Sexual Abuse Counselling in Leighton Buzzard

Misha Bowden-Haase
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Maybe you're exhausted from carrying something that was never yours to carry. Going over situations on a loop -what you think you should have said, done, prevented. Flinching at a tone of voice or touch. Memories that resurface and pull shame and guilt to the surface, as raw as the day it happened. Lying awake after a nightmare, heart racing, telling yourself you should be over this by now. You say yes when you mean no. You keep people at a distance to stay safe, yet ache for real connection. You tell yourself you're broken, unlovable, not good enough. You're holding it together on the outside but inside, you're still just surviving
Maybe you're exhausted from carrying something that was never yours to carry. Going over situations on a loop -what you think you should have said, done, prevented. Flinching at a tone of voice or touch. Memories that resurface and pull shame and guilt to the surface, as raw as the day it happened. Lying awake after a nightmare, heart racing, telling yourself you should be over this by now. You say yes when you mean no. You keep people at a distance to stay safe, yet ache for real connection. You tell yourself you're broken, unlovable, not good enough. You're holding it together on the outside but inside, you're still just surviving
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Jo Brown
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Online Only
I specialise in working with trauma, abuse (childhood, domestic, and sexual) and the effects of difficult or harmful experiences. I provide warm, direct therapy for people who want to understand themselves more deeply and change long-standing emotional patterns. I identify the underlying “red thread” in your experience fairly quickly—the emotional themes and relational dynamics that sit beneath what you’re going through—and help bring them into focus in a way that feels clear rather than overwhelming.
I specialise in working with trauma, abuse (childhood, domestic, and sexual) and the effects of difficult or harmful experiences. I provide warm, direct therapy for people who want to understand themselves more deeply and change long-standing emotional patterns. I identify the underlying “red thread” in your experience fairly quickly—the emotional themes and relational dynamics that sit beneath what you’re going through—and help bring them into focus in a way that feels clear rather than overwhelming.
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Tracy Harvey
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
” My clients have included survivors of childhood abuse, neglect, sexual assault and those recovering from traumatic-based experiences that have affected their current quality of life.
The therapeutic relationship is unique, different to the ones we have with friends and family. It is a space where you can explore difficult and important feelings safely, with someone who is trained to help you make sense of these issues. My approach is integrative, which means I will work alongside you in the way that suits you and your needs.
” My clients have included survivors of childhood abuse, neglect, sexual assault and those recovering from traumatic-based experiences that have affected their current quality of life.
The therapeutic relationship is unique, different to the ones we have with friends and family. It is a space where you can explore difficult and important feelings safely, with someone who is trained to help you make sense of these issues. My approach is integrative, which means I will work alongside you in the way that suits you and your needs.
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Dr Christly Palacio
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
Whether you have experienced childhood trauma including child abuse and neglect, bullying, physical or sexual assault, domestic abuse, road traffic accident, racism, emotional neglect, unmet psychological needs from parents, war, or other types of distressing events, we can make sense of your traumatic experiences in therapy.
I am a Counselling Psychologist with over 10 years of clinical experience across a variety of settings in the UK, France, India, and the Philippines. I support children (and their families), young people, and adults who have experienced trauma. In my practice, I use Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET) and EMDR as my main approaches.
Whether you have experienced childhood trauma including child abuse and neglect, bullying, physical or sexual assault, domestic abuse, road traffic accident, racism, emotional neglect, unmet psychological needs from parents, war, or other types of distressing events, we can make sense of your traumatic experiences in therapy.
I am a Counselling Psychologist with over 10 years of clinical experience across a variety of settings in the UK, France, India, and the Philippines. I support children (and their families), young people, and adults who have experienced trauma. In my practice, I use Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET) and EMDR as my main approaches.
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Dawn Woosley
Counsellor, MBACP
Hi, Over the past 14 years,myself & my practice have helped individuals and couples with issues including: trauma, bereavement, generalized anxiety, depression, low self esteem, OCD, problem drinking and drug use, personality disorder, anger management, work-related stress, as well as many couples seeking help with relationship breakdowns, difficulties and changes. We can help you through difficult experiences you are having; develop skills and self confidence; adjust to changed circumstances; think through tough decisions; understand yourself better; deal with problem thoughts, behavior or relationships; face past painful issues
Hi, Over the past 14 years,myself & my practice have helped individuals and couples with issues including: trauma, bereavement, generalized anxiety, depression, low self esteem, OCD, problem drinking and drug use, personality disorder, anger management, work-related stress, as well as many couples seeking help with relationship breakdowns, difficulties and changes. We can help you through difficult experiences you are having; develop skills and self confidence; adjust to changed circumstances; think through tough decisions; understand yourself better; deal with problem thoughts, behavior or relationships; face past painful issues
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Cheryl Cohen
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Feeling anxious, stuck, or afraid is a common response to traumatic or overwhelming experiences, especially when they don't fit neatly into our understanding of the world. Acknowledging these painful feelings and emotions can be incredibly difficult, and pushing them away to "carry on" often feels like the safest option. If you're ready to gently share what you’ve been carrying, we can explore this together at a pace that feels right for you. I welcome anyone needing a safe space to heal, and we can begin whenever you're ready.
Feeling anxious, stuck, or afraid is a common response to traumatic or overwhelming experiences, especially when they don't fit neatly into our understanding of the world. Acknowledging these painful feelings and emotions can be incredibly difficult, and pushing them away to "carry on" often feels like the safest option. If you're ready to gently share what you’ve been carrying, we can explore this together at a pace that feels right for you. I welcome anyone needing a safe space to heal, and we can begin whenever you're ready.
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Rachael Cressey
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Perhaps you feel overwhelmed by your emotions, misunderstood by others, or exhausted from constantly holding things together internally. You may struggle with anxiety, relationship difficulties, rejection sensitivity, masking, burnout, or a sense that you don’t fully belong. Perhaps words feel difficult sometimes, or you find yourself deeply feeling things that others seem able to brush aside. Therapy offers a space where you can begin to understand yourself more deeply, feel genuinely seen, and gently unfurl into greater self-acceptance and freedom.
Perhaps you feel overwhelmed by your emotions, misunderstood by others, or exhausted from constantly holding things together internally. You may struggle with anxiety, relationship difficulties, rejection sensitivity, masking, burnout, or a sense that you don’t fully belong. Perhaps words feel difficult sometimes, or you find yourself deeply feeling things that others seem able to brush aside. Therapy offers a space where you can begin to understand yourself more deeply, feel genuinely seen, and gently unfurl into greater self-acceptance and freedom.
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Stacy Holland
Psychotherapist, MBACP
I have a heart for those who haven't felt heard or understood and I will treat what you share with the utmost care. I can offer you compassion where maybe you feel you haven't received it before, or maybe you feel like you don't deserve it because that internal voice tells you you are not good enough. I can help you discover the roots of that voice, weakening its influence over you and allowing you to build a new voice that is encouraging and supportive. Everyone deserves to have their voice heard, what you think and how you feel really is important to me.
I have a heart for those who haven't felt heard or understood and I will treat what you share with the utmost care. I can offer you compassion where maybe you feel you haven't received it before, or maybe you feel like you don't deserve it because that internal voice tells you you are not good enough. I can help you discover the roots of that voice, weakening its influence over you and allowing you to build a new voice that is encouraging and supportive. Everyone deserves to have their voice heard, what you think and how you feel really is important to me.
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Bevan Morley
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Are you experiencing intense emotions, relationship difficulties, or identity struggles? Not sure how to cope with what's going on, both inside and out? Whether you are navigating intense emotional shifts, identity questions, or difficult relationship cycles, I offer a space where you can be seen in your entirety, without the fear of being judged or seen as "too much." I have first hand experience of what its like to struggle with your mental health. I know how isolating that can be and how daunting it can feel to reach out. I also know how life changing it is when you find the right support. That’s the experience I aim to provide.
Are you experiencing intense emotions, relationship difficulties, or identity struggles? Not sure how to cope with what's going on, both inside and out? Whether you are navigating intense emotional shifts, identity questions, or difficult relationship cycles, I offer a space where you can be seen in your entirety, without the fear of being judged or seen as "too much." I have first hand experience of what its like to struggle with your mental health. I know how isolating that can be and how daunting it can feel to reach out. I also know how life changing it is when you find the right support. That’s the experience I aim to provide.
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Sithembisile Thembie Mapingire
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Life is a journey that can be challenging and overwhelming. Sometimes presenting you with unexpected difficult experiences that require you to talk to someone outside of yourself, friends, and family. Acknowledging you need help and getting the right counselor is half the battle won. I will support you to express and explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential environment. Depression, anxiety, uncertainty, fear, trauma, bereavement, and abuse can leave you feeling helpless and alone. That is when you need to talk to a counselor and feel understood.
Life is a journey that can be challenging and overwhelming. Sometimes presenting you with unexpected difficult experiences that require you to talk to someone outside of yourself, friends, and family. Acknowledging you need help and getting the right counselor is half the battle won. I will support you to express and explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential environment. Depression, anxiety, uncertainty, fear, trauma, bereavement, and abuse can leave you feeling helpless and alone. That is when you need to talk to a counselor and feel understood.
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Gay Lane
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Hi and welcome to my profile page. Are you struggling emotionally? Seeking change? I am a qualified Person-Centred therapist who works with a wide range of issues including anxiety, low mood, domestic abuse, sexual identity to name but a few. Together we will explore your thoughts and feelings so that you can navigate your life in a more positive way. Helping you to find the correct tools for leading the life you want!
Hi and welcome to my profile page. Are you struggling emotionally? Seeking change? I am a qualified Person-Centred therapist who works with a wide range of issues including anxiety, low mood, domestic abuse, sexual identity to name but a few. Together we will explore your thoughts and feelings so that you can navigate your life in a more positive way. Helping you to find the correct tools for leading the life you want!
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Therapy with Natalie Peters
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
I have particular experience working with survivors of sexual assault, domestic abuse and violence and supporting people through trauma.
I support clients with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, bereavement, trauma, the impact of abuse, and life transitions. I also have experience working with individuals who are neurodivergent, supporting the unique challenges this can bring to identity, emotional regulation, self-worth, relationships and everyday life. My practice is rooted in GSRD-aware principles, ensuring that diverse gender identities, sexualities, and relationship structures are respected, offering an affirming, supportive space that fosters a sense of belonging.
I have particular experience working with survivors of sexual assault, domestic abuse and violence and supporting people through trauma.
I support clients with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, bereavement, trauma, the impact of abuse, and life transitions. I also have experience working with individuals who are neurodivergent, supporting the unique challenges this can bring to identity, emotional regulation, self-worth, relationships and everyday life. My practice is rooted in GSRD-aware principles, ensuring that diverse gender identities, sexualities, and relationship structures are respected, offering an affirming, supportive space that fosters a sense of belonging.
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Frankie Wingfield-Jones
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist, working with individuals and couples/multiple partnered people to help guide and support with whatever you bring into the room. We explore the ways in which sex may be impacting or affecting your life in a safe, non-judgemental space. I believe the therapeutic relationship is incredibly impactful and I work in a collaborative way with my clients to bring the best out in them or their relationship.
I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist, working with individuals and couples/multiple partnered people to help guide and support with whatever you bring into the room. We explore the ways in which sex may be impacting or affecting your life in a safe, non-judgemental space. I believe the therapeutic relationship is incredibly impactful and I work in a collaborative way with my clients to bring the best out in them or their relationship.
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Jon Arber
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Perhaps you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure where to turn. Maybe you've been trying to manage things on your own for a while, but it's becoming harder to make sense of the chaos.  I'm Jon, an Integrative Counsellor offering a calm, confidential and non-judgemental space for adults and young people aged 13+. I appreciate there is a lot to think about when choosing a Counsellor so thank-you for considering what I'm able to offer. Therapy isn't about me giving you all the answers. It's about creating a space where you can feel heard, understood and accepted, without judgement or pressure.
Perhaps you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure where to turn. Maybe you've been trying to manage things on your own for a while, but it's becoming harder to make sense of the chaos.  I'm Jon, an Integrative Counsellor offering a calm, confidential and non-judgemental space for adults and young people aged 13+. I appreciate there is a lot to think about when choosing a Counsellor so thank-you for considering what I'm able to offer. Therapy isn't about me giving you all the answers. It's about creating a space where you can feel heard, understood and accepted, without judgement or pressure.
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Sam Lewis Therapy
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I also have experience in working with trauma including sexual assault and abuse in both males and females.
You might feel like you’ve spent years trying to cope — pushing through, masking, or holding everything together — but inside you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or exhausted. I work with people who have experienced trauma, including sexual or domestic abuse, and those who feel misunderstood or out of place, particularly neurodivergent clients (ADHD/autism). Many of the people I support have spent a long time feeling like they don’t quite fit, or struggling to make sense of their experiences.
I also have experience in working with trauma including sexual assault and abuse in both males and females.
You might feel like you’ve spent years trying to cope — pushing through, masking, or holding everything together — but inside you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or exhausted. I work with people who have experienced trauma, including sexual or domestic abuse, and those who feel misunderstood or out of place, particularly neurodivergent clients (ADHD/autism). Many of the people I support have spent a long time feeling like they don’t quite fit, or struggling to make sense of their experiences.
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Dr Ravi Sankar
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a deputy lead clinical psychologist in an NHS secondary care team, and I currently work part-time in private practice. Each day, I help people manage stressful life events and confront various psychological issues, such as anxiety, PTSD, low mood, loneliness, self-esteem, and coping with pressure. I can help you develop a deep understanding of your psychological problems and convert insight into change. I believe that our thoughts influence our feelings, which in turn affect our actions. Sometimes, we must reflect on why we keep falling into the same patterns to move forward in life. Seeking help for emotional problems is wise.
I am a deputy lead clinical psychologist in an NHS secondary care team, and I currently work part-time in private practice. Each day, I help people manage stressful life events and confront various psychological issues, such as anxiety, PTSD, low mood, loneliness, self-esteem, and coping with pressure. I can help you develop a deep understanding of your psychological problems and convert insight into change. I believe that our thoughts influence our feelings, which in turn affect our actions. Sometimes, we must reflect on why we keep falling into the same patterns to move forward in life. Seeking help for emotional problems is wise.
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Patricia Downing
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I am based in Stewkley, 5 miles from Leighton Buzzard, about 10 miles from Aylesbury and Milton Keynes. A quiet village location, with a welcoming and private therapy space. You may be looking for a counsellor/psychotherapist who can work with you if you are experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma symptoms, relationship issues or major life changes...with a range of skills and more than 20 years experience of offering therapy, I can provide a safe space to explore and make sense of these challenges. I am also a 'climate aware' therapist, involved in facilitating climate cafe listening circles.
I am based in Stewkley, 5 miles from Leighton Buzzard, about 10 miles from Aylesbury and Milton Keynes. A quiet village location, with a welcoming and private therapy space. You may be looking for a counsellor/psychotherapist who can work with you if you are experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma symptoms, relationship issues or major life changes...with a range of skills and more than 20 years experience of offering therapy, I can provide a safe space to explore and make sense of these challenges. I am also a 'climate aware' therapist, involved in facilitating climate cafe listening circles.
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Olivia Doughty
Psychologist, PhD, CPsychol
Serves Area
I believe that, due to the unrelenting pressures of the world we live in and the way our brains have evolved, everyone can find life difficult sometimes. It is easy for our minds to appear to work against us; getting stuck in loops of painful thoughts and feelings. This can result in depression, anxiety and difficulties with relationships. People who have experienced significant distress, trauma or hurt in life can also, not surprisingly, experience significant difficulties where memories come to haunt us and send us back to previous pain. I hope to help people life the life they want to live, with some sense of agency over pain.
I believe that, due to the unrelenting pressures of the world we live in and the way our brains have evolved, everyone can find life difficult sometimes. It is easy for our minds to appear to work against us; getting stuck in loops of painful thoughts and feelings. This can result in depression, anxiety and difficulties with relationships. People who have experienced significant distress, trauma or hurt in life can also, not surprisingly, experience significant difficulties where memories come to haunt us and send us back to previous pain. I hope to help people life the life they want to live, with some sense of agency over pain.
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Kath Attwood couples & Individual counsellor
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Taking the first steps to talk can be daunting for anyone, and change is not always easy. But finding the right counsellor for you is so important , as I honestly believe it creates the freedom to self-development and grow as an individual. I am an experienced therapist in private practice for over 10years. I work with couples exploring relationships difficulties and individuals too, exploring ,communication difficulties, loss of trust , betrayal , conflict , anxiety , loss, trauma, addiction, bereavement, and so many other life experiences that can affect any one of us . I would love to hear from you, please get in touch .
Taking the first steps to talk can be daunting for anyone, and change is not always easy. But finding the right counsellor for you is so important , as I honestly believe it creates the freedom to self-development and grow as an individual. I am an experienced therapist in private practice for over 10years. I work with couples exploring relationships difficulties and individuals too, exploring ,communication difficulties, loss of trust , betrayal , conflict , anxiety , loss, trauma, addiction, bereavement, and so many other life experiences that can affect any one of us . I would love to hear from you, please get in touch .
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Clive Deeks
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
There was a time when I sat where you may be sitting now, wondering whether counselling could help. When I first sought therapy, I was struggling with work pressures, relationships and uncertainty about the future. What I found was a safe space to be heard without judgement, and that experience eventually led me to become a counsellor. Today, I offer a warm, confidential space for clients to explore life's challenges. I am also a practising supervisor. While I work with adults of all ages, I particularly enjoy working with young people, whose resilience and potential give me hope for the future.
There was a time when I sat where you may be sitting now, wondering whether counselling could help. When I first sought therapy, I was struggling with work pressures, relationships and uncertainty about the future. What I found was a safe space to be heard without judgement, and that experience eventually led me to become a counsellor. Today, I offer a warm, confidential space for clients to explore life's challenges. I am also a practising supervisor. While I work with adults of all ages, I particularly enjoy working with young people, whose resilience and potential give me hope for the future.
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Sexual Abuse Counsellors
How do therapists treat sexual abuse?
A good therapist will be nonjudgmental and possibly demonstrate active listening, repeating back what the client says to show that they have understood. These skills allow people to feel comfortable discussing their traumatic experiences openly. Some important treatment goals are to restore a sense of safety and to rebuild confidence. In addition to working one-on-one with the patient, a therapist might bring in supportive family members to assist the client.

Do you have to talk extensively about sexual abuse in therapy?
Survivors frequently find it difficult to describe what happened to them out loud. They can even still be in a state of denial if the sexual abuse occurred recently. It is important for survivors to acknowledge that what happened isn’t their fault and to challenge and reappraise any unhealthy feelings or thoughts as they arise. Art therapy and play therapy are useful non-verbal means of communication for some survivors.

How long does treatment for sexual abuse take?
Recovery from sexual abuse can be a long and difficult process. Some survivors are able to move on naturally on their own, given time, while others require the guidance of a trained therapist. Therapy needs vary and can range from a few sessions to months or even years. Healing from sexual abuse takes time, and everyone’s journey will look a little different.

Can trauma symptoms caused by sexual abuse come back after treatment?
As occurs in many cases of trauma, survivors of sexual abuse may experience PTSD-like symptoms long after the abuse has ceased or after an initial round of treatment has occurred. In such a case, there is evidence that prolonged exposure therapy is a useful treatment for survivors, and may be more efficacious than supportive counseling alone. While triggers may continue to cause distress, the idea is that, with time and repeated exposure, their power will fade, allowing survivors to move on with their lives.