Counselling in Ilkeston
Is anxiety, depression, or poor mental health holding you back from living a fuller, more meaningful, happier life? Is there a lack of purpose and meaning in your life?
Together we can learn how to break free from the pain. My goal is always to understand you and to know how it feels to walk in your shoes. Using a dynamic approach, tailored to you and your needs, we will explore your experience together. I practice how I live, authentically and with honesty. My approach to therapy is relational. Healing occurs within the therapeutic relationship and through effective strategies that address whatever is holding you back.
Is anxiety, depression, or poor mental health holding you back from living a fuller, more meaningful, happier life? Is there a lack of purpose and meaning in your life?
Together we can learn how to break free from the pain. My goal is always to understand you and to know how it feels to walk in your shoes. Using a dynamic approach, tailored to you and your needs, we will explore your experience together. I practice how I live, authentically and with honesty. My approach to therapy is relational. Healing occurs within the therapeutic relationship and through effective strategies that address whatever is holding you back.
Sometimes it’s hard to know where to turn, life can feel very overwhelming and exhausting. It can be lots of wee things or a big life change and sometimes we just can’t put our finger on it. What we do know is that we’ve had enough, we want to enjoy life and relationships and bring more lightness and laughter into the everyday. Maybe work is getting us down or family and relationships. How good would it be to feel more at ease? In therapy we can explore together to find a way through the fog.
Sometimes it’s hard to know where to turn, life can feel very overwhelming and exhausting. It can be lots of wee things or a big life change and sometimes we just can’t put our finger on it. What we do know is that we’ve had enough, we want to enjoy life and relationships and bring more lightness and laughter into the everyday. Maybe work is getting us down or family and relationships. How good would it be to feel more at ease? In therapy we can explore together to find a way through the fog.
I work with adults and couples of all ages who experience challenge and overwhelm in their lives and relationships. Whether you are going through something new or you have been feeling this way for a while, I am here and wanting to support you.
My areas of work include: family issues; relationship problems; shame; trauma; gender; sexuality; neurodivergence; sexual difficulties; chronic pain; anxiety; depression; self-esteem issues; personality disorders; infertility; abuse; loss; bullying; and neglect.
I work with adults and couples of all ages who experience challenge and overwhelm in their lives and relationships. Whether you are going through something new or you have been feeling this way for a while, I am here and wanting to support you.
My areas of work include: family issues; relationship problems; shame; trauma; gender; sexuality; neurodivergence; sexual difficulties; chronic pain; anxiety; depression; self-esteem issues; personality disorders; infertility; abuse; loss; bullying; and neglect.
Hi I’m Simon, I support others through the challenges and difficulties that life can bring. I understand the thought of starting therapy can feel uncomfortable, having experienced this myself, I have trodden the path of personal therapy too. I wish to make the counselling experience as inviting, safe and comfortable as I can for you. I offer a confidential space for you to explore personal challenges, a space where you will be valued, not judged, and listened to, creating a foundation for growth and change.
Hi I’m Simon, I support others through the challenges and difficulties that life can bring. I understand the thought of starting therapy can feel uncomfortable, having experienced this myself, I have trodden the path of personal therapy too. I wish to make the counselling experience as inviting, safe and comfortable as I can for you. I offer a confidential space for you to explore personal challenges, a space where you will be valued, not judged, and listened to, creating a foundation for growth and change.
Feeling lost, stressed, anxious or low? Want to make a change? I could help you. People often question whether their difficulty is ‘big enough’, or think that there are people worse off than themselves, or that they should be able to manage on their own. Sometimes people think they shouldn't burden others with their problems. I'm here to help with whatever is impacting on your life. I'm experienced in helping people with a range of difficulties, including anxiety, depression, relationships, and self-esteem. Starting therapy can be daunting, finding the courage to reach out is the first step, the next steps we can work out together.
Feeling lost, stressed, anxious or low? Want to make a change? I could help you. People often question whether their difficulty is ‘big enough’, or think that there are people worse off than themselves, or that they should be able to manage on their own. Sometimes people think they shouldn't burden others with their problems. I'm here to help with whatever is impacting on your life. I'm experienced in helping people with a range of difficulties, including anxiety, depression, relationships, and self-esteem. Starting therapy can be daunting, finding the courage to reach out is the first step, the next steps we can work out together.
Hello my name is Debra. Would you like a quiet and relaxed space where you can begin to explore whatever is on your mind. I am committed to providing confidentiality and empathy in a non-judgmental and safe environment to help you to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences and feel empowered in your chosen way forward. Counselling can help with many problems such as anxiety, depression, bereavement and loss, disability, life stages, changes and adjustments and help with self-esteem and confidence feelings and other personal issues. I qualified as a Counsellor in 2003 and work in a person centred way.
Hello my name is Debra. Would you like a quiet and relaxed space where you can begin to explore whatever is on your mind. I am committed to providing confidentiality and empathy in a non-judgmental and safe environment to help you to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences and feel empowered in your chosen way forward. Counselling can help with many problems such as anxiety, depression, bereavement and loss, disability, life stages, changes and adjustments and help with self-esteem and confidence feelings and other personal issues. I qualified as a Counsellor in 2003 and work in a person centred way.
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My background is of a long standing NHS Professional who is dedicated to caring for others. I became a counsellor because it was an alternative way to help people and to build on a profession I love but within a different area. My focus is on creating a safe, non-judgemental and compassionate space where you can fully express, explore and experiment with any feelings, thoughts and emotions that you may be struggling with.
My background is of a long standing NHS Professional who is dedicated to caring for others. I became a counsellor because it was an alternative way to help people and to build on a profession I love but within a different area. My focus is on creating a safe, non-judgemental and compassionate space where you can fully express, explore and experiment with any feelings, thoughts and emotions that you may be struggling with.
If you are struggling with low mood, anxiety, or generally feeling lost and unfulfilled in life and in relationships, please feel free to get in touch. I have over 20 years' experience of working in the mental health field, including the NHS, independent secure mental health services, and private practice (Inter-Mind Psychological Services Ltd). I pride myself on a down-to-Earth approach that is highly confidential, compassionate, and consistent with my professional ethics and values. I use the knowledge and skills I have to try to help clients make sense of their difficulties and to find ways of moving forwards in their lives.
If you are struggling with low mood, anxiety, or generally feeling lost and unfulfilled in life and in relationships, please feel free to get in touch. I have over 20 years' experience of working in the mental health field, including the NHS, independent secure mental health services, and private practice (Inter-Mind Psychological Services Ltd). I pride myself on a down-to-Earth approach that is highly confidential, compassionate, and consistent with my professional ethics and values. I use the knowledge and skills I have to try to help clients make sense of their difficulties and to find ways of moving forwards in their lives.
Overwhelmed, stuck, or finding it hard to cope alone?
Take the first step towards feeling more like yourself again and get in touch.
I offer a warm, supportive, and non-judgemental space where you can feel heard and understood. I also offer creative approaches and animal assisted therapy for those who connect with nature, creativity, or the calming presence of animals. Therapy is always tailored to you and your choices.
I am trauma-informed and have additional training in children and young people’s counselling, supporting a wide range of emotional and mental health difficulties across all age groups
Overwhelmed, stuck, or finding it hard to cope alone?
Take the first step towards feeling more like yourself again and get in touch.
I offer a warm, supportive, and non-judgemental space where you can feel heard and understood. I also offer creative approaches and animal assisted therapy for those who connect with nature, creativity, or the calming presence of animals. Therapy is always tailored to you and your choices.
I am trauma-informed and have additional training in children and young people’s counselling, supporting a wide range of emotional and mental health difficulties across all age groups
If you would like to talk with a LGBTQ+ friendly therapist about depression, anxiety, sexuality, gender identity and/or trauma, I invite you to get in touch to see if the way I work resonates with you.
I am an experienced and professionally qualified integrative psychotherapist, working online.
Through dialogue, exploration, humour and willingness, therapy can allow us to explore more meaningful ways to live and meet life's challenges.
If you would like to talk with a LGBTQ+ friendly therapist about depression, anxiety, sexuality, gender identity and/or trauma, I invite you to get in touch to see if the way I work resonates with you.
I am an experienced and professionally qualified integrative psychotherapist, working online.
Through dialogue, exploration, humour and willingness, therapy can allow us to explore more meaningful ways to live and meet life's challenges.
As a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered BACP member, I provide a warm, safe, and welcoming space where you can talk openly and feel supported.
Starting counselling can feel difficult, but you do not have to do it alone. Whether you are struggling with grief and loss anxiety, depression,overwhelming thoughts or feelings, low self-esteem, relationship problems, or finding it hard to be yourself, counselling offers a confidential space to talk about what you are going through.
Our sessions focus on you and what matters most to you. My aim is to help you better understand yourself, build resilience, and find a way forward.
As a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered BACP member, I provide a warm, safe, and welcoming space where you can talk openly and feel supported.
Starting counselling can feel difficult, but you do not have to do it alone. Whether you are struggling with grief and loss anxiety, depression,overwhelming thoughts or feelings, low self-esteem, relationship problems, or finding it hard to be yourself, counselling offers a confidential space to talk about what you are going through.
Our sessions focus on you and what matters most to you. My aim is to help you better understand yourself, build resilience, and find a way forward.
I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings safely. Together, we'll work towards understanding your experiences and finding paths towards healing and growth.
I specialise in supporting individuals dealing with:
- Anxiety and Depression including low self-esteem
- Childhood trauma
- Relationship difficulties, boundaries and challenging family dynamics
- Grief and Loss
- Identity, belonging and cultural barriers
- Trauma and abuse
- Relational issues such as attachment
- Relationship breakdowns
- Sexual identity and issues regarding sex
I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings safely. Together, we'll work towards understanding your experiences and finding paths towards healing and growth.
I specialise in supporting individuals dealing with:
- Anxiety and Depression including low self-esteem
- Childhood trauma
- Relationship difficulties, boundaries and challenging family dynamics
- Grief and Loss
- Identity, belonging and cultural barriers
- Trauma and abuse
- Relational issues such as attachment
- Relationship breakdowns
- Sexual identity and issues regarding sex
Sometimes life is murky, and throws curved balls, and sometimes we "don't know". If you are struggling to make sense of your current situation, or response to it, then maybe relational gestalt therapy can help. At the heart of my therapy is my belief that each of us, and our unique experience of the world is complex, nuanced, and not binary in anyway.
Sometimes life is murky, and throws curved balls, and sometimes we "don't know". If you are struggling to make sense of your current situation, or response to it, then maybe relational gestalt therapy can help. At the heart of my therapy is my belief that each of us, and our unique experience of the world is complex, nuanced, and not binary in anyway.
I’m here for when you just want to talk to someone who listens without judgement. No problem, worry or issue is too large for me, you only need to take that first scary step in telephoning, texting or emailing me. Whether you are feeling anxious or depressed, worried about something or someone, angry, sad or suicidal, talking can help.
I’m here for when you just want to talk to someone who listens without judgement. No problem, worry or issue is too large for me, you only need to take that first scary step in telephoning, texting or emailing me. Whether you are feeling anxious or depressed, worried about something or someone, angry, sad or suicidal, talking can help.
Are you feeling stuck, disconnected, or held back by past trauma, including sexual abuse, domestic abuse, or experiences with the justice system, as well as challenges related to faith, spirituality, or cultural expectations. Using a trauma-informed, relational approach, I combine parts work, inner child exploration, and somatic awareness to help you process experiences, understand emotions, and reconnect with your needs. Together, we create a safe space to heal, shift patterns, and live more authentically and grounded.
Are you feeling stuck, disconnected, or held back by past trauma, including sexual abuse, domestic abuse, or experiences with the justice system, as well as challenges related to faith, spirituality, or cultural expectations. Using a trauma-informed, relational approach, I combine parts work, inner child exploration, and somatic awareness to help you process experiences, understand emotions, and reconnect with your needs. Together, we create a safe space to heal, shift patterns, and live more authentically and grounded.
Who am I, what do I do? Working with a therapist helped me to explore these unanswered questions. I believe a strong therapeutic relationship is key to exploring impactful life experiences which can leave us feeling closed down, & lost. As a relational therapist, I offer a safe, calm space, working with you at your pace, to gently explore difficult feelings & emotions.
I work with clients long term as well as offering short term work offering a solution focused approach. If you feel this might be what you are looking for, then contact me by 'phone or email to arrange a time to talk.
Who am I, what do I do? Working with a therapist helped me to explore these unanswered questions. I believe a strong therapeutic relationship is key to exploring impactful life experiences which can leave us feeling closed down, & lost. As a relational therapist, I offer a safe, calm space, working with you at your pace, to gently explore difficult feelings & emotions.
I work with clients long term as well as offering short term work offering a solution focused approach. If you feel this might be what you are looking for, then contact me by 'phone or email to arrange a time to talk.
Hello and thanks for stopping by.
If you are looking for a genuine down to earth psychotherapist, to work with you on something that you can’t seem to get a handle of by yourself, then drop me a line. Whatever your reason for seeking therapy, I am happy to sit with you, and maybe we can work it out together.
Are you feeling distant in your relationship with yourself or others in your life? This could be a breakdown of a relationship, due to past experiences of trauma, abuse or a current life situation. We can work together to understand what is going on and potentially find a way to be okay with, rekindle or build connections.
Hello and thanks for stopping by.
If you are looking for a genuine down to earth psychotherapist, to work with you on something that you can’t seem to get a handle of by yourself, then drop me a line. Whatever your reason for seeking therapy, I am happy to sit with you, and maybe we can work it out together.
Are you feeling distant in your relationship with yourself or others in your life? This could be a breakdown of a relationship, due to past experiences of trauma, abuse or a current life situation. We can work together to understand what is going on and potentially find a way to be okay with, rekindle or build connections.
I am an empathic and caring Accredited Counsellor working in a holistic and individual way, with you as the client at the centre of our work. Are you suffering with anxiety and depression having relationship issues, problems at work, illness, loss or bereavement or coming terms with difficult current and past life events. Are you completely overwhelmed or struggling with feelings of failure, despair, hopelessness and low self esteem and just don't know who to turn to or maybe you have resorted to addictive or harmful behaviours to cope. Come with me on your therapy journey and let me help you find a better way of being.
I am an empathic and caring Accredited Counsellor working in a holistic and individual way, with you as the client at the centre of our work. Are you suffering with anxiety and depression having relationship issues, problems at work, illness, loss or bereavement or coming terms with difficult current and past life events. Are you completely overwhelmed or struggling with feelings of failure, despair, hopelessness and low self esteem and just don't know who to turn to or maybe you have resorted to addictive or harmful behaviours to cope. Come with me on your therapy journey and let me help you find a better way of being.
On the outside, you may look as though you are coping well: capable, thoughtful, and perhaps even successful in the eyes of others. But inside, things may feel more tender or uncertain. You might find yourself doubting who you are, second-guessing your choices, or trying hard to be good, perfect, or liked. Perhaps you often feel you have to earn your place, or carry a quiet sense of rejection that never fully goes away. Beneath these feelings, there may be something deeper: shame. Even if that word does not quite fit for you, you may recognise what it feels like to not feel good enough, or to feel disconnected from others.
On the outside, you may look as though you are coping well: capable, thoughtful, and perhaps even successful in the eyes of others. But inside, things may feel more tender or uncertain. You might find yourself doubting who you are, second-guessing your choices, or trying hard to be good, perfect, or liked. Perhaps you often feel you have to earn your place, or carry a quiet sense of rejection that never fully goes away. Beneath these feelings, there may be something deeper: shame. Even if that word does not quite fit for you, you may recognise what it feels like to not feel good enough, or to feel disconnected from others.
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Ilkeston
< 10
Counsellors in Ilkeston who prioritize treating:
| 86% | Relationship Issues |
| 86% | Depression |
| 86% | Anxiety |
| 86% | Self Esteem |
| 86% | Stress |
| 71% | Neurodivergence |
| 57% | Bereavement |
Average years in practice
6 Years
Gender breakdown
| 60% | Female | |
| 40% | Male |
How Counsellors in Ilkeston see their clients
| 100% | In Person and Online |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Ilkeston?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.