Counselling in Horley
Welcome, my name is Lucy. I am a person-centred counsellor offering individual therapy for adults in Horley and Crawley; or online. I provide a warm, compassionate, and confidential space where you can talk openly and be truly heard - without judgement or pressure.
Life can sometimes feel overwhelming or uncertain and it's okay to need support. Whether you’re facing challenges like anxiety, loss, or low self-esteem or simply seeking personal growth and a deeper connection with yourself, counselling can offer a space to pause, reflect, and explore. You don't need to have all the answers - just a willingness to take that first step.
Welcome, my name is Lucy. I am a person-centred counsellor offering individual therapy for adults in Horley and Crawley; or online. I provide a warm, compassionate, and confidential space where you can talk openly and be truly heard - without judgement or pressure.
Life can sometimes feel overwhelming or uncertain and it's okay to need support. Whether you’re facing challenges like anxiety, loss, or low self-esteem or simply seeking personal growth and a deeper connection with yourself, counselling can offer a space to pause, reflect, and explore. You don't need to have all the answers - just a willingness to take that first step.
Are you struggling with symptoms of perimenopause or menopause?
I specialise in supporting women through perimenopause and menopause, helping clients navigate mood changes, anxiety, sleep issues, and life transitions related to hormonal shifts. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and evidence-based, offering a space where your experiences are understood and taken seriously.
Therapy is offered in a way to suit you - online, face-to-face or walking therapy
Are you struggling with symptoms of perimenopause or menopause?
I specialise in supporting women through perimenopause and menopause, helping clients navigate mood changes, anxiety, sleep issues, and life transitions related to hormonal shifts. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and evidence-based, offering a space where your experiences are understood and taken seriously.
Therapy is offered in a way to suit you - online, face-to-face or walking therapy
It's so hard to find the right support, or to even know where to look, so I am glad you are here.
Maybe you are struggling with communication in your partnership, you may be single and struggling to connect to your desire, you may have painful sex, erection difficulties, or there has been a life change such as cancer, menopause, endometriosis, bereavement that has caused a change in your life, including your sex life.
You may feel judged, scared, and lost. It can be challenging to navigate these things alone. You don't have to.
It's so hard to find the right support, or to even know where to look, so I am glad you are here.
Maybe you are struggling with communication in your partnership, you may be single and struggling to connect to your desire, you may have painful sex, erection difficulties, or there has been a life change such as cancer, menopause, endometriosis, bereavement that has caused a change in your life, including your sex life.
You may feel judged, scared, and lost. It can be challenging to navigate these things alone. You don't have to.
There may be times in life where you feel that you are on your own, and you put a brave face on because you don't want to burden others for fear that they won't understand what you're going through. As a Therapist I would like to provide the safe space for you to explore these feelings. Hello, my name is Sam, I am a qualified experienced Counsellor practising in Horley & Coulsdon areas of Surrey. As a counsellor I aim to provide a warm, empathic, non-judgmental, safe space to listen, reflect and provide emotional support. I offer an external relationship away from distractions to focus on you.
There may be times in life where you feel that you are on your own, and you put a brave face on because you don't want to burden others for fear that they won't understand what you're going through. As a Therapist I would like to provide the safe space for you to explore these feelings. Hello, my name is Sam, I am a qualified experienced Counsellor practising in Horley & Coulsdon areas of Surrey. As a counsellor I aim to provide a warm, empathic, non-judgmental, safe space to listen, reflect and provide emotional support. I offer an external relationship away from distractions to focus on you.
Most people at some point in their lives will struggle with painful feelings or may feel overwhelmed by past or present experiences. These can make us feel lost, anxious, confused, helpless, distressed or angry, sometimes without us knowing why. Counselling is also not just for supporting people through a crisis. Many people come to counselling to explore and get a better understanding of themselves and their lives. Whatever you are experiencing, it can be difficult to explain how we feel to the people who are closest to us. Sometimes it is easier to talk to someone who is separate from your everyday life.
Most people at some point in their lives will struggle with painful feelings or may feel overwhelmed by past or present experiences. These can make us feel lost, anxious, confused, helpless, distressed or angry, sometimes without us knowing why. Counselling is also not just for supporting people through a crisis. Many people come to counselling to explore and get a better understanding of themselves and their lives. Whatever you are experiencing, it can be difficult to explain how we feel to the people who are closest to us. Sometimes it is easier to talk to someone who is separate from your everyday life.
Hello, and welcome to my profile. I understand that starting therapy can feel daunting, especially if it’s your first time. If you’re reading this, it means you’ve already taken an important step towards gaining support and fostering change. My aim is to meet you where you are, providing a safe and supportive space that encourages open discussion and reflection.
Hello, and welcome to my profile. I understand that starting therapy can feel daunting, especially if it’s your first time. If you’re reading this, it means you’ve already taken an important step towards gaining support and fostering change. My aim is to meet you where you are, providing a safe and supportive space that encourages open discussion and reflection.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or caught up in patterns that don’t quite make sense? Maybe you’re feeling anxious, low, or disconnected from others - you are not alone.
I’m Dr Danielle Kerley, a Clinical Psychologist specialising in supporting people
overcome the impact of difficult life experiences and transitions. I offer attachment- and trauma-informed therapy for adults and teens (15+) who have experienced adversity and unsafe relationships. I also support parents whose own early life experiences or emotional wellbeing may be impacting their parenting.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or caught up in patterns that don’t quite make sense? Maybe you’re feeling anxious, low, or disconnected from others - you are not alone.
I’m Dr Danielle Kerley, a Clinical Psychologist specialising in supporting people
overcome the impact of difficult life experiences and transitions. I offer attachment- and trauma-informed therapy for adults and teens (15+) who have experienced adversity and unsafe relationships. I also support parents whose own early life experiences or emotional wellbeing may be impacting their parenting.
I offer a warm, compassionate and safe space for us to explore the areas of your life where you may feel overwhelmed, stuck or want to make changes. Perhaps you have noticed yourself repeating the same old patterns or feel life has gone off course and need support or a new perspective to help get things back on track. Whatever your reasons for seeking counselling, I will take the time to listen, understand your needs and what is important to you, before we decide the best way to move forward together.
I offer a warm, compassionate and safe space for us to explore the areas of your life where you may feel overwhelmed, stuck or want to make changes. Perhaps you have noticed yourself repeating the same old patterns or feel life has gone off course and need support or a new perspective to help get things back on track. Whatever your reasons for seeking counselling, I will take the time to listen, understand your needs and what is important to you, before we decide the best way to move forward together.
Hello and a warm welcome. Making the decision to see a therapist is a big step, but it can be a positive one. As an experienced, Humanistic Integrative Therapist registered with the BACP, my aim is to be alongside you and listen without judgement, whilst helping you explore at your own pace, whatever difficulties you maybe facing. Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious or depressed? Or perhaps you are experiencing low self esteem, stress or burnout because your work/life balance isn’t what you’d like it to be? Equally, you may want to work through some important life changes and evaluate your next steps.
Hello and a warm welcome. Making the decision to see a therapist is a big step, but it can be a positive one. As an experienced, Humanistic Integrative Therapist registered with the BACP, my aim is to be alongside you and listen without judgement, whilst helping you explore at your own pace, whatever difficulties you maybe facing. Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious or depressed? Or perhaps you are experiencing low self esteem, stress or burnout because your work/life balance isn’t what you’d like it to be? Equally, you may want to work through some important life changes and evaluate your next steps.
Hi, I’m Emily.
Welcome to the world of counselling, and welcome back if you’ve been here before. It would be a privilege to work with you.
I am an integrative counsellor. This means our work will draw on a variety of counselling techniques such as IFS, CBT and creative methods. At my core I practice Gestalt therapy; a relational approach dealing with the 'here and now'. We can discuss any particular interest in a modality during our initial call.
I believe the relationship is the most important part of the therapeutic process and so our sessions would be client-lead whilst bringing my authentic self as well.
Hi, I’m Emily.
Welcome to the world of counselling, and welcome back if you’ve been here before. It would be a privilege to work with you.
I am an integrative counsellor. This means our work will draw on a variety of counselling techniques such as IFS, CBT and creative methods. At my core I practice Gestalt therapy; a relational approach dealing with the 'here and now'. We can discuss any particular interest in a modality during our initial call.
I believe the relationship is the most important part of the therapeutic process and so our sessions would be client-lead whilst bringing my authentic self as well.
'Counselling, a step in the right direction' Are you experiencing difficulties In your life and need someone to talk to about how you are feeling? Needing help and support through challenging times? I am a qualified, experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist with experience in a wide range of issues from depression, stress, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement.
'Counselling, a step in the right direction' Are you experiencing difficulties In your life and need someone to talk to about how you are feeling? Needing help and support through challenging times? I am a qualified, experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist with experience in a wide range of issues from depression, stress, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement.
I work with people who are struggling with different life situations such as addictive behaviours, fertility concerns, alcoholism, chronic illness, depression, anxiety, miscarriage and bereavement and many more. I help you to empower and resource yourself so that change feels possible. I am here to listen and encourage you to become more attuned to your inner needs, providing you with greater freedom of choice and creativity. I am passionate about providing a safe space where you feel comfortable and heard.
I work with people who are struggling with different life situations such as addictive behaviours, fertility concerns, alcoholism, chronic illness, depression, anxiety, miscarriage and bereavement and many more. I help you to empower and resource yourself so that change feels possible. I am here to listen and encourage you to become more attuned to your inner needs, providing you with greater freedom of choice and creativity. I am passionate about providing a safe space where you feel comfortable and heard.
I am a humanistic psychotherapist working creatively and somatically (body-orientated), using Gestalt theories and approaches. Working across a range of issues, including anxiety, healthy relationships, anger management, emotional regulation, anxiety, life transitions, childhood difficulties and bereavement & loss. I am responsive, compassionate and trauma-informed (polyvagal & Peter Levine) in my approaches. Mums are welcome to bring their baby with them, if this helps with accessing therapy.
I am a humanistic psychotherapist working creatively and somatically (body-orientated), using Gestalt theories and approaches. Working across a range of issues, including anxiety, healthy relationships, anger management, emotional regulation, anxiety, life transitions, childhood difficulties and bereavement & loss. I am responsive, compassionate and trauma-informed (polyvagal & Peter Levine) in my approaches. Mums are welcome to bring their baby with them, if this helps with accessing therapy.
Anxiety. Relationship difficulties. Trauma. PTSD. Abuse. ADHD. Feeling stuck in patterns you understand but cannot seem to change.
Many people who come to me have spent years trying to make sense of their experiences, perhaps even had therapy before. Yet despite that insight, they still find themselves overwhelmed, disconnected, people-pleasing, stuck in difficult relationships, or carrying experiences that continue to shape their lives.
But understanding and change are not always the same thing. Many clients seek me out because they want more than coping strategies alone, wanting greater self-trust, and freedom from old patterns.
Anxiety. Relationship difficulties. Trauma. PTSD. Abuse. ADHD. Feeling stuck in patterns you understand but cannot seem to change.
Many people who come to me have spent years trying to make sense of their experiences, perhaps even had therapy before. Yet despite that insight, they still find themselves overwhelmed, disconnected, people-pleasing, stuck in difficult relationships, or carrying experiences that continue to shape their lives.
But understanding and change are not always the same thing. Many clients seek me out because they want more than coping strategies alone, wanting greater self-trust, and freedom from old patterns.
Talking to those closest to us is often not an option, or may not be available to you, and sometimes, it can feel easier to seek support from someone who is impartial to your day to day life.
A genuine human connection is really important for me, providing an environment where you can feel safe to explore your inner self. I pride myself on cultivating an authentic space, where you will be met with compassion and non-judgement. I offer a sense of calm and encourage self-awareness and understanding, working collaboratively to explore your experiences - I want to get to know you, however you present.
Talking to those closest to us is often not an option, or may not be available to you, and sometimes, it can feel easier to seek support from someone who is impartial to your day to day life.
A genuine human connection is really important for me, providing an environment where you can feel safe to explore your inner self. I pride myself on cultivating an authentic space, where you will be met with compassion and non-judgement. I offer a sense of calm and encourage self-awareness and understanding, working collaboratively to explore your experiences - I want to get to know you, however you present.
My clients often seem to be coping on the outside but feel lost, stuck, or overwhelmed inside. Many have carried silent struggles for years—anxiety, low self-esteem, anger, grief, addiction, or relationship issues—unsure why life feels so heavy. They want clarity, connection, and to feel more at ease in themselves. Some come after a crisis; others are simply tired of pretending. They seek a safe space to explore their feelings, understand deep patterns, and believe—perhaps for the first time—that real change is possible.
My clients often seem to be coping on the outside but feel lost, stuck, or overwhelmed inside. Many have carried silent struggles for years—anxiety, low self-esteem, anger, grief, addiction, or relationship issues—unsure why life feels so heavy. They want clarity, connection, and to feel more at ease in themselves. Some come after a crisis; others are simply tired of pretending. They seek a safe space to explore their feelings, understand deep patterns, and believe—perhaps for the first time—that real change is possible.
Hello and welcome! My name is Sam. I'm a registered Mental Health Nurse and accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist - also trained in Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). I provide online therapy sessions working with adults over the age of 16 who might be struggling with a range of mental health difficulties including anxiety and low mood.
My special interest is supporting people to overcome Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD), with a particular focus on good quality Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) which is the 'active ingredient' in treatment for these conditions.
Hello and welcome! My name is Sam. I'm a registered Mental Health Nurse and accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist - also trained in Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). I provide online therapy sessions working with adults over the age of 16 who might be struggling with a range of mental health difficulties including anxiety and low mood.
My special interest is supporting people to overcome Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD), with a particular focus on good quality Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) which is the 'active ingredient' in treatment for these conditions.
Hello, I'm Helen - together, we can explore whatever difficulties and emotions you're struggling with, however overwhelming and confusing they are. Therapy with me is a chance to unload some of the burden and to understand more about yourself and your relationships. I provide a caring and non-judgemental space where we will normally look in depth at your own experience, including things that have happened in your life and their influence on you. Our sessions together will support you to feel differently about whatever it is that's troubling you, more at ease with yourself and able to move forward.
Hello, I'm Helen - together, we can explore whatever difficulties and emotions you're struggling with, however overwhelming and confusing they are. Therapy with me is a chance to unload some of the burden and to understand more about yourself and your relationships. I provide a caring and non-judgemental space where we will normally look in depth at your own experience, including things that have happened in your life and their influence on you. Our sessions together will support you to feel differently about whatever it is that's troubling you, more at ease with yourself and able to move forward.
Coming to counselling can feel daunting and may take courage. With over ten years’ experience in practice, I offer a confidential, non-judgemental space to explore difficult feelings, gain insight, and begin to move forward. You may be facing loss, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or a sense of dissatisfaction.
Coming to counselling can feel daunting and may take courage. With over ten years’ experience in practice, I offer a confidential, non-judgemental space to explore difficult feelings, gain insight, and begin to move forward. You may be facing loss, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or a sense of dissatisfaction.
I work with a wide range of clients, those who are “wearing a mask”, facing adversity, struggling with past trauma, loss of agency, identity, or self-destructive patterns. They feel disconnected, reactive, and uncertain about their future. They need a structured approach to rebuild trust in themselves, regain control, and find meaning in navigating their suffering. Their goal is growth, not just recovery. They want clarity, resilience, and a sense of purpose because they refuse to be defined by their past. My therapy focuses on reintegrating the divided self, fostering agency, and helping clients transform pain into strength.
I work with a wide range of clients, those who are “wearing a mask”, facing adversity, struggling with past trauma, loss of agency, identity, or self-destructive patterns. They feel disconnected, reactive, and uncertain about their future. They need a structured approach to rebuild trust in themselves, regain control, and find meaning in navigating their suffering. Their goal is growth, not just recovery. They want clarity, resilience, and a sense of purpose because they refuse to be defined by their past. My therapy focuses on reintegrating the divided self, fostering agency, and helping clients transform pain into strength.
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Horley
20+
Average cost per session
£55
Counsellors in Horley who prioritize treating:
| 95% | Anxiety |
| 86% | Relationship Issues |
| 86% | Self Esteem |
| 81% | Depression |
| 81% | Stress |
| 76% | Bereavement |
| 62% | Domestic Abuse |
Average years in practice
11 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 67% | Aviva |
| 67% | AXA PPP |
| 67% | Vitality |
How Counsellors in Horley see their clients
| 90% | In Person and Online | |
| 10% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 90% | Female | |
| 10% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Horley?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.