Sex Therapists in Haslemere

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Sharon Reynolds
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
I am embarking on further training in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours or sex addiction, helping those that are struggling and distressed with their current situation.
Hello, how can I help? My expertise is in couple’s and relational difficulties, I specialise in psychosexual therapy. This form of therapy is designed to help partners reconnect via improved sexual and relational communication. These are areas that can become fraught, tense and stuck seemingly impossible to find a way forward. I can help. I usually offer some individual sessions followed by joint ones to really learn about how things are for you both. Please know you will not be asked to do anything other than talk in the therapeutic sessions but there will be homework for you both.
I am embarking on further training in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours or sex addiction, helping those that are struggling and distressed with their current situation.
Hello, how can I help? My expertise is in couple’s and relational difficulties, I specialise in psychosexual therapy. This form of therapy is designed to help partners reconnect via improved sexual and relational communication. These are areas that can become fraught, tense and stuck seemingly impossible to find a way forward. I can help. I usually offer some individual sessions followed by joint ones to really learn about how things are for you both. Please know you will not be asked to do anything other than talk in the therapeutic sessions but there will be homework for you both.
01252 942461 View 01252 942461
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Grant Roberts
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Haslemere GU27
Hello, I am an integrative psychotherapist & counsellor specialising in body image insecurities, eating disorders, anxiety, depression, OCD, grief, and chronic and terminal illness. Alongside this I also offer psychology led life coaching to encourage personal and professional growth. Through a safe, empathic and accepting relationship, I hope to help enable you to greater self-acceptance, self awareness and self worth.
Hello, I am an integrative psychotherapist & counsellor specialising in body image insecurities, eating disorders, anxiety, depression, OCD, grief, and chronic and terminal illness. Alongside this I also offer psychology led life coaching to encourage personal and professional growth. Through a safe, empathic and accepting relationship, I hope to help enable you to greater self-acceptance, self awareness and self worth.
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Eos counselling and psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Haslemere GU27
I offer a warm, collaborative space for individuals and couples facing anxiety, emotional overwhelm, low self-esteem, or relationship struggles. I’m an NCPS-accredited, BACP-registered therapist with specialist training in DBT, psychosexual therapy, and intimate partner work. I blend evidence-based models and tailor each session around your needs—because therapy isn’t one-size-fits-all. Together, we’ll explore what’s beneath the surface and work toward meaningful, lasting change.
I offer a warm, collaborative space for individuals and couples facing anxiety, emotional overwhelm, low self-esteem, or relationship struggles. I’m an NCPS-accredited, BACP-registered therapist with specialist training in DBT, psychosexual therapy, and intimate partner work. I blend evidence-based models and tailor each session around your needs—because therapy isn’t one-size-fits-all. Together, we’ll explore what’s beneath the surface and work toward meaningful, lasting change.
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Lisa Jane Fairhead
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
As a Relationship & Individual therapist, with over 18 years of training and experience, I draw on a range of therapeutic interventions to help people who feel they are struggling to manage in some way, helping them to unravel and reflect on their situation; enabling them to find solutions and develop new coping strategies. I specialise in working with Couples and Individuals focussing on communication, intimacy, infidelity, couple and personal growth. Together we will challenge the difficult issues and unhelpful patterns of behaviour that we can develop throughout our lives. .
As a Relationship & Individual therapist, with over 18 years of training and experience, I draw on a range of therapeutic interventions to help people who feel they are struggling to manage in some way, helping them to unravel and reflect on their situation; enabling them to find solutions and develop new coping strategies. I specialise in working with Couples and Individuals focussing on communication, intimacy, infidelity, couple and personal growth. Together we will challenge the difficult issues and unhelpful patterns of behaviour that we can develop throughout our lives. .
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Siobhan Lawson
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Hove BN3
Are you struggling with a sexual or relationship problem, or find yourself feeling anxious or unhappy with how your life is at the moment? If so I can help you to create positive change.
Are you struggling with a sexual or relationship problem, or find yourself feeling anxious or unhappy with how your life is at the moment? If so I can help you to create positive change.
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Tara Lawson Therapy
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Online Only
Maybe you are struggling with communication in your partnership, you may be single and struggling to connect to your desire, you may have painful sex, erection difficulties, or there has been a life change such as cancer, menopause, endometriosis, bereavement that has caused a change in your life, including your sex life.
Sex Therapy; Focuses on sex, sexuality, and gender. These are vital elements of our physical, psychological, and social development, they impact all areas of our human experience, including how we view ourselves, those around us, and our world. Hopefully we can unravel and explore, issues, thoughts, and feelings in a supported and safe environment.
Maybe you are struggling with communication in your partnership, you may be single and struggling to connect to your desire, you may have painful sex, erection difficulties, or there has been a life change such as cancer, menopause, endometriosis, bereavement that has caused a change in your life, including your sex life.
Sex Therapy; Focuses on sex, sexuality, and gender. These are vital elements of our physical, psychological, and social development, they impact all areas of our human experience, including how we view ourselves, those around us, and our world. Hopefully we can unravel and explore, issues, thoughts, and feelings in a supported and safe environment.
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Inicio Therapy
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT Reg.
2 Endorsed
My clients seek my expertise with sexual and relationship challenges, looking for guidance on improving communication, resolving conflicts, and addressing intimacy issues. For Individual Sexual or Couples therapy we work towards what issues are troubling you and how it is presenting in your daily life and relationships. It is “peeling the onion” to find the main reasons and learning more about yourself, the triggers, your past and how it surfaces in your life. We will draw out a treatment plan and provide techniques to best suit you and work together to resolve them. I work with couples on pre-martial counselling as well.
My clients seek my expertise with sexual and relationship challenges, looking for guidance on improving communication, resolving conflicts, and addressing intimacy issues. For Individual Sexual or Couples therapy we work towards what issues are troubling you and how it is presenting in your daily life and relationships. It is “peeling the onion” to find the main reasons and learning more about yourself, the triggers, your past and how it surfaces in your life. We will draw out a treatment plan and provide techniques to best suit you and work together to resolve them. I work with couples on pre-martial counselling as well.
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Victoria George
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I welcome individuals or couples struggling with issues around sex, intimacy, or relationship dynamics — whether it's loss of desire, painful sex, erectile difficulties, or anxiety about closeness.
I’m an experienced individual & couple psychodynamic psychotherapist, trained at the renowned Tavistock Relationships. With a deep interest in the mind-body connection, I’m currently completing further training in psychosexual therapy. I help clients explore emotional, sexual, and relational challenges to build deeper self-awareness, pleasure and connection.
I welcome individuals or couples struggling with issues around sex, intimacy, or relationship dynamics — whether it's loss of desire, painful sex, erectile difficulties, or anxiety about closeness.
I’m an experienced individual & couple psychodynamic psychotherapist, trained at the renowned Tavistock Relationships. With a deep interest in the mind-body connection, I’m currently completing further training in psychosexual therapy. I help clients explore emotional, sexual, and relational challenges to build deeper self-awareness, pleasure and connection.
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Becky Crepsley-Fox
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
My clients often feel disconnected from their desire, sexuality, or relationships and seek a compassionate, non-judgmental space to explore these issues.
I take a flexible, personalised approach, combining EMDR, NLP, hypno-psychotherapy, mindfulness, and sex-positive, trauma-informed strategies. Using a holistic framework with Polyvagal and Attachment theories, I help individuals and couples explore self-discovery, heal emotionally, and navigate relationships with confidence, clarity, and authenticity.
My clients often feel disconnected from their desire, sexuality, or relationships and seek a compassionate, non-judgmental space to explore these issues.
I take a flexible, personalised approach, combining EMDR, NLP, hypno-psychotherapy, mindfulness, and sex-positive, trauma-informed strategies. Using a holistic framework with Polyvagal and Attachment theories, I help individuals and couples explore self-discovery, heal emotionally, and navigate relationships with confidence, clarity, and authenticity.
01273 092069 View 01273 092069
Photo of Jessica Lamb, Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Reg.
Jessica Lamb
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Reg.
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I work with all thing sex and relationships and have specialised in working with difficulties in sexual function (such as Erectile Dysfunction), low/high libido, painful penetration including vaginismus, exploring your sexual identity and much more.
I understand that even approaching a Sex and Relationship Therapist can be daunting, and I want to ensure you that with me, you will never be met with judgement. I understand that every person and couple is unique and what they bring to therapy is unique, so the way I work with you, is also unique to you.
I work with all thing sex and relationships and have specialised in working with difficulties in sexual function (such as Erectile Dysfunction), low/high libido, painful penetration including vaginismus, exploring your sexual identity and much more.
I understand that even approaching a Sex and Relationship Therapist can be daunting, and I want to ensure you that with me, you will never be met with judgement. I understand that every person and couple is unique and what they bring to therapy is unique, so the way I work with you, is also unique to you.
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Thinking Feeling Moving
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Online Only
Pluralistic in her approach using a bio-psycho-social framework, while working somatically to help people feel safe in their bodies, gain a deeper understanding of their sexuality, explore how it fits within their relationships, and access pleasure.
Consensual non- monogamy/ erection problems/ inability to orgasm/ low sexual desire/ painful sex/ premature or early ejaculation/ problematic porn use/ relationship problems (inc. couples and poly)/ sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns/ sexual compulsions/ specific sexual interests (BDSM, kink, fetishes)/ vaginismus/ EMDR Trauma Therapy.
Pluralistic in her approach using a bio-psycho-social framework, while working somatically to help people feel safe in their bodies, gain a deeper understanding of their sexuality, explore how it fits within their relationships, and access pleasure.
Consensual non- monogamy/ erection problems/ inability to orgasm/ low sexual desire/ painful sex/ premature or early ejaculation/ problematic porn use/ relationship problems (inc. couples and poly)/ sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns/ sexual compulsions/ specific sexual interests (BDSM, kink, fetishes)/ vaginismus/ EMDR Trauma Therapy.
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Steven Hayward
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
I am a COSRT Accredited psychotherapist based in Guildford, Surrey. I am passionate about living a fulfilled life. I believe this is rooted in positive and satisfying relationships. Sometimes, these relationships become stuck, hit an obstacle, or become overwhelmed by disagreements and conflicts.
I am a COSRT Accredited psychotherapist based in Guildford, Surrey. I am passionate about living a fulfilled life. I believe this is rooted in positive and satisfying relationships. Sometimes, these relationships become stuck, hit an obstacle, or become overwhelmed by disagreements and conflicts.
01483 963052 View 01483 963052
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MB Counselling
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MNCPS Acc.
Hello I am Malcolm Bateup from MB Counselling Services. I provide both 1.1 and couples counselling using an integrative approach that enables individuals and couples to move forward from being stuck by difficult and complex experiences that have happened out of their control in their lives. Due to the pandemic after carrying out a covid risk assessment I have made an ethical decision to provide specialist video link to enable everyone to feel safe rather than my treatment room. If you would like to find out more I can be contacted through Www.mbc-relationships.co.uk &www.mbcounselling-sussex.com and 07443507711 Take care Malcolm
Hello I am Malcolm Bateup from MB Counselling Services. I provide both 1.1 and couples counselling using an integrative approach that enables individuals and couples to move forward from being stuck by difficult and complex experiences that have happened out of their control in their lives. Due to the pandemic after carrying out a covid risk assessment I have made an ethical decision to provide specialist video link to enable everyone to feel safe rather than my treatment room. If you would like to find out more I can be contacted through Www.mbc-relationships.co.uk &www.mbcounselling-sussex.com and 07443507711 Take care Malcolm
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Irina Timonina
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
I welcome individuals and couples of any culture, sexuality, and gender, offering short and long-term therapy, face-to-face or online.
Are you feeling stuck in painful relationship dynamics, struggling with intimacy or sexual challenges, or navigating the complexities of cultural transition and identity? Do you feel like some parts of you are lost, wounded, or out of sync - with your partner, your body, or your sense of self? You may be carrying stories that no longer serve you, shaped by culture, past relationships, or unspoken wounds. As an integrative counsellor, psychosexual and relationship therapist, I offer a space where all of you is welcome - where we slow down, listen deeply, and gently reconnect you with who you are, and how you want to live and love.
I welcome individuals and couples of any culture, sexuality, and gender, offering short and long-term therapy, face-to-face or online.
Are you feeling stuck in painful relationship dynamics, struggling with intimacy or sexual challenges, or navigating the complexities of cultural transition and identity? Do you feel like some parts of you are lost, wounded, or out of sync - with your partner, your body, or your sense of self? You may be carrying stories that no longer serve you, shaped by culture, past relationships, or unspoken wounds. As an integrative counsellor, psychosexual and relationship therapist, I offer a space where all of you is welcome - where we slow down, listen deeply, and gently reconnect you with who you are, and how you want to live and love.
020 3870 3817 View 020 3870 3817
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Irene Searle
Psychotherapist, MBACP
I support clients to become more aware of the psychological, emotional and relational factors that have contributed to disconnection and help move them towards a more fulfilling sex life.
Depending on if you are interested in psychosexual therapy or general therapy, we will meet first for an initial consultation to see if we can do some meaningful work together. Then we will work on a plan for the therapy going forward. Start investing in you today by calling or texting me for a free no obligation phone call.
I support clients to become more aware of the psychological, emotional and relational factors that have contributed to disconnection and help move them towards a more fulfilling sex life.
Depending on if you are interested in psychosexual therapy or general therapy, we will meet first for an initial consultation to see if we can do some meaningful work together. Then we will work on a plan for the therapy going forward. Start investing in you today by calling or texting me for a free no obligation phone call.
01256 438290 View 01256 438290
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Susi Halley
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
2 Endorsed
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships then you have come to the right place.
I have experience working with (not limited to): erection and ejaculation difficulties, sexual desire/arousal changes, orgasm disorders, difficulties/pain and penetration, sexuality, sexual trauma/abuse, Chemsex, sexual risk taking, sexual health/STI's, anxiety related to sex, compulsive sexual behaviour ( sex/porn addiction). See website for more info
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships then you have come to the right place.
I have experience working with (not limited to): erection and ejaculation difficulties, sexual desire/arousal changes, orgasm disorders, difficulties/pain and penetration, sexuality, sexual trauma/abuse, Chemsex, sexual risk taking, sexual health/STI's, anxiety related to sex, compulsive sexual behaviour ( sex/porn addiction). See website for more info
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Cora Metelerkamp
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Havant PO9
You may be having difficulties around relationship(s) possibly around sex and/or intimacy.
I have a wide range of tools and trainings in order to offer what best suits each person. My core training is psychodynamic whereby we may explore the past to find lasting benefits for the future. I am an experienced Relationship Therapist who also offers Sex Therapy with much experience around diversity, loss of trust, loss of connection and conflict.
You may be having difficulties around relationship(s) possibly around sex and/or intimacy.
I have a wide range of tools and trainings in order to offer what best suits each person. My core training is psychodynamic whereby we may explore the past to find lasting benefits for the future. I am an experienced Relationship Therapist who also offers Sex Therapy with much experience around diversity, loss of trust, loss of connection and conflict.
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Dr Debbie Lovell
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a clinical sexologist/ sex therapist.
The interplay of mind and body is also central to the common mental health concerns I typically work with such as anxiety, anger, depression, trauma, eating disturbances and difficulties with sleep. I also work with related issues such as body dysmorphia, low self esteem, shame and relationship distress.
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a clinical sexologist/ sex therapist.
The interplay of mind and body is also central to the common mental health concerns I typically work with such as anxiety, anger, depression, trauma, eating disturbances and difficulties with sleep. I also work with related issues such as body dysmorphia, low self esteem, shame and relationship distress.
020 3909 9821 View 020 3909 9821
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Angela Jane Deakin
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Reading RG1
If you are experiencing sexual problems I am here to help you An important part of a healthy adult relationship is an active and satisfying sex life.
My aim is to make you feel comfortable, allowing you to express yourself in a safe a secure environment. I offer sensitivity, empathy and a non judgmental approach.
If you are experiencing sexual problems I am here to help you An important part of a healthy adult relationship is an active and satisfying sex life.
My aim is to make you feel comfortable, allowing you to express yourself in a safe a secure environment. I offer sensitivity, empathy and a non judgmental approach.
0118 230 9257 View 0118 230 9257
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Tony Pullar
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
I’m a Psychotherapist who specialises in working with men of all ages, supporting them to navigate challenges around sex, relationships, confidence and anxiety.
I offer individual psychotherapy for people who want meaningful, long-term change, whether they’re struggling with specific issues or more deep-rooted emotional patterns. I also provide Couples and Psychosexual Therapy, supporting individuals and partners to work through difficulties with sex, intimacy and relationship dynamics, and to build more satisfying.
I’m a Psychotherapist who specialises in working with men of all ages, supporting them to navigate challenges around sex, relationships, confidence and anxiety.
I offer individual psychotherapy for people who want meaningful, long-term change, whether they’re struggling with specific issues or more deep-rooted emotional patterns. I also provide Couples and Psychosexual Therapy, supporting individuals and partners to work through difficulties with sex, intimacy and relationship dynamics, and to build more satisfying.
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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.