Polyamory and ENM Counselling in Darlington

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Bishop Auckland Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
My specialist area is working with neurodivergence (either self diagnosed or officially), in an affirmative way, so you can feel free to be yourself. Do you feel like you’ve spent most of your life masking — trying to appear “fine” while inside you’re overwhelmed, exhausted, or constantly overthinking? You might relate to: Racing thoughts or executive dysfunction Sensory overwhelm or shutdown Cycles of burnout Struggling to communicate your needs Rejection sensitivity or intense self-criticism Masking so well that other people don’t see how much you’re struggling Grief, anger or confusion around a late ADHD or autism diagnosis
My specialist area is working with neurodivergence (either self diagnosed or officially), in an affirmative way, so you can feel free to be yourself. Do you feel like you’ve spent most of your life masking — trying to appear “fine” while inside you’re overwhelmed, exhausted, or constantly overthinking? You might relate to: Racing thoughts or executive dysfunction Sensory overwhelm or shutdown Cycles of burnout Struggling to communicate your needs Rejection sensitivity or intense self-criticism Masking so well that other people don’t see how much you’re struggling Grief, anger or confusion around a late ADHD or autism diagnosis
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Helen Graham
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
IN-PERSON sessions in DURHAM. I’m a highly qualified and experienced psychotherapist who works with a diverse range of people and the whole of their issues. I understand that everyone can go through difficult times and can benefit from support in handling these challenges. I can help by offering you a relaxed, safe and confidential therapeutic space to explore issues troubling you in a caring, accepting and non-judgemental way. People I have worked with tell me their therapeutic experience with me has increased their confidence, self-awareness, personal growth and they have gained a deeper sense of meaning, purpose and contentment.
IN-PERSON sessions in DURHAM. I’m a highly qualified and experienced psychotherapist who works with a diverse range of people and the whole of their issues. I understand that everyone can go through difficult times and can benefit from support in handling these challenges. I can help by offering you a relaxed, safe and confidential therapeutic space to explore issues troubling you in a caring, accepting and non-judgemental way. People I have worked with tell me their therapeutic experience with me has increased their confidence, self-awareness, personal growth and they have gained a deeper sense of meaning, purpose and contentment.
07933 709399 View 07933 709399
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Karena Serdecka
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
Whether working through significant change, life event or trying to manage/resolve longer term issues which prevent you from thriving and reaching your fullest potential in life, relationships, family or work – I can work with you in a fully supportive, non-judgemental, empathic way. I am a warm, relational and person-centred integrative psychotherapist and EMDR specialist Dip Psych & DPC (child and adolescent), also clinical hypnotherapist (Adult). Additionally -Dip CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Art and Couples Therapies. I lecture in psychotherapy, psychology and counselling and have worked with clients 5 yrs old to 80yrs+.
Whether working through significant change, life event or trying to manage/resolve longer term issues which prevent you from thriving and reaching your fullest potential in life, relationships, family or work – I can work with you in a fully supportive, non-judgemental, empathic way. I am a warm, relational and person-centred integrative psychotherapist and EMDR specialist Dip Psych & DPC (child and adolescent), also clinical hypnotherapist (Adult). Additionally -Dip CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Art and Couples Therapies. I lecture in psychotherapy, psychology and counselling and have worked with clients 5 yrs old to 80yrs+.
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Still Waters Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Life can be difficult and we all need support at times. Are you feeling lost and unsure of where to turn for help? You might be experiencing issues such as low mood, anxiety or perhaps you feel like you don't fit in anywhere. I have experience in working with a wide range of issues, including depression, identity issues and burn out. I will work with you, at your pace, to help navigate your way through whatever it is that is troubling you. I work in a calm, non judgemental way. I offer both online and in person sessions. In person sessions take place in Acomb, York.
Life can be difficult and we all need support at times. Are you feeling lost and unsure of where to turn for help? You might be experiencing issues such as low mood, anxiety or perhaps you feel like you don't fit in anywhere. I have experience in working with a wide range of issues, including depression, identity issues and burn out. I will work with you, at your pace, to help navigate your way through whatever it is that is troubling you. I work in a calm, non judgemental way. I offer both online and in person sessions. In person sessions take place in Acomb, York.
01904 935985 View 01904 935985

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Christiane Kelegher
Psychotherapist, MSc, HCPC-Art Therap.
3 Endorsed
Online Only
I work in collaboration with my clients to find what they would like to bring into the therapy room and have a particular interest in personal identities and how my clients wish to be seen and accepted in the world. This includes identities around chronic illness and disability, as well as around gender, sexuality and relationship diversity. I do not work as a blank mirror but instead use my knowledge and training to create a dialogue between me and my clients.
I work in collaboration with my clients to find what they would like to bring into the therapy room and have a particular interest in personal identities and how my clients wish to be seen and accepted in the world. This includes identities around chronic illness and disability, as well as around gender, sexuality and relationship diversity. I do not work as a blank mirror but instead use my knowledge and training to create a dialogue between me and my clients.
0191 743 0329 View 0191 743 0329
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Hazel Ahern
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hi I'm Hazel, I am a counsellor and supervisor. I work with emotional, physical and sexual abuse, trauma, relationship and family issues, addiction, anxiety, stress and low self esteem. I have also had training working with bereavement. I offer clients a private and comfortable place to talk and work through their problems, to unravel their issues and discuss goals for the future, enabling clients to moving forward with strength and understanding. I work in Newcastle city centre and Whitley Bay both have good public transport and nearby parking.
Hi I'm Hazel, I am a counsellor and supervisor. I work with emotional, physical and sexual abuse, trauma, relationship and family issues, addiction, anxiety, stress and low self esteem. I have also had training working with bereavement. I offer clients a private and comfortable place to talk and work through their problems, to unravel their issues and discuss goals for the future, enabling clients to moving forward with strength and understanding. I work in Newcastle city centre and Whitley Bay both have good public transport and nearby parking.
0191 743 1676 View 0191 743 1676
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Genevieve Theresa Buée
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Hello, I am an experienced therapist offering counselling sessions for adults and young people aged 14 and over. I provide professional insight and perspectives in approaching problems to enhance well being and create an overall positive change in understanding. This helps make meaning out of life in the "here and now" and also provides support with ongoing benefits in making life choices for the future. When situations or context do not have solutions, supporting the process of emotional healing is the focus of therapy.
Hello, I am an experienced therapist offering counselling sessions for adults and young people aged 14 and over. I provide professional insight and perspectives in approaching problems to enhance well being and create an overall positive change in understanding. This helps make meaning out of life in the "here and now" and also provides support with ongoing benefits in making life choices for the future. When situations or context do not have solutions, supporting the process of emotional healing is the focus of therapy.
0191 917 9391 View 0191 917 9391
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Gem Sheinman
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Online Only
I work predominantly with queer, neurodivergent clients as I believe that it is essential to work with a therapist that understands your lived experience of being queer in a heteronormative and neurotypical world. I am always clear about the boundaries of my competence, and will let you know in the assessment session if I believe that I can be a useful and enriching therapist for you.
I work predominantly with queer, neurodivergent clients as I believe that it is essential to work with a therapist that understands your lived experience of being queer in a heteronormative and neurotypical world. I am always clear about the boundaries of my competence, and will let you know in the assessment session if I believe that I can be a useful and enriching therapist for you.
0191 743 2271 View 0191 743 2271
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Max Gillespie
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
I offer a soulful approach to therapy grounded in the latest psychological theory. ​Often, it may seem that much of modern psychological therapy merely ruffles and reorganises the surface of the things that trouble us, seeing people who are experiencing psychological suffering as complex machines to which we can apply a set psychological theories. In contrast, after 20years of working as a psychological therapist, I believe it's more appropriate to approach clients as 'souls' in need of hearing, healing, connection, meaning, and renewal. ​
I offer a soulful approach to therapy grounded in the latest psychological theory. ​Often, it may seem that much of modern psychological therapy merely ruffles and reorganises the surface of the things that trouble us, seeing people who are experiencing psychological suffering as complex machines to which we can apply a set psychological theories. In contrast, after 20years of working as a psychological therapist, I believe it's more appropriate to approach clients as 'souls' in need of hearing, healing, connection, meaning, and renewal. ​
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Ruth Robson
Counsellor, MBACP
If you are going through a life change, struggling with relationships, or questioning your identity, I offer a supportive space, free of judgement, to explore your experiences and next steps. I believe there’s no "one size fits all" way of doing therapy, so I take an integrative approach to tailor our sessions to you. This could mean person-centered counselling where you bring in an issue each week, coaching strategies to develop coping skills, or creative methods to explore confusing feelings. I aim to be flexible to best support your personal growth, and therapy goals.
If you are going through a life change, struggling with relationships, or questioning your identity, I offer a supportive space, free of judgement, to explore your experiences and next steps. I believe there’s no "one size fits all" way of doing therapy, so I take an integrative approach to tailor our sessions to you. This could mean person-centered counselling where you bring in an issue each week, coaching strategies to develop coping skills, or creative methods to explore confusing feelings. I aim to be flexible to best support your personal growth, and therapy goals.
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Matthew Booth
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
I offer supportive sessions for all adults where your identity, experiences, and voice are respected and valued. My approach is warm, inclusive and grounded in the belief that therapy should be a space where you feel free to be fully yourself - no judgement, no masks. Whether you're navigating identity, relationships, self-worth, or life's messier moments, I'm here to support you in reconnecting with your voice, your strength, and your freedom to live life on your terms.
I offer supportive sessions for all adults where your identity, experiences, and voice are respected and valued. My approach is warm, inclusive and grounded in the belief that therapy should be a space where you feel free to be fully yourself - no judgement, no masks. Whether you're navigating identity, relationships, self-worth, or life's messier moments, I'm here to support you in reconnecting with your voice, your strength, and your freedom to live life on your terms.
0113 519 3311 View 0113 519 3311
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Kathryn Fox
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
It can be exceptionally tough to start looking for therapy, and I'm proud of you for doing so. As both a practicing therapist and as someone who has healed and grown in therapy myself, I know how it feels to be in both chairs in the therapy office. Our sessions will have you at the centre, and I specialise in helping trans and/or non-binary people become who they really are without judgement. If you're looking for somewhere to create meaning in your life, you’re feeling lost or hopeless, or you’re seeking emotional support, please get in touch. I’m offering therapy through Zoom and by phone, depending on your preference.
It can be exceptionally tough to start looking for therapy, and I'm proud of you for doing so. As both a practicing therapist and as someone who has healed and grown in therapy myself, I know how it feels to be in both chairs in the therapy office. Our sessions will have you at the centre, and I specialise in helping trans and/or non-binary people become who they really are without judgement. If you're looking for somewhere to create meaning in your life, you’re feeling lost or hopeless, or you’re seeking emotional support, please get in touch. I’m offering therapy through Zoom and by phone, depending on your preference.
01429 807933 View 01429 807933
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Hannah Graham
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Waitlist for new clients
Are you looking for a counsellor who celebrates you for who you are and respects you as an expert in your own experience? As a humanistic, integrative counsellor, I'll put your unique self at the very heart of our work and draw from a variety of therapeutic techniques to find out what works best for you. I aim to use kindness, warmth and humour to create a space where you can be yourself and achieve your goals. Inclusivity is central to my practice: I'm neurodiversity affirming; and committed to supporting LGBQT+ clients, including trans and gender diverse clients, and those in non-monogamous or non-traditional relationships.
Are you looking for a counsellor who celebrates you for who you are and respects you as an expert in your own experience? As a humanistic, integrative counsellor, I'll put your unique self at the very heart of our work and draw from a variety of therapeutic techniques to find out what works best for you. I aim to use kindness, warmth and humour to create a space where you can be yourself and achieve your goals. Inclusivity is central to my practice: I'm neurodiversity affirming; and committed to supporting LGBQT+ clients, including trans and gender diverse clients, and those in non-monogamous or non-traditional relationships.
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Ruby Aujla
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
I have great experience in helping individuals explore meaningful ways of living. Connecting to their authentic selves, whilst developing more authentic and meaningful relationships. I help individuals and couples to understand what is at the roots of their conflicts and dissatisfaction. Helping explore anger, rejection, disappointment and betrayal. Hot and cold relationships increase individuals insecurities. I help individuals understand what lies underneath their relationship choices, underneath repeated patterns, their fears of genuine intimacy and the dance of intimacy individuals and couples play out in their relationships.
I have great experience in helping individuals explore meaningful ways of living. Connecting to their authentic selves, whilst developing more authentic and meaningful relationships. I help individuals and couples to understand what is at the roots of their conflicts and dissatisfaction. Helping explore anger, rejection, disappointment and betrayal. Hot and cold relationships increase individuals insecurities. I help individuals understand what lies underneath their relationship choices, underneath repeated patterns, their fears of genuine intimacy and the dance of intimacy individuals and couples play out in their relationships.
0191 743 3239 View 0191 743 3239
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Lucy Slesser
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I specialise in working with adults experiencing anxiety, whether that’s constant overthinking, relationship worries, or a deeper sense of feeling stuck or unsettled. Alongside my private practice, I work within the NHS as a Psychotherapeutic Counsellor, supporting clients with more complex and long-standing emotional difficulties and trauma. This has shaped a way of working that is both grounded and effective.
I specialise in working with adults experiencing anxiety, whether that’s constant overthinking, relationship worries, or a deeper sense of feeling stuck or unsettled. Alongside my private practice, I work within the NHS as a Psychotherapeutic Counsellor, supporting clients with more complex and long-standing emotional difficulties and trauma. This has shaped a way of working that is both grounded and effective.
07476 572407 View 07476 572407
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IAS Ltd
Psychotherapist, BACP
I have over 25 years of experience working with adults -couples and young people who are experiencing, anxiety, depression along with other emotional and psychological distress. Counselling can be a liberating and uplifting experience, making the first step to call a counsellor is the biggest step you can make. see further down the page for more information about counselling ) I also see couples who are experiencing relationship issues and difficulties or just need to talk through issues together, in a professional, safe place.I qualified as a Person Centred Counsellor and Cognitive (CBT) Therapist. Take the steps to make change
I have over 25 years of experience working with adults -couples and young people who are experiencing, anxiety, depression along with other emotional and psychological distress. Counselling can be a liberating and uplifting experience, making the first step to call a counsellor is the biggest step you can make. see further down the page for more information about counselling ) I also see couples who are experiencing relationship issues and difficulties or just need to talk through issues together, in a professional, safe place.I qualified as a Person Centred Counsellor and Cognitive (CBT) Therapist. Take the steps to make change
07506 747122 View 07506 747122
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Dr Stuart Sadler
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
Serves Area
I specialise in helping people overcome problems such as depression, anxiety (whether due to worry, obsessive-compulsive disorder, health anxiety, or intrusive thoughts), and sleep disorders (such as insomnia, nightmares and early waking) so they can feel better and function better in day to day life again.
I specialise in helping people overcome problems such as depression, anxiety (whether due to worry, obsessive-compulsive disorder, health anxiety, or intrusive thoughts), and sleep disorders (such as insomnia, nightmares and early waking) so they can feel better and function better in day to day life again.
019467 60715 View 019467 60715
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Armele Philpotts
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
When you're going through a challenging time working with someone who has supported others in similar situations is a great way to move forward. I can support you to take some time out of the same old experiences, to invest in yourself so you can be happier and enjoy what life has to offer. It's possible to work with me one to one or in your couple.
When you're going through a challenging time working with someone who has supported others in similar situations is a great way to move forward. I can support you to take some time out of the same old experiences, to invest in yourself so you can be happier and enjoy what life has to offer. It's possible to work with me one to one or in your couple.
0191 743 3173 View 0191 743 3173
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Samantha Jane Johnson
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Hi, I'm Samantha Johnson, co founder of SR2 Therapeutic Solutions and I am a Person Centred Therapist (PCT) and Cognitive Behavioural therapist (CBT) for children and adults. I have been practising counselling PCT & CBT since 2020. I have previously worked for over 8 years supporting children and adults in educational settings. I have recently worked as a school lead in mental health counselling where I supported children with additional and complex needs, their parents and carers and their wider family. I currently have my own therapy space and offer a free telephone or video consultation in the first instance with all clients.
Hi, I'm Samantha Johnson, co founder of SR2 Therapeutic Solutions and I am a Person Centred Therapist (PCT) and Cognitive Behavioural therapist (CBT) for children and adults. I have been practising counselling PCT & CBT since 2020. I have previously worked for over 8 years supporting children and adults in educational settings. I have recently worked as a school lead in mental health counselling where I supported children with additional and complex needs, their parents and carers and their wider family. I currently have my own therapy space and offer a free telephone or video consultation in the first instance with all clients.
0191 743 9755 View 0191 743 9755
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Izzy Savege
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Hello, I'm Izzy :) I offer a grounding presence and creative approach. Sessions are a gentle place for you land and explore things at your own pace. Our goal to help you embrace your strength and your sensitivity. My practical take on therapy suits overthinkers and worriers who want to live a more embodied life. You don't need any artistic skills or experience to work with me!
Hello, I'm Izzy :) I offer a grounding presence and creative approach. Sessions are a gentle place for you land and explore things at your own pace. Our goal to help you embrace your strength and your sensitivity. My practical take on therapy suits overthinkers and worriers who want to live a more embodied life. You don't need any artistic skills or experience to work with me!
01904 949324 View 01904 949324
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specialising in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialise in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.

When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counselling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counselling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.

How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.