Divorce Counselling in London Colney

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The Trauma Recovery Space
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, affecting mental health, relationships and everyday wellbeing. But recovery is possible. At The Trauma Recovery Space, Dr Claire Arnold and Dr Emma Morris, provide high-quality, evidence-based therapy for children, young people, couples, families and adults. Our services align with NHS standards of care and are delivered by expert consultant clinical psychologists with over 20 years of experience Healing from pain. Building resilience. Moving forward with strength. We are based in London Colney, St. Albans, but also offer online services. Easily accessible and free car parking.
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, affecting mental health, relationships and everyday wellbeing. But recovery is possible. At The Trauma Recovery Space, Dr Claire Arnold and Dr Emma Morris, provide high-quality, evidence-based therapy for children, young people, couples, families and adults. Our services align with NHS standards of care and are delivered by expert consultant clinical psychologists with over 20 years of experience Healing from pain. Building resilience. Moving forward with strength. We are based in London Colney, St. Albans, but also offer online services. Easily accessible and free car parking.
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TherapywithNadia
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
I believe seeking therapy is reaching for oneself when things don’t feel right. It’s an act of self-care and compassion and never a sign of weakness. Sometimes, we may know what is causing us to feel the way we are. It may be a change in circumstances, in a relationship or relationships, loss, money worries, health issues, difficult past traumatic experiences or any other life events that shake us off our balance. These issues can make us feel sad, depressed, anxious, angry, or confused. All these feelings can be explored and made sense of in the therapy space .
I believe seeking therapy is reaching for oneself when things don’t feel right. It’s an act of self-care and compassion and never a sign of weakness. Sometimes, we may know what is causing us to feel the way we are. It may be a change in circumstances, in a relationship or relationships, loss, money worries, health issues, difficult past traumatic experiences or any other life events that shake us off our balance. These issues can make us feel sad, depressed, anxious, angry, or confused. All these feelings can be explored and made sense of in the therapy space .
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Clare Webber
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt counsellor; I am based in Eastleigh, where I see clients at my home. I believe you can only go as far as your counsellor has been. This lived experience means I don't just imagine what you have been through; I have worked through similar situations, which enriches the work we can do together. I see myself as a collective counsellor with further training in different types of counselling, including CBT, Solution-Focused, Person-Centered, TA and addiction counselling. I create a strong therapeutic relationship and use my knowledge to tailor the sessions to meet your needs.
I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt counsellor; I am based in Eastleigh, where I see clients at my home. I believe you can only go as far as your counsellor has been. This lived experience means I don't just imagine what you have been through; I have worked through similar situations, which enriches the work we can do together. I see myself as a collective counsellor with further training in different types of counselling, including CBT, Solution-Focused, Person-Centered, TA and addiction counselling. I create a strong therapeutic relationship and use my knowledge to tailor the sessions to meet your needs.
023 9431 1229 View 023 9431 1229
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Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, Arti Hughes
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
My team and I have the BEST google rated psychology practice in Hertfordshire! We have successfully helped 100’s of clients. I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural therapist and Accredited Interpersonal Practitioner. We are friendly & professional practice. We treat Depression, Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), Intrusive thoughts, Social anxiety, Panic attacks, Phobias, Excessive worry/ overwhelmed with anxiety, Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), Health anxiety, Perfectionism, Body dysmorphic disorders (BDD), Eating disorders, Phobias, Agoraphobia, Low self-confidence, & LTC’s. Call now for a free phone consultation!
My team and I have the BEST google rated psychology practice in Hertfordshire! We have successfully helped 100’s of clients. I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural therapist and Accredited Interpersonal Practitioner. We are friendly & professional practice. We treat Depression, Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), Intrusive thoughts, Social anxiety, Panic attacks, Phobias, Excessive worry/ overwhelmed with anxiety, Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), Health anxiety, Perfectionism, Body dysmorphic disorders (BDD), Eating disorders, Phobias, Agoraphobia, Low self-confidence, & LTC’s. Call now for a free phone consultation!
020 8191 8757 View 020 8191 8757
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Garance Delpech
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Maybe a little voice inside has been telling you for a while that things are not ok...the word " therapy" keeps popping up....acknowledging it takes courage and wisdom. It might be a current crisis or on-going emotional difficulties stopping you from enjoying life. Therapy is a unique experience which can be transformative, and in which you can safely access the true essence of yourself. It is a meaningful journey on many levels. Many of life's challenges which are seen as "normal "by society actually involve trauma. These wounds left unattended can lead to anxiety, low self-esteem, addictions, depression, shame, anger.
Maybe a little voice inside has been telling you for a while that things are not ok...the word " therapy" keeps popping up....acknowledging it takes courage and wisdom. It might be a current crisis or on-going emotional difficulties stopping you from enjoying life. Therapy is a unique experience which can be transformative, and in which you can safely access the true essence of yourself. It is a meaningful journey on many levels. Many of life's challenges which are seen as "normal "by society actually involve trauma. These wounds left unattended can lead to anxiety, low self-esteem, addictions, depression, shame, anger.
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Hayley Ryan
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Serves Area
If we never take a leap of faith then we never know. More significantly we remain stuck. I often talk to clients about the power of change. In my work I am for people to gain a greater understanding of who they really are. Whilst enabling them to explore their feelings, circumstances and relationships. The goal of our work together is to challenge any destructive patterns or behaviours and work towards positive active change. In the end this enables people to live a more fulfilling and calmer life.
If we never take a leap of faith then we never know. More significantly we remain stuck. I often talk to clients about the power of change. In my work I am for people to gain a greater understanding of who they really are. Whilst enabling them to explore their feelings, circumstances and relationships. The goal of our work together is to challenge any destructive patterns or behaviours and work towards positive active change. In the end this enables people to live a more fulfilling and calmer life.
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More Therapists Nearby

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Gabriel Dixon
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I have a special interest in helping people who struggle in their relationships, whether that is after a betrayal or infidelity or having trouble communicating and getting your needs met, or dealing with a dramatic life change, such as the end of a relationship or divorce.
My manner has been described as deeply empathetic and compassionate. I offer a safe, accepting non-judgemental and grounded space to help support you focus on what you need in our sessions. I have experience of working with a wide range of clients and issues and of working with long term clients as well as short time focused work.
I have a special interest in helping people who struggle in their relationships, whether that is after a betrayal or infidelity or having trouble communicating and getting your needs met, or dealing with a dramatic life change, such as the end of a relationship or divorce.
My manner has been described as deeply empathetic and compassionate. I offer a safe, accepting non-judgemental and grounded space to help support you focus on what you need in our sessions. I have experience of working with a wide range of clients and issues and of working with long term clients as well as short time focused work.
020 4538 0009 View 020 4538 0009
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Nicole Henry
Counsellor, BACP
Online Only
I help children, teens and adults feel more settled, confident and connected. With young people, I use creative and relational approaches to build emotional awareness and resilience. For adults, especially teachers and caregivers, I offer space to manage stress, burnout and identity shifts. My approach is calm, compassionate and focused on helping you (or your child) feel heard and supported. My clients are often capable people who feel overwhelmed or disconnected. For children and teens, it’s anxiety, school stress or confidence struggles. For adults, it’s burnout, boundaries and finding balance again.
I help children, teens and adults feel more settled, confident and connected. With young people, I use creative and relational approaches to build emotional awareness and resilience. For adults, especially teachers and caregivers, I offer space to manage stress, burnout and identity shifts. My approach is calm, compassionate and focused on helping you (or your child) feel heard and supported. My clients are often capable people who feel overwhelmed or disconnected. For children and teens, it’s anxiety, school stress or confidence struggles. For adults, it’s burnout, boundaries and finding balance again.
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Olga Gelfman-Gratwick
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Online Only
Where do you start with addressing your problems and how do you know how to choose the right therapist? The most important factor is the relationship with the therapist we choose. We have to feel safe and confident that we are in good hands in which we can share most private thoughts and feelings. I am a psychoanalytical psychotherapist in private practice based in Kingston, Surrey, I also work and teach psychotherapy students in the Bowlby Centre (Center for attachment based Psychoanalytical Psychotherapy ) in London. Additionally I am a member of The International Psychotherapy Group and Forum for independent psychotherapists.
Where do you start with addressing your problems and how do you know how to choose the right therapist? The most important factor is the relationship with the therapist we choose. We have to feel safe and confident that we are in good hands in which we can share most private thoughts and feelings. I am a psychoanalytical psychotherapist in private practice based in Kingston, Surrey, I also work and teach psychotherapy students in the Bowlby Centre (Center for attachment based Psychoanalytical Psychotherapy ) in London. Additionally I am a member of The International Psychotherapy Group and Forum for independent psychotherapists.
020 3893 2547 View 020 3893 2547
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Alexandra Tarr
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
London SW1W
Feeling uncertain in your relationship, stuck in repeated arguments, or navigating a major life transition? I help individuals and couples gain clarity, communicate more effectively, and make intentional decisions that strengthen connection and stability.
Feeling uncertain in your relationship, stuck in repeated arguments, or navigating a major life transition? I help individuals and couples gain clarity, communicate more effectively, and make intentional decisions that strengthen connection and stability.
020 8016 2229 View 020 8016 2229
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I offer specialised support as a psychotherapist and grief educator, focusing on the complex emotions associated with grief, loss, divorce, relationship breakdown, and bereavement.
I am a person-centred therapist, which means that I truly value and believe in your worth and potential. My main goal is to provide you with a safe and non-judgmental space where you can freely explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I firmly believe that you are the expert of your own life and have the ability to grow and make positive changes. As your therapist, I am committed to working alongside you to help you gain insight, increase self-awareness, and make empowered choices. My aim is to support you on your journey towards greater self-understanding, self-acceptance
I offer specialised support as a psychotherapist and grief educator, focusing on the complex emotions associated with grief, loss, divorce, relationship breakdown, and bereavement.
I am a person-centred therapist, which means that I truly value and believe in your worth and potential. My main goal is to provide you with a safe and non-judgmental space where you can freely explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I firmly believe that you are the expert of your own life and have the ability to grow and make positive changes. As your therapist, I am committed to working alongside you to help you gain insight, increase self-awareness, and make empowered choices. My aim is to support you on your journey towards greater self-understanding, self-acceptance
01992 927907 View 01992 927907
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Dr Caroline Douglas-Pennant
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
London SW3
My systemic training as well as Terry Neal, Ester Perel and Dr Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy informs my practice when working with couples, including co-parenting post- divorce.
I have worked in the NHS for 25 years, across a variety of settings and am currently undertaking an MA in Family Therapy. Neuro-biology and Somatic psychology are also areas that inform my practice. This includes helping individuals to understand choices around mental health medication, how the body and mind are 'one' and are both informed by the 'fight or flight' response, attachment styles and survival strategies. I use NVR (Non-Violent Resolution) to support families and young people with challenging behaviours.
My systemic training as well as Terry Neal, Ester Perel and Dr Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy informs my practice when working with couples, including co-parenting post- divorce.
I have worked in the NHS for 25 years, across a variety of settings and am currently undertaking an MA in Family Therapy. Neuro-biology and Somatic psychology are also areas that inform my practice. This includes helping individuals to understand choices around mental health medication, how the body and mind are 'one' and are both informed by the 'fight or flight' response, attachment styles and survival strategies. I use NVR (Non-Violent Resolution) to support families and young people with challenging behaviours.
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The Echelon Scene Ltd
Verified Verified
London W1W
Our Clients at The Echelon Scene are gay men who are seeking a long-term relationship. They come to us because they simply do not have the time to online date or sit in a crowded bar in Soho. They would rather outsource and have us do the filtering so they are only going out on dates they are excited about. Our Clients are typically busy individuals who are passionate about what they do and excel at work, they range in ages from 30-mid 60s and are based all over the world. The common factors are they are all genuinely seeking a monogamous long-term relationship and are in a positive state of mind for dating.
Our Clients at The Echelon Scene are gay men who are seeking a long-term relationship. They come to us because they simply do not have the time to online date or sit in a crowded bar in Soho. They would rather outsource and have us do the filtering so they are only going out on dates they are excited about. Our Clients are typically busy individuals who are passionate about what they do and excel at work, they range in ages from 30-mid 60s and are based all over the world. The common factors are they are all genuinely seeking a monogamous long-term relationship and are in a positive state of mind for dating.
01748 901494 View 01748 901494
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Jacqueline Ready
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Online Only
I'm a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with a background in research psychology. I have over 20 years working with young adults, entrepreneurs, athletes and individuals in private practice. I offer psychological therapy that responds to each person's unique needs and goals. We will meet online, remain structured but flexible in a way that suits a modern lifestyle. I work with trauma but also work with all kinds of psychological and relational issues. I'm trained in a range of evidence-based therapies, so you can expect tangible results.
I'm a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with a background in research psychology. I have over 20 years working with young adults, entrepreneurs, athletes and individuals in private practice. I offer psychological therapy that responds to each person's unique needs and goals. We will meet online, remain structured but flexible in a way that suits a modern lifestyle. I work with trauma but also work with all kinds of psychological and relational issues. I'm trained in a range of evidence-based therapies, so you can expect tangible results.
020 4634 1877 View 020 4634 1877
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Eliana Velasquez
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
London W1G
I’m Eliana, a London-based, BACP-registered psychotherapist, supporting individuals as they navigate the uncertainties, disruptions, and profound questions that life often brings. I specialise in guiding clients through major life transitions, relational challenges, fertility struggles, bereavement, parenting, the emotional impact of migration and cultural displacement, as well as mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, and neurodivergence. My work is trauma-informed, helping people explore the ways past or ongoing experiences of trauma shape their sense of self, their relationships, and their experience of the world.
I’m Eliana, a London-based, BACP-registered psychotherapist, supporting individuals as they navigate the uncertainties, disruptions, and profound questions that life often brings. I specialise in guiding clients through major life transitions, relational challenges, fertility struggles, bereavement, parenting, the emotional impact of migration and cultural displacement, as well as mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, and neurodivergence. My work is trauma-informed, helping people explore the ways past or ongoing experiences of trauma shape their sense of self, their relationships, and their experience of the world.
020 4572 2328 View 020 4572 2328
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Natalie Hepworth
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Online Only
A family unit can be strong and safe, but it’s vulnerable to disruption, whether that be stress, affairs, disconnection or divorce.
I’m a Relationship Therapist specialising in working with parents (couples, co-parents and single parents) to improve communication, manage conflict and parenting challenges; rebuild intimacy and trust, and approach parenthood as a team. Couples might be struggling with roles & responsibilities, sex & intimacy, conflict & tension, “roommate syndrome”, infidelity & betrayal, or issues stemming from their own childhood. While co-parents might focus on communication, boundaries and managing blended families. Single parents may want to work on recovering from separation, unhealthy relationship patterns, or starting to date again.
A family unit can be strong and safe, but it’s vulnerable to disruption, whether that be stress, affairs, disconnection or divorce.
I’m a Relationship Therapist specialising in working with parents (couples, co-parents and single parents) to improve communication, manage conflict and parenting challenges; rebuild intimacy and trust, and approach parenthood as a team. Couples might be struggling with roles & responsibilities, sex & intimacy, conflict & tension, “roommate syndrome”, infidelity & betrayal, or issues stemming from their own childhood. While co-parents might focus on communication, boundaries and managing blended families. Single parents may want to work on recovering from separation, unhealthy relationship patterns, or starting to date again.
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Ursula Christina Taylor
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialise in grief counselling and loss in all its forms — including bereavement, relationship breakdown, divorce, empty nest, and life or career transitions where nothing feels the same anymore.
I work with people living through loss — not only bereavement, but the quieter, often unspoken losses that come with relationship endings and life or career transitions, especially when life no longer feels like it fits. Grief doesn’t always look how people expect. Loss can be the sense that everyone else has carried on while you feel caught somewhere in between who you were, who you are now and the future you imagined. My work sits alongside you in that space, to help you make sense of what has changed and how it’s living in you now. What tends to happen over time isn’t that the loss disappears, but that it becomes more understood.
I specialise in grief counselling and loss in all its forms — including bereavement, relationship breakdown, divorce, empty nest, and life or career transitions where nothing feels the same anymore.
I work with people living through loss — not only bereavement, but the quieter, often unspoken losses that come with relationship endings and life or career transitions, especially when life no longer feels like it fits. Grief doesn’t always look how people expect. Loss can be the sense that everyone else has carried on while you feel caught somewhere in between who you were, who you are now and the future you imagined. My work sits alongside you in that space, to help you make sense of what has changed and how it’s living in you now. What tends to happen over time isn’t that the loss disappears, but that it becomes more understood.
01903 947083 View 01903 947083
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Paul Lipman
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Twenty years ago I was asking many of the same questions as the couples I have specialised in helping for the past 15 years. How did we get here? Why do the same arguments, silences and disappointments keep repeating despite wanting things to be different? My own therapy led me into this work. Today I help couples understand what is happening between them, step out of the patterns keeping them stuck and build stronger, more connected relationships. I am an experienced psychotherapist with advanced training in relationship therapy.
Twenty years ago I was asking many of the same questions as the couples I have specialised in helping for the past 15 years. How did we get here? Why do the same arguments, silences and disappointments keep repeating despite wanting things to be different? My own therapy led me into this work. Today I help couples understand what is happening between them, step out of the patterns keeping them stuck and build stronger, more connected relationships. I am an experienced psychotherapist with advanced training in relationship therapy.
01883 771597 View 01883 771597
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Genevieve De Wynter
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
London W1T
Whether navigating divorce, parenting challenges, relationship tension, or communication breakdowns, I work to ensure all voices are heard and valued.
I provide a safe, compassionate space where everyone’s voice is heard, especially the voices of children, whose needs I hold at the heart of the process. Whether you’re working through relationship issues, parenting concerns, or the complexities of separation and divorce, I am here to guide you towards healing, and stronger connections.
Whether navigating divorce, parenting challenges, relationship tension, or communication breakdowns, I work to ensure all voices are heard and valued.
I provide a safe, compassionate space where everyone’s voice is heard, especially the voices of children, whose needs I hold at the heart of the process. Whether you’re working through relationship issues, parenting concerns, or the complexities of separation and divorce, I am here to guide you towards healing, and stronger connections.
020 4538 0437 View 020 4538 0437
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Tanya Ayala Gordon
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
London N19
Integrative Psychotherapist, Highgate · Barnet · Online. If life feels overwhelming, anxious, or stuck, Maybe you’re scrolling through other people’s careers, relationships, and milestones, feeling pressure. I help to untangle the anxiety, and self‑criticism. I help you make sense of what’s going on and find a way through. Whether you’re an adult at a crossroads, a parent at capacity, or a young person whose needs don’t fit mainstream approaches. I’m curious, approachable, creative, and honest. I often use humour and sometimes a touch of colourful language!
Integrative Psychotherapist, Highgate · Barnet · Online. If life feels overwhelming, anxious, or stuck, Maybe you’re scrolling through other people’s careers, relationships, and milestones, feeling pressure. I help to untangle the anxiety, and self‑criticism. I help you make sense of what’s going on and find a way through. Whether you’re an adult at a crossroads, a parent at capacity, or a young person whose needs don’t fit mainstream approaches. I’m curious, approachable, creative, and honest. I often use humour and sometimes a touch of colourful language!
07445 391312 View 07445 391312
Divorce Counsellors
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.