Acceptance and Commitment (ACT) Counselling in Esher

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Retrain Your Brain
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Esher KT10
Whether you are an adolescent, adult, sports person or busy executive there are some common themes that resonate with my clients: Finding it hard to make decisions - fear of getting it wrong and constantly worrying/Being less tolerant, irritable over things that wouldn't normally bother you/Needing to do everything perfectly and setting high unrealistic expectations resulting in procrastination/Never feeling you have done enough/A very critical internal voice - Exhausting! Most of my clients want to quieten that negative voice and find ways to achieve and live life without the gnawing anxiety and self-doubt
Whether you are an adolescent, adult, sports person or busy executive there are some common themes that resonate with my clients: Finding it hard to make decisions - fear of getting it wrong and constantly worrying/Being less tolerant, irritable over things that wouldn't normally bother you/Needing to do everything perfectly and setting high unrealistic expectations resulting in procrastination/Never feeling you have done enough/A very critical internal voice - Exhausting! Most of my clients want to quieten that negative voice and find ways to achieve and live life without the gnawing anxiety and self-doubt
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Dr Louisa Monzani
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Esher KT10
I typically draw on CBT, EMDR and ACT but incorporate ideas from other approaches and will consider the best fit for each client.
I am a Consultant Clinical Psychologist and am passionate about working with children & young people who are experiencing mental health or emotional difficulties. Perhaps you are concerned about changes in a young person’s behaviour or mood, such as increased worry, sadness, stress or anger? They may be facing challenges at home or school, with a medical condition, or have had a scary experience. I provide a warm and friendly space for young people (and their parents/carers) to share their experiences so that together we can make sense of the difficulties and develop ways to overcome them and improve psychological well-being.
I typically draw on CBT, EMDR and ACT but incorporate ideas from other approaches and will consider the best fit for each client.
I am a Consultant Clinical Psychologist and am passionate about working with children & young people who are experiencing mental health or emotional difficulties. Perhaps you are concerned about changes in a young person’s behaviour or mood, such as increased worry, sadness, stress or anger? They may be facing challenges at home or school, with a medical condition, or have had a scary experience. I provide a warm and friendly space for young people (and their parents/carers) to share their experiences so that together we can make sense of the difficulties and develop ways to overcome them and improve psychological well-being.
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Dr Lee Martin
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Online Only
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
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Emma Cotterill
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Esher KT10
I use an individualised integrative therapy approach, drawing on CBT, ACT, CFT, Mindfulness, EMDR.
I work with people to help them have the space and support to tell their story, to understand their life and their difficulties and to help explore ways to move forward , overcoming difficulties, finding ways to cope with life's challenges and to move toward a life they want to live. The sessions I offer are supportive, active, empowering.
I use an individualised integrative therapy approach, drawing on CBT, ACT, CFT, Mindfulness, EMDR.
I work with people to help them have the space and support to tell their story, to understand their life and their difficulties and to help explore ways to move forward , overcoming difficulties, finding ways to cope with life's challenges and to move toward a life they want to live. The sessions I offer are supportive, active, empowering.
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Ann Cassidy
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Esher KT10
Hi, I'm Ann, an experienced, qualified and BACP accredited integrative psychotherapist and supervisor, working in Esher and Bank EC2. I offer an empathic, collaborative and individualised approach to therapy, to help you gain perspective and make sense of the challenges you are facing. As an integrative psychotherapist, I draw on different psycho-therapeutic models to find the best approach for you, to help equip you to move forward in life with greater ease, and give you greater potential for further positive change.
Hi, I'm Ann, an experienced, qualified and BACP accredited integrative psychotherapist and supervisor, working in Esher and Bank EC2. I offer an empathic, collaborative and individualised approach to therapy, to help you gain perspective and make sense of the challenges you are facing. As an integrative psychotherapist, I draw on different psycho-therapeutic models to find the best approach for you, to help equip you to move forward in life with greater ease, and give you greater potential for further positive change.
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Dr Lee Martin
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Online Only
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
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Harris Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I do work integratively meaning we would work together to find what works best for you and use aspects of other treatment types, such as CBT, ACT or mindfulness if you thought it would benefit you.
I could tell you at length how I practice or what therapy means to me. However, the truth is that this is your therapy, your counselling. Your journey matters. I will hold the space for you to drive the work, and I will simply help navigate. I will support you and challenge you through the struggles you face, and we will work together during our time to reach your destination. It takes a lot to decide you need help or want to talk to someone and so the fact you are looking at this website is a positive step that not everyone feels they can take. Talking is hard, looking for help is brave, just keep going.
I do work integratively meaning we would work together to find what works best for you and use aspects of other treatment types, such as CBT, ACT or mindfulness if you thought it would benefit you.
I could tell you at length how I practice or what therapy means to me. However, the truth is that this is your therapy, your counselling. Your journey matters. I will hold the space for you to drive the work, and I will simply help navigate. I will support you and challenge you through the struggles you face, and we will work together during our time to reach your destination. It takes a lot to decide you need help or want to talk to someone and so the fact you are looking at this website is a positive step that not everyone feels they can take. Talking is hard, looking for help is brave, just keep going.
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Katarina Anderson
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, confusing, or lonely - even when things appear fine on the surface. If you’re experiencing stress, anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties or feeling stuck, I can help you to slow down and make sense of what you’re going through. I aim to provide a safe, confidential space where you can explore the parts of yourself that may feel painful, confusing, or difficult to put into words. Being able to talk openly and feel truly heard can often be the first step towards meaningful change. I will be alongside you, offering support and understanding at a pace that feels right for you.
Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, confusing, or lonely - even when things appear fine on the surface. If you’re experiencing stress, anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties or feeling stuck, I can help you to slow down and make sense of what you’re going through. I aim to provide a safe, confidential space where you can explore the parts of yourself that may feel painful, confusing, or difficult to put into words. Being able to talk openly and feel truly heard can often be the first step towards meaningful change. I will be alongside you, offering support and understanding at a pace that feels right for you.
020 3697 5349 View 020 3697 5349
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Dr Mihaela Zdrali
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
Serves Area
Today, more and more people are faced with overwhelming stress, in their relationships, at work and in their personal circumstances. However more and more people are becoming aware and motivated to take steps towards a more fulfilled and happy life. If you feel worried or depressed in your present situation and/or stuck and unhappy in your relationship, talking to a therapist may be the best choice you make. Therapy offers a safe and confidential space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings, get support, understanding and professional guidance towards a resolution and peace of mind.
Today, more and more people are faced with overwhelming stress, in their relationships, at work and in their personal circumstances. However more and more people are becoming aware and motivated to take steps towards a more fulfilled and happy life. If you feel worried or depressed in your present situation and/or stuck and unhappy in your relationship, talking to a therapist may be the best choice you make. Therapy offers a safe and confidential space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings, get support, understanding and professional guidance towards a resolution and peace of mind.
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Charlotte Sharpe
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or burnt out? Do you feel like you keep repeating the same patterns and don't understand why? I can help. I provide collaborative, client-led therapy for working through life’s challenges, changes, losses, and relationships.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or burnt out? Do you feel like you keep repeating the same patterns and don't understand why? I can help. I provide collaborative, client-led therapy for working through life’s challenges, changes, losses, and relationships.
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Claudia Maschi
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
We all wish for our children to thrive and live life to their full potential. Difficulties however may arise in life which may lead to children/teenagers struggling with day-to-day, experiencing overwhelm and worries they are unable to manage. This may be due to a traumatic event, changes within the family unit, loss of a loved, challenges due to being neurodivergent and/or the impact of the demands of school and the environment. At times it may be a combination of challenges which even the child or caregiver may not understand the root of. Counselling for the child or adolescent or specialist support for the parent can help.
We all wish for our children to thrive and live life to their full potential. Difficulties however may arise in life which may lead to children/teenagers struggling with day-to-day, experiencing overwhelm and worries they are unable to manage. This may be due to a traumatic event, changes within the family unit, loss of a loved, challenges due to being neurodivergent and/or the impact of the demands of school and the environment. At times it may be a combination of challenges which even the child or caregiver may not understand the root of. Counselling for the child or adolescent or specialist support for the parent can help.
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Kingston Psychology Clinic
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am trained in a diverse range of therapeutic models including Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ( ACT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) and EMDR.
Hello and welcome to my page! My name is Dr Sally Field and I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist with seventeen years experience and the founder of Kingston Psychology Clinic. I am registered with the Health Care Professions Council (HCPC) and also fully accredited by the British Association of Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies (BABCP). Having trained and worked in the NHS for over ten years, as a senior Clinical Psychologist and Department Lead, I have been running a private practice serving the Kingston Upon Thames borough since 2013.
I am trained in a diverse range of therapeutic models including Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ( ACT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) and EMDR.
Hello and welcome to my page! My name is Dr Sally Field and I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist with seventeen years experience and the founder of Kingston Psychology Clinic. I am registered with the Health Care Professions Council (HCPC) and also fully accredited by the British Association of Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies (BABCP). Having trained and worked in the NHS for over ten years, as a senior Clinical Psychologist and Department Lead, I have been running a private practice serving the Kingston Upon Thames borough since 2013.
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Heather Dyson
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
There are many reasons why individuals choose to access therapy and it can be a daunting, sometimes painful, step. Please be assured that, with over a decade of experience, I offer an even-handed yet supportive approach in a safe, confidential setting. If you are feeling disconnected from yourself and those around you, are struggling to manage feelings of anxiety, are managing your distress through strategies such as alcohol, illegal substances, or self-harming behaviours, have experienced a trauma, or witnessed a traumatic event, I can help.
There are many reasons why individuals choose to access therapy and it can be a daunting, sometimes painful, step. Please be assured that, with over a decade of experience, I offer an even-handed yet supportive approach in a safe, confidential setting. If you are feeling disconnected from yourself and those around you, are struggling to manage feelings of anxiety, are managing your distress through strategies such as alcohol, illegal substances, or self-harming behaviours, have experienced a trauma, or witnessed a traumatic event, I can help.
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Dr Sarah Hamlyn-Wright
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
Most of us, at some time or another, will experience difficulties with our thoughts, feelings, behaviour or relationships. Some of us might experience physical symptoms for which our GP can find no organic cause. Almost all of us want to get the most out of life. This is where I can help. I am a Senior Consultant Counselling Psychologist Specialising in Psychotherapy. I am Chartered by the British Psychological Society (BPS) and Registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC).
Most of us, at some time or another, will experience difficulties with our thoughts, feelings, behaviour or relationships. Some of us might experience physical symptoms for which our GP can find no organic cause. Almost all of us want to get the most out of life. This is where I can help. I am a Senior Consultant Counselling Psychologist Specialising in Psychotherapy. I am Chartered by the British Psychological Society (BPS) and Registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC).
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Paula Bosha
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
With over 18 years of experience in mental health, I am a BABCP Accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist, Psychological Wellbeing Practitioner and Clinical Supervisor. I have worked extensively across NHS - IAPT services and Private Mental Health settings, providing evidence-based CBT to adults, children and adolescents. My work is compassionate, professional and firmly grounded in NICE guidelines, offering structured and effective CBT therapy tailored to individual needs. I work with clients to build practical coping strategies, enhance resilience and create sustainable improvements in their daily wellbeing.
With over 18 years of experience in mental health, I am a BABCP Accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist, Psychological Wellbeing Practitioner and Clinical Supervisor. I have worked extensively across NHS - IAPT services and Private Mental Health settings, providing evidence-based CBT to adults, children and adolescents. My work is compassionate, professional and firmly grounded in NICE guidelines, offering structured and effective CBT therapy tailored to individual needs. I work with clients to build practical coping strategies, enhance resilience and create sustainable improvements in their daily wellbeing.
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Dr Louise Banham
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I'm trained in many models including CBT, ACT, brief systemic and psychodynamic, compassion focused and emotion-focused therapies.
I've been a Clinical Psychologist for 26 years and have worked across the NHS, Charity and Corporate sectors. My specialty is helping clients experiencing relationship difficulties, childhood trauma and those managing transitional points, eg becoming a parent, career change, divorce, menopause, health problems, disability and bereavement. I provide evidence-based, tailored psychological interventions to individuals aged 16+ using a variety of therapeutic models.
I'm trained in many models including CBT, ACT, brief systemic and psychodynamic, compassion focused and emotion-focused therapies.
I've been a Clinical Psychologist for 26 years and have worked across the NHS, Charity and Corporate sectors. My specialty is helping clients experiencing relationship difficulties, childhood trauma and those managing transitional points, eg becoming a parent, career change, divorce, menopause, health problems, disability and bereavement. I provide evidence-based, tailored psychological interventions to individuals aged 16+ using a variety of therapeutic models.
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Joanna Burbury
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  Therapeutically I primarily draw on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and EMDR after seeing the benefits of these therapies on my own life and those I have worked with.
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Acceptance and Commitment (ACT) Counsellors
How does acceptance and commitment therapy work?
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy encourages a person to listen to their self-talk. A person’s inner dialog can be indicative of how they treat themselves. ACT also encourages self-compassion; this can lead to a better understanding of negative thought patterns and emotional states. This understanding can then lead the individual to needed behavior change.

What are the goals of acceptance and commitment therapy?
The goal of acceptance and commitment is to expand a person’s psychological flexibility, a trait that encourages an individual to live in the present moment and to accept all their thoughts, feelings, and emotions, even ones that are difficult such as sadness and anxiety. In ACT, this acceptance is congruent with the individual’s values and beliefs.

Does acceptance and commitment therapy work for depression?
Acceptance and commitment therapy is effective for depression because it allows the individual to view their discomfort and suffering differently. Depressive feelings about relationship heartaches, for example, are a part of life. A despondent person learns to let go of their struggles and instead view their painful thoughts and feelings with compassion. This will lead the individual toward positive change.

How long are people typically in acceptance and commitment therapy?
A typical acceptance and commitment therapy session is 50 minutes long with one session per week. Treatment for common problems such as anxiety, depression, or relationship difficulties can last between eight weeks to four months. However, more severe cases may require more than one session a week and/or a longer time frame for treatment.