Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Henley-on-Thames

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Jenny Bell
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Music Therap.
Are you feeling stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed in your relationships, sex life, or within yourself? I offer a space to explore what’s happening and work towards positive change. I see individuals & couples with challenges such as communication, intimacy, low desire, addiction, arousal, orgasm, painful sex, erectile difficulties performance anxiety and sexual wellbeing. As a student completing specialist training in Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy I am offering lower-cost sessions. £40 for individual Psychosexual (sex) therapy and £45 for couples. Music psychotherapy and counselling services remain at my usual rate of £65.
Are you feeling stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed in your relationships, sex life, or within yourself? I offer a space to explore what’s happening and work towards positive change. I see individuals & couples with challenges such as communication, intimacy, low desire, addiction, arousal, orgasm, painful sex, erectile difficulties performance anxiety and sexual wellbeing. As a student completing specialist training in Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy I am offering lower-cost sessions. £40 for individual Psychosexual (sex) therapy and £45 for couples. Music psychotherapy and counselling services remain at my usual rate of £65.
023 8214 5884 View 023 8214 5884
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Principal and Owner Stewart Kennedy Counselling
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a highly experienced substance abuse specialist with a Master’s degree in Addiction Psychology and Counselling. I’m a Registered Member of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (MBACP) with over ten years’ experience, working for most of the drug and alcohol services in southern England. I was also the number two in the Family Drug & Alcohol Group at Wiltshire Council. I offer my services (either in person in my safe practice or on Zoom or Teams) to assist individuals who may be struggling with their levels of alcohol/drug intake and who are either wishing to cut down or stop altogether.
I am a highly experienced substance abuse specialist with a Master’s degree in Addiction Psychology and Counselling. I’m a Registered Member of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (MBACP) with over ten years’ experience, working for most of the drug and alcohol services in southern England. I was also the number two in the Family Drug & Alcohol Group at Wiltshire Council. I offer my services (either in person in my safe practice or on Zoom or Teams) to assist individuals who may be struggling with their levels of alcohol/drug intake and who are either wishing to cut down or stop altogether.
01635 959221 View 01635 959221
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Vanessa Boudier
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
It's a natural part of life that at times we experience some challenges, disruptions, stressors or significant life changes. When this happens it can feel overwhelming. Returning to an even keel can be supported with the help of a tried, tested and trusted integrative counsellor. With over 20 years of full time experience plus providing supervision to other therapists, I can offer you an unbiased, experienced and confidential space for you to work through and get back on track using any of Counselling, NLP, Hypnotherapy, EMDR helping you to return to a more balanced, calmer life. Feel free to call me anytime.
It's a natural part of life that at times we experience some challenges, disruptions, stressors or significant life changes. When this happens it can feel overwhelming. Returning to an even keel can be supported with the help of a tried, tested and trusted integrative counsellor. With over 20 years of full time experience plus providing supervision to other therapists, I can offer you an unbiased, experienced and confidential space for you to work through and get back on track using any of Counselling, NLP, Hypnotherapy, EMDR helping you to return to a more balanced, calmer life. Feel free to call me anytime.
0118 214 0859 View 0118 214 0859
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Penny Wenham
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello. I'm Penny and I offer short or long-term therapy with an integrative approach. Is there something that is troubling you? Something you’d like to talk through, but with someone outside of family or friends? Perhaps you’re asking yourself some questions about who you are, what is going on in your life, or about the relationships you have? Maybe your feelings seem overwhelming, or you can’t identify what emotions you’re experiencing? Whatever issue you’d like to bring to counselling it is my hope that you will find some clarity and peace
Hello. I'm Penny and I offer short or long-term therapy with an integrative approach. Is there something that is troubling you? Something you’d like to talk through, but with someone outside of family or friends? Perhaps you’re asking yourself some questions about who you are, what is going on in your life, or about the relationships you have? Maybe your feelings seem overwhelming, or you can’t identify what emotions you’re experiencing? Whatever issue you’d like to bring to counselling it is my hope that you will find some clarity and peace
0118 324 0722 View 0118 324 0722
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Cindy Gale
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
Do you often put others' needs before your own? Do you think all the time and have difficulty switching your mind off? Do you care deeply, pick up others emotions, are very emotional and also naturally empathic? <> If this sounds like you, you might be a highly sensitive person (HSP). 1 in 5 of all people have this scientifically researched but little known, inherited trait. It can be tough being an HSP in a largely non-sensitive world. I support HSP to truly flourish; to find themselves and their purpose, at home, in relationships and at work.
Do you often put others' needs before your own? Do you think all the time and have difficulty switching your mind off? Do you care deeply, pick up others emotions, are very emotional and also naturally empathic? <> If this sounds like you, you might be a highly sensitive person (HSP). 1 in 5 of all people have this scientifically researched but little known, inherited trait. It can be tough being an HSP in a largely non-sensitive world. I support HSP to truly flourish; to find themselves and their purpose, at home, in relationships and at work.
01628 951311 View 01628 951311

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Dawn Lucas
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Serves Area
My name is Dawn (she / they) & I am a social activist art therapist providing arts psychotherapy & sex positive therapy to adults in West & SouthWest London.
The arts are an alternative approach to traditional talking therapy & can provide a deeper insight when it is hard to find the words for your experiences and feelings. In my sessions, the seven art forms are available for you; Art Sand-play Music Bodywork / Movement Poetry Sculpture / Clay Drama / Puppetry
My name is Dawn (she / they) & I am a social activist art therapist providing arts psychotherapy & sex positive therapy to adults in West & SouthWest London.
The arts are an alternative approach to traditional talking therapy & can provide a deeper insight when it is hard to find the words for your experiences and feelings. In my sessions, the seven art forms are available for you; Art Sand-play Music Bodywork / Movement Poetry Sculpture / Clay Drama / Puppetry
020 4572 2327 View 020 4572 2327
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Daniel Rubinstein
Counsellor, PhD, MUKCP
Windsor SL4
Waitlist for new clients
Imagine waking up feeling refreshed, with a clear mind and a sense of purpose. Picture yourself navigating relationships with calm and confidence, living a life where you're not just coping, but thriving. Does this seem out of reach? It does not have to be so. You might currently be lying awake at night, your mind racing with anxious thoughts. Or feeling trapped in a relationship that brings more pain than joy. Or dreaming about writing that book or making an artwork but finding yourself procrastinating instead. Or struggling to find your place in the world, unsure of next steps. Longing for a life that feels truly fulfilling.
Imagine waking up feeling refreshed, with a clear mind and a sense of purpose. Picture yourself navigating relationships with calm and confidence, living a life where you're not just coping, but thriving. Does this seem out of reach? It does not have to be so. You might currently be lying awake at night, your mind racing with anxious thoughts. Or feeling trapped in a relationship that brings more pain than joy. Or dreaming about writing that book or making an artwork but finding yourself procrastinating instead. Or struggling to find your place in the world, unsure of next steps. Longing for a life that feels truly fulfilling.
01424 619114 View 01424 619114
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Laura Jayne Nice
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
London W5
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
I have found that interpersonal relationship issues often intersect with deeper themes, such as patterns of relating formed in childhood, feelings of anxiety or overwhelm, identity exploration, or a sense of being stuck. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these interconnected areas together and work toward positive change.
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
I have found that interpersonal relationship issues often intersect with deeper themes, such as patterns of relating formed in childhood, feelings of anxiety or overwhelm, identity exploration, or a sense of being stuck. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these interconnected areas together and work toward positive change.
020 3828 7396 View 020 3828 7396
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Frankie Wingfield-Jones
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist, working with individuals and couples/multiple partnered people to help guide and support with whatever you bring into the room. We explore the ways in which sex may be impacting or affecting your life in a safe, non-judgemental space. I believe the therapeutic relationship is incredibly impactful and I work in a collaborative way with my clients to bring the best out in them or their relationship.
I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist, working with individuals and couples/multiple partnered people to help guide and support with whatever you bring into the room. We explore the ways in which sex may be impacting or affecting your life in a safe, non-judgemental space. I believe the therapeutic relationship is incredibly impactful and I work in a collaborative way with my clients to bring the best out in them or their relationship.
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Erin Eley
Psychotherapist, UKCP Trainee
At times, life leaves us anxious, overwhelmed, or unsure of the way forward. You might be feeling stuck, held back by anxiety, or aware of patterns that no longer serve you, reaching out to someone who can listen without judgement can be the first step toward a more fulfilling life. As a UKCP-qualified psychotherapist, I offer a steady, compassionate space where you can talk openly and explore what’s happening for you at a pace that feels right.
At times, life leaves us anxious, overwhelmed, or unsure of the way forward. You might be feeling stuck, held back by anxiety, or aware of patterns that no longer serve you, reaching out to someone who can listen without judgement can be the first step toward a more fulfilling life. As a UKCP-qualified psychotherapist, I offer a steady, compassionate space where you can talk openly and explore what’s happening for you at a pace that feels right.
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Divine Connection Counselling Services
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Harrow HA1
I provide a safe space for you to feel comfortable to open up and explore what is going on for you, in a non judgmental environment that is completely your own. I always do what I feel is best for the client(s). I am an Integrative therapist who works with different approaches to support each client. I believe that each person will find at least one approach that will work best for them. Life has its challenges whether they be expected/unexpected, with therapy we can work through them together. I have worked within the NHS (mental health sector) for many years, working with charities as well as having my own private practice
I provide a safe space for you to feel comfortable to open up and explore what is going on for you, in a non judgmental environment that is completely your own. I always do what I feel is best for the client(s). I am an Integrative therapist who works with different approaches to support each client. I believe that each person will find at least one approach that will work best for them. Life has its challenges whether they be expected/unexpected, with therapy we can work through them together. I have worked within the NHS (mental health sector) for many years, working with charities as well as having my own private practice
01895 547645 View 01895 547645
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Paula O'Connor
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I am a qualified relationship therapist. I help couples who have challenges getting along. Maybe you are arguing all the time or perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn. If your world has been rocked by a discovery about your partner or you are living with secrecy that is weighing you down I can help you work through it.
I am a qualified relationship therapist. I help couples who have challenges getting along. Maybe you are arguing all the time or perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn. If your world has been rocked by a discovery about your partner or you are living with secrecy that is weighing you down I can help you work through it.
01865 537646 View 01865 537646
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Laurie Deuters
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Hello and welcome! I'm Laurie, an Integratively trained therapist. You might have heard this term but aren't quite sure what it means or how it could benefit you. Let me clarify: Being integratively trained means I've studied various therapeutic approaches, allowing me to tailor our work together to best suit your needs. I don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach because no person is the same. So, we'll start by exploring what you feel might work best for you. If you've had therapy before that wasn't effective, we'll delve into why and If this is your first time, we'll discuss how I can best help with my skills and experience.
Hello and welcome! I'm Laurie, an Integratively trained therapist. You might have heard this term but aren't quite sure what it means or how it could benefit you. Let me clarify: Being integratively trained means I've studied various therapeutic approaches, allowing me to tailor our work together to best suit your needs. I don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach because no person is the same. So, we'll start by exploring what you feel might work best for you. If you've had therapy before that wasn't effective, we'll delve into why and If this is your first time, we'll discuss how I can best help with my skills and experience.
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Dr Gagan Bangar
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
3 Endorsed
Cobham KT11
Hello, my name is Gagan. I want to support you on your therapy journey. My approach will enable you to share and explore parts of your identity and difficult or traumatic life experiences. Alongside my expertise in working with common mental health difficulties, I have a special interest in helping people talk about areas such as relationships, sex, sexuality, gender, race, and culture.
Hello, my name is Gagan. I want to support you on your therapy journey. My approach will enable you to share and explore parts of your identity and difficult or traumatic life experiences. Alongside my expertise in working with common mental health difficulties, I have a special interest in helping people talk about areas such as relationships, sex, sexuality, gender, race, and culture.
01372 233629 View 01372 233629
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Daniel Hutton Liens
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I have been working as a therapist for five years, working with a diverse client base and range of presenting issues including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties and more. I have extensive experience working with Black and Asian clients, as well as with those identifying as LGBTQIA+ and/or neurodiverse.
I have been working as a therapist for five years, working with a diverse client base and range of presenting issues including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties and more. I have extensive experience working with Black and Asian clients, as well as with those identifying as LGBTQIA+ and/or neurodiverse.
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Dr Paul C. Mollitt
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP Snr. Accred
Serves Area
Finding the right therapist can be a confusing and frustrating experience and it may take some time to find the right 'fit'. I suggest that you aim to meet with several therapists before making a decision. Please contact me via email, text, WhatsApp or phone we would arrange to have a brief telephone call to discuss your needs. I can answer any questions you may have around therapy and any practicalities. Then, should you want to move forward, we will arrange a more in-depth consultation.
Finding the right therapist can be a confusing and frustrating experience and it may take some time to find the right 'fit'. I suggest that you aim to meet with several therapists before making a decision. Please contact me via email, text, WhatsApp or phone we would arrange to have a brief telephone call to discuss your needs. I can answer any questions you may have around therapy and any practicalities. Then, should you want to move forward, we will arrange a more in-depth consultation.
020 4634 5076 View 020 4634 5076
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Kathryn Poulton
Psychotherapist, BACP
2 Endorsed
Hello and welcome, my name is Kathryn. It is my belief that we all have the innate ability to live rich and fulfilling lives, but sometimes we may lose our way. Whether you are feeling stuck and unhappy, a life-changing event has left you feeling at sea, or you simply need someone to talk to, I offer a safe and non-judgemental space in which to explore, come to a greater awareness of yourself, and invite the possibility of something different.
Hello and welcome, my name is Kathryn. It is my belief that we all have the innate ability to live rich and fulfilling lives, but sometimes we may lose our way. Whether you are feeling stuck and unhappy, a life-changing event has left you feeling at sea, or you simply need someone to talk to, I offer a safe and non-judgemental space in which to explore, come to a greater awareness of yourself, and invite the possibility of something different.
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Adielia Harry
Counsellor, MBACP
Welcome — I’m Adielia I’m a qualified and BACP-registered counsellor, dedicated to helping you navigate life’s ups and downs with compassion and understanding. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties, grief, or simply feeling stuck, you don’t have to face it alone.
Welcome — I’m Adielia I’m a qualified and BACP-registered counsellor, dedicated to helping you navigate life’s ups and downs with compassion and understanding. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties, grief, or simply feeling stuck, you don’t have to face it alone.
020 3763 8763 View 020 3763 8763
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Marybeth Mendenhall
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
London W4
Welcome! My clients say that I am warm and supportive counsellor who is also very practical. I work with individuals, couples and families who are having difficulties with life, or relationship issues or facing new challenges when it seems old solutions are no longer effective. I am always optimistic that it is never too late to make changes and live life more fully. My commitment to you is to listen deeply with respect and understanding and to enable you to reach your goals and to live a rewarding life
Welcome! My clients say that I am warm and supportive counsellor who is also very practical. I work with individuals, couples and families who are having difficulties with life, or relationship issues or facing new challenges when it seems old solutions are no longer effective. I am always optimistic that it is never too late to make changes and live life more fully. My commitment to you is to listen deeply with respect and understanding and to enable you to reach your goals and to live a rewarding life
01748 901261 View 01748 901261
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NB Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Wantage OX12
Looking for talking therapy can be a daunting step into the unknown, whether you are considering it for the first time or perhaps seeking a new perspective. Either way choosing the right counsellor for you is important. I am a qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor offering a compassionate, professional and confidential approach. I can help you to facilitate the change you are looking for. We all have individual therapeutic needs. I can work with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationships, trauma and suicidal thoughts. I have many years experience working with survivors of sexual abuse both current and historical.
Looking for talking therapy can be a daunting step into the unknown, whether you are considering it for the first time or perhaps seeking a new perspective. Either way choosing the right counsellor for you is important. I am a qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor offering a compassionate, professional and confidential approach. I can help you to facilitate the change you are looking for. We all have individual therapeutic needs. I can work with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationships, trauma and suicidal thoughts. I have many years experience working with survivors of sexual abuse both current and historical.
01235 639370 View 01235 639370
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors

Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?

Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?

Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.