so large that it takes over most of your life. It can be something from the past that refuses to stay buried or a current situation that you can't move beyond. Whether it's depression, anxiety, bereavement, stress or a relationship breaking down, you can't see a way out and you feel overwhelmed. Sometimes it's different, you've reached a point in your life when you know that something needs to change, or maybe change is being forced on you. You feel trapped or stuck. You want to live life, but don't know how.
07445 444029 View 07445 444029
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Annette Julia Wozniak
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
North London, London N2
I am a highly experienced clinical psychologist with over 15 years experience. I work with individuals, couples, families and groups. I offer therapy to explore and manage personal challenges such as relational difficulties, adjustment problems, trauma, loss and grief, sexuality and others. I integrate a number of different approaches including in-depth insight orientated therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, group therapy and coaching. I have worked as a visiting lecturer, training therapists at university level. Presently I am a visiting lecturer at Tavistock Relationships. I also have experience as a clinical supervisor.
I am a highly experienced clinical psychologist with over 15 years experience. I work with individuals, couples, families and groups. I offer therapy to explore and manage personal challenges such as relational difficulties, adjustment problems, trauma, loss and grief, sexuality and others. I integrate a number of different approaches including in-depth insight orientated therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, group therapy and coaching. I have worked as a visiting lecturer, training therapists at university level. Presently I am a visiting lecturer at Tavistock Relationships. I also have experience as a clinical supervisor.
020 4572 0258 View 020 4572 0258
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Nicola Revington
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
We can all benefit from creating spaces of reflection and connection in our lives. Psychotherapy can be useful not only in helping people in severe psychological distress, but also in facilitating self-discovery, insight and growth, particularly during times of difficulty, change and transition. Greater curiosity about one’s self and increased self-awareness can help to bring recognition to, and shift, unhelpful patterns of behaviour. This insight can also increase the capacity to cope with challenging situations; contribute to building more meaningful relationships; & create space for a rich, meaningful and balanced life.
We can all benefit from creating spaces of reflection and connection in our lives. Psychotherapy can be useful not only in helping people in severe psychological distress, but also in facilitating self-discovery, insight and growth, particularly during times of difficulty, change and transition. Greater curiosity about one’s self and increased self-awareness can help to bring recognition to, and shift, unhelpful patterns of behaviour. This insight can also increase the capacity to cope with challenging situations; contribute to building more meaningful relationships; & create space for a rich, meaningful and balanced life.
01548 800991 View 01548 800991
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Karen Taylor
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
North London, London N14
For 30 years, I have been working successfully with people who want to regain their sense of emotional ease in times of difficulty; people who, unsurprisingly, have found it hard to deal with and resolve their emotional difficulties alone. I work with people suffering from anxiety of all kinds, stuggles with loss, low feelings, difficulties in relationships and reactions to trauma. plus people
For 30 years, I have been working successfully with people who want to regain their sense of emotional ease in times of difficulty; people who, unsurprisingly, have found it hard to deal with and resolve their emotional difficulties alone. I work with people suffering from anxiety of all kinds, stuggles with loss, low feelings, difficulties in relationships and reactions to trauma. plus people
020 4530 8458 View 020 4530 8458
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Bankole Jaiyeoba
Psychotherapist, MBACP
5 Endorsed
North London, London N1
I am a first generation Black Londoner born and raised. I understand that finding somebody to talk to in a safe and confidential environment can be difficult and scary, many people do not have this & feel they are alone with their stresses. I am a fully qualified psychotherapist and counsellor and registered member of COSRT as a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist offering counselling and sex therapy for individuals or couples in the Kensington, Camden & Islington areas or online. I am a fully insured and supervised member of the BACP and as such work within their Ethical Framework.
I am a first generation Black Londoner born and raised. I understand that finding somebody to talk to in a safe and confidential environment can be difficult and scary, many people do not have this & feel they are alone with their stresses. I am a fully qualified psychotherapist and counsellor and registered member of COSRT as a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist offering counselling and sex therapy for individuals or couples in the Kensington, Camden & Islington areas or online. I am a fully insured and supervised member of the BACP and as such work within their Ethical Framework.
020 4538 5097 View 020 4538 5097
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Jennifer Park
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
North London, London N8
There are many reasons to look for a therapist, ranging from a crisis now to a general feeling of unhappiness, stemming from your past. Life throws up many events and difficulties and we aren't always able to solve these on our own. Anxieties, stress, feeling sad, isolation, as well as relationships, families, parenting, marriage, divorce, addictions, bereavement and loss are issues that we will all face at some point in our lives. They can leave us feeling confused and lost and without anyone to help us make sense of it. Therapy is safe, secure & non judgemental providing understanding, insight leading to change for you.
There are many reasons to look for a therapist, ranging from a crisis now to a general feeling of unhappiness, stemming from your past. Life throws up many events and difficulties and we aren't always able to solve these on our own. Anxieties, stress, feeling sad, isolation, as well as relationships, families, parenting, marriage, divorce, addictions, bereavement and loss are issues that we will all face at some point in our lives. They can leave us feeling confused and lost and without anyone to help us make sense of it. Therapy is safe, secure & non judgemental providing understanding, insight leading to change for you.
020 3962 0131 View 020 3962 0131
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angelathwaitescounsellingcom
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP Snr. Accred
North London, London N3
If you are struggling to cope, feeling anxious, depressed or insecure, then consider counselling with me. I can help you make sense of your feelings and gain a better understanding of yourself, resulting in a positive change in your life. Therapy with me gives you the opportunity to gain insight into why you feel the way you do and how you relate to other people. You are invited to think with me in a confidential environment about yourself and your feelings, whilst considering how these feelings may be linked to some of your earlier life experiences and what emotional impact they may have had on your current life.
If you are struggling to cope, feeling anxious, depressed or insecure, then consider counselling with me. I can help you make sense of your feelings and gain a better understanding of yourself, resulting in a positive change in your life. Therapy with me gives you the opportunity to gain insight into why you feel the way you do and how you relate to other people. You are invited to think with me in a confidential environment about yourself and your feelings, whilst considering how these feelings may be linked to some of your earlier life experiences and what emotional impact they may have had on your current life.
020 3962 2459 View 020 3962 2459
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Nisa Safdar
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
Life can feel overwhelming, and it’s not always easy to manage struggles alone. I provide a safe, compassionate space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace. My collaborative and culturally sensitive approach supports adults with anxiety, trauma, relationships, and life transitions, using evidence-based methods tailored to your needs. As an experienced practitioner, my aim is to help you feel heard, empowered, and supported. I offer flexible telephone & online sessions. Reaching out for support takes courage, and it would be an honour to walk alongside you on your journey toward growth and well-being
Life can feel overwhelming, and it’s not always easy to manage struggles alone. I provide a safe, compassionate space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace. My collaborative and culturally sensitive approach supports adults with anxiety, trauma, relationships, and life transitions, using evidence-based methods tailored to your needs. As an experienced practitioner, my aim is to help you feel heard, empowered, and supported. I offer flexible telephone & online sessions. Reaching out for support takes courage, and it would be an honour to walk alongside you on your journey toward growth and well-being
020 4634 3989 View 020 4634 3989
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Priscila Moura
Counsellor, MBACP
North London, London N8
Whether you're struggling with anxiety, feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges, or simply seeking deeper understanding of yourself, therapy offers a path forward. Our sessions will be a safe space to explore your world with openness and respect, where anxiety and other difficult emotions can be understood rather than feared. I value your unique experiences and perspective, taking a holistic approach that considers mind, body, emotions, and spirit, along with the impact of your social context.
Whether you're struggling with anxiety, feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges, or simply seeking deeper understanding of yourself, therapy offers a path forward. Our sessions will be a safe space to explore your world with openness and respect, where anxiety and other difficult emotions can be understood rather than feared. I value your unique experiences and perspective, taking a holistic approach that considers mind, body, emotions, and spirit, along with the impact of your social context.
020 4572 2922 View 020 4572 2922
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Dr Cat Douglas
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
North London, London N1
I am a Clinical Psychologist specialising in anxiety, trauma and attachment difficulties. Many of my clients have difficult past experiences that contribute to problems such as abandonment worries, repetitive relationship patterns or difficulties regulating emotions. Others deal with panic attacks, constant “what if” worries and patterns of avoidance. I offer a safe, supportive space to work through these difficulties and make meaningful change. I am trained in a range of different therapies including CBT, Dynamic Interpersonal Therapy (DIT) and EMDR. I offer a tailored approach to suit your individual needs.
I am a Clinical Psychologist specialising in anxiety, trauma and attachment difficulties. Many of my clients have difficult past experiences that contribute to problems such as abandonment worries, repetitive relationship patterns or difficulties regulating emotions. Others deal with panic attacks, constant “what if” worries and patterns of avoidance. I offer a safe, supportive space to work through these difficulties and make meaningful change. I am trained in a range of different therapies including CBT, Dynamic Interpersonal Therapy (DIT) and EMDR. I offer a tailored approach to suit your individual needs.
01992 929925 View 01992 929925
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Rosie Jackson
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
North London, London N1
I am a UKCP-accredited psychotherapist providing short and long-term psychotherapy. I work from a psychodynamic perspective. This means that I attach importance not only to current experiences and ways of relating, but also to how these may be linked to earlier experiences - understanding the underlying nature of the behaviour and emotions which are causing difficulty or distress can help to relieve suffering and open up the possibility for change. I specialise in opening up space for the development of self awareness & a sense of meaning and purpose in your life in the midst of very bleak or anxiety-provoking experiences.
I am a UKCP-accredited psychotherapist providing short and long-term psychotherapy. I work from a psychodynamic perspective. This means that I attach importance not only to current experiences and ways of relating, but also to how these may be linked to earlier experiences - understanding the underlying nature of the behaviour and emotions which are causing difficulty or distress can help to relieve suffering and open up the possibility for change. I specialise in opening up space for the development of self awareness & a sense of meaning and purpose in your life in the midst of very bleak or anxiety-provoking experiences.
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Jana Bystrianska
Counsellor, BACP
North London, London N4
I am a BACP registered integrative counsellor, experienced in working with a variety of clients and issues. I offer a non-judgmental and confidential space where you can explore whatever might be troubling you. My approach is to bring warmth and compassion to my understanding of a range of different psychotherapeutic traditions. Living and practicing in London means that I work in a culturally informed way, taking into account all the diverse influences which form each of us as human beings. I have experience in working with relationship challenges and family struggles, childhood traumas, stress, anxiety, and depression, loss
I am a BACP registered integrative counsellor, experienced in working with a variety of clients and issues. I offer a non-judgmental and confidential space where you can explore whatever might be troubling you. My approach is to bring warmth and compassion to my understanding of a range of different psychotherapeutic traditions. Living and practicing in London means that I work in a culturally informed way, taking into account all the diverse influences which form each of us as human beings. I have experience in working with relationship challenges and family struggles, childhood traumas, stress, anxiety, and depression, loss
020 3835 5426 View 020 3835 5426
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Caroline Moore
Psychotherapist, UKCP Trainee
North London, London N1
We can all face difficulties in our lives and sometimes it’s helpful to talk things through in a safe, warm and accepting environment. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, loss, relationship issues, life transitions or other challenges, we can work together to gain insight into the difficulties you are facing and your responses to them. Insight can facilitate change. When we are stuck in the past it robs us of the richness of the present moment and limits who we can be. Together we can move towards healing and self discovery and explore what's preventing you from living a more free and fulfilling life.
We can all face difficulties in our lives and sometimes it’s helpful to talk things through in a safe, warm and accepting environment. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, loss, relationship issues, life transitions or other challenges, we can work together to gain insight into the difficulties you are facing and your responses to them. Insight can facilitate change. When we are stuck in the past it robs us of the richness of the present moment and limits who we can be. Together we can move towards healing and self discovery and explore what's preventing you from living a more free and fulfilling life.
020 3962 1273 View 020 3962 1273
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Shammi Kohli
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
North London, London N12
There are many reasons why you would chose to seek therapy. You maybe experiencing stress or anxiety, feeling overwhelmed or that you just can't cope at this moment in time. You maybe experiencing difficulties with intimate relationships or your family. Could you be suffering a bereavement, or loss, divorce or separation. There maybe issues you have been struggling for a long time, traumatic experiences, low self esteem, your identity or your sexuality. Or feeling like you 'don't quite fit in'. You could be stuck in certain relationship patterns that you want to change.
There are many reasons why you would chose to seek therapy. You maybe experiencing stress or anxiety, feeling overwhelmed or that you just can't cope at this moment in time. You maybe experiencing difficulties with intimate relationships or your family. Could you be suffering a bereavement, or loss, divorce or separation. There maybe issues you have been struggling for a long time, traumatic experiences, low self esteem, your identity or your sexuality. Or feeling like you 'don't quite fit in'. You could be stuck in certain relationship patterns that you want to change.
07480 488339 View 07480 488339
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Mind-Reframed Team
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
4 Endorsed
North London, London N1
Struggling with intense emotions or feeling overwhelmed by sensitivity? We specialise in working with people who experience emotional intensity, impulsivity, and relationship struggles—helping them build resilience, balance, and deeper self-understanding. Our intensive Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) programme is designed to equip you with practical skills to manage overwhelming emotions, impulsive behaviours, and patterns that no longer serve you. If you feel that your emotions often take over, this structured, evidence-based approach can help you regain control and build a more stable, fulfilling life.
Struggling with intense emotions or feeling overwhelmed by sensitivity? We specialise in working with people who experience emotional intensity, impulsivity, and relationship struggles—helping them build resilience, balance, and deeper self-understanding. Our intensive Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) programme is designed to equip you with practical skills to manage overwhelming emotions, impulsive behaviours, and patterns that no longer serve you. If you feel that your emotions often take over, this structured, evidence-based approach can help you regain control and build a more stable, fulfilling life.
07891 901607 View 07891 901607
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Siobhan Campbell Therapy
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Online Only
Welcome. I'm an Integrative therapist drawing from a range of therapeutic ideas and approaches in order to offer an individual service to each of my clients accorrding to their needs. I work in a relational way, meaning that I see therapy as a joint venture, an alliance in which I try to facilitate clients in understanding themselves, their needs and their difficulties - whatever may be getting in the way of achieving their goals and enjoying their lives. I also help clients to navigate the emotionally painful and challenging experiences that life brings to us all, to process past traumas and to explore relationship issues.
Welcome. I'm an Integrative therapist drawing from a range of therapeutic ideas and approaches in order to offer an individual service to each of my clients accorrding to their needs. I work in a relational way, meaning that I see therapy as a joint venture, an alliance in which I try to facilitate clients in understanding themselves, their needs and their difficulties - whatever may be getting in the way of achieving their goals and enjoying their lives. I also help clients to navigate the emotionally painful and challenging experiences that life brings to us all, to process past traumas and to explore relationship issues.
01322 949191 View 01322 949191

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.