Female Counsellors in Lindfield

Charlotte O'Dair Therapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
Maybe you feel alone, lost, overwhelmed or disconnected. Maybe you want to talk about something specific: addictions, anxiety & depression, bereavements, abuse, trauma, relationship breakdown. Or, maybe you don’t know how you feel, but you just don't feel right. Whatever it is, we will explore together at your pace, either in my peaceful therapy room or online. I am a humanistic psychotherapist & I can help you to spot patterns of behaviour & to gain more self-awareness. This creates a greater sense of freedom and choice in your life, which can build stronger personal relationships, more self-compassion and lead to positive change.
Maybe you feel alone, lost, overwhelmed or disconnected. Maybe you want to talk about something specific: addictions, anxiety & depression, bereavements, abuse, trauma, relationship breakdown. Or, maybe you don’t know how you feel, but you just don't feel right. Whatever it is, we will explore together at your pace, either in my peaceful therapy room or online. I am a humanistic psychotherapist & I can help you to spot patterns of behaviour & to gain more self-awareness. This creates a greater sense of freedom and choice in your life, which can build stronger personal relationships, more self-compassion and lead to positive change.
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Penny Mackay
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
BACP Accredited counsellor working with children, young people and adults Special interest and experience working with neuro-divergence With children and young people, I offer creative therapies and am very happy to be flexible in approach Humanistic highly sensitive, empathic and intuitive counsellor Primarily relational way of working while integrating various therapeutic models
BACP Accredited counsellor working with children, young people and adults Special interest and experience working with neuro-divergence With children and young people, I offer creative therapies and am very happy to be flexible in approach Humanistic highly sensitive, empathic and intuitive counsellor Primarily relational way of working while integrating various therapeutic models
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Rachel Starkings
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
People often come to me for therapy because they feel like there's something in their life they can't fully get to the bottom of. Maybe it's your anxiety that won't go, your feeling of depression that seems cyclical, not quite feeling like you know who you are, or problems which seem to continually appear in your relationships. Whatever it is that's brought you to search for a therapist, what I can tell you is that I will work with you and support you to unpick what's actually underneath your current pain and discomfort. By better understanding yourself and your history, you can start to see recurring patterns and make changes.
People often come to me for therapy because they feel like there's something in their life they can't fully get to the bottom of. Maybe it's your anxiety that won't go, your feeling of depression that seems cyclical, not quite feeling like you know who you are, or problems which seem to continually appear in your relationships. Whatever it is that's brought you to search for a therapist, what I can tell you is that I will work with you and support you to unpick what's actually underneath your current pain and discomfort. By better understanding yourself and your history, you can start to see recurring patterns and make changes.
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Michelle Beulah Thornton
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
A warm welcome to you. Are you seeking more joy in your life, to feel more calm and connected to others? Does life seem overwhelming at times? Does anxiety seem to take over? Do you need help finding direction and hope? My mission is to draw upon your inner resources and tap into your strengths. I will help you find ways to feel better and more in charge of your life. You will be supported throughout the therapy process towards making positive change. My approach is collaborative, compassionate and non-judgmental. Reach out and begin the exciting journey. The time is now to make you a priority. Give yourself the gift of therapy.
A warm welcome to you. Are you seeking more joy in your life, to feel more calm and connected to others? Does life seem overwhelming at times? Does anxiety seem to take over? Do you need help finding direction and hope? My mission is to draw upon your inner resources and tap into your strengths. I will help you find ways to feel better and more in charge of your life. You will be supported throughout the therapy process towards making positive change. My approach is collaborative, compassionate and non-judgmental. Reach out and begin the exciting journey. The time is now to make you a priority. Give yourself the gift of therapy.
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Kate Steel
Counsellor, BACP
Serves Area
Hello there. Is someone in your personal life or work place affecting your wellbeing? How is your situation making you feel? However big or small it may seem, talking together about what is going on for you, will shift your feelings and find a new way forward together. My clients range from teenagers to the retired who come with issues including abuse, domestic abuse and violence, Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), on line dating experiences, relationship difficulties, crime, bereavement, ADHD and Autism. You may have depression, anxiety, substance misuse, self harm as a result of what you are experiencing.
Hello there. Is someone in your personal life or work place affecting your wellbeing? How is your situation making you feel? However big or small it may seem, talking together about what is going on for you, will shift your feelings and find a new way forward together. My clients range from teenagers to the retired who come with issues including abuse, domestic abuse and violence, Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), on line dating experiences, relationship difficulties, crime, bereavement, ADHD and Autism. You may have depression, anxiety, substance misuse, self harm as a result of what you are experiencing.
01444 718125 View 01444 718125
Lucy Dancer
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Hello. I imagine you are here because you have a desire for change. Perhaps you have noticed a lack of joy, or general sense of flatness. A recent life change, or set-back, may feel difficult to digest, or you just feel stuck. Modern life can feel fast and disorientating, leading us to adapt into ways of being based on survival. I aim to create a space where the deeper, subtler, sometimes dismissed parts of yourself may have time and space to be seen, heard and tended to, which invites expression again, leading to a deeper sense of clarity, self-trust and aliveness.
Hello. I imagine you are here because you have a desire for change. Perhaps you have noticed a lack of joy, or general sense of flatness. A recent life change, or set-back, may feel difficult to digest, or you just feel stuck. Modern life can feel fast and disorientating, leading us to adapt into ways of being based on survival. I aim to create a space where the deeper, subtler, sometimes dismissed parts of yourself may have time and space to be seen, heard and tended to, which invites expression again, leading to a deeper sense of clarity, self-trust and aliveness.
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Martine van den Berg
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Could counselling be the support you need at the moment to improve some of the issues you are experiencing? If you are feeling alone, overwhelmed or confused about the pandemic, parenthood, work, a bereavement or other life experiences or relationships, I can offer Face to Face, zoom or phone counselling to explore this.
Could counselling be the support you need at the moment to improve some of the issues you are experiencing? If you are feeling alone, overwhelmed or confused about the pandemic, parenthood, work, a bereavement or other life experiences or relationships, I can offer Face to Face, zoom or phone counselling to explore this.
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Remy Marckus
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a Chartered Clinical Psychologist who has been studying and working in the field for the past 22 years and I now run a private practice in Mid Sussex. With over 15 years of experience working in the NHS I have developed a keen interest in supporting people to build confidence in managing a wide range of difficulties such as Anxiety, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Depression, Health Anxiety, Low Self-Esteem, Bereavement, Trauma and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
I am a Chartered Clinical Psychologist who has been studying and working in the field for the past 22 years and I now run a private practice in Mid Sussex. With over 15 years of experience working in the NHS I have developed a keen interest in supporting people to build confidence in managing a wide range of difficulties such as Anxiety, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Depression, Health Anxiety, Low Self-Esteem, Bereavement, Trauma and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
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Desireé (Dee) McDonald
Psychotherapist, MRes, GMBPsS
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I am an experienced psychotherapist with UK qualifications in Psychology and Psychotherapy and over 20 years working in the world of relationships, sexuality and wellbeing. I help individuals, couples and other relationship groups deal with struggles, development, change and loss within their relationships and personally. Most of my clients are trying to overcome problems in relationship with themselves and/or others. I use an integrated approach to psychotherapy, leaning heavily towards Relational Life Therapy which is always underpinned by current psychological research.
I am an experienced psychotherapist with UK qualifications in Psychology and Psychotherapy and over 20 years working in the world of relationships, sexuality and wellbeing. I help individuals, couples and other relationship groups deal with struggles, development, change and loss within their relationships and personally. Most of my clients are trying to overcome problems in relationship with themselves and/or others. I use an integrated approach to psychotherapy, leaning heavily towards Relational Life Therapy which is always underpinned by current psychological research.
01825 701469 View 01825 701469
Judy Durrant
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
People seek counselling and therapy for all kinds of reasons and the outcome people seek from therapy is change. I aim to meet everyone with genuine interest and curiosity, to provide a safe, non-judgmental, and friendly space, in which you can explore the issues you need to, as I support you to do so and to move towards the changes you want to make.
People seek counselling and therapy for all kinds of reasons and the outcome people seek from therapy is change. I aim to meet everyone with genuine interest and curiosity, to provide a safe, non-judgmental, and friendly space, in which you can explore the issues you need to, as I support you to do so and to move towards the changes you want to make.
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Debra Gilbert
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
Life can feel overwhelming when you’re navigating challenges like trauma, relationship difficulties, or major life transitions. You may feel stuck, disconnected, or burdened by patterns and emotions that seem impossible to shift. I understand how daunting it can be to take the first step towards change, but you don’t have to face it alone. My role is to provide a safe, compassionate space where you can explore your experiences, process your emotions, and begin to heal.
Life can feel overwhelming when you’re navigating challenges like trauma, relationship difficulties, or major life transitions. You may feel stuck, disconnected, or burdened by patterns and emotions that seem impossible to shift. I understand how daunting it can be to take the first step towards change, but you don’t have to face it alone. My role is to provide a safe, compassionate space where you can explore your experiences, process your emotions, and begin to heal.
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Kerri Potter
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Not accepting new clients
I am a psychotherapeutic child counsellor working with children and young people aged 4–18. I offer a safe, calm space to explore anxiety, low self-esteem, emotional overwhelm, friendship struggles, identity, family changes, bereavement, school stress, early trauma, and neurodivergent experiences (Autism/ADHD). Alongside this, I offer parent support to help you make sense of your child’s behaviour, strengthen your relationship, and foster a deeper sense of emotional connection at home.
I am a psychotherapeutic child counsellor working with children and young people aged 4–18. I offer a safe, calm space to explore anxiety, low self-esteem, emotional overwhelm, friendship struggles, identity, family changes, bereavement, school stress, early trauma, and neurodivergent experiences (Autism/ADHD). Alongside this, I offer parent support to help you make sense of your child’s behaviour, strengthen your relationship, and foster a deeper sense of emotional connection at home.
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Sophie Perring
Counsellor, MBACP
Seaford BN25
I am BSc Hons, qualified Counsellor/Psychotherapist, and currently provide face-to-face, phone, and online counselling. I believe we all have the capacity to change, sometimes we need help to make that change. I have experience working with clients with substance use, helping clients to facilitate change in their lifestyle, to address & alter behaviours. Counselling provides a confidential space for people experiencing emotional discomfort and trauma related responses to historic and current abuse, neglect, relationship difficulties, anxiety, grief, depression, and other situations. I do not judge and am approachable.
I am BSc Hons, qualified Counsellor/Psychotherapist, and currently provide face-to-face, phone, and online counselling. I believe we all have the capacity to change, sometimes we need help to make that change. I have experience working with clients with substance use, helping clients to facilitate change in their lifestyle, to address & alter behaviours. Counselling provides a confidential space for people experiencing emotional discomfort and trauma related responses to historic and current abuse, neglect, relationship difficulties, anxiety, grief, depression, and other situations. I do not judge and am approachable.
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Valerie-Lee Howard
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
People often find counselling useful when they are struggling to make sense of difficult thoughts, feelings and experiences they are encountering. I offer a safe and non-judgmental space in which an individual can explore their life in their own personal way, as a means of finding deeper understanding; balance and to strengthen their resolve. Whilst being a counsellor I have experience working within the Ministry Of Justice for 19+ years delivering Therapeutic Groups for both men and women who have entered the Criminal Justice System.
People often find counselling useful when they are struggling to make sense of difficult thoughts, feelings and experiences they are encountering. I offer a safe and non-judgmental space in which an individual can explore their life in their own personal way, as a means of finding deeper understanding; balance and to strengthen their resolve. Whilst being a counsellor I have experience working within the Ministry Of Justice for 19+ years delivering Therapeutic Groups for both men and women who have entered the Criminal Justice System.
01798 305083 View 01798 305083
New Beginnings Play Therapy
Psychotherapist, PTUK Sup
Sevenoaks TN15
Hi I’m Hannah and I am a fully qualified, accredited and registered Play Therapist (PTUK). I am also a Certified Creative Supervisor, and a Filial Play coach. I have almost 20 years experience as a Play Therapist and in this time I have worked with a huge range of referral reasons including trauma in many forms, anxiety, bereavement, domestic abuse, school refusal, selective mutism, changes in family situations, and much more.
Hi I’m Hannah and I am a fully qualified, accredited and registered Play Therapist (PTUK). I am also a Certified Creative Supervisor, and a Filial Play coach. I have almost 20 years experience as a Play Therapist and in this time I have worked with a huge range of referral reasons including trauma in many forms, anxiety, bereavement, domestic abuse, school refusal, selective mutism, changes in family situations, and much more.
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Emma Townsend
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
Hello, I am a HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist (DClinPsy). With over 10 years of experience in the NHS, I have worked in a variety of settings, including adult, child and adolescent mental health services. I currently work in a specialist trauma service. I offer a collaborative approach so we can work together to understand what might be happening for you, how you would like things to be different and how we might get there!
Hello, I am a HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist (DClinPsy). With over 10 years of experience in the NHS, I have worked in a variety of settings, including adult, child and adolescent mental health services. I currently work in a specialist trauma service. I offer a collaborative approach so we can work together to understand what might be happening for you, how you would like things to be different and how we might get there!
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Dr Sekaylia Gooden
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I'm a Clinical Psychologist with experience of supporting people through grief, loss, trauma and siginificant life transitions. I also have specialist experience supporting women and birthing people following baby loss, pregnancy termination, infertility and birth trauma. I have worked in the NHS since 2017 and throughout my career have supported adults experiencing a range of emotional and psychological difficulties, particularly those navigating anxiety, low mood, stress and relational difficulties.
I'm a Clinical Psychologist with experience of supporting people through grief, loss, trauma and siginificant life transitions. I also have specialist experience supporting women and birthing people following baby loss, pregnancy termination, infertility and birth trauma. I have worked in the NHS since 2017 and throughout my career have supported adults experiencing a range of emotional and psychological difficulties, particularly those navigating anxiety, low mood, stress and relational difficulties.
020 4652 5682 View 020 4652 5682
Rosalind Ukoko-Rivers
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
I offer online, phone and face to face and walk therapy sessions, working under up to date risks assessments and client guidelines. I believe that each client is unique and an individual. This client - therapist working relationship is non discriminatory, and is the key to a positive and collaborative experience that offers insight and deeper understanding of our true needs and desires. I am proactive, flexible and adaptable according to your needs and requirements. I also work for Victim Support organisation. I am a qualified teacher with BA, MSc and PGCE qualifications, and DBS enhanced checked.
I offer online, phone and face to face and walk therapy sessions, working under up to date risks assessments and client guidelines. I believe that each client is unique and an individual. This client - therapist working relationship is non discriminatory, and is the key to a positive and collaborative experience that offers insight and deeper understanding of our true needs and desires. I am proactive, flexible and adaptable according to your needs and requirements. I also work for Victim Support organisation. I am a qualified teacher with BA, MSc and PGCE qualifications, and DBS enhanced checked.
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Laurence Baretto de Souza
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Seaford BN25
We all go through some difficulties in life. Asking for help can be difficult , finding the right support can be even more of a challenge. As an Integrative Therapist, I use different modalities to fit my clients' needs, learning curves and communications styles, personalities and states of mind. I also adapt to fit my clients' physical health, integrating body and mind work within the process of change. I believe we can all benefit from the therapeutic relationship. it can be helpful when dealing with difficulties and as a boost to reach our full potential. I can also be a place and time to optimise mental hygiene and health.
We all go through some difficulties in life. Asking for help can be difficult , finding the right support can be even more of a challenge. As an Integrative Therapist, I use different modalities to fit my clients' needs, learning curves and communications styles, personalities and states of mind. I also adapt to fit my clients' physical health, integrating body and mind work within the process of change. I believe we can all benefit from the therapeutic relationship. it can be helpful when dealing with difficulties and as a boost to reach our full potential. I can also be a place and time to optimise mental hygiene and health.
07481 337236 View 07481 337236
Rachel Ilett
Counsellor, MBACP
I understand that sometimes life can leave us finding it difficult to cope or to make sense of things at a challenging time. This can lead to feeling overwhelmed by emotions such as anger, frustration, anxiety, loneliness, or sadness. Or perhaps you are having difficulty in your day-to-day relationships either at work, with friends, partner or child? Or you may be having difficulty dealing with mental health problems. Maybe you feel stuck or unable to control your negative feelings or there may be something from the past which is bothering you and you feel you would like to explore this further to make sense of where you are now.
I understand that sometimes life can leave us finding it difficult to cope or to make sense of things at a challenging time. This can lead to feeling overwhelmed by emotions such as anger, frustration, anxiety, loneliness, or sadness. Or perhaps you are having difficulty in your day-to-day relationships either at work, with friends, partner or child? Or you may be having difficulty dealing with mental health problems. Maybe you feel stuck or unable to control your negative feelings or there may be something from the past which is bothering you and you feel you would like to explore this further to make sense of where you are now.
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FAQ - Therapist Gender
Does it matter what gender my therapist is?
In general, there is no relationship between a therapist’s gender and their efficacy. Some clients, however, prefer to see therapists of a particular gender, whether due to their own past experiences with men and women, or because they feel more comfortable with a therapist of their own gender due to shared life experiences or perspectives. Considering what one wants to address in therapy can help someone determine whether your therapist’s gender may matter or improve their therapeutic experience. The most important consideration is that a client is able to build a trusting relationship with their therapist.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

What are the advantages of seeing a female therapist?
Many people - not just women - prefer to see a female therapist. For women, this could be because they believe that they will be able to better connect with a woman, and that a female therapist will be able to relate to their specific challenges and personal issues. It may be particularly beneficial for women to see a female therapist, for example, for gender-specific issues, such as sexism in the workplace, relationship issues, and gender roles. Women who see a female therapist may also feel freer to discuss challenges that are closely tied to gender, such as life transitions including motherhood or menopause. Some clients who instinctively feel more comfortable disclosing to women may find it easier to broach sensitive subjects with a female therapist. The most important factor in therapy is the client-therapist connection, and a therapist's gender as well as many other factors may play an important role in this.

Is therapy different for men and women?
Therapy can be different for men and women insofar as gender plays a role in the challenges an individual faces and the events in life an individual has experienced. Women often face different expectations from their families, friends, and society than men do. In some cases, women might feel most comfortable expressing themselves differently from how men do. Talking about one's feelings and emotions is a critical part of most therapies, and some women might find it comes more naturally when talking to a female therapist. Ultimately, though, therapeutic treatment should be tailored to the individual's specific needs.

Do therapists get specific training to help with women’s concerns?
Therapists are trained to provide care to clients of any gender. However, some therapists may pursue additional training in feminist therapy, gender-specific issues, or women’s mental health. Female clients may wish to ask prospective therapists whether they have received specific training in the client’s primary area(s) of concern, or whether they have worked extensively with women on issues similar to their own.

How can I enquire about a therapist’s experience in treating women?
It’s OK - even encouraged! - to ask a therapist directly whether and how often they have treated women in the past, or whether they have treated women dealing with the client’s most prominent concern(s). Competent therapists will be happy to share their educational background, preferred treatment modalities, and prior client experience to help an individual find the therapist best suited to their needs.