Couples Counselling in Horley
It's so hard to find the right support, or to even know where to look, so I am glad you are here.
Maybe you are struggling with communication in your partnership, you may be single and struggling to connect to your desire, you may have painful sex, erection difficulties, or there has been a life change such as cancer, menopause, endometriosis, bereavement that has caused a change in your life, including your sex life.
You may feel judged, scared, and lost. It can be challenging to navigate these things alone. You don't have to.
It's so hard to find the right support, or to even know where to look, so I am glad you are here.
Maybe you are struggling with communication in your partnership, you may be single and struggling to connect to your desire, you may have painful sex, erection difficulties, or there has been a life change such as cancer, menopause, endometriosis, bereavement that has caused a change in your life, including your sex life.
You may feel judged, scared, and lost. It can be challenging to navigate these things alone. You don't have to.
I charge £65 per session, and £50 for concession session fee for anyone in the armed forces, NHS and education (including spouses).
I work with a wide range of clients, those who are “wearing a mask”, facing adversity, struggling with past trauma, loss of agency, identity, or self-destructive patterns. They feel disconnected, reactive, and uncertain about their future. They need a structured approach to rebuild trust in themselves, regain control, and find meaning in navigating their suffering. Their goal is growth, not just recovery. They want clarity, resilience, and a sense of purpose because they refuse to be defined by their past. My therapy focuses on reintegrating the divided self, fostering agency, and helping clients transform pain into strength.
I charge £65 per session, and £50 for concession session fee for anyone in the armed forces, NHS and education (including spouses).
I work with a wide range of clients, those who are “wearing a mask”, facing adversity, struggling with past trauma, loss of agency, identity, or self-destructive patterns. They feel disconnected, reactive, and uncertain about their future. They need a structured approach to rebuild trust in themselves, regain control, and find meaning in navigating their suffering. Their goal is growth, not just recovery. They want clarity, resilience, and a sense of purpose because they refuse to be defined by their past. My therapy focuses on reintegrating the divided self, fostering agency, and helping clients transform pain into strength.
You may be facing loss, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or a sense of dissatisfaction.
My approach is psychodynamic, focusing on how patterns in your thoughts, feelings, and relationships may be shaping your experience. Together, we work to understand these patterns and support meaningful change.
You may be facing loss, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or a sense of dissatisfaction.
My approach is psychodynamic, focusing on how patterns in your thoughts, feelings, and relationships may be shaping your experience. Together, we work to understand these patterns and support meaningful change.
By paying attention to the relationship that unfolds between us, you can gain a better understanding of yourself, and discover alternative behaviours and new possibilities in your relationships.
I work with people who are struggling with different life situations such as addictive behaviours, fertility concerns, alcoholism, chronic illness, depression, anxiety, miscarriage and bereavement and many more. I help you to empower and resource yourself so that change feels possible. I am here to listen and encourage you to become more attuned to your inner needs, providing you with greater freedom of choice and creativity. I am passionate about providing a safe space where you feel comfortable and heard.
By paying attention to the relationship that unfolds between us, you can gain a better understanding of yourself, and discover alternative behaviours and new possibilities in your relationships.
I work with people who are struggling with different life situations such as addictive behaviours, fertility concerns, alcoholism, chronic illness, depression, anxiety, miscarriage and bereavement and many more. I help you to empower and resource yourself so that change feels possible. I am here to listen and encourage you to become more attuned to your inner needs, providing you with greater freedom of choice and creativity. I am passionate about providing a safe space where you feel comfortable and heard.
I offer a genuine and empathic therapeutic relationship where confidentiality and respect are the cornerstones of my practice.
Hello and a warm welcome. Making the decision to see a therapist is a big step, but it can be a positive one. As an experienced, Humanistic Integrative Therapist registered with the BACP, my aim is to be alongside you and listen without judgement, whilst helping you explore at your own pace, whatever difficulties you maybe facing. Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious or depressed? Or perhaps you are experiencing low self esteem, stress or burnout because your work/life balance isn’t what you’d like it to be? Equally, you may want to work through some important life changes and evaluate your next steps.
I offer a genuine and empathic therapeutic relationship where confidentiality and respect are the cornerstones of my practice.
Hello and a warm welcome. Making the decision to see a therapist is a big step, but it can be a positive one. As an experienced, Humanistic Integrative Therapist registered with the BACP, my aim is to be alongside you and listen without judgement, whilst helping you explore at your own pace, whatever difficulties you maybe facing. Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious or depressed? Or perhaps you are experiencing low self esteem, stress or burnout because your work/life balance isn’t what you’d like it to be? Equally, you may want to work through some important life changes and evaluate your next steps.
I offer attachment- and trauma-informed therapy for adults and teens (15+) who have experienced adversity and unsafe relationships.
Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, family/ relationship difficulties, or complex feelings from your past, I’m here to offer a safe space where you can explore your needs, hopes and goals. I draw from a range of evidence-based therapies to suit your unique needs, including CBT, CFT, ACT, Systemic, attachment-informed/therapeutic parenting & NET.
I offer attachment- and trauma-informed therapy for adults and teens (15+) who have experienced adversity and unsafe relationships.
Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, family/ relationship difficulties, or complex feelings from your past, I’m here to offer a safe space where you can explore your needs, hopes and goals. I draw from a range of evidence-based therapies to suit your unique needs, including CBT, CFT, ACT, Systemic, attachment-informed/therapeutic parenting & NET.
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Since 2009 I have supported individuals navigating mental health challenges, low self-esteem, relationship issues, and life transitions.
I am a qualified counsellor with over 15 years experience, specialising in addiction, and complex emotional challenges including anxiety & fear. My approach is integrative and Person-Centred, drawing on both evidence based and intuitive methods.
Since 2009 I have supported individuals navigating mental health challenges, low self-esteem, relationship issues, and life transitions.
I am a qualified counsellor with over 15 years experience, specialising in addiction, and complex emotional challenges including anxiety & fear. My approach is integrative and Person-Centred, drawing on both evidence based and intuitive methods.
Paul has a wealth of experience of psychological intervention having worked in various multi-disciplinary work settings including NHS IAPT services (Improving Access to Psychological Therapies). Alcohol and Drug misuse services, renowned private residential rehabs and prison. He has also had a successful private practice in Harley Street and in the Home Counties and now works from Guildford and Godalming in Surrey. Paul will use various contemporary research and evidence based therapeutic models including CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), MET (Motivational Enhancement Therapy) and Humanistic Person Centred Therapy to help facilitate change and help people with various issues to live more balanced lives.
Paul has a wealth of experience of psychological intervention having worked in various multi-disciplinary work settings including NHS IAPT services (Improving Access to Psychological Therapies). Alcohol and Drug misuse services, renowned private residential rehabs and prison. He has also had a successful private practice in Harley Street and in the Home Counties and now works from Guildford and Godalming in Surrey. Paul will use various contemporary research and evidence based therapeutic models including CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), MET (Motivational Enhancement Therapy) and Humanistic Person Centred Therapy to help facilitate change and help people with various issues to live more balanced lives.
You may be struggling with a difficult relationship at home or at work.
I work within the humanistic integrative philosophy. I see us all as having a tendency towards wholeness, growth and healing given the opportunity. I see my role as providing that opportunity, by offering you a real, safe and trusting therapeutic relationship.
You may be struggling with a difficult relationship at home or at work.
I work within the humanistic integrative philosophy. I see us all as having a tendency towards wholeness, growth and healing given the opportunity. I see my role as providing that opportunity, by offering you a real, safe and trusting therapeutic relationship.
I am using a couple of therapy models Schema therapy, CBT.
Hello. I am Özde. I have been working for six years as a psychologist. My area of expertise is individual teeneager and adult personality disorders, especially Borderline, Schizophrenia, OCD, Bipolar..I also take a session a client who has struggle Anxiety disorders, PTSD, depression and panic attack. I always try to help people learn to cope with stressful situations, overcome addictions, manage their chronic illnesses, and tests and assessments that can help diagnose a condition or tell more about the way a person thinks, feels, and behaves.
I am using a couple of therapy models Schema therapy, CBT.
Hello. I am Özde. I have been working for six years as a psychologist. My area of expertise is individual teeneager and adult personality disorders, especially Borderline, Schizophrenia, OCD, Bipolar..I also take a session a client who has struggle Anxiety disorders, PTSD, depression and panic attack. I always try to help people learn to cope with stressful situations, overcome addictions, manage their chronic illnesses, and tests and assessments that can help diagnose a condition or tell more about the way a person thinks, feels, and behaves.
I work with individuals, couples and families.
I offer talk therapy with CBT, DBT and Lifespan Integration offered as well as some Hypnotherapy and art therapy. I work often with trauma, depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I have training in Gottman and EFT couples therapy.
I work with individuals, couples and families.
I offer talk therapy with CBT, DBT and Lifespan Integration offered as well as some Hypnotherapy and art therapy. I work often with trauma, depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I have training in Gottman and EFT couples therapy.
Others are struggling with identity or relationship difficulties, including issues around confidence, shame, sexuality, sex or intimacy.
As a qualified Counselling Psychologist and sex and relationship therapist working in the NHS and private practice, I bring a specialist understanding of emotional, relational, and sexual wellbeing.
Furthermore, my training as an Osteopath, has shaped the holistic way I think about and work with the connection between the body and mind.
Others are struggling with identity or relationship difficulties, including issues around confidence, shame, sexuality, sex or intimacy.
As a qualified Counselling Psychologist and sex and relationship therapist working in the NHS and private practice, I bring a specialist understanding of emotional, relational, and sexual wellbeing.
Furthermore, my training as an Osteopath, has shaped the holistic way I think about and work with the connection between the body and mind.
Particular areas of interest include anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, (mental/physical and sexual).
I tailor my approach to suit each particular individual's circumstances and issues. I have over 25 years post qualification experience in psychotherapy and counselling and I see people with a range of issues and work both short and long term.
Particular areas of interest include anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, (mental/physical and sexual).
I tailor my approach to suit each particular individual's circumstances and issues. I have over 25 years post qualification experience in psychotherapy and counselling and I see people with a range of issues and work both short and long term.
They are central to the way I work as a therapist, enabling me to foster strong therapeutic relationships in a safe, confidential space where clients can feel understood and supported.
Guided by existential principals, I aim to increase clients’ understanding of their current difficulties through descriptively identifying their experiences and challenging both explicit and implicit assumptions within their narratives. I help clients explore change, alternative perspectives and ways of relating to themselves & their circumstances.
They are central to the way I work as a therapist, enabling me to foster strong therapeutic relationships in a safe, confidential space where clients can feel understood and supported.
Guided by existential principals, I aim to increase clients’ understanding of their current difficulties through descriptively identifying their experiences and challenging both explicit and implicit assumptions within their narratives. I help clients explore change, alternative perspectives and ways of relating to themselves & their circumstances.
I specialise in helping people who are dealing with traumatic life events, and those who feel lost amidst major life transitions. Whether you are navigating a health challenge, coming to terms with a loss, or looking for support around managing stress - I am here to support you.
My approach is first and foremost centred around your needs, your history, and you as a person. I want to help you find yourself and the path forward using evidence based interventions with practical and human guidance.
I specialise in helping people who are dealing with traumatic life events, and those who feel lost amidst major life transitions. Whether you are navigating a health challenge, coming to terms with a loss, or looking for support around managing stress - I am here to support you.
My approach is first and foremost centred around your needs, your history, and you as a person. I want to help you find yourself and the path forward using evidence based interventions with practical and human guidance.
You might be struggling with difficult feelings like anxiety or depression, a painful loss, relationship issues or unhelpful behaviour patterns and need some support understanding what is going on for you.
My approach is integrative which means I can work with many different approaches & techniques to find the best way that suits you. I offer you a safe facilitating space to talk about what is causing problems in your life. With empathy and compassion I can help you understand your present and your past, enabling you to lead a more fulfilled and happier life.
You might be struggling with difficult feelings like anxiety or depression, a painful loss, relationship issues or unhelpful behaviour patterns and need some support understanding what is going on for you.
My approach is integrative which means I can work with many different approaches & techniques to find the best way that suits you. I offer you a safe facilitating space to talk about what is causing problems in your life. With empathy and compassion I can help you understand your present and your past, enabling you to lead a more fulfilled and happier life.
Are you navigating challenges in your relationships, family, or personal life?
As a systemic family therapist, I specialise in helping individuals, couples, and families understand their dynamics, improve communication, and address sensitive issues such as intimacy and grief. I provide a compassionate, non-judgemental approach to help you identify patterns, overcome challenges, and foster meaningful, lasting change.
Are you navigating challenges in your relationships, family, or personal life?
As a systemic family therapist, I specialise in helping individuals, couples, and families understand their dynamics, improve communication, and address sensitive issues such as intimacy and grief. I provide a compassionate, non-judgemental approach to help you identify patterns, overcome challenges, and foster meaningful, lasting change.
I am a UKCP registered Contemporary Psychotherapist and COSRT accredited Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist
Hello, I am a Contemporary Psychotherapist (UKCP), Sex and Relationship Therapist (AccCOSRT), and Clinical Supervisor, working with adult individuals and couples in private practice, with over ten years of experience.
Drawing on my previous experience of working in the NHS, and in local government, I welcome people from a wide range of backgrounds and communities. My work has given me a strong understanding of life transitions and the impact that internal and external stress, anxiety, and change can have at different stages of life for individuals and on relationships.
I am a UKCP registered Contemporary Psychotherapist and COSRT accredited Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist
Hello, I am a Contemporary Psychotherapist (UKCP), Sex and Relationship Therapist (AccCOSRT), and Clinical Supervisor, working with adult individuals and couples in private practice, with over ten years of experience.
Drawing on my previous experience of working in the NHS, and in local government, I welcome people from a wide range of backgrounds and communities. My work has given me a strong understanding of life transitions and the impact that internal and external stress, anxiety, and change can have at different stages of life for individuals and on relationships.
Hello, my name is Zita and I offer counselling and psychotherapy for individuals and couples.
I have experience working with a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, abuse, trauma, addiction, disability, discrimination, abandonment, bereavement, relationships – family & romantic, ADHD and EUPD. I offer a free initial 20-minute phone call, we can then have a session to explore your needs in more detail and take it from there.
Hello, my name is Zita and I offer counselling and psychotherapy for individuals and couples.
I have experience working with a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, abuse, trauma, addiction, disability, discrimination, abandonment, bereavement, relationships – family & romantic, ADHD and EUPD. I offer a free initial 20-minute phone call, we can then have a session to explore your needs in more detail and take it from there.
I provide Couples therapy, helping you both with communication, sex problems, affairs & betrayals, supporting Monogamous, ENM couples and Poly relationships.
I integrate theories I have studied and researched whilst my approach creates the environment for security, warmth & support to explore whatever you need, as a unique individual or for the unique couples or family relationships you’ve come to explore. Sessions continue as we work together for you to sense personal change outside the therapy room.
I provide Couples therapy, helping you both with communication, sex problems, affairs & betrayals, supporting Monogamous, ENM couples and Poly relationships.
I integrate theories I have studied and researched whilst my approach creates the environment for security, warmth & support to explore whatever you need, as a unique individual or for the unique couples or family relationships you’ve come to explore. Sessions continue as we work together for you to sense personal change outside the therapy room.
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Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.