Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Leamington Spa

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Jay McCarthy
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am sex worker allied, kink aware, and poly affirming.
The world feels really heavy right now. War, climate crisis, the rise of the far right, skyrocketing bills. And then there's your own personal struggles that you're trying to weather. If you're depressed, burnt out, or feeling overwhelmed, I offer a space to bring all of that - openly - without judgement. I am experienced in counselling LGBTQ+, neurodivergent (inc. autistic, BPD & ADHD) and chronically ill clients. I take a person-centred approach, not seeing you as broken or in need of fixing, but rather supporting you to make sense of what you're going through, and helping you figure out a way forward that really works for you.
I am sex worker allied, kink aware, and poly affirming.
The world feels really heavy right now. War, climate crisis, the rise of the far right, skyrocketing bills. And then there's your own personal struggles that you're trying to weather. If you're depressed, burnt out, or feeling overwhelmed, I offer a space to bring all of that - openly - without judgement. I am experienced in counselling LGBTQ+, neurodivergent (inc. autistic, BPD & ADHD) and chronically ill clients. I take a person-centred approach, not seeing you as broken or in need of fixing, but rather supporting you to make sense of what you're going through, and helping you figure out a way forward that really works for you.
07737 426052 View 07737 426052
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Fiona de Swardt
Psychotherapist, BACP
I support diversity and am kink and sex-worker friendly.
I understand that considering to approach someone to discuss private and intimate matters is not easy, but this can be life changing. Experiencing emotional difficulties that affect your moods and behaviour are more common than you think. This can significantly impact a wide range of aspects in your day-to-day life and relationships. Therapy is often an effective way to reach a better understanding of yourself and the causes of your emotional discomfort. It may also help you to find the best way forward to overcome challenges and move on to experience meaningful life improvements simultaneously alleviating pressures and stress.
I support diversity and am kink and sex-worker friendly.
I understand that considering to approach someone to discuss private and intimate matters is not easy, but this can be life changing. Experiencing emotional difficulties that affect your moods and behaviour are more common than you think. This can significantly impact a wide range of aspects in your day-to-day life and relationships. Therapy is often an effective way to reach a better understanding of yourself and the causes of your emotional discomfort. It may also help you to find the best way forward to overcome challenges and move on to experience meaningful life improvements simultaneously alleviating pressures and stress.
01926 351762 View 01926 351762
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John Robey
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
I help people move forward by offering a warm, collaborative, and a deeply reflective space where they can slow down and make sense of their inner world. Clients may feel caught in cycles of overthinking, self-doubt, guilt, shame or emotional exhaustion, and are looking for a space where they can talk about these experiences safely and without judgment. I am here as a guide to help you along your journey. I listen and build an understanding of you and your needs. We can then work together to help achieve your goals. I believe that change is possible through insight and a strong therapeutic relationship.
I help people move forward by offering a warm, collaborative, and a deeply reflective space where they can slow down and make sense of their inner world. Clients may feel caught in cycles of overthinking, self-doubt, guilt, shame or emotional exhaustion, and are looking for a space where they can talk about these experiences safely and without judgment. I am here as a guide to help you along your journey. I listen and build an understanding of you and your needs. We can then work together to help achieve your goals. I believe that change is possible through insight and a strong therapeutic relationship.
01926 963191 View 01926 963191
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Charlotte Perry
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you feel like you're wanting to make changes in your life but aren't sure where to start - or you're trying, but it isn't working out the way you thought it would - I can help. Have you been through something that's still sitting with you, even though you want to move past it? Counselling may be the answer to getting you to where you want to be.
If you feel like you're wanting to make changes in your life but aren't sure where to start - or you're trying, but it isn't working out the way you thought it would - I can help. Have you been through something that's still sitting with you, even though you want to move past it? Counselling may be the answer to getting you to where you want to be.
01926 895918 View 01926 895918
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Eloise Proudlove
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I focus on the connection between the body and emotions. In my practice, I can offer auricular acupuncture to support overall well-being. My approach is person-centred, integrative. I understand that various approaches can be confusing, but I have provided a brief statement below on how I work. My approach holds the belief that each individual knows themselves best and has the potential for personal growth. This growth is supported by our relationship and the environment we create together, where we begin to explore and challenge beliefs, attitudes and behaviours towards self and your relationships with others and the world.
I focus on the connection between the body and emotions. In my practice, I can offer auricular acupuncture to support overall well-being. My approach is person-centred, integrative. I understand that various approaches can be confusing, but I have provided a brief statement below on how I work. My approach holds the belief that each individual knows themselves best and has the potential for personal growth. This growth is supported by our relationship and the environment we create together, where we begin to explore and challenge beliefs, attitudes and behaviours towards self and your relationships with others and the world.
024 7542 4203 View 024 7542 4203

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Kaitlyn Hillier
Psychologist, PhD, CPsychol
Online Only
I have experience working with anxiety, grief, depression, interpersonal-relational issues, intimacy, sexuality, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-awareness, and personality. I am committed to anti-oppressive practice, freedom from judgement or marginalization, and empowerment. I have experience working with the LGBTQIA + community and with issues relating to Sexuality and Alternative sexual lifestyles. I have underwent specialty training in sex therapy. I also have experience with dreams, symbolism, and depth psychologies.
I have experience working with anxiety, grief, depression, interpersonal-relational issues, intimacy, sexuality, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-awareness, and personality. I am committed to anti-oppressive practice, freedom from judgement or marginalization, and empowerment. I have experience working with the LGBTQIA + community and with issues relating to Sexuality and Alternative sexual lifestyles. I have underwent specialty training in sex therapy. I also have experience with dreams, symbolism, and depth psychologies.
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Laura Jayne Nice
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
I have found that interpersonal relationship issues often intersect with deeper themes, such as patterns of relating formed in childhood, feelings of anxiety or overwhelm, identity exploration, or a sense of being stuck. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these interconnected areas together and work toward positive change.
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
I have found that interpersonal relationship issues often intersect with deeper themes, such as patterns of relating formed in childhood, feelings of anxiety or overwhelm, identity exploration, or a sense of being stuck. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these interconnected areas together and work toward positive change.
020 3828 7396 View 020 3828 7396
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Romario Wanliss
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Working with myself in 90min session blocks, we will explore the most important relationship you will ever have, the one with yourself.
Working with myself in 90min session blocks, we will explore the most important relationship you will ever have, the one with yourself.
01562 540769 View 01562 540769
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Dr Luke Barracliffe
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I’m Dr Luke, a HCPC-registered Clinical Psychologist offering online therapy across the UK. I work with people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or highly self-critical, often during periods of change in health, work, or relationships. Many of the people I help are thoughtful and capable on the outside, yet struggle internally with pressure, doubt, or feeling disconnected from what really matters to them. Therapy can offer a space to slow things down, make sense of patterns, and begin living more in line with your values.
I’m Dr Luke, a HCPC-registered Clinical Psychologist offering online therapy across the UK. I work with people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or highly self-critical, often during periods of change in health, work, or relationships. Many of the people I help are thoughtful and capable on the outside, yet struggle internally with pressure, doubt, or feeling disconnected from what really matters to them. Therapy can offer a space to slow things down, make sense of patterns, and begin living more in line with your values.
0141 673 4754 View 0141 673 4754
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Michael Lal
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
Serves Area
You may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or struggling with thoughts and emotions that are difficult to manage on your own. Many people seek therapy when anxiety, stress, or low mood begin to feel too heavy to carry alone. For many men, this can be particularly challenging. Messages such as “man up” or “men don’t cry” can make it harder to open up or ask for support. As a man who has experienced anxiety and depression myself, I understand how difficult this can be. I offer a safe, supportive space where you can talk openly, better understand what you are going through, and begin to move forward.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or struggling with thoughts and emotions that are difficult to manage on your own. Many people seek therapy when anxiety, stress, or low mood begin to feel too heavy to carry alone. For many men, this can be particularly challenging. Messages such as “man up” or “men don’t cry” can make it harder to open up or ask for support. As a man who has experienced anxiety and depression myself, I understand how difficult this can be. I offer a safe, supportive space where you can talk openly, better understand what you are going through, and begin to move forward.
0161 524 9478 View 0161 524 9478
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Nadine Wilson
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
I warmly welcome you to my page. You have taken a courageous first step towards improving your life satisfaction. I know that sometimes our sense of direction and ways of coping in life can get a little out of sync and even friends or loved ones seem absent or unable to help. Sometimes they're part of the problems we are dealing with. Whether you're seeking a simple improvement or healing from deep wounds, within yourself and/or with others, I can help.
I warmly welcome you to my page. You have taken a courageous first step towards improving your life satisfaction. I know that sometimes our sense of direction and ways of coping in life can get a little out of sync and even friends or loved ones seem absent or unable to help. Sometimes they're part of the problems we are dealing with. Whether you're seeking a simple improvement or healing from deep wounds, within yourself and/or with others, I can help.
0121 728 6603 View 0121 728 6603
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Jack Henderson
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Hi! I'm Jack. I'm a trauma specialist and neurodivergent-focused therapist. So you've taken a step on your mental health journey by clicking on my profile, how can I help with that journey? If you are looking for a counsellor, you might feel that you’re struggling to express your emotions. I can offer a non-judgmental, confidential space for you to explore anything that is distressing you. Whether you are struggling to deal with difficulties from your past or you are overwhelmed by the present, I offer counselling sessions that are responsive to your needs. We will work together to support you and that means celebrating you.
Hi! I'm Jack. I'm a trauma specialist and neurodivergent-focused therapist. So you've taken a step on your mental health journey by clicking on my profile, how can I help with that journey? If you are looking for a counsellor, you might feel that you’re struggling to express your emotions. I can offer a non-judgmental, confidential space for you to explore anything that is distressing you. Whether you are struggling to deal with difficulties from your past or you are overwhelmed by the present, I offer counselling sessions that are responsive to your needs. We will work together to support you and that means celebrating you.
01355 206761 View 01355 206761
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psychlarity Consultancy
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Serves Area
Welcome to my profile. I am fortunate to have worked across a range of contexts as well as extensive experience with a numerous clients. As a consultant family and systemic psychotherapist with 25 years experience I specialise in parental alienation, reunification, complex trauma and ptsd, couple therapy, family therapy, eating disorders, child and adult mental health, relationship difficulties, addiction including porn, sex and betrayal. I provide therapy for child to parental violence and repair family systems. Alongside working with courts, solicitors, social care, individual clients I also provide coaching and supervision.
Welcome to my profile. I am fortunate to have worked across a range of contexts as well as extensive experience with a numerous clients. As a consultant family and systemic psychotherapist with 25 years experience I specialise in parental alienation, reunification, complex trauma and ptsd, couple therapy, family therapy, eating disorders, child and adult mental health, relationship difficulties, addiction including porn, sex and betrayal. I provide therapy for child to parental violence and repair family systems. Alongside working with courts, solicitors, social care, individual clients I also provide coaching and supervision.
01902 973074 View 01902 973074
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Aqeela Marie
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
1 Endorsed
As your therapist, I can guide & nurture you towards calm, self-confidence & change. We'll explore your history - generational patterns before & after your birth, your childhood, your relationships, any trauma’s, & find a holistic route to understand why you may respond to situations / relationships / yourself in the way that you do. Maybe you’ve heard of shadow work? How the unconscious parts of ourselves create both helpful & unhelpful patterns in our behaviour & relationships. I work from a therapeutic garden space and I also offer zoom & walk-and-talk sessions at The Botanic Gardens in Leicester.
As your therapist, I can guide & nurture you towards calm, self-confidence & change. We'll explore your history - generational patterns before & after your birth, your childhood, your relationships, any trauma’s, & find a holistic route to understand why you may respond to situations / relationships / yourself in the way that you do. Maybe you’ve heard of shadow work? How the unconscious parts of ourselves create both helpful & unhelpful patterns in our behaviour & relationships. I work from a therapeutic garden space and I also offer zoom & walk-and-talk sessions at The Botanic Gardens in Leicester.
0116 497 6732 View 0116 497 6732
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The Purple House Clinic, Rugby
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Rugby CV21
Dr Poole has expertise in working with adults experiencing mental health difficulties including depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, stress, grief and loss, relationship issues, adjustment difficulties and physical health difficulties (e.g. long term conditions / medical trauma / psychosexual difficulties).
Dr Poole has expertise in working with adults experiencing mental health difficulties including depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, stress, grief and loss, relationship issues, adjustment difficulties and physical health difficulties (e.g. long term conditions / medical trauma / psychosexual difficulties).
01788 227957 View 01788 227957
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Neil Hall
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Anyone can access counselling for any reason, there is no ideal client, someone who is willing to explore their inner world and is committed to making positive changes in their life, might get the most out of working with me. If you struggle with issues, such as anxiety, depression, relationship problems, or self-doubt, feel stuck or overwhelmed and may not know how to move forward or might just be looking to develop as a person.
Anyone can access counselling for any reason, there is no ideal client, someone who is willing to explore their inner world and is committed to making positive changes in their life, might get the most out of working with me. If you struggle with issues, such as anxiety, depression, relationship problems, or self-doubt, feel stuck or overwhelmed and may not know how to move forward or might just be looking to develop as a person.
01922 664907 View 01922 664907
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Helen Sharp
Counsellor, MBACP
You may be feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of what comes next — and you’ve likely tried to handle it all on your own. My clients come to me because they want to understand why they feel the way they do, heal what’s been holding them back, and build a life that feels more grounded, connected, and purposeful. Many of the people I work with struggle with anxiety, perfectionism, relationship challenges, or a sense that they’re “not enough.” Others are navigating big transitions; leaving a relationship, changing careers, confronting past trauma, intrusive thoughts or OCD. They don’t just want coping skills; they want insight, grow
You may be feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of what comes next — and you’ve likely tried to handle it all on your own. My clients come to me because they want to understand why they feel the way they do, heal what’s been holding them back, and build a life that feels more grounded, connected, and purposeful. Many of the people I work with struggle with anxiety, perfectionism, relationship challenges, or a sense that they’re “not enough.” Others are navigating big transitions; leaving a relationship, changing careers, confronting past trauma, intrusive thoughts or OCD. They don’t just want coping skills; they want insight, grow
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Agnieszka Magdalena Maj
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Come as you are, I offer a space where you can truly be yourself. There will be no judgement, just honest human to human interaction with a deep respect for your autonomy and uniqueness.
Come as you are, I offer a space where you can truly be yourself. There will be no judgement, just honest human to human interaction with a deep respect for your autonomy and uniqueness.
01902 953370 View 01902 953370
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Dr Kate Rhodes
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
Hello, I'm Kate, I'm a Clinical Psychologist offering remote video therapy to adults & young people across the UK. I have over 15 years’ experience working in the NHS and am now pleased to be able to offer help to those who need it in private practise. I have a particular interest in trauma and difficult life events and enjoy working with clients using EMDR to make huge changes to their lives. If you have experienced a one off traumatic incident, or have complex childhood experiences and relationships please do reach out to talk: I have helped many people to overcome the impact that such distressing events have had on their lives.
Hello, I'm Kate, I'm a Clinical Psychologist offering remote video therapy to adults & young people across the UK. I have over 15 years’ experience working in the NHS and am now pleased to be able to offer help to those who need it in private practise. I have a particular interest in trauma and difficult life events and enjoy working with clients using EMDR to make huge changes to their lives. If you have experienced a one off traumatic incident, or have complex childhood experiences and relationships please do reach out to talk: I have helped many people to overcome the impact that such distressing events have had on their lives.
01656 334536 View 01656 334536
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Darren Vella
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
My goal working with clients is always to provide a judgement free space, where you can come into contact with parts of yourself that seldom get seen or acknowledged. Enabling awareness of yourself in relation to the events of your life, and how new emergent choices can empower you moving forward. I can work with a range of presenting issues, from mental health issues (such as anxiety and depression) to neurodiversity. Equally I have experience of working with clients who come from a wide range of backgrounds, specifically those from the LGBTQ+ community.
My goal working with clients is always to provide a judgement free space, where you can come into contact with parts of yourself that seldom get seen or acknowledged. Enabling awareness of yourself in relation to the events of your life, and how new emergent choices can empower you moving forward. I can work with a range of presenting issues, from mental health issues (such as anxiety and depression) to neurodiversity. Equally I have experience of working with clients who come from a wide range of backgrounds, specifically those from the LGBTQ+ community.
0121 816 0810 View 0121 816 0810
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.