Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counselling in Gravesend

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Alaine Garnett
Counsellor, MBACP
Gravesend DA11
Are you struggling? Could be with worrying about direction in your life, Brain fog with menopause, Anxiety with everyday life, A bereavement that has been difficult. We can work together to achieve a calmness giving you the skills based on your individual needs, therefore enabling you to be confident in moving forward. I can offer an honest and warm environment for you to feel safe to explore and understand any difficulties you're experiencing. Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, you may have a particular problem that is concerning you, a traumatic experience, sometimes our loved ones are too close to hear how we really feel.
Are you struggling? Could be with worrying about direction in your life, Brain fog with menopause, Anxiety with everyday life, A bereavement that has been difficult. We can work together to achieve a calmness giving you the skills based on your individual needs, therefore enabling you to be confident in moving forward. I can offer an honest and warm environment for you to feel safe to explore and understand any difficulties you're experiencing. Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, you may have a particular problem that is concerning you, a traumatic experience, sometimes our loved ones are too close to hear how we really feel.
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Emma Farrell
Counsellor, MBACP Snr. Accred
Gravesend DA12
Sometimes we can all feel stuck and not know which way to turn. Life can feel overwhelming or out of control. It can feel like it's not heading in the direction that we want. We can get stuck in cycles, repeating the same behaviours, knowingly or unknowingly. You're in the right place, counselling can help! Counselling focuses on your future and moving past any blocks preventing you from living the life you wish. Together we will explore your present difficulties, as well as past experiences that have led to your current situation.
Sometimes we can all feel stuck and not know which way to turn. Life can feel overwhelming or out of control. It can feel like it's not heading in the direction that we want. We can get stuck in cycles, repeating the same behaviours, knowingly or unknowingly. You're in the right place, counselling can help! Counselling focuses on your future and moving past any blocks preventing you from living the life you wish. Together we will explore your present difficulties, as well as past experiences that have led to your current situation.
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Farzana Ahmed
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I offer a Counselling service to individuals, young people and families who may be facing personal difficulties and challenges. We all experience painful events and losses at various times in our lives and Counselling creates a safe containing space for clients to explore and process their emotions on a range if issues that may be impacting on them negatively. This can help clients to identify their triggers which may be responsible for creating the emotional and or physical distress. It also helps develop some strategies for clients to have at their disposal to manage better the impacts of the distress being experienced.
I offer a Counselling service to individuals, young people and families who may be facing personal difficulties and challenges. We all experience painful events and losses at various times in our lives and Counselling creates a safe containing space for clients to explore and process their emotions on a range if issues that may be impacting on them negatively. This can help clients to identify their triggers which may be responsible for creating the emotional and or physical distress. It also helps develop some strategies for clients to have at their disposal to manage better the impacts of the distress being experienced.
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Lou May
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Life can feel overwhelming when stress, anxiety or hormonal changes leave you running on empty. You may be juggling work, family and relationships while quietly losing your energy, sleep and confidence. You long to feel calmer, clearer and more balanced. That’s where I come in. I’m an NHS-trained, BACP-registered counsellor and coach. My approach combines counselling with coaching and holistic tools so we can work on both mind and body. Together we’ll explore the root causes, support your nervous system and help you build the confidence, boundaries and wellbeing you deserve.
Life can feel overwhelming when stress, anxiety or hormonal changes leave you running on empty. You may be juggling work, family and relationships while quietly losing your energy, sleep and confidence. You long to feel calmer, clearer and more balanced. That’s where I come in. I’m an NHS-trained, BACP-registered counsellor and coach. My approach combines counselling with coaching and holistic tools so we can work on both mind and body. Together we’ll explore the root causes, support your nervous system and help you build the confidence, boundaries and wellbeing you deserve.
01322 252628 View 01322 252628
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M Ozlem Kaldi
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I am here to support clients who are experiencing challenging emotions and situations, such as anxiety disorders, depression, bereavement, or feeling trapped in repetitive relationship patterns. Our attachment styles are formed from a young age, and as we grow older, we may find ourselves stuck in these same patterns. I have helped clients confront their attachment fears that affect their personal relationships. Additionally, I have worked with individuals who struggle with self-harm and suicidal thoughts, supporting them as they navigate their feelings of emptiness.
I am here to support clients who are experiencing challenging emotions and situations, such as anxiety disorders, depression, bereavement, or feeling trapped in repetitive relationship patterns. Our attachment styles are formed from a young age, and as we grow older, we may find ourselves stuck in these same patterns. I have helped clients confront their attachment fears that affect their personal relationships. Additionally, I have worked with individuals who struggle with self-harm and suicidal thoughts, supporting them as they navigate their feelings of emptiness.
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More Therapists Nearby

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Christian Counselling Online
Counsellor, ACC Reg
Online Only
I offer counselling mainly to those who suffer from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, family issues, mental, physical, emotional, spiritual or sexual abuse including trauma. My goal is to help the individual to find their own solutions to their problems through active listening, help the person to see the situation more clearly and objectively and enable the client to take responsibility for their own lives and make their own decisions. I have a passion for helping marriages in crisis and have a heart for victims of all sorts of abuse, mainly emotional, sexual and spiritual. I also counsel in French.
I offer counselling mainly to those who suffer from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, family issues, mental, physical, emotional, spiritual or sexual abuse including trauma. My goal is to help the individual to find their own solutions to their problems through active listening, help the person to see the situation more clearly and objectively and enable the client to take responsibility for their own lives and make their own decisions. I have a passion for helping marriages in crisis and have a heart for victims of all sorts of abuse, mainly emotional, sexual and spiritual. I also counsel in French.
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Zehavit Milo
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I also have experience with helping those recovering from toxic and or narcissistic abuse in parental/romantic relationships.
I draw on a range of approaches including Humanistic, Psychodynamic, Attachment theory and CBT. I offer a bespoke service, tailored to meet the client’s individual needs. I will work in a way that follows the client’s pace but also allows for challenge and creativity.
I also have experience with helping those recovering from toxic and or narcissistic abuse in parental/romantic relationships.
I draw on a range of approaches including Humanistic, Psychodynamic, Attachment theory and CBT. I offer a bespoke service, tailored to meet the client’s individual needs. I will work in a way that follows the client’s pace but also allows for challenge and creativity.
020 8175 1589 View 020 8175 1589
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Sian Elizabeth Hines
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
I am currently working towards my level 6 BA Honors in Narcissistic and Shadow research
I can help you to reach the potential that you want and deserve to reach by helping you to understand your past, present and future. To help you to work through relationship problems, self esteem issues or letting go of the past. To enable you to see past blocks and obstacles so that you can control, minimise and eliminate any anxieties. To work with the negative emotions that you feel so that you can identify quickly what your emotions are telling you and then challenge them so that they do not control you. To magnify the positives and build on them for complete self confidence.
I am currently working towards my level 6 BA Honors in Narcissistic and Shadow research
I can help you to reach the potential that you want and deserve to reach by helping you to understand your past, present and future. To help you to work through relationship problems, self esteem issues or letting go of the past. To enable you to see past blocks and obstacles so that you can control, minimise and eliminate any anxieties. To work with the negative emotions that you feel so that you can identify quickly what your emotions are telling you and then challenge them so that they do not control you. To magnify the positives and build on them for complete self confidence.
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Amina Shaikh
Psychotherapist, MA
Serves Area
I’m Amina Shaikh, a Psychotherapist in Twickenham, West London, working with Psychodynamic and Existential approaches. I help people understand how their past shapes their present, so they can move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and purpose. My work is deeply influenced by my own life experiences, which allows me to offer a compassionate, grounded, and non-judgmental space for reflection and growth. Your journey towards a brighter horizon Starts here. In Person & Online.
I’m Amina Shaikh, a Psychotherapist in Twickenham, West London, working with Psychodynamic and Existential approaches. I help people understand how their past shapes their present, so they can move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and purpose. My work is deeply influenced by my own life experiences, which allows me to offer a compassionate, grounded, and non-judgmental space for reflection and growth. Your journey towards a brighter horizon Starts here. In Person & Online.
020 4634 1374 View 020 4634 1374
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Ky Harkins Life Counselling Services
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
, but narcissistic abuse and unhealthy relationships are my specialism.
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
, but narcissistic abuse and unhealthy relationships are my specialism.
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
01702 967241 View 01702 967241
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Ruth Ann Harpur
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
The focus in my private practice is on difficult relationships be that in the workplace, with friends or romantic relationships. I work with individuals and couples who are in or have been in relationships where there is control, excessive criticism, contempt or betrayal. I work with people who have tended to be more harmed by and those who have caused harm in their relationships. I help people develop a sense of compassion for themselves, building a sense of strength to advocate for their own needs in a constructive way so as to develop genuine, lasting intimacy with others.
The focus in my private practice is on difficult relationships be that in the workplace, with friends or romantic relationships. I work with individuals and couples who are in or have been in relationships where there is control, excessive criticism, contempt or betrayal. I work with people who have tended to be more harmed by and those who have caused harm in their relationships. I help people develop a sense of compassion for themselves, building a sense of strength to advocate for their own needs in a constructive way so as to develop genuine, lasting intimacy with others.
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Brenda Denise Clarke-Wills
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
My offer of help is inclusive, no matter your nationality or ethnicity, I can help with abuse, anxiety, bereavement, cultural issues, depression, loss, post-traumatic stress, relationships (couples), trauma, low mood, sense of self, self-esteem and confidence. Also, developing resilience, personal growth and transformation; healing from trauma and emotional hurts; overcoming stress, burnout; anxiety; overcoming negative life patterns, developing healthy boundaries; stopping the intergenerational transmission of negative emotional patterns, combating negative relationship dynamics; connecting more deeply with your inner self, etc.
My offer of help is inclusive, no matter your nationality or ethnicity, I can help with abuse, anxiety, bereavement, cultural issues, depression, loss, post-traumatic stress, relationships (couples), trauma, low mood, sense of self, self-esteem and confidence. Also, developing resilience, personal growth and transformation; healing from trauma and emotional hurts; overcoming stress, burnout; anxiety; overcoming negative life patterns, developing healthy boundaries; stopping the intergenerational transmission of negative emotional patterns, combating negative relationship dynamics; connecting more deeply with your inner self, etc.
020 4538 9131 View 020 4538 9131
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Viviana Meloni
Psychologist, MA, CPsychol
London SW5
I am a multilingual Chartered Principal Psychologist (English, Italian and Spanish speaking) recognised by the professional bodies Health and Care Professions Council and British Psychology Society, currently offering both online therapy (which consistently shows itself to be as effective as traditional therapy) and face to face therapy at Kensington, Wimbledon, Chiswick and West Hampstead. I work both for the NHS and as a Director of my own psychology company. With over 15 years’ experience, I provide a range of evidence based psychological therapies in line with NICE guidelines guarantying a confidential and non-judgmental space.
I am a multilingual Chartered Principal Psychologist (English, Italian and Spanish speaking) recognised by the professional bodies Health and Care Professions Council and British Psychology Society, currently offering both online therapy (which consistently shows itself to be as effective as traditional therapy) and face to face therapy at Kensington, Wimbledon, Chiswick and West Hampstead. I work both for the NHS and as a Director of my own psychology company. With over 15 years’ experience, I provide a range of evidence based psychological therapies in line with NICE guidelines guarantying a confidential and non-judgmental space.
07901 163611 View 07901 163611
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Valdete Kapedani
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London NW3
I work with: Couples & Individuals who present with: Narcissistic & Borderline Personality, Bipolar, Trauma, CPTSD, ADHD, Compulsive behaviour, Abuse, Infidelity, Dating, Marital Conflict, Divorce & Addictions, in a caring, confidential & non-judgmental space.
Using Psychodynamic and CBT approach. In our therapeutic work together I will help you explore & navigate your emotional difficulties, relationship challenges, your past & present unconscious rooted patterns. This will help you develop self-awareness, personal growth, and you will build healthier ways of relating to yourself and others.
I work with: Couples & Individuals who present with: Narcissistic & Borderline Personality, Bipolar, Trauma, CPTSD, ADHD, Compulsive behaviour, Abuse, Infidelity, Dating, Marital Conflict, Divorce & Addictions, in a caring, confidential & non-judgmental space.
Using Psychodynamic and CBT approach. In our therapeutic work together I will help you explore & navigate your emotional difficulties, relationship challenges, your past & present unconscious rooted patterns. This will help you develop self-awareness, personal growth, and you will build healthier ways of relating to yourself and others.
020 3856 4178 View 020 3856 4178
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A Little Room of Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Life does not come with a guide book, we can often find ourselves overwhelmed and distressed and not sure where to turn to. Sometimes you may not even be aware of the root cause of your problems, but have a nagging doubt of not feeling quite right. Anxiety, bereavement,relationship, job changes can leave you feeling unable to cope and overwhelmed. I am here to listen to you in a non-judgemental capacity in a safe confidential space. Talking about what is troubling you and being truly heard can prove to be invaluable, as together we unravel your thoughts and emotions, enabling you to take back the control over your life.
Life does not come with a guide book, we can often find ourselves overwhelmed and distressed and not sure where to turn to. Sometimes you may not even be aware of the root cause of your problems, but have a nagging doubt of not feeling quite right. Anxiety, bereavement,relationship, job changes can leave you feeling unable to cope and overwhelmed. I am here to listen to you in a non-judgemental capacity in a safe confidential space. Talking about what is troubling you and being truly heard can prove to be invaluable, as together we unravel your thoughts and emotions, enabling you to take back the control over your life.
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Frances Carpenter
Counsellor, MSc, UKCP Trainee
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Have you experienced narcissistic abuse, coercive control or domestic violence?
I work with a range of issues associated with abusive relationships, such as low self esteem, people-pleasing, codependency, depression, anxiety and trauma. We will work together to find ways to manage and reduce your symptoms, whilst building your self esteem and confidence. I use a range of therapy models to find an approach that is tailored to you.
Have you experienced narcissistic abuse, coercive control or domestic violence?
I work with a range of issues associated with abusive relationships, such as low self esteem, people-pleasing, codependency, depression, anxiety and trauma. We will work together to find ways to manage and reduce your symptoms, whilst building your self esteem and confidence. I use a range of therapy models to find an approach that is tailored to you.
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Rivka Mennesson
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
London NW8
I also work with victims of Narcissistic abuse, Bereavement, Anxiety and Depression and fear of Abandonment
My approach to therapy is based on psychoanalysis as much as on Attachment and Person centered theories of the mind. I borrow techniques from EFF therapy for the here and now and work with my intuition and countertransference feelings towards the client. Childhood experiences might of might not come into the work based on its necessity.
I also work with victims of Narcissistic abuse, Bereavement, Anxiety and Depression and fear of Abandonment
My approach to therapy is based on psychoanalysis as much as on Attachment and Person centered theories of the mind. I borrow techniques from EFF therapy for the here and now and work with my intuition and countertransference feelings towards the client. Childhood experiences might of might not come into the work based on its necessity.
020 3962 0581 View 020 3962 0581
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Angela Cope
Counsellor, MBACP
I am an experienced and fully qualified Couples Counsellor, Integrative Counsellor/Psychotherapist with a background in both Person-centred Humanistic counselling and an Advanced Diploma in Psychodynamic counselling. I am a fully qualified Relate counsellor having 1500+ hours experience. I have experience in my practice using Transactional Analysis, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Systemic family Counselling using genograms, Solution Focused Therapy and Motivational Interviewing.
I am an experienced and fully qualified Couples Counsellor, Integrative Counsellor/Psychotherapist with a background in both Person-centred Humanistic counselling and an Advanced Diploma in Psychodynamic counselling. I am a fully qualified Relate counsellor having 1500+ hours experience. I have experience in my practice using Transactional Analysis, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Systemic family Counselling using genograms, Solution Focused Therapy and Motivational Interviewing.
01702 904804 View 01702 904804
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Laura Hart
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
London SE19
It's important to get the right support when life isn't going so well... I qualified as a counsellor and psychotherapist in 2009. I enjoy working in an integrative and collaborative way which allows me to tailor my approach to my clients needs. I believe that the most healing factor in therapy is the therapeutic relationship. I provide a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space to facilitate exploration and/or change. My sessions will help you to recognise your patterns, help you to heal from the past and empower you to create a happier and healthier self.
It's important to get the right support when life isn't going so well... I qualified as a counsellor and psychotherapist in 2009. I enjoy working in an integrative and collaborative way which allows me to tailor my approach to my clients needs. I believe that the most healing factor in therapy is the therapeutic relationship. I provide a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space to facilitate exploration and/or change. My sessions will help you to recognise your patterns, help you to heal from the past and empower you to create a happier and healthier self.
020 3984 7550 View 020 3984 7550
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Muby Oztabay
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
London NW3
I have a clinical interest in Boarding School Survivors (Also known as Privileged Abandonment) and Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents.
I have 20 years of experience as an Integrative counsellor/psychotherapist. Throughout my career, I have provided over 9000 hours of psychotherapy sessions, working with Children, Adolescents and Adults in Higher Education, the Third Sector/NGOs and Tier 3 services across United Kingdom.
I have a clinical interest in Boarding School Survivors (Also known as Privileged Abandonment) and Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents.
I have 20 years of experience as an Integrative counsellor/psychotherapist. Throughout my career, I have provided over 9000 hours of psychotherapy sessions, working with Children, Adolescents and Adults in Higher Education, the Third Sector/NGOs and Tier 3 services across United Kingdom.
0161 524 3931 View 0161 524 3931
Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counsellors
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.