Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Edgware

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Shoshana Rose Stern
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
Edgware HA8
Hi, I am Shoshana. I am an Art Psychotherapist. Whether you are struggling to cope with current events or longer term unresolved feelings, I can help you explore the meaning of these emotions and how to process through them to become healthier and happier in yourself. By using art in the therapy, we can explore deep rooted causes for why we feel the way we do. Art helps us reach our unconscious voice that wants to be heard. Through developing a relationship in a safe and confidential space, I will help you explore what it is that you need to process.
Hi, I am Shoshana. I am an Art Psychotherapist. Whether you are struggling to cope with current events or longer term unresolved feelings, I can help you explore the meaning of these emotions and how to process through them to become healthier and happier in yourself. By using art in the therapy, we can explore deep rooted causes for why we feel the way we do. Art helps us reach our unconscious voice that wants to be heard. Through developing a relationship in a safe and confidential space, I will help you explore what it is that you need to process.
020 3947 8942 View 020 3947 8942
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Divina Vyas
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Life can be challenging, hard and demanding at times and we could all use someone to talk to and explore our thoughts, feelings and ideas with. As an experienced, qualified and an accredited person-centred therapist, I can offer a safe, confidential and freeing space where I can support you and your needs in a non-judgemental, open and honest environment, which can enable genuine change to occur in your life. Having worked alongside clients who have presented with issues such as, abuse, depression, anxiety, loss, stress and more I can understand how scary seeking counselling can be - however my role is to support you through this.
Life can be challenging, hard and demanding at times and we could all use someone to talk to and explore our thoughts, feelings and ideas with. As an experienced, qualified and an accredited person-centred therapist, I can offer a safe, confidential and freeing space where I can support you and your needs in a non-judgemental, open and honest environment, which can enable genuine change to occur in your life. Having worked alongside clients who have presented with issues such as, abuse, depression, anxiety, loss, stress and more I can understand how scary seeking counselling can be - however my role is to support you through this.
01895 547516 View 01895 547516

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Laura Jayne Nice
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
As you’re reading this I imagine you're seriously considering therapy, let’s take a moment to recognise that first step. Whether it's your first time or you’ve been on this journey before I'm here to help. Maybe you’ve not been feeling yourself lately or for a while, experiencing anxiety, struggling in work or personal relationships. Perhaps you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed by this particular chapter of your life or are concerned about a pervasive lack of purpose or direction. I’m here to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these difficulties together and work toward positive change.
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
As you’re reading this I imagine you're seriously considering therapy, let’s take a moment to recognise that first step. Whether it's your first time or you’ve been on this journey before I'm here to help. Maybe you’ve not been feeling yourself lately or for a while, experiencing anxiety, struggling in work or personal relationships. Perhaps you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed by this particular chapter of your life or are concerned about a pervasive lack of purpose or direction. I’m here to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these difficulties together and work toward positive change.
020 3828 7396 View 020 3828 7396
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Rebecca Fox
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience.
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience.
0161 524 6947 View 0161 524 6947
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Loki Grey
Counsellor, COSRT Reg.
Verified Verified
London WC1X
I'm experienced in supporting clients to work through issues relating to low or mismatched desire, sexual functioning, unreliable erections, early or delayed ejaculation, painful sex, vaginismus, gender and sexuality, relationship issues, affairs and infidelity, problematic sexual behaviours, sex/porn addiction and understanding kink/BDSM identities.
Hi, my name is Loki. I’m a psychosexual & relationships therapist and I'm committed to co-creating a safe, inclusive and non-judgmental space where clients can work through their sex & relationship issues, explore their erotic life, (re)discover themselves, make sense of their relationships... and bring about lasting change.
I'm experienced in supporting clients to work through issues relating to low or mismatched desire, sexual functioning, unreliable erections, early or delayed ejaculation, painful sex, vaginismus, gender and sexuality, relationship issues, affairs and infidelity, problematic sexual behaviours, sex/porn addiction and understanding kink/BDSM identities.
Hi, my name is Loki. I’m a psychosexual & relationships therapist and I'm committed to co-creating a safe, inclusive and non-judgmental space where clients can work through their sex & relationship issues, explore their erotic life, (re)discover themselves, make sense of their relationships... and bring about lasting change.
01273 110445 View 01273 110445
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Alexandra Lowe
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London N8
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working with individuals, couples, and polycules, with issues around communication, desire/arousal, orgasm, erectile difficulties, vaginal discomfort/pain, trauma, body image, gender and sexuality related issues, menopause, affairs, non monogamous, polyamorous relationships, porn addiction, kink, and bdsm.
My aim is to help you explore your feelings, thoughts and emotions and the affect they have on your behaviour and mood. I see the therapeutic process as a collaborative one, with us working side-by-side to develop your inner resources, communication skills, improve awareness of yourself, your body and your relationships with others.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working with individuals, couples, and polycules, with issues around communication, desire/arousal, orgasm, erectile difficulties, vaginal discomfort/pain, trauma, body image, gender and sexuality related issues, menopause, affairs, non monogamous, polyamorous relationships, porn addiction, kink, and bdsm.
My aim is to help you explore your feelings, thoughts and emotions and the affect they have on your behaviour and mood. I see the therapeutic process as a collaborative one, with us working side-by-side to develop your inner resources, communication skills, improve awareness of yourself, your body and your relationships with others.
020 3879 4641 View 020 3879 4641
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Gold Oak Counselling
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Online Only
I am I a kink aware therapist.
I aim to create a warm and non-judgmental space where you can talk and be listened to with empathy and honesty. I strive to help you work through your problems as you see them and towards the future that you see for yourself. I believe that everyone has the ability to change or make changes.
I am I a kink aware therapist.
I aim to create a warm and non-judgmental space where you can talk and be listened to with empathy and honesty. I strive to help you work through your problems as you see them and towards the future that you see for yourself. I believe that everyone has the ability to change or make changes.
020 3856 7957 View 020 3856 7957
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Zoe Hedderly Transpersonal Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE18
I am kink aware.
I also offer support in coming to terms with narcissistic abuse, or being in relationship with someone with a personality disorder. I am now working with clients with complex trauma and PTSD and use a combination of psychotherapy, CBT and tapping to help work through the psychological, physical and spiritual aspects of healing.
I am kink aware.
I also offer support in coming to terms with narcissistic abuse, or being in relationship with someone with a personality disorder. I am now working with clients with complex trauma and PTSD and use a combination of psychotherapy, CBT and tapping to help work through the psychological, physical and spiritual aspects of healing.
020 4572 4552 View 020 4572 4552
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Forth Counselling & CBT
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London E1
I'm able to offer support for sexual function problems, issues around gender and sexuality, sex addictions & compulsions, infidelity, poly relationships or kink, fetish and BDSM lifestyles.
Life can surprise and challenge us in many ways. Having a safe space and the support of a therapist can help you explore and 'make sense' of what's troubling you, build new perspectives and move forward in life in healthier ways.
I'm able to offer support for sexual function problems, issues around gender and sexuality, sex addictions & compulsions, infidelity, poly relationships or kink, fetish and BDSM lifestyles.
Life can surprise and challenge us in many ways. Having a safe space and the support of a therapist can help you explore and 'make sense' of what's troubling you, build new perspectives and move forward in life in healthier ways.
020 4572 1715 View 020 4572 1715
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Will Hardy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE15
I am based online and in South and East London - I provide LGBTQ+ therapy and counselling for those who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, non-binary, queer, questioning, polyamorous, kink, ace etc.
I am trained within an integrative approach to counselling and psychotherapy. This means I combine different approaches to create a therapy experience that is queer and sex positive, kink-affirming and practiced with an open mindset. Intersectionality, privilege, discrimination and difference are experiences I’m committed to exploring with you safely.
I am based online and in South and East London - I provide LGBTQ+ therapy and counselling for those who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, non-binary, queer, questioning, polyamorous, kink, ace etc.
I am trained within an integrative approach to counselling and psychotherapy. This means I combine different approaches to create a therapy experience that is queer and sex positive, kink-affirming and practiced with an open mindset. Intersectionality, privilege, discrimination and difference are experiences I’m committed to exploring with you safely.
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Dawn Lucas
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
London SW5
My name is Dawn (she / they) & I am a social activist art therapist providing arts psychotherapy & sex positive therapy to adults in West & SouthWest London.
The arts are an alternative approach to traditional talking therapy & can provide a deeper insight when it is hard to find the words for your experiences and feelings. In my sessions, the seven art forms are available for you; Art Sand-play Music Bodywork / Movement Poetry Sculpture / Clay Drama / Puppetry
My name is Dawn (she / they) & I am a social activist art therapist providing arts psychotherapy & sex positive therapy to adults in West & SouthWest London.
The arts are an alternative approach to traditional talking therapy & can provide a deeper insight when it is hard to find the words for your experiences and feelings. In my sessions, the seven art forms are available for you; Art Sand-play Music Bodywork / Movement Poetry Sculpture / Clay Drama / Puppetry
020 4572 2327 View 020 4572 2327
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Peter Carter
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
Online Only
I have been supporting men's sexual health, self-identity & wellbeing for over 30 years. I integrate specialist sexual health & HIV nursing experience, alongside evidence-based sex therapy for men struggling with problem sexual behaviours. I offer a safe and supportive environment to explore sexual urges, thoughts and behaviours with the aim to better understand, and make the changes you want.
I have been supporting men's sexual health, self-identity & wellbeing for over 30 years. I integrate specialist sexual health & HIV nursing experience, alongside evidence-based sex therapy for men struggling with problem sexual behaviours. I offer a safe and supportive environment to explore sexual urges, thoughts and behaviours with the aim to better understand, and make the changes you want.
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Nathan Jenkins
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
London W1G
I am an integrative therapist specialising in LGBTQIA therapy, sex & relationships therapy, kink-aware therapy, poly-aware therapy, and bereavement therapy.
Areas of focus: LGBTQIA+   Anxiety   Depression   OCD   Kink Polyamory / Ethical non-monogamy (ENM)   Self esteem   Sex and relationships   Stress   Trauma
I am an integrative therapist specialising in LGBTQIA therapy, sex & relationships therapy, kink-aware therapy, poly-aware therapy, and bereavement therapy.
Areas of focus: LGBTQIA+   Anxiety   Depression   OCD   Kink Polyamory / Ethical non-monogamy (ENM)   Self esteem   Sex and relationships   Stress   Trauma
020 4572 1091 View 020 4572 1091
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Kayleigh Finbow - Psychosexual Therapist
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Online Only
LGBTQ+, kink and fetish friendly.
Taking the first step to start therapy can be a very difficult one, so I make sure to provide an open, safe and calming space. During our time together I will aim to make you feel safe, validated and listened to. I use a combination of relational therapeutic work and real life tasks and exercises. To either undertake individually or with a partner/s.
LGBTQ+, kink and fetish friendly.
Taking the first step to start therapy can be a very difficult one, so I make sure to provide an open, safe and calming space. During our time together I will aim to make you feel safe, validated and listened to. I use a combination of relational therapeutic work and real life tasks and exercises. To either undertake individually or with a partner/s.
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Dr Robert Dow
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I am sex-positive, kink-aware and gender-affirming; I welcome people of all cultures, genders, sexual orientations, and relationship styles, and individuals who are neurodivergent or are in the process of exploring their neurodivergent identity.
As an experienced therapist, I provide both short-term and long-term therapy tailored to your unique needs. Rather than applying a one size fits all approach, I work in a way that reflects your individual situation and therapeutic goals. Whether you are navigating anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, workplace challenges, or relationship/family difficulties, I am here to support you. I also offer several specialised areas of expertise, working with issues around sexual abuse, shame, trauma, intimacy issues, pornography use and Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD). Additionally, I am able to provide pre-trial therapy.
I am sex-positive, kink-aware and gender-affirming; I welcome people of all cultures, genders, sexual orientations, and relationship styles, and individuals who are neurodivergent or are in the process of exploring their neurodivergent identity.
As an experienced therapist, I provide both short-term and long-term therapy tailored to your unique needs. Rather than applying a one size fits all approach, I work in a way that reflects your individual situation and therapeutic goals. Whether you are navigating anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, workplace challenges, or relationship/family difficulties, I am here to support you. I also offer several specialised areas of expertise, working with issues around sexual abuse, shame, trauma, intimacy issues, pornography use and Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD). Additionally, I am able to provide pre-trial therapy.
0131 381 5405 View 0131 381 5405
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Munjeeta Sohal
Counsellor, COSRT Reg.
Verified Verified
London E17
I enjoy working with a diverse range of clients but specialise in the following: kink; nonmonogamy; couplesl, throuples and polycules; navigating chronic conditions; and LGBTQIA+ individuals who would like to discuss sex- and relationship-related challenges.
I am a client-centred therapist, which means I value collaboration and believe the relationship between myself and my clients to be an integral part of the therapy process. I am an integrative therapist, which means I draw on different tools and techniques from a range of therapeutic approaches to help me tailor my work to you as an individual.
I enjoy working with a diverse range of clients but specialise in the following: kink; nonmonogamy; couplesl, throuples and polycules; navigating chronic conditions; and LGBTQIA+ individuals who would like to discuss sex- and relationship-related challenges.
I am a client-centred therapist, which means I value collaboration and believe the relationship between myself and my clients to be an integral part of the therapy process. I am an integrative therapist, which means I draw on different tools and techniques from a range of therapeutic approaches to help me tailor my work to you as an individual.
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Lisa Home
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
London EC4Y
The acceptance of LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, kink, non-monogamous, and other non-traditional relationships is evolving, changing how we understand love, intimacy, and sexuality.
Love is complex. We can all encounter relational or intimacy struggles as we try to find our place in the world romantically or sexually. Becoming comfortable with who we are or with others can be challenging. Modern ideas on love include the freedom to choose the kind of relationship that works best for us. Contemporary relationships defy conventions, and in today’s world, where diversity intersects with all aspects of life, understanding love requires a deep dive into the societal, neurobiological, and the emotional landscapes that shape it.
The acceptance of LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, kink, non-monogamous, and other non-traditional relationships is evolving, changing how we understand love, intimacy, and sexuality.
Love is complex. We can all encounter relational or intimacy struggles as we try to find our place in the world romantically or sexually. Becoming comfortable with who we are or with others can be challenging. Modern ideas on love include the freedom to choose the kind of relationship that works best for us. Contemporary relationships defy conventions, and in today’s world, where diversity intersects with all aspects of life, understanding love requires a deep dive into the societal, neurobiological, and the emotional landscapes that shape it.
020 4538 1632 View 020 4538 1632
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theyxologist
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Reg.
Verified Verified
London W1T
As a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist, I help individuals and couples overcome the barriers that hold them back from living satisfying, sex-positive lives, and from having meaningful, deeply connective relationships.
As a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist, I help individuals and couples overcome the barriers that hold them back from living satisfying, sex-positive lives, and from having meaningful, deeply connective relationships.
020 4538 1695 View 020 4538 1695
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Beyond Labels Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SE1
Whether you are LGBTQIA+ or not, neurodivergent or neurotypical, exploring kink or in a traditional relationship, we shape therapy around your story, needs, and becoming.
If you are feeling weighed down by emotion, tangled in relationship patterns, or burdened by the pressure to be someone you are not—therapy can offer a way back to yourself. I work with individuals and intimate partners across all walks of life, identities, orientations, and relationship structures. Whether you are living with anxiety, carrying echoes of childhood wounds, or searching for a sense of belonging, we can co-create a space where you feel deeply seen and gently held. Together, we will listen closely to your experiences and begin to loosen what no longer serves you—so you can live with more freedom, truth, and connection.
Whether you are LGBTQIA+ or not, neurodivergent or neurotypical, exploring kink or in a traditional relationship, we shape therapy around your story, needs, and becoming.
If you are feeling weighed down by emotion, tangled in relationship patterns, or burdened by the pressure to be someone you are not—therapy can offer a way back to yourself. I work with individuals and intimate partners across all walks of life, identities, orientations, and relationship structures. Whether you are living with anxiety, carrying echoes of childhood wounds, or searching for a sense of belonging, we can co-create a space where you feel deeply seen and gently held. Together, we will listen closely to your experiences and begin to loosen what no longer serves you—so you can live with more freedom, truth, and connection.
020 3869 5368 View 020 3869 5368
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Andrea Lavers
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Online Only
Hi, I’m an LGBTQ+ friendly, poly allied, sex-positive registered counsellor with over ten years clinical experience. You may struggle with addiction, anxiety, relationship issues or shame. You may have a traumatic history. I am here to offer space to explore this with you. Maybe you don’t know what you want from therapy yet, but you know something isn’t sitting right and you want things to change. Are you needing somewhere it’s safe to connect to your feelings? I believe that connecting with our bodies and emotions is a key to lasting change.
Hi, I’m an LGBTQ+ friendly, poly allied, sex-positive registered counsellor with over ten years clinical experience. You may struggle with addiction, anxiety, relationship issues or shame. You may have a traumatic history. I am here to offer space to explore this with you. Maybe you don’t know what you want from therapy yet, but you know something isn’t sitting right and you want things to change. Are you needing somewhere it’s safe to connect to your feelings? I believe that connecting with our bodies and emotions is a key to lasting change.
020 3962 0619 View 020 3962 0619

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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors

Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?

Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?

Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.