Self Esteem Counselling in Lancaster

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Robert Cox
Psychotherapist, MBACP
However, there are certain areas that I work particularly well with - Low self-esteem and Adverse (or traumatic) Childhood Experiences.
Welcome to my profile. I'm Rob. My clients find therapy gives them a place to let go and be themselves. Therapy can be laid back and approachable - in fact, so much more seems possible when it is. It can be so liberating to truly be yourself. That means not worrying how you appear, if you'll offend someone, or if you'll be judged. Those things take so much effort. Here you can go for it! Say what you like, see what happens, let it all out. I promise I won't judge you. You deserve to be heard and understood from your point of view. If you didn't have enough of that in your life, here's a chance to make up for it.
However, there are certain areas that I work particularly well with - Low self-esteem and Adverse (or traumatic) Childhood Experiences.
Welcome to my profile. I'm Rob. My clients find therapy gives them a place to let go and be themselves. Therapy can be laid back and approachable - in fact, so much more seems possible when it is. It can be so liberating to truly be yourself. That means not worrying how you appear, if you'll offend someone, or if you'll be judged. Those things take so much effort. Here you can go for it! Say what you like, see what happens, let it all out. I promise I won't judge you. You deserve to be heard and understood from your point of view. If you didn't have enough of that in your life, here's a chance to make up for it.
01253 835846 View 01253 835846
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Laura Turba
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
Online Only
I have experience in working with a variety of life's difficulties, from every day stress to self esteem issues, childhood trauma, anxiety and so much more.
I work using person centred therapy which has helped many adult clients to feel more empowered and self aware, this has resulted in positive life changes. I specialise in helping clients to value their worth and build their own boundaries. We can work together online, in person or I also offer walking therapy. We could head for a walk out in nature
I have experience in working with a variety of life's difficulties, from every day stress to self esteem issues, childhood trauma, anxiety and so much more.
I work using person centred therapy which has helped many adult clients to feel more empowered and self aware, this has resulted in positive life changes. I specialise in helping clients to value their worth and build their own boundaries. We can work together online, in person or I also offer walking therapy. We could head for a walk out in nature
01253 835119 View 01253 835119
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Diego Tinte
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I work with adults facing anxiety, burnout, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, bereavement and trauma.
Are you exhausted from holding it all together? On the outside everything may look fine/work, routine, the people around you, but inside there's anxiety, low mood, grief, or a quiet sense that something isn't right. Maybe you're stuck in patterns you can't seem to break, or carrying something you've never really put into words. You don't have to keep going alone. I'm a BACP Accredited psychotherapist and clinical supervisor in Central London, working in English and Spanish. Together we'll slow things down, understand what's really happening, and find a way forward. Free 15-minute consultation - no pressure.
I work with adults facing anxiety, burnout, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, bereavement and trauma.
Are you exhausted from holding it all together? On the outside everything may look fine/work, routine, the people around you, but inside there's anxiety, low mood, grief, or a quiet sense that something isn't right. Maybe you're stuck in patterns you can't seem to break, or carrying something you've never really put into words. You don't have to keep going alone. I'm a BACP Accredited psychotherapist and clinical supervisor in Central London, working in English and Spanish. Together we'll slow things down, understand what's really happening, and find a way forward. Free 15-minute consultation - no pressure.
020 4538 1707 View 020 4538 1707
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Rahab Edwards
Psychotherapist, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
You may be struggling with low self-esteem, people-pleasing, or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you.
My approach is warm, collaborative, and rooted in person-centred therapy, which means I value your lived experience, pace, and growth capacity. I draw on evidence-based tools such as CBT and compassion-focused work when helpful, but always with a focus on what feels right for you, with a strong emphasis on building self-awareness, resilience, self-worth.
You may be struggling with low self-esteem, people-pleasing, or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you.
My approach is warm, collaborative, and rooted in person-centred therapy, which means I value your lived experience, pace, and growth capacity. I draw on evidence-based tools such as CBT and compassion-focused work when helpful, but always with a focus on what feels right for you, with a strong emphasis on building self-awareness, resilience, self-worth.
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Gary Humphreys
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
By allowing yourself a safe place where someone carefully listens and supports you, to feel heard and understood, you will be able to develop a greater sense of self-worth, wellbeing and personal cohesion.
I have a respectful and open way of working; a confidential place where you can experience being valued and validated. I help you understand yourself by exploring and making sense of your thoughts, feelings and experiences. I support you to develop a more compassionate and coherent relationship with yourself and others which enables better life choices.
By allowing yourself a safe place where someone carefully listens and supports you, to feel heard and understood, you will be able to develop a greater sense of self-worth, wellbeing and personal cohesion.
I have a respectful and open way of working; a confidential place where you can experience being valued and validated. I help you understand yourself by exploring and making sense of your thoughts, feelings and experiences. I support you to develop a more compassionate and coherent relationship with yourself and others which enables better life choices.
01524 917703 View 01524 917703
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Dr Emily Haigh
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Do you feel like you’ve lost yourself or as though life is a struggle? Are you finding it hard to live life in the way that you want? If so I believe I can help. Through one-to-one therapy sessions, I can support you to find clarity, calm, balance, and the tools to live a more fulfilled life as the very best version of you. I work with a variety of difficulties and have a particular interest and specialism in helping people who may be struggling to adjust to significant life events e.g. becoming a parent, menopausal changes, long term health conditions as well as people who have high standards or may be prone to self-criticism.
Do you feel like you’ve lost yourself or as though life is a struggle? Are you finding it hard to live life in the way that you want? If so I believe I can help. Through one-to-one therapy sessions, I can support you to find clarity, calm, balance, and the tools to live a more fulfilled life as the very best version of you. I work with a variety of difficulties and have a particular interest and specialism in helping people who may be struggling to adjust to significant life events e.g. becoming a parent, menopausal changes, long term health conditions as well as people who have high standards or may be prone to self-criticism.
01253 835243 View 01253 835243
Photo of Catherine Corless - Catherine Corless at Bay CBT and Counselling , Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, especially when you're already navigating difficult emotions or life challenges. I offer a warm, non-judgmental space where you can feel safe, seen, and supported—just as you are. I'm a BABCP-accredited CBT therapist and a BACP-registered counsellor, trained in both cognitive behavioural therapy and person-centred approaches. I work with adults and young people aged 15 and over, supporting those dealing with a wide range of issues including trauma, OCD, anxiety, depression, bereavement, body dysmorphic disorder (BDD), and health anxiety.
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, especially when you're already navigating difficult emotions or life challenges. I offer a warm, non-judgmental space where you can feel safe, seen, and supported—just as you are. I'm a BABCP-accredited CBT therapist and a BACP-registered counsellor, trained in both cognitive behavioural therapy and person-centred approaches. I work with adults and young people aged 15 and over, supporting those dealing with a wide range of issues including trauma, OCD, anxiety, depression, bereavement, body dysmorphic disorder (BDD), and health anxiety.
01524 952042 View 01524 952042
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Becky Field
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
My name is Becky Field and I am a qualified counsellor based in Lancaster. I offer in person face-to-face counselling sessions. My counselling sessions are person-centred, which means that we work together at a pace that meets your needs and feels comfortable to you. I believe that the quality of our therapeutic relationship is key to determining how well we work together.
My name is Becky Field and I am a qualified counsellor based in Lancaster. I offer in person face-to-face counselling sessions. My counselling sessions are person-centred, which means that we work together at a pace that meets your needs and feels comfortable to you. I believe that the quality of our therapeutic relationship is key to determining how well we work together.
01253 835172 View 01253 835172
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Louise at Cathartica Therapies
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
My practice offers a sanctuary where your story is honoured and healing is guided by your own wisdom: • Person-Centred Counselling: I offer empathy, congruence and unconditional positive regard: you are valued as the expert on your own life whilst I provide an environment which supports self-development • Social Work Expertise: I bring a trauma-informed lens that will help you better understand how you may have been shaped or stunted by systemic challenges • Holistic Therapy Integration: Acknowledging that mental, social and physical aspects of your experience are interrelated can help you heal and move toward a sense of wholeness
My practice offers a sanctuary where your story is honoured and healing is guided by your own wisdom: • Person-Centred Counselling: I offer empathy, congruence and unconditional positive regard: you are valued as the expert on your own life whilst I provide an environment which supports self-development • Social Work Expertise: I bring a trauma-informed lens that will help you better understand how you may have been shaped or stunted by systemic challenges • Holistic Therapy Integration: Acknowledging that mental, social and physical aspects of your experience are interrelated can help you heal and move toward a sense of wholeness
01253 835706 View 01253 835706
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Claire Haden
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Hi I'm an experienced therapist who has worked in the NHS for over 20 years. Initially as a mental health nurse and a CBT therapist. I now work as a psychotherapist with a wealth of experience to help support and guide you when life feels difficult. Emotional safety and compassion are my main priority when supporting people along with clear guidance and expertise.
Hi I'm an experienced therapist who has worked in the NHS for over 20 years. Initially as a mental health nurse and a CBT therapist. I now work as a psychotherapist with a wealth of experience to help support and guide you when life feels difficult. Emotional safety and compassion are my main priority when supporting people along with clear guidance and expertise.
01253 835520 View 01253 835520
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Rachel Woolerton
Verified Verified
Online Only
I qualified as a nurse in 1987 and spent many years working primarily as a practice nurse. This role gave me a unique insight into the challenges people face when expressing their sexual needs, both individually and within relationships. Over time, I observed that treatment for sexual difficulties was often over-medicalised and lacked sensitivity, failing to consider the whole person. In 2017, I began training in psychosexual therapy and have since had the privilege of working with the NHS and other specialist organisations, both face-to-face and online. Today, I practice independently as an online psychosexual therapist.
I qualified as a nurse in 1987 and spent many years working primarily as a practice nurse. This role gave me a unique insight into the challenges people face when expressing their sexual needs, both individually and within relationships. Over time, I observed that treatment for sexual difficulties was often over-medicalised and lacked sensitivity, failing to consider the whole person. In 2017, I began training in psychosexual therapy and have since had the privilege of working with the NHS and other specialist organisations, both face-to-face and online. Today, I practice independently as an online psychosexual therapist.
015242 35740 View 015242 35740
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Judit Szilagyi
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
As an EMDR & CBT & DBT practitioner I can help you with PTSD, complex PTSD, anxiety disorder, OCD, and addictions. Do not shy away if you have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. I offer online sessions on Mondays and in-person appointments on odd Fridays in Lancaster, near M6&A6.
As an EMDR & CBT & DBT practitioner I can help you with PTSD, complex PTSD, anxiety disorder, OCD, and addictions. Do not shy away if you have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. I offer online sessions on Mondays and in-person appointments on odd Fridays in Lancaster, near M6&A6.
01524 938728 View 01524 938728
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Tracey Louise Ward
Psychotherapist, MRes, MBABCP
Online Only
I specialise in treating depression, anxiety disorders, stress, low self-esteem and trauma.
My name is Tracey and I am an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist. My work in mental health began in 2003 when I volunteered for a helpline for children. Since then I have either been in education or working in mental health. I specialize in working with adults with mental health problems. I am also trained in Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing (EMDR) both CBT and EMDR are evidence based psychological approaches to treat a wide range of emotional, behavioural and psychological difficulties including anxiety, depression, complex trauma, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), adjustment difficulties
I specialise in treating depression, anxiety disorders, stress, low self-esteem and trauma.
My name is Tracey and I am an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist. My work in mental health began in 2003 when I volunteered for a helpline for children. Since then I have either been in education or working in mental health. I specialize in working with adults with mental health problems. I am also trained in Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing (EMDR) both CBT and EMDR are evidence based psychological approaches to treat a wide range of emotional, behavioural and psychological difficulties including anxiety, depression, complex trauma, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), adjustment difficulties
01253 835652 View 01253 835652
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Jutta Pieper
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Hello. I’m a PACT trained couples psychotherapist as well as a Gestalt psychotherapist. PACT is a powerful and transformative approach that was developed by Stan Tatkin, one of the world‘s leading edge couples therapists. I aim to help couples to work through their relationship issues and find new and more satisfactory ways to relate to each other in a more fulfilling way, based on trust, respect and cooperation. I also work with individuals with the Gestalt approach.
Hello. I’m a PACT trained couples psychotherapist as well as a Gestalt psychotherapist. PACT is a powerful and transformative approach that was developed by Stan Tatkin, one of the world‘s leading edge couples therapists. I aim to help couples to work through their relationship issues and find new and more satisfactory ways to relate to each other in a more fulfilling way, based on trust, respect and cooperation. I also work with individuals with the Gestalt approach.
01767 669508 View 01767 669508
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Jane Rowland
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Whether you're facing anxiety or depression, OCD, phobias, stress, trauma or addiction, navigating significant and distressing life changes – whatever it is you’re facing - I aim to support you in building resilience and understanding yourself more deeply. My practice is informed by the latest research, but grounded in the uniqueness of your individual story. I am here to listen with empathy, realism, and acknowledgement of the complexities of human experience. I bring a non-judgemental, compassionate presence, helping you to achieve your therapy goals and create meaningful and lasting change in your life.
Whether you're facing anxiety or depression, OCD, phobias, stress, trauma or addiction, navigating significant and distressing life changes – whatever it is you’re facing - I aim to support you in building resilience and understanding yourself more deeply. My practice is informed by the latest research, but grounded in the uniqueness of your individual story. I am here to listen with empathy, realism, and acknowledgement of the complexities of human experience. I bring a non-judgemental, compassionate presence, helping you to achieve your therapy goals and create meaningful and lasting change in your life.
01253 542174 View 01253 542174
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Naomi Parsons
Psychologist, CPsychol
Online Only
Are you tired of just surviving? Giving everything you've got just to get through another day? Do you feel lost, alone and in pain, with no idea who you actually are or what you need or want? Perhaps too many years of perfectionism, people-pleasing and masking have taken their toll, and now you're ready to heal and discover who you really are underneath it all. Through Phoenixology therapy with Dr Naomi Parsons you'll find someone to walk the path alongside you, someone who's travelled the route themselves and knows that the view from the top is 1000% worth it. Sessions are always bespoke, filled with empathy, warmth and compassion.
Are you tired of just surviving? Giving everything you've got just to get through another day? Do you feel lost, alone and in pain, with no idea who you actually are or what you need or want? Perhaps too many years of perfectionism, people-pleasing and masking have taken their toll, and now you're ready to heal and discover who you really are underneath it all. Through Phoenixology therapy with Dr Naomi Parsons you'll find someone to walk the path alongside you, someone who's travelled the route themselves and knows that the view from the top is 1000% worth it. Sessions are always bespoke, filled with empathy, warmth and compassion.
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Partners in Thought
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Hello my name is Michael and welcome to my Partners in Thought profile. Psychotherapy is an excellent, evidence and knowledge-based method to help people understand and respond to some of the difficulties that may be causing them distress. Therapy often involves helping those who might feel lost, overwhelmed, anxious, stuck, over-reactive or isolated in some way.
Hello my name is Michael and welcome to my Partners in Thought profile. Psychotherapy is an excellent, evidence and knowledge-based method to help people understand and respond to some of the difficulties that may be causing them distress. Therapy often involves helping those who might feel lost, overwhelmed, anxious, stuck, over-reactive or isolated in some way.
01524 917339 View 01524 917339
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Alexandra Logan
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Are you feeling the effects of childhood trauma? A bereavement? Estrangement from a faith community or spiritual abuse? Clients typically approach me because they are feeling lonely or unfulfilled, are experiencing anxiety or depression, self loathing or self sabotage. Sometimes because of a relationship breakdown or problems at work. Sometimes wondering,“Who on earth am I ? ”
Are you feeling the effects of childhood trauma? A bereavement? Estrangement from a faith community or spiritual abuse? Clients typically approach me because they are feeling lonely or unfulfilled, are experiencing anxiety or depression, self loathing or self sabotage. Sometimes because of a relationship breakdown or problems at work. Sometimes wondering,“Who on earth am I ? ”
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Joe Amos
Psychotherapist, MBACP
4 Endorsed
Online Only
I offer online counselling for individuals dealing with compulsive patterns and behaviors that started as a way to cope but ended up taking on a life of their own. These include drinking, substance use, pornography, overwork, and other habits that feel much harder to control than they should. You might find yourself saying to outdated emotional responses, thoughts and behaviours “this is the last time” only to end up back in the same place, carrying frustration, guilt, or shame. It can feel exhausting, confusing, and at times, isolating.
I offer online counselling for individuals dealing with compulsive patterns and behaviors that started as a way to cope but ended up taking on a life of their own. These include drinking, substance use, pornography, overwork, and other habits that feel much harder to control than they should. You might find yourself saying to outdated emotional responses, thoughts and behaviours “this is the last time” only to end up back in the same place, carrying frustration, guilt, or shame. It can feel exhausting, confusing, and at times, isolating.
07418 356223 View 07418 356223
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Anthony Hemmings
Counsellor, MBACP
Whatever your concerns might be, I offer you a safe space to express yourself, without fear of being judged. My practice reflects my belief that you are the expert in your own life. By talking together we can explore what is troubling you and find ways to address, come to terms with, or perhaps even resolve your difficulties. My sessions are non-directive which means you decide what happens during sessions;  together we will explore your thoughts and feelings at a pace that feels right for you.
Whatever your concerns might be, I offer you a safe space to express yourself, without fear of being judged. My practice reflects my belief that you are the expert in your own life. By talking together we can explore what is troubling you and find ways to address, come to terms with, or perhaps even resolve your difficulties. My sessions are non-directive which means you decide what happens during sessions;  together we will explore your thoughts and feelings at a pace that feels right for you.
01253 835472 View 01253 835472

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Self Esteem Counsellors
When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?
When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.

What are the signs of low self-esteem?
Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.

What causes low self-esteem?
Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.

How can therapy improve self-esteem?
Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.