Counselling in Gillingham

Photo of Amanda Tooms - Amanda Tooms Therapy and Wellbeing , Counsellor, MA, PNCPS Acc.
Amanda Tooms Therapy and Wellbeing
Counsellor, MA, PNCPS Acc.
Are you struggling with past or present trauma, feelings of overwhelm/issues that you're struggling to overcome? Do you feel that you don't know which way to turn or where to start? I hear you, and I see you! I am a trauma informed counsellor and psychotherapist, hypnotherapist and mentor. I have been in therapy myself and I know first-hand the feeling of darkness, pain and trauma, but I also know what it's like to feel light again. That is why I trained as a therapist myself, so that I could support individuals in the same way that my therapist supported me when I needed it most. You are not alone, and I am here for you!
Are you struggling with past or present trauma, feelings of overwhelm/issues that you're struggling to overcome? Do you feel that you don't know which way to turn or where to start? I hear you, and I see you! I am a trauma informed counsellor and psychotherapist, hypnotherapist and mentor. I have been in therapy myself and I know first-hand the feeling of darkness, pain and trauma, but I also know what it's like to feel light again. That is why I trained as a therapist myself, so that I could support individuals in the same way that my therapist supported me when I needed it most. You are not alone, and I am here for you!
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Janet Wells
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Hello, my name is Janet, I am a BACP registered psychotherapist based in Medway. I offer face to face counselling in Gillingham and also Walking Talking therapy, Zoom, Facetime or telephone. I offer a confidential and safe environment in which you can explore and process the difficulties you are facing. This will be a non-judgemental space where we can discuss as much or as little as you would like, you lead the way. I aim to create an environment where you feel calm and cared for, as well as being able to trust in me with your thoughts and concerns no matter how big or small. All clients are treated with respect and empathy.
Hello, my name is Janet, I am a BACP registered psychotherapist based in Medway. I offer face to face counselling in Gillingham and also Walking Talking therapy, Zoom, Facetime or telephone. I offer a confidential and safe environment in which you can explore and process the difficulties you are facing. This will be a non-judgemental space where we can discuss as much or as little as you would like, you lead the way. I aim to create an environment where you feel calm and cared for, as well as being able to trust in me with your thoughts and concerns no matter how big or small. All clients are treated with respect and empathy.
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Mary Ann Stevenson
Counsellor, BACP
I have training in counselling adults, young people and children. My placements included Place2Be, Improving Mental Health Provision in Chatham Kent and Counselling Parents and teachers in a local Secondary School. I continually update my training to ensure I give my best to my clients. I offer a safe, non judgemental space to work with clients and work at the clients own pace as they are the expert of themselves. At present I am only offering sessions on TEAMS and via telephone
I have training in counselling adults, young people and children. My placements included Place2Be, Improving Mental Health Provision in Chatham Kent and Counselling Parents and teachers in a local Secondary School. I continually update my training to ensure I give my best to my clients. I offer a safe, non judgemental space to work with clients and work at the clients own pace as they are the expert of themselves. At present I am only offering sessions on TEAMS and via telephone
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Bulb Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
As I have evolved through both my Professional and Personal landscapes, I am committed to help transform, Children, Adults , Families through their Relationships, Mental Health issues, overcome Domestic Abuse and Trauma, recognise Narcissistic Abuse and achieve overall life improvement. I work with all walks of life and have many strings to my bow, I adore learning, researching and am currently undergoing further training focussing on the impact of Trauma and implementing new approaches to help manage CPTSD/PTSD. I have a diverse range of interpersonal skills and utilise my knowledge to teach and train Psychology and Counselling
As I have evolved through both my Professional and Personal landscapes, I am committed to help transform, Children, Adults , Families through their Relationships, Mental Health issues, overcome Domestic Abuse and Trauma, recognise Narcissistic Abuse and achieve overall life improvement. I work with all walks of life and have many strings to my bow, I adore learning, researching and am currently undergoing further training focussing on the impact of Trauma and implementing new approaches to help manage CPTSD/PTSD. I have a diverse range of interpersonal skills and utilise my knowledge to teach and train Psychology and Counselling
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Debbie Collins
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
The problems I can address are varied and wide-ranging. They may include bereavement, divorce and separation, ill health, depression and trauma. I help you set a goal, if that is the way forward for you or I can just be there with you in a supportive role, if that is what you require. Together we can work towards achieving a happier, more relaxed you.
The problems I can address are varied and wide-ranging. They may include bereavement, divorce and separation, ill health, depression and trauma. I help you set a goal, if that is the way forward for you or I can just be there with you in a supportive role, if that is what you require. Together we can work towards achieving a happier, more relaxed you.
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Sam Froudist
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Not accepting new clients
Is your young person struggling to make the transition to secondary school? Can you sense that they're worried, but struggling to reach them or get them to explain what is going on? Has your child been through a difficult life experience that is still affecting them greatly? Therapy can help. Getting your child the help they need while maintaining your relationship with them can be so difficult. Many young people benefit from a safe, confidential space to work through their difficulties and make sense of what the next steps look like for them.
Is your young person struggling to make the transition to secondary school? Can you sense that they're worried, but struggling to reach them or get them to explain what is going on? Has your child been through a difficult life experience that is still affecting them greatly? Therapy can help. Getting your child the help they need while maintaining your relationship with them can be so difficult. Many young people benefit from a safe, confidential space to work through their difficulties and make sense of what the next steps look like for them.
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Michelle Bearman
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Clients seek therapy for a variety of reasons and I believe that clients have resourced many options before entering the therapeutic relationship. It may be that you are experiencing low mood/depression, anxiety, responses to trauma, bereavement and other life events. Or it maybe that nothing specific stands out yet you know something is out of sync in your well-being. Therapy is a place where you can take space for “you”, catch up with yourself and explore what troubles you in a non-judgemental environment encouraging you to draw on your strengths and re-evaluate your life.
Clients seek therapy for a variety of reasons and I believe that clients have resourced many options before entering the therapeutic relationship. It may be that you are experiencing low mood/depression, anxiety, responses to trauma, bereavement and other life events. Or it maybe that nothing specific stands out yet you know something is out of sync in your well-being. Therapy is a place where you can take space for “you”, catch up with yourself and explore what troubles you in a non-judgemental environment encouraging you to draw on your strengths and re-evaluate your life.
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Emily Cheney
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Hello, and thank you for viewing my page. I am a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist and I help people experiencing depression and anxiety disorders to make positive change in the here and now. I hope to provide you with a safe, warm and confidential space to explore your difficulties and work towards your goals. Perhaps you are struggling with worry, catastrophic thinking, low self-esteem, avoidance, procrastination, feeling low or know things just don't feel right. Are these things stopping you from enjoying life, or living how you want to? If you feel ready to make a positive change, I would love to hear from you.
Hello, and thank you for viewing my page. I am a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist and I help people experiencing depression and anxiety disorders to make positive change in the here and now. I hope to provide you with a safe, warm and confidential space to explore your difficulties and work towards your goals. Perhaps you are struggling with worry, catastrophic thinking, low self-esteem, avoidance, procrastination, feeling low or know things just don't feel right. Are these things stopping you from enjoying life, or living how you want to? If you feel ready to make a positive change, I would love to hear from you.
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Cindy Smith
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I am an experienced, humanistic, relational counsellor . I trained and work integratively. This means I use several different models of counselling intertwined, leaning more to one than the others as required by the individual. These include Person Centred, CBT, Psychodynamic and Existential . Post qualifying, I have trained extensively in working with trauma. I believe the quality of the relationship between client and counsellor is very important. I see my clients in private, quiet and comfortable rooms in Gillingham town centre with public car parks available nearby and easy access to public transport link.
I am an experienced, humanistic, relational counsellor . I trained and work integratively. This means I use several different models of counselling intertwined, leaning more to one than the others as required by the individual. These include Person Centred, CBT, Psychodynamic and Existential . Post qualifying, I have trained extensively in working with trauma. I believe the quality of the relationship between client and counsellor is very important. I see my clients in private, quiet and comfortable rooms in Gillingham town centre with public car parks available nearby and easy access to public transport link.
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UCChanges
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
I support you to see the change you need and reach the goals you want. I'm patient giving adults and children space to explore their current situation and accept or change it. Reduce social anxiety and start liking your true self. Have you experienced sexual, emotional, bullying abuse in the past? Struggling with menopause, retirement, parental estrangement? Sleeping or your appetite has changed due depression stress? You want to stop overthinking past experiences? Its time to talk about it so we can start to sort it out. You are unique and you deserve the understanding and acceptance i offer. thats when the healing begins.
I support you to see the change you need and reach the goals you want. I'm patient giving adults and children space to explore their current situation and accept or change it. Reduce social anxiety and start liking your true self. Have you experienced sexual, emotional, bullying abuse in the past? Struggling with menopause, retirement, parental estrangement? Sleeping or your appetite has changed due depression stress? You want to stop overthinking past experiences? Its time to talk about it so we can start to sort it out. You are unique and you deserve the understanding and acceptance i offer. thats when the healing begins.
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Sarah Lidsey
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
So many of us are experiencing unexpected challenges, often beyond our control. They can trigger our histories, and destabilise our present realities. We all suffer, feel pain, and periodically struggle in life. It’s natural. Being deeply listened to in the telling of your story, can dissolve a lot of tension and distress. I offer support to help you bring clarity and insight to your life's challenges. We will explore those places together with awareness, and with compassion. It is a journey towards greater happiness and health, where we reflect on what is troubling you now.
So many of us are experiencing unexpected challenges, often beyond our control. They can trigger our histories, and destabilise our present realities. We all suffer, feel pain, and periodically struggle in life. It’s natural. Being deeply listened to in the telling of your story, can dissolve a lot of tension and distress. I offer support to help you bring clarity and insight to your life's challenges. We will explore those places together with awareness, and with compassion. It is a journey towards greater happiness and health, where we reflect on what is troubling you now.
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Shannon Jackson
Counsellor, MBACP
I am a compassionate and integrative therapist dedicated to helping individuals navigate their inner world with empathy and understanding. I work with Internal Family Systems principles, psychodynamic counselling, and attachment theory to offer a holistic and deeply empathetic approach. I have been working at Lighthouse Counselling, based in Gravesend, for the past six years, where I support a diverse range of clients dealing with anxiety, depression, childhood trauma, and bereavement. Alongside this, I now offer private practice in Rainham, with both online and in-person sessions.
I am a compassionate and integrative therapist dedicated to helping individuals navigate their inner world with empathy and understanding. I work with Internal Family Systems principles, psychodynamic counselling, and attachment theory to offer a holistic and deeply empathetic approach. I have been working at Lighthouse Counselling, based in Gravesend, for the past six years, where I support a diverse range of clients dealing with anxiety, depression, childhood trauma, and bereavement. Alongside this, I now offer private practice in Rainham, with both online and in-person sessions.
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Lordia Lewis-Spencer
Counsellor, MBACP
My direction towards self-development has exposed me to deep & wonderful values. I now understand that feelings don’t need to be avoided or feared, they just are. I know people are all inherently creative & given the right environment of empathy, non-judgmental & unconditional positive regard everyone can find their way.
My direction towards self-development has exposed me to deep & wonderful values. I now understand that feelings don’t need to be avoided or feared, they just are. I know people are all inherently creative & given the right environment of empathy, non-judgmental & unconditional positive regard everyone can find their way.
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Oleg Elizarov
Counsellor, MBACP
I offer non judgmental and confidential counselling to Men and Women from all walks of life and from many differing circumstances. I understand that it is important that you feel comfortable with the counsellor you have chosen and be able to build a therapeutic relationship.
I offer non judgmental and confidential counselling to Men and Women from all walks of life and from many differing circumstances. I understand that it is important that you feel comfortable with the counsellor you have chosen and be able to build a therapeutic relationship.
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Debbie Cooley
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
My name is Debbie and I am an integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor. My own life journey, marked by significant loss and trauma, is what led me to become a counsellor. I understand how it feels to carry pain that others can’t always see, and I bring that lived understanding into the way I hold space for others. This lived experience helps me meet clients with empathy, not just as a professional, but as someone who truly gets how hard it can be to just exist sometimes. I am down-to-earth and easy speaking and my therapy sessions are conversational and grounded in real human connection, rather than anything clinical or detached.
My name is Debbie and I am an integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor. My own life journey, marked by significant loss and trauma, is what led me to become a counsellor. I understand how it feels to carry pain that others can’t always see, and I bring that lived understanding into the way I hold space for others. This lived experience helps me meet clients with empathy, not just as a professional, but as someone who truly gets how hard it can be to just exist sometimes. I am down-to-earth and easy speaking and my therapy sessions are conversational and grounded in real human connection, rather than anything clinical or detached.
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Rainham Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
I am, Karen, a qualified counsellor who practices using Person Centred and Psychodynamic therapies. I provide a confidential space for you to be accepted as you are. We work together to explore what you want to achieve in therapy. This may initially be unknown, so we work to clarify and explore, to discover anything that is concerning or causing you unrest/stress. The calm, quiet and confidential space I offer, provides a sanctuary where self-awareness may increase, and personal growth can happen.
I am, Karen, a qualified counsellor who practices using Person Centred and Psychodynamic therapies. I provide a confidential space for you to be accepted as you are. We work together to explore what you want to achieve in therapy. This may initially be unknown, so we work to clarify and explore, to discover anything that is concerning or causing you unrest/stress. The calm, quiet and confidential space I offer, provides a sanctuary where self-awareness may increase, and personal growth can happen.
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Charis Doggett
Psychotherapist, MBACP
4 Endorsed
Whether you are struggling with mental health, wanting to process your story or need support making some changes, I offer a space to explore your story and what has made you who you are today. Together, we sit compassionately with whatever pain, struggle or issue is brought, bringing awareness to how things are and what lies behind it. I see a range of clients from all walks of life, ethnicities, and beliefs. As a Christian, I understand wanting a therapist who appreciates faith as an important aspect of your life. I specialise in incorporating what this means to you and how you would like to include it in our work together.
Whether you are struggling with mental health, wanting to process your story or need support making some changes, I offer a space to explore your story and what has made you who you are today. Together, we sit compassionately with whatever pain, struggle or issue is brought, bringing awareness to how things are and what lies behind it. I see a range of clients from all walks of life, ethnicities, and beliefs. As a Christian, I understand wanting a therapist who appreciates faith as an important aspect of your life. I specialise in incorporating what this means to you and how you would like to include it in our work together.
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Dean Watkins
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Do you find yourself stuck in self-doubt despite your accomplishments, waking up feeling like you’ll be “found out”? Perhaps you overprepare, then freeze when a new opportunity pops up. You’re not alone & you're not broken. I’m Dean, a psychotherapist, and I can guide you through your struggle with imposter syndrome, anxiety, and perfectionism. I've 20 years experience helping people just like you not only understand their negative inner voice but learn to quiet it. I blend CBT with ACT, CFT, & EMDR - always tailoring your plan to what feels right for you. It’s therapy that helps you act, breathe easier, & trust yourself more.
Do you find yourself stuck in self-doubt despite your accomplishments, waking up feeling like you’ll be “found out”? Perhaps you overprepare, then freeze when a new opportunity pops up. You’re not alone & you're not broken. I’m Dean, a psychotherapist, and I can guide you through your struggle with imposter syndrome, anxiety, and perfectionism. I've 20 years experience helping people just like you not only understand their negative inner voice but learn to quiet it. I blend CBT with ACT, CFT, & EMDR - always tailoring your plan to what feels right for you. It’s therapy that helps you act, breathe easier, & trust yourself more.
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Dr Esthefanea F. Santos
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
2 Endorsed
Are you feeling overwhelmed, emotionally stuck, or exhausted from trying to hold everything together? Maybe you're constantly overthinking, feeling low, or just not like yourself lately. You might be managing work, relationships, or daily life on the outside, but inside, something feels off. I help adults who are struggling with anxiety, depression, and burnout create more space to breathe, reflect, and feel like themselves again. Whether you’re dealing with racing thoughts, low energy, emotional numbness, or simply the sense that you’re no longer coping in the way you used to, I can help.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, emotionally stuck, or exhausted from trying to hold everything together? Maybe you're constantly overthinking, feeling low, or just not like yourself lately. You might be managing work, relationships, or daily life on the outside, but inside, something feels off. I help adults who are struggling with anxiety, depression, and burnout create more space to breathe, reflect, and feel like themselves again. Whether you’re dealing with racing thoughts, low energy, emotional numbness, or simply the sense that you’re no longer coping in the way you used to, I can help.
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Lisa King Counselling Services
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I am a warm, friendly person and have experienced the positive, life changing affects that counselling can have on a person. I work hard to create a trusting therapeutic relationship with you so that you can feel safe and supported in our sessions together. I believe that you are the expert of your own life, because only you know how it really feels to be you and that can feel like a lonely place sometimes. Together, we can explore what is causing your distress and find ways to help. I have a lot of experience working with anxiety and have witnessed how overwhelming it can be and the affect it can have on your quality of life.
I am a warm, friendly person and have experienced the positive, life changing affects that counselling can have on a person. I work hard to create a trusting therapeutic relationship with you so that you can feel safe and supported in our sessions together. I believe that you are the expert of your own life, because only you know how it really feels to be you and that can feel like a lonely place sometimes. Together, we can explore what is causing your distress and find ways to help. I have a lot of experience working with anxiety and have witnessed how overwhelming it can be and the affect it can have on your quality of life.
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How does your Counsellor compare?

Number of Counsellors in Gillingham

50+

Average cost per session

£60

Counsellors in Gillingham who prioritize treating:

93% Anxiety
86% Depression
84% Self Esteem
75% Relationship Issues
70% Stress
67% Bereavement
67% Trauma and PTSD

Average years in practice

9 Years

Top 3 insurances accepted

71% Aviva
50% Vitality
43% Bupa

How Counsellors in Gillingham see their clients

93% In Person and Online
7% Online Only

Gender breakdown

88% Female
12% Male
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling

How can I find a therapist in Gillingham?

Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.

Learn more about how to find a therapist

Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?

Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).

Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.

What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?

Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.

What type of therapy is right for me?

The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.

How much does therapy cost?

The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.

What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?

Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.

If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.

Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?

Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.

Is online therapy a good option?

Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.

Are therapy sessions confidential?

Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.