Divorce Counselling in Erith

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Nia Jane
Verified Verified
Online Only
I tend to be a good fit therapeutically for adults and couples who want to understand and target their sexual and relationship challenges clearly, and are motivated to gain insight into some of the factors that have led up to their current difficulties. You may be experiencing sexual function issues such as desire discrepancy, performance anxiety, pain, orgasm difficulties or erectile dysfunction. There may also be relational conflict or betrayal trauma. Some of my clients simply want to explore kink, non-monogamy, or other sexual interests and map out their erotic blueprint and sexuality in a safe, supported way.
I tend to be a good fit therapeutically for adults and couples who want to understand and target their sexual and relationship challenges clearly, and are motivated to gain insight into some of the factors that have led up to their current difficulties. You may be experiencing sexual function issues such as desire discrepancy, performance anxiety, pain, orgasm difficulties or erectile dysfunction. There may also be relational conflict or betrayal trauma. Some of my clients simply want to explore kink, non-monogamy, or other sexual interests and map out their erotic blueprint and sexuality in a safe, supported way.
01322 936998 View 01322 936998
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Sonja H. R. Nemecek
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
Today each of us has to face tremendous stress, financial and personal problems, and an unclear future for us and our loved ones. Whether as a business owner or as a parent, as an artist, or as an employee with too much responsibility, you are up against severe challenges. Talking to a trained and impartial specialist about your worries and your personal and professional situation can permanently improve your well-being.
Today each of us has to face tremendous stress, financial and personal problems, and an unclear future for us and our loved ones. Whether as a business owner or as a parent, as an artist, or as an employee with too much responsibility, you are up against severe challenges. Talking to a trained and impartial specialist about your worries and your personal and professional situation can permanently improve your well-being.
01322 949401 View 01322 949401
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Helen McNally
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hi my name is Helen, I am passionate about counselling and the positive change it can bring. Together we can explore difficulties and challenges you may be experiencing in a safe, supportive, non-judgemental, confidential way. My training allows me to access different interventions which can be tailored to benefit and support each unique client. Sharing your feelings may be the first step. My aim is to help gain emotional strength to affect change in your life.
Hi my name is Helen, I am passionate about counselling and the positive change it can bring. Together we can explore difficulties and challenges you may be experiencing in a safe, supportive, non-judgemental, confidential way. My training allows me to access different interventions which can be tailored to benefit and support each unique client. Sharing your feelings may be the first step. My aim is to help gain emotional strength to affect change in your life.
01322 923877 View 01322 923877
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M Ozlem Kaldi
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I am here to support clients who are experiencing challenging emotions and situations, such as anxiety disorders, depression, bereavement, or feeling trapped in repetitive relationship patterns. Our attachment styles are formed from a young age, and as we grow older, we may find ourselves stuck in these same patterns. I have helped clients confront their attachment fears that affect their personal relationships. Additionally, I have worked with individuals who struggle with self-harm and suicidal thoughts, supporting them as they navigate their feelings of emptiness.
I am here to support clients who are experiencing challenging emotions and situations, such as anxiety disorders, depression, bereavement, or feeling trapped in repetitive relationship patterns. Our attachment styles are formed from a young age, and as we grow older, we may find ourselves stuck in these same patterns. I have helped clients confront their attachment fears that affect their personal relationships. Additionally, I have worked with individuals who struggle with self-harm and suicidal thoughts, supporting them as they navigate their feelings of emptiness.
01322 923374 View 01322 923374
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Barbara Ash
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a qualified counsellor with 25 years experience working in GP surgeries and 10 years in private practice. I embrace the integrative approach meaning that I draw on a range of therapeutic techniques to suit the individual. Counselling can be a short or long term intervention and will help to explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe place. Many different things can bring you to counselling and I work with a wide range of issues. I aim to provide a compassionate, empathetic but down to earth approach which takes account of personal history and yet be focused and goal orientated.
I am a qualified counsellor with 25 years experience working in GP surgeries and 10 years in private practice. I embrace the integrative approach meaning that I draw on a range of therapeutic techniques to suit the individual. Counselling can be a short or long term intervention and will help to explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe place. Many different things can bring you to counselling and I work with a wide range of issues. I aim to provide a compassionate, empathetic but down to earth approach which takes account of personal history and yet be focused and goal orientated.
01322 252532 View 01322 252532

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Maria Hampton
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
You may be feeling unheard, disconnected, or anxious in your relationship. wondering how things got here and unsure how to move forward. Maybe there’s been a breakdown of trust, a repeating pattern, or emotional distance that’s hard to bridge. Whether you’re an individual or a couple, you’re longing for clarity, connection, and a calmer space to explore your relationship. If that sounds like you, I can help.
You may be feeling unheard, disconnected, or anxious in your relationship. wondering how things got here and unsure how to move forward. Maybe there’s been a breakdown of trust, a repeating pattern, or emotional distance that’s hard to bridge. Whether you’re an individual or a couple, you’re longing for clarity, connection, and a calmer space to explore your relationship. If that sounds like you, I can help.
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Jay Williams
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
London W14
You might find yourself in pain. Perhaps there is a specific loss, trauma, something that hurts you and makes you want to seek out help. Or perhaps you are looking to address concerns, thoughts or emotions that have caused distress for a while. Maybe you just need help understanding something. I offer a non-judgmental, safe and containing space where the relationship is at the core of all of what we do. Together we will talk, find out what you are looking to achieve, and then we explore your inner world and past together seeking insight that often can help people with emotional growth and help provide answers sought out for so long
You might find yourself in pain. Perhaps there is a specific loss, trauma, something that hurts you and makes you want to seek out help. Or perhaps you are looking to address concerns, thoughts or emotions that have caused distress for a while. Maybe you just need help understanding something. I offer a non-judgmental, safe and containing space where the relationship is at the core of all of what we do. Together we will talk, find out what you are looking to achieve, and then we explore your inner world and past together seeking insight that often can help people with emotional growth and help provide answers sought out for so long
020 3835 5469 View 020 3835 5469
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Olga Gelfman-Gratwick
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Online Only
Where do you start with addressing your problems and how do you know how to choose the right therapist? The most important factor is the relationship with the therapist we choose. We have to feel safe and confident that we are in good hands in which we can share most private thoughts and feelings. I am a psychoanalytical psychotherapist in private practice based in Kingston, Surrey, I also work and teach psychotherapy students in the Bowlby Centre (Center for attachment based Psychoanalytical Psychotherapy ) in London. Additionally I am a member of The International Psychotherapy Group and Forum for independent psychotherapists.
Where do you start with addressing your problems and how do you know how to choose the right therapist? The most important factor is the relationship with the therapist we choose. We have to feel safe and confident that we are in good hands in which we can share most private thoughts and feelings. I am a psychoanalytical psychotherapist in private practice based in Kingston, Surrey, I also work and teach psychotherapy students in the Bowlby Centre (Center for attachment based Psychoanalytical Psychotherapy ) in London. Additionally I am a member of The International Psychotherapy Group and Forum for independent psychotherapists.
020 3893 2547 View 020 3893 2547
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Nicole Henry
Counsellor, BACP
Online Only
I help children, teens and adults feel more settled, confident and connected. With young people, I use creative and relational approaches to build emotional awareness and resilience. For adults, especially teachers and caregivers, I offer space to manage stress, burnout and identity shifts. My approach is calm, compassionate and focused on helping you (or your child) feel heard and supported. My clients are often capable people who feel overwhelmed or disconnected. For children and teens, it’s anxiety, school stress or confidence struggles. For adults, it’s burnout, boundaries and finding balance again.
I help children, teens and adults feel more settled, confident and connected. With young people, I use creative and relational approaches to build emotional awareness and resilience. For adults, especially teachers and caregivers, I offer space to manage stress, burnout and identity shifts. My approach is calm, compassionate and focused on helping you (or your child) feel heard and supported. My clients are often capable people who feel overwhelmed or disconnected. For children and teens, it’s anxiety, school stress or confidence struggles. For adults, it’s burnout, boundaries and finding balance again.
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Gabriel Dixon
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I have a special interest in helping people who struggle in their relationships, whether that is after a betrayal or infidelity or having trouble communicating and getting your needs met, or dealing with a dramatic life change, such as the end of a relationship or divorce.
My manner has been described as deeply empathetic and compassionate. I offer a safe, accepting non-judgemental and grounded space to help support you focus on what you need in our sessions. I have experience of working with a wide range of clients and issues and of working with long term clients as well as short time focused work.
I have a special interest in helping people who struggle in their relationships, whether that is after a betrayal or infidelity or having trouble communicating and getting your needs met, or dealing with a dramatic life change, such as the end of a relationship or divorce.
My manner has been described as deeply empathetic and compassionate. I offer a safe, accepting non-judgemental and grounded space to help support you focus on what you need in our sessions. I have experience of working with a wide range of clients and issues and of working with long term clients as well as short time focused work.
020 4538 0009 View 020 4538 0009
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Counselling With Helen
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Being a later in life diagnosed Autistic/ADHD counsellor, I offer genuine empathy & understanding if you're overwhelmed, feel isolated or struggling with life - I've been there too. Are you feeling misunderstood, lost or stuck? Burntout? Like you don't fit in & nobody really "gets you?" Are you struggling with emotional dysregulation, having relationship difficulties, or debilitated by PMDD or Menopause? Maybe overwhelmed by diagnosis thoughts or recently diagnosed & left thinking "now what?" During our sessions, change is absolutely possible. I have experience of Autism & ADHD from both sides of the fence: professional & personal.
Being a later in life diagnosed Autistic/ADHD counsellor, I offer genuine empathy & understanding if you're overwhelmed, feel isolated or struggling with life - I've been there too. Are you feeling misunderstood, lost or stuck? Burntout? Like you don't fit in & nobody really "gets you?" Are you struggling with emotional dysregulation, having relationship difficulties, or debilitated by PMDD or Menopause? Maybe overwhelmed by diagnosis thoughts or recently diagnosed & left thinking "now what?" During our sessions, change is absolutely possible. I have experience of Autism & ADHD from both sides of the fence: professional & personal.
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Rachel Spence
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
0113 467 9116 View 0113 467 9116
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Jane Cilliers
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Are you experiencing difficulties in your life such as a divorce, separation, or bereavement?
I am human, like you, navigating life's challenges. I am a somatically informed integrative counsellor offering a warm, non-judgmental space to explore client issues. I have worked with people in different professional capacities for many years and I am interested in assisting clients make sense of their feelings and behaviours so as to enable change.
Are you experiencing difficulties in your life such as a divorce, separation, or bereavement?
I am human, like you, navigating life's challenges. I am a somatically informed integrative counsellor offering a warm, non-judgmental space to explore client issues. I have worked with people in different professional capacities for many years and I am interested in assisting clients make sense of their feelings and behaviours so as to enable change.
020 3728 8311 View 020 3728 8311
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Heathwell Blackheath
Counsellor, MA, BACP
1 Endorsed
London SE3
Heathwell Therapies is a team of highly experienced, psychotherapists, counsellors and psychologists based in Blackheath Village, SE London and online. We work with adults, couples, and adolescents, offering expert support in ADHD, relational trauma, couples and relationship therapy, psychosexual therapy, and women’s and men’s mental health. Our team combines extensive clinical experience with evidence-based and humanistic approaches, providing a professional, warm, and confidential environment where clients can explore challenges and achieve meaningful, lasting change.
Heathwell Therapies is a team of highly experienced, psychotherapists, counsellors and psychologists based in Blackheath Village, SE London and online. We work with adults, couples, and adolescents, offering expert support in ADHD, relational trauma, couples and relationship therapy, psychosexual therapy, and women’s and men’s mental health. Our team combines extensive clinical experience with evidence-based and humanistic approaches, providing a professional, warm, and confidential environment where clients can explore challenges and achieve meaningful, lasting change.
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Francesca Harden
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
London W6
I am an experienced relationship therapist, supporting a wide range of couples and individuals to address their challenges and repair, grow and thrive. My core psychodynamic approach helps us understand patterns of behaviour based on past experiences and relationships. This unlocks valuable insight into why your interactions might feel repetitive or ‘stuck’, leading to greater understanding and empathy. I also use active strategies in the here-and-now to resolve conflict and improve communication. We will consider pre-existing strengths and resilience in your relationship, and use these to help you move forwards more positively.
I am an experienced relationship therapist, supporting a wide range of couples and individuals to address their challenges and repair, grow and thrive. My core psychodynamic approach helps us understand patterns of behaviour based on past experiences and relationships. This unlocks valuable insight into why your interactions might feel repetitive or ‘stuck’, leading to greater understanding and empathy. I also use active strategies in the here-and-now to resolve conflict and improve communication. We will consider pre-existing strengths and resilience in your relationship, and use these to help you move forwards more positively.
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Mignon Maria Johnson
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Online Only
A calm online space for exhausted professional women to put it all down and come back to themselves. You hold everything together. You're the one who remembers, plans, anticipates and smooths things over — competent on the outside, quietly exhausted underneath. The emotional labour rarely stops, and somewhere along the way you stopped feeling like yourself. Often there's more underneath — old relationship patterns, a difficult or controlling past, a nervous system stuck on high alert. You don't need to be fixed. You need somewhere safe to finally set it down, and a steady hand to help you find your way back.
A calm online space for exhausted professional women to put it all down and come back to themselves. You hold everything together. You're the one who remembers, plans, anticipates and smooths things over — competent on the outside, quietly exhausted underneath. The emotional labour rarely stops, and somewhere along the way you stopped feeling like yourself. Often there's more underneath — old relationship patterns, a difficult or controlling past, a nervous system stuck on high alert. You don't need to be fixed. You need somewhere safe to finally set it down, and a steady hand to help you find your way back.
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Alexandra Tarr
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
London SW1W
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Maclynn
Psychologist, MSc, CPsychol
2 Endorsed
London W1J
Waitlist for new clients
Maclynn is an international award winning matchmaking agency and dating consultancy service. Our clients are successful men and women who seek a compatible long term partner and do not find dating apps an effective way of finding a partner. We work with clients who are based in the UK or internationally - helping them to find a compatible, long term partner, through our matchmaking and date coaching services.
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Jacqueline Ready
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Online Only
I'm a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with a background in research psychology. I have over 20 years working with young adults, entrepreneurs, athletes and individuals in private practice. I offer psychological therapy that responds to each person's unique needs and goals. We will meet online, remain structured but flexible in a way that suits a modern lifestyle. I work with trauma but also work with all kinds of psychological and relational issues. I'm trained in a range of evidence-based therapies, so you can expect tangible results.
I'm a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with a background in research psychology. I have over 20 years working with young adults, entrepreneurs, athletes and individuals in private practice. I offer psychological therapy that responds to each person's unique needs and goals. We will meet online, remain structured but flexible in a way that suits a modern lifestyle. I work with trauma but also work with all kinds of psychological and relational issues. I'm trained in a range of evidence-based therapies, so you can expect tangible results.
020 4634 1877 View 020 4634 1877
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Zara N
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
London E10
I provide support with an extensive range of issues including: bereavement, depression, stress, anxiety, employee assistance, relationships, self harm and suicide, marital issues, divorce, mental health disorders, work related issues, abuse, identity, parenthood, menopause and life challenges.
My expertise enables me to work in an empathetic, culturally and gender sensitive way, in order to provide a unique service that fills a gap in the profession. I work with a diverse range of clients including individuals, couples and families. I have unique interpersonal skills and I also speak fluent Urdu and Punjabi.
I provide support with an extensive range of issues including: bereavement, depression, stress, anxiety, employee assistance, relationships, self harm and suicide, marital issues, divorce, mental health disorders, work related issues, abuse, identity, parenthood, menopause and life challenges.
My expertise enables me to work in an empathetic, culturally and gender sensitive way, in order to provide a unique service that fills a gap in the profession. I work with a diverse range of clients including individuals, couples and families. I have unique interpersonal skills and I also speak fluent Urdu and Punjabi.
07400 346099 View 07400 346099
Divorce Counsellors
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.