Emotionally Focused Counselling in Hadleigh
I’m Lorraine Bygrave, a qualified EMDR and IFS Therapist with expertise in adoption and Attachment-Informed Therapy. I specialise in supporting adult survivors of childhood abuse, trauma, and PTSD, offering a compassionate and tailored approach to healing. My work combines EMDR, IFS, and IADC Therapy to release stuck grief, process unresolved emotions, and address the root causes of your challenges.
I’m Lorraine Bygrave, a qualified EMDR and IFS Therapist with expertise in adoption and Attachment-Informed Therapy. I specialise in supporting adult survivors of childhood abuse, trauma, and PTSD, offering a compassionate and tailored approach to healing. My work combines EMDR, IFS, and IADC Therapy to release stuck grief, process unresolved emotions, and address the root causes of your challenges.
I practices in Southend on Sea. I am a senior professional accredited counsellor, accredited, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples, addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement. I'm honoured to share the journey with my clients. You choose your own goals then we collaborate to achieve them.
I practices in Southend on Sea. I am a senior professional accredited counsellor, accredited, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples, addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement. I'm honoured to share the journey with my clients. You choose your own goals then we collaborate to achieve them.
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I’m passionate about helping people develop into the most authentic, and chosen, version of themselves. Are you feeling ashamed, anxious, angry or sad? Do you find you get stuck in the same patterns of relationships? Are you trying to avoid difficult memories, and is this limiting your quality of life? I get the exhaustion. You are not alone. I am trained to doctoral level in a variety of therapeutic approaches (including CBT) and have additional training in CAT and EMDR. In a nutshell, this means, together, we can work out what’s going on for you and use a variety of approaches to get you heading in the direction.
I’m passionate about helping people develop into the most authentic, and chosen, version of themselves. Are you feeling ashamed, anxious, angry or sad? Do you find you get stuck in the same patterns of relationships? Are you trying to avoid difficult memories, and is this limiting your quality of life? I get the exhaustion. You are not alone. I am trained to doctoral level in a variety of therapeutic approaches (including CBT) and have additional training in CAT and EMDR. In a nutshell, this means, together, we can work out what’s going on for you and use a variety of approaches to get you heading in the direction.
English-speaking psychotherapist, couples and sex therapist based in Fuengirola, Costa del Sol. I support individuals and couples dealing with relationship issues, intimacy concerns, anxiety, communication difficulties, and life transitions. I offer confidential, compassionate therapy sessions both face-to-face in Fuengirola and online for clients across Spain and internationally. Appointments available for expats, digital nomads, and English-speaking residents seeking professional psychological support
English-speaking psychotherapist, couples and sex therapist based in Fuengirola, Costa del Sol. I support individuals and couples dealing with relationship issues, intimacy concerns, anxiety, communication difficulties, and life transitions. I offer confidential, compassionate therapy sessions both face-to-face in Fuengirola and online for clients across Spain and internationally. Appointments available for expats, digital nomads, and English-speaking residents seeking professional psychological support
My priority is always to understand you - your goals, challenges, and aspirations - so that we can create meaningful, lasting change together. I am passionate about making a difference in your life, whether that means helping you overcome pain, stress and trauma or supporting you in building resilience and reaching your fullest potential!
I have worked extensively with people impacted by addiction, bereavement trauma and other major life changes, using a range of therapeutic techniques to provide comprehensive support. My approach will be tailored to you, continuously adapting to your evolving needs.
My priority is always to understand you - your goals, challenges, and aspirations - so that we can create meaningful, lasting change together. I am passionate about making a difference in your life, whether that means helping you overcome pain, stress and trauma or supporting you in building resilience and reaching your fullest potential!
I have worked extensively with people impacted by addiction, bereavement trauma and other major life changes, using a range of therapeutic techniques to provide comprehensive support. My approach will be tailored to you, continuously adapting to your evolving needs.
I offer one to one counselling sessions in Coggeshall to individuals over the age of 17 years. In a confidential space, where I will encourage you to talk about whatever is troubling you, together we will work through it, whatever it is. We can work on bringing about lasting change, so you can get on with your life. I have been in private practice since 2008, worked for 6 years within an NHS contract offering NICE approved Counselling for Depression, and 4 years as a counselling service manager. I have extensive knowledge and understanding of the complex nature of mental health.
I offer one to one counselling sessions in Coggeshall to individuals over the age of 17 years. In a confidential space, where I will encourage you to talk about whatever is troubling you, together we will work through it, whatever it is. We can work on bringing about lasting change, so you can get on with your life. I have been in private practice since 2008, worked for 6 years within an NHS contract offering NICE approved Counselling for Depression, and 4 years as a counselling service manager. I have extensive knowledge and understanding of the complex nature of mental health.
I have advance training in Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) is a collaborative approach for working with couples, families, and individuals.
I'm a Systemic Psychotherapist, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist and EMDR therapists. I help individuals and Couples overcome difficulties, enabling them to lead the fulfilling lives they desire. I have over 16 years’ experience working with relationships. I work with a wide range of identity types with people facing various forms of distress, both as individuals and the context of relationships. My ultimate goal is to provide a supportive, empathetic non-judgemental environment where people can explore their challenges, gain a deeper understanding of themselves, and develop their ability to bring about positive change.
I have advance training in Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) is a collaborative approach for working with couples, families, and individuals.
I'm a Systemic Psychotherapist, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist and EMDR therapists. I help individuals and Couples overcome difficulties, enabling them to lead the fulfilling lives they desire. I have over 16 years’ experience working with relationships. I work with a wide range of identity types with people facing various forms of distress, both as individuals and the context of relationships. My ultimate goal is to provide a supportive, empathetic non-judgemental environment where people can explore their challenges, gain a deeper understanding of themselves, and develop their ability to bring about positive change.
I'm a Clinical Psychologist & EMDR therapist with over a decade of experience working in the NHS and private practice with adults experiencing a wide-range of difficulties such as anxiety, depression, PTSD/ trauma and ADHD.
I'm a Clinical Psychologist & EMDR therapist with over a decade of experience working in the NHS and private practice with adults experiencing a wide-range of difficulties such as anxiety, depression, PTSD/ trauma and ADHD.
Life often feels overwhelming, filled with challenges that tug at our inner peace. If you’ve been searching for a space to reconnect, to process, and to grow, I’m here to guide you with a holistic and empowering approach. My practice has evolved to go beyond traditional methods. My sessions now integrate a blend of talk therapy, hypnotherapy, and personalized self-guidance tools to empower you to take ownership of your healing process. At the heart of my work is the belief that transformation arises when we feel safe, seen, and supported.
Life often feels overwhelming, filled with challenges that tug at our inner peace. If you’ve been searching for a space to reconnect, to process, and to grow, I’m here to guide you with a holistic and empowering approach. My practice has evolved to go beyond traditional methods. My sessions now integrate a blend of talk therapy, hypnotherapy, and personalized self-guidance tools to empower you to take ownership of your healing process. At the heart of my work is the belief that transformation arises when we feel safe, seen, and supported.
Do you want to feel truly heard, not only listened to but importantly understood, that is our first strength. Our team feel compassion and empathy in the connection to truly engage but ultimately help you work in whatever your wants/needs/goals/desires are be it acceptance or/and change. Emma practice manager and counsellor of over 20yrs experience in all areas of counselling and need. Specialism are trauma/relationships/abuse/childhood issues/grief. Our general feedback is how a person feels at ease during and after the first session and at our practice
Do you want to feel truly heard, not only listened to but importantly understood, that is our first strength. Our team feel compassion and empathy in the connection to truly engage but ultimately help you work in whatever your wants/needs/goals/desires are be it acceptance or/and change. Emma practice manager and counsellor of over 20yrs experience in all areas of counselling and need. Specialism are trauma/relationships/abuse/childhood issues/grief. Our general feedback is how a person feels at ease during and after the first session and at our practice
My name is Peace Anumah and I have been working in the field of mental health since 2004, with over fourteen years experience in the counselling/therapy field. My private practice is pieceintopeace.com. In my practice, I create a safe space where my clients can feel relaxed and can openly speak, scream, cry, vent and charge forward with fierce determination to a more rewarding life. I offer a confidential, non-judgemental space where individuals, couples and families can have time and space to explore and understand their thoughts and feelings, helping them navigate through the complexities of family life, work, relationship etc.
My name is Peace Anumah and I have been working in the field of mental health since 2004, with over fourteen years experience in the counselling/therapy field. My private practice is pieceintopeace.com. In my practice, I create a safe space where my clients can feel relaxed and can openly speak, scream, cry, vent and charge forward with fierce determination to a more rewarding life. I offer a confidential, non-judgemental space where individuals, couples and families can have time and space to explore and understand their thoughts and feelings, helping them navigate through the complexities of family life, work, relationship etc.
If you are struggling with aspects of your life/relationships, together we can explore and make sense of your thoughts, feelings, experiences, challenges and relationships in a confidential and non-judgmental environment, so that we can build future possibilities for growth and change. My aim is to help you to understand yourself and others through reflection, insight, and observations. I will listen to you sensitively, safely and without judgment and we will go at a pace that is right for you. We will work together to develop practical ways for you to move forward and face future challenges with a new strength and self-awareness.
If you are struggling with aspects of your life/relationships, together we can explore and make sense of your thoughts, feelings, experiences, challenges and relationships in a confidential and non-judgmental environment, so that we can build future possibilities for growth and change. My aim is to help you to understand yourself and others through reflection, insight, and observations. I will listen to you sensitively, safely and without judgment and we will go at a pace that is right for you. We will work together to develop practical ways for you to move forward and face future challenges with a new strength and self-awareness.
I work with clients who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or misunderstood—whether they’re dealing with anxiety, low self-esteem, or past trauma. Many are neurodivergent and want support that truly understands how their brain works and values their unique perspective. Together, we create a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and feelings, uncover patterns that hold you back, and build confidence, resilience, and self-awareness so you can move forward in a way that feels authentic, empowering, and sustainable for you.
I work with clients who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or misunderstood—whether they’re dealing with anxiety, low self-esteem, or past trauma. Many are neurodivergent and want support that truly understands how their brain works and values their unique perspective. Together, we create a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and feelings, uncover patterns that hold you back, and build confidence, resilience, and self-awareness so you can move forward in a way that feels authentic, empowering, and sustainable for you.
English & Russian Speaking - I work with adults who may seem capable and “fine” on the outside, while internally feeling anxious, overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or disconnected from themselves. Many of my clients struggle with overthinking, self-criticism, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for everyone else’s needs. Some grew up around criticism, high expectations, or environments where emotions didn’t feel fully safe. Together, we gently explore these patterns, helping you better understand yourself, build self-compassion, and feel more grounded, confident, and emotionally supported.
English & Russian Speaking - I work with adults who may seem capable and “fine” on the outside, while internally feeling anxious, overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or disconnected from themselves. Many of my clients struggle with overthinking, self-criticism, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for everyone else’s needs. Some grew up around criticism, high expectations, or environments where emotions didn’t feel fully safe. Together, we gently explore these patterns, helping you better understand yourself, build self-compassion, and feel more grounded, confident, and emotionally supported.
I offer face to face and online therapy for adults experiencing a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, loss and bereavement and trauma. I have a particular interest in working with relationship difficulties, including those rooted in early relationships, as well as childhood trauma and how these experiences can impact adult life. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or wanting to better understand what’s going on for you, I can help bring the change you are looking for, therapy can bring clarity, insight, and a greater understanding.
I offer face to face and online therapy for adults experiencing a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, loss and bereavement and trauma. I have a particular interest in working with relationship difficulties, including those rooted in early relationships, as well as childhood trauma and how these experiences can impact adult life. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or wanting to better understand what’s going on for you, I can help bring the change you are looking for, therapy can bring clarity, insight, and a greater understanding.
I am a BACP accredited psychodynamic counsellor and I offer a warm and welcoming space for you to explore any issues or difficulties you may be struggling with. I work with adults, couples and children age 11-18 and and have experience in working with a wide range of issues that may be linked to past experiences or stressors in the present. I have experience and understanding of working with neurodivergence particularly Autism and ADHD. My aim is to provide a confidential and comfortable place for you to safely explore any issues that are causing difficulties or distress.
I am a BACP accredited psychodynamic counsellor and I offer a warm and welcoming space for you to explore any issues or difficulties you may be struggling with. I work with adults, couples and children age 11-18 and and have experience in working with a wide range of issues that may be linked to past experiences or stressors in the present. I have experience and understanding of working with neurodivergence particularly Autism and ADHD. My aim is to provide a confidential and comfortable place for you to safely explore any issues that are causing difficulties or distress.
In couple therapy we might use strategies from the Gottman method, Emotionally focused therapy ( EFT) and developmental approaches too.
Sometimes life can feel overwhelming. Speaking with a therapist can provide a safe space to explore your feelings and find clarity—it’s a step toward taking care of yourself.
Or, if things with your partner are wobbly and you are struggling to get on as well as you used to; perhaps you are arguing more and you seem to have lost the magic of when you first met, then reach out and let's talk it through. You don’t have to go through this alone. A therapist can help you navigate what you’re feeling and support you in finding ways to feel better as a couple or an individual.
In couple therapy we might use strategies from the Gottman method, Emotionally focused therapy ( EFT) and developmental approaches too.
Sometimes life can feel overwhelming. Speaking with a therapist can provide a safe space to explore your feelings and find clarity—it’s a step toward taking care of yourself.
Or, if things with your partner are wobbly and you are struggling to get on as well as you used to; perhaps you are arguing more and you seem to have lost the magic of when you first met, then reach out and let's talk it through. You don’t have to go through this alone. A therapist can help you navigate what you’re feeling and support you in finding ways to feel better as a couple or an individual.
Emotion can be overwhelming. You may feel pressure to change or feel unable to be true to yourself. Sometimes, past experiences can pull you down. You may feel shame or guilt, or feel completely lost. How would you feel if I told you that it is ok not to be ok, that your feelings are important and what you want from life matters? I work with people from all walks of life and I have had the privilege to witness the positive transformation and resilience that people have. You are not alone and I know change is possible.
Emotion can be overwhelming. You may feel pressure to change or feel unable to be true to yourself. Sometimes, past experiences can pull you down. You may feel shame or guilt, or feel completely lost. How would you feel if I told you that it is ok not to be ok, that your feelings are important and what you want from life matters? I work with people from all walks of life and I have had the privilege to witness the positive transformation and resilience that people have. You are not alone and I know change is possible.
Anthony Richard Fletcher Clarke
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Extreme trauma exists in PTSD but in some way all of us experience trauma from the school bully to the manager who does not listen. We all have states of anxiety and depression. What is a normal state and how do we know if we are heading for a breakdown. What is a balanced happy life? We can have control of some things in our life and other things come along and smack us in the face. What therapy with me does is give you a space for observation without personal judgement or criticism , questions from me so that I understand your motivations and help shape your goals. Sometimes your answers are in the past, often in the present.
Extreme trauma exists in PTSD but in some way all of us experience trauma from the school bully to the manager who does not listen. We all have states of anxiety and depression. What is a normal state and how do we know if we are heading for a breakdown. What is a balanced happy life? We can have control of some things in our life and other things come along and smack us in the face. What therapy with me does is give you a space for observation without personal judgement or criticism , questions from me so that I understand your motivations and help shape your goals. Sometimes your answers are in the past, often in the present.
You may have been feeling unlike yourself overwhelmed, disconnected, or carrying something you haven't yet found the words for. Perhaps it's anxiety, the weight of past experiences, or simply the exhaustion of holding everything together for too long.
You don't need a diagnosis or a clear sense of where to begin. You may long to feel more at peace, more in control, or simply more like yourself. To understand how your past and relationships shape your present, or to breathe without needing to explain. Whatever matters most to you, that's where we begin.
You may have been feeling unlike yourself overwhelmed, disconnected, or carrying something you haven't yet found the words for. Perhaps it's anxiety, the weight of past experiences, or simply the exhaustion of holding everything together for too long.
You don't need a diagnosis or a clear sense of where to begin. You may long to feel more at peace, more in control, or simply more like yourself. To understand how your past and relationships shape your present, or to breathe without needing to explain. Whatever matters most to you, that's where we begin.
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Emotionally Focused Counsellors
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.