Divorce Counselling in Kirkby in Ashfield

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Kay Bingham
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
There are times in our life when pressures mount up so much, that they really impact on the quality of our day to day living and our overall wellbeing. This may be caused by specific events such as a relationship breakup, the death of a pet or loved one, redundancy or our health. It could be more general such as the impact of Covid-19, unfulfilling relationships whether that be with your colleagues, parents, siblings, partner or your children. Or, you’re not sure what’s causing you to feel so fed up – you ‘should’ be happy. Building resilience does not eradicate the stress and anxiety of everyday life, but it does reduce the impact.
There are times in our life when pressures mount up so much, that they really impact on the quality of our day to day living and our overall wellbeing. This may be caused by specific events such as a relationship breakup, the death of a pet or loved one, redundancy or our health. It could be more general such as the impact of Covid-19, unfulfilling relationships whether that be with your colleagues, parents, siblings, partner or your children. Or, you’re not sure what’s causing you to feel so fed up – you ‘should’ be happy. Building resilience does not eradicate the stress and anxiety of everyday life, but it does reduce the impact.
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Welcome To Spiritwell. I'm Maddy and I work as a therapeutic counsellor, supporting both adults and young people, from 11 years. Based on the Nottinghamshire and Derbyshire border, I offer appointments either face to face, over the phone or via video chat. I also offer an optional, free, 30 minute telephone introduction. Please note that my reply to email enquiries may initially go into your spam or junk folder!
Welcome To Spiritwell. I'm Maddy and I work as a therapeutic counsellor, supporting both adults and young people, from 11 years. Based on the Nottinghamshire and Derbyshire border, I offer appointments either face to face, over the phone or via video chat. I also offer an optional, free, 30 minute telephone introduction. Please note that my reply to email enquiries may initially go into your spam or junk folder!
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Nadya Tabelko
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello and a very warm welcome to you! My name is Nadya, I'm a fully qualified and BACP Accredited counsellor /psychotherapist with experience of working in organisations like Women's Aid, NHS Staff Counselling, CASY, Employee Assistance Programmes and my private practice. I have helped my clients with anxiety, depression, grief, work related stress, relationship issues and many more. Whatever your issues, we can explore them in a safe space of a counselling room without judgement or prejudice. - I can help, together we can make things clearer, find coping strategies, find a way forward, build confidence and self-esteem.
Hello and a very warm welcome to you! My name is Nadya, I'm a fully qualified and BACP Accredited counsellor /psychotherapist with experience of working in organisations like Women's Aid, NHS Staff Counselling, CASY, Employee Assistance Programmes and my private practice. I have helped my clients with anxiety, depression, grief, work related stress, relationship issues and many more. Whatever your issues, we can explore them in a safe space of a counselling room without judgement or prejudice. - I can help, together we can make things clearer, find coping strategies, find a way forward, build confidence and self-esteem.
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Lisa Fox
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Now Welcoming New Clients – Online & Phone Appointments Available. Are you feeling stuck or lost — like no matter how hard you try, you just don’t quite fit? Maybe life feels like it’s moving on around you while you’re standing still. Relationships might feel confusing or exhausting — something others seem to manage easily, but for you, it feels different. You might be wondering, “Why can’t I feel like they do? Why does life feel so hard?” If any of this sounds familiar, you're not alone — and you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Therapy with me can offer a safe space to explore what’s going on for you, at your own pace.
Now Welcoming New Clients – Online & Phone Appointments Available. Are you feeling stuck or lost — like no matter how hard you try, you just don’t quite fit? Maybe life feels like it’s moving on around you while you’re standing still. Relationships might feel confusing or exhausting — something others seem to manage easily, but for you, it feels different. You might be wondering, “Why can’t I feel like they do? Why does life feel so hard?” If any of this sounds familiar, you're not alone — and you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Therapy with me can offer a safe space to explore what’s going on for you, at your own pace.
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Sharon Turner MBACP, MNCS (accred)
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Life brings many challenges. You may be experiencing a range of issues; struggling to understand or come to terms with issues such as health, loss, trauma or family issues which can lead to uncomfortable feelings. Sometimes issues are complex and interlink into many areas of our lives creating anxiety, stress, depressed or grief. I have experience working with all these and the different ways they affect clients. Are difficult feelings affecting work, social and home life? Impacting on health or self esteem and self worth?
Life brings many challenges. You may be experiencing a range of issues; struggling to understand or come to terms with issues such as health, loss, trauma or family issues which can lead to uncomfortable feelings. Sometimes issues are complex and interlink into many areas of our lives creating anxiety, stress, depressed or grief. I have experience working with all these and the different ways they affect clients. Are difficult feelings affecting work, social and home life? Impacting on health or self esteem and self worth?
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Knighton counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Snr. Accred
Serves Area
I have been in practice for 25 years and during that time helped hundreds of clients with a wide range of emotional issues. I am a compassionate and approachable person that clients trust and feel at ease with. Relationship breakdowns and difficulties can leave people feeling lost and confused counselling can help them through this process of change . Past difficult experiences can have an impact on their lives in a negative way , I can help clients process past trauma so that they can live a more happy life. I was the clinical supervisor at a womens sexual abuse charity and the clinical lead of a cancer charity for 3 years .
I have been in practice for 25 years and during that time helped hundreds of clients with a wide range of emotional issues. I am a compassionate and approachable person that clients trust and feel at ease with. Relationship breakdowns and difficulties can leave people feeling lost and confused counselling can help them through this process of change . Past difficult experiences can have an impact on their lives in a negative way , I can help clients process past trauma so that they can live a more happy life. I was the clinical supervisor at a womens sexual abuse charity and the clinical lead of a cancer charity for 3 years .
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Helen Fagbohun
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Waitlist for new clients
I'm Helen & I'm an Accredited Integrative Psychotherapist & Counsellor. I know that it takes a huge amount of courage to seek out counselling. I recognise that & will provide an authentic, non judgemental approach to exploring whatever it is you might bring to therapy. An integrated approach means I draw on a number of specific therapies that can treat each client in a variety of situations, rather than having a single approach. I believe a therapeutic relationship & trust are of key importance in therapy work & have a down to earth, but highly compassionate approach, often taking a trauma informed approach to counselling.
I'm Helen & I'm an Accredited Integrative Psychotherapist & Counsellor. I know that it takes a huge amount of courage to seek out counselling. I recognise that & will provide an authentic, non judgemental approach to exploring whatever it is you might bring to therapy. An integrated approach means I draw on a number of specific therapies that can treat each client in a variety of situations, rather than having a single approach. I believe a therapeutic relationship & trust are of key importance in therapy work & have a down to earth, but highly compassionate approach, often taking a trauma informed approach to counselling.
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Tracy Simpson
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am an experienced, well-established BACP registered and NCPS accredited counsellor and supervisor with 15 years of experience in private practice in Barnsley, South Yorkshire. I accept private clients, including those covered by BUPA and AVIVA, offering face-to-face and online sessions. Whilst my focus is on anxiety and stress management, I have extensive experience in supporting clients through issues related to abuse, addiction, and bereavement. I use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic modalities to help clients develop practical strategies to regain control of their lives and find peace.
I am an experienced, well-established BACP registered and NCPS accredited counsellor and supervisor with 15 years of experience in private practice in Barnsley, South Yorkshire. I accept private clients, including those covered by BUPA and AVIVA, offering face-to-face and online sessions. Whilst my focus is on anxiety and stress management, I have extensive experience in supporting clients through issues related to abuse, addiction, and bereavement. I use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic modalities to help clients develop practical strategies to regain control of their lives and find peace.
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Susan Ellen Draper-Todkill
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
I provide Counselling and Hypnotherapy for a wide range of personal and work related issues including managing and eliminating stress, anxiety, low mood, alcohol reduction, weight management, low self esteem, confidence buidling, relationship issues, divorce and seperation.
I am specialised in responding to traumatic incidents supporting professional teams and individuals to manage the stress, anxiety and overthinking of difficult issues when confidentiality is paramount. I work with people who may otherwise go off sick. Normalising the unexpected situations that are out their in the media is a growing concern in the workplace.
I provide Counselling and Hypnotherapy for a wide range of personal and work related issues including managing and eliminating stress, anxiety, low mood, alcohol reduction, weight management, low self esteem, confidence buidling, relationship issues, divorce and seperation.
I am specialised in responding to traumatic incidents supporting professional teams and individuals to manage the stress, anxiety and overthinking of difficult issues when confidentiality is paramount. I work with people who may otherwise go off sick. Normalising the unexpected situations that are out their in the media is a growing concern in the workplace.
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Fay Petcher
Counsellor, MBACP
6 Endorsed
I've also spent five years as a divorce coach, assisting couples and individuals as they navigate the often difficult process of separation and divorce.
I hold a comprehensive set of qualifications and possess over 20 years of experience in the field of mental health and counselling. My journey has been marked by continuous growth and learning, allowing me to provide high-quality therapeutic services.
I've also spent five years as a divorce coach, assisting couples and individuals as they navigate the often difficult process of separation and divorce.
I hold a comprehensive set of qualifications and possess over 20 years of experience in the field of mental health and counselling. My journey has been marked by continuous growth and learning, allowing me to provide high-quality therapeutic services.
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Helen Catling
Counsellor, BACP
2 Endorsed
Mansfield NG21
Before becoming a counsellor I worked for over 30 years in the legal field with clients experiencing divorce and relationship breakdown.
Hello, I'm Helen. I'm an integrative counsellor working from a person-centred perspective, which means that whatever your concerns, I offer you empathy, warmth and a safe space to express yourself freely without judgment. I believe that you, the client, are unique and your emotions, concerns and goals are our priority. You are the expert in deciding what you need, I am here to guide you. I can offer a short course of focussed counselling or longer-term therapy, depending on your wishes.
Before becoming a counsellor I worked for over 30 years in the legal field with clients experiencing divorce and relationship breakdown.
Hello, I'm Helen. I'm an integrative counsellor working from a person-centred perspective, which means that whatever your concerns, I offer you empathy, warmth and a safe space to express yourself freely without judgment. I believe that you, the client, are unique and your emotions, concerns and goals are our priority. You are the expert in deciding what you need, I am here to guide you. I can offer a short course of focussed counselling or longer-term therapy, depending on your wishes.
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Cara Johnston
Psychotherapist, MSc, UKCP Trainee
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm Cara, a qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor, offering therapy in West London and online. I believe that whatever our current problems, we have the drive and potential to heal and grow.
I'm Cara, a qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor, offering therapy in West London and online. I believe that whatever our current problems, we have the drive and potential to heal and grow.
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Kate Carr Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Lincoln LN6
In a safe and confidential environment, I can help you explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours to gain an understanding of how they impact your quality of life. I pride myself on being creative and tailoring therapy to suit each individual, whilst using treatments that are based on results and evidence. I'm a firm believer that people don't fit into boxes and this is something I bring to therapy. I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and EMDR Therapist and offer face to face, telephone and online appointments. My associate therapists offer counselling, CBT and EMDR Therapy.
In a safe and confidential environment, I can help you explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours to gain an understanding of how they impact your quality of life. I pride myself on being creative and tailoring therapy to suit each individual, whilst using treatments that are based on results and evidence. I'm a firm believer that people don't fit into boxes and this is something I bring to therapy. I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and EMDR Therapist and offer face to face, telephone and online appointments. My associate therapists offer counselling, CBT and EMDR Therapy.
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Hannah Martin
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Life can be hard. Sometimes you may feel stuck, overwhelmed or simply just in need of some extra support. I offer a space that is free of judgement, friendly and empathic to help uncover and explore experiences and emotions that may be contributing to some of those occurrences in the present time. Whether it be an event in the present with which you feel the need for some added support as you work through it or if you're wanting to explore past experiences, we'll work at a pace set by you, in a boundaried and safe manner, offering either a short or long term counselling and psychotherapy service for you.
Life can be hard. Sometimes you may feel stuck, overwhelmed or simply just in need of some extra support. I offer a space that is free of judgement, friendly and empathic to help uncover and explore experiences and emotions that may be contributing to some of those occurrences in the present time. Whether it be an event in the present with which you feel the need for some added support as you work through it or if you're wanting to explore past experiences, we'll work at a pace set by you, in a boundaried and safe manner, offering either a short or long term counselling and psychotherapy service for you.
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RichRia Counselling
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Derby DE65
Hi there, I'm Richard, an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist. I blend different therapeutic approaches to suit your needs, combining techniques from person-centred, attachment-based, and cognitive-behavioural therapy with trauma-informed soothing and mindfulness to help heal trauma. Many of us experience anxiety, difficult relationships, self-doubt, or feeling overwhelmed without fully understanding why. It's a completely natural part of being human. Perhaps you notice patterns but wonder where they began. Understanding can help us heal emotional pain, gain confidence and reconnect to our life in a healthy, meaningful way
Hi there, I'm Richard, an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist. I blend different therapeutic approaches to suit your needs, combining techniques from person-centred, attachment-based, and cognitive-behavioural therapy with trauma-informed soothing and mindfulness to help heal trauma. Many of us experience anxiety, difficult relationships, self-doubt, or feeling overwhelmed without fully understanding why. It's a completely natural part of being human. Perhaps you notice patterns but wonder where they began. Understanding can help us heal emotional pain, gain confidence and reconnect to our life in a healthy, meaningful way
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Tracy Rowberry
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
2 Endorsed
Welcome, how is everything going for you today? Are you searching for some support, and feeling overwhelmed. Hopefully the information I have provided below will help. In a nutshell, the therapy I offer means we work together, at your pace, to explore and consider the outcomes you feel will support you in making the choices or changes you believe will benefit you going forward. It's your space to talk, consider and explore whatever you want to.
Welcome, how is everything going for you today? Are you searching for some support, and feeling overwhelmed. Hopefully the information I have provided below will help. In a nutshell, the therapy I offer means we work together, at your pace, to explore and consider the outcomes you feel will support you in making the choices or changes you believe will benefit you going forward. It's your space to talk, consider and explore whatever you want to.
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Dr Kimberley Broom
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Online Only
I am a qualified Counselling Psychologist, Couples Therapist and Counsellor currently working in an NHS internationally renowned rehabilitation centre, supporting individuals and families to move forward in their lives and resolve difficulties that may be preventing them from progressing in the way that they would like. I offer short and long term therapy tailored to your needs
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Emma Siobhan Rice
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I know how hard it can be to reach out - to find the right words, to feel worthy of help, to even know where to begin. I have been in that same seat and taking the first step is incredibly brave. My approach is warm, intuitive, and calmly paced. I offer a space where nothing is too much, and nothing needs to be hidden. Together we can explore what's felt heavy, what's been buried and what might be ready to move. I am a qualified psychotherapist offering gentle, grounded support for adults navigating neurodiversity, anxiety, depression, low self-worth, trauma, and the often unspoken complexities of life.
I know how hard it can be to reach out - to find the right words, to feel worthy of help, to even know where to begin. I have been in that same seat and taking the first step is incredibly brave. My approach is warm, intuitive, and calmly paced. I offer a space where nothing is too much, and nothing needs to be hidden. Together we can explore what's felt heavy, what's been buried and what might be ready to move. I am a qualified psychotherapist offering gentle, grounded support for adults navigating neurodiversity, anxiety, depression, low self-worth, trauma, and the often unspoken complexities of life.
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Shelley Smith - Sunrise Wellbeing
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
I am passionate about providing a therapeutic service to help people of all ages with their presenting issues, to support their mental health and wellbeing and to assist them with strategies and skills that can prevent their troubles from escalating. We are all just trying our best in this busy world but sometimes need a little support along the way, especially in times of difficulty. I developed Sunrise Wellbeing to provide a bespoke emotional support service, tailored to meet each individual’s needs. Through a friendly integrative approach, we can work together to understand emotions and develop healthy coping strategies.
I am passionate about providing a therapeutic service to help people of all ages with their presenting issues, to support their mental health and wellbeing and to assist them with strategies and skills that can prevent their troubles from escalating. We are all just trying our best in this busy world but sometimes need a little support along the way, especially in times of difficulty. I developed Sunrise Wellbeing to provide a bespoke emotional support service, tailored to meet each individual’s needs. Through a friendly integrative approach, we can work together to understand emotions and develop healthy coping strategies.
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Paula Charnley
Counsellor, MSc, BACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hi I’m Paula I qualified with a Masters in Counselling Psychotherapy in 2017. Since then, I’ve also trained in Couples Counselling. My basis of therapy is Person Centred, which means that I take cues from you to guide the process, so that there is no hurry to talk about things until you feel ready. My all-round approach is integrative as I incorporate connection with your mind, body and spirit into our Talking Therapy sessions. Perhaps your first query is; “Do I need Counselling?”. It’s a very common thought. Whether you are feeling confused, unsure, stuck, overflowing with emotions or numb, you are now in the right place.
Hi I’m Paula I qualified with a Masters in Counselling Psychotherapy in 2017. Since then, I’ve also trained in Couples Counselling. My basis of therapy is Person Centred, which means that I take cues from you to guide the process, so that there is no hurry to talk about things until you feel ready. My all-round approach is integrative as I incorporate connection with your mind, body and spirit into our Talking Therapy sessions. Perhaps your first query is; “Do I need Counselling?”. It’s a very common thought. Whether you are feeling confused, unsure, stuck, overflowing with emotions or numb, you are now in the right place.
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Divorce Counsellors
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.