Counselling in Harlesden, London
I am a qualified psychodynamic counsellor and psychotherapist (MSc), registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP), with a First-Class Honours degree in Psychological Counselling.
Clinical experience:
Supporting clients facing a wide range of psychological and emotional challenges, including anxiety, depression, eating disorders, addictions, suicidal ideation, borderline personality disorders, and the effects of domestic and sexual abuse.
Providing therapy to clients from diverse cultural and racial backgrounds, many of whom have experienced racism, cultural stigma, or marginalisation.
I am a qualified psychodynamic counsellor and psychotherapist (MSc), registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP), with a First-Class Honours degree in Psychological Counselling.
Clinical experience:
Supporting clients facing a wide range of psychological and emotional challenges, including anxiety, depression, eating disorders, addictions, suicidal ideation, borderline personality disorders, and the effects of domestic and sexual abuse.
Providing therapy to clients from diverse cultural and racial backgrounds, many of whom have experienced racism, cultural stigma, or marginalisation.
Hello there and welcome to my profile. Clients are always welcome to bring any issue to therapy, no matter how big or small they may feel it is and would like support with their issue. They have a desire for change. They've come to therapy because they would like to explore, understand themselves better, their issue and the emotions surrounding it. To process what is or has happened. To make a real lasting impact. I offer a competitive rate because I truly believe that therapy should be as accessible as possible.
Hello there and welcome to my profile. Clients are always welcome to bring any issue to therapy, no matter how big or small they may feel it is and would like support with their issue. They have a desire for change. They've come to therapy because they would like to explore, understand themselves better, their issue and the emotions surrounding it. To process what is or has happened. To make a real lasting impact. I offer a competitive rate because I truly believe that therapy should be as accessible as possible.
Do you feel that you can't talk to anyone? Do you feel that your feelings don't matter to those around you? Do you feel that you are tired of pretending you are strong and don't need help? I would love to help you talk about your feelings, get in touch with who you are and what you need from others in your life. I can help you build your inner resilience and learn to be compassionate to yourself. I can help you with your low moods, your anxiety, stress and to have more positive relationships with others.
Do you feel that you can't talk to anyone? Do you feel that your feelings don't matter to those around you? Do you feel that you are tired of pretending you are strong and don't need help? I would love to help you talk about your feelings, get in touch with who you are and what you need from others in your life. I can help you build your inner resilience and learn to be compassionate to yourself. I can help you with your low moods, your anxiety, stress and to have more positive relationships with others.
I offer a safe, confidential and collaborative space in which to explore whatever it is you wish to bring to therapy. The foundation of my work is being able to provide genuine empathy and unconditional positive regard, I consider this a vital and powerful base for the therapeutic relationship. I have an understanding of, and experience in working with anxiety, depression, trauma, life crises, relationships, transitions, parenting challenges, low self esteem, addictions, high-stress workplace issues, work life balance, abuse, family dynamics, ADHD, obsessions, intergenerational trauma. I welcome all aspects of you without judgement.
I offer a safe, confidential and collaborative space in which to explore whatever it is you wish to bring to therapy. The foundation of my work is being able to provide genuine empathy and unconditional positive regard, I consider this a vital and powerful base for the therapeutic relationship. I have an understanding of, and experience in working with anxiety, depression, trauma, life crises, relationships, transitions, parenting challenges, low self esteem, addictions, high-stress workplace issues, work life balance, abuse, family dynamics, ADHD, obsessions, intergenerational trauma. I welcome all aspects of you without judgement.
Many of the people I work with appear capable and self-aware, yet feel emotionally exhausted from constantly adapting to others.
They struggle with anxiety, overthinking, people-pleasing, guilt, and difficulty setting boundaries — often despite having tried therapy or self-help approaches before.
My work focuses on helping clients understand why these patterns exist, not just how to manage them.
Many of the people I work with appear capable and self-aware, yet feel emotionally exhausted from constantly adapting to others.
They struggle with anxiety, overthinking, people-pleasing, guilt, and difficulty setting boundaries — often despite having tried therapy or self-help approaches before.
My work focuses on helping clients understand why these patterns exist, not just how to manage them.
The therapeutic relationship is the cornerstone of any work that we do. In this relationship you are given the space to speak freely. Through careful listening, creativity and challenge, you get to know yourself better. This includes understanding how you have become the person you are, as well as finding more clarity about where you want to go. The therapeutic journey allows you to see what patterns and unconscious beliefs you may feel confined by. This may relate to specific issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, low self-esteem or addictions, or it could be a general feeling of being stuck.
The therapeutic relationship is the cornerstone of any work that we do. In this relationship you are given the space to speak freely. Through careful listening, creativity and challenge, you get to know yourself better. This includes understanding how you have become the person you are, as well as finding more clarity about where you want to go. The therapeutic journey allows you to see what patterns and unconscious beliefs you may feel confined by. This may relate to specific issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, low self-esteem or addictions, or it could be a general feeling of being stuck.
My ideal client will be hungry to look at and into themselves in the face of whatever brings them to therapy, and will want to work through their challenges to identify ways of moving forward. Perhaps you feel adrift in a current relationship, or following a break-up; you may be grieving a loved one; you may feel that you lack purpose. Whatever it is, I believe that knowing ourselves better can help us find alternative ways of thinking and feeling, and can help us avoid falling into the same old patterns of behaviour. That you are here looking for a therapist means that you want something to change, a hugely important first step.
My ideal client will be hungry to look at and into themselves in the face of whatever brings them to therapy, and will want to work through their challenges to identify ways of moving forward. Perhaps you feel adrift in a current relationship, or following a break-up; you may be grieving a loved one; you may feel that you lack purpose. Whatever it is, I believe that knowing ourselves better can help us find alternative ways of thinking and feeling, and can help us avoid falling into the same old patterns of behaviour. That you are here looking for a therapist means that you want something to change, a hugely important first step.
You might be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck in patterns you don’t fully understand. Maybe you’ve experienced a loss that’s changed you, or relationships that have left you questioning yourself. You might be overthinking, struggling with panic, or trying to hold everything together on the outside while it feels messy underneath.
I work with adults, young people, and couples navigating anxiety, bereavement, menopause, and relationship challenges. This includes experiences like panic attacks, low mood, OCD, ADHD, ASD, self-esteem struggles, and the lasting impact of childhood loss, divorce, or relational trauma.
You might be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck in patterns you don’t fully understand. Maybe you’ve experienced a loss that’s changed you, or relationships that have left you questioning yourself. You might be overthinking, struggling with panic, or trying to hold everything together on the outside while it feels messy underneath.
I work with adults, young people, and couples navigating anxiety, bereavement, menopause, and relationship challenges. This includes experiences like panic attacks, low mood, OCD, ADHD, ASD, self-esteem struggles, and the lasting impact of childhood loss, divorce, or relational trauma.
Hi, I’m Lucy, a qualified psychodynamic counsellor offering a warm, confidential and non-judgemental space for you to explore your experiences at your own pace.
You may be struggling with anxiety, depression, relationships, low self-worth or are feeling stuck- therapy offers an opportunity to pause, reflect, and explore these thoughts, feelings and experiences. Whether you’re coming with a specific concern or simply a sense that something isn’t quite right, you are welcome.
Through our work together I hope to offer new perspectives, help build resilience, increase curiosity and make lasting change possible.
Hi, I’m Lucy, a qualified psychodynamic counsellor offering a warm, confidential and non-judgemental space for you to explore your experiences at your own pace.
You may be struggling with anxiety, depression, relationships, low self-worth or are feeling stuck- therapy offers an opportunity to pause, reflect, and explore these thoughts, feelings and experiences. Whether you’re coming with a specific concern or simply a sense that something isn’t quite right, you are welcome.
Through our work together I hope to offer new perspectives, help build resilience, increase curiosity and make lasting change possible.
You moved to London thinking the hard part was behind you. But you're further from home than you expected — not just geographically. Maybe it's the loneliness no one warned you about, or the relationship strain you didn't see coming, or the anxiety that seems louder here than it ever was back home.
As a fellow American living and working in London, I understand the particular ache of building a life abroad — and the complexity of doing inner work from the middle of it.
I offer online therapy for American expats in the UK and Europe, and for those navigating anxiety, trauma, codependency, and life transitions — wherever they are.
You moved to London thinking the hard part was behind you. But you're further from home than you expected — not just geographically. Maybe it's the loneliness no one warned you about, or the relationship strain you didn't see coming, or the anxiety that seems louder here than it ever was back home.
As a fellow American living and working in London, I understand the particular ache of building a life abroad — and the complexity of doing inner work from the middle of it.
I offer online therapy for American expats in the UK and Europe, and for those navigating anxiety, trauma, codependency, and life transitions — wherever they are.
My approach is collaborative, open, and compassionate. I enjoy working with both adults and young people to explore a wide range of issues and support meaningful, positive change. As a Clinical Psychologist, I focus on developing a shared understanding of the challenges people face and identifying the areas of life they wish to improve. From there, I draw on a range of evidence-based strategies to deepen insight and help individuals move toward their goals.
My approach is collaborative, open, and compassionate. I enjoy working with both adults and young people to explore a wide range of issues and support meaningful, positive change. As a Clinical Psychologist, I focus on developing a shared understanding of the challenges people face and identifying the areas of life they wish to improve. From there, I draw on a range of evidence-based strategies to deepen insight and help individuals move toward their goals.
Hi there! I'm thrilled to introduce my private practice, specialising in evidence-based, cognitive behavioural approaches. Are you hoping to learn effective strategies to improve your mood, reframe negative thoughts, or reduce the impact anxiety has on your daily experience? Perhaps I can help. I have spent the last eight years delivering therapeutic interventions across mental health settings within the NHS, enabling those I work with to overcome a variety of mental health challenges.
Hi there! I'm thrilled to introduce my private practice, specialising in evidence-based, cognitive behavioural approaches. Are you hoping to learn effective strategies to improve your mood, reframe negative thoughts, or reduce the impact anxiety has on your daily experience? Perhaps I can help. I have spent the last eight years delivering therapeutic interventions across mental health settings within the NHS, enabling those I work with to overcome a variety of mental health challenges.
I am still accepting new clients for a fee £65 per session, couples for £79 per session and I am offering phone and video sessions via Zoom, Google Meet, Skype, Facebook, WhatsApp. At the moment I am helping lots of clients with anxiety as well as self-esteem issues as that is something that lots of clients struggle with, however, the spectrum of the problems I work with is much broader.
I am still accepting new clients for a fee £65 per session, couples for £79 per session and I am offering phone and video sessions via Zoom, Google Meet, Skype, Facebook, WhatsApp. At the moment I am helping lots of clients with anxiety as well as self-esteem issues as that is something that lots of clients struggle with, however, the spectrum of the problems I work with is much broader.
Welcome! I’m Ruqaiyyah, an Integrative Psychotherapist specialising in work with Young Adults (18-30), Adolescents (11-18), Children (4-11), and Parents. My approach considers the whole person, taking into account their upbringing, culture, faith, and unique experiences, recognising how these combined shape us. I use a developmentally appropriate stance, tailoring therapy to fit each client’s age and authenticity. Through genuine connection, I aim to support clients in healing, strengthening self-esteem, and developing resilient coping skills to navigate life’s challenges with greater ease and confidence.
Welcome! I’m Ruqaiyyah, an Integrative Psychotherapist specialising in work with Young Adults (18-30), Adolescents (11-18), Children (4-11), and Parents. My approach considers the whole person, taking into account their upbringing, culture, faith, and unique experiences, recognising how these combined shape us. I use a developmentally appropriate stance, tailoring therapy to fit each client’s age and authenticity. Through genuine connection, I aim to support clients in healing, strengthening self-esteem, and developing resilient coping skills to navigate life’s challenges with greater ease and confidence.
Hello. You may be feeling overwhelmed, lost, or stuck in your life. Or perhaps you are wondering if you might be neurodivergent, or have a recent or not-so-recent diagnosis and need a space to safely explore what this means for you.
I believe in the value of reconnecting to yourself and someone else: having the time and someone supportive to talk things through with could help you find self-compassion, perspective, and develop your self-acceptance and confidence.
I am neurodivergent-affirming and can work with Autistic, ADHD and AuDHD clients. I can take into account sensory needs, affirming concepts, and your own experience.
Hello. You may be feeling overwhelmed, lost, or stuck in your life. Or perhaps you are wondering if you might be neurodivergent, or have a recent or not-so-recent diagnosis and need a space to safely explore what this means for you.
I believe in the value of reconnecting to yourself and someone else: having the time and someone supportive to talk things through with could help you find self-compassion, perspective, and develop your self-acceptance and confidence.
I am neurodivergent-affirming and can work with Autistic, ADHD and AuDHD clients. I can take into account sensory needs, affirming concepts, and your own experience.
I help people who feel stuck, overwhelmed or frustrated by patterns in their lives that they want to understand and change. They may be struggling with addiction, anxiety, trauma, relationships, low self-esteem or difficult life transitions. Often, they have spent years coping and supporting others, but have reached a point where they want to better understand themselves and move forward.
Together, we explore how past experiences, beliefs and relationships may be influencing the present. This awareness can help unlock unhelpful patterns and create space for healthier choices, greater confidence and more fulfilling relationships.
I help people who feel stuck, overwhelmed or frustrated by patterns in their lives that they want to understand and change. They may be struggling with addiction, anxiety, trauma, relationships, low self-esteem or difficult life transitions. Often, they have spent years coping and supporting others, but have reached a point where they want to better understand themselves and move forward.
Together, we explore how past experiences, beliefs and relationships may be influencing the present. This awareness can help unlock unhelpful patterns and create space for healthier choices, greater confidence and more fulfilling relationships.
BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural & EMDR Therapist & clinical supervisor with over a decade of experience in both the NHS and the private sector. We are also trained in Motivational Interviewing, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Compassion Focussed Therapy (CFT) and incorporate these strategies in our clinical practice. We offer psychotherapy in person and remotely, so you can get the support you need through the comfort of your own home as well as face to face.
BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural & EMDR Therapist & clinical supervisor with over a decade of experience in both the NHS and the private sector. We are also trained in Motivational Interviewing, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Compassion Focussed Therapy (CFT) and incorporate these strategies in our clinical practice. We offer psychotherapy in person and remotely, so you can get the support you need through the comfort of your own home as well as face to face.
In therapy I work with people to look at, understand and transform the disempowering beliefs they hold about life and themselves. People often find themselves stuck, lose meaning in their life, struggle with relationships, misplace a sense of who they are. I also offer a safe environment for people to look at their anger, including parental anger. I believe each one of us has got a collection of fears, anxieties and vulnerabilities collected since birth. No doubt we deploy any possible resource to defend against or ignore them. I find that psychotherapy's goal is showing a path to a lighter, more peaceful and vital way of being.
In therapy I work with people to look at, understand and transform the disempowering beliefs they hold about life and themselves. People often find themselves stuck, lose meaning in their life, struggle with relationships, misplace a sense of who they are. I also offer a safe environment for people to look at their anger, including parental anger. I believe each one of us has got a collection of fears, anxieties and vulnerabilities collected since birth. No doubt we deploy any possible resource to defend against or ignore them. I find that psychotherapy's goal is showing a path to a lighter, more peaceful and vital way of being.
I help people from all "pains" of life.
You might want to stop a pattern of behaviour that holds you back. Not just stops it, but find out when and why did it begin in the first place.
Or perhaps you want to process a loss of any kind, being from bereavement to relationship ending and job change.
You might also feel stuck in life and fell negative about your future and want to find a way out and hope. As well as want to find out why your brain thinks the way it does.
Perhaps depression and anxiety have taken over your life, and now you see yourself on a survival mode instead of living and thriving mode.
Lets chat.
I help people from all "pains" of life.
You might want to stop a pattern of behaviour that holds you back. Not just stops it, but find out when and why did it begin in the first place.
Or perhaps you want to process a loss of any kind, being from bereavement to relationship ending and job change.
You might also feel stuck in life and fell negative about your future and want to find a way out and hope. As well as want to find out why your brain thinks the way it does.
Perhaps depression and anxiety have taken over your life, and now you see yourself on a survival mode instead of living and thriving mode.
Lets chat.
My clients are questioning their life choices. From the outside things may look fine, yet internally there is a sense of strain, disconnection or uncertainty about what comes next. They may be facing burnout, the impact of past experiences, or a significant transition, and recognise they need space to reflect rather than keep pushing through.
I offer a calm, confidential and contained space to slow things down and make sense of what is happening. Together, we explore patterns, deepen understanding and support a way forward that feels more aligned, sustainable and fully your own.
My clients are questioning their life choices. From the outside things may look fine, yet internally there is a sense of strain, disconnection or uncertainty about what comes next. They may be facing burnout, the impact of past experiences, or a significant transition, and recognise they need space to reflect rather than keep pushing through.
I offer a calm, confidential and contained space to slow things down and make sense of what is happening. Together, we explore patterns, deepen understanding and support a way forward that feels more aligned, sustainable and fully your own.
Nearby Searches for Harlesden, London
- Brondesbury
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- Ladbroke Grove
- Neasden
- Notting Hill
- Queen's Park
- Shepherd's Bush
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Harlesden, London
50+
Average cost per session
£75
Counsellors in Harlesden, London who prioritize treating:
| 89% | Self Esteem |
| 88% | Depression |
| 88% | Anxiety |
| 86% | Relationship Issues |
| 86% | Stress |
| 68% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 68% | Complex PTSD |
Average years in practice
12 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 62% | Bupa |
| 62% | AXA PPP |
| 62% | WPA |
How Counsellors in Harlesden, London see their clients
| 68% | In Person and Online | |
| 32% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 80% | Female | |
| 20% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Harlesden?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
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Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.