Couples Counselling in Kingston upon Thames

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Dr Maria Chiara Barbuscia
Psychotherapist, PhD, ACP
Child psychotherapy uses regular times and settings and the availability of the psychotherapist's mind to establish an emotionally containing relationship in which the child's own view of the world can be expressed, through words and/or actions including play and creative work.
I am a Child and Adolescent Psychotherapist with several years of experience working with children, young people and their families. I offer assessments, short-term and long-term interventions for a variety of difficulties, including anxiety, depression, self-harm, trauma, eating difficulties, school refusal and struggles connected to the effects of neurodiversity. I have been working in the NHS, in primary and secondary school settings, in the charity sector as well as privately.
Child psychotherapy uses regular times and settings and the availability of the psychotherapist's mind to establish an emotionally containing relationship in which the child's own view of the world can be expressed, through words and/or actions including play and creative work.
I am a Child and Adolescent Psychotherapist with several years of experience working with children, young people and their families. I offer assessments, short-term and long-term interventions for a variety of difficulties, including anxiety, depression, self-harm, trauma, eating difficulties, school refusal and struggles connected to the effects of neurodiversity. I have been working in the NHS, in primary and secondary school settings, in the charity sector as well as privately.
020 4572 5110 View 020 4572 5110
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Ricky Brown
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
I trained as a psychotherapist later in life following a previous career working with vulnerable individuals. Coupled with my now extensive psychotherapeutic training, I am a knowledgeable, conscientious and empathetic individual whom is well respected within the field.
I trained as a psychotherapist later in life following a previous career working with vulnerable individuals. Coupled with my now extensive psychotherapeutic training, I am a knowledgeable, conscientious and empathetic individual whom is well respected within the field.
01748 901333 View 01748 901333
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Therapy with Nadia
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
If you are here, it means two things: one; you are struggling, in some capacity, and two: you are ready to stop struggling. That is a potent place to be. I am a qualified and BACP registered Psychosynthesis Counsellor offering in-person psychosynthesis counselling and trauma recovery therapy in Battersea, Clapham and online for adults and young people. Reaching out for counselling can feel like a big step. I offer a free 20-minute consultation call so you can ask questions and decide whether I feel like the right therapist for you. You can contact me by email or text on 07771687128 to arrange your 20-minute call.
If you are here, it means two things: one; you are struggling, in some capacity, and two: you are ready to stop struggling. That is a potent place to be. I am a qualified and BACP registered Psychosynthesis Counsellor offering in-person psychosynthesis counselling and trauma recovery therapy in Battersea, Clapham and online for adults and young people. Reaching out for counselling can feel like a big step. I offer a free 20-minute consultation call so you can ask questions and decide whether I feel like the right therapist for you. You can contact me by email or text on 07771687128 to arrange your 20-minute call.
020 4652 0128 View 020 4652 0128
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Aldona Olchanowska
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
I work with individuals/ couples who struggle with depression isolation loneliness loss bereavement attachment separation and abandonment family conflicts life transition child related issues adoptive parents and adoptee issues eating disorders food issues health related issues and illness neurodegenerative disease in the family cross-cultural issues
Hello, I am Aldona. You are here so maybe it means you are thinking about counselling or psychotherapy. Investing in mental health is as important as physical. Anybody can benefit from therapy no matter what age or gender you are. It can be very rewarding because it helps you be the person you want to be. In these times of uncertainty, uneasy economic and political situation; isolation, bereavement and also historic emotional issues could be experienced more frequently and intensively. Difficulties experienced for a prolonged time can lead to somatic problems. “A good life is a process, not a state of being" (Carl Rogers)
I work with individuals/ couples who struggle with depression isolation loneliness loss bereavement attachment separation and abandonment family conflicts life transition child related issues adoptive parents and adoptee issues eating disorders food issues health related issues and illness neurodegenerative disease in the family cross-cultural issues
Hello, I am Aldona. You are here so maybe it means you are thinking about counselling or psychotherapy. Investing in mental health is as important as physical. Anybody can benefit from therapy no matter what age or gender you are. It can be very rewarding because it helps you be the person you want to be. In these times of uncertainty, uneasy economic and political situation; isolation, bereavement and also historic emotional issues could be experienced more frequently and intensively. Difficulties experienced for a prolonged time can lead to somatic problems. “A good life is a process, not a state of being" (Carl Rogers)
020 3962 1014 View 020 3962 1014
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Zara Kadir
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Psychotherapy is not a hierarchical relationship whereby the psychotherapist knows more than the client.
I don't believe that there is one method of psychotherapy that suits everyone. I believe in adapting my way of working for each client I meet. You may feel that you want to work short-term on a specific aspect of your life. You may feel that you want to take time to look back on your early life experiences or you may not know where to start or where you are going. Whatever your situation is, I will do my best to see the world as you do and, where possible, offer you an alternative perspective. I believe the same is true for children and using sand tray and art materials I allow children to process their emotions through play.
Psychotherapy is not a hierarchical relationship whereby the psychotherapist knows more than the client.
I don't believe that there is one method of psychotherapy that suits everyone. I believe in adapting my way of working for each client I meet. You may feel that you want to work short-term on a specific aspect of your life. You may feel that you want to take time to look back on your early life experiences or you may not know where to start or where you are going. Whatever your situation is, I will do my best to see the world as you do and, where possible, offer you an alternative perspective. I believe the same is true for children and using sand tray and art materials I allow children to process their emotions through play.
020 7078 9406 View 020 7078 9406
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Jayne Ritchie Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
My first training in therapy was ‘Person Centred’. This therapy places emphasis on providing a safe, empathic, non-judgemental space to discuss whatever is troubling you. I have come to specialise in Trauma and Complex PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder). EMDR is clinically proven to heal all kinds of traumatic experiences. More recently, I have begun to incorporate Internal Family Systems (IFS) theory into my practice as it helps to identify different parts of ourselves that can sometimes be in conflict.
My first training in therapy was ‘Person Centred’. This therapy places emphasis on providing a safe, empathic, non-judgemental space to discuss whatever is troubling you. I have come to specialise in Trauma and Complex PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder). EMDR is clinically proven to heal all kinds of traumatic experiences. More recently, I have begun to incorporate Internal Family Systems (IFS) theory into my practice as it helps to identify different parts of ourselves that can sometimes be in conflict.
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Sarah Weir
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
These difficulties could be linked to the way that you see yourself or to patterns in relationships that stop you getting what you want from life.
I have worked as clinical lead in a range of settings and have experience in working with many different issues, symptoms and psychiatric disorders. This experience enables me to help you to get to the heart of your difficulties and to help you to understand the underlying cause. Most of us would change if we could and therapy can help to understand the things that we're not aware of that stop us from living life more fully and feeling better about ourselves.
These difficulties could be linked to the way that you see yourself or to patterns in relationships that stop you getting what you want from life.
I have worked as clinical lead in a range of settings and have experience in working with many different issues, symptoms and psychiatric disorders. This experience enables me to help you to get to the heart of your difficulties and to help you to understand the underlying cause. Most of us would change if we could and therapy can help to understand the things that we're not aware of that stop us from living life more fully and feeling better about ourselves.
01372 239683 View 01372 239683
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Dr Hema Chowdhury
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Thank you for visiting my page, perhaps you are struggling with relationships, overwhelmed with family commitments or work-related stress.
I am trained in multiple psychological modalities and adapt my approach to suit your needs. I work with depression, anxiety, life transitions and the various forms in which distress presents itself to us. I specialise in long-term chronic illness, disordered eating and culture and identity related work. I am also offering autism assessments (ADOS-2 / ADI-R)
Thank you for visiting my page, perhaps you are struggling with relationships, overwhelmed with family commitments or work-related stress.
I am trained in multiple psychological modalities and adapt my approach to suit your needs. I work with depression, anxiety, life transitions and the various forms in which distress presents itself to us. I specialise in long-term chronic illness, disordered eating and culture and identity related work. I am also offering autism assessments (ADOS-2 / ADI-R)
020 8125 4061 View 020 8125 4061
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Federica De Angelis
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Do you find life or relationships difficult ?
Experienced in working with a wide range of highly complex issues including trauma, addiction, chronic and life threatening health conditions, and sexual health, I have provided counselling and psychotherapy in a variety of social and mental health settings including the UCL Student Psychological Services, The South London and Maudsley and Kingston NHS Trust
Do you find life or relationships difficult ?
Experienced in working with a wide range of highly complex issues including trauma, addiction, chronic and life threatening health conditions, and sexual health, I have provided counselling and psychotherapy in a variety of social and mental health settings including the UCL Student Psychological Services, The South London and Maudsley and Kingston NHS Trust
07902 776355 View 07902 776355
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Angelina Kovacheva
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Online Only
I specialise in individual therapy and couple therapy.
Your well-being is the heart of a life lived fully. We often think of health as physical, but mental health is just as vital. Therapy is a gentle process of turning toward yourself with curiosity instead of judgement. It’s about building the self-awareness you need to create lasting change. You deserve a space where you don't have to carry that weight alone. Whether you’ve been in therapy before or are taking a brave first step today, I know how daunting it feels to find the "right" person. My goal is to truly listen to the nuances of your life and tailor our sessions to meet you exactly where you are.
I specialise in individual therapy and couple therapy.
Your well-being is the heart of a life lived fully. We often think of health as physical, but mental health is just as vital. Therapy is a gentle process of turning toward yourself with curiosity instead of judgement. It’s about building the self-awareness you need to create lasting change. You deserve a space where you don't have to carry that weight alone. Whether you’ve been in therapy before or are taking a brave first step today, I know how daunting it feels to find the "right" person. My goal is to truly listen to the nuances of your life and tailor our sessions to meet you exactly where you are.
020 4634 5460 View 020 4634 5460
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Merve Bayer Counseling
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
Serves Area
Üzüntüyü,hüznü ya da kederi hayatımızdan tamamen çıkaramayız.Beklenmedik olaylar olur,istenmeyen olaylar yaşanır,durumlar ve kişiler değişir. Nasıl ki uykumuz geliyor ve yorgun oluyorsak, nasıl ki acıkıyor ve susuyorsak, bazen çok iyi haberler alıyor ve bazen derin kayıplar yaşıyorsak, bazen gülüyor bazen ağlıyorsak duygularımız, ihtiyaçlarımız ve deneyimlediklerimiz anlık olarak değişir, gelip geçer... Önemli olan bu duyguların ne kadar sürdüğü ve bizi ne kadar etkilediğidir... Yağan yağmurdan sonra hiç gökkuşağı çıkmıyor, güneş tekrar parıldamıyor, ağaçlar yeniden çiçek açmıyorsa sizin için iklim değişmiş demektir.
Üzüntüyü,hüznü ya da kederi hayatımızdan tamamen çıkaramayız.Beklenmedik olaylar olur,istenmeyen olaylar yaşanır,durumlar ve kişiler değişir. Nasıl ki uykumuz geliyor ve yorgun oluyorsak, nasıl ki acıkıyor ve susuyorsak, bazen çok iyi haberler alıyor ve bazen derin kayıplar yaşıyorsak, bazen gülüyor bazen ağlıyorsak duygularımız, ihtiyaçlarımız ve deneyimlediklerimiz anlık olarak değişir, gelip geçer... Önemli olan bu duyguların ne kadar sürdüğü ve bizi ne kadar etkilediğidir... Yağan yağmurdan sonra hiç gökkuşağı çıkmıyor, güneş tekrar parıldamıyor, ağaçlar yeniden çiçek açmıyorsa sizin için iklim değişmiş demektir.
020 3668 5465 View 020 3668 5465
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Sinthia Tijan
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I have worked as a primary clinician, couple and family therapist, a group facilitator and supervisor in various settings and ran parenting skills, family and divorce groups.
I work with genuine care, empathy and am non-judgemental. I am very passionate about helping and offer a warm and nurturing space for you to explore your presenting issues which you may be finding challenging and distressing.
I have worked as a primary clinician, couple and family therapist, a group facilitator and supervisor in various settings and ran parenting skills, family and divorce groups.
I work with genuine care, empathy and am non-judgemental. I am very passionate about helping and offer a warm and nurturing space for you to explore your presenting issues which you may be finding challenging and distressing.
020 3958 4113 View 020 3958 4113
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Petra Titlbachova
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
I am a UKCP-accredited systemic psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families.
I have worked with children and adolescents that have been treated at Great Ormond Street Hospital. Since 2012 I have worked as a Family and Systemic Psychotherapist with individuals, couples and families in my private practice, The Brandon Centre and The Tavistock Centre, a specialist mental health trust based in north London.
I am a UKCP-accredited systemic psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families.
I have worked with children and adolescents that have been treated at Great Ormond Street Hospital. Since 2012 I have worked as a Family and Systemic Psychotherapist with individuals, couples and families in my private practice, The Brandon Centre and The Tavistock Centre, a specialist mental health trust based in north London.
01372 235693 View 01372 235693
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Aude Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Benefit from my Dual Approach of Psychotherapy and Transformational Coaching empowering your healing and long-lasting positive changes. Hello, my name is Aude and I am a BACP registered Psychotherapist and Transformational Coach with over thirteen years of clinical experience working with adults and teenagers from all walks of life, personalities, backgrounds, cultures and genders. By addressing both psychological and practical challenges, my unique approach can foster more lasting and meaningful changes to meet the full spectrum of your personal needs, moving seamlessly between therapeutic techniques and coaching strategies.
Benefit from my Dual Approach of Psychotherapy and Transformational Coaching empowering your healing and long-lasting positive changes. Hello, my name is Aude and I am a BACP registered Psychotherapist and Transformational Coach with over thirteen years of clinical experience working with adults and teenagers from all walks of life, personalities, backgrounds, cultures and genders. By addressing both psychological and practical challenges, my unique approach can foster more lasting and meaningful changes to meet the full spectrum of your personal needs, moving seamlessly between therapeutic techniques and coaching strategies.
01793 540243 View 01793 540243
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Liz Goldspink
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
You might be feeling stuck in a relationship or a job which just isn’t working anymore.
My name is Liz and I am a qualified counsellor and a registered member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists. I have a postgraduate diploma in therapeutic counselling and I work integratively which means that I draw on a variety of approaches in my counselling practice.
You might be feeling stuck in a relationship or a job which just isn’t working anymore.
My name is Liz and I am a qualified counsellor and a registered member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists. I have a postgraduate diploma in therapeutic counselling and I work integratively which means that I draw on a variety of approaches in my counselling practice.
01372 233813 View 01372 233813
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Shally Gadhoke
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Working together with compassion to create a safe, non-judgemental, confidential space, building our relationship and trust for you to bring the whole of you.
Welcome! I am a British Asian committed psychotherapist and supervisor working for many years across all ages. My training and experience enable me to work with varied issues including complex trauma and in many different ways, finding the best approach for you. I have been delivering training to organisations and therapists and have been a member of an Associate Parliamentary Group on children in care and delivered a presentation at the House of Lords. Many people come with underlying childhood issues including abuse and some like to work with someone that has an understanding of the impact of racism, culture and identity.
Working together with compassion to create a safe, non-judgemental, confidential space, building our relationship and trust for you to bring the whole of you.
Welcome! I am a British Asian committed psychotherapist and supervisor working for many years across all ages. My training and experience enable me to work with varied issues including complex trauma and in many different ways, finding the best approach for you. I have been delivering training to organisations and therapists and have been a member of an Associate Parliamentary Group on children in care and delivered a presentation at the House of Lords. Many people come with underlying childhood issues including abuse and some like to work with someone that has an understanding of the impact of racism, culture and identity.
01489 357142 View 01489 357142
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Stephen Gier
Counsellor, PsychD, MBACP
Serves Area
Therapist, psychologist, university lecturer, teacher. Take the first step and reach out to me if you struggle with anxiety, depression, trauma, bereavement, ADHD, OCD or other worries. We’ll explore your needs and see if we’re a good fit. I offer a supportive environment where the sessions are shaped by your needs. No concern is too small or too large, whatever you want to bring to the sessions is entirely up to you. I will deploy a range of approaches in our sessions drawn from person centred therapy, CBT, psychodynamic and other modalities to ensure you are helped in a way that best suits you as an individual.
Therapist, psychologist, university lecturer, teacher. Take the first step and reach out to me if you struggle with anxiety, depression, trauma, bereavement, ADHD, OCD or other worries. We’ll explore your needs and see if we’re a good fit. I offer a supportive environment where the sessions are shaped by your needs. No concern is too small or too large, whatever you want to bring to the sessions is entirely up to you. I will deploy a range of approaches in our sessions drawn from person centred therapy, CBT, psychodynamic and other modalities to ensure you are helped in a way that best suits you as an individual.
07580 963442 View 07580 963442
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PANKAJ JOSHI
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Online Only
Their aims may include alleviating symptoms of distress, improving relationships, developing confidence, or processing past trauma.
Originally trained in Person-Centred Therapy, I now integrate different approaches depending on your needs. The first session explores your reasons for counselling, identify how your problems are affecting your thoughts, feelings, emotions and behaviour on a day-to-day basis and agree on the priorities. Thereafter, I will work with you to implement changes.
Their aims may include alleviating symptoms of distress, improving relationships, developing confidence, or processing past trauma.
Originally trained in Person-Centred Therapy, I now integrate different approaches depending on your needs. The first session explores your reasons for counselling, identify how your problems are affecting your thoughts, feelings, emotions and behaviour on a day-to-day basis and agree on the priorities. Thereafter, I will work with you to implement changes.
020 4634 4119 View 020 4634 4119
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Renata P Andrade
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Online Only
I'm a Psychotherapist supporting individuals and couples online.
The most rewarding thing about my work is witnessing a client walk away lighter, starting to believe in their strengths again, making the changes they wish for, being kinder to themselves, and regaining hope for the future. My clients tell me that working with me is gently challenging and that I offer a safe, understanding, and generative space.
I'm a Psychotherapist supporting individuals and couples online.
The most rewarding thing about my work is witnessing a client walk away lighter, starting to believe in their strengths again, making the changes they wish for, being kinder to themselves, and regaining hope for the future. My clients tell me that working with me is gently challenging and that I offer a safe, understanding, and generative space.
020 3835 2539 View 020 3835 2539
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Alliance Counselling: Louise Critchley-Thomas
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Online Only
I regularly work with couples and families in Relationship Counselling.
Each of us experience difficulties at some point in our lives and having a confidential, safe place to discuss problems, allows us to share our burdens more readily. Asking for help is a brave step, therefore it is important to me that my clients feel heard and understood. Your problems are unique to you and this requires a flexible, individual approach. I am a fully qualified and experienced psychotherapist, trained in Person-Centred Therapy, I offer a warm, supportive and non-judgemental space for clients, where they can work through their problems, at their pace.
I regularly work with couples and families in Relationship Counselling.
Each of us experience difficulties at some point in our lives and having a confidential, safe place to discuss problems, allows us to share our burdens more readily. Asking for help is a brave step, therefore it is important to me that my clients feel heard and understood. Your problems are unique to you and this requires a flexible, individual approach. I am a fully qualified and experienced psychotherapist, trained in Person-Centred Therapy, I offer a warm, supportive and non-judgemental space for clients, where they can work through their problems, at their pace.
0151 541 0540 View 0151 541 0540

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FAQ - About Couples Therapy
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.