Infidelity Counselling in Leeds

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Rachel Northen
Counsellor, COSRT General
Online Only
Relationship issues include: infidelity, loss of trust, communication difficulties, lack of intimacy/connection, adjusting to change, conflict, stress and anxiety, separation and different attachment styles.
Sometimes we need help to tackle distressing issues in our sex lives or relationships. Working with a qualified therapist can help you gain the insight and confidence to improve your situation. I work collaboratively with clients, utilising a combination of talking therapy, behaviour change and practical exercises designed to meet the client's goals.
Relationship issues include: infidelity, loss of trust, communication difficulties, lack of intimacy/connection, adjusting to change, conflict, stress and anxiety, separation and different attachment styles.
Sometimes we need help to tackle distressing issues in our sex lives or relationships. Working with a qualified therapist can help you gain the insight and confidence to improve your situation. I work collaboratively with clients, utilising a combination of talking therapy, behaviour change and practical exercises designed to meet the client's goals.
0113 467 8450 View 0113 467 8450
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Shan Merchant
Counsellor, MA, MUKCP
Serves Area
I provide specialist couples counselling for partners facing the hardest challenges - betrayal, sex & intimacy that’s vanished, the same fight on repeat, or the complexities of neurodiverse or poly relationships.
I specialise in couples counselling, using structured methods from Imago and Gottman. I help couples recover from affairs, rebuild sex and intimacy, and communicate with respect. Sessions are practical and focused on change - you’ll leave with tools you can use straight away.
I provide specialist couples counselling for partners facing the hardest challenges - betrayal, sex & intimacy that’s vanished, the same fight on repeat, or the complexities of neurodiverse or poly relationships.
I specialise in couples counselling, using structured methods from Imago and Gottman. I help couples recover from affairs, rebuild sex and intimacy, and communicate with respect. Sessions are practical and focused on change - you’ll leave with tools you can use straight away.
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Phil Haigh
Counsellor, MBACP
Leeds LS1
Life can feel relentless. You may lie awake replaying the day, feeling you should have done better, or giving so much to others that you end up drained. You might feel pulled in all directions, whether by work, responsibilities, or expectations, leaving you tense, overwhelmed, or unsure how to slow down.
Life can feel relentless. You may lie awake replaying the day, feeling you should have done better, or giving so much to others that you end up drained. You might feel pulled in all directions, whether by work, responsibilities, or expectations, leaving you tense, overwhelmed, or unsure how to slow down.
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Nicola Jones
Counsellor, MBACP
Leeds LS7
I am a BACP accredited, registered Counsellor and Psychotherapist based in Leeds, West Yorkshire. I am a humanistic, integrative practitioner. This means my relationship with you is my priority in our work. I use different techniques to focus on you and your needs. Enabling you to reach your therapeutic goals. I work to the BACP ethics and guidelines and offer you a safe, confidential and non-judgmental space. The space and time are yours to explore and reflect on what you chose.
I am a BACP accredited, registered Counsellor and Psychotherapist based in Leeds, West Yorkshire. I am a humanistic, integrative practitioner. This means my relationship with you is my priority in our work. I use different techniques to focus on you and your needs. Enabling you to reach your therapeutic goals. I work to the BACP ethics and guidelines and offer you a safe, confidential and non-judgmental space. The space and time are yours to explore and reflect on what you chose.
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Jodie Slee
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, COSRT General
Online Only
I specialise in a range of relationships and sexual difficulties including (but not exclusively); Anorgasmia, Premature ejaculation, painful Sex (Dyspareunia/Vulvodynia), erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, loss of desire, Vaginismus, difficulty with arousal, communication problems, affairs.
I am an experienced, fully qualified psychotherapist specialising in Psychosexual, Relationship Therapy and EMDR therapy. I am qualified at MSC level and have over 15 years' experience of helping a diverse range of couples and individuals overcome relationship issues, sexual problems or trauma. I operate confidential and judgment free practice using an integrative therapeutic style, tailored to meet the individual needs of each client and work proactively using up to date strategies in psychology and behavioural sciences to help clients meet their therapeutic goals.
I specialise in a range of relationships and sexual difficulties including (but not exclusively); Anorgasmia, Premature ejaculation, painful Sex (Dyspareunia/Vulvodynia), erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, loss of desire, Vaginismus, difficulty with arousal, communication problems, affairs.
I am an experienced, fully qualified psychotherapist specialising in Psychosexual, Relationship Therapy and EMDR therapy. I am qualified at MSC level and have over 15 years' experience of helping a diverse range of couples and individuals overcome relationship issues, sexual problems or trauma. I operate confidential and judgment free practice using an integrative therapeutic style, tailored to meet the individual needs of each client and work proactively using up to date strategies in psychology and behavioural sciences to help clients meet their therapeutic goals.
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David Stevens
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am a BACP registered counsellor based in Leeds, UK with experience supporting clients through a wide range of challenges, including stress, anxiety, workplace burnout, men’s mental health, and the difficulties that come with feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I also work with people navigating grief, trauma, and major life decisions. My style is straightforward, down-to-earth, and supportive. I believe counselling should feel like a genuine conversation, not a clinical interview. I offer a safe and respectful space where you can be open without fear of judgement, and together we work at a pace that suits you.
I am a BACP registered counsellor based in Leeds, UK with experience supporting clients through a wide range of challenges, including stress, anxiety, workplace burnout, men’s mental health, and the difficulties that come with feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I also work with people navigating grief, trauma, and major life decisions. My style is straightforward, down-to-earth, and supportive. I believe counselling should feel like a genuine conversation, not a clinical interview. I offer a safe and respectful space where you can be open without fear of judgement, and together we work at a pace that suits you.
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Chris Madden
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Leeds LS1
Hello, my name is Chris. I’m an experienced Integrative Counselling Psychotherapist (bit of a tongue twister) which essentially means that I will offer you a confidential, safe & non-judgemental space to explore whatever brings you to therapy. I will accept you for who you are, seeing the world through your eyes. I will really hear you, offering the time to find the answers you are looking for. I will not tell you what to do or who you should be but I will encourage you explore & navigate towards new insights & perspectives which can bring about a better way of relating to yourself and others. I work with individuals & couples.
Hello, my name is Chris. I’m an experienced Integrative Counselling Psychotherapist (bit of a tongue twister) which essentially means that I will offer you a confidential, safe & non-judgemental space to explore whatever brings you to therapy. I will accept you for who you are, seeing the world through your eyes. I will really hear you, offering the time to find the answers you are looking for. I will not tell you what to do or who you should be but I will encourage you explore & navigate towards new insights & perspectives which can bring about a better way of relating to yourself and others. I work with individuals & couples.
0113 467 8440 View 0113 467 8440
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Tim Arnott
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Leeds LS1
Hi there and thank you for viewing my profile. I am a Masters Qualified BACP Registered Counsellor and Psychotherapist working in Leeds city centre (LS1) and York (YO41). As a therapist I help individuals talk about their feelings, think about their choices and help them to achieve positive changes in their lives through the counselling process. I use an integrative model of counselling & psychotherapy which involves a wide range of counselling theories such as psychodynamic and person-centred therapy.
Hi there and thank you for viewing my profile. I am a Masters Qualified BACP Registered Counsellor and Psychotherapist working in Leeds city centre (LS1) and York (YO41). As a therapist I help individuals talk about their feelings, think about their choices and help them to achieve positive changes in their lives through the counselling process. I use an integrative model of counselling & psychotherapy which involves a wide range of counselling theories such as psychodynamic and person-centred therapy.
0113 467 6816 View 0113 467 6816
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Mags Clare Counselling
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Leeds LS14
I am a qualified Person Centred Counsellor with a passion for supporting people through life’s great challenges. Whether you are struggling with grief, a big life change, or feel that you can’t cope, I can walk alongside you to help you to explore your feelings without judgment, to hopefully feel better able to navigate your life and the challenges you face. We can work on what's going on in your life now, as well as delving deeper to get to the root of your experience. I offer a warm and welcoming space, my hope is to put you at ease so that you feel able to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences.
I am a qualified Person Centred Counsellor with a passion for supporting people through life’s great challenges. Whether you are struggling with grief, a big life change, or feel that you can’t cope, I can walk alongside you to help you to explore your feelings without judgment, to hopefully feel better able to navigate your life and the challenges you face. We can work on what's going on in your life now, as well as delving deeper to get to the root of your experience. I offer a warm and welcoming space, my hope is to put you at ease so that you feel able to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences.
0113 519 5838 View 0113 519 5838
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Justyna Muller
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Online Only
I am a Counsellor, Psychotherapist, Supervisor and Trainer with more than fifteen years of experience. My approach is Humanistic, and I will take into consideration all your needs including mental, physical, emotional, spiritual and creative. I work on many different levels, combining traditional and modern schools of Counselling, Individual and Relationship Psychotherapy and research. My role is to guide you through the challenges of being in therapy by using reflections, questions, and different creative techniques to enable you to take part in the in the process of discovering your creativity, spontaneity and potential.
I am a Counsellor, Psychotherapist, Supervisor and Trainer with more than fifteen years of experience. My approach is Humanistic, and I will take into consideration all your needs including mental, physical, emotional, spiritual and creative. I work on many different levels, combining traditional and modern schools of Counselling, Individual and Relationship Psychotherapy and research. My role is to guide you through the challenges of being in therapy by using reflections, questions, and different creative techniques to enable you to take part in the in the process of discovering your creativity, spontaneity and potential.
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Pathways Counselling Leeds
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Leeds LS6
We are a team of qualified counsellors from diverse background with varying experiences and counselling approaches. We are offering affordable counselling to individuals who are experiencing emotional difficulties. We offer a safe, compassionate and non-judgemental space where you will be accepted and listened to. You will be supported to explore your thoughts and feelings. Through this process of working together, you can develop your own self awareness and a better understanding of your difficulties and then choose your own ways of coping.
We are a team of qualified counsellors from diverse background with varying experiences and counselling approaches. We are offering affordable counselling to individuals who are experiencing emotional difficulties. We offer a safe, compassionate and non-judgemental space where you will be accepted and listened to. You will be supported to explore your thoughts and feelings. Through this process of working together, you can develop your own self awareness and a better understanding of your difficulties and then choose your own ways of coping.
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Ann Todd
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Leeds LS7
Often our anxieties and difficulties can weigh us down and we are unable to find a way forward. Perhaps we experience intrusive anxious thoughts or our inner critic is just too loud and holds us back. Maybe we keep repeating the same unhelpful behaviour again and again. Or perhaps past trauma feels too present and we are still experiencing its physical and emotional impact and the way it makes us behave. Our thoughts and feelings can be confusing and talking to friends and relatives may be too difficult. I provide a safe, respectful space in which you can explore your difficulties, gain insight and discover a way forward.
Often our anxieties and difficulties can weigh us down and we are unable to find a way forward. Perhaps we experience intrusive anxious thoughts or our inner critic is just too loud and holds us back. Maybe we keep repeating the same unhelpful behaviour again and again. Or perhaps past trauma feels too present and we are still experiencing its physical and emotional impact and the way it makes us behave. Our thoughts and feelings can be confusing and talking to friends and relatives may be too difficult. I provide a safe, respectful space in which you can explore your difficulties, gain insight and discover a way forward.
01937 227412 View 01937 227412
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Sinead Clarke-Adams
Counsellor, MBACP
Leeds LS6
Whether it be anxiety, depression, self esteem building, confidence issues, grief, trauma or many other life stresses, I'm here to help. I will offer you a safe, comfortable, confidential and non judgemental space where you have the freedom to explore the issues that are troubling you and assist you to overcome what's holding you back, causing you pain and distress or simply making you feel stuck in life. I will empower you to see your light and find solutions that are right for you, by following your lead, focusing on building a safe relationship and using my skills to help you feel supported.
Whether it be anxiety, depression, self esteem building, confidence issues, grief, trauma or many other life stresses, I'm here to help. I will offer you a safe, comfortable, confidential and non judgemental space where you have the freedom to explore the issues that are troubling you and assist you to overcome what's holding you back, causing you pain and distress or simply making you feel stuck in life. I will empower you to see your light and find solutions that are right for you, by following your lead, focusing on building a safe relationship and using my skills to help you feel supported.
0113 519 0298 View 0113 519 0298
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Francesca Parry
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Leeds LS18
You have likely arrived here because yourself or someone you know is thinking about counselling. This can be a worrying and confusing time and you may just need information about what counselling is and how you can make use of it. I chose counselling as a career as there was a time where I felt like I had no voice. I was alone with my thoughts and feelings. Having therapy, allowed me to understand how it feels to be listened to, with no judgement or a fear of being misunderstood. It gave me time, space and the confidence to open up. I want to work with others and communicate how to work on their self-love and belief in themselves.
You have likely arrived here because yourself or someone you know is thinking about counselling. This can be a worrying and confusing time and you may just need information about what counselling is and how you can make use of it. I chose counselling as a career as there was a time where I felt like I had no voice. I was alone with my thoughts and feelings. Having therapy, allowed me to understand how it feels to be listened to, with no judgement or a fear of being misunderstood. It gave me time, space and the confidence to open up. I want to work with others and communicate how to work on their self-love and belief in themselves.
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Chris Bygrave
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Leeds LS1
Waitlist for new clients
Hi, I'm Chris. I offer psychotherapy and psychotherapeutic counselling in Leeds. I see therapy as the co-creation of a warm, authentic relationship, in which we create the conditions to shine a light onto the wounded or neglected parts of the self. I offer open ended sessions, which allows our work together to unfold naturally, leading us into the places where we can explore the roots of your emotional development and relational patterns. This is a process that encourages healing and growth, helping you to becoming more in tune and at ease with who you are as a unique person.
Hi, I'm Chris. I offer psychotherapy and psychotherapeutic counselling in Leeds. I see therapy as the co-creation of a warm, authentic relationship, in which we create the conditions to shine a light onto the wounded or neglected parts of the self. I offer open ended sessions, which allows our work together to unfold naturally, leading us into the places where we can explore the roots of your emotional development and relational patterns. This is a process that encourages healing and growth, helping you to becoming more in tune and at ease with who you are as a unique person.
0113 519 1285 View 0113 519 1285
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David Clancy
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Leeds LS1
People come to psychoanalytically informed therapy for many reasons—depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, stress, shame, or low self-esteem. What these struggles often have in common is that they have been present for some time and, despite our best efforts, do not improve when we try to manage them alone. This can leave us feeling stuck and isolated, with symptoms and frustrations that gradually intensify. The aim of this therapy is not only to alleviate conscious symptoms, but also to develop a deeper understanding and awareness of the underlying emotional life that shapes our relationships and our feelings.
People come to psychoanalytically informed therapy for many reasons—depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, stress, shame, or low self-esteem. What these struggles often have in common is that they have been present for some time and, despite our best efforts, do not improve when we try to manage them alone. This can leave us feeling stuck and isolated, with symptoms and frustrations that gradually intensify. The aim of this therapy is not only to alleviate conscious symptoms, but also to develop a deeper understanding and awareness of the underlying emotional life that shapes our relationships and our feelings.
0113 487 2717 View 0113 487 2717
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Annabel Madyara
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Leeds LS1
Hi there, my name is Annabel. I am an integrative Psychotherapist/Counsellor based in Bradford and Leeds as well as working online and telephone. Life can be quite challenging in so many ways I understand this because I have worked with diverse people in various settings such as sexual health, HIV/AIDS social support, rape and sexual violence, bereavement, counselling children and young people with various challenges, care experience, adults who were adopted, LGBT communities, asylum seeking people and refugees. I offer you a very open minded approach and a deep understanding in trying to answer the question, "how did I get here".
Hi there, my name is Annabel. I am an integrative Psychotherapist/Counsellor based in Bradford and Leeds as well as working online and telephone. Life can be quite challenging in so many ways I understand this because I have worked with diverse people in various settings such as sexual health, HIV/AIDS social support, rape and sexual violence, bereavement, counselling children and young people with various challenges, care experience, adults who were adopted, LGBT communities, asylum seeking people and refugees. I offer you a very open minded approach and a deep understanding in trying to answer the question, "how did I get here".
0113 519 7535 View 0113 519 7535
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Serena Ayub
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Feeling anxiety and overwhelm? Together we can understand persistent patterns. If you're struggling with difficult memories or find yourself unable to make decisions, I offer gentle guidance to uncover the root causes and support you in overcoming these challenges. Reaching out is a courageous first step, I commend you for taking it. With 25 years of experience supporting individuals with mental health challenges; I get it, when you are faced with psychological distress and burnout. Offering LGBTQ+ affirming, trauma-informed therapy in Leeds for anxiety. Gender dysphoria support, and a empathic space for autistic clients.
Feeling anxiety and overwhelm? Together we can understand persistent patterns. If you're struggling with difficult memories or find yourself unable to make decisions, I offer gentle guidance to uncover the root causes and support you in overcoming these challenges. Reaching out is a courageous first step, I commend you for taking it. With 25 years of experience supporting individuals with mental health challenges; I get it, when you are faced with psychological distress and burnout. Offering LGBTQ+ affirming, trauma-informed therapy in Leeds for anxiety. Gender dysphoria support, and a empathic space for autistic clients.
0113 519 1952 View 0113 519 1952
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Matthew Booth
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Leeds LS6
I offer supportive sessions for all adults where your identity, experiences, and voice are respected and valued. My approach is warm, inclusive and grounded in the belief that therapy should be a space where you feel free to be fully yourself - no judgement, no masks. Whether you're navigating identity, relationships, self-worth, or life's messier moments, I'm here to support you in reconnecting with your voice, your strength, and your freedom to live life on your terms.
I offer supportive sessions for all adults where your identity, experiences, and voice are respected and valued. My approach is warm, inclusive and grounded in the belief that therapy should be a space where you feel free to be fully yourself - no judgement, no masks. Whether you're navigating identity, relationships, self-worth, or life's messier moments, I'm here to support you in reconnecting with your voice, your strength, and your freedom to live life on your terms.
0113 519 3311 View 0113 519 3311
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Dr Rose Martin
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Leeds LS6
Waitlist for new clients
I am passionate about helping people to understand and unstick difficult patterns in their lives. When traumatic or stressful events happen, we make sense of them as best we can at the time. Sometimes this leaves us with ways of feeling and coping that don’t work as well in our current lives, maybe causing problems in our relationships or with our wellbeing. I help people struggling with anxiety, grief, low self-esteem and other problems to find new ways of coping, and to work towards living a more fulfilling and balanced life. If you are feeling overwhelmed or stuck, I can offer a space to step back and find a new way forward.
I am passionate about helping people to understand and unstick difficult patterns in their lives. When traumatic or stressful events happen, we make sense of them as best we can at the time. Sometimes this leaves us with ways of feeling and coping that don’t work as well in our current lives, maybe causing problems in our relationships or with our wellbeing. I help people struggling with anxiety, grief, low self-esteem and other problems to find new ways of coping, and to work towards living a more fulfilling and balanced life. If you are feeling overwhelmed or stuck, I can offer a space to step back and find a new way forward.
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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.