Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Fareham
I’m Sinead Mitchell and I’ve been working as a counsellor for the past two decades. Counselling young people, couples and individuals, I work with a wide range of people through the community. Issues such as anxiety, depression, relationships, sexuality, gender issues and menopause are common areas that I support clients through. Working with various therapy styles, including EMDR, Gestalt, Humanistic and Holistic, I aim to match the counselling needs to each individual or couple that I see. My specialism is the field of infertility, pregnancy, birth, early parenting through to perimenopause and menopause.
I’m Sinead Mitchell and I’ve been working as a counsellor for the past two decades. Counselling young people, couples and individuals, I work with a wide range of people through the community. Issues such as anxiety, depression, relationships, sexuality, gender issues and menopause are common areas that I support clients through. Working with various therapy styles, including EMDR, Gestalt, Humanistic and Holistic, I aim to match the counselling needs to each individual or couple that I see. My specialism is the field of infertility, pregnancy, birth, early parenting through to perimenopause and menopause.
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
I focus mostly on identity and intersectional experiences. My main areas of interest and knowledge are queer identities, gender identity (including cis, trans+, enby, and intersex), poly relationships, families with mixed ethnic and/or religious backgrounds, disability/illness (including hidden) and difficult parenting/parented relationships (including single parenting, and queer parenting). I am open to working with any kind of client, regardless of lifestyle, history, and past mistakes. Please see my website for more information and my inclusion statement. I work online only and my session fees range from £30 to £60 per session.
I focus mostly on identity and intersectional experiences. My main areas of interest and knowledge are queer identities, gender identity (including cis, trans+, enby, and intersex), poly relationships, families with mixed ethnic and/or religious backgrounds, disability/illness (including hidden) and difficult parenting/parented relationships (including single parenting, and queer parenting). I am open to working with any kind of client, regardless of lifestyle, history, and past mistakes. Please see my website for more information and my inclusion statement. I work online only and my session fees range from £30 to £60 per session.
Hello. I'm Gemma, a qualified and registered Counsellor. I offer one-to-one counselling to adults from my private practice in Hedge End, Southampton. If you're here, chances are you're looking for help...You may be struggling with a personal issue and feeling that something has to change. You might be feeling anxious and alone with your problem and wondering if anyone will understand. Maybe a recent loss or life change has left you feeling like you cannot cope. Or perhaps experiences from your past are affecting your ability to live your life fully today.
Hello. I'm Gemma, a qualified and registered Counsellor. I offer one-to-one counselling to adults from my private practice in Hedge End, Southampton. If you're here, chances are you're looking for help...You may be struggling with a personal issue and feeling that something has to change. You might be feeling anxious and alone with your problem and wondering if anyone will understand. Maybe a recent loss or life change has left you feeling like you cannot cope. Or perhaps experiences from your past are affecting your ability to live your life fully today.
Therapy is a collaborative process, I provide a confidential safe space so together we can make sense of your experience and develop an agreed plan of action and goals. I have extensive experience of working with anxiety disorders, emotion regulation and in particular OCD.
With over 14 years experience i can help you explore whatever aspects of your life you may want to better understand or change. An opportunity to explore your thoughts and feelings freely without judgement, and learn how to better manage on the not so good days….(and we all have them). Sessions and the length of time we work together will be suited to you.
Therapy is a collaborative process, I provide a confidential safe space so together we can make sense of your experience and develop an agreed plan of action and goals. I have extensive experience of working with anxiety disorders, emotion regulation and in particular OCD.
With over 14 years experience i can help you explore whatever aspects of your life you may want to better understand or change. An opportunity to explore your thoughts and feelings freely without judgement, and learn how to better manage on the not so good days….(and we all have them). Sessions and the length of time we work together will be suited to you.
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Specific areas of focus are, couples therapy, sex and kink, eating disorders and shame related to trauma.
Do others view you as a calm river with a constant, steady flow? Does this stop you from telling them about the disarming undercurrent that pulls you in all directions? Perhaps you feel like you need to maintain the outward appearance of being someone who ‘has it all’ when inwardly you are scared that you aren’t enough. Appearing perfect can be exhausting, it can also be isolating and erode our true sense of self. I am here so that you can rest your mask down for a while. By tapping into and meeting the needs of your inner self you will find that you feel resourced enough to fortify your relationships with others.
Specific areas of focus are, couples therapy, sex and kink, eating disorders and shame related to trauma.
Do others view you as a calm river with a constant, steady flow? Does this stop you from telling them about the disarming undercurrent that pulls you in all directions? Perhaps you feel like you need to maintain the outward appearance of being someone who ‘has it all’ when inwardly you are scared that you aren’t enough. Appearing perfect can be exhausting, it can also be isolating and erode our true sense of self. I am here so that you can rest your mask down for a while. By tapping into and meeting the needs of your inner self you will find that you feel resourced enough to fortify your relationships with others.
I am a sex-positive, GDSR, Kink-affirming therapist who supports those exploring their sexualities and desires without shame or judgment.
I work with both couples and individuals navigating sexual, relationship and intimacy difficulties and I bring a psychosexual-informed lens to help foster connection, understanding, and pleasure in relationships. My work is neuroaffirming, and I support adults exploring life through the lens of neurodivergence (including Autism, ADHD).
I am a sex-positive, GDSR, Kink-affirming therapist who supports those exploring their sexualities and desires without shame or judgment.
I work with both couples and individuals navigating sexual, relationship and intimacy difficulties and I bring a psychosexual-informed lens to help foster connection, understanding, and pleasure in relationships. My work is neuroaffirming, and I support adults exploring life through the lens of neurodivergence (including Autism, ADHD).
I have extensive experience working with teens, young people and adults in varying stages of life. We will approach your individual hopes for counselling with curiosity, compassion and courage.
The basis of all my work is a trauma-informed relational approach, and a strong ethical focus. I strongly value and prioritise co-creating an authentic and honest therapeutic relationship with my clients. I do not operate as a blank and neutral observer, and I bring energy and genuine interest to our sessions. This is the foundation of any work we will do together.
I have extensive experience working with teens, young people and adults in varying stages of life. We will approach your individual hopes for counselling with curiosity, compassion and courage.
The basis of all my work is a trauma-informed relational approach, and a strong ethical focus. I strongly value and prioritise co-creating an authentic and honest therapeutic relationship with my clients. I do not operate as a blank and neutral observer, and I bring energy and genuine interest to our sessions. This is the foundation of any work we will do together.
My clients are thoughtful individuals who value depth and reflection. Many have lived through trauma, loss, or periods of profound transition, and now seek not quick solutions but sustained psychological work. They are drawn to therapy as an ongoing investment in awareness, relationship, and inner freedom — a confidential space to explore complexity, rediscover meaning, and live with greater authenticity and emotional depth. This is a process for those who wish to engage seriously with themselves and create lasting transformation at the deepest levels of experience, where real change becomes possible.
My clients are thoughtful individuals who value depth and reflection. Many have lived through trauma, loss, or periods of profound transition, and now seek not quick solutions but sustained psychological work. They are drawn to therapy as an ongoing investment in awareness, relationship, and inner freedom — a confidential space to explore complexity, rediscover meaning, and live with greater authenticity and emotional depth. This is a process for those who wish to engage seriously with themselves and create lasting transformation at the deepest levels of experience, where real change becomes possible.
Dr Wayne Adlem - Local Expert on Relationships & Psychosexual issues.
Wayne has worked with many individuals and couples overcome issues of an intimate and personal nature to find fulfillment in their lives.
• Fully insured via a combined treatment policy which includes: Professional liability/Indemnity & Public & Products liability.
• Holds an Enhanced DBS Clearance certificate and is subscribed to the update service.
• You can see the reviews from past clients on the Relink Therapy Website.
• Policies & Procedures are in place for clarity and consistency.
• Holds a UK Business bank account for all transactions.
Dr Wayne Adlem - Local Expert on Relationships & Psychosexual issues.
Wayne has worked with many individuals and couples overcome issues of an intimate and personal nature to find fulfillment in their lives.
• Fully insured via a combined treatment policy which includes: Professional liability/Indemnity & Public & Products liability.
• Holds an Enhanced DBS Clearance certificate and is subscribed to the update service.
• You can see the reviews from past clients on the Relink Therapy Website.
• Policies & Procedures are in place for clarity and consistency.
• Holds a UK Business bank account for all transactions.
No matter what brings you to the process of looking for a therapist, welcome! Counselling shouldn’t be a copy and paste experience; you feeling seen and heard in the therapeutic relationship we share is my top priority. You take the lead in what we do together, and I will adapt my practice to meet your needs. I celebrate difference and have held space for clients from all backgrounds and expressions. I recognise the impact of oppression and marginalisation and aim to provide an environment where you can feel safe to discuss any issue. No issue is too big or too small, and I will accompany you through that exploration.
No matter what brings you to the process of looking for a therapist, welcome! Counselling shouldn’t be a copy and paste experience; you feeling seen and heard in the therapeutic relationship we share is my top priority. You take the lead in what we do together, and I will adapt my practice to meet your needs. I celebrate difference and have held space for clients from all backgrounds and expressions. I recognise the impact of oppression and marginalisation and aim to provide an environment where you can feel safe to discuss any issue. No issue is too big or too small, and I will accompany you through that exploration.
Hello, I'm Lucy, a fully qualified person-centred counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor based in Twyford, near Winchester. I am a registered, accredited member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP Accred), offering professional, experienced, warm and non-judgemental counselling and psychotherapy for clients to explore issues safely and freely. Person-centred therapy is a refreshing therapeutic method; "walking" with you, employing empathic understanding and non-judgemental warmth and acceptance, respecting and trusting your inner resources to support you on your journey.
Hello, I'm Lucy, a fully qualified person-centred counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor based in Twyford, near Winchester. I am a registered, accredited member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP Accred), offering professional, experienced, warm and non-judgemental counselling and psychotherapy for clients to explore issues safely and freely. Person-centred therapy is a refreshing therapeutic method; "walking" with you, employing empathic understanding and non-judgemental warmth and acceptance, respecting and trusting your inner resources to support you on your journey.
I work with adults and couples experiencing a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, stress, low self‑esteem, relationship difficulties, sexual concerns, loss of desire, intimacy issues, performance anxiety, cultural and identity‑related challenges, and major life transitions. I also support clients navigating intercultural and interracial relationship dynamics, migration‑related stress, and questions around identity and belonging.
I work with adults and couples experiencing a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, stress, low self‑esteem, relationship difficulties, sexual concerns, loss of desire, intimacy issues, performance anxiety, cultural and identity‑related challenges, and major life transitions. I also support clients navigating intercultural and interracial relationship dynamics, migration‑related stress, and questions around identity and belonging.
I work with adults who may be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, low in confidence, or stuck in patterns that no longer feel helpful. This might include struggles with anxiety, self-doubt, past experiences, or difficulties within relationships. Many people come to counselling looking for a space where they can talk openly and feel genuinely heard and understood.
My aim is to help you make sense of what’s going on for you, build resilience, and support you in gaining whatever you need to move forward — whether that’s greater self-awareness, self-compassion, or practical ways to create lasting change.
I work with adults who may be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, low in confidence, or stuck in patterns that no longer feel helpful. This might include struggles with anxiety, self-doubt, past experiences, or difficulties within relationships. Many people come to counselling looking for a space where they can talk openly and feel genuinely heard and understood.
My aim is to help you make sense of what’s going on for you, build resilience, and support you in gaining whatever you need to move forward — whether that’s greater self-awareness, self-compassion, or practical ways to create lasting change.
Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed, misunderstood, wishing to feel more satisfied in your relationships? Life can be difficult, and navigating it alone can feel overwhelming. I specialize in supporting individuals with ADHD, ASD, and OCD who may experience anxiety, overwhelm, burnout, or struggle with connection.
Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed, misunderstood, wishing to feel more satisfied in your relationships? Life can be difficult, and navigating it alone can feel overwhelming. I specialize in supporting individuals with ADHD, ASD, and OCD who may experience anxiety, overwhelm, burnout, or struggle with connection.
You may be feeling stuck in familiar patterns - perhaps finding yourself overwhelmed by emotions, struggling with anxiety or low mood, or noticing recurring difficulties in relationships. Sometimes these experiences can feel confusing, frustrating, or exhausting, especially when you’re not sure why they keep happening.
I take an integrative approach to therapy, which means I draw from a range of therapeutic approaches developed over many years of clinical training and experience. Rather than applying a single model, I tailor therapy to fit the unique needs, difficulties, and strengths each person brings.
You may be feeling stuck in familiar patterns - perhaps finding yourself overwhelmed by emotions, struggling with anxiety or low mood, or noticing recurring difficulties in relationships. Sometimes these experiences can feel confusing, frustrating, or exhausting, especially when you’re not sure why they keep happening.
I take an integrative approach to therapy, which means I draw from a range of therapeutic approaches developed over many years of clinical training and experience. Rather than applying a single model, I tailor therapy to fit the unique needs, difficulties, and strengths each person brings.
I work with people who are struggling to manage their anxiety whether that be because of a phobia, social anxiety or generalised anxiety disorder. Clients come to me because they want practical skills for managing the symptoms of anxiety and would like to explore the underlying issues that may be behind the anxiety.
I work with people who are struggling to manage their anxiety whether that be because of a phobia, social anxiety or generalised anxiety disorder. Clients come to me because they want practical skills for managing the symptoms of anxiety and would like to explore the underlying issues that may be behind the anxiety.
Are you feeling stuck, disconnected, or uncertain in your relationships, sex life, or sense of self? Are you struggling with intimacy, desire, shame, boundaries, or recurring emotional patterns that leave you feeling frustrated or misunderstood? Are you looking to understand why certain patterns keep repeating, and how past experiences may still be shaping how you relate today? Do you want to feel more emotionally regulated and more confident in expressing your needs and limits?
Are you hoping for more meaningful, connected, and authentic relationships - with others and with yourself?
Are you feeling stuck, disconnected, or uncertain in your relationships, sex life, or sense of self? Are you struggling with intimacy, desire, shame, boundaries, or recurring emotional patterns that leave you feeling frustrated or misunderstood? Are you looking to understand why certain patterns keep repeating, and how past experiences may still be shaping how you relate today? Do you want to feel more emotionally regulated and more confident in expressing your needs and limits?
Are you hoping for more meaningful, connected, and authentic relationships - with others and with yourself?
Psychotherapist (BACP),
Sex Therapist (COSRT),
Couples/Relationship Therapist (COSRT),
EMDR Therapist (EMDR Association)
& Clinical Supervisor.
Paula is a fully accredited and highly experienced, post-graduate qualified Therapist. She has over 30 years experience of helping clients achieve sustainable change.
She has an outstanding history of working well with clients who have been frustrated by lack of change in their previous therapy.
Psychotherapist (BACP),
Sex Therapist (COSRT),
Couples/Relationship Therapist (COSRT),
EMDR Therapist (EMDR Association)
& Clinical Supervisor.
Paula is a fully accredited and highly experienced, post-graduate qualified Therapist. She has over 30 years experience of helping clients achieve sustainable change.
She has an outstanding history of working well with clients who have been frustrated by lack of change in their previous therapy.
I work with individuals and couples ( multi-partner relationships) and specialise in those experiencing anxiety, ADHD, and relationship challenges.
Most of us can go through times in life when something doesn’t feel quite right, or when we have a sense of being “stuck.” This may show up as anxiety, feeling overwhelmed, low mood, or difficulties in relationships. You might also notice feeling emotionally numb, being self-critical, struggling with decision making, or experiencing recurring conflict.
Either way, we can explore this together at a pace that feels safe and manageable.
I work with individuals and couples ( multi-partner relationships) and specialise in those experiencing anxiety, ADHD, and relationship challenges.
Most of us can go through times in life when something doesn’t feel quite right, or when we have a sense of being “stuck.” This may show up as anxiety, feeling overwhelmed, low mood, or difficulties in relationships. You might also notice feeling emotionally numb, being self-critical, struggling with decision making, or experiencing recurring conflict.
Either way, we can explore this together at a pace that feels safe and manageable.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.