Divorce Counselling in Harpenden

Mariangela Milioto
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Want to explore what's brought you to therapy in a safe, compassionate, non-judgemental setting? I'm an Integrative psychotherapist - the essence of my practice is to work with you transparently and with warmth, empathy, humour and gentle challenge.  Perhaps you’re struggling - feeling alone and isolated.  Maybe you’re overwhelmed, depressed, burnt out or anxious.  It could be that what you’re experiencing isn’t any of these - maybe you don't feel yourself and you don’t know why.  If you’re experiencing any of these feelings, sharing your burden through counselling can help.
Want to explore what's brought you to therapy in a safe, compassionate, non-judgemental setting? I'm an Integrative psychotherapist - the essence of my practice is to work with you transparently and with warmth, empathy, humour and gentle challenge.  Perhaps you’re struggling - feeling alone and isolated.  Maybe you’re overwhelmed, depressed, burnt out or anxious.  It could be that what you’re experiencing isn’t any of these - maybe you don't feel yourself and you don’t know why.  If you’re experiencing any of these feelings, sharing your burden through counselling can help.
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Renata Harris
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Hello, I'm Renata. I am a Psychologist and Psychotherapist 20 years, and a BPS supervisor. I had extensive personal therapy myself. I aim to equip you with skills and self-acceptance to heal. I offer NICE recommended, holistic and relational therapy to get your life back on track, in a safe and validating space. I have worked in the NHS as a Psychology Lead for over 15 years. I have experience in working with most mental health diagnoses, eating disorders, neurodiversity (ADHD/ASD), addiction, bereavement, anxiety, low mood, stress, family and marital problems, issues with anger, self-esteem, trauma/PTSD. I speak English and Polish.
Hello, I'm Renata. I am a Psychologist and Psychotherapist 20 years, and a BPS supervisor. I had extensive personal therapy myself. I aim to equip you with skills and self-acceptance to heal. I offer NICE recommended, holistic and relational therapy to get your life back on track, in a safe and validating space. I have worked in the NHS as a Psychology Lead for over 15 years. I have experience in working with most mental health diagnoses, eating disorders, neurodiversity (ADHD/ASD), addiction, bereavement, anxiety, low mood, stress, family and marital problems, issues with anger, self-esteem, trauma/PTSD. I speak English and Polish.
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Alison Jane Caisley
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
We all encounter moments when we need support, and I provide a safe, confidential space to help you navigate life's challenges. Building a strong, trusting relationship is central to my approach, as I recognize that each person is unique. I adapt my methods to foster your insight and understanding of the issues at hand, paving the way for meaningful change. As a fully accredited psychodynamically trained therapist with an MA in Contemporary Therapeutic Studies, I also integrate person-centered and cognitive-behavioral techniques tailored to your specific needs.
We all encounter moments when we need support, and I provide a safe, confidential space to help you navigate life's challenges. Building a strong, trusting relationship is central to my approach, as I recognize that each person is unique. I adapt my methods to foster your insight and understanding of the issues at hand, paving the way for meaningful change. As a fully accredited psychodynamically trained therapist with an MA in Contemporary Therapeutic Studies, I also integrate person-centered and cognitive-behavioral techniques tailored to your specific needs.
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Helene Clarke
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
As an experienced and accredited counsellor and psychotherapist, I care deeply about what I do. You may be depressed, anxious, stressed, angry or have relationship problems or work-related difficulties. I will listen to you with empathy and without judgement so that can I see your world through your eyes and so that you feel heard. If your thoughts and feelings are confusing, conflicted or unclear, I will work with you collaboratively to unravel and make sense of them.
As an experienced and accredited counsellor and psychotherapist, I care deeply about what I do. You may be depressed, anxious, stressed, angry or have relationship problems or work-related difficulties. I will listen to you with empathy and without judgement so that can I see your world through your eyes and so that you feel heard. If your thoughts and feelings are confusing, conflicted or unclear, I will work with you collaboratively to unravel and make sense of them.
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Valley Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Problems are personal, bereavement, depression, stress, relationship breakdowns and anxiety can all feel unbearable and isolating. The reasons for seeking counselling or psychotherapy are as unique and varied as we are. Sometimes we have an idea of what is annoying or upsetting us. Sometimes we struggle to understand issues that darken our days. We might enter a cycle of blame or self-loathing in which we get lost, finding it difficult to move forwards in our lives.
Problems are personal, bereavement, depression, stress, relationship breakdowns and anxiety can all feel unbearable and isolating. The reasons for seeking counselling or psychotherapy are as unique and varied as we are. Sometimes we have an idea of what is annoying or upsetting us. Sometimes we struggle to understand issues that darken our days. We might enter a cycle of blame or self-loathing in which we get lost, finding it difficult to move forwards in our lives.
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Dr Sophie Fitzgerald
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
I am an experienced Clinical Psychologist, registered with The Health and Care Professionals Council (HCPC). I have worked in both community and inpatient settings across different populations including older adults, adults including those with an eating disorder, children and adolescent, people with learning disabilities and people following a stroke or traumatic brain injury. ​I have gained experience of working with a range of different types of therapies including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Systemic Therapy, Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Schema therapy and DBT.
I am an experienced Clinical Psychologist, registered with The Health and Care Professionals Council (HCPC). I have worked in both community and inpatient settings across different populations including older adults, adults including those with an eating disorder, children and adolescent, people with learning disabilities and people following a stroke or traumatic brain injury. ​I have gained experience of working with a range of different types of therapies including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Systemic Therapy, Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Schema therapy and DBT.
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Karen Rowlands
Counsellor, BACP
Perhaps you are going through life-changing events such as bereavement, divorce, long-term illness or feelings of being stuck and not knowing how to move forwards?
Many people suffer for years with problems that keep recurring without understanding why or knowing how they can heal from past or present wounds. I would like to work with you to explore what is going on for you, to help you make sense of your thoughts and feelings and to facilitate you in developing a greater understanding of yourself.
Perhaps you are going through life-changing events such as bereavement, divorce, long-term illness or feelings of being stuck and not knowing how to move forwards?
Many people suffer for years with problems that keep recurring without understanding why or knowing how they can heal from past or present wounds. I would like to work with you to explore what is going on for you, to help you make sense of your thoughts and feelings and to facilitate you in developing a greater understanding of yourself.
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Marina Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
As a BACP accredited Psychotherapist and University lecturer with over 10 years of experience, I offer a safe, professional and productive therapeutic space for my clients for CBT, EMDR, counselling and psychotherapy. I have worked within the NHS, schools, support centres for young people and women, and have experience supporting clients with various issues. Embarking on the journey of talking therapy can indeed feel daunting. Please rest assured that I am here to support you with a kind, empathetic approach. Also, with a Masters in Psychotherapy and a Ba (Hons) in teaching, I bring a dynamic and refreshing approach to therapy.
As a BACP accredited Psychotherapist and University lecturer with over 10 years of experience, I offer a safe, professional and productive therapeutic space for my clients for CBT, EMDR, counselling and psychotherapy. I have worked within the NHS, schools, support centres for young people and women, and have experience supporting clients with various issues. Embarking on the journey of talking therapy can indeed feel daunting. Please rest assured that I am here to support you with a kind, empathetic approach. Also, with a Masters in Psychotherapy and a Ba (Hons) in teaching, I bring a dynamic and refreshing approach to therapy.
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Dr Lee Martin
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
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Lucy S Adamson
Counsellor, MBACP Snr. Accred
Online Only
I have experience in dealing with young people as well as being grounded in working with older adults and their issues. Young adult suffering from low mood or anxiety, adolescents struggling with school based issues, eating disorders, social anxieties and traumas of family life are suited to my practice. It can be difficult reaching out for help but if you can connect correctly with another individual it can help build confidence and rebuild your life. Many people struggle with unresolved pain or illness. I offer techniques to cope with these issues. Often psychological barriers prevent our healing successfully.
I have experience in dealing with young people as well as being grounded in working with older adults and their issues. Young adult suffering from low mood or anxiety, adolescents struggling with school based issues, eating disorders, social anxieties and traumas of family life are suited to my practice. It can be difficult reaching out for help but if you can connect correctly with another individual it can help build confidence and rebuild your life. Many people struggle with unresolved pain or illness. I offer techniques to cope with these issues. Often psychological barriers prevent our healing successfully.
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Alison Matthews
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Are you feeling out of balance or unsure why you're struggling with anxiety, low mood, anger, or low self-esteem? You may be coping with a loss, a relationship breakdown, a traumatic experience, or finding it difficult to communicate how you're feeling. These experiences can leave you feeling alone, overwhelmed or confused - and seeking support can be an important first step.
Are you feeling out of balance or unsure why you're struggling with anxiety, low mood, anger, or low self-esteem? You may be coping with a loss, a relationship breakdown, a traumatic experience, or finding it difficult to communicate how you're feeling. These experiences can leave you feeling alone, overwhelmed or confused - and seeking support can be an important first step.
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Hazel Huismans
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
Therapy for Life Changes, Grief & Relationships. Many people come to therapy during periods of change or uncertainty. A relationship may have ended, work may feel overwhelming, or a loss may have altered the shape of life. Others arrive with a quieter sense that something no longer feels right. I work with adults navigating experiences such as relationship difficulties, grief, family changes, career transitions and questions about identity or direction. Therapy offers a thoughtful and supportive space to reflect on these experiences, understand emotional patterns and reconnect with a clearer sense of self.
Therapy for Life Changes, Grief & Relationships. Many people come to therapy during periods of change or uncertainty. A relationship may have ended, work may feel overwhelming, or a loss may have altered the shape of life. Others arrive with a quieter sense that something no longer feels right. I work with adults navigating experiences such as relationship difficulties, grief, family changes, career transitions and questions about identity or direction. Therapy offers a thoughtful and supportive space to reflect on these experiences, understand emotional patterns and reconnect with a clearer sense of self.
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Juliet Grace
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Therapy can help. I'm Juliet, an accredited therapist with 14+ years’ experience. I work with individuals and couples to explore relationship patterns, improve communication, and build deeper connections. I also support clients facing anxiety, grief, burnout, and stress. My approach is warm, pragmatic, and collaborative. Sessions are available face to face, online or outdoors. Through our work together, we’ll make sense of your experiences (past and present) to help you move forward with clarity, practical tools, and greater self-understanding.
Feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Therapy can help. I'm Juliet, an accredited therapist with 14+ years’ experience. I work with individuals and couples to explore relationship patterns, improve communication, and build deeper connections. I also support clients facing anxiety, grief, burnout, and stress. My approach is warm, pragmatic, and collaborative. Sessions are available face to face, online or outdoors. Through our work together, we’ll make sense of your experiences (past and present) to help you move forward with clarity, practical tools, and greater self-understanding.
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Alison Ryan
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed, miserable or unable to live the life you want? It can be difficult to make positive changes sometimes. You know you would like things to be different, but it's hard to know where to start. I offer a warm, compassionate, and open approach to understand what you would like to be different. and what is keeping things stuck. Working together with you, I use a range of evidence based approaches to help you move forwards in living the life you want.
Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed, miserable or unable to live the life you want? It can be difficult to make positive changes sometimes. You know you would like things to be different, but it's hard to know where to start. I offer a warm, compassionate, and open approach to understand what you would like to be different. and what is keeping things stuck. Working together with you, I use a range of evidence based approaches to help you move forwards in living the life you want.
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Harriet Doward Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a qualified counsellor working with adults and couples based in St Albans, Herts. I offer sessions online and in person and have experience helping with anxiety, depression, self-harm, relationship difficulties, self-esteem, anger, post-natal depression, addiction, trauma, and bereavement amongst others. For couples in crisis I can help you understand the subconscious roots of your relationship difficulties, looking at what first drew you together, where you got stuck and how to move forward.
I am a qualified counsellor working with adults and couples based in St Albans, Herts. I offer sessions online and in person and have experience helping with anxiety, depression, self-harm, relationship difficulties, self-esteem, anger, post-natal depression, addiction, trauma, and bereavement amongst others. For couples in crisis I can help you understand the subconscious roots of your relationship difficulties, looking at what first drew you together, where you got stuck and how to move forward.
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Hitchin & Welwyn Psychotherapy Practice
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
Hello and welcome to my profile. I am a qualified and experienced Psychotherapist and Counsellor.  I work with a range of issues such as: anxiety and depression, trauma, self-harm, addiction, relationship and family issues, stress and self-esteem, sexuality and emotional issues, issues with self image.
Hello and welcome to my profile. I am a qualified and experienced Psychotherapist and Counsellor.  I work with a range of issues such as: anxiety and depression, trauma, self-harm, addiction, relationship and family issues, stress and self-esteem, sexuality and emotional issues, issues with self image.
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Jonathan Eddie
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I offer both individual and couples therapy in central St Albans and online. At the heart of my approach is the safe, trusting relationship I share with my clients. While I support my clients in directing the course of their therapy, I’m not afraid to offer challenge and to guide a little, if I believe it's of therapeutic value to do so. Specialisms: Couples therapy Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder (Sex/Porn Addiction)
I offer both individual and couples therapy in central St Albans and online. At the heart of my approach is the safe, trusting relationship I share with my clients. While I support my clients in directing the course of their therapy, I’m not afraid to offer challenge and to guide a little, if I believe it's of therapeutic value to do so. Specialisms: Couples therapy Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder (Sex/Porn Addiction)
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Helen Wills
Counsellor, BACP
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
Not all grief begins with bereavement. You may be coping with the death of someone you love, a cancer diagnosis, chronic illness or pain, CFS, relationship breakdown, parenting challenges, redundancy, retirement, an empty nest, or a future that no longer looks as you expected. These experiences can leave you questioning who you are, what comes next, or why you're finding it so hard to cope. If you're used to being the person others rely on but now feel anxious, overwhelmed or stuck, we'll use IFS and attachment-informed therapy to understand what's happening beneath the surface and create lasting emotional change.
Not all grief begins with bereavement. You may be coping with the death of someone you love, a cancer diagnosis, chronic illness or pain, CFS, relationship breakdown, parenting challenges, redundancy, retirement, an empty nest, or a future that no longer looks as you expected. These experiences can leave you questioning who you are, what comes next, or why you're finding it so hard to cope. If you're used to being the person others rely on but now feel anxious, overwhelmed or stuck, we'll use IFS and attachment-informed therapy to understand what's happening beneath the surface and create lasting emotional change.
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Peter Brown
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I offer a warm respectful safe environment where you can explore all the difficulties that you’re facing. Issues I work with include relationship issues, depression, anxiety, couple counselling, trauma (ptsd, cptsd), low self worth/confidence, emotional withdrawal/disengagement, life changes/transitions, work issues, procrastination, historical abuse, shame/guilt/blame, loss, to mention a few. If you are finding it difficult coping or struggling with difficult feelings/emotions, or your thinking is just going around and around in circles, counselling can help. My aim is to support you through those challenging and difficult time.
I offer a warm respectful safe environment where you can explore all the difficulties that you’re facing. Issues I work with include relationship issues, depression, anxiety, couple counselling, trauma (ptsd, cptsd), low self worth/confidence, emotional withdrawal/disengagement, life changes/transitions, work issues, procrastination, historical abuse, shame/guilt/blame, loss, to mention a few. If you are finding it difficult coping or struggling with difficult feelings/emotions, or your thinking is just going around and around in circles, counselling can help. My aim is to support you through those challenging and difficult time.
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Vicky Corfield
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Whether you're facing something painful, feeling stuck, or simply looking for someone to talk things through with, I offer a space where you can explore what is going on for you—with compassion and support. I'm a BACP-registered counsellor with experience supporting people through a wide range of issues. My approach is psychodynamic, which can help bring awareness to the emotional processes that shape how you feel. This may include exploring past experiences and how they continue to influence your emotions and relationships. I work in a way that’s responsive to your individual needs, focusing on what feels most helpful to you.
Whether you're facing something painful, feeling stuck, or simply looking for someone to talk things through with, I offer a space where you can explore what is going on for you—with compassion and support. I'm a BACP-registered counsellor with experience supporting people through a wide range of issues. My approach is psychodynamic, which can help bring awareness to the emotional processes that shape how you feel. This may include exploring past experiences and how they continue to influence your emotions and relationships. I work in a way that’s responsive to your individual needs, focusing on what feels most helpful to you.
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Divorce Counsellors
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.