Parenting Counselling in Esher

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Helen Taylor
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I support adults, children and young people when they are feeling stuck, overwhelmed or confused by their experiences and emotions, to help discover a sense of relief, ease and hopefulness about the future. My compassionate approach engages curiosity, imagination and playfulness to untangle conflicts and gain fresh perspective on self, issues and relationships.
I support adults, children and young people when they are feeling stuck, overwhelmed or confused by their experiences and emotions, to help discover a sense of relief, ease and hopefulness about the future. My compassionate approach engages curiosity, imagination and playfulness to untangle conflicts and gain fresh perspective on self, issues and relationships.
020 4538 5406 View 020 4538 5406
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Nikki Holdaway
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Esher KT10
When life is stressful and we find ourselves in pain, therapy can be a safe way to explore what is happening. I understand therapy as a mutual endeavour, working collaboratively together to help you understand and see yourself more clearly.
When life is stressful and we find ourselves in pain, therapy can be a safe way to explore what is happening. I understand therapy as a mutual endeavour, working collaboratively together to help you understand and see yourself more clearly.
020 3835 5756 View 020 3835 5756
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Liz Goldspink
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Esher KT10
When you know you can’t go on as you are, something needs to change. You might be feeling stuck in a relationship or a job which just isn’t working anymore. Maybe you’re faced with a big life transition and feel lost and uncertain about your future. All these issues show up as anxiety, depression, relationship problems and low self esteem. By raising your self-awareness I will help you explore these issues and find the root causes of the symptoms you're experiencing. For me, counselling is a vocation not a job and I am passionate about making a difference in people’s lives. I hope I can make a difference in yours.
When you know you can’t go on as you are, something needs to change. You might be feeling stuck in a relationship or a job which just isn’t working anymore. Maybe you’re faced with a big life transition and feel lost and uncertain about your future. All these issues show up as anxiety, depression, relationship problems and low self esteem. By raising your self-awareness I will help you explore these issues and find the root causes of the symptoms you're experiencing. For me, counselling is a vocation not a job and I am passionate about making a difference in people’s lives. I hope I can make a difference in yours.
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Stephen William Slatter
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Esher KT10
The terminology of therapy is often confusing, but the way I work means that: although whatever has brought you to therapy is manifesting itself in your day to day life, behaviours, thoughts and feelings, I believe that it's roots could be in your past, possibly as far back as early childhood. ​Perhaps you are feeling anxious, or are experiencing low mood. Maybe you have experienced a trauma, or are dealing with a lot of stress. You might have suffered a loss, or simply feel that something isn't quite right, and that you need some help and support.
The terminology of therapy is often confusing, but the way I work means that: although whatever has brought you to therapy is manifesting itself in your day to day life, behaviours, thoughts and feelings, I believe that it's roots could be in your past, possibly as far back as early childhood. ​Perhaps you are feeling anxious, or are experiencing low mood. Maybe you have experienced a trauma, or are dealing with a lot of stress. You might have suffered a loss, or simply feel that something isn't quite right, and that you need some help and support.
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Susie Evea
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Esher KT10
I support adult individuals with a range of concerns and struggles, some of the concerns I have been consulted on include difficulties in connecting and relating to others, experiences of loss, parenting, anxiety, isolation, feeling different, identity and depression.
I offer a confidential and thoughtful space to explore your feelings and your experiences. We work together to find meaning and to understand how you relate to yourself and others.
I support adult individuals with a range of concerns and struggles, some of the concerns I have been consulted on include difficulties in connecting and relating to others, experiences of loss, parenting, anxiety, isolation, feeling different, identity and depression.
I offer a confidential and thoughtful space to explore your feelings and your experiences. We work together to find meaning and to understand how you relate to yourself and others.
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Katharine Carpenter
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Esher KT10
Life can feel overwhelming at times, particularly in today’s world. I am a qualified, fully accredited and experienced therapist, here to work with you to achieve a positive outcome, whatever that may be for you. I aim to offer professional yet approachable support, taking the stigma out of therapy.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, particularly in today’s world. I am a qualified, fully accredited and experienced therapist, here to work with you to achieve a positive outcome, whatever that may be for you. I aim to offer professional yet approachable support, taking the stigma out of therapy.
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Neil Coburn
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Esher KT10
If you are looking for couples therapy, or if you are seeking individual counselling with a focus on relationships (whether intimate, work or family) I can potentially help. I trained to MA level at a leading centre for relationship therapy, and I'm one of very few men working in the field. When working with couples, my aim is to enable better conversations, build understanding, so that both partners can be more content. With individuals, it's often about having a conversation with yourself, and to consider how you are in relation to others.
If you are looking for couples therapy, or if you are seeking individual counselling with a focus on relationships (whether intimate, work or family) I can potentially help. I trained to MA level at a leading centre for relationship therapy, and I'm one of very few men working in the field. When working with couples, my aim is to enable better conversations, build understanding, so that both partners can be more content. With individuals, it's often about having a conversation with yourself, and to consider how you are in relation to others.
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Dr Lee Martin
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Online Only
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
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Dr Louisa Monzani
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Esher KT10
I provide a warm and friendly space for young people (and their parents/carers) to share their experiences so that together we can make sense of the difficulties and develop ways to overcome them and improve psychological well-being.
I have worked in Paediatrics & CAMHS for 20+ years and have vast experience of helping young people and parents/carers with a wide range of psychological difficulties. I am also experienced in treating adults with medical trauma. I typically draw on CBT, EMDR and ACT but incorporate ideas from other approaches and will consider the best fit for each client.
I provide a warm and friendly space for young people (and their parents/carers) to share their experiences so that together we can make sense of the difficulties and develop ways to overcome them and improve psychological well-being.
I have worked in Paediatrics & CAMHS for 20+ years and have vast experience of helping young people and parents/carers with a wide range of psychological difficulties. I am also experienced in treating adults with medical trauma. I typically draw on CBT, EMDR and ACT but incorporate ideas from other approaches and will consider the best fit for each client.
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Ann Cassidy
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Esher KT10
Hi, I'm Ann, an experienced, qualified and BACP accredited integrative psychotherapist and supervisor, working in Esher and Bank EC2. I offer an empathic, collaborative and individualised approach to therapy, to help you gain perspective and make sense of the challenges you are facing. As an integrative psychotherapist, I draw on different psycho-therapeutic models to find the best approach for you, to help equip you to move forward in life with greater ease, and give you greater potential for further positive change.
Hi, I'm Ann, an experienced, qualified and BACP accredited integrative psychotherapist and supervisor, working in Esher and Bank EC2. I offer an empathic, collaborative and individualised approach to therapy, to help you gain perspective and make sense of the challenges you are facing. As an integrative psychotherapist, I draw on different psycho-therapeutic models to find the best approach for you, to help equip you to move forward in life with greater ease, and give you greater potential for further positive change.
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Retrain Your Brain
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Esher KT10
Whether you are an adolescent, adult, sports person or busy executive there are some common themes that resonate with my clients: Finding it hard to make decisions - fear of getting it wrong and constantly worrying/Being less tolerant, irritable over things that wouldn't normally bother you/Needing to do everything perfectly and setting high unrealistic expectations resulting in procrastination/Never feeling you have done enough/A very critical internal voice - Exhausting! Most of my clients want to quieten that negative voice and find ways to achieve and live life without the gnawing anxiety and self-doubt
Whether you are an adolescent, adult, sports person or busy executive there are some common themes that resonate with my clients: Finding it hard to make decisions - fear of getting it wrong and constantly worrying/Being less tolerant, irritable over things that wouldn't normally bother you/Needing to do everything perfectly and setting high unrealistic expectations resulting in procrastination/Never feeling you have done enough/A very critical internal voice - Exhausting! Most of my clients want to quieten that negative voice and find ways to achieve and live life without the gnawing anxiety and self-doubt
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Emily Knivett
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I'm the psychotherapist behind Embracing Emotions based in Surbiton, Greater London. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy; I meet their high standards of proficiency, professionalism and ethical practice. I work online and in person in Surbiton. I help adults and adolescents with a variety of difficulties such as anxiety, depression, lack of assertiveness, self-esteem, and grief. I am neurodiversity affirming.
I'm the psychotherapist behind Embracing Emotions based in Surbiton, Greater London. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy; I meet their high standards of proficiency, professionalism and ethical practice. I work online and in person in Surbiton. I help adults and adolescents with a variety of difficulties such as anxiety, depression, lack of assertiveness, self-esteem, and grief. I am neurodiversity affirming.
020 3838 0678 View 020 3838 0678
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Victoria Kershaw
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Esher KT10
Taking the first step toward therapy can feel daunting, and finding the right support is important. I offer a warm, non-judgmental space where individuals and couples can explore thoughts, feelings, and relationship dynamics at a pace that feels right for them. As a humanistic psychotherapist, I work with individual adults and couples. I support people with anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, relationship difficulties, attachment issues, and low self-esteem, though my work is not limited to this list. Therapy can help you understand yourself, improve communication, and strengthen your relationships with yourself and others.
Taking the first step toward therapy can feel daunting, and finding the right support is important. I offer a warm, non-judgmental space where individuals and couples can explore thoughts, feelings, and relationship dynamics at a pace that feels right for them. As a humanistic psychotherapist, I work with individual adults and couples. I support people with anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, relationship difficulties, attachment issues, and low self-esteem, though my work is not limited to this list. Therapy can help you understand yourself, improve communication, and strengthen your relationships with yourself and others.
01748 902134 View 01748 902134
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Barbara Cashman
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
If you are having difficulties in your relationship with your partner or your family, if you are at a crossroad where you need to reassess your choices, do not hesitate to contact me. I have more than 14 years experience in Relationship counselling, and in supporting clients through their sex and porn addiction journey. I offer a warm friendly and confidential approach face to face or online. Counselling in French available
If you are having difficulties in your relationship with your partner or your family, if you are at a crossroad where you need to reassess your choices, do not hesitate to contact me. I have more than 14 years experience in Relationship counselling, and in supporting clients through their sex and porn addiction journey. I offer a warm friendly and confidential approach face to face or online. Counselling in French available
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Denis Grace
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
Therapy can be extremely daunting. Through a compassionate and empathic listening, I aim to enable us to explore your patterns and concerns at a safe pace. I use a mind/body, somatic understanding approach, linking the held-in emotions become processed, and how adaptations have helped you, but no longer serve you any more. I specialise in working with relational difficulties and overall sense of self worth. Shame will impact how we feel about ourselves. Through attachment we can see anxiety,lolossand often core beliefs and unmet needs of childhood. From these areas, we experience the adaptations needed to survive.
Therapy can be extremely daunting. Through a compassionate and empathic listening, I aim to enable us to explore your patterns and concerns at a safe pace. I use a mind/body, somatic understanding approach, linking the held-in emotions become processed, and how adaptations have helped you, but no longer serve you any more. I specialise in working with relational difficulties and overall sense of self worth. Shame will impact how we feel about ourselves. Through attachment we can see anxiety,lolossand often core beliefs and unmet needs of childhood. From these areas, we experience the adaptations needed to survive.
020 3816 3561 View 020 3816 3561
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Dr Mihaela Zdrali
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
Serves Area
Today, more and more people are faced with overwhelming stress, in their relationships, at work and in their personal circumstances. However more and more people are becoming aware and motivated to take steps towards a more fulfilled and happy life. If you feel worried or depressed in your present situation and/or stuck and unhappy in your relationship, talking to a therapist may be the best choice you make. Therapy offers a safe and confidential space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings, get support, understanding and professional guidance towards a resolution and peace of mind.
Today, more and more people are faced with overwhelming stress, in their relationships, at work and in their personal circumstances. However more and more people are becoming aware and motivated to take steps towards a more fulfilled and happy life. If you feel worried or depressed in your present situation and/or stuck and unhappy in your relationship, talking to a therapist may be the best choice you make. Therapy offers a safe and confidential space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings, get support, understanding and professional guidance towards a resolution and peace of mind.
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Alexandra Lee Therapy, BA(Hons), FdSc, MBACP
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Life can be a struggle challenging and confusing. Sometimes it can be difficult to talk openly to the people in your life. As an experienced psychotherapist I provide a safe, confidential space to explore whatever is on your mind. I can support you in finding your way through the difficulties you’re experiencing, or have experienced in the past, in a way that feels right for you, and at a pace that feels comfortable. We can work together to make sense of what you’re thinking, feeling and going through, allowing you to develop a sense of healing, establish goals and grow towards them, and gain a greater understanding of yourself.
Life can be a struggle challenging and confusing. Sometimes it can be difficult to talk openly to the people in your life. As an experienced psychotherapist I provide a safe, confidential space to explore whatever is on your mind. I can support you in finding your way through the difficulties you’re experiencing, or have experienced in the past, in a way that feels right for you, and at a pace that feels comfortable. We can work together to make sense of what you’re thinking, feeling and going through, allowing you to develop a sense of healing, establish goals and grow towards them, and gain a greater understanding of yourself.
020 4538 3754 View 020 4538 3754
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Dr Ishpal Kharay
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
My name is Ishpal and I am a Senior Counselling Psychologist and I offer individual and couple therapy. I have specialist experience in sexual health and HIV, as well as other long term health conditions, and sexual difficulties, depression and anxiety. I am an anti-racist psychologist and an active ally of the LGBTQ+ communities. I offer psychological therapy for individuals and couples and I work using an integrative approach, drawing on a number of theories, including: humanistic, psychodynamic, cognitive behavioural, narrative, and psychosexual therapies.
My name is Ishpal and I am a Senior Counselling Psychologist and I offer individual and couple therapy. I have specialist experience in sexual health and HIV, as well as other long term health conditions, and sexual difficulties, depression and anxiety. I am an anti-racist psychologist and an active ally of the LGBTQ+ communities. I offer psychological therapy for individuals and couples and I work using an integrative approach, drawing on a number of theories, including: humanistic, psychodynamic, cognitive behavioural, narrative, and psychosexual therapies.
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Jayne Coates
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Whether you are in a transitional period of life, such as considering a career change, retirement, empty nesting, coming to terms with the loss of a loved one, trying to re-discover yourself after a relationship break down, navigating life as a single parent, or maybe you are feeling stuck and want to make some changes.
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor, tailoring my use of different models based on the individuals needs. I have experience working with adults as well as young people, helping them work through anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, self harm, bereavement, family issues etc.
Whether you are in a transitional period of life, such as considering a career change, retirement, empty nesting, coming to terms with the loss of a loved one, trying to re-discover yourself after a relationship break down, navigating life as a single parent, or maybe you are feeling stuck and want to make some changes.
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor, tailoring my use of different models based on the individuals needs. I have experience working with adults as well as young people, helping them work through anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, self harm, bereavement, family issues etc.
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Larissa Leiser
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Welcome! If you are here, you are obviously thinking counselling might be a good idea. I know all too well browsing through all those profiles can be overwhelming. How do you choose a therapist? I have been there myself - so hard! Particularly when we are not in the best place. Feeling anxious and overwhelmed with too much going on... trying to move forward after someone's death ... or just feeling like life has caught up and everything is just bubbling up. I have worked with all these situations and more. You may or may not know what you want out of therapy - but we can figure it out together. Worth a try!
Welcome! If you are here, you are obviously thinking counselling might be a good idea. I know all too well browsing through all those profiles can be overwhelming. How do you choose a therapist? I have been there myself - so hard! Particularly when we are not in the best place. Feeling anxious and overwhelmed with too much going on... trying to move forward after someone's death ... or just feeling like life has caught up and everything is just bubbling up. I have worked with all these situations and more. You may or may not know what you want out of therapy - but we can figure it out together. Worth a try!
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Parenting Counsellors
What does therapy for parenting look like?
Therapists may work with parents individually, together, or include the whole family to find solutions for the problems a parent faces. Many parent-based therapies work on a parent’s relationship with their children, problem-solving within the family, and analysis of family dynamics. Therapy conducted remotely by video may be helpful in allowing a therapist to observe how families interact in their own homes.

When should a parent seek therapy?
When behavioral problems begin to disrupt the healthy functioning of a family, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If parents find that children are acting out in school, have started using drugs or alcohol, have developed eating disorders, or other similar red flags, a therapist may be able to help.

How long does therapy take for parenting problems?
Depending on the severity of a family’s challenges and the type of treatment utilized, therapy for parenting can last from weeks to months. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a pragmatic therapy type that can be brief, most often ranging from between 5 and 20 sessions. Structural family therapy, which inspects family dynamics, often takes several months. Parent-child interaction therapy is typically shorter-term, lasting between 10 and 20 sessions. For any therapy, the duration will depend on the progress made and results realized.

Can therapy help parents dealing with burnout or stress?
Parenting is difficult. Parents may dismiss or conceal feelings of exhaustion, overwhelm, or escape ideation—imagining withdrawing from their parental obligations altogether. but left unattended, these feelings can have negative effects on the whole family. A therapist can help parents work on the skills they might need to better cope with the burdens of parenting and help them be the best parents they can be.