Domestic Abuse Counselling in High Wycombe

Amanda Passmore
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
I've had personal experience of domestic and spiritual abuse and know how much it helped me to have counselling.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed and just don't know where to turn? Maybe you don't like yourself very much or feel that you don't have anything to offer. Would you like to be able to feel better about your decisions rather than always questioning yourself? Being able to talk to someone about how you're feeling can be a relief and can start to unlock what's going on inside to bring about change.
I've had personal experience of domestic and spiritual abuse and know how much it helped me to have counselling.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed and just don't know where to turn? Maybe you don't like yourself very much or feel that you don't have anything to offer. Would you like to be able to feel better about your decisions rather than always questioning yourself? Being able to talk to someone about how you're feeling can be a relief and can start to unlock what's going on inside to bring about change.
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Dr Nicola Connolly
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
My particular area of expertise is in trauma and working with adults who have had childhood histories of abuse/neglect.
Hello and a warm welcome! I am a Consultant Clinical Psychologist with over 27 years experience working both in the NHS and in private practice. I have worked with both adolescents who struggle to talk, to adults with a wide range of mental health problems, and couples with relationship difficulties. I am trained in several therapies with a specialism in Complex Trauma. It can feel very daunting trying to find the right therapist for your needs and I therefore offer you a free 30 minute Zoom meeting or phonecall to meet with me to put you at ease and to see if I am the right person who can help.
My particular area of expertise is in trauma and working with adults who have had childhood histories of abuse/neglect.
Hello and a warm welcome! I am a Consultant Clinical Psychologist with over 27 years experience working both in the NHS and in private practice. I have worked with both adolescents who struggle to talk, to adults with a wide range of mental health problems, and couples with relationship difficulties. I am trained in several therapies with a specialism in Complex Trauma. It can feel very daunting trying to find the right therapist for your needs and I therefore offer you a free 30 minute Zoom meeting or phonecall to meet with me to put you at ease and to see if I am the right person who can help.
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Joscelyn Raven
Psychotherapist, BPC
1 Endorsed
At times, our experiences and emotions can feel overwhelming. This can impact us physically, emotionally as well as psychologically. Over time, this can have consequences for our day to day lives, relationships and work. Psychodynamic psychotherapy can provide an important, safe, confidential space to gain insight of our ourselves, our experiences and our difficulties. This can involve receiving help to identify, and work through, the underlying events, relationships, beliefs and fears which may be causing destructive patterns as well as feelings of being stuck, frustrated, lost and empty.
At times, our experiences and emotions can feel overwhelming. This can impact us physically, emotionally as well as psychologically. Over time, this can have consequences for our day to day lives, relationships and work. Psychodynamic psychotherapy can provide an important, safe, confidential space to gain insight of our ourselves, our experiences and our difficulties. This can involve receiving help to identify, and work through, the underlying events, relationships, beliefs and fears which may be causing destructive patterns as well as feelings of being stuck, frustrated, lost and empty.
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Elizabeth Kinsey-James
Counsellor, MBACP
4 Endorsed
Welcome. If you're reading this, maybe you've decided the time is right to make a change, and you're ready to take that important step. Asking for help can be difficult and it is something to be applauded. My role is to offer a safe space, free from judgement, and to listen to you with warmth and empathy. I will hear you, support you, empower you and facilitate you finding your path through. I encourage autonomy and self-compassion. I will endeavour to help you to see things in a different light. I believe everyone can benefit from therapy, and the benefits of therapy can be life changing.
Welcome. If you're reading this, maybe you've decided the time is right to make a change, and you're ready to take that important step. Asking for help can be difficult and it is something to be applauded. My role is to offer a safe space, free from judgement, and to listen to you with warmth and empathy. I will hear you, support you, empower you and facilitate you finding your path through. I encourage autonomy and self-compassion. I will endeavour to help you to see things in a different light. I believe everyone can benefit from therapy, and the benefits of therapy can be life changing.
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Trevor Tall Counselling
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
I have worked with people through a broad range of difficulties including generalised anxiety disorder, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, all types of abuse, family issues, personality disorders and bereavement.
If you are reading this there is a chance that you (or someone you know) may be experiencing some emotional difficulties. In my personal experience, counselling and psychotherapy can help with a wide range of problems related to life and living. Many of us don't know why we feel unhappy, lacking in confidence or generally anxious. Some experience anxiety in relation to situations where other people seem to cope without a problem. Sitting down with a trained therapist can help alleviate distress as well as uncover the self-defeating patterns we may have stumbled into as a consequence of life's events.
I have worked with people through a broad range of difficulties including generalised anxiety disorder, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, all types of abuse, family issues, personality disorders and bereavement.
If you are reading this there is a chance that you (or someone you know) may be experiencing some emotional difficulties. In my personal experience, counselling and psychotherapy can help with a wide range of problems related to life and living. Many of us don't know why we feel unhappy, lacking in confidence or generally anxious. Some experience anxiety in relation to situations where other people seem to cope without a problem. Sitting down with a trained therapist can help alleviate distress as well as uncover the self-defeating patterns we may have stumbled into as a consequence of life's events.
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Emma Marshall
Psychotherapist
2 Endorsed
People have counselling for many different reasons. Some will have a particular issue they wish to work through in the short term, some may have been affected by a life-changing event or loss that may need a little longer to come to terms with, others may just feel unhappy, low, sad or angry but unsure why. Whatever it is that is affecting you or leaving you feeling that life is too tough to cope with, counselling can help. It can enable you to understand your emotions more clearly, recognise deeper issues, highlight what you need to take the necessary steps to make changes and move forward with your life.
People have counselling for many different reasons. Some will have a particular issue they wish to work through in the short term, some may have been affected by a life-changing event or loss that may need a little longer to come to terms with, others may just feel unhappy, low, sad or angry but unsure why. Whatever it is that is affecting you or leaving you feeling that life is too tough to cope with, counselling can help. It can enable you to understand your emotions more clearly, recognise deeper issues, highlight what you need to take the necessary steps to make changes and move forward with your life.
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The Choice To Change
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Sometimes it's about coping strategies and supporting my clients through a tough time or loss, want to change something about how they feel, think or behave, many look to free themselves of the past whilst some aren't sure exactly what they need, they simply feel the struggle to be happy in their life or relationships.You'll find I'm patient and calm by nature, have a compassionate and mature approach to helping, intuitively sense some things are really tough to talk about and whilst I will help you with ideas and tools to reduce symptoms and which can also speed up meaningful change between sessions, note: you will get to direct, manage your own destiny. I have always seen my role as guiding my client to see difficulties you stuck and with my help how to overcome them. My aim is always for my clients to be able to leave feeling confident in knowing their own well being long term.
Sometimes it's about coping strategies and supporting my clients through a tough time or loss, want to change something about how they feel, think or behave, many look to free themselves of the past whilst some aren't sure exactly what they need, they simply feel the struggle to be happy in their life or relationships.You'll find I'm patient and calm by nature, have a compassionate and mature approach to helping, intuitively sense some things are really tough to talk about and whilst I will help you with ideas and tools to reduce symptoms and which can also speed up meaningful change between sessions, note: you will get to direct, manage your own destiny. I have always seen my role as guiding my client to see difficulties you stuck and with my help how to overcome them. My aim is always for my clients to be able to leave feeling confident in knowing their own well being long term.
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Sufia Rahman Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
I have over 6 years’ experience working for a Mental Health charity, I have worked in various schools as a school counsellor, Peer support for a postnatal women’s group, volunteered for a youth agency and domestic violence agency.
I am a registered and accredited therapeutic counsellor of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) working with individuals and couples. I am insured and hold an enhanced DBS certificate for adults and children.My aim as a counsellor is building a therapeutic relationship with my clients on mutual trust whilst providing a space where you feel listened, comfortable, and supported whilst we explore together as you find a more fulfilled future.
I have over 6 years’ experience working for a Mental Health charity, I have worked in various schools as a school counsellor, Peer support for a postnatal women’s group, volunteered for a youth agency and domestic violence agency.
I am a registered and accredited therapeutic counsellor of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) working with individuals and couples. I am insured and hold an enhanced DBS certificate for adults and children.My aim as a counsellor is building a therapeutic relationship with my clients on mutual trust whilst providing a space where you feel listened, comfortable, and supported whilst we explore together as you find a more fulfilled future.
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Helen Hunter
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
We all encounter challenging times and transitions in life: the loss of loved ones, relationship breakdowns, stress at work and health problems. These can often trigger childhood traumas, leading to bad feelings, which might lead us to become disconnected to our self and others. This could then lead to less healthy choices and an inability to hold boundaries. You might want to reconnect with your voice and potency and finds ways of integrating your vulnerability, through a combination of somatic interventions as well as talking therapy which transforms your relationship with yourself and others.
We all encounter challenging times and transitions in life: the loss of loved ones, relationship breakdowns, stress at work and health problems. These can often trigger childhood traumas, leading to bad feelings, which might lead us to become disconnected to our self and others. This could then lead to less healthy choices and an inability to hold boundaries. You might want to reconnect with your voice and potency and finds ways of integrating your vulnerability, through a combination of somatic interventions as well as talking therapy which transforms your relationship with yourself and others.
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Mark Anderson
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
I am a psychodynamic psychotherapist (BACP) and psychodynamic counsellor (BPC), qualified to Master of Science level (Birkbeck, University of London). Having worked in a London-based GP practice on a pro bono basis for several years, I have helped patients from many backgrounds, nationalities, ethnicities, religions, genders, and sexual orientations with the internal, and often, unconscious conflicts that have negatively impacted their emotional and mental well-being and that prevented them from living their everyday life to the fullest.
I am a psychodynamic psychotherapist (BACP) and psychodynamic counsellor (BPC), qualified to Master of Science level (Birkbeck, University of London). Having worked in a London-based GP practice on a pro bono basis for several years, I have helped patients from many backgrounds, nationalities, ethnicities, religions, genders, and sexual orientations with the internal, and often, unconscious conflicts that have negatively impacted their emotional and mental well-being and that prevented them from living their everyday life to the fullest.
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Kate Brown Counsellor/Supervisor
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
In addition, since that time, I have also specialised in two areas: As a School Counsellor working with children and young adults from the ages of 6 to 18 years; and working with different types of abuse including in the sexual violence sector where I am an Independent Sexual Violence Advocate.
Hello. Are you struggling at the moment? I am an experienced BACP accredited counsellor working with children, young people and adults. I offer a safe and confidential space in which you can explore any problems or issues troubling you. Please contact me if you would like to talk either on the phone or to arrange an initial appointment with no obligation or fees.
In addition, since that time, I have also specialised in two areas: As a School Counsellor working with children and young adults from the ages of 6 to 18 years; and working with different types of abuse including in the sexual violence sector where I am an Independent Sexual Violence Advocate.
Hello. Are you struggling at the moment? I am an experienced BACP accredited counsellor working with children, young people and adults. I offer a safe and confidential space in which you can explore any problems or issues troubling you. Please contact me if you would like to talk either on the phone or to arrange an initial appointment with no obligation or fees.
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Dr Joanna King (Talking Trauma)
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
My area of specialism is working with trauma and abuse.
Have you been through something traumatic and never had the chance to process what has happened? Are your early life experiences impacting your life, making it hard to live the life you want to? In my 13 years working in mental health, as a Chartered Counselling Psychologist in the NHS and private practice, I have seen the profound impact that your past experiences can have on your current life. I became a specialist in treating adverse life experiences (trauma) and I have found through offering evidence based trauma therapy that people can process their past experiences and begin to live the life they want and deserve.
My area of specialism is working with trauma and abuse.
Have you been through something traumatic and never had the chance to process what has happened? Are your early life experiences impacting your life, making it hard to live the life you want to? In my 13 years working in mental health, as a Chartered Counselling Psychologist in the NHS and private practice, I have seen the profound impact that your past experiences can have on your current life. I became a specialist in treating adverse life experiences (trauma) and I have found through offering evidence based trauma therapy that people can process their past experiences and begin to live the life they want and deserve.
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Beautiful Calm
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
I specialise particularly in Anxiety, Trauma, Depression, Burnout & Low self-esteem and also work with survivors of sexual assault and domestic violence.
Are you anxious or overwhelmed, stressed or just feeling low? Perhaps you just need someone to talk to and support you through something? As a person-centred counsellor, you are the focus of the session and by providing a calm, non-judgmental space we can explore any issues you maybe facing. With a collaborative approach, complemented by some CBT skills you will gain coping strategies to help regulate your emotions. No issue is too big or too small and it may be that you feel you need a better balance in your life, particularly in this current world of uncertainty... so allow me to accompany you on your next chapter.
I specialise particularly in Anxiety, Trauma, Depression, Burnout & Low self-esteem and also work with survivors of sexual assault and domestic violence.
Are you anxious or overwhelmed, stressed or just feeling low? Perhaps you just need someone to talk to and support you through something? As a person-centred counsellor, you are the focus of the session and by providing a calm, non-judgmental space we can explore any issues you maybe facing. With a collaborative approach, complemented by some CBT skills you will gain coping strategies to help regulate your emotions. No issue is too big or too small and it may be that you feel you need a better balance in your life, particularly in this current world of uncertainty... so allow me to accompany you on your next chapter.
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Aurora Da Silva
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
A lot of the people I see are dealing with the effects of childhood trauma. The traumas might have been emotional, physical, mental, sexual, or spiritual and any of these aspects of self may be affected. Having worked with such a diversity of people over a long period of time, I work in a client-centered way, incorporating integrative approaches, depending on what is most appropriate.
A lot of the people I see are dealing with the effects of childhood trauma. The traumas might have been emotional, physical, mental, sexual, or spiritual and any of these aspects of self may be affected. Having worked with such a diversity of people over a long period of time, I work in a client-centered way, incorporating integrative approaches, depending on what is most appropriate.
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Stephen Elting
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
We all have troubling problems at times, be they emotional, personal or work-related. Sometimes these problems can feel overwhelming and we become stressed, anxious and unhappy. This can affect our confidence handling relationships, making decisions and generally, our ability to just cope with the pressures that each day brings. Reaching out to an experienced therapist will enable you to talk openly about your concerns and be listened to without being judged. For many people, this is a profound way of bringing about positive and lasting change.
We all have troubling problems at times, be they emotional, personal or work-related. Sometimes these problems can feel overwhelming and we become stressed, anxious and unhappy. This can affect our confidence handling relationships, making decisions and generally, our ability to just cope with the pressures that each day brings. Reaching out to an experienced therapist will enable you to talk openly about your concerns and be listened to without being judged. For many people, this is a profound way of bringing about positive and lasting change.
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The Wellmind Coach
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Often, we’re so busy keeping the wheels turning that we don't notice the engine is stalling. I help men look 'under the bonnet' to understand what’s driving their stress, anger, or anxiety. Whether it’s burnout from a high-pressure career or struggling with a sense of loss, I provide a down-to-earth, jargon-free space to figure things out. With 13 years of experience and a background in the corporate world, I understand that you want practical solutions, not just talk.
Often, we’re so busy keeping the wheels turning that we don't notice the engine is stalling. I help men look 'under the bonnet' to understand what’s driving their stress, anger, or anxiety. Whether it’s burnout from a high-pressure career or struggling with a sense of loss, I provide a down-to-earth, jargon-free space to figure things out. With 13 years of experience and a background in the corporate world, I understand that you want practical solutions, not just talk.
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Kiran Quinn
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MUKCP
People often come to me feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or lost. You might be grieving, or carrying a quiet sadness, anxiety, or sense of numbness. Some clients say they feel stuck, unsure of who they are or what they want. Others are moving through a breakup, burnout, pet loss, or a major life shift. It’s not always easy to name what hurts, only that something feels off, or missing. Often, there’s a longing to feel more grounded, emotionally steady, and alive again. Therapy with me offers a calm, steady space to pause, breathe, reflect, and gently come back to yourself.
People often come to me feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or lost. You might be grieving, or carrying a quiet sadness, anxiety, or sense of numbness. Some clients say they feel stuck, unsure of who they are or what they want. Others are moving through a breakup, burnout, pet loss, or a major life shift. It’s not always easy to name what hurts, only that something feels off, or missing. Often, there’s a longing to feel more grounded, emotionally steady, and alive again. Therapy with me offers a calm, steady space to pause, breathe, reflect, and gently come back to yourself.
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Tom Coates
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
Emotional difficulties can make us feel overwhelmed, isolated, and exhausted, affecting our daily lives and overall well-being. If this sounds like you, remember that help is available. I'm Tom, a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist with over 12 years of experience in clinical practice. Although I work with a range of conditions, including Depression and Anxiety, I have a specialist interest in working with individuals struggling with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). My personal battles with OCD and depression allow me to empathise deeply with my clients, enabling me to provide understanding and supportive care.
Emotional difficulties can make us feel overwhelmed, isolated, and exhausted, affecting our daily lives and overall well-being. If this sounds like you, remember that help is available. I'm Tom, a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist with over 12 years of experience in clinical practice. Although I work with a range of conditions, including Depression and Anxiety, I have a specialist interest in working with individuals struggling with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). My personal battles with OCD and depression allow me to empathise deeply with my clients, enabling me to provide understanding and supportive care.
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Soulworks Counselling Limited
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I'm Lynn, and I support adults who feel overwhelmed, exhausted or unsure how to move forward — often after narcissistic abuse, a controlling or emotionally abusive relationship, past or recent trauma, or while struggling with anxiety, low mood, grief or addiction.
My approach is warm, person-centred and integrative, drawing on a range of therapeutic methods tailored to you. I work collaboratively and at a pace that feels right, with emotional safety, trust and choice at the heart of our work. I offer both shorter-term counselling and longer-term, deeper psychotherapy — whatever best supports your recovery.
I'm Lynn, and I support adults who feel overwhelmed, exhausted or unsure how to move forward — often after narcissistic abuse, a controlling or emotionally abusive relationship, past or recent trauma, or while struggling with anxiety, low mood, grief or addiction.
My approach is warm, person-centred and integrative, drawing on a range of therapeutic methods tailored to you. I work collaboratively and at a pace that feels right, with emotional safety, trust and choice at the heart of our work. I offer both shorter-term counselling and longer-term, deeper psychotherapy — whatever best supports your recovery.
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Talk for Change Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello, and welcome. I am Francesca, a well qualified, experienced and professional psychotherapist supporting individuals to work through feelings of anxiety, depression, relationship problems, anger, grief and loss. Since you are reading this page I imagine you would like some aspects of your life to be different and wondering if I - or therapy - can help you. We come to therapy for a myriad of reasons, perhaps you struggling to like yourself or coming to terms with a trauma or loss and looking to process your experience and see a way forward. Maybe you are struggling with overwhelming feelings of anxiety or depression.
Hello, and welcome. I am Francesca, a well qualified, experienced and professional psychotherapist supporting individuals to work through feelings of anxiety, depression, relationship problems, anger, grief and loss. Since you are reading this page I imagine you would like some aspects of your life to be different and wondering if I - or therapy - can help you. We come to therapy for a myriad of reasons, perhaps you struggling to like yourself or coming to terms with a trauma or loss and looking to process your experience and see a way forward. Maybe you are struggling with overwhelming feelings of anxiety or depression.
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Domestic Abuse Counsellors
What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognise that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.

When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.

What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.

How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.