Divorce Counselling in Letchworth Garden City
I work as a pluralistic counsellor, which means I tailor my approach to suit your unique needs and circumstances. Rather than using a one-size-fits-all method, I draw from different therapeutic approaches to find what works best for you.
I work as a pluralistic counsellor, which means I tailor my approach to suit your unique needs and circumstances. Rather than using a one-size-fits-all method, I draw from different therapeutic approaches to find what works best for you.
As far as anyone can see, you’re holding it all together, but deep down, you’re struggling to manage the emotional aftermath of losing someone or something important in your life—a relationship, a job, or a loved one. You feel worried about the future and a deep sadness that life seems to carry on as if nothing has changed. The loneliness, exhaustion, and pain of dealing with these feelings alone are overwhelming. You wish to open up about how you’re truly feeling without fear of burdening others or causing concern for those close to you. You need a safe space to process, heal, and find the strength to adjust to your new reality.
As far as anyone can see, you’re holding it all together, but deep down, you’re struggling to manage the emotional aftermath of losing someone or something important in your life—a relationship, a job, or a loved one. You feel worried about the future and a deep sadness that life seems to carry on as if nothing has changed. The loneliness, exhaustion, and pain of dealing with these feelings alone are overwhelming. You wish to open up about how you’re truly feeling without fear of burdening others or causing concern for those close to you. You need a safe space to process, heal, and find the strength to adjust to your new reality.
As a sex and relationship specialist my aim is to provide a safe environment in which clients can share their intimate thoughts and problems with no fear of judgement. I honour all sexual orientations and practices, acknowledging that difference does not equal deviance. I am a UKCP Registered and Accredited Psychotherapist, COSRT Senior Accredited Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. I also teach a two year post graduate course in Clinical Sexology.
As a sex and relationship specialist my aim is to provide a safe environment in which clients can share their intimate thoughts and problems with no fear of judgement. I honour all sexual orientations and practices, acknowledging that difference does not equal deviance. I am a UKCP Registered and Accredited Psychotherapist, COSRT Senior Accredited Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. I also teach a two year post graduate course in Clinical Sexology.
I’m a trauma informed therapist and breathwork practitioner, and bring somatic practices into my work with clients. My aim is to help you develop the connection between mind and body and through this explore patterns that may or may not be helping you to live a happy and fulfilling life. I co-founded Msense Therapy with my (fabulous) counselling friend Rukia. Between us, we bring a variety of experience, having supported bereavement, anxiety, low self-esteem, trauma and burnout. Experienced in working with neurodiversity, we both take pride in offering a safe space and flexible approach to meet your needs.
I’m a trauma informed therapist and breathwork practitioner, and bring somatic practices into my work with clients. My aim is to help you develop the connection between mind and body and through this explore patterns that may or may not be helping you to live a happy and fulfilling life. I co-founded Msense Therapy with my (fabulous) counselling friend Rukia. Between us, we bring a variety of experience, having supported bereavement, anxiety, low self-esteem, trauma and burnout. Experienced in working with neurodiversity, we both take pride in offering a safe space and flexible approach to meet your needs.
Talking to someone who really hears and understands you can be the first step of the journey towards positive change. Maybe you're feeling low and don't know why? Maybe you are trying to overcome big life events and everything has changed around you and you need some support? Perhaps you just don't know why you can't sleep, or why your tears surprise you and you want to know more? The good news is that Gestalt counselling can help.
Talking to someone who really hears and understands you can be the first step of the journey towards positive change. Maybe you're feeling low and don't know why? Maybe you are trying to overcome big life events and everything has changed around you and you need some support? Perhaps you just don't know why you can't sleep, or why your tears surprise you and you want to know more? The good news is that Gestalt counselling can help.
Why are you here? Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious or sad. You may need help to cope with a crisis or relationship issue or you may be struggling with depression, anxiety or a lack of confidence. I am a Psychotherapist and Sex & Relationship Therapist. I am an accredited member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (Accred) and a registered member of The College of Sex and Relationship Therapists (RegCOSRT). I am also neurodivergent practice informed and I work with many individuals and relationships to support people, with ADHD, AuDHD, ADD, Autism, dyslexia or who identify as neurodivergent.
Why are you here? Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious or sad. You may need help to cope with a crisis or relationship issue or you may be struggling with depression, anxiety or a lack of confidence. I am a Psychotherapist and Sex & Relationship Therapist. I am an accredited member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (Accred) and a registered member of The College of Sex and Relationship Therapists (RegCOSRT). I am also neurodivergent practice informed and I work with many individuals and relationships to support people, with ADHD, AuDHD, ADD, Autism, dyslexia or who identify as neurodivergent.
Do you feel overwhelmed by your feelings? Do they impact on your confidence and day-to-day life? Or perhaps you have experienced painful losses, abuse or traumatic events that are affecting you? Do you have patterns of behaviour that no longer feel beneficial to you? Sometimes we think and act in certain ways that function to protect and preserve us. These have felt necessary in the past, but are no longer useful and can instead impact negatively on our life.
Do you feel overwhelmed by your feelings? Do they impact on your confidence and day-to-day life? Or perhaps you have experienced painful losses, abuse or traumatic events that are affecting you? Do you have patterns of behaviour that no longer feel beneficial to you? Sometimes we think and act in certain ways that function to protect and preserve us. These have felt necessary in the past, but are no longer useful and can instead impact negatively on our life.
Perhaps you have reached a point where talking to friends or family no longer feels enough. Even if seeking therapy feels like a significant step, you may now need a space that is entirely your own, where you can pause, reflect, and speak freely. Despite managing a great deal in your daily life, you feel unsettled or quietly exhausted inside. You may feel anxious, conflicted or overwhelmed. You may have noticed that certain patterns keep repeating. You might be navigating life changes, relationship difficulties, separation, or loss. Something no longer feels sustainable, but you still struggle to put it into words.
Perhaps you have reached a point where talking to friends or family no longer feels enough. Even if seeking therapy feels like a significant step, you may now need a space that is entirely your own, where you can pause, reflect, and speak freely. Despite managing a great deal in your daily life, you feel unsettled or quietly exhausted inside. You may feel anxious, conflicted or overwhelmed. You may have noticed that certain patterns keep repeating. You might be navigating life changes, relationship difficulties, separation, or loss. Something no longer feels sustainable, but you still struggle to put it into words.
Having been in clinical practice for over 50 years, much of it within the NHS, I have experience in working with most kinds of emotional and psychological difficulties. These include trauma, relationship problems, all kinds of anxiety states, depression and low self-esteem, disorders in the sense of self, ADHD - along with the more subtle states of "feeling different" and the challenges of being a "highly sensitive person" or "indigo" being. Spirituality and working with our higher dimensional aspects are a core part of my work, along with help in identifying a person's 'soul mission' and resolving blocks to pursuing this.
Having been in clinical practice for over 50 years, much of it within the NHS, I have experience in working with most kinds of emotional and psychological difficulties. These include trauma, relationship problems, all kinds of anxiety states, depression and low self-esteem, disorders in the sense of self, ADHD - along with the more subtle states of "feeling different" and the challenges of being a "highly sensitive person" or "indigo" being. Spirituality and working with our higher dimensional aspects are a core part of my work, along with help in identifying a person's 'soul mission' and resolving blocks to pursuing this.
I am a qualified Counsellor and Psychotherapist accredited to The National Counselling Society, I offer professional help and support to individuals, including young people from 11 year and above and also couples. My aim is to keep my prices as low as possible, as I believe everyone should be able to access counselling. It is well documented in the media that mental health issues are on the increase. I appreciate that financial pressures can also have a huge impact on our lives, adding to stress and anxiety.
I am a qualified Counsellor and Psychotherapist accredited to The National Counselling Society, I offer professional help and support to individuals, including young people from 11 year and above and also couples. My aim is to keep my prices as low as possible, as I believe everyone should be able to access counselling. It is well documented in the media that mental health issues are on the increase. I appreciate that financial pressures can also have a huge impact on our lives, adding to stress and anxiety.
I specialise in anxiety, depression, relationship issues, cultural issues, work-related stress, and living with illness. We all face times when we feel confused, stuck or unsure about what to do. During these difficult or uncertain times talking to someone who listens, yet has distance from the issue, can really help. Asking for support is not a sign of weakness. It takes courage to focus on ourselves so that we can find solutions, make changes, and move forwards. I offer compassionate, non-judgmental, confidential yet proactive therapy in a safe and supportive space. I work in the evenings and weekends.
I specialise in anxiety, depression, relationship issues, cultural issues, work-related stress, and living with illness. We all face times when we feel confused, stuck or unsure about what to do. During these difficult or uncertain times talking to someone who listens, yet has distance from the issue, can really help. Asking for support is not a sign of weakness. It takes courage to focus on ourselves so that we can find solutions, make changes, and move forwards. I offer compassionate, non-judgmental, confidential yet proactive therapy in a safe and supportive space. I work in the evenings and weekends.
You are here because something in your life does not feel how you want it to or maybe how it used to. There is hope in you that you can feel differently or work out what it is you are looking for, or maybe find yourself again. Maybe you just need somewhere to talk confidentially and to feel understood. I specialise in working with trauma, trauma teaches us to hide ourselves, become invulnerable and angry, or to stay small, to avoid danger. You may find yourself asking questions such as Who am I? Why am I like this? Why am I different? Why do I not feel alive anymore? Why do I not feel joy like I once did? Can I find myself again?
You are here because something in your life does not feel how you want it to or maybe how it used to. There is hope in you that you can feel differently or work out what it is you are looking for, or maybe find yourself again. Maybe you just need somewhere to talk confidentially and to feel understood. I specialise in working with trauma, trauma teaches us to hide ourselves, become invulnerable and angry, or to stay small, to avoid danger. You may find yourself asking questions such as Who am I? Why am I like this? Why am I different? Why do I not feel alive anymore? Why do I not feel joy like I once did? Can I find myself again?
Over the last 18 years I have assisted hundred's of people with their personal challenges , challenges spanning the full spectrum of human difficulties; dealing with loss, what choices to make, stuckness in any life domain, recovering from divorce , simply being a teenager or managing the role of parent; to name but a handful.
I am committed to my clients and keep a small caseload in order to give proper attention to each individuals process. My role is that of companion, assisting you to make sense of and become more skillful in how to address your concerns; both emotionally and practically.
Over the last 18 years I have assisted hundred's of people with their personal challenges , challenges spanning the full spectrum of human difficulties; dealing with loss, what choices to make, stuckness in any life domain, recovering from divorce , simply being a teenager or managing the role of parent; to name but a handful.
I am committed to my clients and keep a small caseload in order to give proper attention to each individuals process. My role is that of companion, assisting you to make sense of and become more skillful in how to address your concerns; both emotionally and practically.
For over 35 years, I have worked with people who had personal or relationship problems. We have together worked through the issues to explore and understand the sources and reasons for their feelings and troubles. In a relaxed and supportive setting, I have helped them discover and agree the solutions that were right for them. I am here to help you find the best solution for your emotional concerns.
For over 35 years, I have worked with people who had personal or relationship problems. We have together worked through the issues to explore and understand the sources and reasons for their feelings and troubles. In a relaxed and supportive setting, I have helped them discover and agree the solutions that were right for them. I am here to help you find the best solution for your emotional concerns.
You've built something, a career, a relationship, a life, but something's off. You're irritable. Can't enjoy what you've earned. Or it's time to look at what's been holding you back, to set yourself up well for whatever's next.
You've built something, a career, a relationship, a life, but something's off. You're irritable. Can't enjoy what you've earned. Or it's time to look at what's been holding you back, to set yourself up well for whatever's next.
I’m an Accredited Integrative Therapist (MBACP) and Clinical Supervisor with 12 years experience supporting adults through a wide range of emotional, relational, and psychological challenges. My work is grounded in the belief that therapy should feel safe, steady, and genuinely supportive. I offer a calm, consistent space where you can explore what’s been overwhelming, understand yourself more deeply, and begin to move forward with clarity and confidence.
My integrative approach means I draw from several therapeutic models, adapting them to suit your needs rather than expecting you to fit a single method.
I’m an Accredited Integrative Therapist (MBACP) and Clinical Supervisor with 12 years experience supporting adults through a wide range of emotional, relational, and psychological challenges. My work is grounded in the belief that therapy should feel safe, steady, and genuinely supportive. I offer a calm, consistent space where you can explore what’s been overwhelming, understand yourself more deeply, and begin to move forward with clarity and confidence.
My integrative approach means I draw from several therapeutic models, adapting them to suit your needs rather than expecting you to fit a single method.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or struggling to cope with your current situation?
Perhaps you’re finding it hard to make time for yourself or struggling to relate to others. Whether you are a professional facing work-related pressures or a young person navigating life’s challenges, I offer a supportive space where you don’t have to face things alone.
I provide a confidential, empathic, and non-judgemental environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace. My aim is to help you feel heard, understood, and empowered as you navigate difficulties, transitions, or periods of change.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or struggling to cope with your current situation?
Perhaps you’re finding it hard to make time for yourself or struggling to relate to others. Whether you are a professional facing work-related pressures or a young person navigating life’s challenges, I offer a supportive space where you don’t have to face things alone.
I provide a confidential, empathic, and non-judgemental environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace. My aim is to help you feel heard, understood, and empowered as you navigate difficulties, transitions, or periods of change.
I am here to help with all kinds of things which may be troubling you, from your relationships with families, friends or work, to depression, anxiety and addiction or simply finding that you are going through life without as much zest or happiness as you would like or perhaps feeling that you don't belong in your own life. I am also able to see couples in need of help with their relationship or family members who have problems relating to each other.
I am here to help with all kinds of things which may be troubling you, from your relationships with families, friends or work, to depression, anxiety and addiction or simply finding that you are going through life without as much zest or happiness as you would like or perhaps feeling that you don't belong in your own life. I am also able to see couples in need of help with their relationship or family members who have problems relating to each other.
I am currently able to work face to face, via skype or phone for individuals or couples. You may be concerned about your relationships, sad about the past or just want to look forward to your future.You may want to feel that you can live a happier life. You may be fed up with finding yourself in the same situation over and over again. You may want to be able to better able to listen to yourself and others. We can look at these troubling issues together and find greater peace with them over time, in order to find yourself in a happier life.
I am currently able to work face to face, via skype or phone for individuals or couples. You may be concerned about your relationships, sad about the past or just want to look forward to your future.You may want to feel that you can live a happier life. You may be fed up with finding yourself in the same situation over and over again. You may want to be able to better able to listen to yourself and others. We can look at these troubling issues together and find greater peace with them over time, in order to find yourself in a happier life.
Finding life a little full on right now - often feeling like there's 'a lot going on' - more stressful and overwhelming than you are comfortable with? Stress and anxiety are probably starting to run high and you might be feeling down or simply "stuck". Perhaps your confidence and self esteem have taken a hit and you are struggling to see a way forward. If this resonates you do not need to experience this alone. I can help. Working with a person-centred approach, I can offer non judgmental support, empathy and understanding - helping you find your answers to moving forward with confidence and positivity.
Finding life a little full on right now - often feeling like there's 'a lot going on' - more stressful and overwhelming than you are comfortable with? Stress and anxiety are probably starting to run high and you might be feeling down or simply "stuck". Perhaps your confidence and self esteem have taken a hit and you are struggling to see a way forward. If this resonates you do not need to experience this alone. I can help. Working with a person-centred approach, I can offer non judgmental support, empathy and understanding - helping you find your answers to moving forward with confidence and positivity.
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How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.