Counselling in Lingfield
I work as a Complex Trauma/Childhood Abuse & Relationship Therapist, supporting individuals/couples who are "stuck", experiencing issues of high anxiety; anger; stress and distress around a life events, especially if you have a learning disability or autism. Therapy with me is about managing and reducing the impact. If it is not dealt with sooner, it can trigger hidden deeper issues related to past events related to unspeakable trauma, childhood abuse or dissociation (a sense of detachment from your former self), or even suicidal thoughts, identity issues "Who am I?" Restoring a sense of calm and balance in life stops this chaos.
I work as a Complex Trauma/Childhood Abuse & Relationship Therapist, supporting individuals/couples who are "stuck", experiencing issues of high anxiety; anger; stress and distress around a life events, especially if you have a learning disability or autism. Therapy with me is about managing and reducing the impact. If it is not dealt with sooner, it can trigger hidden deeper issues related to past events related to unspeakable trauma, childhood abuse or dissociation (a sense of detachment from your former self), or even suicidal thoughts, identity issues "Who am I?" Restoring a sense of calm and balance in life stops this chaos.
If you are suffering from depression, anxiety, OCD, chronic low self-esteem or self-consciousness, bereavement, relationship difficulties or anxiety pertaining to school, family, child rearing, retirement or work please contact me for a consultation about how to move forward. I also deal with other difficulties pertaining to neurodegeneration, neurodiversity, disordered eating, maladaptive coping patterns & addictions. If you have concerns about a loved one or child who is currently undergoing sustained periods of stress or anxiety due to work, relationships, school or transitions please contact me to discuss a potential meeting.
If you are suffering from depression, anxiety, OCD, chronic low self-esteem or self-consciousness, bereavement, relationship difficulties or anxiety pertaining to school, family, child rearing, retirement or work please contact me for a consultation about how to move forward. I also deal with other difficulties pertaining to neurodegeneration, neurodiversity, disordered eating, maladaptive coping patterns & addictions. If you have concerns about a loved one or child who is currently undergoing sustained periods of stress or anxiety due to work, relationships, school or transitions please contact me to discuss a potential meeting.
When life stresses become all consuming you can feel vulnerable, lost or frustrated. Talking it through with a trusted, non-biased counsellor is an opportunity for you to feel less overwhelmed, gain awareness of what is going on for you, move forward and gain a sense of control in your life. You may have suffered trauma or loss that you are struggling to cope with or experiencing relationship difficulties. There are a million different reasons where a counsellor can help, you don't need to feel alone in whatever you are facing.
I have mostly worked with grief/bereavement, domestic abuse and addiction.
When life stresses become all consuming you can feel vulnerable, lost or frustrated. Talking it through with a trusted, non-biased counsellor is an opportunity for you to feel less overwhelmed, gain awareness of what is going on for you, move forward and gain a sense of control in your life. You may have suffered trauma or loss that you are struggling to cope with or experiencing relationship difficulties. There are a million different reasons where a counsellor can help, you don't need to feel alone in whatever you are facing.
I have mostly worked with grief/bereavement, domestic abuse and addiction.
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So, let's talk about you. Perhaps you've experienced a painful break up from a romantic relationship and are left hurt, confused, scared even and are feeling totally lost and unsure of how to move forward. Sometimes we just don't want to let go! The anxiety of it all can be through the roof and can really leave you questioning yourself and leave you feeling small with next to no self worth, destroying confidence.
Perhaps you've experienced a painful break up from a romantic relationship and are left hurt, confused, scared even and are feeling totally lost and unsure of how to move forward.
Sometimes we just don't want to let go!
So, let's talk about you. Perhaps you've experienced a painful break up from a romantic relationship and are left hurt, confused, scared even and are feeling totally lost and unsure of how to move forward. Sometimes we just don't want to let go! The anxiety of it all can be through the roof and can really leave you questioning yourself and leave you feeling small with next to no self worth, destroying confidence.
Perhaps you've experienced a painful break up from a romantic relationship and are left hurt, confused, scared even and are feeling totally lost and unsure of how to move forward.
Sometimes we just don't want to let go!
There are times we all need some support. Perhaps you are struggling, feeling stuck or feeling that something is out of balance in your life. Perhaps you have noticed difficult patterns and experiences in your relationships that you would like to address. You may wish to have a space to make sense of your wants, values and what brings you fulfilment. I offer a confidential, non-judgmental and reflective space in which we can reflect on your experiences, difficulties and needs, whichever they may be. I am a Counselling Psychologist with significant experience in the NHS, private practice and specialist organisations.
There are times we all need some support. Perhaps you are struggling, feeling stuck or feeling that something is out of balance in your life. Perhaps you have noticed difficult patterns and experiences in your relationships that you would like to address. You may wish to have a space to make sense of your wants, values and what brings you fulfilment. I offer a confidential, non-judgmental and reflective space in which we can reflect on your experiences, difficulties and needs, whichever they may be. I am a Counselling Psychologist with significant experience in the NHS, private practice and specialist organisations.
I offer in-person, online and phone counselling in a warm, non-judgemental, and accepting atmosphere, where you can explore what’s going on, and find your way forward. At some stage in our lives we may hit a low point or crisis. Depression, anxiety, traumatic experiences, separation, bereavement, illness, self-esteem, relationship, identity, and work-related issues, or other profound life challenges can leave us feeling sad, distraught, helpless, or hopeless. Counselling offers you confidential and safe space to talk. Meet me for a free initial 30min chat before deciding. Note: I don't work with couples or children.
I offer in-person, online and phone counselling in a warm, non-judgemental, and accepting atmosphere, where you can explore what’s going on, and find your way forward. At some stage in our lives we may hit a low point or crisis. Depression, anxiety, traumatic experiences, separation, bereavement, illness, self-esteem, relationship, identity, and work-related issues, or other profound life challenges can leave us feeling sad, distraught, helpless, or hopeless. Counselling offers you confidential and safe space to talk. Meet me for a free initial 30min chat before deciding. Note: I don't work with couples or children.
People often come to me feeling lost or stuck, struggling to connect with their feelings and make lasting changes. I offer a consistent, safe, and non-judgmental space to help you explore complicated feelings and find your voice, enabling you to move on from the past and feel happier in the present. Here, you can experiment and reconnect with your innate playfulness, discovering your creative potential. Here, you can work through past trauma and bring any worries you may have about yourself, your family, your relationships, your work, and your future.
People often come to me feeling lost or stuck, struggling to connect with their feelings and make lasting changes. I offer a consistent, safe, and non-judgmental space to help you explore complicated feelings and find your voice, enabling you to move on from the past and feel happier in the present. Here, you can experiment and reconnect with your innate playfulness, discovering your creative potential. Here, you can work through past trauma and bring any worries you may have about yourself, your family, your relationships, your work, and your future.
Hello there. Do you need help with your stress (including life stress, work stress, chronic stress, and burnout)? Perhaps you are here because you want to manage your anxiety better than you currently do or, better still, nip it in the bud. Maybe you would like to address your self-esteem and confidence issues? If any of this sounds like you, and if you want to learn some effective coping strategies to help you manage these things more effectively, or if you’re simply feeling ‘stuck’ and don’t know what to do, I can help.
Hello there. Do you need help with your stress (including life stress, work stress, chronic stress, and burnout)? Perhaps you are here because you want to manage your anxiety better than you currently do or, better still, nip it in the bud. Maybe you would like to address your self-esteem and confidence issues? If any of this sounds like you, and if you want to learn some effective coping strategies to help you manage these things more effectively, or if you’re simply feeling ‘stuck’ and don’t know what to do, I can help.
I have extensive experience working privately and in the charity sector, addressing a wide range of issues such as suicidal thoughts, grief, loss, isolation, low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, identity struggles, trauma, and abuse.
As a therapist, I’m dedicated to helping clients achieve greater harmony and a deeper understanding of themselves, leading to increased self-awareness, improved self-esteem, and greater self-acceptance.
I have extensive experience working privately and in the charity sector, addressing a wide range of issues such as suicidal thoughts, grief, loss, isolation, low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, identity struggles, trauma, and abuse.
As a therapist, I’m dedicated to helping clients achieve greater harmony and a deeper understanding of themselves, leading to increased self-awareness, improved self-esteem, and greater self-acceptance.
For over 15 years, I have worked with people facing difficult moments in life - trauma, addictions, work-related difficulties, relational difficulties, academic performance, depression, anxiety, and others, as well as with people facing more complex "mental health" difficulties. My work has been developed in different contexts as private clinics, charities, the NHS and private mental health units. I aim to offer my availability, listen to my client's experience, and offer the thinking of a second mind, besides the client's mind, in a safe place where the difficult subjects can be unfolded.
For over 15 years, I have worked with people facing difficult moments in life - trauma, addictions, work-related difficulties, relational difficulties, academic performance, depression, anxiety, and others, as well as with people facing more complex "mental health" difficulties. My work has been developed in different contexts as private clinics, charities, the NHS and private mental health units. I aim to offer my availability, listen to my client's experience, and offer the thinking of a second mind, besides the client's mind, in a safe place where the difficult subjects can be unfolded.
Are you struggling right now with a particular anxiety or worry that won’t go? Together we can start to unravel issues that are concerning you. Counselling can allow space and time to explore deeper. By starting the process you can start to feel more in control and better able to cope. It can be a scary process, so if you will allow me to help, you may be able to make sense and let go. I am able to offer a safe, calm space to start the process. I work in Greenwich, close to all public transport links. It is a light, warm, welcoming space.
Are you struggling right now with a particular anxiety or worry that won’t go? Together we can start to unravel issues that are concerning you. Counselling can allow space and time to explore deeper. By starting the process you can start to feel more in control and better able to cope. It can be a scary process, so if you will allow me to help, you may be able to make sense and let go. I am able to offer a safe, calm space to start the process. I work in Greenwich, close to all public transport links. It is a light, warm, welcoming space.
I’m a senior therapist with a specialist focus on anxiety and trauma-related difficulties. With over 10 years of experience working in both the NHS and private practice, I’ve supported clients through a wide range of trauma and anxiety-based issues. If you find yourself worrying and feeling unable to cope, not good enough, unworthy or unlovable, you are not alone. If you feel stuck and overwhelmed, disconnected or unheard, you are not alone. I support clients in moving from a place of anxiety and overthinking to a place of calm and confidence, from a place of shame and self-criticism to a place of self-acceptance and kindness.
I’m a senior therapist with a specialist focus on anxiety and trauma-related difficulties. With over 10 years of experience working in both the NHS and private practice, I’ve supported clients through a wide range of trauma and anxiety-based issues. If you find yourself worrying and feeling unable to cope, not good enough, unworthy or unlovable, you are not alone. If you feel stuck and overwhelmed, disconnected or unheard, you are not alone. I support clients in moving from a place of anxiety and overthinking to a place of calm and confidence, from a place of shame and self-criticism to a place of self-acceptance and kindness.
10 years' experience. I am a Psychotherapist, Counselling Lecturer and Trainer, Supervisor, and Development Manager at a local charity. I specialise in working with teens, trauma, OCD, gender, and autism.
10 years' experience. I am a Psychotherapist, Counselling Lecturer and Trainer, Supervisor, and Development Manager at a local charity. I specialise in working with teens, trauma, OCD, gender, and autism.
Hello and welcome!
I'm Amber, and I understand that reaching out for therapy can feel like a big—and sometimes daunting—step. I want to acknowledge the courage it takes to get here, and reassure you that just by being here, you’ve already taken an important step forward.
Everyone deserves to be heard and supported. No one should have to suffer in silence, and I offer a safe, non-judgmental space where you can talk openly—especially if you feel like you’ve had no one else to turn to.
Sessions can be short term, long term, or open-ended—tailored to suit your individual needs. We'll move at a pace that feels right for you.
Hello and welcome!
I'm Amber, and I understand that reaching out for therapy can feel like a big—and sometimes daunting—step. I want to acknowledge the courage it takes to get here, and reassure you that just by being here, you’ve already taken an important step forward.
Everyone deserves to be heard and supported. No one should have to suffer in silence, and I offer a safe, non-judgmental space where you can talk openly—especially if you feel like you’ve had no one else to turn to.
Sessions can be short term, long term, or open-ended—tailored to suit your individual needs. We'll move at a pace that feels right for you.
As an experienced and empathic counsellor, I have successfully supported many clients experiencing; anxiety, depression, panic attacks, eating disorders, substance dependence, suicidal ideation and trauma, including PTSD. Clients experiencing difficulties related to low self esteem, lacking self confidence, relationship issues or the effects of physical or emotional abuse can rely on my empathy, sensitivity and professional expertise that will enable them to cope and function more effectively.
As an experienced and empathic counsellor, I have successfully supported many clients experiencing; anxiety, depression, panic attacks, eating disorders, substance dependence, suicidal ideation and trauma, including PTSD. Clients experiencing difficulties related to low self esteem, lacking self confidence, relationship issues or the effects of physical or emotional abuse can rely on my empathy, sensitivity and professional expertise that will enable them to cope and function more effectively.
Are you a parent feeling worried and helpless as your child or teenager struggles with anxiety, low self-esteem, or the overwhelming pressures of school, friendships, and growing up? Maybe you see them struggling with their identity, feeling isolated, or finding it hard to balance life between two cultures.
As an Indian therapist with a deep understanding of South Asian & British culture, I specialise in supporting children, teenagers, and young adults who face emotional struggles, anxiety and low mood. We’ll work on building healthier coping strategies, improving emotional regulation, and developing their confidence and resilience
Are you a parent feeling worried and helpless as your child or teenager struggles with anxiety, low self-esteem, or the overwhelming pressures of school, friendships, and growing up? Maybe you see them struggling with their identity, feeling isolated, or finding it hard to balance life between two cultures.
As an Indian therapist with a deep understanding of South Asian & British culture, I specialise in supporting children, teenagers, and young adults who face emotional struggles, anxiety and low mood. We’ll work on building healthier coping strategies, improving emotional regulation, and developing their confidence and resilience
I’m Dr Elaine Smith, a Clinical Psychologist offering online therapy across the UK. I work with adults, professionals, leaders and university students who want to manage stress, anxiety or burnout and find steadier ways to cope. I also support neurodivergent adults (ADHD or autism). My approach is warm, practical and evidence-based, using CBT, ACT, EMDR and Compassion-Focused Therapy to help you make sense of what’s happening, build resilience and feel more in control.
I’m Dr Elaine Smith, a Clinical Psychologist offering online therapy across the UK. I work with adults, professionals, leaders and university students who want to manage stress, anxiety or burnout and find steadier ways to cope. I also support neurodivergent adults (ADHD or autism). My approach is warm, practical and evidence-based, using CBT, ACT, EMDR and Compassion-Focused Therapy to help you make sense of what’s happening, build resilience and feel more in control.
Do you struggle with your emotions? Do you find yourself feeling moody and irritable? Maybe you are battling with high levels of anxiety that is ruining your life. Maybe you’re feeling sad and depressed robbing you of enjoyment in your life. Do you experience a range of intense emotions in a short space of time and slow to get back to “normal”? Do you end up having angry outbursts then feel full of regret afterwards? Do your relationships suffer as a result of intense emotions? Have you developed coping strategies that whilst in the moment might help but longer term are causing additional issues?
Do you struggle with your emotions? Do you find yourself feeling moody and irritable? Maybe you are battling with high levels of anxiety that is ruining your life. Maybe you’re feeling sad and depressed robbing you of enjoyment in your life. Do you experience a range of intense emotions in a short space of time and slow to get back to “normal”? Do you end up having angry outbursts then feel full of regret afterwards? Do your relationships suffer as a result of intense emotions? Have you developed coping strategies that whilst in the moment might help but longer term are causing additional issues?
I offer therapy and counselling to help people to deal with & change unhelpful, disturbing thoughts, feelings & behaviours. These can be recent or long-held problems. The good news is, it is possible to change and to live a better, more fulfilling life. I help clients with depression & low mood, anxiety & performance anxiety, stress & panic, relationship problems, anger & low self-esteem, bereavement & health/body issues & post-traumatic stress disorder & obsessive, compulsive behaviour. I work with young adults & older adults & also specialise in working with artists, performers & those working in the creative industries.
I offer therapy and counselling to help people to deal with & change unhelpful, disturbing thoughts, feelings & behaviours. These can be recent or long-held problems. The good news is, it is possible to change and to live a better, more fulfilling life. I help clients with depression & low mood, anxiety & performance anxiety, stress & panic, relationship problems, anger & low self-esteem, bereavement & health/body issues & post-traumatic stress disorder & obsessive, compulsive behaviour. I work with young adults & older adults & also specialise in working with artists, performers & those working in the creative industries.
I am very good at treating people with Anxiety, Depression, Personality Disorders, as well as those with traumatic experiences. I apply a very modern and effective type of dynamic psychotherapy called Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP). I work on repressed feelings and emotions and help you to get rid of the pain and suffer to become a mature personality. For most people, psychological stress and unresolved traumas are so overwhelming that often leads to many other problems, such as low performance, low confidence, unpleasant encounters and a gradual destruction of well-being. If left untreated, these psychological issues can be transferred from one generation to the next, due to its lasting effects on children. Modern treatments in psychotherapy can help you overcome many types of psychological problems. People suffering from these problems can be helped to regain their sense of pride, efficiency, and effectiveness. My clients need to be well motivated, and cooperative.
I am very good at treating people with Anxiety, Depression, Personality Disorders, as well as those with traumatic experiences. I apply a very modern and effective type of dynamic psychotherapy called Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP). I work on repressed feelings and emotions and help you to get rid of the pain and suffer to become a mature personality. For most people, psychological stress and unresolved traumas are so overwhelming that often leads to many other problems, such as low performance, low confidence, unpleasant encounters and a gradual destruction of well-being. If left untreated, these psychological issues can be transferred from one generation to the next, due to its lasting effects on children. Modern treatments in psychotherapy can help you overcome many types of psychological problems. People suffering from these problems can be helped to regain their sense of pride, efficiency, and effectiveness. My clients need to be well motivated, and cooperative.
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How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Lingfield
< 10
Counsellors in Lingfield who prioritize treating:
| 100% | Anxiety |
| 100% | Parenting |
| 67% | Relationship Issues |
| 67% | Depression |
| 67% | Bereavement |
| 67% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 67% | Divorce |
Average years in practice
17 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 100% | Cigna and Evernorth |
| 100% | Aviva |
| 100% | AXA PPP |
How Counsellors in Lingfield see their clients
| 100% | In Person and Online |
Gender breakdown
| 100% | Female |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Lingfield?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
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Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.