Dialectical Behaviour (DBT) Counselling in Hemel Hempstead

Dr Lee Martin
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Hello and welcome. Life can be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can leave us thinking, feeling and acting in ways that don’t reflect who we want to be. You may be struggling with Grief, Trauma or Addiction, seeking understanding with Neurodiversity, or difficult relationship patterns. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), MA and being EMDR(accredited), I have supported thousands of people through a wide range of issues, helping them find genuine healing, meaningful change and hope for the future.
Hello and welcome. Life can be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can leave us thinking, feeling and acting in ways that don’t reflect who we want to be. You may be struggling with Grief, Trauma or Addiction, seeking understanding with Neurodiversity, or difficult relationship patterns. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), MA and being EMDR(accredited), I have supported thousands of people through a wide range of issues, helping them find genuine healing, meaningful change and hope for the future.
020 4538 6806 View 020 4538 6806
Nicola Salisbury
Counsellor, MBACP
As well as using Psychoanalysis, CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) and Transactional Analysis, I'm also trained in DBT ( Dialectical Behaviour Therapy) which is a form of CBT created to teach skills to cope with, and overcome, emotional dysregulation, self harm and relationship problems.
Hello I'm Nicola, a qualified counsellor working with both adults and teenagers from all walks of life. My integrative training allows me to tailor my therapeutic approach to suit your needs at the time of contacting me, whether that be to listen to your story and sit with you in your pain or work with you to make positive changes to your life... or something in between. I can offer you a safe and confidential space for you to be heard without judgement or expectation. Your presenting issues might be anxiety, depression, a relationship breakdown, a bereavement, low self-esteem, difficulty coping with change and uncertainty or more.
As well as using Psychoanalysis, CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) and Transactional Analysis, I'm also trained in DBT ( Dialectical Behaviour Therapy) which is a form of CBT created to teach skills to cope with, and overcome, emotional dysregulation, self harm and relationship problems.
Hello I'm Nicola, a qualified counsellor working with both adults and teenagers from all walks of life. My integrative training allows me to tailor my therapeutic approach to suit your needs at the time of contacting me, whether that be to listen to your story and sit with you in your pain or work with you to make positive changes to your life... or something in between. I can offer you a safe and confidential space for you to be heard without judgement or expectation. Your presenting issues might be anxiety, depression, a relationship breakdown, a bereavement, low self-esteem, difficulty coping with change and uncertainty or more.
01442 979679 View 01442 979679
Wendy O'Neill
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
I am an integrative practitioner and the therapeutic models I adopt are Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy, Systemic ideas, Narrative Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Compassion Focussed Therapy, Mindfulness, DBT, and EMDR.
Hello, I'm Wendy and I am a Clinical Psychologist with over 10 years experience working in the NHS and Charity sector. I currently work within a specialist services with individuals and families with emotional difficulties. When we first meet, we will think together about your experiences, why you have come to therapy now, and your hopes for change. I hope to offer you a warm, non-judgmental, and safe therapeutic safe to help explore current difficulties and to find ways to overcome the challenges that are having an impact on your life.
I am an integrative practitioner and the therapeutic models I adopt are Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy, Systemic ideas, Narrative Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Compassion Focussed Therapy, Mindfulness, DBT, and EMDR.
Hello, I'm Wendy and I am a Clinical Psychologist with over 10 years experience working in the NHS and Charity sector. I currently work within a specialist services with individuals and families with emotional difficulties. When we first meet, we will think together about your experiences, why you have come to therapy now, and your hopes for change. I hope to offer you a warm, non-judgmental, and safe therapeutic safe to help explore current difficulties and to find ways to overcome the challenges that are having an impact on your life.
020 3841 7311 View 020 3841 7311
Dan Harwood-Stamper
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
I’m also trained in Dialectical Behaviour Therapy ( DBT) and deliver DBT skills training both online and in person for several clinics, as group facilitator and 121 therapist.
You don’t have to navigate everything on your own. I’m an integrative psychotherapist offering a steady, compassionate space to help you understand what you’re facing and move toward meaningful change, without judgment or endless nodding. My approach is empathic and grounded, supportive without being vague or “fluffy.”
I’m also trained in Dialectical Behaviour Therapy ( DBT) and deliver DBT skills training both online and in person for several clinics, as group facilitator and 121 therapist.
You don’t have to navigate everything on your own. I’m an integrative psychotherapist offering a steady, compassionate space to help you understand what you’re facing and move toward meaningful change, without judgment or endless nodding. My approach is empathic and grounded, supportive without being vague or “fluffy.”
01582 377613 View 01582 377613
Dr Belynder Walia - Serene Lifestyles
Psychotherapist, GMBPsS
Online Only
Services I provide: therapy, hypnotherapy, DBT, CBT, NLP, psychotherapy, self-reflective therapy, Mindfulness Coaching, relational therapy,  and transformational therapy.
I am the founder of Serene Lifestyles, an online psychotherapy practice. I am accepting new clients and offering virtual appointments. I help people feel less anxiety or stress by transforming their mind to build confidence and self-esteem, so they feel amazing in their professional and personal relationships. I am passionate about helping people with their mental and emotional well-being.
Services I provide: therapy, hypnotherapy, DBT, CBT, NLP, psychotherapy, self-reflective therapy, Mindfulness Coaching, relational therapy,  and transformational therapy.
I am the founder of Serene Lifestyles, an online psychotherapy practice. I am accepting new clients and offering virtual appointments. I help people feel less anxiety or stress by transforming their mind to build confidence and self-esteem, so they feel amazing in their professional and personal relationships. I am passionate about helping people with their mental and emotional well-being.
020 3870 2993 View 020 3870 2993

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Yianna Kefala
Psychotherapist, MSc, BPC
London W5
I am Yianna Kefala, a UKCP/BPC registered Psychoanalytic/Psychodynamic Psychotherapist offering both long and short psychotherapy and counselling for adults and couples. Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy enables people to develop a better understanding of themselves and feel more content with various aspects of themselves and their lives. It is usually seen as a journey towards self-discovery and introspection that involves patient and therapist working together. I provide individual sessions, couple counselling/psychotherapy and advice on parenting issues in English and Greek.
I am Yianna Kefala, a UKCP/BPC registered Psychoanalytic/Psychodynamic Psychotherapist offering both long and short psychotherapy and counselling for adults and couples. Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy enables people to develop a better understanding of themselves and feel more content with various aspects of themselves and their lives. It is usually seen as a journey towards self-discovery and introspection that involves patient and therapist working together. I provide individual sessions, couple counselling/psychotherapy and advice on parenting issues in English and Greek.
01748 901226 View 01748 901226
Alinea Therapies
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Online Only
Hello, I'm Camille! As a psychotherapist and founder of Alinea Therapies, my aim is simple: to walk alongside you as you navigate life's twists and turns, empowering you to chart your own course. Starting therapy can be daunting with so many different approaches and qualifications, it can feel like a maze. But together, we'll find the path that feels right for you—one step at a time. No matter where your starting point, in our sessions, you'll find a space where you can be truly yourself. No judgments, just empathy. I'm here to listen, to understand, and to help you make sense of your experiences.
Hello, I'm Camille! As a psychotherapist and founder of Alinea Therapies, my aim is simple: to walk alongside you as you navigate life's twists and turns, empowering you to chart your own course. Starting therapy can be daunting with so many different approaches and qualifications, it can feel like a maze. But together, we'll find the path that feels right for you—one step at a time. No matter where your starting point, in our sessions, you'll find a space where you can be truly yourself. No judgments, just empathy. I'm here to listen, to understand, and to help you make sense of your experiences.
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Rose Stephen
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I work with adults and young people who often appear to be coping on the outside but feel overwhelmed, stuck, or not good enough on the inside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, capable individuals who find themselves caught in patterns of overthinking, procrastination, emotional shutdown, or self-doubt. They are often drawn to therapy because something no longer feels sustainable—whether that’s anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties, or a sense of disconnection from themselves. For many, these struggles are rooted in earlier experiences such as childhood neglect, unmet emotional needs, or trauma.
I work with adults and young people who often appear to be coping on the outside but feel overwhelmed, stuck, or not good enough on the inside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, capable individuals who find themselves caught in patterns of overthinking, procrastination, emotional shutdown, or self-doubt. They are often drawn to therapy because something no longer feels sustainable—whether that’s anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties, or a sense of disconnection from themselves. For many, these struggles are rooted in earlier experiences such as childhood neglect, unmet emotional needs, or trauma.
01372 239535 View 01372 239535
Natasha Monteverde
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
My name is Natasha and I am a therapist based in Cambridge. For the past 11 years, I have been providing therapy and I offer a warm, compassionate, and non-judgemental space where you can explore what’s bringing you to therapy at a pace that feels right for you. Whether you’re experiencing anxiety, low mood, stress, or navigating a significant life change, I provide a space to make sense of your experiences and work towards the changes that you want to make.
My name is Natasha and I am a therapist based in Cambridge. For the past 11 years, I have been providing therapy and I offer a warm, compassionate, and non-judgemental space where you can explore what’s bringing you to therapy at a pace that feels right for you. Whether you’re experiencing anxiety, low mood, stress, or navigating a significant life change, I provide a space to make sense of your experiences and work towards the changes that you want to make.
01954 770244 View 01954 770244
Melissa Powenski Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
3 Endorsed
I am DBT trained and have worked with high risk complex presentations.
I specialise in supporting women who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from themselves, particularly during major life transitions, whether this be during adolesence, pregnancy, motherhood, identity shifts, or periods of burnout. I work alongside an individuals goals whether that be looking at past trauma and managing current behaviours and thoughts, or establishing meaningful routines including movement to promote wellness that suits your life. Alongside this, I have expertise and skill in working with individuals who are neurodivergent, whether formally diagnosed or newly exploring their neurodivergent identity.
I am DBT trained and have worked with high risk complex presentations.
I specialise in supporting women who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from themselves, particularly during major life transitions, whether this be during adolesence, pregnancy, motherhood, identity shifts, or periods of burnout. I work alongside an individuals goals whether that be looking at past trauma and managing current behaviours and thoughts, or establishing meaningful routines including movement to promote wellness that suits your life. Alongside this, I have expertise and skill in working with individuals who are neurodivergent, whether formally diagnosed or newly exploring their neurodivergent identity.
01727 649247 View 01727 649247
Emma Townsend
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
Hello, I am a HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist (DClinPsy). With over 10 years of experience in the NHS, I have worked in a variety of settings, including adult, child and adolescent mental health services. I currently work in a specialist trauma service. I offer a collaborative approach so we can work together to understand what might be happening for you, how you would like things to be different and how we might get there!
Hello, I am a HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist (DClinPsy). With over 10 years of experience in the NHS, I have worked in a variety of settings, including adult, child and adolescent mental health services. I currently work in a specialist trauma service. I offer a collaborative approach so we can work together to understand what might be happening for you, how you would like things to be different and how we might get there!
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Dr Sonam Nagrani
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I work by integrating different evidence-based approaches (including CBT, CFT, DBT and EMDR) and creatively tailor this specifically to your unique situation and needs.
If you're struggling with your mental health, please know that you don't have to suffer alone. You might be carrying anxiety, low mood or the weight of past experiences impacting you now. Perhaps you're going through relationship problems or a life transition, or questioning your identity and what you truly value. Maybe you've noticed you have low self-esteem and struggle to set boundaries. However it shows up for you, it's totally valid! I offer a compassionate non-judgmental space that's genuinely yours: honest, unhurried, and built around understanding what you've been through and helping you to move forward with confidence.
I work by integrating different evidence-based approaches (including CBT, CFT, DBT and EMDR) and creatively tailor this specifically to your unique situation and needs.
If you're struggling with your mental health, please know that you don't have to suffer alone. You might be carrying anxiety, low mood or the weight of past experiences impacting you now. Perhaps you're going through relationship problems or a life transition, or questioning your identity and what you truly value. Maybe you've noticed you have low self-esteem and struggle to set boundaries. However it shows up for you, it's totally valid! I offer a compassionate non-judgmental space that's genuinely yours: honest, unhurried, and built around understanding what you've been through and helping you to move forward with confidence.
01933 428512 View 01933 428512
Dean Corbett
Psychotherapist, MSc, UKCP Trainee
You may be successful, capable and used to being the person others rely on, yet find familiar relationship patterns repeating, emotions taking you by surprise, or ways of coping that helped you succeed now getting in the way. I won’t assume the problem is simply “inside” you. Together, we’ll look at the whole picture: What has shaped you, your relationships, work and wider circumstances, as well as your strengths and what already works. My style is curious, direct and thoughtful: Supportive when needed, challenging when useful. The aim is greater freedom to choose what happens next.
You may be successful, capable and used to being the person others rely on, yet find familiar relationship patterns repeating, emotions taking you by surprise, or ways of coping that helped you succeed now getting in the way. I won’t assume the problem is simply “inside” you. Together, we’ll look at the whole picture: What has shaped you, your relationships, work and wider circumstances, as well as your strengths and what already works. My style is curious, direct and thoughtful: Supportive when needed, challenging when useful. The aim is greater freedom to choose what happens next.
020 4652 7047 View 020 4652 7047
Dr Kavita Deepak-Knights
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
2 Endorsed
Windsor SL4
I work with adults over the age of 18, specialising in several therapies, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy ( DBT) and EMDR.
I am a highly specialised Clinical Psychologist who has many years of experience in helping people successfully navigate through their life challenges. I provide clients with a safe and nurturing space to work through their challenges and help them develop a robust psychological toolkit of life skills.
I work with adults over the age of 18, specialising in several therapies, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy ( DBT) and EMDR.
I am a highly specialised Clinical Psychologist who has many years of experience in helping people successfully navigate through their life challenges. I provide clients with a safe and nurturing space to work through their challenges and help them develop a robust psychological toolkit of life skills.
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Dr Maria Martinez
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
You may be someone who looks as though you're coping, while inside you're overthinking, exhausted or quietly struggling. Perhaps you put others first, doubt yourself, feel responsible for everyone around you, or keep finding yourself caught in the same patterns. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, trauma, grief, ADHD, low self-esteem, perfectionism, relationship difficulties and burnout. Together, we can understand what's keeping you stuck and help you feel more secure, confident and able to move forward.
You may be someone who looks as though you're coping, while inside you're overthinking, exhausted or quietly struggling. Perhaps you put others first, doubt yourself, feel responsible for everyone around you, or keep finding yourself caught in the same patterns. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, trauma, grief, ADHD, low self-esteem, perfectionism, relationship difficulties and burnout. Together, we can understand what's keeping you stuck and help you feel more secure, confident and able to move forward.
020 3763 8762 View 020 3763 8762
Dr Catriona Amberton
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I am an HCPC and BPS registered psychologist and have 14 years of NHS experience. In addition to my doctorate, I have a Masters in Clinical Forensic Psychology and conduct expert witness work for the courts. I have extensive experience and knowledge across the lifespan but primarily work with children, adolescents, parents and families. I have particular expertise with neurodivergence and regularly carry out assessments and provide support for difficulties associated with Autism and ADHD. I also work part-time for the NHS as the lead psychologist for West Essex Community Paediatrics Autism diagnostic pathway.
I am an HCPC and BPS registered psychologist and have 14 years of NHS experience. In addition to my doctorate, I have a Masters in Clinical Forensic Psychology and conduct expert witness work for the courts. I have extensive experience and knowledge across the lifespan but primarily work with children, adolescents, parents and families. I have particular expertise with neurodivergence and regularly carry out assessments and provide support for difficulties associated with Autism and ADHD. I also work part-time for the NHS as the lead psychologist for West Essex Community Paediatrics Autism diagnostic pathway.
01707 244841 View 01707 244841
Naielah Ackbarali
Psychotherapist, MA
Online Only
I am a down-to-earth, practical, and non-judgmental Muslim therapist and counselor. Clients often describe their sessions with me as positive, comforting, and transformative. I take a holistic approach by integrating Islamic spirituality into my work, catering to the mind–body–soul connection. I listen with both compassion and insight, while also helping you uncover meaningful solutions to your challenges. My goal is to support you through your life and relationship journey with care and guidance. My work involves cultivating peace of mind, building strong and fulfilling marriages, and creating a balanced, purposeful life.
I am a down-to-earth, practical, and non-judgmental Muslim therapist and counselor. Clients often describe their sessions with me as positive, comforting, and transformative. I take a holistic approach by integrating Islamic spirituality into my work, catering to the mind–body–soul connection. I listen with both compassion and insight, while also helping you uncover meaningful solutions to your challenges. My goal is to support you through your life and relationship journey with care and guidance. My work involves cultivating peace of mind, building strong and fulfilling marriages, and creating a balanced, purposeful life.
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Dr Constantina Markides
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Dr Markides specialises in integrating therapies such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Exposure Response Prevention (ERP), Systemic, Narrative, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy ( DBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Brief Solution Focused Therapy.
Dr Constantina Markides is a Clinical Psychologist with experience working with adults and children with a range of mental health difficulties, such as severe OCD, low self-esteem, low mood and anxiety and body image concerns. She particularly enjoys working with those struggling with OCD, and has developed and delivered individual as well as group interventions within the NHS to offer evidence based therapies around this. Regardless of the presenting difficulty, Dr Markides hopes to support her clients not only to free themselves from their symptoms, but to connect to their values and live their life doing what matters to them.
Dr Markides specialises in integrating therapies such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Exposure Response Prevention (ERP), Systemic, Narrative, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy ( DBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Brief Solution Focused Therapy.
Dr Constantina Markides is a Clinical Psychologist with experience working with adults and children with a range of mental health difficulties, such as severe OCD, low self-esteem, low mood and anxiety and body image concerns. She particularly enjoys working with those struggling with OCD, and has developed and delivered individual as well as group interventions within the NHS to offer evidence based therapies around this. Regardless of the presenting difficulty, Dr Markides hopes to support her clients not only to free themselves from their symptoms, but to connect to their values and live their life doing what matters to them.
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Ms Ellie Ewbank (Ewbank Psychotherapy)
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Theale RG7
We take an integrative approach and enjoy complimenting CBT with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Compassion-Focussed Therapy (CFT), and Dialectical Behavioural Therapy Skills ( DBT) to suit your clinical needs and aims.
At Ewbank Psychotherapy, we offer evidence-based psychotherapy for a range of mental health difficulties, including Depression, Anxiety disorders (such as panic, OCD, generalised anxiety, and more), self-harm, low self-esteem, and long-term health conditions. We work with children age 11+ and adults, either face-to-face or remotely.
We take an integrative approach and enjoy complimenting CBT with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Compassion-Focussed Therapy (CFT), and Dialectical Behavioural Therapy Skills ( DBT) to suit your clinical needs and aims.
At Ewbank Psychotherapy, we offer evidence-based psychotherapy for a range of mental health difficulties, including Depression, Anxiety disorders (such as panic, OCD, generalised anxiety, and more), self-harm, low self-esteem, and long-term health conditions. We work with children age 11+ and adults, either face-to-face or remotely.
0118 230 2061 View 0118 230 2061
Tamara Jane Herrmann
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Oxford OX1
Two of my specialities are "Breath, Body, Mind" practice ( Level 1 ) and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, ( DBT, level 1 ).
I aim to focus on what you bring. We can explore together in an open and creative way or else be more structured / goal - orientated. We can also combine both approaches. If diet is your focus, if you want, we can integrate psychotherapy. Essentially I am holistic: with the body-mind connection, relationships, and circumstances.
Two of my specialities are "Breath, Body, Mind" practice ( Level 1 ) and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, ( DBT, level 1 ).
I aim to focus on what you bring. We can explore together in an open and creative way or else be more structured / goal - orientated. We can also combine both approaches. If diet is your focus, if you want, we can integrate psychotherapy. Essentially I am holistic: with the body-mind connection, relationships, and circumstances.
01865 411134 View 01865 411134

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Dialectical Behaviour (DBT) Counsellors
Who is DBT for?
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) is designed for people who experience extreme emotional suffering because they lack the skills of emotion regulation and distress tolerance. The basic affliction can underlie a wide range of conditions, from borderline and other personality disorders to PTSD and treatment-resistant anxiety and depression. The therapy is helpful to those whose emotional reactivity is so intense it is disruptive to everyday functioning and leads to frequent crises.

Why do people need DBT?
The ability to regulate emotions is a core psychological skill that enables people to function in life and pay attention to the world outside themselves; it is consistently associated with well-being. DBT is designed to help people learn how to manage and regulate their emotions. Originally developed to treat people with borderline personality disorder whose extreme emotional suffering led to self-harming behaviour and suicide attempts, the therapy is now applied to other conditions involving emotion dysregulation, particularly when other treatments have failed.

What happens in DBT?
Individuals meet weekly with their therapist to discuss their experiences relating to moods, behaviour, and skills. Using checklists they maintain, they review emotional experiences and positive practices they engage in. The diaries help individuals discern what led up to a specific problem encountered, this is followed by discussion of the consequences of their actions. In addition, individuals may meet in class-like small groups to learn skills such as mindfulness, emotion regulation and distress tolerance.

How long does DBT last?
Because it is intended to establish long-lasting behavioural change among those with persistent problems, DBT is designed to last six months to a year. DBT includes both weekly sessions of individual therapy and weekly skills-training sessions conducted in small groups. Studies of DBT have documented improvement within a year of treatment, particularly in controlling self-harmful behaviour; nevertheless, individuals may require therapy for several years.