Attachment-based Counselling in Hadleigh
I am particularly interested in the way that things that go wrong in childhood can bite us as adults - it might show as low self esteem, high anxiety levels, feeling overwhelmed by things you could deal with once.
If there's a residue of pain from earlier in your life that is causing you problems now - maybe relationship issues, or perhaps you can't grieve for someone you've lost, or you simply feel that life is too much - we can work with that.
You will decide what your aims are - but maybe a life lived in colour and ease would be a good start.
I am particularly interested in the way that things that go wrong in childhood can bite us as adults - it might show as low self esteem, high anxiety levels, feeling overwhelmed by things you could deal with once.
If there's a residue of pain from earlier in your life that is causing you problems now - maybe relationship issues, or perhaps you can't grieve for someone you've lost, or you simply feel that life is too much - we can work with that.
You will decide what your aims are - but maybe a life lived in colour and ease would be a good start.
I’m Lorraine Bygrave, a qualified EMDR and IFS Therapist with expertise in adoption and Attachment-Informed Therapy. I specialise in supporting adult survivors of childhood abuse, trauma, and PTSD, offering a compassionate and tailored approach to healing. My work combines EMDR, IFS, and IADC Therapy to release stuck grief, process unresolved emotions, and address the root causes of your challenges.
I’m Lorraine Bygrave, a qualified EMDR and IFS Therapist with expertise in adoption and Attachment-Informed Therapy. I specialise in supporting adult survivors of childhood abuse, trauma, and PTSD, offering a compassionate and tailored approach to healing. My work combines EMDR, IFS, and IADC Therapy to release stuck grief, process unresolved emotions, and address the root causes of your challenges.
I practices in Southend on Sea. I am a senior professional accredited counsellor, accredited, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples, addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement. I'm honoured to share the journey with my clients. You choose your own goals then we collaborate to achieve them.
I practices in Southend on Sea. I am a senior professional accredited counsellor, accredited, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples, addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement. I'm honoured to share the journey with my clients. You choose your own goals then we collaborate to achieve them.
Hi, I'm Laura Clark an Integrative Counsellor working with mums and parent/carers.
I explore with you the past, present, and future and the world around you.
You want to feel like yourself again, not someone “holding everything together.”
You want to feel lighter, more hopeful, and more resilient to enjoy life and relationships, not just survive each day.
So if you are -
Experiencing anxiety, stress, or feeling low
Struggling with low self-esteem, self-criticism, guilt, and shame
Feeling a loss of identity
Feeling relationship dynamics changing
Please get in touch
Member of the BACP, NCPS, also DBS & GPDR checked & cleared
Hi, I'm Laura Clark an Integrative Counsellor working with mums and parent/carers.
I explore with you the past, present, and future and the world around you.
You want to feel like yourself again, not someone “holding everything together.”
You want to feel lighter, more hopeful, and more resilient to enjoy life and relationships, not just survive each day.
So if you are -
Experiencing anxiety, stress, or feeling low
Struggling with low self-esteem, self-criticism, guilt, and shame
Feeling a loss of identity
Feeling relationship dynamics changing
Please get in touch
Member of the BACP, NCPS, also DBS & GPDR checked & cleared
Hello, I understand just how difficult the first step to seeking help can feel. I offer an initial free 15 minute chat to help you with the initial process - it can be incredibly daunting! My aim is support you on your journey to find clarity and peace. I provide a warm, non-judgemental and empathic relationship based upon trust and sensitivity, to help you explore your worries, fears and difficulties so that you may feel equipped to face life with renewed energy and self-compassion. In the wise words of Yalom, regardless of style of therapy, "It's the relationship that heals, the relationship that heals..."
Hello, I understand just how difficult the first step to seeking help can feel. I offer an initial free 15 minute chat to help you with the initial process - it can be incredibly daunting! My aim is support you on your journey to find clarity and peace. I provide a warm, non-judgemental and empathic relationship based upon trust and sensitivity, to help you explore your worries, fears and difficulties so that you may feel equipped to face life with renewed energy and self-compassion. In the wise words of Yalom, regardless of style of therapy, "It's the relationship that heals, the relationship that heals..."
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Taking the first step in finding a new counsellor can feel daunting, and I truly understand that. My priority is to put you at ease and help you feel comfortable throughout the process. As a warm, non-judgmental, and experienced counsellor, I am committed to creating a safe, supportive space where you can openly explore your thoughts and feelings.
Taking the first step in finding a new counsellor can feel daunting, and I truly understand that. My priority is to put you at ease and help you feel comfortable throughout the process. As a warm, non-judgmental, and experienced counsellor, I am committed to creating a safe, supportive space where you can openly explore your thoughts and feelings.
I see clients individually or in couples, who are suffering from all kinds of anxiety and unhappiness,or are feeling lost or stuck. You may be having problems at work, with self-esteem or in your relationship with a partner or friends. You may need to work through trauma, including bullying and relationship loss. If you are a couple, I will help you to analyze what has gone wrong; and have you learn to nurture your relationship by thinking together and working out how to support each other.
I see clients individually or in couples, who are suffering from all kinds of anxiety and unhappiness,or are feeling lost or stuck. You may be having problems at work, with self-esteem or in your relationship with a partner or friends. You may need to work through trauma, including bullying and relationship loss. If you are a couple, I will help you to analyze what has gone wrong; and have you learn to nurture your relationship by thinking together and working out how to support each other.
Hi, I'm Abbie. I am passionate about making therapy more accessible to all so you can better work through the challenges that life throws at you. I believe that everyone deserves the chance to be content & fulfilled in life, unhampered by issues, past or present. We all need support and a helping hand at times to make this happen. This is why I offer counselling and psychotherapy to adults who are struggling with the challenges that life has thrown at them. My service is a professional, impartial, and totally confidential space for you to heal by expressing & exploring your emotions & find a positive way to move forward in life.
Hi, I'm Abbie. I am passionate about making therapy more accessible to all so you can better work through the challenges that life throws at you. I believe that everyone deserves the chance to be content & fulfilled in life, unhampered by issues, past or present. We all need support and a helping hand at times to make this happen. This is why I offer counselling and psychotherapy to adults who are struggling with the challenges that life has thrown at them. My service is a professional, impartial, and totally confidential space for you to heal by expressing & exploring your emotions & find a positive way to move forward in life.
Life can feel very complicated at times and finding someone to talk to can be hard - especially if you're already feeling anxious, depressed, stuck or misunderstood. Have you been struggling with an issue that feels too overwhelming to think or talk about, even with your closest friend or your partner? I can help you work with your thoughts and emotions to get to what really matters in your life.
Life can feel very complicated at times and finding someone to talk to can be hard - especially if you're already feeling anxious, depressed, stuck or misunderstood. Have you been struggling with an issue that feels too overwhelming to think or talk about, even with your closest friend or your partner? I can help you work with your thoughts and emotions to get to what really matters in your life.
Additionally, I have received training in couples therapy emotion-focus attachment-based interventions.
Many of the people I work with are capable professionals who normally carry responsibility for others. When something destabilises them — a relationship crisis, pressure at work, or a life event — they can suddenly feel unlike themselves. They may even wonder, “Why am I reacting like this? I’m usually able to deal with things.” My role is not to panic or rush to fix things, but to provide a calm space where what’s happening can be understood and steadied. If this sounds familiar, therapy can help restore clarity and stability so that you can move forward again.
Additionally, I have received training in couples therapy emotion-focus attachment-based interventions.
Many of the people I work with are capable professionals who normally carry responsibility for others. When something destabilises them — a relationship crisis, pressure at work, or a life event — they can suddenly feel unlike themselves. They may even wonder, “Why am I reacting like this? I’m usually able to deal with things.” My role is not to panic or rush to fix things, but to provide a calm space where what’s happening can be understood and steadied. If this sounds familiar, therapy can help restore clarity and stability so that you can move forward again.
With several years of experience as a clinical psychologist, I’m passionate about helping people from all walks of life navigate their unique challenges and rediscover their sense of wellbeing. I have experience working with people who've experienced depression, trauma/PTSD, attachment difficulties, anxiety, OCD, phobia's, panic, low self-esteem and challenging behaviour. I currently work in an Autism and ADHD assessment service where I am the lead for attachment and trauma. Previously I have supported individuals adjust to living with chronic health conditions (e.g., chronic pain, epilepsy, psychogenic seizures, brain injury).
With several years of experience as a clinical psychologist, I’m passionate about helping people from all walks of life navigate their unique challenges and rediscover their sense of wellbeing. I have experience working with people who've experienced depression, trauma/PTSD, attachment difficulties, anxiety, OCD, phobia's, panic, low self-esteem and challenging behaviour. I currently work in an Autism and ADHD assessment service where I am the lead for attachment and trauma. Previously I have supported individuals adjust to living with chronic health conditions (e.g., chronic pain, epilepsy, psychogenic seizures, brain injury).
If you are struggling with aspects of your life/relationships, together we can explore and make sense of your thoughts, feelings, experiences, challenges and relationships in a confidential and non-judgmental environment, so that we can build future possibilities for growth and change. My aim is to help you to understand yourself and others through reflection, insight, and observations. I will listen to you sensitively, safely and without judgment and we will go at a pace that is right for you. We will work together to develop practical ways for you to move forward and face future challenges with a new strength and self-awareness.
If you are struggling with aspects of your life/relationships, together we can explore and make sense of your thoughts, feelings, experiences, challenges and relationships in a confidential and non-judgmental environment, so that we can build future possibilities for growth and change. My aim is to help you to understand yourself and others through reflection, insight, and observations. I will listen to you sensitively, safely and without judgment and we will go at a pace that is right for you. We will work together to develop practical ways for you to move forward and face future challenges with a new strength and self-awareness.
I offer therapy in-person in Chelmsford and online, providing a calm, compassionate, and non-judgmental space to explore life’s complexities. Therapy with me is an opportunity to process overwhelming emotions, navigate experiences, and develop deeper insights, in a way that feels meaningful and empowering.
I am attentive to the ways culture, society, and identity shape wellbeing, and I am committed to creating a space that honours all aspects of your background, heritage, and personal identity. I support clients navigating relationship difficulties, identity concerns, and the pressure of carrying multiple roles and expectations.
I offer therapy in-person in Chelmsford and online, providing a calm, compassionate, and non-judgmental space to explore life’s complexities. Therapy with me is an opportunity to process overwhelming emotions, navigate experiences, and develop deeper insights, in a way that feels meaningful and empowering.
I am attentive to the ways culture, society, and identity shape wellbeing, and I am committed to creating a space that honours all aspects of your background, heritage, and personal identity. I support clients navigating relationship difficulties, identity concerns, and the pressure of carrying multiple roles and expectations.
I am a clinical psychologist with experience working with individuals from diverse cultural, religious, and clinical backgrounds. I offer a compassionate and collaborative therapeutic space where clients can explore their difficulties at their own pace and feel genuinely heard and understood.
I am a clinical psychologist with experience working with individuals from diverse cultural, religious, and clinical backgrounds. I offer a compassionate and collaborative therapeutic space where clients can explore their difficulties at their own pace and feel genuinely heard and understood.
You might be feeling anxious, unsettled, or stuck in patterns that keep repeating in your relationships. This can become more noticeable during times of change, pregnancy, becoming a parent, loss, separation, or when life starts to feel different or uncertain. On the outside, things may look fine, but inside something feels off. You may find yourself overthinking, questioning your worth, people-pleasing, or avoiding difficult conversations, leaving you feeling disconnected or unsure of yourself.
You might be feeling anxious, unsettled, or stuck in patterns that keep repeating in your relationships. This can become more noticeable during times of change, pregnancy, becoming a parent, loss, separation, or when life starts to feel different or uncertain. On the outside, things may look fine, but inside something feels off. You may find yourself overthinking, questioning your worth, people-pleasing, or avoiding difficult conversations, leaving you feeling disconnected or unsure of yourself.
Something isn't quite right — and you can't quite name it. You're managing on the outside, but underneath there's pressure, exhaustion, or a persistent sense that something important is going unaddressed.
I work with adults navigating anxiety, stress, burnout, low mood, life transitions, relationship difficulties, ADHD, and neurodivergence. You don't need to arrive with a clear problem or a label; most of what matters doesn't fit neatly into either.
Whatever brings you here, I'm glad you found your way. This is a space to slow down, look properly, and find out what's actually there.
Something isn't quite right — and you can't quite name it. You're managing on the outside, but underneath there's pressure, exhaustion, or a persistent sense that something important is going unaddressed.
I work with adults navigating anxiety, stress, burnout, low mood, life transitions, relationship difficulties, ADHD, and neurodivergence. You don't need to arrive with a clear problem or a label; most of what matters doesn't fit neatly into either.
Whatever brings you here, I'm glad you found your way. This is a space to slow down, look properly, and find out what's actually there.
Thank you for stopping here. If you're searching for support, you've already taken the first step. I'm a Norwich-based counsellor, BACP member, Graduate Member of the British Psychological Society, and final year doctoral student in Counselling Psychology. I specialise in trauma, complex trauma, EMDR, sexual abuse recovery, and anxiety. I'll listen, walk alongside you, and help you find your way through. That first enquiry is not as daunting as it feels — take a breath and reach out, or go to my website to find out more.
Thank you for stopping here. If you're searching for support, you've already taken the first step. I'm a Norwich-based counsellor, BACP member, Graduate Member of the British Psychological Society, and final year doctoral student in Counselling Psychology. I specialise in trauma, complex trauma, EMDR, sexual abuse recovery, and anxiety. I'll listen, walk alongside you, and help you find your way through. That first enquiry is not as daunting as it feels — take a breath and reach out, or go to my website to find out more.
Are you often weighed down with feelings of anxiety? Whether as a result of mental health issues, bereavement, work/social/family environment or all of the above? Are you feeling overwhelmed and unsure of what to do next? Are you giving too much to others? Perhaps anxiety and past memories are stopping you from living the life you want to lead. You deserve to enjoy your life, which is why I specialise in supporting people with stress, anxiety and CPTSD. Contact me now to see how counselling can help you to overcome these difficult times in life.
Are you often weighed down with feelings of anxiety? Whether as a result of mental health issues, bereavement, work/social/family environment or all of the above? Are you feeling overwhelmed and unsure of what to do next? Are you giving too much to others? Perhaps anxiety and past memories are stopping you from living the life you want to lead. You deserve to enjoy your life, which is why I specialise in supporting people with stress, anxiety and CPTSD. Contact me now to see how counselling can help you to overcome these difficult times in life.
Often, life is full of ordinary trickiness that can be difficult to manage. It can be helpful to have a warm, compassionate and external mind alongside you to think about you, your needs, your current situation and what next steps for change might be possible.
Often, life is full of ordinary trickiness that can be difficult to manage. It can be helpful to have a warm, compassionate and external mind alongside you to think about you, your needs, your current situation and what next steps for change might be possible.
Life often feels overwhelming, filled with challenges that tug at our inner peace. If you’ve been searching for a space to reconnect, to process, and to grow, I’m here to guide you with a holistic and empowering approach. My practice has evolved to go beyond traditional methods. My sessions now integrate a blend of talk therapy, hypnotherapy, and personalized self-guidance tools to empower you to take ownership of your healing process. At the heart of my work is the belief that transformation arises when we feel safe, seen, and supported.
Life often feels overwhelming, filled with challenges that tug at our inner peace. If you’ve been searching for a space to reconnect, to process, and to grow, I’m here to guide you with a holistic and empowering approach. My practice has evolved to go beyond traditional methods. My sessions now integrate a blend of talk therapy, hypnotherapy, and personalized self-guidance tools to empower you to take ownership of your healing process. At the heart of my work is the belief that transformation arises when we feel safe, seen, and supported.
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Attachment-based Counsellors
Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?
Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.
What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?
Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.
How long does attachment-based therapy last?
Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioural Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.
Does attachment-based therapy work?
Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.