Personality Disorders Counselling in Guildford

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Janos Verebes-Weisz
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Serves Area
My experience includes working with complex trauma, personality disorders, anger, eating disorders, anxiety, and depression.
Change, while necessary for growth, can feel threatening. It often comes with a price—whether it's letting go of old defenses, facing difficult emotions, or confronting the unknown. I help clients explore these struggles, making change feel possible and, ultimately, more rewarding than the cost of staying the same.
My experience includes working with complex trauma, personality disorders, anger, eating disorders, anxiety, and depression.
Change, while necessary for growth, can feel threatening. It often comes with a price—whether it's letting go of old defenses, facing difficult emotions, or confronting the unknown. I help clients explore these struggles, making change feel possible and, ultimately, more rewarding than the cost of staying the same.
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Robyn Lithgoe
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Online Only
My name is Robyn and I am an accredited CBT and EMDR Therapist with 12+ years of experience supporting the emotional and psychological well-being of my clients. My approach is warm, compassionate, and collaborative, creating a non-judgmental space where nothing is off-limits or considered shameful. Together, we’ll explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe environment, with your personal experiences and values always at the heart of our work. I am passionate about helping individuals work through life’s challenges using evidence-based interventions tailored to their needs.
My name is Robyn and I am an accredited CBT and EMDR Therapist with 12+ years of experience supporting the emotional and psychological well-being of my clients. My approach is warm, compassionate, and collaborative, creating a non-judgmental space where nothing is off-limits or considered shameful. Together, we’ll explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe environment, with your personal experiences and values always at the heart of our work. I am passionate about helping individuals work through life’s challenges using evidence-based interventions tailored to their needs.
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The Practice
Psychotherapist, MBACP
We can all have difficulties in everyday life and encounter problems that we simply find hard to cope with alone. You may feel worried, anxious, low, confused, isolated or may be experience difficulties in relationships. You may be suffering from feelings of low self esteem or low self confidence. You may have been diagnosed with anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder, depression, or maybe you are just feeling sad. When these feelings and thoughts persist and become overwhelming it may be difficult to know which way to turn.
We can all have difficulties in everyday life and encounter problems that we simply find hard to cope with alone. You may feel worried, anxious, low, confused, isolated or may be experience difficulties in relationships. You may be suffering from feelings of low self esteem or low self confidence. You may have been diagnosed with anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder, depression, or maybe you are just feeling sad. When these feelings and thoughts persist and become overwhelming it may be difficult to know which way to turn.
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Emma Pott
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
I see that all behaviours such as self-harm, suicide attempts, drinking, drug abuse and other impulsive behaviours have developed as coping strategies to cope with and numb difficult emotions and experiences. These behaviours often act as a plaster to a deeper wound, but just like a plaster they don’t really ever fully heal unless they have time to heal properly. This is the work of therapy to take off the plaster and look more towards the root causes of the behaviour to work out what is going on for you. My instagram page offers an insight to how I work and might be helpful to get a further sense of how I work psychwithemma
I see that all behaviours such as self-harm, suicide attempts, drinking, drug abuse and other impulsive behaviours have developed as coping strategies to cope with and numb difficult emotions and experiences. These behaviours often act as a plaster to a deeper wound, but just like a plaster they don’t really ever fully heal unless they have time to heal properly. This is the work of therapy to take off the plaster and look more towards the root causes of the behaviour to work out what is going on for you. My instagram page offers an insight to how I work and might be helpful to get a further sense of how I work psychwithemma
01793 540095 View 01793 540095
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Aude Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I believe my multi-cultural background, personal life journey and wide professional experience mean that I offer a safe and non-judgemental approach rooted in compassion around a wide range of issues, mostly Anxiety, Emotional/ Narcissistic Abuse, Trauma, Neurodivergence, Depression, LGBTQ+, etc.
Hello, my name is Aude and I am a BACP registered Psychotherapist and Transformational Coach with over thirteen years of clinical experience working with adults and teenagers from all walks of life, personalities, backgrounds, cultures and genders. Benefit from the Dual Approach of Psychotherapy and Transformational Coaching for empowering mind clarity and long-lasting positive changes. By addressing both psychological and practical challenges, my unique approach can foster more lasting and meaningful changes to meet the full spectrum of your personal needs, moving seamlessly between therapeutic techniques and coaching strategies.
I believe my multi-cultural background, personal life journey and wide professional experience mean that I offer a safe and non-judgemental approach rooted in compassion around a wide range of issues, mostly Anxiety, Emotional/ Narcissistic Abuse, Trauma, Neurodivergence, Depression, LGBTQ+, etc.
Hello, my name is Aude and I am a BACP registered Psychotherapist and Transformational Coach with over thirteen years of clinical experience working with adults and teenagers from all walks of life, personalities, backgrounds, cultures and genders. Benefit from the Dual Approach of Psychotherapy and Transformational Coaching for empowering mind clarity and long-lasting positive changes. By addressing both psychological and practical challenges, my unique approach can foster more lasting and meaningful changes to meet the full spectrum of your personal needs, moving seamlessly between therapeutic techniques and coaching strategies.
01793 540243 View 01793 540243
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Margot Heurtematte
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Margot is a Clinical Psychologist, French-qualified, who works with children, young people, adults, parents, and families. Based in Guildford (Surrey), she offers a safe, compassionate, non-judgmental, and empathetic therapeutic space, for both individual and group psychological therapy, conducive to the exploration, understanding, and overcoming of personal and family challenges.
Margot is a Clinical Psychologist, French-qualified, who works with children, young people, adults, parents, and families. Based in Guildford (Surrey), she offers a safe, compassionate, non-judgmental, and empathetic therapeutic space, for both individual and group psychological therapy, conducive to the exploration, understanding, and overcoming of personal and family challenges.
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Karl Ayling
Counsellor, MBACP
Counselling and supervision with a free initial half-hour assessment in-person or online session, in a dedicated private room. Counselling gives you the opportunity to understand your current challenges and explore ways to overcome them in a confidential space where the agenda and pace is driven by you. This may include solution focused counselling, CBT or other modalities that suit you. I work with adults and children, with longer sessions available for relationship, couples and family work.
Counselling and supervision with a free initial half-hour assessment in-person or online session, in a dedicated private room. Counselling gives you the opportunity to understand your current challenges and explore ways to overcome them in a confidential space where the agenda and pace is driven by you. This may include solution focused counselling, CBT or other modalities that suit you. I work with adults and children, with longer sessions available for relationship, couples and family work.
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Dr Jo Gee
Psychotherapist, PhD, MUKCP
My specialist areas include emotional dysregulation, OCD and personality disorders online and in Surrey and London.
I work using a range of different evidence-based therapies and techniques, including DBT, psychodynamic, CBT, solution focused and MBCT, helping clients to explore past, current or future concerns. I work with different modalities dependent on clients' needs and goals.
My specialist areas include emotional dysregulation, OCD and personality disorders online and in Surrey and London.
I work using a range of different evidence-based therapies and techniques, including DBT, psychodynamic, CBT, solution focused and MBCT, helping clients to explore past, current or future concerns. I work with different modalities dependent on clients' needs and goals.
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Lise Baker
Psychotherapist, MBACP
I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist practising in Guildford, Haslemere, Putney, West London and Private Practice. I offer short or long term therapy and work with adults and the elderly on a one-to-one basis. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space, in professional settings and calm surroundings, where you can find solace and privacy. I hold up-to-date Enhanced Disclosure (DBS) for working with the very vulnerable and continue to develop my skills while I undertake a further MSc in Neuroscience.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist practising in Guildford, Haslemere, Putney, West London and Private Practice. I offer short or long term therapy and work with adults and the elderly on a one-to-one basis. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space, in professional settings and calm surroundings, where you can find solace and privacy. I hold up-to-date Enhanced Disclosure (DBS) for working with the very vulnerable and continue to develop my skills while I undertake a further MSc in Neuroscience.
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Pia Granjon
Verified Verified
You may be living in the aftermath of psychological trauma/complex trauma, or maybe you are unsure about it. Self-loathe, loneliness needed and hurting; a sense of guilt, fear; hiding or being aggressive, difficult connection to yourself and others, addiction, dissociations, DID, amnesia, a loss of your sense of self, anxiety and sadness, difficulties with sleeping, eating . . . This nis not your personality. This is surviving what others did to you. This is the core of my training and of my work. Together, we can approach this. I am trained with researchers and clinicians, mainly from the USA; specialised in complex traumas
You may be living in the aftermath of psychological trauma/complex trauma, or maybe you are unsure about it. Self-loathe, loneliness needed and hurting; a sense of guilt, fear; hiding or being aggressive, difficult connection to yourself and others, addiction, dissociations, DID, amnesia, a loss of your sense of self, anxiety and sadness, difficulties with sleeping, eating . . . This nis not your personality. This is surviving what others did to you. This is the core of my training and of my work. Together, we can approach this. I am trained with researchers and clinicians, mainly from the USA; specialised in complex traumas
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Rodney Dee
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
1 Endorsed
Starting therapy can be daunting so it’s important that you identify a therapist and an approach to working that feels right for you. As an art psychotherapist, I am open, honest and inclusive with considerable experience supporting children, adolescents and young adults in schools and community settings. My approach to working is psychodynamic - I’m interested in how past events may have affected you, both consciously and unconsciously, influencing the way you think, feel and behave. Should talking about your experiences be too difficult, I may encourage you to try different creative techniques as an alternate means of expression.
Starting therapy can be daunting so it’s important that you identify a therapist and an approach to working that feels right for you. As an art psychotherapist, I am open, honest and inclusive with considerable experience supporting children, adolescents and young adults in schools and community settings. My approach to working is psychodynamic - I’m interested in how past events may have affected you, both consciously and unconsciously, influencing the way you think, feel and behave. Should talking about your experiences be too difficult, I may encourage you to try different creative techniques as an alternate means of expression.
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Claire Millar
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
We all experience challenging times in our lives, unable to find a way forward, often feeling alone and confused. Seeking therapy can feel like a big step, not easy, often after having struggled for some time. As an experienced UKCP registered and highly qualified clinical psychotherapist and psychotherapeutic counsellor, I will work alongside you, at your own pace, to help you identify and work out your problems, drawing on all my experience to offer you an approach which suits you as an individual. My private practice is in Guildford where I see individuals and couples, offering both short term and long term therapy as required.
We all experience challenging times in our lives, unable to find a way forward, often feeling alone and confused. Seeking therapy can feel like a big step, not easy, often after having struggled for some time. As an experienced UKCP registered and highly qualified clinical psychotherapist and psychotherapeutic counsellor, I will work alongside you, at your own pace, to help you identify and work out your problems, drawing on all my experience to offer you an approach which suits you as an individual. My private practice is in Guildford where I see individuals and couples, offering both short term and long term therapy as required.
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Dr Michael Munday
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
1 Endorsed
I offer psychological therapy to adults and adolescents (aged 13 and above). I have over 17 years experience as a therapist working in senior roles in the NHS and in my private practice. My focus is on trying to help people grow and thrive in moving towards what they value in life and become more themselves. I have experience of being alongside people in helping them navigate a variety of difficulties, including depression, anxiety, anger, low self-worth, shame, relationship problems, gender dysphoria, trauma, self-harm, substance misuse, eating difficulties, personality difficulties, psychosis, and bipolar affective disorder.
I offer psychological therapy to adults and adolescents (aged 13 and above). I have over 17 years experience as a therapist working in senior roles in the NHS and in my private practice. My focus is on trying to help people grow and thrive in moving towards what they value in life and become more themselves. I have experience of being alongside people in helping them navigate a variety of difficulties, including depression, anxiety, anger, low self-worth, shame, relationship problems, gender dysphoria, trauma, self-harm, substance misuse, eating difficulties, personality difficulties, psychosis, and bipolar affective disorder.
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Tim Shore
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Hi there, I am an experienced Clinical Psychologist, trained to understand the different ways in which psychological distress can present itself and impact upon people’s lives. The breadth of my training and clinical experience enables me to draw upon different therapeutic approaches, thus allowing for a flexible approach, tailored to a person's needs and own set of circumstances. I will aim to help you better understand the underlying causes of your difficulties, supporting you along the way to make meaningful changes in the way you approach difficult situations in your work, with your partner or family, and in your social life.
Hi there, I am an experienced Clinical Psychologist, trained to understand the different ways in which psychological distress can present itself and impact upon people’s lives. The breadth of my training and clinical experience enables me to draw upon different therapeutic approaches, thus allowing for a flexible approach, tailored to a person's needs and own set of circumstances. I will aim to help you better understand the underlying causes of your difficulties, supporting you along the way to make meaningful changes in the way you approach difficult situations in your work, with your partner or family, and in your social life.
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Adrian Mark Stearman
Counsellor, BACP
2 Endorsed
I provide a safe and confidential place to support you on a one-to-one basis with issues including anxiety, addiction, depression and relationship problems. I am based in Guildford and Godalming, Surrey and offer evening and daytime appointments. Perhaps there is a pattern or behaviour in your life that keeps repeating itself despite your best efforts to feel or behave differently each time. Our histories, cultural and family backgrounds effect how we show up in the here and now of today. Counselling can help to shift our experience of life and the people, places and things that constantly trip us up.
I provide a safe and confidential place to support you on a one-to-one basis with issues including anxiety, addiction, depression and relationship problems. I am based in Guildford and Godalming, Surrey and offer evening and daytime appointments. Perhaps there is a pattern or behaviour in your life that keeps repeating itself despite your best efforts to feel or behave differently each time. Our histories, cultural and family backgrounds effect how we show up in the here and now of today. Counselling can help to shift our experience of life and the people, places and things that constantly trip us up.
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I am a Counsellor, Psychotherapist, trauma therapist and EMDR practitioner. I am registered & accredited member of the BACP. My primary way of working aims to work with the individual as a whole, through helping the client understand their thought and emotional processes and reprocesses stuck traumas whilst working on creative better relationships with the parts of themselves. I work with several difficulties, however, I do specialise in trauma work. Being a trauma therapist, I do specialise in PTSD, CPTSD, BPD/EUPD and dissociative responses including DID.
I am a Counsellor, Psychotherapist, trauma therapist and EMDR practitioner. I am registered & accredited member of the BACP. My primary way of working aims to work with the individual as a whole, through helping the client understand their thought and emotional processes and reprocesses stuck traumas whilst working on creative better relationships with the parts of themselves. I work with several difficulties, however, I do specialise in trauma work. Being a trauma therapist, I do specialise in PTSD, CPTSD, BPD/EUPD and dissociative responses including DID.
07480 488503 View 07480 488503
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Catherine Butler
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
I provide a safe, therapeutic, non-judgmental and confidential environment where you can talk freely and honestly about what is concerning you. Together, we can take the time to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours as well as reflecting on your life, relationships and work. Working together, each week, we can piece together the reasons that underly your issues, and enable you to bring about lasting improvements in the way you feel and act. I work with individuals and couples to facilitate meaningful and lasting change for a greater sense of wellbeing.
I provide a safe, therapeutic, non-judgmental and confidential environment where you can talk freely and honestly about what is concerning you. Together, we can take the time to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours as well as reflecting on your life, relationships and work. Working together, each week, we can piece together the reasons that underly your issues, and enable you to bring about lasting improvements in the way you feel and act. I work with individuals and couples to facilitate meaningful and lasting change for a greater sense of wellbeing.
07411 280334 View 07411 280334
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Gillian Clay
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
I consider myself to be a warm, caring and approachable person. I know that coming for counselling takes great courage and I will do my utmost to help you feel at ease. I trained in an integrative approach to counselling, this allows me to tailor therapy, to meet each individual client's needs. I believe that people are unique human beings, who have the potential to make the most of their lives. I have considerable experience of working with nervous illness including, anxiety, depression, OCD, diversity, age related issues and also a wide range of personal problems and relationship problems.
I consider myself to be a warm, caring and approachable person. I know that coming for counselling takes great courage and I will do my utmost to help you feel at ease. I trained in an integrative approach to counselling, this allows me to tailor therapy, to meet each individual client's needs. I believe that people are unique human beings, who have the potential to make the most of their lives. I have considerable experience of working with nervous illness including, anxiety, depression, OCD, diversity, age related issues and also a wide range of personal problems and relationship problems.
07480 788326 View 07480 788326
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Zoe Malda
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
I'm Zoe, a dedicated therapist specialising in trauma, ADHD, BPD/EUPD and narcissistic abuse.
Throughout my counselling career, I have amassed a wealth of experience supporting people of varying ages, genders and sexual orientations. I adhere to your pace while intuitively recognising when to give a gentle guiding push. I allow ample room during sessions, providing the time needed to explore, process and, above all, be heard.
I'm Zoe, a dedicated therapist specialising in trauma, ADHD, BPD/EUPD and narcissistic abuse.
Throughout my counselling career, I have amassed a wealth of experience supporting people of varying ages, genders and sexual orientations. I adhere to your pace while intuitively recognising when to give a gentle guiding push. I allow ample room during sessions, providing the time needed to explore, process and, above all, be heard.
020 3984 9668 View 020 3984 9668
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May Fitzpatrick
Psychotherapist, MA, BPC
Hello my name is May. I am a widely experienced and accredited professional psychotherapist who is passionate about mental health, working both privately and in the NHS since 2013.   Initially I offer a 20min free informal phone call to discuss your current concerns and answer any questions you may have. But whatever your individual background and circumstances, psychotherapy can help you develop greater self-awareness and a deeper understanding of your relationship with others, face some difficult thoughts and feelings, feel less overwhelmed by your concerns and fears, and support you in making choices and decisions.
Hello my name is May. I am a widely experienced and accredited professional psychotherapist who is passionate about mental health, working both privately and in the NHS since 2013.   Initially I offer a 20min free informal phone call to discuss your current concerns and answer any questions you may have. But whatever your individual background and circumstances, psychotherapy can help you develop greater self-awareness and a deeper understanding of your relationship with others, face some difficult thoughts and feelings, feel less overwhelmed by your concerns and fears, and support you in making choices and decisions.
020 3974 1917 View 020 3974 1917

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Personality Disorders Counsellors
What are the common treatment options for personality disorders?
Personality disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, sometimes in conjunction with medication. Therapy can help people with personality disorders develop skills to tolerate difficult emotions, navigate interpersonal relationships, and solidify their sense of self. Medications can treat symptoms that co-occur with the disorder, such as depression, anger, aggression, and impulsivity.

When to seek treatment for personality disorders?
Even though treatment for personality disorders can be an uphill battle, it’s best to seek help if you suspect that you or a loved one is struggling with one, because personality disorders can create substantial problems in life. Symptoms depend on the specific disorder, but overall signs of personality disorders include consistent difficulty maintaining close relationships, dramatic variations in self-esteem, and an unstable sense of identity.

How long does therapy take for personality disorders?
The timeline for treating personality disorders isn’t as clear-cut as it is for other disorders. Change can be difficult, taking from around one year to five, 10, or more. The key is finding a therapist who has extensive experience treating the relevant disorder. For example, a psychologist who specialises in narcissistic personality disorder has specific communication strategies that allow them to sustain the relationship and be more effective with narcissistic patients.

Can therapy help people with personality disorders?
Research suggests that for those who are motivated to address concerns or interpersonal conflict related to a personality disorder, therapy is far more effective than no treatment, and that most people in therapy see improvements. However, since personality disorders involve entrenched elements of identity, they are less responsive to treatment than are other mental health conditions. Finding an expert who has extensive experience working with a given personality disorder is one factor that increases the likelihood of successful treatment.