Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Counselling in Edgware

Hi, I am Shoshana. I am an Art Psychotherapist. Whether you are struggling to cope with current events or longer term unresolved feelings, I can help you explore the meaning of these emotions and how to process through them to become healthier and happier in yourself. By using art in the therapy, we can explore deep rooted causes for why we feel the way we do. Art helps us reach our unconscious voice that wants to be heard. Through developing a relationship in a safe and confidential space, I will help you explore what it is that you need to process.
Hi, I am Shoshana. I am an Art Psychotherapist. Whether you are struggling to cope with current events or longer term unresolved feelings, I can help you explore the meaning of these emotions and how to process through them to become healthier and happier in yourself. By using art in the therapy, we can explore deep rooted causes for why we feel the way we do. Art helps us reach our unconscious voice that wants to be heard. Through developing a relationship in a safe and confidential space, I will help you explore what it is that you need to process.

I understand how life traumas, issues and experiences can affect individuals, their family members and friends. I've recognised how these psychological and emotional issues relate to each other.
I understand how life traumas, issues and experiences can affect individuals, their family members and friends. I've recognised how these psychological and emotional issues relate to each other.

Life can be challenging, hard and demanding at times and we could all use someone to talk to and explore our thoughts, feelings and ideas with. As an experienced, qualified and an accredited person-centred therapist, I can offer a safe, confidential and freeing space where I can support you and your needs in a non-judgemental, open and honest environment, which can enable genuine change to occur in your life. Having worked alongside clients who have presented with issues such as, abuse, depression, anxiety, loss, stress and more I can understand how scary seeking counselling can be - however my role is to support you through this.
Life can be challenging, hard and demanding at times and we could all use someone to talk to and explore our thoughts, feelings and ideas with. As an experienced, qualified and an accredited person-centred therapist, I can offer a safe, confidential and freeing space where I can support you and your needs in a non-judgemental, open and honest environment, which can enable genuine change to occur in your life. Having worked alongside clients who have presented with issues such as, abuse, depression, anxiety, loss, stress and more I can understand how scary seeking counselling can be - however my role is to support you through this.
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I am polyamory, BDSM and kink aware.
I am very experienced in a range of different therapies including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). I have a particular interest in energy psychology, where Eastern energy approaches have been combined with Western psychological therapy.
I am polyamory, BDSM and kink aware.
I am very experienced in a range of different therapies including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). I have a particular interest in energy psychology, where Eastern energy approaches have been combined with Western psychological therapy.

I also work through a GSRD lens - for example, I believe that everyone (regardless of relationship style) can benefit from the skills developed through polyamory (for example communication).
Hi, I'm Rachel. I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist. I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!). I work with people on a wide variety of issues: I see couples who want to work on improving communication in their relationship; I see individuals who are struggling to identify what they want sexually; I see people who want a space to process their feelings more generally.
I also work through a GSRD lens - for example, I believe that everyone (regardless of relationship style) can benefit from the skills developed through polyamory (for example communication).
Hi, I'm Rachel. I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist. I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!). I work with people on a wide variety of issues: I see couples who want to work on improving communication in their relationship; I see individuals who are struggling to identify what they want sexually; I see people who want a space to process their feelings more generally.

These are the areas that I can help you with: infidelity, attachment styles, cultural differences, polyamory, sexual and emotional intimacy, exploring if this relationship is right for you and navigating through separation/divorce and co-parenting.
I use a range of approaches depending on what you may need, helping you to gain a better understanding of what is going on for you as a couple and as an individual, in the relationship. I will empower you with tools and techniques in order to change unhealthy dynamics, so that you can have a more loving relationship.
These are the areas that I can help you with: infidelity, attachment styles, cultural differences, polyamory, sexual and emotional intimacy, exploring if this relationship is right for you and navigating through separation/divorce and co-parenting.
I use a range of approaches depending on what you may need, helping you to gain a better understanding of what is going on for you as a couple and as an individual, in the relationship. I will empower you with tools and techniques in order to change unhealthy dynamics, so that you can have a more loving relationship.

I experience working with trauma and a special interest in relationships including non-traditional relationships ( polyamory, open-relationships) and sex.
I offer an attachment-informed, relational humanistic counselling which emphasises the importance of the therapeutic relationship within which I attempt to offer acceptance and understanding for whatever you wish to bring. I look to create a safe space where you can bring your whole self and explore anything you wish in your own time. I've worked with people experiencing a wide range of psychological, emotional, sexual and relational issues. I also work with couples in a collaborative and compassionate way looking to foster good communication.
I experience working with trauma and a special interest in relationships including non-traditional relationships ( polyamory, open-relationships) and sex.
I offer an attachment-informed, relational humanistic counselling which emphasises the importance of the therapeutic relationship within which I attempt to offer acceptance and understanding for whatever you wish to bring. I look to create a safe space where you can bring your whole self and explore anything you wish in your own time. I've worked with people experiencing a wide range of psychological, emotional, sexual and relational issues. I also work with couples in a collaborative and compassionate way looking to foster good communication.

This is an non-exhaustive list but I work with: abuse, anxiety, bereavement, depression, disability, trauma, stress, relationship breakdowns and conflicts, sexuality (including psychosexual work), questions or issues around gender, non-monogamy/ polyamory, issues with family of origin, work problems, and exploring/working with with marginalised identities).
I work with a wide variety of people, but people who have seen me include queer people, trans and non-binary people, neurodivergent people (especially ADHD and autistic women and afab people), people who are non-monogamous, people from a working class background, people of colour, sex workers, and people who practice kink/BDSM. I also frequently work with people who have auto-immune or chronic illness, and those with Long Covid. My therapeutic approach is influenced by queer theory, intersectional feminism and disability justice.
This is an non-exhaustive list but I work with: abuse, anxiety, bereavement, depression, disability, trauma, stress, relationship breakdowns and conflicts, sexuality (including psychosexual work), questions or issues around gender, non-monogamy/ polyamory, issues with family of origin, work problems, and exploring/working with with marginalised identities).
I work with a wide variety of people, but people who have seen me include queer people, trans and non-binary people, neurodivergent people (especially ADHD and autistic women and afab people), people who are non-monogamous, people from a working class background, people of colour, sex workers, and people who practice kink/BDSM. I also frequently work with people who have auto-immune or chronic illness, and those with Long Covid. My therapeutic approach is influenced by queer theory, intersectional feminism and disability justice.

My areas of special interest include boundary setting, childhood trauma, LGBTQ+ affirmation, identity exploration, shame resilience, non-traditional relationship structures (such as non-monogamy and polyamory), sexuality, kink/BDSM, gender, and self-discovery.
When we begin our work together, we’ll spend the first few sessions getting to know you—exploring whatever parts of your story you feel ready to share. I see therapy as a collaborative exploration of your mind, with you leading the way. As we continue, we’ll work together to identify patterns that might no longer be serving you, gently exploring their origin
My areas of special interest include boundary setting, childhood trauma, LGBTQ+ affirmation, identity exploration, shame resilience, non-traditional relationship structures (such as non-monogamy and polyamory), sexuality, kink/BDSM, gender, and self-discovery.
When we begin our work together, we’ll spend the first few sessions getting to know you—exploring whatever parts of your story you feel ready to share. I see therapy as a collaborative exploration of your mind, with you leading the way. As we continue, we’ll work together to identify patterns that might no longer be serving you, gently exploring their origin

Specialities: Sex problems, addictions Porn/chat/fetishes traumatised partners Love addiction, Polyamory rels.
Hello, I am a widely experienced, Psychosexual Therapist/Supervisor. If you want to understand yourself better,/change unwanted behaviours to 'feel' better I would be delighted to receive an EMAIL from you. I work with common & also unusual Sex & Relationship difficulties & Mental health conditions . I assess you, help you identify goals & I review how you think our work is progressing. I explain the rational for my exploration & focus of the tasks I ask you to practice. I work collaboratively with you-as a team to reach your goals. Clients say this is a good way to work. I often see the funny side of life, when appropriate :-)
Specialities: Sex problems, addictions Porn/chat/fetishes traumatised partners Love addiction, Polyamory rels.
Hello, I am a widely experienced, Psychosexual Therapist/Supervisor. If you want to understand yourself better,/change unwanted behaviours to 'feel' better I would be delighted to receive an EMAIL from you. I work with common & also unusual Sex & Relationship difficulties & Mental health conditions . I assess you, help you identify goals & I review how you think our work is progressing. I explain the rational for my exploration & focus of the tasks I ask you to practice. I work collaboratively with you-as a team to reach your goals. Clients say this is a good way to work. I often see the funny side of life, when appropriate :-)

I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.

Sandro @ Crystal Layers Therapy
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT General
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London WC1N
I work with MALE and FEMALE bodied people, Couples, LGTBQ+ Intercultural relationships clients - Psychosexual therapy can help to overcome myths and traditions that been imposed by society in the understanding of sex - Male and Female sexual function issues are very common, same sex, hetero, polyamory relationships are sometimes struggle -YOU are not alone!
I am a Clinical Sexologist and Relationship Therapist, aim to provide a safe and secure place to individual, couples and poly-lovers. I work with GSRD (Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity) & LGTBQ+ individuals. I understand microaggressions on client’s stories and attuned with expressions of distress. The therapy I offer helps to connect with your own narrative, normalising those sexual fears, Shame and Guiltiness learnt from a judgemental society. To create your own relationship rather than mimic others. To Accept the human you are with your own super flaws and super powers - 'Courage is the first step to freedom'
I work with MALE and FEMALE bodied people, Couples, LGTBQ+ Intercultural relationships clients - Psychosexual therapy can help to overcome myths and traditions that been imposed by society in the understanding of sex - Male and Female sexual function issues are very common, same sex, hetero, polyamory relationships are sometimes struggle -YOU are not alone!
I am a Clinical Sexologist and Relationship Therapist, aim to provide a safe and secure place to individual, couples and poly-lovers. I work with GSRD (Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity) & LGTBQ+ individuals. I understand microaggressions on client’s stories and attuned with expressions of distress. The therapy I offer helps to connect with your own narrative, normalising those sexual fears, Shame and Guiltiness learnt from a judgemental society. To create your own relationship rather than mimic others. To Accept the human you are with your own super flaws and super powers - 'Courage is the first step to freedom'

Specialisms include LGBTQI, BAME/POC, Kink/BDSM, Polyamory/Ethical Non-monogamy, Spirituality.
I offer a space to look at life patterns and changes eg. career, relationship, life journey, negative or outworn behaviour patterns. Sessions include non verbal strategies such as Gestalt, bodywork, free drawing, dream work and visualisation. I work with individuals. Therapy can be either short term or open-ended.
Specialisms include LGBTQI, BAME/POC, Kink/BDSM, Polyamory/Ethical Non-monogamy, Spirituality.
I offer a space to look at life patterns and changes eg. career, relationship, life journey, negative or outworn behaviour patterns. Sessions include non verbal strategies such as Gestalt, bodywork, free drawing, dream work and visualisation. I work with individuals. Therapy can be either short term or open-ended.

City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide
Rosalind Simpson is LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
Rosalind Simpson
Individual and Couples Counsellor & Psychotherapist
City Dynamic Therapy Dalston Hackney East London N16
Rosalind Simpson is an experienced individual and couples counsellor and psychotherapist based at City Dynamic Therapy in Dalston Hackney East London N16. She offers a range of therapeutic services, including psychosexual (sex) counselling. Rosalind works with clients face-to-face in Hackney East London and worldwide via Zoom, providing support for issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, and relationship and sexual challenges.
A sex-positive and inclusive therapist welcoming individuals and couples
City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide
Rosalind Simpson is LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
Rosalind Simpson
Individual and Couples Counsellor & Psychotherapist
City Dynamic Therapy Dalston Hackney East London N16
Rosalind Simpson is an experienced individual and couples counsellor and psychotherapist based at City Dynamic Therapy in Dalston Hackney East London N16. She offers a range of therapeutic services, including psychosexual (sex) counselling. Rosalind works with clients face-to-face in Hackney East London and worldwide via Zoom, providing support for issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, and relationship and sexual challenges.
A sex-positive and inclusive therapist welcoming individuals and couples

LGBTQIA+), finding the right relationship style for you (non-monogamy, monogamy, polyamory etc), negotiating safer BDSM and kink practices, exploring consent, issues with sexual functioning (genital pain, erection issues, inability to orgasm etc), navigating relationship conflicts and improving sexual intimacy.
My therapy style is interactive and compassionate. I believe we all deserve to have agency over how and if you want sex and relationships. My role is to provide a caring space for you to explore what works for you, moving beyond shame and stigma. My approach integrates psychosexual, relational, existential, Gestalt and transactional analysis therapies.
LGBTQIA+), finding the right relationship style for you (non-monogamy, monogamy, polyamory etc), negotiating safer BDSM and kink practices, exploring consent, issues with sexual functioning (genital pain, erection issues, inability to orgasm etc), navigating relationship conflicts and improving sexual intimacy.
My therapy style is interactive and compassionate. I believe we all deserve to have agency over how and if you want sex and relationships. My role is to provide a caring space for you to explore what works for you, moving beyond shame and stigma. My approach integrates psychosexual, relational, existential, Gestalt and transactional analysis therapies.

Whether it’s trauma, anxiety, compulsive sexual behaviour, painful sex, unreliable erections, mismatched desire, infidelity, polyamory, gender identity, body image, loss, your relationship to food, or family/parenting difficulties, I'm here for you.
My approach is creative and holistic, tailored to address the whole person: mind, body and spirit. I am a Health at Every Size (HAES) advocate, kink-knowledgeable and sex-positive. My clinical work integrates psychodrama, EMDR, transgenerational therapy, Jungian coaching, sex therapy, mindfulness, visualisation, art, body based approaches, energy healing.
Whether it’s trauma, anxiety, compulsive sexual behaviour, painful sex, unreliable erections, mismatched desire, infidelity, polyamory, gender identity, body image, loss, your relationship to food, or family/parenting difficulties, I'm here for you.
My approach is creative and holistic, tailored to address the whole person: mind, body and spirit. I am a Health at Every Size (HAES) advocate, kink-knowledgeable and sex-positive. My clinical work integrates psychodrama, EMDR, transgenerational therapy, Jungian coaching, sex therapy, mindfulness, visualisation, art, body based approaches, energy healing.

I also work with issues around kink/BDSM, and non-traditional ( polyamory/non-monogamous) relationship styles.
I believe that therapy allows you to take a more active role in understanding and experiencing your emotions. When we are not aware of our emotions or ideas, it can mean we act out certain behaviours – or experience certain feelings - without knowing why. And while we might be able to tolerate this for some time – perhaps even for a long time - I believe there is a difference between surviving and living. Developing a closer – or less mysterious - relationship with ourselves can allow us to go beyond living life passively and begin to really experience it.
I also work with issues around kink/BDSM, and non-traditional ( polyamory/non-monogamous) relationship styles.
I believe that therapy allows you to take a more active role in understanding and experiencing your emotions. When we are not aware of our emotions or ideas, it can mean we act out certain behaviours – or experience certain feelings - without knowing why. And while we might be able to tolerate this for some time – perhaps even for a long time - I believe there is a difference between surviving and living. Developing a closer – or less mysterious - relationship with ourselves can allow us to go beyond living life passively and begin to really experience it.

I have additional specialisms in: LGBT counselling, neurodivergence (ADHD and autism), working with people affected by HIV, and working with polyamory/ethical non-monogamy.
At various points in our lives, we all experience feelings, thoughts and events that we find challenging. You might be feeling anxious or depressed, finding it difficult to come to terms with something that has happened in the past, or worried about what the future will bring. Perhaps you feel stuck in a difficult situation, or caught between what seem like impossible choices. You may be seeking an opportunity to think about who you are, what is important to you, and the kind of life you want to lead.
I have additional specialisms in: LGBT counselling, neurodivergence (ADHD and autism), working with people affected by HIV, and working with polyamory/ethical non-monogamy.
At various points in our lives, we all experience feelings, thoughts and events that we find challenging. You might be feeling anxious or depressed, finding it difficult to come to terms with something that has happened in the past, or worried about what the future will bring. Perhaps you feel stuck in a difficult situation, or caught between what seem like impossible choices. You may be seeking an opportunity to think about who you are, what is important to you, and the kind of life you want to lead.

Hi there, I'm a BACP registered Integrative Therapist, offering a warm, non-judgemental, supportive and personalised approach to help you explore and process any significant life issues, traumatic history, unwanted thoughts and beliefs, and compulsive behaviours that are holding you back. I provide an environment which is kink, sexuality, and consensual non-monogamy/ polyamory positive, and LGBTQIA+ friendly. I provide counselling for individuals, couples, family groups, and polycules of all sexualities and genders. I’m committed to creating a space that’s welcoming to anyone from a marginalised identity.
Hi there, I'm a BACP registered Integrative Therapist, offering a warm, non-judgemental, supportive and personalised approach to help you explore and process any significant life issues, traumatic history, unwanted thoughts and beliefs, and compulsive behaviours that are holding you back. I provide an environment which is kink, sexuality, and consensual non-monogamy/ polyamory positive, and LGBTQIA+ friendly. I provide counselling for individuals, couples, family groups, and polycules of all sexualities and genders. I’m committed to creating a space that’s welcoming to anyone from a marginalised identity.

I have worked with a wide variety of diverse clients on issues ranging from exploring and expressing identity, cultural challenges, polyamory, kink, body image and issues around race, gender, sexuality and masculinity.
I work with psychodynamic, attachment, trauma informed, humanistic, CBT and existential ideas and techniques. I approach each client on the basis of their needs, to help them overcome their difficulties, learn more about themselves and what has brought them to this point in life as well as how they might build a more rewarding life going forward.
I have worked with a wide variety of diverse clients on issues ranging from exploring and expressing identity, cultural challenges, polyamory, kink, body image and issues around race, gender, sexuality and masculinity.
I work with psychodynamic, attachment, trauma informed, humanistic, CBT and existential ideas and techniques. I approach each client on the basis of their needs, to help them overcome their difficulties, learn more about themselves and what has brought them to this point in life as well as how they might build a more rewarding life going forward.
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specialising in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialise in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counselling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counselling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.