Cognitive Behavioural (CBT) Counselling in Gravesend

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Nicola Reynolds
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Gravesend DA12
I often draw upon cognitive behavioural therapies in my therapy practice but take an eclectic approach, drawing upon elements of different models.
I have extensive experience supporting children and young people, their parents/carers, and neurodivergent individuals of all ages who are experiencing psychological difficulties and difficulties in their everyday lives. I specialise in diagnostic assessments for Autism and ADHD. I take an holistic and collaborative approach to therapy, drawing upon a range of therapeutic models, to support people presenting with a range of psychological difficulties. I also provide coaching to individuals with ADHD to develop personalised strategies for improving time management, organisation and emotion regulation.
I often draw upon cognitive behavioural therapies in my therapy practice but take an eclectic approach, drawing upon elements of different models.
I have extensive experience supporting children and young people, their parents/carers, and neurodivergent individuals of all ages who are experiencing psychological difficulties and difficulties in their everyday lives. I specialise in diagnostic assessments for Autism and ADHD. I take an holistic and collaborative approach to therapy, drawing upon a range of therapeutic models, to support people presenting with a range of psychological difficulties. I also provide coaching to individuals with ADHD to develop personalised strategies for improving time management, organisation and emotion regulation.
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Dr Kiran Shetra
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Online Only
You might feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure why things feel so difficult. Perhaps you’re carrying the impact of trauma or painful life experiences, struggling in relationships, or questioning parts of your identity. At times it may feel like you’ve lost connection with yourself or the direction of your life. You may want to better understand your patterns, make sense of your experiences, and feel more grounded and self-compassionate. Therapy can offer a space to reflect, process what you’ve been through, and begin moving forward with greater clarity and confidence.
You might feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure why things feel so difficult. Perhaps you’re carrying the impact of trauma or painful life experiences, struggling in relationships, or questioning parts of your identity. At times it may feel like you’ve lost connection with yourself or the direction of your life. You may want to better understand your patterns, make sense of your experiences, and feel more grounded and self-compassionate. Therapy can offer a space to reflect, process what you’ve been through, and begin moving forward with greater clarity and confidence.
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Jane Diane Jackaman
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Gravesend DA12
I use different forms of counselling according to clients needs, including psychodynamic ,person centred and CBT.
I understand it can be difficult to enter into therapy – you have made the first move by looking for a counsellor. I can offer you a safe, non-judgemental , and supportive space where you can explore any of the personal and emotional difficulties that are affecting you. I am a qualified counsellor with over 25 years NHS experience. I still work for the NHS alongside my private practice.I’m a registered member of the BACP and also a mentor for final year psychotherapy students in training. I am also a Level 6 qualified counselling supervisor, supervising other qualified counsellors with their caseloads.
I use different forms of counselling according to clients needs, including psychodynamic ,person centred and CBT.
I understand it can be difficult to enter into therapy – you have made the first move by looking for a counsellor. I can offer you a safe, non-judgemental , and supportive space where you can explore any of the personal and emotional difficulties that are affecting you. I am a qualified counsellor with over 25 years NHS experience. I still work for the NHS alongside my private practice.I’m a registered member of the BACP and also a mentor for final year psychotherapy students in training. I am also a Level 6 qualified counselling supervisor, supervising other qualified counsellors with their caseloads.
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Emma Farrell
Counsellor, MBACP Snr. Accred
Gravesend DA12
Sometimes we can all feel stuck and not know which way to turn. Life can feel overwhelming or out of control. It can feel like it's not heading in the direction that we want. We can get stuck in cycles, repeating the same behaviours, knowingly or unknowingly. You're in the right place, counselling can help! Counselling focuses on your future and moving past any blocks preventing you from living the life you wish. Together we will explore your present difficulties, as well as past experiences that have led to your current situation.
Sometimes we can all feel stuck and not know which way to turn. Life can feel overwhelming or out of control. It can feel like it's not heading in the direction that we want. We can get stuck in cycles, repeating the same behaviours, knowingly or unknowingly. You're in the right place, counselling can help! Counselling focuses on your future and moving past any blocks preventing you from living the life you wish. Together we will explore your present difficulties, as well as past experiences that have led to your current situation.
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Amy George Hoadley
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Gravesend DA11
My approach is integrative, drawing on Transactional Analysis, psychodynamic, CBT, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
I work with clients seeking a deeper understanding of themselves, their relationships, and the patterns that shape how they relate to others. Many come to therapy to improve communication, navigate relationship difficulties, or break cycles of behaviour that no longer serve them. Using Transactional Analysis and psychodynamic theory, I help clients identify unhelpful patterns, explore their origins, and understand their impact in the present. This greater self-awareness can lead to healthier relationships, improved communication, and more choice in how they respond to life's challenges.
My approach is integrative, drawing on Transactional Analysis, psychodynamic, CBT, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
I work with clients seeking a deeper understanding of themselves, their relationships, and the patterns that shape how they relate to others. Many come to therapy to improve communication, navigate relationship difficulties, or break cycles of behaviour that no longer serve them. Using Transactional Analysis and psychodynamic theory, I help clients identify unhelpful patterns, explore their origins, and understand their impact in the present. This greater self-awareness can lead to healthier relationships, improved communication, and more choice in how they respond to life's challenges.
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BraveSpace CBT
Psychotherapist
Gravesend DA11
Hi, I’m Katie, a Cognitive Behavioural Therapist.
Through Cognitive Behavioural Therapy ( CBT), I help you understand how your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours are linked, and how these patterns can keep difficulties going. For example, anxiety can often be maintained by unhelpful thought patterns and avoidance or low self-esteem can be reinforced by negative self-beliefs.
Hi, I’m Katie, a Cognitive Behavioural Therapist.
Through Cognitive Behavioural Therapy ( CBT), I help you understand how your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours are linked, and how these patterns can keep difficulties going. For example, anxiety can often be maintained by unhelpful thought patterns and avoidance or low self-esteem can be reinforced by negative self-beliefs.
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Philippa Balazs | Online ADHD & Autism Therapist
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am an integrative therapist and draw on a number of theories, but my favourites are Humanistic, Attachment based theory, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, and Acceptance & Commitment (ACT).
Welcome, I’m Philippa. I’m a neurodivergent therapist and coach specialising in ADHD, AuDHD and Autism in adults. People who reach out to me have spent a lifetime masking, trying to shrink or hide themselves, and now feel increasingly overwhelmed inside. You had no language for your differences, and now you find yourself burnt out, stuck, or unsure how to keep going the way you have been. I get it, I’ve been there! So, I offer a reflective, trauma‑informed space where we pause, notice what’s happening, and explore new ways of relating to yourself, your relationships, and the world around you.
I am an integrative therapist and draw on a number of theories, but my favourites are Humanistic, Attachment based theory, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, and Acceptance & Commitment (ACT).
Welcome, I’m Philippa. I’m a neurodivergent therapist and coach specialising in ADHD, AuDHD and Autism in adults. People who reach out to me have spent a lifetime masking, trying to shrink or hide themselves, and now feel increasingly overwhelmed inside. You had no language for your differences, and now you find yourself burnt out, stuck, or unsure how to keep going the way you have been. I get it, I’ve been there! So, I offer a reflective, trauma‑informed space where we pause, notice what’s happening, and explore new ways of relating to yourself, your relationships, and the world around you.
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The Glow Up Project CIC
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Gravesend DA11
The Glow Up Project is a therapy-based CIC supporting children (4–18) and families through 1:1 therapy, family work, student counsellor placements, and our mobile Therapy Bus. We work with schools, local authorities and agencies to deliver trauma-informed, creative support for issues like attachment, trauma, emotional regulation, anxiety, identity and family breakdown. As a CIC, we reinvest into communities to improve access, outcomes and long-term wellbeing.
The Glow Up Project is a therapy-based CIC supporting children (4–18) and families through 1:1 therapy, family work, student counsellor placements, and our mobile Therapy Bus. We work with schools, local authorities and agencies to deliver trauma-informed, creative support for issues like attachment, trauma, emotional regulation, anxiety, identity and family breakdown. As a CIC, we reinvest into communities to improve access, outcomes and long-term wellbeing.
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Gemma Harris
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Gravesend DA12
Deciding to attend therapy is a difficult decision. It is important that you find a therapist with whom you can feel comfortable, I aim to provide you with that experience. I believe there is no position or age from which positive change cannot be made and will support you in the process. Alternatively, if you have a goal that you wish to achieve, either personally or professionally, it is vital you find someone who can bring energy, enthusiasm and pragmatism to your sessions. I also have experience in the corporate space and provide seminars on a number of issues and coaching for groups.
Deciding to attend therapy is a difficult decision. It is important that you find a therapist with whom you can feel comfortable, I aim to provide you with that experience. I believe there is no position or age from which positive change cannot be made and will support you in the process. Alternatively, if you have a goal that you wish to achieve, either personally or professionally, it is vital you find someone who can bring energy, enthusiasm and pragmatism to your sessions. I also have experience in the corporate space and provide seminars on a number of issues and coaching for groups.
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Rukshana Ali
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
Life can be tough at times and sometimes we need a bit of help to manage. I offer psychological assessment and intervention for children, young people and adults. I have specialist expertise in working with health conditions including, psychodermatology, dermatology (e.g. acne, eczema, alopecia, hair pulling, skin picking and genetic skin diseases), weight management, diabetes, endocrine disorders, respiratory, renal and cardiac issues, amongst others.
Life can be tough at times and sometimes we need a bit of help to manage. I offer psychological assessment and intervention for children, young people and adults. I have specialist expertise in working with health conditions including, psychodermatology, dermatology (e.g. acne, eczema, alopecia, hair pulling, skin picking and genetic skin diseases), weight management, diabetes, endocrine disorders, respiratory, renal and cardiac issues, amongst others.
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Fiona Phillips
Counsellor, BACP
Gravesend DA11
Hi, I'm Fiona. Welcome to my profile. I am an experienced, and qualified counsellor who loves her job. I understand how difficult it is to approach counselling, and know how daunting, scary and anxiety provoking it can be to choose the "right counsellor for you". Perhaps your daily life leaves you confused enough, without having to make yet another decision. Perhaps your goal is to understand yourself more fully, or learn ways of accepting past experiences, and finding a more relaxed, and happier way to move forward. If you are looking for someone patient, warm and non judgemental, I'd really like to be that person to help you.
Hi, I'm Fiona. Welcome to my profile. I am an experienced, and qualified counsellor who loves her job. I understand how difficult it is to approach counselling, and know how daunting, scary and anxiety provoking it can be to choose the "right counsellor for you". Perhaps your daily life leaves you confused enough, without having to make yet another decision. Perhaps your goal is to understand yourself more fully, or learn ways of accepting past experiences, and finding a more relaxed, and happier way to move forward. If you are looking for someone patient, warm and non judgemental, I'd really like to be that person to help you.
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Marilyn Hawkes
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Gravesend DA11
For example, using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy ( CBT) we will look at how your thoughts affect your emotions and behaviours.
Many of us walk around being self-critical, dissatisfied, and unsure of who we are and what we want. It can take time to discover the answers. I can help you to build emotional resilience so you can live life to the full. I am someone you can speak openly to, and with whom you can feel safe to work.
For example, using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy ( CBT) we will look at how your thoughts affect your emotions and behaviours.
Many of us walk around being self-critical, dissatisfied, and unsure of who we are and what we want. It can take time to discover the answers. I can help you to build emotional resilience so you can live life to the full. I am someone you can speak openly to, and with whom you can feel safe to work.
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Using an integrative approach (person-centred, CBT and psychodynamic), I tailor sessions to your needs.
Alongside my counselling training, I bring over 20 years’ experience in education, giving me a deep understanding of stress, emotional development, and boundaries. This supports a calm, grounded approach where you can feel safe, understood, and supported.
Using an integrative approach (person-centred, CBT and psychodynamic), I tailor sessions to your needs.
Alongside my counselling training, I bring over 20 years’ experience in education, giving me a deep understanding of stress, emotional development, and boundaries. This supports a calm, grounded approach where you can feel safe, understood, and supported.
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Trish Flood
Counsellor, MBACP
Gravesend DA12
Hi, I'm Trish. I appreciate how daunting looking for counsellors can be. With over 10 years experience working in the Probation Service I have met people from all walks of life, with many different concerns including anxiety, trauma, depression, sexual and physical abuse and addictions. I am a qualified life coach, offering bespoke packages of 4, 8 and 12 months which allows me to mentor you to move towards your goals. I work with the whole person and I run meditation/mindfulness groups and offer one to one sessions. I work between Longfield and Gravesend. I am a Reiki Master and EFT practitioner.
Hi, I'm Trish. I appreciate how daunting looking for counsellors can be. With over 10 years experience working in the Probation Service I have met people from all walks of life, with many different concerns including anxiety, trauma, depression, sexual and physical abuse and addictions. I am a qualified life coach, offering bespoke packages of 4, 8 and 12 months which allows me to mentor you to move towards your goals. I work with the whole person and I run meditation/mindfulness groups and offer one to one sessions. I work between Longfield and Gravesend. I am a Reiki Master and EFT practitioner.
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Solve and Evolve Therapies
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Gravesend DA12
I'm an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist, Counsellor & EMDR Practitioner with over 20yrs experience in mental health.
Offering a range of therapies including Face to Face, Online & Telephone. Specialise in depression & anxiety disorders, including but not limited to: Panic, Social Phobia, Health Anxiety, OCD, PTSD, Phobias, General Anxiety, Perfectionism, Low Self-esteem, ADHD, Assertiveness, Stress, Bullying, School Issues, Infidelity, Family & Relationship Issues.
I'm an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist, Counsellor & EMDR Practitioner with over 20yrs experience in mental health.
Offering a range of therapies including Face to Face, Online & Telephone. Specialise in depression & anxiety disorders, including but not limited to: Panic, Social Phobia, Health Anxiety, OCD, PTSD, Phobias, General Anxiety, Perfectionism, Low Self-esteem, ADHD, Assertiveness, Stress, Bullying, School Issues, Infidelity, Family & Relationship Issues.
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Carol Charmaine Dobbs
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I am an integrative counsellor so use, Psychodynamic, Humanistic and Cognitive approaches in my therapy.
Do you need someone to talk too? Are you lonely, depressed or having relationship issues? Sometimes having an impartial listener can help you to see new ways of coping or overcoming the problems you are facing. As a couples counsellor my job is to help facilitate happier relationships or respectful endings. As a qualified and registered counsellor I am able to provide a safe and supportive environment to explore any issues you feel are causing difficulty in your life. I pride myself on being non-judgmental and welcome everyone, whatever your background may be, to explore ways in which to make your life better.
I am an integrative counsellor so use, Psychodynamic, Humanistic and Cognitive approaches in my therapy.
Do you need someone to talk too? Are you lonely, depressed or having relationship issues? Sometimes having an impartial listener can help you to see new ways of coping or overcoming the problems you are facing. As a couples counsellor my job is to help facilitate happier relationships or respectful endings. As a qualified and registered counsellor I am able to provide a safe and supportive environment to explore any issues you feel are causing difficulty in your life. I pride myself on being non-judgmental and welcome everyone, whatever your background may be, to explore ways in which to make your life better.
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Lou May
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Life can feel overwhelming when stress, anxiety or hormonal changes leave you running on empty. You may be juggling work, family and relationships while quietly losing your energy, sleep and confidence. You long to feel calmer, clearer and more balanced. That’s where I come in. I’m an NHS-trained, BACP-registered counsellor and coach. My approach combines counselling with coaching and holistic tools so we can work on both mind and body. Together we’ll explore the root causes, support your nervous system and help you build the confidence, boundaries and wellbeing you deserve.
Life can feel overwhelming when stress, anxiety or hormonal changes leave you running on empty. You may be juggling work, family and relationships while quietly losing your energy, sleep and confidence. You long to feel calmer, clearer and more balanced. That’s where I come in. I’m an NHS-trained, BACP-registered counsellor and coach. My approach combines counselling with coaching and holistic tools so we can work on both mind and body. Together we’ll explore the root causes, support your nervous system and help you build the confidence, boundaries and wellbeing you deserve.
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Farzana Ahmed
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I am an experienced counsellor who uses an integrated approach that brings together elements of different therapies including CBT, Mindfulness and my core Psychodynamic training which helps to unravel earlier experiences and understand their deep rooted feelings.
I offer a Counselling service to individuals, young people and families who may be facing personal difficulties and challenges. We all experience painful events and losses at various times in our lives and Counselling creates a safe containing space for clients to explore and process their emotions on a range if issues that may be impacting on them negatively. This can help clients to identify their triggers which may be responsible for creating the emotional and or physical distress. It also helps develop some strategies for clients to have at their disposal to manage better the impacts of the distress being experienced.
I am an experienced counsellor who uses an integrated approach that brings together elements of different therapies including CBT, Mindfulness and my core Psychodynamic training which helps to unravel earlier experiences and understand their deep rooted feelings.
I offer a Counselling service to individuals, young people and families who may be facing personal difficulties and challenges. We all experience painful events and losses at various times in our lives and Counselling creates a safe containing space for clients to explore and process their emotions on a range if issues that may be impacting on them negatively. This can help clients to identify their triggers which may be responsible for creating the emotional and or physical distress. It also helps develop some strategies for clients to have at their disposal to manage better the impacts of the distress being experienced.
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Dr Esther M Olawande
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Serves Area
Many of the people I work with appear to be coping well on the outside—but internally feel overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected. I specialise in supporting high-achieving professionals who are used to performing at a high level, yet find themselves struggling with stress, burnout, or difficulties in their relationships. You may be feeling constantly under pressure, overthinking everything, or noticing that your work is starting to impact your personal life. In relationships, this can show up as repeated arguments, emotional distance, or a sense that you and your partner are no longer on the same page.
Many of the people I work with appear to be coping well on the outside—but internally feel overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected. I specialise in supporting high-achieving professionals who are used to performing at a high level, yet find themselves struggling with stress, burnout, or difficulties in their relationships. You may be feeling constantly under pressure, overthinking everything, or noticing that your work is starting to impact your personal life. In relationships, this can show up as repeated arguments, emotional distance, or a sense that you and your partner are no longer on the same page.
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Suzi Williams
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Effective features from various psychological schools of thought such as the Psychodynamic approach, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy are incorporated into sessions to help maximise the healing and breakthrough of my clients.
I am a clinical psychotherapist who is experienced in working with individual adults, couples and young people (ages 11-16). I work to help my clients through a wide range of issues known for causing psychological distress. These issues vary from anxiety to low self-esteem/confidence, stress, depression, addiction, grief and loss, bereavement, relationship issues, anger issues, abuse, self-harm, bullying and trauma. Sometimes it can be overwhelming when experiencing such issues causing us to feel disconnected from life, ourselves and those around us. Maybe it’s time to talk to someone.
Effective features from various psychological schools of thought such as the Psychodynamic approach, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy are incorporated into sessions to help maximise the healing and breakthrough of my clients.
I am a clinical psychotherapist who is experienced in working with individual adults, couples and young people (ages 11-16). I work to help my clients through a wide range of issues known for causing psychological distress. These issues vary from anxiety to low self-esteem/confidence, stress, depression, addiction, grief and loss, bereavement, relationship issues, anger issues, abuse, self-harm, bullying and trauma. Sometimes it can be overwhelming when experiencing such issues causing us to feel disconnected from life, ourselves and those around us. Maybe it’s time to talk to someone.
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Cognitive Behavioural (CBT) Counsellors
How does cognitive behavioural therapy work?
Cognitive behavioural therapy works by exploring how your thoughts affect your emotions and experiences. CBT helps you identify distortions in your thinking. For example, you may tend to jump to the worst case scenario catastrophising or think in extremes (all-or-nothing thinking). A therapist can teach you how to push back against those thoughts to ultimately change your feelings and behavior for the better. They can also provide coping skills to better deal with stressors and challenges.

When do I know to seek treatment with cognitive behavioural therapy?
It’s reasonable to consider cognitive behavioural therapy if you struggle to manage difficult emotions or behaviors to such an extent that you are not getting the most out of life on a day-to-day basis. If you want a shorter term, concrete, skills-based approach, CBT is a great option. (By contrast, other types of therapy may devote more time to exploring your past and its effects.) The decision to seek CBT also depends on the condition you’re treating; CBT is an effective treatment for anxiety, depression, trauma, and many other disorders.

How can I find a cognitive behavioural therapist for someone else?
To find a cognitive behavioural therapist for someone else, you may want to begin by discussing the person’s problem, researching cognitive behavioural therapy, and assessing whether the approach is the right fit. You could then reach out to a few cognitive behavioral therapists in this directory, explain the scenario, have a consultation with those available, and determine who could be a good match.

Why is CBT such a popular form of therapy?
CBT has become a popular form of therapy because it is effective and accessible. Robust research has demonstrated that CBT is an effective treatment for many mental health conditions. And CBT can be learned in relatively few sessions, which means that many people can engage in the process, afford it, and see results quickly. It involves learning concrete skills such as disputing unhelpful thoughts; these skills can also be taught and spread widely.