Marriage Counselling in Iver Heath

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Vanita Therapy
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Serves Area
I have worked on issues that involve significant life changes including: changing schools/areas, marriage, having a baby, bereavement/loss, breakdown of relationships, etc.
Are you feeling stressed, anxious, lonely, down? Have you had a life-changing experience occur and don’t know how to deal with your thoughts and emotions? Do you want to make changes and not sure where to start? A time and space can be provided to focus exclusively on your needs. Sessions can be held as regularly as necessary to support the changes you want.
I have worked on issues that involve significant life changes including: changing schools/areas, marriage, having a baby, bereavement/loss, breakdown of relationships, etc.
Are you feeling stressed, anxious, lonely, down? Have you had a life-changing experience occur and don’t know how to deal with your thoughts and emotions? Do you want to make changes and not sure where to start? A time and space can be provided to focus exclusively on your needs. Sessions can be held as regularly as necessary to support the changes you want.
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Nomir Ahmed
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
I offer psychological therapy and counselling sessions to clients with a wide range of mental health problems. There is no one-size-fits-all. I believe in creating a safe space for transformational conversations that will help you move forward through the challenges that you are facing. I hold an open mind when asking about what a person requires help with and strive to identify strengths alongside areas they are struggling in. I provide tailored evidence-based psychological interventions which draws from cognitive behavioural therapy, attachment theory and systemic practice to help you find your own ‘fit’.
I offer psychological therapy and counselling sessions to clients with a wide range of mental health problems. There is no one-size-fits-all. I believe in creating a safe space for transformational conversations that will help you move forward through the challenges that you are facing. I hold an open mind when asking about what a person requires help with and strive to identify strengths alongside areas they are struggling in. I provide tailored evidence-based psychological interventions which draws from cognitive behavioural therapy, attachment theory and systemic practice to help you find your own ‘fit’.
020 3870 2497 View 020 3870 2497

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Specialised training with Esther Perel enriches my marriage counselling approach, exploring issues like freedom versus security, struggles with intimacy and connection, emotional shutdowns, conflicts over finances and recurring arguments.
I offer a warm, safe, and practical approach to help individuals with anxiety, depression, PTSD, trauma, and more. Specialising in couples and family issues, I address parenting struggles, trust issues, and conflict resolution. Using therapies like Psychodynamic, CBT, EMDR, and Gottman Method, sessions are tailored to each client to foster positive change.
Specialised training with Esther Perel enriches my marriage counselling approach, exploring issues like freedom versus security, struggles with intimacy and connection, emotional shutdowns, conflicts over finances and recurring arguments.
I offer a warm, safe, and practical approach to help individuals with anxiety, depression, PTSD, trauma, and more. Specialising in couples and family issues, I address parenting struggles, trust issues, and conflict resolution. Using therapies like Psychodynamic, CBT, EMDR, and Gottman Method, sessions are tailored to each client to foster positive change.
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Marzena Steels
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Issues: relationships, bereavement, marital, coping skills, emotional disturbance, adolescent / teenager, children / trauma, stress, Drawing and Talking as a therapy tool.
Whatever you are feeling now, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Life can be tricky sometimes and you may think that people can't understand you because of what you are going through. Sometimes you need someone to listen to you, to help you to understand what is actually happening. I can help you to walk through this journey, to find a way to a safe place which respects your values and beliefs. You can talk about any issues that bother you and explore your emotions without judgment. I have 19 years of training and experience in a broad range of topics in psychotherapy counselling and educational therapy.
Issues: relationships, bereavement, marital, coping skills, emotional disturbance, adolescent / teenager, children / trauma, stress, Drawing and Talking as a therapy tool.
Whatever you are feeling now, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Life can be tricky sometimes and you may think that people can't understand you because of what you are going through. Sometimes you need someone to listen to you, to help you to understand what is actually happening. I can help you to walk through this journey, to find a way to a safe place which respects your values and beliefs. You can talk about any issues that bother you and explore your emotions without judgment. I have 19 years of training and experience in a broad range of topics in psychotherapy counselling and educational therapy.
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Sidcup Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Sidcup DA15
I specialise in anxiety, self esteem issues, disability issues, grief, eating disorders, bullying, anger management, marital issues, relationship issues, school issues, work place issues, social anxiety, healthy anxiety and panic.
Welcome! Looking for a way forward, a chance to be listened and helped. During this time I am offering counselling via Zoom, Skye, Whats App video call or telephone counselling. I am a BACP Accredited Integrative Counsellor with 14 years' experience of working with adults and children in private practice and schools.
I specialise in anxiety, self esteem issues, disability issues, grief, eating disorders, bullying, anger management, marital issues, relationship issues, school issues, work place issues, social anxiety, healthy anxiety and panic.
Welcome! Looking for a way forward, a chance to be listened and helped. During this time I am offering counselling via Zoom, Skye, Whats App video call or telephone counselling. I am a BACP Accredited Integrative Counsellor with 14 years' experience of working with adults and children in private practice and schools.
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MD of Harley St Psychotherapy Ltd
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
London W2
I can help identify and resolve marital issues in a non-judgemental space to work on communication and difficulties.
I have been specialising in relationships and couples for over half of my career, and I offer couples sessions in London & online. NEW! Evenings / Saturday am sessions in London W2 open now. I work 1-1 with anxiety, depression, stress, panic and anything which is making you feel unhappy, to identify the root of the problem and resolve it to help you to become a more contented version of you. If you are nervous, feel free to give me a call and I can put you at ease. If you are a couple, we can set up an initial session and discuss your relationship issues and goals. We can work face to face and online, and have an online team.
I can help identify and resolve marital issues in a non-judgemental space to work on communication and difficulties.
I have been specialising in relationships and couples for over half of my career, and I offer couples sessions in London & online. NEW! Evenings / Saturday am sessions in London W2 open now. I work 1-1 with anxiety, depression, stress, panic and anything which is making you feel unhappy, to identify the root of the problem and resolve it to help you to become a more contented version of you. If you are nervous, feel free to give me a call and I can put you at ease. If you are a couple, we can set up an initial session and discuss your relationship issues and goals. We can work face to face and online, and have an online team.
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Regina Arnold
Counsellor, MA, COSRT Accred
1 Endorsed
Online Only
new baby), Premarital & Marital issues, LGBTQIA+ Identity, Sexual self-esteem, Sexual trauma, Conflict & Communication Difficulties, Opening Up, Chemsex
My intention as your therapist is to both witness you and challenge existing dynamics and beliefs that may not be serving you anymore. All of my training as an integrative therapist and relationship coach are available to you in our sessions. This means we can work exploratively, creatively or more pragmatically - depending on what would best support you. At present, I am only taking on new individual clients as I am at capacity for work with couples. I have day time and early evening availability only, my evenings have a waitlist. I work Monday - Friday and offer sliding scale pricing.
new baby), Premarital & Marital issues, LGBTQIA+ Identity, Sexual self-esteem, Sexual trauma, Conflict & Communication Difficulties, Opening Up, Chemsex
My intention as your therapist is to both witness you and challenge existing dynamics and beliefs that may not be serving you anymore. All of my training as an integrative therapist and relationship coach are available to you in our sessions. This means we can work exploratively, creatively or more pragmatically - depending on what would best support you. At present, I am only taking on new individual clients as I am at capacity for work with couples. I have day time and early evening availability only, my evenings have a waitlist. I work Monday - Friday and offer sliding scale pricing.
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Transformative Healing
Counsellor, MBACP
Do you feel stuck in your work, relationship or marriage?
My therapeutic approach utilises integrated positive counselling techniques designed to capitalise on your strengths to help you overcome whatever is holding you back, using CBT (focusing on the here and now), Psychodynamic (conscious and unconscious thought and emotional patterns), NLP (neuro linguistic programming) & PCT (Person Centred Therapy)
Do you feel stuck in your work, relationship or marriage?
My therapeutic approach utilises integrated positive counselling techniques designed to capitalise on your strengths to help you overcome whatever is holding you back, using CBT (focusing on the here and now), Psychodynamic (conscious and unconscious thought and emotional patterns), NLP (neuro linguistic programming) & PCT (Person Centred Therapy)
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Abi Perryman
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Serves Area
With my focus on both Individual and Couples Counselling (any relationship between 2 people that focuses on relational dynamics eg: marital, family dynamics) there are many areas I maybe able to help.
I use an integrative approach to counselling meaning I draw upon a number of theories and modalities to best serve my clients personal journey. I hope Bloom Room has and will continue to be a place where my clients can Blossom. I have a wide scope of techniques and experience that helps to underpin the clients talking therapy journey.
With my focus on both Individual and Couples Counselling (any relationship between 2 people that focuses on relational dynamics eg: marital, family dynamics) there are many areas I maybe able to help.
I use an integrative approach to counselling meaning I draw upon a number of theories and modalities to best serve my clients personal journey. I hope Bloom Room has and will continue to be a place where my clients can Blossom. I have a wide scope of techniques and experience that helps to underpin the clients talking therapy journey.
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Funmi Oni
Counsellor, MBACP
London EC1V
Are you facing- Relationship conflicts or marriage struggles- - Job dissatisfaction or life stress - - Low self-esteem or confidence issues - - Grief from miscarriage - - Communication challenges - Together, we'll develop practical strategies to navigate these challenges and build a more fulfilling life.
My unique approach combines deep-rooted counseling work with practical coaching strategies, helping you not just overcome challenges, but thrive long-term. NEW: Transform Your Self-Esteem Join our affordable 4-week small group workshop designed to build lasting confidence. Limited spots available - Starts January 27 See workshop flier for dates and pricing
Are you facing- Relationship conflicts or marriage struggles- - Job dissatisfaction or life stress - - Low self-esteem or confidence issues - - Grief from miscarriage - - Communication challenges - Together, we'll develop practical strategies to navigate these challenges and build a more fulfilling life.
My unique approach combines deep-rooted counseling work with practical coaching strategies, helping you not just overcome challenges, but thrive long-term. NEW: Transform Your Self-Esteem Join our affordable 4-week small group workshop designed to build lasting confidence. Limited spots available - Starts January 27 See workshop flier for dates and pricing
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Dr Yordan K. Zhekov
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Watford WD18
I have four Master's degrees and a Doctorate in areas of Theology, Marriage, Divorce, Addiction, Psychology, Psychotherapy and Counselling.
Are you feeling depressed, anxious, stressed or struggling with everyday life? Perhaps you are experiencing feelings you can't quite identify? Are you looking for help with various life challenging issues/situations? Have you got to the point where you can't go on alone and need someone else to help you? Whatever you are facing, you no longer have to do this alone, I am here to provide you with relevant support and address your needs. As an integrative counsellor I am using a compilation of therapeutic methods tailored to the individual's needs and goals providing an environment for enablement and empowerment of their achievement.
I have four Master's degrees and a Doctorate in areas of Theology, Marriage, Divorce, Addiction, Psychology, Psychotherapy and Counselling.
Are you feeling depressed, anxious, stressed or struggling with everyday life? Perhaps you are experiencing feelings you can't quite identify? Are you looking for help with various life challenging issues/situations? Have you got to the point where you can't go on alone and need someone else to help you? Whatever you are facing, you no longer have to do this alone, I am here to provide you with relevant support and address your needs. As an integrative counsellor I am using a compilation of therapeutic methods tailored to the individual's needs and goals providing an environment for enablement and empowerment of their achievement.
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Janet Hull
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
London SW6
If you are suffering the loss of a loved one, a job, a home, a marriage, I can support you through your sadness and confusion.
My specialist training is in cognitive analytic therapy (CAT), emotion-focused therapy (EFT), cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) and art therapy (IATE). I am also qualified in Integrated Psychotherapy and Counselling. I provide solution-focused short or longer term therapy according to need. I work face to face, mostly online, with some in-person.
If you are suffering the loss of a loved one, a job, a home, a marriage, I can support you through your sadness and confusion.
My specialist training is in cognitive analytic therapy (CAT), emotion-focused therapy (EFT), cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) and art therapy (IATE). I am also qualified in Integrated Psychotherapy and Counselling. I provide solution-focused short or longer term therapy according to need. I work face to face, mostly online, with some in-person.
07767 823602 View 07767 823602
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Central London Relationship Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London W1W
Our services include individual therapy, couple therapy, divorce support, psychosexual therapy, pre- marital and pre-cohabiting counselling.
Central London Relationship Therapy (CLRT) understands that every relationship is unique and can face its own challenges. Our team of experienced therapists is dedicated to providing a safe and empathetic space where you can explore your difficulties, improve communication, and develop deeper, more authentic connections. At CLRT, we tailor our therapeutic approaches to meet your specific needs. With over a decade of experience across various areas, our therapists are here to help you navigate your journey with compassion and understanding, empowering you to build the fulfilling relationship you desire.
Our services include individual therapy, couple therapy, divorce support, psychosexual therapy, pre- marital and pre-cohabiting counselling.
Central London Relationship Therapy (CLRT) understands that every relationship is unique and can face its own challenges. Our team of experienced therapists is dedicated to providing a safe and empathetic space where you can explore your difficulties, improve communication, and develop deeper, more authentic connections. At CLRT, we tailor our therapeutic approaches to meet your specific needs. With over a decade of experience across various areas, our therapists are here to help you navigate your journey with compassion and understanding, empowering you to build the fulfilling relationship you desire.
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Helma Marlow
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Do you have communication problems in your marriage or other relationships?
I am an Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor (MBACP) working with Adults/Young People (16 +) and with couples (BCS). I use Person Centred and Psychodynamic Theory modalities in my work. I've had some training in Bereavement (Cruse) also CBT and Transactional Analysis. I work collaboratively with my clients, to find their individual attributes and strengths.
Do you have communication problems in your marriage or other relationships?
I am an Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor (MBACP) working with Adults/Young People (16 +) and with couples (BCS). I use Person Centred and Psychodynamic Theory modalities in my work. I've had some training in Bereavement (Cruse) also CBT and Transactional Analysis. I work collaboratively with my clients, to find their individual attributes and strengths.
020 3984 7834 View 020 3984 7834
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Valdete Kapedani
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London NW3
I work with Couples & Individuals who present with: Narcissistic Personality, Borderline Personality, Bipolar, Trauma, ADHD, PTSD, Anxiety, Infidellity, Marriage, Divorce, Addictions & OCD in a caring, safe, confidential & non-judgmental space.
Using Psychodynamic and CBT approach. In our therapeutic work together I will help you explore & navigate your emotional difficulties, relationship challenges, your past & present unconscious rooted patterns. This will help you develop self-awareness, personal growth, and you will build healthier ways of relating to yourself and others.
I work with Couples & Individuals who present with: Narcissistic Personality, Borderline Personality, Bipolar, Trauma, ADHD, PTSD, Anxiety, Infidellity, Marriage, Divorce, Addictions & OCD in a caring, safe, confidential & non-judgmental space.
Using Psychodynamic and CBT approach. In our therapeutic work together I will help you explore & navigate your emotional difficulties, relationship challenges, your past & present unconscious rooted patterns. This will help you develop self-awareness, personal growth, and you will build healthier ways of relating to yourself and others.
020 3856 4178 View 020 3856 4178
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Sexuality Space
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
London SE1
Waitlist for new clients
Whether navigating LGBTQIA identity, BDSM/kink dynamics, polyamory, non-monogamy, sex work, or societal pressures around heteronormativity like marriage and family, I am here to support you.
Welcome! I am Kalvin at Sexuality Space, a modern therapy practice that specialises in mental health, sexual identity, relationships, LGBTQIA+, kink, confidence building, sexual health, non-monogamy, sex worker support and so much more. I offer a non-judgmental and supportive space for everyone, where all lifestyles, identities, and orientations are affirmed and embraced. If you are new to therapy, I know how nervous you may feel, and I understand how important it is to find the right therapist; for this very reason, our first consultation is free of charge. Visit SexualitySpace.com to book your free first session.
Whether navigating LGBTQIA identity, BDSM/kink dynamics, polyamory, non-monogamy, sex work, or societal pressures around heteronormativity like marriage and family, I am here to support you.
Welcome! I am Kalvin at Sexuality Space, a modern therapy practice that specialises in mental health, sexual identity, relationships, LGBTQIA+, kink, confidence building, sexual health, non-monogamy, sex worker support and so much more. I offer a non-judgmental and supportive space for everyone, where all lifestyles, identities, and orientations are affirmed and embraced. If you are new to therapy, I know how nervous you may feel, and I understand how important it is to find the right therapist; for this very reason, our first consultation is free of charge. Visit SexualitySpace.com to book your free first session.
020 3856 8839 View 020 3856 8839
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Sema Bedran
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Barnet EN4
I specialize in assisting clients with relational problems, anxiety, depression, anger management, grief, identity and immigration issues, and life cycle transitions such as pre- marriage and marriage counselling, parenting, menopause, and retirement.
As a systemic psychotherapist, I am trained to address individual, couple, family, and organizational issues, allowing me to offer comprehensive support in relationship challenges. In addition, I hold master's degrees in Psychology and Women's Health, integrating this knowledge into my therapeutic approach while working with my clients.
I specialize in assisting clients with relational problems, anxiety, depression, anger management, grief, identity and immigration issues, and life cycle transitions such as pre- marriage and marriage counselling, parenting, menopause, and retirement.
As a systemic psychotherapist, I am trained to address individual, couple, family, and organizational issues, allowing me to offer comprehensive support in relationship challenges. In addition, I hold master's degrees in Psychology and Women's Health, integrating this knowledge into my therapeutic approach while working with my clients.
020 3835 4837 View 020 3835 4837
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Sharon Anderson
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
Psy, marriage & family emphasis.
Hi there, these are REALLY trying times so I truly appreciate you taking the brave step to reach out. I'm here, happy to work with you on the journey. My therapy style is warm, interactive, accepting & specific to you. I am internationally trained to MSc level & have worked in the UK & overseas. This means I bring inter/multicultural richness & diversity to our sessions. I am skilled to serve the unique needs of the local & international diaspora & those feeling displaced. I also have clinical & pastoral training (Uk) & a multi faith theology degree offering spiritual counselling for those who desire a faith perspective.
Psy, marriage & family emphasis.
Hi there, these are REALLY trying times so I truly appreciate you taking the brave step to reach out. I'm here, happy to work with you on the journey. My therapy style is warm, interactive, accepting & specific to you. I am internationally trained to MSc level & have worked in the UK & overseas. This means I bring inter/multicultural richness & diversity to our sessions. I am skilled to serve the unique needs of the local & international diaspora & those feeling displaced. I also have clinical & pastoral training (Uk) & a multi faith theology degree offering spiritual counselling for those who desire a faith perspective.
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Dawn Aruoma
Counsellor, MA, ACC Reg
Barking IG11
We provide counselling in the following areas: Anxiety, depression, conflict resolution, bereavement, self-esteem issues, marriage counselling, spiritual formation, interpersonal forgiveness, and adolescents counselling.
Dawn has worked as a Lay Counsellor since 2012 before qualifying as an (MA) Biblical Counsellor in 2015 with Trinity College of the Bible Theological Seminary (USA). She also achieved a CBT Diploma (2019) from The Institute of Counselling (Glasgow). Her work includes counselling Anxiety, Depression, Bereavement, Pre- marital and Couple Counselling.
We provide counselling in the following areas: Anxiety, depression, conflict resolution, bereavement, self-esteem issues, marriage counselling, spiritual formation, interpersonal forgiveness, and adolescents counselling.
Dawn has worked as a Lay Counsellor since 2012 before qualifying as an (MA) Biblical Counsellor in 2015 with Trinity College of the Bible Theological Seminary (USA). She also achieved a CBT Diploma (2019) from The Institute of Counselling (Glasgow). Her work includes counselling Anxiety, Depression, Bereavement, Pre- marital and Couple Counselling.
07480 802691 View 07480 802691
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Emma Adams
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Epping CM16
Relationship counselling (sometimes known as couples counselling or marriage guidance) can help couples who want to stay together and make things better or those who may be deciding to potentially separate.
I work with both individuals and couples from a lovely, discreet counselling room on the edge of Epping, within easy distance from Harlow, Loughton, Ongar, Chigwell and Waltham Abbey. I work with couples who have usually either hit a crisis point in their relationship or experienced a gradual deterioration over time and require help to get back on track. I support individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, low self-esteem, loneliness, trauma, sexual abuse, co-dependency, loss and bereavement. My couples training has been with Relate, working with many issues including infidelity, loss of desire, conflict, anger etc.
Relationship counselling (sometimes known as couples counselling or marriage guidance) can help couples who want to stay together and make things better or those who may be deciding to potentially separate.
I work with both individuals and couples from a lovely, discreet counselling room on the edge of Epping, within easy distance from Harlow, Loughton, Ongar, Chigwell and Waltham Abbey. I work with couples who have usually either hit a crisis point in their relationship or experienced a gradual deterioration over time and require help to get back on track. I support individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, low self-esteem, loneliness, trauma, sexual abuse, co-dependency, loss and bereavement. My couples training has been with Relate, working with many issues including infidelity, loss of desire, conflict, anger etc.
01992 927826 View 01992 927826
Marriage Counselling

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.