Infidelity Counselling in Finchley, London

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Lina Helena Milner
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
Relational problems that we can work on are: conflict and re-current arguments, loss of trust, affairs, dealing with the end of the relationship, adapting to change (immigration, buying property, having children); sexual difficulties: loss of desire, sexual pain, problems with erection/ejaculation, difficulty in reaching orgasm, unconsummated marriage.
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals. Every relationship has a challenge, but if you feel that the problem has persisted for too long and caused a lot of distress for you, do contact me and we can have a conversation about the type of counselling that will suit your needs. I also work with individuals who and trying get over break up or have difficulties in forming or ending relationships. I offer an empathetic, safe, and professional environment within which we can work together to facilitate the potential for change in the relationship and work towards sexual health, happiness and well-being.
Relational problems that we can work on are: conflict and re-current arguments, loss of trust, affairs, dealing with the end of the relationship, adapting to change (immigration, buying property, having children); sexual difficulties: loss of desire, sexual pain, problems with erection/ejaculation, difficulty in reaching orgasm, unconsummated marriage.
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals. Every relationship has a challenge, but if you feel that the problem has persisted for too long and caused a lot of distress for you, do contact me and we can have a conversation about the type of counselling that will suit your needs. I also work with individuals who and trying get over break up or have difficulties in forming or ending relationships. I offer an empathetic, safe, and professional environment within which we can work together to facilitate the potential for change in the relationship and work towards sexual health, happiness and well-being.
07723 456237 View 07723 456237
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angelathwaitescounsellingcom
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
If you are struggling to cope, feeling anxious, depressed or insecure, then consider counselling with me. I can help you make sense of your feelings and gain a better understanding of yourself, resulting in a positive change in your life. Therapy with me gives you the opportunity to gain insight into why you feel the way you do and how you relate to other people. You are invited to think with me in a confidential environment about yourself and your feelings, whilst considering how these feelings may be linked to some of your earlier life experiences and what emotional impact they may have had on your current life.
If you are struggling to cope, feeling anxious, depressed or insecure, then consider counselling with me. I can help you make sense of your feelings and gain a better understanding of yourself, resulting in a positive change in your life. Therapy with me gives you the opportunity to gain insight into why you feel the way you do and how you relate to other people. You are invited to think with me in a confidential environment about yourself and your feelings, whilst considering how these feelings may be linked to some of your earlier life experiences and what emotional impact they may have had on your current life.
020 3962 2459 View 020 3962 2459
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Debra Drukarz
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Finchley, London N3
Life can sometimes seem overwhelming, presenting challenges resulting in us feeling isolated and alone, trying to handle difficult thoughts and feelings. I offer the opportunity to be professionally supported, in a safe non-judgemental space, in which we together can think, make sense of your feelings and gain better understanding. This therapeutic relationship, one where you are really listened to and heard, will provide you with support and relief. Help you develop greater self-awareness, improving your coping strategies and gaining a sense of calm and wellbeing, resulting in lasting positive change.
Life can sometimes seem overwhelming, presenting challenges resulting in us feeling isolated and alone, trying to handle difficult thoughts and feelings. I offer the opportunity to be professionally supported, in a safe non-judgemental space, in which we together can think, make sense of your feelings and gain better understanding. This therapeutic relationship, one where you are really listened to and heard, will provide you with support and relief. Help you develop greater self-awareness, improving your coping strategies and gaining a sense of calm and wellbeing, resulting in lasting positive change.
020 3856 3970 View 020 3856 3970
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Marva Sherman
Psychotherapist, SNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3  (Online Only)
I support clients who experience racial trauma, and microaggressions issues with identity. You may experience issues with identity, depression anxiety, or anger. Loss of motivation and loss of purpose. You may experience difficulties with your relationships with family members, lovers, or friends. I have over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist and I enjoy working with clients to improve their lives and relationships.
I support clients who experience racial trauma, and microaggressions issues with identity. You may experience issues with identity, depression anxiety, or anger. Loss of motivation and loss of purpose. You may experience difficulties with your relationships with family members, lovers, or friends. I have over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist and I enjoy working with clients to improve their lives and relationships.
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Kim Spicer
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
There can be times in our lives when we experience distressing events or feelings which seem overwhelming. This can be due to a particular circumstance such as difficulties in our current relationships, work related stress, illness, bereavement, or dealing with painful memories from our childhood. Sometimes we have no idea what is making us feel the way we do. All we know is that life has become distressing, or even intolerable. It could be at these times a talking therapy may be a helpful option.
There can be times in our lives when we experience distressing events or feelings which seem overwhelming. This can be due to a particular circumstance such as difficulties in our current relationships, work related stress, illness, bereavement, or dealing with painful memories from our childhood. Sometimes we have no idea what is making us feel the way we do. All we know is that life has become distressing, or even intolerable. It could be at these times a talking therapy may be a helpful option.
020 3828 7304 View 020 3828 7304
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Nazee Akbari
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
With over 23 years of experience in the mental health field,I am a highly qualified bilingual psychotherapist at the Doctorate level.Throughout my career, I have assisted numerous individuals,couples, and families. I offer therapy in both English and Farsi and hold certification as a clinical supervisor. My therapeutic approach is integrative, customised to suit the individual needs of each client, encompassing various methodologies such as Humanistic,Psychoanalytic,and Cognitive Behavioral therapies.Furthermore,I am a visiting supervisor at Anglia Ruskin University,and I also serve as a guest speaker on BBC Persian & Manoto TV.
With over 23 years of experience in the mental health field,I am a highly qualified bilingual psychotherapist at the Doctorate level.Throughout my career, I have assisted numerous individuals,couples, and families. I offer therapy in both English and Farsi and hold certification as a clinical supervisor. My therapeutic approach is integrative, customised to suit the individual needs of each client, encompassing various methodologies such as Humanistic,Psychoanalytic,and Cognitive Behavioral therapies.Furthermore,I am a visiting supervisor at Anglia Ruskin University,and I also serve as a guest speaker on BBC Persian & Manoto TV.
020 4538 7865 View 020 4538 7865
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Erin Vignali
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Finchley, London N3
Hi! I'm Erin. Thanks so much for taking the time to read my profile. I always wanted to be a psychologist since I was 12 years old. I even remember the exact spot I was standing when I told my friend that I wasn't sure I would do it because the amount of education required took too long! My hesitation did not last long after I took International Baccalaureate level Psychology in High School and fell in love. Then there was no turning back and after a BA in Psychology, an MSc in Child Development, I completed my doctoral degree and became a psychologist.
Hi! I'm Erin. Thanks so much for taking the time to read my profile. I always wanted to be a psychologist since I was 12 years old. I even remember the exact spot I was standing when I told my friend that I wasn't sure I would do it because the amount of education required took too long! My hesitation did not last long after I took International Baccalaureate level Psychology in High School and fell in love. Then there was no turning back and after a BA in Psychology, an MSc in Child Development, I completed my doctoral degree and became a psychologist.
020 4539 4510 View 020 4539 4510
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Lital Serby Bejerano
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
I am an integrative counsellor/psychotherapist specialise in counselling children, adolescent and parents. I help children of all ages cope with their emotional distress through the use of play, art, creative therapy, mindfulness and CBT therapeutic techniques. I also offer guidance to parents and provide them with the necessary knowledge and tools needed to improve their relationship with their children and deal with their possible changes. My aim is to provide a sensitive and confidential space for you to be open and explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours so you can develop a better understanding of yourself and others.
I am an integrative counsellor/psychotherapist specialise in counselling children, adolescent and parents. I help children of all ages cope with their emotional distress through the use of play, art, creative therapy, mindfulness and CBT therapeutic techniques. I also offer guidance to parents and provide them with the necessary knowledge and tools needed to improve their relationship with their children and deal with their possible changes. My aim is to provide a sensitive and confidential space for you to be open and explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours so you can develop a better understanding of yourself and others.
020 4538 5292 View 020 4538 5292
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Angela Bridge
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
Waitlist for new clients
I provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore your unconscious thoughts, emotions, and past experiences. I aim to help you uncover and understand the underlying causes of your difficulties for greater self-awareness and well-being. Through psychodynamic therapy, you will better understand yourself, your relationships, and the unconscious factors influencing your thoughts and behaviours.
I provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore your unconscious thoughts, emotions, and past experiences. I aim to help you uncover and understand the underlying causes of your difficulties for greater self-awareness and well-being. Through psychodynamic therapy, you will better understand yourself, your relationships, and the unconscious factors influencing your thoughts and behaviours.
020 3696 9719 View 020 3696 9719
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Monica Newton
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
It is easy to find a counsellor but perhaps more difficult to know if you have found the right one for you? Will you feel safe and comfortable? Life events and experiences can be distressing, feel overwhelming and sharing these problems can feel daunting and anxiety provoking. I am an accredited, experienced psychodynamically trained psychotherapist/counsellor with some additional CBT training, that could offer you a confidential and non judgemental setting where we can work through any personal or relationship issues. You may be considering a short term focused therapy or some longer term psychoanalytic therapy?
It is easy to find a counsellor but perhaps more difficult to know if you have found the right one for you? Will you feel safe and comfortable? Life events and experiences can be distressing, feel overwhelming and sharing these problems can feel daunting and anxiety provoking. I am an accredited, experienced psychodynamically trained psychotherapist/counsellor with some additional CBT training, that could offer you a confidential and non judgemental setting where we can work through any personal or relationship issues. You may be considering a short term focused therapy or some longer term psychoanalytic therapy?
020 4538 9487 View 020 4538 9487
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Bea Salter
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Finchley, London N3
Clients know me for my warmth, natural optimism and deep understanding, which they say, comes from the wealth of knowledge and life experience. I aim to connect in a real and authentic way, which puts both of us at ease and allows us to feel safe enough to discuss issues you wanted to talk about for a long time, but never felt you were able to. That includes relationship problems, anger issues, depression, lack of confidence, abuse, depression, bereavement, anxiety, addiction and personality disorders. Working together might help you to draw on your own internal resources, bringing clarity and creating options in your life.
Clients know me for my warmth, natural optimism and deep understanding, which they say, comes from the wealth of knowledge and life experience. I aim to connect in a real and authentic way, which puts both of us at ease and allows us to feel safe enough to discuss issues you wanted to talk about for a long time, but never felt you were able to. That includes relationship problems, anger issues, depression, lack of confidence, abuse, depression, bereavement, anxiety, addiction and personality disorders. Working together might help you to draw on your own internal resources, bringing clarity and creating options in your life.
07588 704642 View 07588 704642
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Natalia Lockett
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
If you wish to bring clarity to your situation, to change your perspectives and feelings about yourself and your life, to combat your difficulties and to create positive changes for yourself, perhaps the therapy with me could be a first step in the right direction. I provide a professional and confidential space where you can feel welcomed; where your thoughts and feelings can be talked about without a fear of being judged or criticised; where we can explore the reasons that brought you to therapy, your present difficulties and influences from the past; where you can achieve greater insights and understanding of yourself.
If you wish to bring clarity to your situation, to change your perspectives and feelings about yourself and your life, to combat your difficulties and to create positive changes for yourself, perhaps the therapy with me could be a first step in the right direction. I provide a professional and confidential space where you can feel welcomed; where your thoughts and feelings can be talked about without a fear of being judged or criticised; where we can explore the reasons that brought you to therapy, your present difficulties and influences from the past; where you can achieve greater insights and understanding of yourself.
020 4538 7453 View 020 4538 7453
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Rebecca Turner
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
My clients come from a diverse range of backgrounds. Every person is an individual and therefore my counselling work will be specific to their needs. My goal is to help clients to work through their difficulties and find solutions and strategies to deal with their problems. My role is to hold up a mirror to a person, in order for them to better understand their situation and work through this in a non-judgemental, confidential and empathetic environment.
My clients come from a diverse range of backgrounds. Every person is an individual and therefore my counselling work will be specific to their needs. My goal is to help clients to work through their difficulties and find solutions and strategies to deal with their problems. My role is to hold up a mirror to a person, in order for them to better understand their situation and work through this in a non-judgemental, confidential and empathetic environment.
020 8016 2763 View 020 8016 2763
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Danny Zane
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Finchley, London N3
During your therapy sessions, we will work collaboratively to identify your goals and develop a plan tailored to your specific needs. I use a range of therapeutic techniques and approaches, depending on my client's presenting issues and preferences. Within my Person-Centred practice, I offer a combination of different modalities including psychodynamic therapy and mindfulness-based therapy. We will work through what has brought you to therapy and any goals, changes or meaning you are wanting. Together we shall walk on your therapeutic journey.
During your therapy sessions, we will work collaboratively to identify your goals and develop a plan tailored to your specific needs. I use a range of therapeutic techniques and approaches, depending on my client's presenting issues and preferences. Within my Person-Centred practice, I offer a combination of different modalities including psychodynamic therapy and mindfulness-based therapy. We will work through what has brought you to therapy and any goals, changes or meaning you are wanting. Together we shall walk on your therapeutic journey.
020 3835 3891 View 020 3835 3891
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Phil Bergman
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
Working with me will enable you to begin to make the changes that will help you lead a more fulfilling life, understand yourself better, create better relationships and begin to examine the fears that are holding you back. Being a trained integrative therapist means that my approach to our work together will be bespoke, utilising a number of therapeutic models and techniques, to ensure that we can address your individual needs. I integrate therapeutic approaches such as the Internal Family Systems model as well as my coaching skills, which bring in problem solving and goal focused approaches, to your therapy session.
Working with me will enable you to begin to make the changes that will help you lead a more fulfilling life, understand yourself better, create better relationships and begin to examine the fears that are holding you back. Being a trained integrative therapist means that my approach to our work together will be bespoke, utilising a number of therapeutic models and techniques, to ensure that we can address your individual needs. I integrate therapeutic approaches such as the Internal Family Systems model as well as my coaching skills, which bring in problem solving and goal focused approaches, to your therapy session.
020 8059 2495 View 020 8059 2495
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Nike Siffre
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
Therapy is a space for you: to feel understood and listened to. Perhaps for the first time. And it is through this fundamental encounter that you can feel more able and alive. Our work together can support you in making a change, reflecting on painful experience, bearing a loss, finding a purpose. It can support you in these - and more - through creating new awareness, making helpful connections and finding a way forward. Therapy provides a way for you to understand, confront, resolve, heal and grow. I provide a safe, welcoming space for you to explore whatever it is that you need and want. In confidence and without judgement.
Therapy is a space for you: to feel understood and listened to. Perhaps for the first time. And it is through this fundamental encounter that you can feel more able and alive. Our work together can support you in making a change, reflecting on painful experience, bearing a loss, finding a purpose. It can support you in these - and more - through creating new awareness, making helpful connections and finding a way forward. Therapy provides a way for you to understand, confront, resolve, heal and grow. I provide a safe, welcoming space for you to explore whatever it is that you need and want. In confidence and without judgement.
020 4538 4241 View 020 4538 4241
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Thomas Brosnan
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
I am a Psychotherapist and a Behaviour Change Expert and would like you to know that your life matters to me. I specialise in Addiction and Relationships where for over 20 years now, I have worked with Individuals of all ages, couples, families and groups in schools, the Priory and the NHS. I hold a Masters in Addiction Psychology and Counselling, a Level 4 Certificate in Counselling Children, an Advanced Diploma in Couple and Relationship Therapy and a Post Graduate Diploma in Trauma.
I am a Psychotherapist and a Behaviour Change Expert and would like you to know that your life matters to me. I specialise in Addiction and Relationships where for over 20 years now, I have worked with Individuals of all ages, couples, families and groups in schools, the Priory and the NHS. I hold a Masters in Addiction Psychology and Counselling, a Level 4 Certificate in Counselling Children, an Advanced Diploma in Couple and Relationship Therapy and a Post Graduate Diploma in Trauma.
020 8059 4365 View 020 8059 4365
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Cristina Dell'Erba
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
It may feel daunting trying to find the right therapist, who really understands you, but as the ancient Chinese philosopher, Lao Tazu, said: “the journey of a thousand miles begins with one step”. Welcome. Perhaps you feel this is the right time to invest in your own wellbeing. Are you feeling stuck in your romantic relationship? Are you stuck in the same patterns? Are you struggling to be a parent? Are you feeling lonely? Disconnected from others? Are you experiencing anxiety and feeling low? I am here to work with you to explore the meaning of all this.I am an adoption trained counsellor and can offer support to those
It may feel daunting trying to find the right therapist, who really understands you, but as the ancient Chinese philosopher, Lao Tazu, said: “the journey of a thousand miles begins with one step”. Welcome. Perhaps you feel this is the right time to invest in your own wellbeing. Are you feeling stuck in your romantic relationship? Are you stuck in the same patterns? Are you struggling to be a parent? Are you feeling lonely? Disconnected from others? Are you experiencing anxiety and feeling low? I am here to work with you to explore the meaning of all this.I am an adoption trained counsellor and can offer support to those
020 3835 2569 View 020 3835 2569
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Sara Wolfin
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3
I am a qualified BACP registered counsellor and clinical supervisor with extensive experience working with people from all walks of life , ages and cultures. My work focusses on enabling people to find more confidence , joy and clarity and to help them create the life they want to live - whatever that looks like for them. We lived in a highly stressful time and it can be very easy to become anxious and depressed which without help can lead to feelings of helplessness and despair. Therapy offers a safe space to explore those difficult feelings, and often bringing those dark thoughts into the light can bring some relief.
I am a qualified BACP registered counsellor and clinical supervisor with extensive experience working with people from all walks of life , ages and cultures. My work focusses on enabling people to find more confidence , joy and clarity and to help them create the life they want to live - whatever that looks like for them. We lived in a highly stressful time and it can be very easy to become anxious and depressed which without help can lead to feelings of helplessness and despair. Therapy offers a safe space to explore those difficult feelings, and often bringing those dark thoughts into the light can bring some relief.
07588 734724 View 07588 734724
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Linda Clerkin
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Finchley, London N3  (Online Only)
I am a therapist with 24 years experience. My passion and speciality is couples therapy. I offer a free consultation to see if we are a good fit and then my charge is £80 per hour. Couples will inevitably have problems and suffer disillusionment. This is normal and not a sign that your relationship is doomed. Therapy with me will help you increase your knowledge about yourself, your partner and the patterns of interaction between you. We will explore past hurts and the emotions connected to them, to help us understand the problems you may be having today.
I am a therapist with 24 years experience. My passion and speciality is couples therapy. I offer a free consultation to see if we are a good fit and then my charge is £80 per hour. Couples will inevitably have problems and suffer disillusionment. This is normal and not a sign that your relationship is doomed. Therapy with me will help you increase your knowledge about yourself, your partner and the patterns of interaction between you. We will explore past hurts and the emotions connected to them, to help us understand the problems you may be having today.
01400 225990 View 01400 225990

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.