Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Huddersfield

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Bread and Roses Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Waitlist for new clients
I often collaborate with people who define as highly sensitive, neurodivergent or alternative in some way. You may think, feel and experience the world differently and that can come with huge ups and downs. Perhaps you look around and wonder how everyone else seems to be holding it together when you feel and think so deeply. Perhaps you get stuck in patterns of thinking and behaving that no longer help. I get it - life is often messy, unpredictable, and confusing, and at times it can feel like the cliff of overwhelm and burnout looms large. Curious about change in your life, work and relationships? Then lets connect!
I often collaborate with people who define as highly sensitive, neurodivergent or alternative in some way. You may think, feel and experience the world differently and that can come with huge ups and downs. Perhaps you look around and wonder how everyone else seems to be holding it together when you feel and think so deeply. Perhaps you get stuck in patterns of thinking and behaving that no longer help. I get it - life is often messy, unpredictable, and confusing, and at times it can feel like the cliff of overwhelm and burnout looms large. Curious about change in your life, work and relationships? Then lets connect!
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Lindsey Murray
Counsellor, BACP
I support people from all walks of life, including those in non-traditional relationships, such as polyamory, open relationships, kink-aware dynamics and LGBTQIA+.
I am a warm, compassionate and non-judgemental counsellor. My approach is person-centred and collaborative. I aim to meet you where you are, offering empathy and understanding to help you gain insight, develop resilience and move towards positive change at your own pace.
I support people from all walks of life, including those in non-traditional relationships, such as polyamory, open relationships, kink-aware dynamics and LGBTQIA+.
I am a warm, compassionate and non-judgemental counsellor. My approach is person-centred and collaborative. I aim to meet you where you are, offering empathy and understanding to help you gain insight, develop resilience and move towards positive change at your own pace.
01484 627352 View 01484 627352
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Benjamin Jackson
Psychotherapist, MBACP
I’m Ben, a psychotherapist and counsellor working online, on the phone and in-person from central Huddersfield, West Yorkshire. I am a person-centred (or client-centred) therapist which means that our sessions are about you, your life and your experiences. You might have a very clear idea of why you would like therapy, or you might have a more general feeling that therapy might be useful for you. All that matters is that it's your choice. Wherever things start, my experience is therapy can be a route to understanding, healing and growth; it can bring a kind of peace with where you are, where you've been and where you want to go.
I’m Ben, a psychotherapist and counsellor working online, on the phone and in-person from central Huddersfield, West Yorkshire. I am a person-centred (or client-centred) therapist which means that our sessions are about you, your life and your experiences. You might have a very clear idea of why you would like therapy, or you might have a more general feeling that therapy might be useful for you. All that matters is that it's your choice. Wherever things start, my experience is therapy can be a route to understanding, healing and growth; it can bring a kind of peace with where you are, where you've been and where you want to go.
01484 240351 View 01484 240351
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Tracy Simpson
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am an experienced, well-established BACP registered and NCPS accredited counsellor and supervisor with 15 years of experience in private practice in Barnsley, South Yorkshire. I accept private clients, including those covered by BUPA and AVIVA, offering face-to-face and online sessions. Whilst my focus is on anxiety and stress management, I have extensive experience in supporting clients through issues related to abuse, addiction, and bereavement. I use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic modalities to help clients develop practical strategies to regain control of their lives and find peace.
I am an experienced, well-established BACP registered and NCPS accredited counsellor and supervisor with 15 years of experience in private practice in Barnsley, South Yorkshire. I accept private clients, including those covered by BUPA and AVIVA, offering face-to-face and online sessions. Whilst my focus is on anxiety and stress management, I have extensive experience in supporting clients through issues related to abuse, addiction, and bereavement. I use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic modalities to help clients develop practical strategies to regain control of their lives and find peace.
01226 448214 View 01226 448214
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Annette Quirk
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
It could be that you’ve become stuck worrying about the future, or you’ve got some big stuff in your head that’s getting in the way of moving forwards and it’s time to do something with it so that you can move on. Maybe there is fear and anxiety of making change, or you feel stressed and sad? Or maybe there is some unavoidable unhappiness in that is in the background of your life?
It could be that you’ve become stuck worrying about the future, or you’ve got some big stuff in your head that’s getting in the way of moving forwards and it’s time to do something with it so that you can move on. Maybe there is fear and anxiety of making change, or you feel stressed and sad? Or maybe there is some unavoidable unhappiness in that is in the background of your life?
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Trauma Psychotherapist And Clinical Supervisor
Psychotherapist
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
You may be feeling stuck in patterns you understand intellectually but can’t seem to shift. Perhaps anxiety, trauma, relationship difficulties, or a deep sense of disconnection keeps looping no matter how much insight you gain. You might be high-functioning on the outside, yet internally exhausted, overwhelmed, or quietly carrying experiences that your nervous system never fully processed. Does this feel familiar? If you’ve talked it through, analysed it to death, and still find your body reacting like the threat never ended, you’re not broken — your nervous system is doing exactly what it learned to do.
You may be feeling stuck in patterns you understand intellectually but can’t seem to shift. Perhaps anxiety, trauma, relationship difficulties, or a deep sense of disconnection keeps looping no matter how much insight you gain. You might be high-functioning on the outside, yet internally exhausted, overwhelmed, or quietly carrying experiences that your nervous system never fully processed. Does this feel familiar? If you’ve talked it through, analysed it to death, and still find your body reacting like the threat never ended, you’re not broken — your nervous system is doing exactly what it learned to do.
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Holly Tootell | The Anger Therapist
Psychotherapist, SNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
You've probably been working hard to manage your anger, and are finding yourself more frustrated than ever. The problem with anger is that the harder you try to manage it, the more stubborn it gets. But it's also incredibly misunderstood and there is so much more to learn about it. I don't work only with anger, in fact, a lot of my work with anger has come out of working around something else entirely.
You've probably been working hard to manage your anger, and are finding yourself more frustrated than ever. The problem with anger is that the harder you try to manage it, the more stubborn it gets. But it's also incredibly misunderstood and there is so much more to learn about it. I don't work only with anger, in fact, a lot of my work with anger has come out of working around something else entirely.
0113 519 1624 View 0113 519 1624
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Esther Mahle
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello, life can feel overwhelming at times. Anxiety, fear, depression and other emotional struggles are part of being human — yet when they become too heavy, it can be difficult to cope alone. As a trauma-informed integrative counsellor, I provide a safe and supportive space to help you explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, so you can develop a deeper understanding of yourself and begin to make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface. Together, we’ll work towards uncovering what you need to feel more balanced, connected, and in control of your life.
Hello, life can feel overwhelming at times. Anxiety, fear, depression and other emotional struggles are part of being human — yet when they become too heavy, it can be difficult to cope alone. As a trauma-informed integrative counsellor, I provide a safe and supportive space to help you explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, so you can develop a deeper understanding of yourself and begin to make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface. Together, we’ll work towards uncovering what you need to feel more balanced, connected, and in control of your life.
0113 519 0611 View 0113 519 0611
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Jeana Hallas at Barnsley Hypnosis & Counselling
Psychotherapist, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
Most clients contact us with surface negative symptoms or challenges. Every client is totally unique, therefore our truly one-off, made-to-measure approach is needed and always provided. Most clients help us to slowly identify the real current trigger(s), creating the negative presenting symptoms or challenges. Finally, our last step in helping you gain a positive, confident and happier future, is to discover your deepest root causes, which created the very first trigger(s). To put it simply, our driving force from day one is to help you quickly ensure you gain much improved: thinking, feeling and behaviour.
Most clients contact us with surface negative symptoms or challenges. Every client is totally unique, therefore our truly one-off, made-to-measure approach is needed and always provided. Most clients help us to slowly identify the real current trigger(s), creating the negative presenting symptoms or challenges. Finally, our last step in helping you gain a positive, confident and happier future, is to discover your deepest root causes, which created the very first trigger(s). To put it simply, our driving force from day one is to help you quickly ensure you gain much improved: thinking, feeling and behaviour.
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Shauna Bruce
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Central Sheffield location for face to face sessions. EMDR therapy is now available as part of the services I provide. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a well-established therapeutic approach used to treat trauma, anxiety, and other emotional difficulties by helping the mind and body safely process unresolved experiences. Life can be hard and in our most challenging moments it can be difficult to reach out to those around us for help. That's where counselling comes in. I offer an unbiased, empathetic, warm, non-judgemental space to explore what is holding you back from reaching your true potential.
Central Sheffield location for face to face sessions. EMDR therapy is now available as part of the services I provide. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a well-established therapeutic approach used to treat trauma, anxiety, and other emotional difficulties by helping the mind and body safely process unresolved experiences. Life can be hard and in our most challenging moments it can be difficult to reach out to those around us for help. That's where counselling comes in. I offer an unbiased, empathetic, warm, non-judgemental space to explore what is holding you back from reaching your true potential.
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Empathy understanding counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Counselling is a widely used talking therapy. I am Marco, a fully qualified counsellor who works in an integrative way with a range of therapeutic theories including Person Centred, EFT and Mindfulness, to find the best approach for you. The goal is to help you address your issues and help you identify your options. How do you eat an elephant? The answer is to cut it into bite sized chunks. I do the same to help you break down your issues easily. I am a certified counsellor and a registered member of the BACP. (Stay at home is not cut off socialization, join our online group to cope with depression) contact me for more information.
Counselling is a widely used talking therapy. I am Marco, a fully qualified counsellor who works in an integrative way with a range of therapeutic theories including Person Centred, EFT and Mindfulness, to find the best approach for you. The goal is to help you address your issues and help you identify your options. How do you eat an elephant? The answer is to cut it into bite sized chunks. I do the same to help you break down your issues easily. I am a certified counsellor and a registered member of the BACP. (Stay at home is not cut off socialization, join our online group to cope with depression) contact me for more information.
0113 733 7415 View 0113 733 7415
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Dr Rebecca Szlachcic
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
I am an experienced HCPC Registered Clinical Psychologist working in the NHS and in the private sector. I am a trauma informed therapist, recognising that many people are trying their best to cope and live with the difficult life experiences they have been through. I understand the importance of the therapeutic relationship in finding a ‘good fit’ with a therapist. I enjoy working collaboratively and creatively with individuals and have experience in working with people with mild to severe mental health difficulties including anxiety, depression, PTSD, psychosis and personality difficulties.
I am an experienced HCPC Registered Clinical Psychologist working in the NHS and in the private sector. I am a trauma informed therapist, recognising that many people are trying their best to cope and live with the difficult life experiences they have been through. I understand the importance of the therapeutic relationship in finding a ‘good fit’ with a therapist. I enjoy working collaboratively and creatively with individuals and have experience in working with people with mild to severe mental health difficulties including anxiety, depression, PTSD, psychosis and personality difficulties.
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Sex Therapist - Chloe Jones
Counsellor, COSRT Reg.
Online Only
I work with people that have barriers to a fulfilling sex life. This can include conditions such as erectile dysfunction, premature/delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain during penetration and difficulty achieving orgasm.
I work with people that have barriers to a fulfilling sex life. This can include conditions such as erectile dysfunction, premature/delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain during penetration and difficulty achieving orgasm.
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Rebecca Fox
Psychotherapist, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience. You are welcome and accepted.
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience. You are welcome and accepted.
0161 524 6947 View 0161 524 6947
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Kayleigh Fletcher
Counsellor, BACP
Bingley BD16
What I offer: Trauma & Sexual Abuse Men’s Mental Health Anxiety & Depression Anger & Emotional Regulation LGBTQ+ Support & Kink-Aware Counselling Relationships & Family Challenges Self-Esteem & Confidence Mindfulness & Coping Strategies Youth & Knife Crime Support Rehabilitation & Probation Support
I support people from all walks of life who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, trauma, or low self-esteem. Many seek a safe, non-judgemental space to talk, explore emotions, and find healthier ways forward. While my practice is open to everyone, I have a specialist focus on men’s mental health, offering a space where men can speak freely about pressures, identity, or past experiences. Together, we work towards greater clarity, resilience, and confidence in life.
What I offer: Trauma & Sexual Abuse Men’s Mental Health Anxiety & Depression Anger & Emotional Regulation LGBTQ+ Support & Kink-Aware Counselling Relationships & Family Challenges Self-Esteem & Confidence Mindfulness & Coping Strategies Youth & Knife Crime Support Rehabilitation & Probation Support
I support people from all walks of life who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, trauma, or low self-esteem. Many seek a safe, non-judgemental space to talk, explore emotions, and find healthier ways forward. While my practice is open to everyone, I have a specialist focus on men’s mental health, offering a space where men can speak freely about pressures, identity, or past experiences. Together, we work towards greater clarity, resilience, and confidence in life.
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Lou Goodwin
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT General
Leeds LS12
I am a therapist specialising in kink-aware and sex-positive support for individuals, couples, and those in open or polyamorous relationships.
My therapeutic philosophy is rooted in partnership. I provide a secure space for exploration, questioning, and rebuilding, while working with you to identify and clarify your values.
I am a therapist specialising in kink-aware and sex-positive support for individuals, couples, and those in open or polyamorous relationships.
My therapeutic philosophy is rooted in partnership. I provide a secure space for exploration, questioning, and rebuilding, while working with you to identify and clarify your values.
0113 519 4468 View 0113 519 4468
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Fleur Parker
Psychotherapist, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Specific areas of focus are, couples therapy, sex and kink, eating disorders and shame related to trauma.
Do others view you as a calm river with a constant, steady flow? Does this stop you from telling them about the disarming undercurrent that pulls you in all directions? Perhaps you feel like you need to maintain the outward appearance of being someone who ‘has it all’ when inwardly you are scared that you aren’t enough. Appearing perfect can be exhausting, it can also be isolating and erode our true sense of self. I am here so that you can rest your mask down for a while. By tapping into and meeting the needs of your inner self you will find that you feel resourced enough to fortify your relationships with others.
Specific areas of focus are, couples therapy, sex and kink, eating disorders and shame related to trauma.
Do others view you as a calm river with a constant, steady flow? Does this stop you from telling them about the disarming undercurrent that pulls you in all directions? Perhaps you feel like you need to maintain the outward appearance of being someone who ‘has it all’ when inwardly you are scared that you aren’t enough. Appearing perfect can be exhausting, it can also be isolating and erode our true sense of self. I am here so that you can rest your mask down for a while. By tapping into and meeting the needs of your inner self you will find that you feel resourced enough to fortify your relationships with others.
01425 209280 View 01425 209280
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The Lavender Therapy Collective
Verified Verified
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I’m Tasha, I’m an experienced therapist of 10 years with a background in mental health nursing. I offer a non judgmental, informed therapy space for all. Embarking on therapy can be overwhelming and I strongly believe everybody should have access to therapy in the most meaningful way and this starts with being understood in the therapy room. I aim to provide an understanding space for you to work towards your goals and feel like the best version of yourself. I work with a wide range of difficulties. Please feel free to get in touch for a free initial consultation.
Welcome! I’m Tasha, I’m an experienced therapist of 10 years with a background in mental health nursing. I offer a non judgmental, informed therapy space for all. Embarking on therapy can be overwhelming and I strongly believe everybody should have access to therapy in the most meaningful way and this starts with being understood in the therapy room. I aim to provide an understanding space for you to work towards your goals and feel like the best version of yourself. I work with a wide range of difficulties. Please feel free to get in touch for a free initial consultation.
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Nicola Falzon - Gestalt Psychotherapist
Psychotherapist, MA
2 Endorsed
Online Only
My practice is a welcoming, safe space for all clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment. We can uncover what’s holding you back, develop effective strategies to overcome challenges and support you in building a life that aligns with your values and goals. I work with individuals, couples, and multiple-partnered persons via online therapy. My practice is informed by Psychosexual Therapy, and I therefore support clients with issues of sexual function, sexual health, and gender and sexual diversity. I also have experience working with consensual non-monogamy.
My practice is a welcoming, safe space for all clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment. We can uncover what’s holding you back, develop effective strategies to overcome challenges and support you in building a life that aligns with your values and goals. I work with individuals, couples, and multiple-partnered persons via online therapy. My practice is informed by Psychosexual Therapy, and I therefore support clients with issues of sexual function, sexual health, and gender and sexual diversity. I also have experience working with consensual non-monogamy.
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Carrie (Cat) Thompson
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hi, I'm Cat, thank you for reading my profile. I offer pluralistic counselling either in-person at a central Peterborough location (PE1) or remotely online or via telephone. The work we do will vary according to your needs. Sessions typically take place weekly or bi-weekly. It is possible to work in the short-term (maybe 4-6 sessions) or in the longer-term with an ongoing alliance (1 year+) and anything in between!
Hi, I'm Cat, thank you for reading my profile. I offer pluralistic counselling either in-person at a central Peterborough location (PE1) or remotely online or via telephone. The work we do will vary according to your needs. Sessions typically take place weekly or bi-weekly. It is possible to work in the short-term (maybe 4-6 sessions) or in the longer-term with an ongoing alliance (1 year+) and anything in between!
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.