Personality Disorders Counselling in Guildford

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Aude Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I believe my multi-cultural background, personal life journey and wide professional experience mean that I offer a safe and non-judgemental approach rooted in compassion around a wide range of issues: mostly Anxiety, ADHD, Autism Spectrum, Trauma, Emotional/ Narcissistic Abuse, LGBTQ+, etc.
Benefit from the Dual Approach of Psychotherapy and Coaching for empowering mind clarity and long-lasting positive changes. I am Aude, a BACP registered Psychotherapist and Transformational Coach with over a decade of professional experience in private practice, specialist schools, colleges and charities - with expertise in Anxiety, Relational Abuse, Trauma and Neurodivergence (for adults and teenagers aged 11+. Addressing both emotional and practical challenges approach can foster more lasting and meaningful changes to meet the full spectrum of your personal needs and goals.
I believe my multi-cultural background, personal life journey and wide professional experience mean that I offer a safe and non-judgemental approach rooted in compassion around a wide range of issues: mostly Anxiety, ADHD, Autism Spectrum, Trauma, Emotional/ Narcissistic Abuse, LGBTQ+, etc.
Benefit from the Dual Approach of Psychotherapy and Coaching for empowering mind clarity and long-lasting positive changes. I am Aude, a BACP registered Psychotherapist and Transformational Coach with over a decade of professional experience in private practice, specialist schools, colleges and charities - with expertise in Anxiety, Relational Abuse, Trauma and Neurodivergence (for adults and teenagers aged 11+. Addressing both emotional and practical challenges approach can foster more lasting and meaningful changes to meet the full spectrum of your personal needs and goals.
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Dr Jo Gee
Psychotherapist, PhD, MUKCP
My specialist areas include emotional dysregulation, OCD and personality disorders online and in Surrey and London.
I work using a range of different evidence-based therapies and techniques, including DBT, psychodynamic, CBT, solution focused and MBCT, helping clients to explore past, current or future concerns. I work with different modalities dependent on clients' needs and goals.
My specialist areas include emotional dysregulation, OCD and personality disorders online and in Surrey and London.
I work using a range of different evidence-based therapies and techniques, including DBT, psychodynamic, CBT, solution focused and MBCT, helping clients to explore past, current or future concerns. I work with different modalities dependent on clients' needs and goals.
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Zoe Malda
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
I'm Zoe, a dedicated therapist specialising in trauma, ADHD, BPD/EUPD and narcissistic abuse.
Throughout my counselling career, I have amassed a wealth of experience supporting people of varying ages, genders and sexual orientations. I adhere to your pace while intuitively recognising when to give a gentle guiding push. I allow ample room during sessions, providing the time needed to explore, process and, above all, be heard.
I'm Zoe, a dedicated therapist specialising in trauma, ADHD, BPD/EUPD and narcissistic abuse.
Throughout my counselling career, I have amassed a wealth of experience supporting people of varying ages, genders and sexual orientations. I adhere to your pace while intuitively recognising when to give a gentle guiding push. I allow ample room during sessions, providing the time needed to explore, process and, above all, be heard.
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Robyn Lithgoe
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Online Only
My name is Robyn and I am an accredited CBT Therapist with 12 years of experience supporting the emotional and psychological well-being of my clients. My approach is warm, compassionate, and collaborative, creating a non-judgmental space where nothing is off-limits or considered shameful. Together, we’ll explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe environment, with your personal experiences and values always at the heart of our work. I am passionate about helping individuals work through life’s challenges using evidence-based interventions tailored to their needs.
My name is Robyn and I am an accredited CBT Therapist with 12 years of experience supporting the emotional and psychological well-being of my clients. My approach is warm, compassionate, and collaborative, creating a non-judgmental space where nothing is off-limits or considered shameful. Together, we’ll explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe environment, with your personal experiences and values always at the heart of our work. I am passionate about helping individuals work through life’s challenges using evidence-based interventions tailored to their needs.
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Dr Michael Munday
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
1 Endorsed
I offer psychological therapy to adults and adolescents (aged 13 and above). I have over 17 years experience as a therapist working in senior roles in the NHS and in my private practice. My focus is on trying to help people grow and thrive in moving towards what they value in life and become more themselves. I have experience of being alongside people in helping them navigate a variety of difficulties, including depression, anxiety, anger, low self-worth, shame, relationship problems, gender dysphoria, trauma, self-harm, substance misuse, eating difficulties, personality difficulties, psychosis, and bipolar affective disorder.
I offer psychological therapy to adults and adolescents (aged 13 and above). I have over 17 years experience as a therapist working in senior roles in the NHS and in my private practice. My focus is on trying to help people grow and thrive in moving towards what they value in life and become more themselves. I have experience of being alongside people in helping them navigate a variety of difficulties, including depression, anxiety, anger, low self-worth, shame, relationship problems, gender dysphoria, trauma, self-harm, substance misuse, eating difficulties, personality difficulties, psychosis, and bipolar affective disorder.
07989 335885 View 07989 335885
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Dominik Czekman
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist and a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). As an integrative therapist, I utilise a range of techniques from various theoretical models, tailored to your individual needs. I have experience providing short term and long term therapy for adults, children and young adults from various backgrounds and cultures and my expertise can help support those with a variety of concerns.
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist and a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). As an integrative therapist, I utilise a range of techniques from various theoretical models, tailored to your individual needs. I have experience providing short term and long term therapy for adults, children and young adults from various backgrounds and cultures and my expertise can help support those with a variety of concerns.
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Tim Shore
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Hi there, I am an experienced Clinical Psychologist, trained to understand the different ways in which psychological distress can present itself and impact upon people’s lives. The breadth of my training and clinical experience enables me to draw upon different therapeutic approaches, thus allowing for a flexible approach, tailored to a person's needs and own set of circumstances. I will aim to help you better understand the underlying causes of your difficulties, supporting you along the way to make meaningful changes in the way you approach difficult situations in your work, with your partner or family, and in your social life.
Hi there, I am an experienced Clinical Psychologist, trained to understand the different ways in which psychological distress can present itself and impact upon people’s lives. The breadth of my training and clinical experience enables me to draw upon different therapeutic approaches, thus allowing for a flexible approach, tailored to a person's needs and own set of circumstances. I will aim to help you better understand the underlying causes of your difficulties, supporting you along the way to make meaningful changes in the way you approach difficult situations in your work, with your partner or family, and in your social life.
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Karl Ayling
Counsellor, MBACP
For 2025 I am offering half-price supervision (including counselling students) with a free half-hour getting-to-know-you in-person or online session. My training started in the NHS mental health and moved to a charity supported by Hampshire Police for survivors of rape, domestic violence, addiction and trauma. I am now in private practice in the Surrey Hills. My counselling room is self contained for confidentiality and large enough for solo work and up to 4 or 5 people. There are two chocolate Labrador therapy dogs available for cuddles or walk-and-talk and family / child work.
For 2025 I am offering half-price supervision (including counselling students) with a free half-hour getting-to-know-you in-person or online session. My training started in the NHS mental health and moved to a charity supported by Hampshire Police for survivors of rape, domestic violence, addiction and trauma. I am now in private practice in the Surrey Hills. My counselling room is self contained for confidentiality and large enough for solo work and up to 4 or 5 people. There are two chocolate Labrador therapy dogs available for cuddles or walk-and-talk and family / child work.
01483 967357 View 01483 967357
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Rodney Dee
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
1 Endorsed
Starting therapy can be daunting so it’s important that you identify a therapist and an approach to working that feels right for you. As an art psychotherapist, I am open, honest and inclusive with considerable experience supporting children, adolescents and young adults in schools and community settings. My approach to working is psychodynamic - I’m interested in how past events may have affected you, both consciously and unconsciously, influencing the way you think, feel and behave. Should talking about your experiences be too difficult, I may encourage you to try different creative techniques as an alternate means of expression.
Starting therapy can be daunting so it’s important that you identify a therapist and an approach to working that feels right for you. As an art psychotherapist, I am open, honest and inclusive with considerable experience supporting children, adolescents and young adults in schools and community settings. My approach to working is psychodynamic - I’m interested in how past events may have affected you, both consciously and unconsciously, influencing the way you think, feel and behave. Should talking about your experiences be too difficult, I may encourage you to try different creative techniques as an alternate means of expression.
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Francesca E Medhurst
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Hello and welcome to my page. Firstly, seeking help is not easy but you've already made steps towards improving the very reasons that brought you here in the first place. If you are feeling as though something is getting in the way of your happiness, success and fulfilment we can speak about how we might work together towards a solution to these struggles.. Sometimes we experience extreme pressures, stresses, traumas that are set upon us and we can feel that we are unable to find a way out on our own. If you are feeling overwhelmed and you are ready to make changes that will bring you peace, then you are in the right place.
Hello and welcome to my page. Firstly, seeking help is not easy but you've already made steps towards improving the very reasons that brought you here in the first place. If you are feeling as though something is getting in the way of your happiness, success and fulfilment we can speak about how we might work together towards a solution to these struggles.. Sometimes we experience extreme pressures, stresses, traumas that are set upon us and we can feel that we are unable to find a way out on our own. If you are feeling overwhelmed and you are ready to make changes that will bring you peace, then you are in the right place.
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The Practice
Psychotherapist, MBACP
We can all have difficulties in everyday life and encounter problems that we simply find hard to cope with alone. You may feel worried, anxious, low, confused, isolated or may be experience difficulties in relationships. You may be suffering from feelings of low self esteem or low self confidence. You may have been diagnosed with anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder, depression, or maybe you are just feeling sad. When these feelings and thoughts persist and become overwhelming it may be difficult to know which way to turn.
We can all have difficulties in everyday life and encounter problems that we simply find hard to cope with alone. You may feel worried, anxious, low, confused, isolated or may be experience difficulties in relationships. You may be suffering from feelings of low self esteem or low self confidence. You may have been diagnosed with anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder, depression, or maybe you are just feeling sad. When these feelings and thoughts persist and become overwhelming it may be difficult to know which way to turn.
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Claire Millar
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
We all experience challenging times in our lives, unable to find a way forward, often feeling alone and confused. Seeking therapy can feel like a big step, not easy, often after having struggled for some time. As an experienced UKCP registered and highly qualified clinical psychotherapist and psychotherapeutic counsellor, I will work alongside you, at your own pace, to help you identify and work out your problems, drawing on all my experience to offer you an approach which suits you as an individual. My private practice is in Guildford where I see individuals and couples, offering both short term and long term therapy as required.
We all experience challenging times in our lives, unable to find a way forward, often feeling alone and confused. Seeking therapy can feel like a big step, not easy, often after having struggled for some time. As an experienced UKCP registered and highly qualified clinical psychotherapist and psychotherapeutic counsellor, I will work alongside you, at your own pace, to help you identify and work out your problems, drawing on all my experience to offer you an approach which suits you as an individual. My private practice is in Guildford where I see individuals and couples, offering both short term and long term therapy as required.
01483 917669 View 01483 917669
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Julie Johnson
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Hello, I work with adults (18 plus) presenting with various problems such as anxiety, depression, intense and overwhelming emotions, bereavement, ADHD, and relationship difficulties. Additionally, I have experience working with students in higher education, where mental health difficulties are impacting on academic performance. If you are experiencing symptoms associated with BPD/EUPD, I can offer dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT) informed treatment. This may include individual sessions, in addition to a skills training element.
Hello, I work with adults (18 plus) presenting with various problems such as anxiety, depression, intense and overwhelming emotions, bereavement, ADHD, and relationship difficulties. Additionally, I have experience working with students in higher education, where mental health difficulties are impacting on academic performance. If you are experiencing symptoms associated with BPD/EUPD, I can offer dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT) informed treatment. This may include individual sessions, in addition to a skills training element.
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Pia Granjon
Verified Verified
You may be living in the aftermath of psychological trauma/complex trauma, or maybe you are unsure about it. You have difficulties with sleeping, eating, connection to yourself and others, addiction, dissociations, maybe Dissociative Identity Disorder. . . you can be heard and understood by a professional who knows how to deal with those symptoms, who can listen to you with no judgement, can offer explanation and help you begin to process what is happening in a safe environment, so you can regain control over your life.
You may be living in the aftermath of psychological trauma/complex trauma, or maybe you are unsure about it. You have difficulties with sleeping, eating, connection to yourself and others, addiction, dissociations, maybe Dissociative Identity Disorder. . . you can be heard and understood by a professional who knows how to deal with those symptoms, who can listen to you with no judgement, can offer explanation and help you begin to process what is happening in a safe environment, so you can regain control over your life.
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I am a Counsellor, Psychotherapist, trauma therapist and EMDR practitioner. I am registered and accredited member of the BACP. My primary way of working aims to work with the individual as a whole, through helping the client understand their thought and emotional processes. I work on the basis that each individual is able to direct themselves through their difficulties in the best way for them, and that my work is to help deepen their self-exploration and exploration of their difficulties so that clients are better equipped to navigate through their difficulties.
I am a Counsellor, Psychotherapist, trauma therapist and EMDR practitioner. I am registered and accredited member of the BACP. My primary way of working aims to work with the individual as a whole, through helping the client understand their thought and emotional processes. I work on the basis that each individual is able to direct themselves through their difficulties in the best way for them, and that my work is to help deepen their self-exploration and exploration of their difficulties so that clients are better equipped to navigate through their difficulties.
07480 488503 View 07480 488503
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Emma Pott
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
I see that all behaviours such as self-harm, suicide attempts, drinking, drug abuse and other impulsive behaviours have developed as coping strategies to cope with and numb difficult emotions and experiences. These behaviours often act as a plaster to a deeper wound, but just like a plaster they don’t really ever fully heal unless they have time to heal properly. This is the work of therapy to take off the plaster and look more towards the root causes of the behaviour to work out what is going on for you. My instagram page offers an insight to how I work and might be helpful to get a further sense of how I work psychwithemma
I see that all behaviours such as self-harm, suicide attempts, drinking, drug abuse and other impulsive behaviours have developed as coping strategies to cope with and numb difficult emotions and experiences. These behaviours often act as a plaster to a deeper wound, but just like a plaster they don’t really ever fully heal unless they have time to heal properly. This is the work of therapy to take off the plaster and look more towards the root causes of the behaviour to work out what is going on for you. My instagram page offers an insight to how I work and might be helpful to get a further sense of how I work psychwithemma
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Lise Baker
Psychotherapist, MBACP
I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist practising in Guildford, Haslemere, Putney, West London and Private Practice. I offer short or long term therapy and work with adults and the elderly on a one-to-one basis. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space, in professional settings and calm surroundings, where you can find solace and privacy. I hold up-to-date Enhanced Disclosure (DBS) for working with the very vulnerable and continue to develop my skills while I undertake a further MSc in Neuroscience.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist practising in Guildford, Haslemere, Putney, West London and Private Practice. I offer short or long term therapy and work with adults and the elderly on a one-to-one basis. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space, in professional settings and calm surroundings, where you can find solace and privacy. I hold up-to-date Enhanced Disclosure (DBS) for working with the very vulnerable and continue to develop my skills while I undertake a further MSc in Neuroscience.
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Margot Heurtematte
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Margot is a Clinical Psychologist, French-qualified, who works with children, young people, adults, parents, and families. Based in Guildford (Surrey), she offers a safe, compassionate, non-judgmental, and empathetic therapeutic space, for both individual and group psychological therapy, conducive to the exploration, understanding, and overcoming of personal and family challenges.
Margot is a Clinical Psychologist, French-qualified, who works with children, young people, adults, parents, and families. Based in Guildford (Surrey), she offers a safe, compassionate, non-judgmental, and empathetic therapeutic space, for both individual and group psychological therapy, conducive to the exploration, understanding, and overcoming of personal and family challenges.
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Catherine Butler
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
I provide a safe, therapeutic, non-judgmental and confidential environment where you can talk freely and honestly about what is concerning you. Together, we can take the time to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours as well as reflecting on your life, relationships and work. Working together, each week, we can piece together the reasons that underly your issues, and enable you to bring about lasting improvements in the way you feel and act. I work with individuals and couples to facilitate meaningful and lasting change for a greater sense of wellbeing.
I provide a safe, therapeutic, non-judgmental and confidential environment where you can talk freely and honestly about what is concerning you. Together, we can take the time to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours as well as reflecting on your life, relationships and work. Working together, each week, we can piece together the reasons that underly your issues, and enable you to bring about lasting improvements in the way you feel and act. I work with individuals and couples to facilitate meaningful and lasting change for a greater sense of wellbeing.
07411 280334 View 07411 280334
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Gillian Clay
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
I consider myself to be a warm, caring and approachable person. I know that coming for counselling takes great courage and I will do my utmost to help you feel at ease. I trained in an integrative approach to counselling, this allows me to tailor therapy, to meet each individual client's needs. I believe that people are unique human beings, who have the potential to make the most of their lives. I have considerable experience of working with nervous illness including, anxiety, depression, OCD, diversity, age related issues and also a wide range of personal problems and relationship problems.
I consider myself to be a warm, caring and approachable person. I know that coming for counselling takes great courage and I will do my utmost to help you feel at ease. I trained in an integrative approach to counselling, this allows me to tailor therapy, to meet each individual client's needs. I believe that people are unique human beings, who have the potential to make the most of their lives. I have considerable experience of working with nervous illness including, anxiety, depression, OCD, diversity, age related issues and also a wide range of personal problems and relationship problems.
07480 788326 View 07480 788326
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Personality Disorders Counsellors

What are the common treatment options for personality disorders?

Personality disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, sometimes in conjunction with medication. Therapy can help people with personality disorders develop skills to tolerate difficult emotions, navigate interpersonal relationships, and solidify their sense of self. Medications can treat symptoms that co-occur with the disorder, such as depression, anger, aggression, and impulsivity.

When to seek treatment for personality disorders?

Even though treatment for personality disorders can be an uphill battle, it’s best to seek help if you suspect that you or a loved one is struggling with one, because personality disorders can create substantial problems in life. Symptoms depend on the specific disorder, but overall signs of personality disorders include consistent difficulty maintaining close relationships, dramatic variations in self-esteem, and an unstable sense of identity.

How long does therapy take for personality disorders?

The timeline for treating personality disorders isn’t as clear-cut as it is for other disorders. Change can be difficult, taking from around one year to five, 10, or more. The key is finding a therapist who has extensive experience treating the relevant disorder. For example, a psychologist who specialises in narcissistic personality disorder has specific communication strategies that allow them to sustain the relationship and be more effective with narcissistic patients.

Can therapy help people with personality disorders?

Research suggests that for those who are motivated to address concerns or interpersonal conflict related to a personality disorder, therapy is far more effective than no treatment, and that most people in therapy see improvements. However, since personality disorders involve entrenched elements of identity, they are less responsive to treatment than are other mental health conditions. Finding an expert who has extensive experience working with a given personality disorder is one factor that increases the likelihood of successful treatment.