Infidelity Counselling in Leeds
Rachel Northen - Sex And Relationship Therapist
Counsellor, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Online Only
I specialise in male and female sexual difficulties and in relationship issues and work with couples and individuals. Sexual issues may have a physiological and/or psychological cause and include: loss of intimacy and desire, mismatched libidos, orgasm difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature and delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual pain, menopause, sexual phobia and anxiety, lack of confidence and issues with porn use. Relationship issues include: infidelity, loss of trust, communication difficulties, lack of intimacy/connection, adjusting to change, conflict, stress and anxiety, separation and different attachment styles.
I specialise in male and female sexual difficulties and in relationship issues and work with couples and individuals. Sexual issues may have a physiological and/or psychological cause and include: loss of intimacy and desire, mismatched libidos, orgasm difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature and delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual pain, menopause, sexual phobia and anxiety, lack of confidence and issues with porn use. Relationship issues include: infidelity, loss of trust, communication difficulties, lack of intimacy/connection, adjusting to change, conflict, stress and anxiety, separation and different attachment styles.
I have experience working with couples on communication issues, infidelity and relationship satisfaction.
I am an individual and couple therapist offering support for a range of difficulties. I offer an integrative approach to counselling that allows for specific treatment based on you as an individual or couple. I work with clients on issues including self-esteem, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, ADHD and many more. I work with individuals with ADHD, Autism and many others or those in relationships with neurodivergent individuals.
I have experience working with couples on communication issues, infidelity and relationship satisfaction.
I am an individual and couple therapist offering support for a range of difficulties. I offer an integrative approach to counselling that allows for specific treatment based on you as an individual or couple. I work with clients on issues including self-esteem, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, ADHD and many more. I work with individuals with ADHD, Autism and many others or those in relationships with neurodivergent individuals.
I specialise in working with couples struggling with communication, healing from affairs, emotional intimacy, & conflict.
Do you feel despair or a growing distance in your relationship no matter what you do? Are you struggling to communicate with your partner? My clients often tell me they miss warmth & affection and wish they could turn back the clock to happier times. Perhaps your partner had an affair and you're both scared and don't know what to do now. Either way, one thing's for sure: you’re desperate for some relief. It might be hard to imagine your relationship could be full of fun and laughter again but this has happened with my clients. Together we can move you from anxiety and stuckness to feeling happy again.
I specialise in working with couples struggling with communication, healing from affairs, emotional intimacy, & conflict.
Do you feel despair or a growing distance in your relationship no matter what you do? Are you struggling to communicate with your partner? My clients often tell me they miss warmth & affection and wish they could turn back the clock to happier times. Perhaps your partner had an affair and you're both scared and don't know what to do now. Either way, one thing's for sure: you’re desperate for some relief. It might be hard to imagine your relationship could be full of fun and laughter again but this has happened with my clients. Together we can move you from anxiety and stuckness to feeling happy again.
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
I specialise in a range of relationships and sexual difficulties including (but not exclusively); Anorgasmia, Premature ejaculation, painful Sex (Dyspareunia/Vulvodynia), erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, loss of desire, Vaginismus, difficulty with arousal, communication problems, affairs.
I am an experienced, fully qualified psychotherapist specialising in Psychosexual, Relationship Therapy and EMDR therapy. I am qualified at MSC level and have over 15 years' experience of helping a diverse range of couples and individuals overcome relationship issues, sexual problems or trauma. I operate confidential and judgment free practice using an integrative therapeutic style, tailored to meet the individual needs of each client and work proactively using up to date strategies in psychology and behavioural sciences to help clients meet their therapeutic goals.
I specialise in a range of relationships and sexual difficulties including (but not exclusively); Anorgasmia, Premature ejaculation, painful Sex (Dyspareunia/Vulvodynia), erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, loss of desire, Vaginismus, difficulty with arousal, communication problems, affairs.
I am an experienced, fully qualified psychotherapist specialising in Psychosexual, Relationship Therapy and EMDR therapy. I am qualified at MSC level and have over 15 years' experience of helping a diverse range of couples and individuals overcome relationship issues, sexual problems or trauma. I operate confidential and judgment free practice using an integrative therapeutic style, tailored to meet the individual needs of each client and work proactively using up to date strategies in psychology and behavioural sciences to help clients meet their therapeutic goals.
I am also qualified in intimate partner and couples therapy, helping address communication styles, attachment issues, infidelity, neurodiversity, gender transition, and polyamorous dynamics.
Depression, anxiety, and mental health challenges are common. As a qualified counsellor, I help you explore your thoughts and feelings for better self-understanding and effective coping strategies. I offer a non-judgmental space for discussing related issues and specialize in gender identity, guiding clients through their complexities. My extensive experience supports transgender, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming individuals, and I am committed to providing compassionate care without conversion therapy practices.
I am also qualified in intimate partner and couples therapy, helping address communication styles, attachment issues, infidelity, neurodiversity, gender transition, and polyamorous dynamics.
Depression, anxiety, and mental health challenges are common. As a qualified counsellor, I help you explore your thoughts and feelings for better self-understanding and effective coping strategies. I offer a non-judgmental space for discussing related issues and specialize in gender identity, guiding clients through their complexities. My extensive experience supports transgender, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming individuals, and I am committed to providing compassionate care without conversion therapy practices.
Hello, thank you for viewing my profile. As a relationship therapist, my speciality lies in helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of their emotional connections. I work with clients to address communication barriers, resolve conflicts, and deepen intimacy. Whether you're struggling with recurring disagreements, infidelity, trust issues, or simply feeling disconnected from your partner, I offer a safe, non-judgmental space to explore these challenges.
Hello, thank you for viewing my profile. As a relationship therapist, my speciality lies in helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of their emotional connections. I work with clients to address communication barriers, resolve conflicts, and deepen intimacy. Whether you're struggling with recurring disagreements, infidelity, trust issues, or simply feeling disconnected from your partner, I offer a safe, non-judgmental space to explore these challenges.
I have experience of working with a range of issues including:- Family Challenges such as Difficult family dynamics/blended families, Low Self-Esteem, Infidelity/Separation/Divorce, Retirement and its challenges, Bereavement ,Supporting Carers, Long-Term Health Conditions, Coping with the Menopause , Loneliness or Work related stress & much more .
I am an experienced Counsellor working with Individuals & Couples. Offering a safe space where you can talk openly, explore tough situations, and find better ways to cope without feeling judged. Your beliefs and judgments about yourself influence your actions and feelings. Reflecting on this can help you prepare for the future and deal with stress. Building a strong relationship and trust with me means you can feel supported in facing your challenges directly.
I have experience of working with a range of issues including:- Family Challenges such as Difficult family dynamics/blended families, Low Self-Esteem, Infidelity/Separation/Divorce, Retirement and its challenges, Bereavement ,Supporting Carers, Long-Term Health Conditions, Coping with the Menopause , Loneliness or Work related stress & much more .
I am an experienced Counsellor working with Individuals & Couples. Offering a safe space where you can talk openly, explore tough situations, and find better ways to cope without feeling judged. Your beliefs and judgments about yourself influence your actions and feelings. Reflecting on this can help you prepare for the future and deal with stress. Building a strong relationship and trust with me means you can feel supported in facing your challenges directly.
I'm able to offer support for sexual function problems, issues around gender and sexuality, sex addictions & compulsions, infidelity, poly relationships or kink, fetish and BDSM lifestyles.
Life can surprise and challenge us in many ways. Having a safe space and the support of a therapist can help you explore and 'make sense' of what's troubling you, build new perspectives and move forward in life in healthier ways.
I'm able to offer support for sexual function problems, issues around gender and sexuality, sex addictions & compulsions, infidelity, poly relationships or kink, fetish and BDSM lifestyles.
Life can surprise and challenge us in many ways. Having a safe space and the support of a therapist can help you explore and 'make sense' of what's troubling you, build new perspectives and move forward in life in healthier ways.
I'm a Sex & Relationship Specialist who offers therapy for Individual Adults & Couples who are seeking support! Areas I work within are Erection Problems, Ejaculation Issues, Painful Sex, Orgasm Issues, Low Sexual Desire, Sex & Porn Addictions, Sexual Trauma, Sexual Jealously & issues around any Kink, Fetish & BDSM interests. Relationship problems I work within are Affairs, Intimacy Issues & Communication Problems. I offer online sessions on Tuesdays to Fridays daytime, Tuesdays & Wednesdays evenings and in-person sessions on Friday mornings at a Heswall clinic. I aim to respond within 24 hrs, please check your junk box for replies.
I'm a Sex & Relationship Specialist who offers therapy for Individual Adults & Couples who are seeking support! Areas I work within are Erection Problems, Ejaculation Issues, Painful Sex, Orgasm Issues, Low Sexual Desire, Sex & Porn Addictions, Sexual Trauma, Sexual Jealously & issues around any Kink, Fetish & BDSM interests. Relationship problems I work within are Affairs, Intimacy Issues & Communication Problems. I offer online sessions on Tuesdays to Fridays daytime, Tuesdays & Wednesdays evenings and in-person sessions on Friday mornings at a Heswall clinic. I aim to respond within 24 hrs, please check your junk box for replies.
If you are worried about your relationship its often better to get support sooner rather than later. It may be you are worried about communication issues, infidelity, money issues, parenting differences, or addiction - whatever it is I can help.
If you are worried about your relationship its often better to get support sooner rather than later. It may be you are worried about communication issues, infidelity, money issues, parenting differences, or addiction - whatever it is I can help.
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I specialise in stress, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, PTSD, panic, OCD, bereavement, long term health conditions, relationship difficulties. Are you feeling stuck, down, lonely, anxious, stressed, or overwhelmed? You may be struggling to cope with a busy job/lifestyle, health issues, family, loss of a loved one, or difficulties in relationships. My clients often feel not good enough, alone, or are failing in life. I help my clients feel happier, calmer, less anxious, more confident, and able to sleep better. They are better able to cope with life stresses, health issues, and create harmonious relationships.
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I am a genuine, caring and insightful professional who creates a safe therapeutic space in which to foster self-awareness, mindfulness, personal growth and transformation. The decision to seek therapy is often not a simple one but once taken it marks a commitment to care for yourself that may then be fostered in our work together until you are able to meet your dilemmas or troubles with more understanding, gentleness, and greater ease.
Sometimes things happen in life that are really difficult to process, it can feel like there is too much on your plate and you can feel overwhelmed are struggling to cope, it may feel like you are alone with your difficulties in a house full of people. Trying to swim above water can be really difficult when you feel like things are dragging you under. But seeing the shore ahead can really help to bring hope back and with a little buoyancy swimming can feel a lot easier.
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Do you feel overwhelmed and experience anxiety, depression, sadness, loneliness or feelings of not being good enough? Are you experiencing relationship difficulties? Do you worry about what other people think of you? I provide a calm, warm, confidential and non-judgemental space. I will work with you at your pace to help you explore and make sense of your inner thoughts, feelings and behaviours. Understanding yourself more deeply means you can recognise how and why you respond to life's challenges, this then gives you the chance to learn new and effective ways to respond. This can help you make significant and lasting change.
Do you feel overwhelmed and experience anxiety, depression, sadness, loneliness or feelings of not being good enough? Are you experiencing relationship difficulties? Do you worry about what other people think of you? I provide a calm, warm, confidential and non-judgemental space. I will work with you at your pace to help you explore and make sense of your inner thoughts, feelings and behaviours. Understanding yourself more deeply means you can recognise how and why you respond to life's challenges, this then gives you the chance to learn new and effective ways to respond. This can help you make significant and lasting change.
I am a qualified, fully insured and experienced counsellor, working face to face and online in private practice from Morley, Leeds. The type of support I offer is helping adults who feel challenged by anxiety and depression, relationships issues; personal change; bereavement and loss; neurodiversity; ADHD and ASD. If you're looking for emotional support, need space to talk or are struggling with life changes, I may be able to help you. More information about my services can be found at my website www.francesbarlow.co.uk
I am a qualified, fully insured and experienced counsellor, working face to face and online in private practice from Morley, Leeds. The type of support I offer is helping adults who feel challenged by anxiety and depression, relationships issues; personal change; bereavement and loss; neurodiversity; ADHD and ASD. If you're looking for emotional support, need space to talk or are struggling with life changes, I may be able to help you. More information about my services can be found at my website www.francesbarlow.co.uk
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I'm a Specialist Counsellor and Psychotherapist supporting young people and adults with anxiety, grief and loss, family and relationship problems, low mood, depression, menopause and perimenopause, career related issues and burnout. In our sessions, I can provide you with the tools and teach you the skills to be able to manage the difficulties you may be facing at home. I will also provide you with an understanding of the science behind what you are experiencing.
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I am an experienced psychotherapist and am the manager and clinical lead for a counselling service at a university. I specialise in trauma, emotional distress, anxiety and depression. I draw upon different theories in order to provide the most appropriate therapeutic support to each of my clients, leading to good outcomes. I believe counselling can help us see the unhelpful patterns we find ourselves in and explain why they are happening. This can then lead to a shift in perspective, and help us work towards permanent. I believe my role is to assist clients through this process, and and support them move towards the life they want
When it’s not always possible to chat to a friend or loved one about personal issues counselling can be really helpful. Using a warm and down to earth style my sessions will use techniques to help discover the underlying symptoms, using a non direct approach. This will allow us to explore any issues you have, develop ways to overcome them, and move forward positively at a pace that feels right for you. As a fully qualified therapist, I offer help if you suffer emotional from problems with low self esteem, relationships, work related stress, abuse, child related issues, abandonment, drug abuse and addiction, amongst many others.
When it’s not always possible to chat to a friend or loved one about personal issues counselling can be really helpful. Using a warm and down to earth style my sessions will use techniques to help discover the underlying symptoms, using a non direct approach. This will allow us to explore any issues you have, develop ways to overcome them, and move forward positively at a pace that feels right for you. As a fully qualified therapist, I offer help if you suffer emotional from problems with low self esteem, relationships, work related stress, abuse, child related issues, abandonment, drug abuse and addiction, amongst many others.
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Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.