Male Counselling in Ilkeston

Lack of purpose and meaning in your life. Is anxiety, depression, or poor mental health holding you back from living a fuller, more meaningful, happier life. Together we can learn how to break free from the pain. My goal is always to understand you and to know how it feels to walk in your shoes. Using a dynamic approach, tailored to you and your needs, we will explore your experience together. I practice how I live, authentically and with honesty. My approach to therapy is relational. Healing occurs within the therapeutic relationship and through effective strategies that address whatever is holding you back.
Lack of purpose and meaning in your life. Is anxiety, depression, or poor mental health holding you back from living a fuller, more meaningful, happier life. Together we can learn how to break free from the pain. My goal is always to understand you and to know how it feels to walk in your shoes. Using a dynamic approach, tailored to you and your needs, we will explore your experience together. I practice how I live, authentically and with honesty. My approach to therapy is relational. Healing occurs within the therapeutic relationship and through effective strategies that address whatever is holding you back.

Hi I’m Simon, I support others through the challenges and difficulties that life can bring. I understand the thought of starting therapy can feel uncomfortable, having experienced this myself, I have trodden the path of personal therapy too. I wish to make the counselling experience as inviting, safe and comfortable as I can for you. I offer a confidential space for you to explore personal challenges, a space where you will be valued, not judged, and listened to, creating a foundation for growth and change.
Hi I’m Simon, I support others through the challenges and difficulties that life can bring. I understand the thought of starting therapy can feel uncomfortable, having experienced this myself, I have trodden the path of personal therapy too. I wish to make the counselling experience as inviting, safe and comfortable as I can for you. I offer a confidential space for you to explore personal challenges, a space where you will be valued, not judged, and listened to, creating a foundation for growth and change.
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Taking the first steps to seek out a counsellor can be a fearful time and we as therapists will not be the correct match for every individual. My aim would be to offer you counselling and support in a safe place, where we can work together and give you the opportunity to speak freely without fear of what others might think? When someone looks for a counsellor it is often because there is something happening in life they want to explore, this maybe: low self-worth, lacking in confidence, generally feeling of unhappiness, depression, anxiety, stress, grief, or other mental health concerns. We can work together at your pace.
Taking the first steps to seek out a counsellor can be a fearful time and we as therapists will not be the correct match for every individual. My aim would be to offer you counselling and support in a safe place, where we can work together and give you the opportunity to speak freely without fear of what others might think? When someone looks for a counsellor it is often because there is something happening in life they want to explore, this maybe: low self-worth, lacking in confidence, generally feeling of unhappiness, depression, anxiety, stress, grief, or other mental health concerns. We can work together at your pace.

Sometimes we need to talk. Or unload. Or work out what needs to change. Sometimes we need to do this with someone who's NOT family or a friend or colleague - someone who can listen deeply and confidentially, with fresh ears - with no bias or judgement. Someone who's steady, accepting and unshockable. What does counselling with me look like? Well, there's no one-size-fits-all. I will tailor it to your needs, session by session. You may have clear objectives, or none at all. It's all ok. We can work it out. I'll certainly want to get to know YOU as a human being, not just the 'issue' you're bringing.
Sometimes we need to talk. Or unload. Or work out what needs to change. Sometimes we need to do this with someone who's NOT family or a friend or colleague - someone who can listen deeply and confidentially, with fresh ears - with no bias or judgement. Someone who's steady, accepting and unshockable. What does counselling with me look like? Well, there's no one-size-fits-all. I will tailor it to your needs, session by session. You may have clear objectives, or none at all. It's all ok. We can work it out. I'll certainly want to get to know YOU as a human being, not just the 'issue' you're bringing.

If you are experiencing anxiety, suffering from low mood or depression, or find yourself struggling within relationships, I am here to help. I am a person-centred experiential therapist with additional training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
EFT is a multimodal approach of therapy for individuals, couples & families. EFT is an attachment-based, humanistic, experiential therapy approach, helping clients work 'with & through' their core emotional processes to build healthy emotional bonds with self and others. If you want to become emotionally 'fit' & well and improve your mental health & relationships, contact me.
If you are experiencing anxiety, suffering from low mood or depression, or find yourself struggling within relationships, I am here to help. I am a person-centred experiential therapist with additional training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
EFT is a multimodal approach of therapy for individuals, couples & families. EFT is an attachment-based, humanistic, experiential therapy approach, helping clients work 'with & through' their core emotional processes to build healthy emotional bonds with self and others. If you want to become emotionally 'fit' & well and improve your mental health & relationships, contact me.

Hello, I am a BABCP accredited CBT therapist and Radically Open DBT Senior Clinician with over 20 years experience of delivering psychological therapies. My drive is to help you find and start living by your valued goals and creating a life worth sharing.
I offer individual CBT sessions, either face to face or online, focusing on issues that may be getting in the way of you living your life the way you want it be.
I offer Radically Open individual sessions, face to face or online, and a weekly online skills class. RO therapy is focused on helping people that have too much of a good thing, leading to overcontrolled coping.
Hello, I am a BABCP accredited CBT therapist and Radically Open DBT Senior Clinician with over 20 years experience of delivering psychological therapies. My drive is to help you find and start living by your valued goals and creating a life worth sharing.
I offer individual CBT sessions, either face to face or online, focusing on issues that may be getting in the way of you living your life the way you want it be.
I offer Radically Open individual sessions, face to face or online, and a weekly online skills class. RO therapy is focused on helping people that have too much of a good thing, leading to overcontrolled coping.

Are you struggling with difficult thoughts or feelings? Do you want to feel free to be yourself? You could make long lasting changes in counselling. Sometimes it’s your past holding you back and sometimes it’s what’s happening right now. I can give you a confidential space where you’re free to let out the worry and the stress.
Are you struggling with difficult thoughts or feelings? Do you want to feel free to be yourself? You could make long lasting changes in counselling. Sometimes it’s your past holding you back and sometimes it’s what’s happening right now. I can give you a confidential space where you’re free to let out the worry and the stress.

Award winning BACP Senior Accredited Counsellor / Psychotherapist. Hi, thank you for choosing to read my profile. My name is Rob Hewes and I provide appropriate therapy or coaching that you need and in a confidential, warm and safe environment. I have now spent nearly 20 years in intense training and development as have experience working with clients in a variety of settings. I am an integrative therapist, drawing skills and experience from various therapeutic approaches. I provide: Psychotherapeutic Counselling. Therapeutic Counselling Supervision. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). Clinical Hypnotherapy. NLP Coaching.
Award winning BACP Senior Accredited Counsellor / Psychotherapist. Hi, thank you for choosing to read my profile. My name is Rob Hewes and I provide appropriate therapy or coaching that you need and in a confidential, warm and safe environment. I have now spent nearly 20 years in intense training and development as have experience working with clients in a variety of settings. I am an integrative therapist, drawing skills and experience from various therapeutic approaches. I provide: Psychotherapeutic Counselling. Therapeutic Counselling Supervision. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). Clinical Hypnotherapy. NLP Coaching.

Working from rooms in the Beeston / Chilwell NG9 area of Nottingham. Working with you on strategies to help you understand and manage the conditions impacting your life, whilst exploring the causes and together, finding solutions.
I offer counselling to adults and adolescents ( 18 or over ) I also welcome students . I am listed on the University of Nottingham approved Counsellors for staff and students. I work online with international clients , the sessions are carried out under UK law and ethical framework regardless of the clients location.
Working from rooms in the Beeston / Chilwell NG9 area of Nottingham. Working with you on strategies to help you understand and manage the conditions impacting your life, whilst exploring the causes and together, finding solutions.
I offer counselling to adults and adolescents ( 18 or over ) I also welcome students . I am listed on the University of Nottingham approved Counsellors for staff and students. I work online with international clients , the sessions are carried out under UK law and ethical framework regardless of the clients location.

I have over 14 years clinical experience, working with clients in England, Wales, Scotland and Canada! I work in both the NHS and in private practice, in a wide range of roles from Adult mental health to children and adolescent mental health. I have worked successfully with clients struggling with numerous mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma-related issues, grief and loss, eating disorders, addictions, OCD, perinatal challenges, and sleep disorders. With child and adolescent mental health, I offer therapy and can provide a comprehensive assessment for ASD, ADHD, and other neurodiverse issues.
I have over 14 years clinical experience, working with clients in England, Wales, Scotland and Canada! I work in both the NHS and in private practice, in a wide range of roles from Adult mental health to children and adolescent mental health. I have worked successfully with clients struggling with numerous mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma-related issues, grief and loss, eating disorders, addictions, OCD, perinatal challenges, and sleep disorders. With child and adolescent mental health, I offer therapy and can provide a comprehensive assessment for ASD, ADHD, and other neurodiverse issues.

Are you struggling to cope with emotions and life decisions? Are you looking to work through things to bring about a positive change or feeling low or anxious? Im here to help you untangle and work through difficult emotions and that may be hard to face right now.
I work with a focus on your own process and will help you explore areas that you would like to talk about at a pace that you find comfortable. I will review progress with you at intervals to see if you are any nearer your goals. I will be led by what you bring to each session and will not judge you in any way.
Are you struggling to cope with emotions and life decisions? Are you looking to work through things to bring about a positive change or feeling low or anxious? Im here to help you untangle and work through difficult emotions and that may be hard to face right now.
I work with a focus on your own process and will help you explore areas that you would like to talk about at a pace that you find comfortable. I will review progress with you at intervals to see if you are any nearer your goals. I will be led by what you bring to each session and will not judge you in any way.

Do you find it difficult to talk to those closest to you about your issues and concerns? Perhaps you don’t want to burden them or feel worried that they might judge or not understand what you are going through? I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space in which you can explore your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to understand more about yourself and your relationships with others. As an integrative counsellor, I work with a variety of therapeutic approaches and methods, and combine them to suit the needs of each individual client.
Do you find it difficult to talk to those closest to you about your issues and concerns? Perhaps you don’t want to burden them or feel worried that they might judge or not understand what you are going through? I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space in which you can explore your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to understand more about yourself and your relationships with others. As an integrative counsellor, I work with a variety of therapeutic approaches and methods, and combine them to suit the needs of each individual client.

I work with individuals who feel disconnected from their authentic selves - perhaps you're feeling stuck, lacking direction, or missing purpose in your life. You might be struggling with past experiences that still affect you today, finding it hard to stay motivated, or feeling uncertain about your future path. Many of my clients initially believe they are the problem, carrying the weight of their struggles internally. If you recognise yourself in these words, know that you're not alone, and that what you're experiencing deserves to be heard and understood.
I work with individuals who feel disconnected from their authentic selves - perhaps you're feeling stuck, lacking direction, or missing purpose in your life. You might be struggling with past experiences that still affect you today, finding it hard to stay motivated, or feeling uncertain about your future path. Many of my clients initially believe they are the problem, carrying the weight of their struggles internally. If you recognise yourself in these words, know that you're not alone, and that what you're experiencing deserves to be heard and understood.

Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, self-harm, or looking to explore deeper aspects of yourself through shadow work? We are a low-cost psychotherapy organisation offering compassionate, integrative therapy to support you on your journey.
Our team offers extensive experience working within areas including:
- Eating disorders
- Addictions
- Grief
- Anxiety
- Attachment
- Neurodiversity
- Sexuality and gender (LGBTQ+)
- Self esteem
- Asylum seekers.
We offer both short-term and open-ended therapy.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, self-harm, or looking to explore deeper aspects of yourself through shadow work? We are a low-cost psychotherapy organisation offering compassionate, integrative therapy to support you on your journey.
Our team offers extensive experience working within areas including:
- Eating disorders
- Addictions
- Grief
- Anxiety
- Attachment
- Neurodiversity
- Sexuality and gender (LGBTQ+)
- Self esteem
- Asylum seekers.
We offer both short-term and open-ended therapy.

Hello there. I am a qualified psychotherapist and clinical supervisor and am here to offer a supportive and compassionate space for you. Whether you are struggling with something like anxiety, depression, stress, or generally feel that you need support in understanding how you feel, I am here to work with you. I have had the privilege of speaking with and supporting people, from all walks of life, over my many years doing this work and am a firm believer in the unique nature of all of us. As a result, I make it a priority to tailor our sessions to you, and your goals, to help you find some resolution to your struggles.
Hello there. I am a qualified psychotherapist and clinical supervisor and am here to offer a supportive and compassionate space for you. Whether you are struggling with something like anxiety, depression, stress, or generally feel that you need support in understanding how you feel, I am here to work with you. I have had the privilege of speaking with and supporting people, from all walks of life, over my many years doing this work and am a firm believer in the unique nature of all of us. As a result, I make it a priority to tailor our sessions to you, and your goals, to help you find some resolution to your struggles.

Are you struggling with a pattern of behaviour or a relationship that you know is harmful, but you can’t seem to move on, or change things for the better? Through working with you in a safe, accepting way I can help you gain a fresh perspective on what has been troubling you. Building on this, we can work together to help you make positive, lasting changes to your behaviour and state of mind. Due to my previous career, I specialise in helping with the issues that can arise from the demands of high-pressure work in both business and creative settings.
Are you struggling with a pattern of behaviour or a relationship that you know is harmful, but you can’t seem to move on, or change things for the better? Through working with you in a safe, accepting way I can help you gain a fresh perspective on what has been troubling you. Building on this, we can work together to help you make positive, lasting changes to your behaviour and state of mind. Due to my previous career, I specialise in helping with the issues that can arise from the demands of high-pressure work in both business and creative settings.

I am a BACP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist who is also a Full Member of the BPS. My qualifications include two Masters degrees; one in MSc Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy and another in MSc Psychology and I hold a background in Sports Science. My modalities involve incorporating Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Attachment Theory and Person-Centred Approach. The Integrative approach is a holistic approach which allows therapy to be tailored to individual needs. I have worked in private practice, schools, sports settings and as a counselling lead in a specialist eating disorder organisation, amongst other settings.
I am a BACP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist who is also a Full Member of the BPS. My qualifications include two Masters degrees; one in MSc Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy and another in MSc Psychology and I hold a background in Sports Science. My modalities involve incorporating Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Attachment Theory and Person-Centred Approach. The Integrative approach is a holistic approach which allows therapy to be tailored to individual needs. I have worked in private practice, schools, sports settings and as a counselling lead in a specialist eating disorder organisation, amongst other settings.

Do you feel stuck in your life, or things are not going in the direction you would like? Or are you feeling depressed or anxious ?Are you struggling to cope with your existence after losing a loved one? Are you finding it hard to make friends and maintain a valuable relationship with them? Or do you just need a space to explore the emotional turmoil you are going through within your relationship either with yourself or with your partner? Why not give me a call and see how together we can explore how you might positively move forward
Do you feel stuck in your life, or things are not going in the direction you would like? Or are you feeling depressed or anxious ?Are you struggling to cope with your existence after losing a loved one? Are you finding it hard to make friends and maintain a valuable relationship with them? Or do you just need a space to explore the emotional turmoil you are going through within your relationship either with yourself or with your partner? Why not give me a call and see how together we can explore how you might positively move forward

I became a therapist because I believe in the power of healing, both in theory and in practice. I’ve seen transformation firsthand—through my own journey, through my training, and most powerfully, through the courage and growth of my clients. Every time someone dares to open up, to trust, to explore their pain and their potential—I am reminded why I do this work. My approach is grounded in deep presence. I offer a space that is accepting, non-judgmental, and real. Clients often tell me they feel like they're talking to someone who truly sees them—not just as a set of problems to solve, but as a whole person.
I became a therapist because I believe in the power of healing, both in theory and in practice. I’ve seen transformation firsthand—through my own journey, through my training, and most powerfully, through the courage and growth of my clients. Every time someone dares to open up, to trust, to explore their pain and their potential—I am reminded why I do this work. My approach is grounded in deep presence. I offer a space that is accepting, non-judgmental, and real. Clients often tell me they feel like they're talking to someone who truly sees them—not just as a set of problems to solve, but as a whole person.

Are you struggling to cope with stress, anxiety or the effects of traumatic events in your life? Are you stuck with difficult feelings and/or circumstances and need help to find a way through them? Or are you looking for answers to “where do I go from here?” Please contact me for a free consultation, I’m always committed to finding ways to help. With over 30 years’ experience in mental health and wellbeing I have worked with all ages, from secondary school through to end-of-life care and have worked with people in many different challenging, traumatic and complex circumstances. I am confident to deal with any issue.
Are you struggling to cope with stress, anxiety or the effects of traumatic events in your life? Are you stuck with difficult feelings and/or circumstances and need help to find a way through them? Or are you looking for answers to “where do I go from here?” Please contact me for a free consultation, I’m always committed to finding ways to help. With over 30 years’ experience in mental health and wellbeing I have worked with all ages, from secondary school through to end-of-life care and have worked with people in many different challenging, traumatic and complex circumstances. I am confident to deal with any issue.
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Male Counsellors
As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.