Infidelity Counselling in Hove
I work alongside people who are dealing with all kinds of issues, including, but not limited to, anxiety, relationship issues, depression, family issues, career and life choices, affairs and betrayals, separation and divorce, abuse, anger management, bereavement, low self-esteem, low self-confidence, sex and sexuality, LGBT-related issues and stress.
I am a fully trained psychotherapist (MBACP Reg. & MNCPS Acc.) and supervisor with 20+ years experience. When life feels a little out of balance, it's important that we find our own answers to the things that concern us about our lives. It's also important that we find a way to do this that suits our preferences, our needs and our styles. It's vital that we find a place where we can consider those questions about our lives and the situations we find ourselves in with patience, compassion and care. Finding a counsellor or psychotherapist to be with us can bring enormous benefit during difficult times.
I work alongside people who are dealing with all kinds of issues, including, but not limited to, anxiety, relationship issues, depression, family issues, career and life choices, affairs and betrayals, separation and divorce, abuse, anger management, bereavement, low self-esteem, low self-confidence, sex and sexuality, LGBT-related issues and stress.
I am a fully trained psychotherapist (MBACP Reg. & MNCPS Acc.) and supervisor with 20+ years experience. When life feels a little out of balance, it's important that we find our own answers to the things that concern us about our lives. It's also important that we find a way to do this that suits our preferences, our needs and our styles. It's vital that we find a place where we can consider those questions about our lives and the situations we find ourselves in with patience, compassion and care. Finding a counsellor or psychotherapist to be with us can bring enormous benefit during difficult times.
I also support with relationship issues such as infidelity, lack of intimacy, communication problems etc.
Welcome to my profile page. I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist.
I also support with relationship issues such as infidelity, lack of intimacy, communication problems etc.
Welcome to my profile page. I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist.
I imagine that you are here because life seems particularly tough at the moment. Perhaps you are anxious about the future, or suffering with difficult memories from the past. Perhaps you have realised that the relationship patterns you have developed are no longer working for you and you would like to find a new way of connecting to your partner or others. Perhaps you need some practical guidance with a sex related problem. Wouldn't it be good if a trusted professional, who is also warm and 'real' could help you find a positive way forward?
I imagine that you are here because life seems particularly tough at the moment. Perhaps you are anxious about the future, or suffering with difficult memories from the past. Perhaps you have realised that the relationship patterns you have developed are no longer working for you and you would like to find a new way of connecting to your partner or others. Perhaps you need some practical guidance with a sex related problem. Wouldn't it be good if a trusted professional, who is also warm and 'real' could help you find a positive way forward?
Life can feel overwhelming when you’re navigating challenges like trauma, relationship difficulties, or major life transitions. You may feel stuck, disconnected, or burdened by patterns and emotions that seem impossible to shift. I understand how daunting it can be to take the first step towards change, but you don’t have to face it alone. My role is to provide a safe, compassionate space where you can explore your experiences, process your emotions, and begin to heal.
Life can feel overwhelming when you’re navigating challenges like trauma, relationship difficulties, or major life transitions. You may feel stuck, disconnected, or burdened by patterns and emotions that seem impossible to shift. I understand how daunting it can be to take the first step towards change, but you don’t have to face it alone. My role is to provide a safe, compassionate space where you can explore your experiences, process your emotions, and begin to heal.
I am an experienced psychoanalytic psychotherapist and a BACP-accredited psychodynamic counsellor. I believe that no issue is too small nor too great to bring to therapy – if it causes you pain, you will benefit from opening up about it in the long run. I believe everyone’s internal world needs to be approached with curiosity and openness. My approach is rooted in traditional psychoanalysis but progressive and affirmative of diversity and individual expression. It is suitable for adults of all ages and backgrounds and also LGBTQ/kink and poly-friendly.
I am an experienced psychoanalytic psychotherapist and a BACP-accredited psychodynamic counsellor. I believe that no issue is too small nor too great to bring to therapy – if it causes you pain, you will benefit from opening up about it in the long run. I believe everyone’s internal world needs to be approached with curiosity and openness. My approach is rooted in traditional psychoanalysis but progressive and affirmative of diversity and individual expression. It is suitable for adults of all ages and backgrounds and also LGBTQ/kink and poly-friendly.
We all have times in our lives when we find it difficult to cope, causing us issues such as anxiety, depression, stress, feelings of emptiness, loneliness, anger and relationship problems. I offer a place to work out what is going for you, in a safe, non-judgmental and confidential space. Sometimes we are aware of issues that are causing our distress and sometimes not. Being able to work out exactly what is going on for each of us as an individual, can be the key to change.
We all have times in our lives when we find it difficult to cope, causing us issues such as anxiety, depression, stress, feelings of emptiness, loneliness, anger and relationship problems. I offer a place to work out what is going for you, in a safe, non-judgmental and confidential space. Sometimes we are aware of issues that are causing our distress and sometimes not. Being able to work out exactly what is going on for each of us as an individual, can be the key to change.
You may want to talk about anxiety, addiction or depression; you may be looking to cope with some life event such as a bereavement, divorce, redundancy or a relationship problem; or you might be feeling stuck in a rut and that you want more out of life. You will be able to explore what might lie behind the feelings you're experiencing, or what might lie behind certain thoughts or behaviours that you're not finding helpful. All these things can be helped and supported by talking confidentially.
You may want to talk about anxiety, addiction or depression; you may be looking to cope with some life event such as a bereavement, divorce, redundancy or a relationship problem; or you might be feeling stuck in a rut and that you want more out of life. You will be able to explore what might lie behind the feelings you're experiencing, or what might lie behind certain thoughts or behaviours that you're not finding helpful. All these things can be helped and supported by talking confidentially.
I have been working as a Counselling Psychologist in clinical and educational settings since 2003 and currently manage a specialist therapeutic service in the voluntary sector. My integrative approach is at the core of my therapeutic philosophy, understanding that each individual is unique and that there is no one size fits all approach to mental health. In my therapeutic work I draw from existential, humanist, psychodynamic, constructivist and systemic frameworks.
I have been working as a Counselling Psychologist in clinical and educational settings since 2003 and currently manage a specialist therapeutic service in the voluntary sector. My integrative approach is at the core of my therapeutic philosophy, understanding that each individual is unique and that there is no one size fits all approach to mental health. In my therapeutic work I draw from existential, humanist, psychodynamic, constructivist and systemic frameworks.
Patricia Almohalla Alvarez
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Hove BN3
Waitlist for new clients
I am a very compassionate person, supportive and warm who will help you to deal with the difficulties of life.
I am a very compassionate person, supportive and warm who will help you to deal with the difficulties of life.
Many people find themselves continually repeating familiar patterns of behaviour and attracting the same problems in their lives. If this has been your cycle, you are not alone, and it is ok to ask for support. Many clients come to me because they have a desire to change yet have been able to make these changes themselves. I have no magical ability to heal anyone or change their life, however I can help you to process how you are feeling, help you to find new perspectives, and can pass on insights and concepts that may help to make sense of your problems, so you can develop the capacity to become your own healer.
Many people find themselves continually repeating familiar patterns of behaviour and attracting the same problems in their lives. If this has been your cycle, you are not alone, and it is ok to ask for support. Many clients come to me because they have a desire to change yet have been able to make these changes themselves. I have no magical ability to heal anyone or change their life, however I can help you to process how you are feeling, help you to find new perspectives, and can pass on insights and concepts that may help to make sense of your problems, so you can develop the capacity to become your own healer.
Does something need to change for you? Are you struggling in your relationships, career, feeling anxious, depressed, traumatised, grieving a loved one, overwhelmed, confused, sad or mis-understood? Sometimes something just isn't right. I am here to heIp. I offer psychotherapeutic counselling to adults and young people 18+ years with a wide range of issues. My core training is in Transactional Analysis, but I integrate other modalities into my work, offering a flexible, personalised approach. I have additional training in working with traumatised and bereaved clients. I offer short, medium or long term therapy tailored to your needs.
Does something need to change for you? Are you struggling in your relationships, career, feeling anxious, depressed, traumatised, grieving a loved one, overwhelmed, confused, sad or mis-understood? Sometimes something just isn't right. I am here to heIp. I offer psychotherapeutic counselling to adults and young people 18+ years with a wide range of issues. My core training is in Transactional Analysis, but I integrate other modalities into my work, offering a flexible, personalised approach. I have additional training in working with traumatised and bereaved clients. I offer short, medium or long term therapy tailored to your needs.
Meet Our Infidelity Counsellors
I believe we have within ourselves all the necessary resources and knowledge to live a full and meaningful life. Counselling can provide the necessary conditions to re-establish that potential. My work is firmly grounded in the Humanistic tradition of believing that you are the expert of your own lived experience. My role is to enquire, respectfully challenge and understand that perspective, which in turn can help to empower you in your everyday life.
I believe we have within ourselves all the necessary resources and knowledge to live a full and meaningful life. Counselling can provide the necessary conditions to re-establish that potential. My work is firmly grounded in the Humanistic tradition of believing that you are the expert of your own lived experience. My role is to enquire, respectfully challenge and understand that perspective, which in turn can help to empower you in your everyday life.
I often work with people who want to make changes to how they feel about themselves and the world around them. Moving towards awareness, developing acceptance, through compassion, and taking action to make positive change in their lives.
You may be experiencing anxiety, depression, grief or are feeling lost or lack belonging in the world. You may be stuck in thought patterns, behaviours or impacted by challenges from your past. Maybe a significant life event has occurred and you are finding you are not living your life to the fullest.
I often work with people who want to make changes to how they feel about themselves and the world around them. Moving towards awareness, developing acceptance, through compassion, and taking action to make positive change in their lives.
You may be experiencing anxiety, depression, grief or are feeling lost or lack belonging in the world. You may be stuck in thought patterns, behaviours or impacted by challenges from your past. Maybe a significant life event has occurred and you are finding you are not living your life to the fullest.
Dr Ella Davey
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, CPsychol
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Hove BN3
Waitlist for new clients
If you’re feeling that things in your life are spiralling out of control, I can help. Perhaps something is going on for you right now that needs our attention? Or maybe this issue has an older,
more familiar ring to it? I specialise in emotional difficulties and relational trauma. If you’re feeling misunderstood and adrift, that your needs and boundaries play second fiddle to those of others, or that you struggle to stay in control of your emotions and end up feeling hurt without really knowing why, then I hear and understand you. I can help you to feel grounded, insightful and better equipped - not just to cope but to thrive.
If you’re feeling that things in your life are spiralling out of control, I can help. Perhaps something is going on for you right now that needs our attention? Or maybe this issue has an older,
more familiar ring to it? I specialise in emotional difficulties and relational trauma. If you’re feeling misunderstood and adrift, that your needs and boundaries play second fiddle to those of others, or that you struggle to stay in control of your emotions and end up feeling hurt without really knowing why, then I hear and understand you. I can help you to feel grounded, insightful and better equipped - not just to cope but to thrive.
I am a qualified clinical psychologist with over 20 years experience working with adults with a range of difficulties including trauma, abuse, difficulties in relationships, self-harm, depression and anxiety. You may be quite clear about what your difficulties are and what help you would like or just feel unhappy and have a sense that your life is not going quite as you had hoped. I can work with you to think about why difficulties have arisen and how you can make changes in the here and now to help your life move forward.
I am a qualified clinical psychologist with over 20 years experience working with adults with a range of difficulties including trauma, abuse, difficulties in relationships, self-harm, depression and anxiety. You may be quite clear about what your difficulties are and what help you would like or just feel unhappy and have a sense that your life is not going quite as you had hoped. I can work with you to think about why difficulties have arisen and how you can make changes in the here and now to help your life move forward.
My name is Ellen and I am a BACP accredited, experienced Counsellor, trained in individual counselling, couple counselling and EMDR (eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing). I offer a warm, confidential, non-judgmental space to work collaboratively with whatever issues you are bringing to therapy. I have worked with clients for over 20 years, in the voluntary sector and in private practice.
My name is Ellen and I am a BACP accredited, experienced Counsellor, trained in individual counselling, couple counselling and EMDR (eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing). I offer a warm, confidential, non-judgmental space to work collaboratively with whatever issues you are bringing to therapy. I have worked with clients for over 20 years, in the voluntary sector and in private practice.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety and stress? Life’s challenges can feel daunting, leaving you uncertain and emotionally drained. If managing these feelings is a struggle, you deserve a safe space to share your experiences and feel truly heard. Connecting with someone who understands your struggles is essential. You seek understanding and meaningful connections, wanting to feel empowered to handle life’s challenges. By exploring your feelings, thoughts, and behaviours, we can work together towards a more fulfilling and balanced life.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety and stress? Life’s challenges can feel daunting, leaving you uncertain and emotionally drained. If managing these feelings is a struggle, you deserve a safe space to share your experiences and feel truly heard. Connecting with someone who understands your struggles is essential. You seek understanding and meaningful connections, wanting to feel empowered to handle life’s challenges. By exploring your feelings, thoughts, and behaviours, we can work together towards a more fulfilling and balanced life.
Life can be hard, and sometimes you need a place to figure things out. Therapy can be that place; a place where you can feel heard and met with care and respect, a safe place where you can heal and grow towards a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
I offer a safe and non-judgemental environment, in which you can explore your feelings and experiences and develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I take a holistic approach to help you discover yourself, your life, and your place in the world. Working alongside you, I support you in facing life’s challenges, healing from past pain, and discovering new possibilities.
Life can be hard, and sometimes you need a place to figure things out. Therapy can be that place; a place where you can feel heard and met with care and respect, a safe place where you can heal and grow towards a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
I offer a safe and non-judgemental environment, in which you can explore your feelings and experiences and develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I take a holistic approach to help you discover yourself, your life, and your place in the world. Working alongside you, I support you in facing life’s challenges, healing from past pain, and discovering new possibilities.
I am a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, and work both in English and in Italian. Psychoanalysis works on the premise that there is more to be known about us than we think, and that this discovery of our own self may enable us to lead a more fulfilling life. I try and understand your unique experience of the world and of others. Symptoms are an important part of this experience, but not the whole truth about it. My aim is to clarify the choices that are available in the face of our struggles, and hopefully a way through them.
I am a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, and work both in English and in Italian. Psychoanalysis works on the premise that there is more to be known about us than we think, and that this discovery of our own self may enable us to lead a more fulfilling life. I try and understand your unique experience of the world and of others. Symptoms are an important part of this experience, but not the whole truth about it. My aim is to clarify the choices that are available in the face of our struggles, and hopefully a way through them.
Deborah Warman-Freed
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Since you're reading this page then I imagine you’d like some aspects of your life to be different and you're wondering if I - or therapy - can help you. Your concerns may be about difficult feelings that feel overwhelming. You may be finding it a challenge to like yourself or perhaps you're struggling with relationships. Or you may be coming to terms with a trauma or a loss in your life and are looking to process your experience and see a way forward. We come to therapy for a myriad of reasons.
Since you're reading this page then I imagine you’d like some aspects of your life to be different and you're wondering if I - or therapy - can help you. Your concerns may be about difficult feelings that feel overwhelming. You may be finding it a challenge to like yourself or perhaps you're struggling with relationships. Or you may be coming to terms with a trauma or a loss in your life and are looking to process your experience and see a way forward. We come to therapy for a myriad of reasons.
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Nearby Infidelity Counsellors Searches for Hove
- Brighton
- Burgess Hill
- Falmer
- Hassocks
- Henfield
- Hurstpierpoint
- Lancing
- Peacehaven
- Portslade
- Saltdean
- Shoreham-by-Sea
- Steyning
Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.