Female Counsellors in Grays

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T G Counselling
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Grays RM17
Take a deep breath, in through your nose, hold for a few seconds and breathe out through your mouth! We all have times when we feel that we can not cope, feel overwhelmed or just need someone to talk to and if that is you at the moment, you are not alone. I work collaboratively with you to identify your goals for counselling, while providing a safe space for you to explore those area that matters most to you in order to reach the changes that you want to see in your life. Get in touch with me and we can work through those struggles together at your pace. Take that deep breath again, speak soon.
Take a deep breath, in through your nose, hold for a few seconds and breathe out through your mouth! We all have times when we feel that we can not cope, feel overwhelmed or just need someone to talk to and if that is you at the moment, you are not alone. I work collaboratively with you to identify your goals for counselling, while providing a safe space for you to explore those area that matters most to you in order to reach the changes that you want to see in your life. Get in touch with me and we can work through those struggles together at your pace. Take that deep breath again, speak soon.
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Bobbie Marley
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Hey! Im Bobbie an integrative counsellor with level 6 BA HONs degree, i can tailor sessions to suit you as i’am fully trained in all three counselling theories! I hold a confidential safe space for my clients to offload and explore there feelings and worries.
Hey! Im Bobbie an integrative counsellor with level 6 BA HONs degree, i can tailor sessions to suit you as i’am fully trained in all three counselling theories! I hold a confidential safe space for my clients to offload and explore there feelings and worries.
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Kyo Gbondo
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Online Only
I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT) and EMDR trained therapist currently offering Private therapy, whilst also working part-time in the NHS. My experience ranges from working in both primary and secondary care mental health services for over 10 years. I have worked with young people, adults and older adults. This includes working in a specialist psychiatric service, in prison services and in the community, delivering person-centred care.
I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT) and EMDR trained therapist currently offering Private therapy, whilst also working part-time in the NHS. My experience ranges from working in both primary and secondary care mental health services for over 10 years. I have worked with young people, adults and older adults. This includes working in a specialist psychiatric service, in prison services and in the community, delivering person-centred care.
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Jacky Ellis
Counsellor, MBACP
Grays RM20
Hello there, my name is Jacky and I am a fully qualified integrative counsellor.  This allows me to work in a number of Counselling and Psychotherapy practices, and enables me to adapt my approach and style to meet the individual needs of clients. Talking in a safe environment where no judgements are being made can help you express your thoughts and worries.  Together we can explore coping mechanisims and skills to manage the challenges and stresses that life throws at us. I deal with all areas of mental health from adoption, addiction, bereavement, anxiety, depression, anger management, OCD, abuse, ADHD amongst others.
Hello there, my name is Jacky and I am a fully qualified integrative counsellor.  This allows me to work in a number of Counselling and Psychotherapy practices, and enables me to adapt my approach and style to meet the individual needs of clients. Talking in a safe environment where no judgements are being made can help you express your thoughts and worries.  Together we can explore coping mechanisims and skills to manage the challenges and stresses that life throws at us. I deal with all areas of mental health from adoption, addiction, bereavement, anxiety, depression, anger management, OCD, abuse, ADHD amongst others.
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Julia Kay Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges? It takes courage and resilience to seek support, and you've already taken a significant step. Let's work together to explore and understand your emotions, thoughts, and behaviours so you can regain a sense of control. My approach is tailored to your unique needs, drawing on insights from psychoanalytic, person-centred, existential, as an integrative therapist to help you understand the origins of your struggles. I believe deeply that healing arises from strengthening your relationship with yourself, which can be affected by fears, traumas, and worries.
Feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges? It takes courage and resilience to seek support, and you've already taken a significant step. Let's work together to explore and understand your emotions, thoughts, and behaviours so you can regain a sense of control. My approach is tailored to your unique needs, drawing on insights from psychoanalytic, person-centred, existential, as an integrative therapist to help you understand the origins of your struggles. I believe deeply that healing arises from strengthening your relationship with yourself, which can be affected by fears, traumas, and worries.
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Trudi Jane Stock
Counsellor, MBACP
Grays RM16
Are your anxieties holding you back from living the life you want? Are you exhausted and lacking confidence? Maybe you would like to feel more in control and confident in yourself. I work with people like you and together we aim to make positive changes so that you can start to feel more in control of your life. If you are struggling to understand your thoughts feelings and behaviours then counselling can help you deal with these issues and help to manage the impact on your mental health and allow you the space to explore your emotions.
Are your anxieties holding you back from living the life you want? Are you exhausted and lacking confidence? Maybe you would like to feel more in control and confident in yourself. I work with people like you and together we aim to make positive changes so that you can start to feel more in control of your life. If you are struggling to understand your thoughts feelings and behaviours then counselling can help you deal with these issues and help to manage the impact on your mental health and allow you the space to explore your emotions.
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Sharlotte Perrin
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Grays RM16
Taking the first step toward seeking counselling can feel both daunting and courageous. It often means acknowledging that something in your life isn't working the way you'd like, and you're ready to make a change. This decision is a powerful one, marking the beginning of a journey toward healing, growth, and greater self-understanding. Reaching out for support is not a sign of weakness but of strength, as it shows you're ready to take control of your mental and emotional well-being.
Taking the first step toward seeking counselling can feel both daunting and courageous. It often means acknowledging that something in your life isn't working the way you'd like, and you're ready to make a change. This decision is a powerful one, marking the beginning of a journey toward healing, growth, and greater self-understanding. Reaching out for support is not a sign of weakness but of strength, as it shows you're ready to take control of your mental and emotional well-being.
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Zainab Abdul
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Grays RM16
I am a woman who is highly committed to supporting people through their life journeys. At Beingthere Counselling Services, you don't have to walk alone. I will be honoured to help in putting the pieces of the puzzle together with you as you navigate through where life and its unending happenings take you. This is with the hope of you being in a better place than you currently are. My techniques are tailored towards my client’s needs; modalities used include: Integrative, Existential, Phenomenological, and behavioural.
I am a woman who is highly committed to supporting people through their life journeys. At Beingthere Counselling Services, you don't have to walk alone. I will be honoured to help in putting the pieces of the puzzle together with you as you navigate through where life and its unending happenings take you. This is with the hope of you being in a better place than you currently are. My techniques are tailored towards my client’s needs; modalities used include: Integrative, Existential, Phenomenological, and behavioural.
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Meadow Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Grays RM16
I am a qualified counsellor with a range of experience working with adults, adolescents and children. I have worked with various difficulties, to include anxiety, depression, loss and bereavement, self-harm, anger management, OCD, trauma, abuse, ADD/ADHD and autism, gender and sexuality, relationship difficulties, loss of identity and low self-esteem/confidence, to name but a few. Most clients are looking to identify and explore their difficulties in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space. Sadly, for many, counselling is the first time they feel truly heard.
I am a qualified counsellor with a range of experience working with adults, adolescents and children. I have worked with various difficulties, to include anxiety, depression, loss and bereavement, self-harm, anger management, OCD, trauma, abuse, ADD/ADHD and autism, gender and sexuality, relationship difficulties, loss of identity and low self-esteem/confidence, to name but a few. Most clients are looking to identify and explore their difficulties in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space. Sadly, for many, counselling is the first time they feel truly heard.
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Janelle Gargrupe
Counsellor, BACP
Online Only
Hi, My name is Janelle I’m a qualified counsellor dedicated to providing a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where you can explore whatever’s on your mind. I believe that everyone has the capacity for growth and change when given the right environment. My approach is person-centred, which means I work with you as an equal listening closely, helping you make sense of your thoughts and feelings, and supporting you in finding your own way forward.
Hi, My name is Janelle I’m a qualified counsellor dedicated to providing a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where you can explore whatever’s on your mind. I believe that everyone has the capacity for growth and change when given the right environment. My approach is person-centred, which means I work with you as an equal listening closely, helping you make sense of your thoughts and feelings, and supporting you in finding your own way forward.
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Karen Tottman-Napier
Counsellor, MBACP
Grays RM17
Life can be challenging, and counselling can provide a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist with over 15 years of experience supporting individuals, couples, families, children, young people, and adults of all ages. My counselling journey began at St Luke's Hospice, where I completed my placement hours and continued to volunteer after qualifying. These experiences shaped my commitment to working with people through life’s most difficult moments. I offer both short-term and long-term counselling, tailored to your needs. Over the years, I have worked with a wide range
Life can be challenging, and counselling can provide a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist with over 15 years of experience supporting individuals, couples, families, children, young people, and adults of all ages. My counselling journey began at St Luke's Hospice, where I completed my placement hours and continued to volunteer after qualifying. These experiences shaped my commitment to working with people through life’s most difficult moments. I offer both short-term and long-term counselling, tailored to your needs. Over the years, I have worked with a wide range
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Helen Stephens
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Grays RM17
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor and supervisor. I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor and supervisor. I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
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UniquePurpose
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Grays RM16
Hello! Are you struggling with anxiety, feeling isolated or wanting to make sense of life struggles? Maybe you want to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours and how they may be impacting your every day life. Please know that you are not alone and that I have a passion to help clients navigate through these challenges. I want to provide a space for you to bring these out into the open with myself listening attentively, hearing it from your perspective. Do you want to have the skills and healthy copying strategies in order to face the problems head on. Please get in touch, I am here for you!
Hello! Are you struggling with anxiety, feeling isolated or wanting to make sense of life struggles? Maybe you want to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours and how they may be impacting your every day life. Please know that you are not alone and that I have a passion to help clients navigate through these challenges. I want to provide a space for you to bring these out into the open with myself listening attentively, hearing it from your perspective. Do you want to have the skills and healthy copying strategies in order to face the problems head on. Please get in touch, I am here for you!
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Mariam Naeem Javed
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Grays RM17
Struggling to get out of bed, overthinking and worrying all the time or feel like you no longer have control over your life. Whether it's something you have been experiencing for a long period of time or something that has just come out of the blue for you. Whatever you may be facing, as a fully accredited CBT Therapist I am here to listen, support and help equip you with the tools and techniques needed to make positive and healthy changes. Your safe space and emotional wellbeing is my priority and therefore I strive to support you to bring balance, confidence, clarity and inner peace to promote healthy and lasting change.
Struggling to get out of bed, overthinking and worrying all the time or feel like you no longer have control over your life. Whether it's something you have been experiencing for a long period of time or something that has just come out of the blue for you. Whatever you may be facing, as a fully accredited CBT Therapist I am here to listen, support and help equip you with the tools and techniques needed to make positive and healthy changes. Your safe space and emotional wellbeing is my priority and therefore I strive to support you to bring balance, confidence, clarity and inner peace to promote healthy and lasting change.
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Lightwell Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Experiencing the loss of a loved one is one of the most challenging and profound moments in life. Lightwell Counselling is a private (fee-paying) counselling service supporting people across Essex through the darkness of bereavement and into the light of recovery. Our private counselling service is open to anyone aged 18 or over living in Essex who is struggling to cope with the loss of a loved one. We use an expert team of qualified staff to deliver our services and help manage the complex emotions around death and dying.
Experiencing the loss of a loved one is one of the most challenging and profound moments in life. Lightwell Counselling is a private (fee-paying) counselling service supporting people across Essex through the darkness of bereavement and into the light of recovery. Our private counselling service is open to anyone aged 18 or over living in Essex who is struggling to cope with the loss of a loved one. We use an expert team of qualified staff to deliver our services and help manage the complex emotions around death and dying.
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Kim Macleod
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
Hello, I am Kim, a Chartered Counselling Psychologist. I specialise in helping people who are struggling to cope with chronic conditions such as persistent pain, chronic fatigue syndrome, diabetes or life following an accident. It can be difficult to adjust to life with a chronic condition. It is common to feel anxious about the future and low in mood. The desire to return to your previous self or to be different in some way contributes to the struggle. I have worked extensively in the NHS and private practice. My aim is to help you live your best life despite the condition.
Hello, I am Kim, a Chartered Counselling Psychologist. I specialise in helping people who are struggling to cope with chronic conditions such as persistent pain, chronic fatigue syndrome, diabetes or life following an accident. It can be difficult to adjust to life with a chronic condition. It is common to feel anxious about the future and low in mood. The desire to return to your previous self or to be different in some way contributes to the struggle. I have worked extensively in the NHS and private practice. My aim is to help you live your best life despite the condition.
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Diana Vilchez
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Online Only
Life can be extremely challenging for us on a day-to-day basis. Poor sleep, anxiety, and lack of energy or motivation. This can lead to an emotional downward spiral in our mental health. We may feel stuck, lonely or even traumatised. If you feel ready to talk, I am here for you. Throughout my own journey, I have experienced many of the aforementioned conditions, which have led me to this career path. I offer individual private counselling sessions online for those over the age of 18. If you are ready to restart your journey and move towards personal growth, please get in touch to arrange a free, no-obligation call.
Life can be extremely challenging for us on a day-to-day basis. Poor sleep, anxiety, and lack of energy or motivation. This can lead to an emotional downward spiral in our mental health. We may feel stuck, lonely or even traumatised. If you feel ready to talk, I am here for you. Throughout my own journey, I have experienced many of the aforementioned conditions, which have led me to this career path. I offer individual private counselling sessions online for those over the age of 18. If you are ready to restart your journey and move towards personal growth, please get in touch to arrange a free, no-obligation call.
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Violet Omatseye
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, panic attacks, trauma, or stress in your relationships, family, or work life? You're not alone and don’t have to navigate it alone. I offer a warm, compassionate, and confidential space where you can feel truly heard and supported. Having a safe space to talk can bring a real sense of relief, especially when life feels heavy or uncertain. I’ll offer you empathy, kindness, and practical support to help you process what’s troubling you. Whether you're feeling stuck, emotionally exhausted, or simply unsure where to turn next, I can help you gain clarity, confidence, and a greater sense of ease.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, panic attacks, trauma, or stress in your relationships, family, or work life? You're not alone and don’t have to navigate it alone. I offer a warm, compassionate, and confidential space where you can feel truly heard and supported. Having a safe space to talk can bring a real sense of relief, especially when life feels heavy or uncertain. I’ll offer you empathy, kindness, and practical support to help you process what’s troubling you. Whether you're feeling stuck, emotionally exhausted, or simply unsure where to turn next, I can help you gain clarity, confidence, and a greater sense of ease.
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Re-Assemble ADHD Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
Hello there! I'm Sam and I've 20 years' experience in mental health and a lifetime of experience managing ADHD! Many practitioners have no lived experience of ADHD and ASD, making it hard for neurodiverse people to feel truly understood. As a professional neurodiverse woman, I have found that services for people like me are hard to find and so I offer ADHD and Autism specific counselling with life skills (like coaching but specifically related to ADHD symptoms) in a non - judgemental and shame free environment, no matter your background. Please check your spam folder for my email replies if you have used the contact button!
Hello there! I'm Sam and I've 20 years' experience in mental health and a lifetime of experience managing ADHD! Many practitioners have no lived experience of ADHD and ASD, making it hard for neurodiverse people to feel truly understood. As a professional neurodiverse woman, I have found that services for people like me are hard to find and so I offer ADHD and Autism specific counselling with life skills (like coaching but specifically related to ADHD symptoms) in a non - judgemental and shame free environment, no matter your background. Please check your spam folder for my email replies if you have used the contact button!
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Nicola Kusi
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Do you feel unheard, undervalued or stuck in life? Do you find it hard to express yourself or do you feel no one understands you? I am passionate about supporting client to have a voice, to be heard and to feel valued. I am passionate about supporting clients to develop confidence and self esteem which in turn promotes self care. I am also passionate about working with individuals with different attachment styles and overcoming childhood trauma. As adults, despite early life and childhood experiences, i believe individuals can work towards building secure attachments in their adult relationships and healing from childhood trauma.
Do you feel unheard, undervalued or stuck in life? Do you find it hard to express yourself or do you feel no one understands you? I am passionate about supporting client to have a voice, to be heard and to feel valued. I am passionate about supporting clients to develop confidence and self esteem which in turn promotes self care. I am also passionate about working with individuals with different attachment styles and overcoming childhood trauma. As adults, despite early life and childhood experiences, i believe individuals can work towards building secure attachments in their adult relationships and healing from childhood trauma.
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FAQ - Therapist Gender
Does it matter what gender my therapist is?
In general, there is no relationship between a therapist’s gender and their efficacy. Some clients, however, prefer to see therapists of a particular gender, whether due to their own past experiences with men and women, or because they feel more comfortable with a therapist of their own gender due to shared life experiences or perspectives. Considering what one wants to address in therapy can help someone determine whether their therapist’s gender may matter or improve their therapeutic experience. The most important consideration is that a client is able to build a trusting relationship with their therapist.

Should I see a female therapist?
Many people—not just women—prefer to see a female therapist. For women, this could be because they believe that they will be able to better connect with a woman, and that a female therapist will be able to relate to their specific challenges and personal issues. It may be particularly beneficial for women to see a female therapist, for example, for gender-specific issues, such as sexism in the workplace, relationship issues, and gender roles. The most important factor in therapy is the client-therapist connection, and a therapist's gender as well as many other factors may play an important role in this.

Do therapists get specific training to help with women’s concerns?
Therapists are trained to provide care to clients of any gender. However, some therapists may pursue additional training in feminist therapy, gender-specific issues, or women’s mental health. Female clients may wish to ask prospective therapists whether they have received specific training in the client’s primary area(s) of concern, or whether they have worked extensively with women on issues similar to their own.

How can I inquire about a therapist’s experience in treating women?
It’s OK—even encouraged!—to ask a therapist directly whether and how often they have treated women in the past, or whether they have treated women dealing with the client’s most prominent concern(s). Competent therapists will be happy to share their educational background, preferred treatment modalities, and prior client experience to help an individual find the therapist best suited to their needs.