Domestic Abuse Counselling in Cottingham

Debi Bell
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Where trauma, grief or domestic abuse is part of the picture, I work carefully and at your pace, and the space is always warm, honest and entirely confidential.
Some people arrive knowing exactly what's wrong. Most don't. They just know something has to change. They're tired of going round in circles. Tired of the same arguments, the same anxious feelings, the same version of themselves showing up. Couples navigating affairs and betrayals, or just growing apart. Individuals carrying work-related stress, or a career shift that's shaken who they are. Professionals brilliant at their job and falling apart at home. I work with couples using Emotionally Focused Therapy, and with individuals at their own pace, to find what's driving the pattern you're stuck in, and a way through it together.
Where trauma, grief or domestic abuse is part of the picture, I work carefully and at your pace, and the space is always warm, honest and entirely confidential.
Some people arrive knowing exactly what's wrong. Most don't. They just know something has to change. They're tired of going round in circles. Tired of the same arguments, the same anxious feelings, the same version of themselves showing up. Couples navigating affairs and betrayals, or just growing apart. Individuals carrying work-related stress, or a career shift that's shaken who they are. Professionals brilliant at their job and falling apart at home. I work with couples using Emotionally Focused Therapy, and with individuals at their own pace, to find what's driving the pattern you're stuck in, and a way through it together.
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Nicholas Richard Taylor
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Hi, my name is Nick. Have you lost your usual motivational energy to face the day ahead and the challenges this may bring? Do you always put other's needs before your own; forgetting what is important for you? Do you know something doesn't feel right, but you're not sure why?  If 'yes', then I can help you to find your answers.
Hi, my name is Nick. Have you lost your usual motivational energy to face the day ahead and the challenges this may bring? Do you always put other's needs before your own; forgetting what is important for you? Do you know something doesn't feel right, but you're not sure why?  If 'yes', then I can help you to find your answers.
01482 420902 View 01482 420902
Akanksha Wagh
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, UKCP Trainee
Online Only
I have experience of working with client presentations such as: drug and alcohol misuse, depression, anxiety, complex PTSD, bereavement, relationship issues, chronic health conditions, trauma and abuse and eating disorders / dysfunctional relationship with food.
I aim to provide a safe, warm, and non-judgmental space for clients to express and explore any difficulties they might be experiencing. I believe the therapeutic rapport between the therapist and client to be a vehicle for transformation and change. I am very client lead in my work and strive to collaboratively work with clients to tailor my approach to best suit what they require from me. Not one size fits all and no one approach is suited for all clients. I believe this outlook encourages clients fostering their individuality and uniqueness. I hope to help clients to feel empowered, confident, and reconnected with themselves.
I have experience of working with client presentations such as: drug and alcohol misuse, depression, anxiety, complex PTSD, bereavement, relationship issues, chronic health conditions, trauma and abuse and eating disorders / dysfunctional relationship with food.
I aim to provide a safe, warm, and non-judgmental space for clients to express and explore any difficulties they might be experiencing. I believe the therapeutic rapport between the therapist and client to be a vehicle for transformation and change. I am very client lead in my work and strive to collaboratively work with clients to tailor my approach to best suit what they require from me. Not one size fits all and no one approach is suited for all clients. I believe this outlook encourages clients fostering their individuality and uniqueness. I hope to help clients to feel empowered, confident, and reconnected with themselves.
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Beverley Counselling & Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I'm Caroline Hudson, a BACP senior accredited counsellor and UKCP accredited psychotherapist with over 25 years experience in working as a therapist. I run a private therapy centre in Beverley where we have eight therapists who offer a range of therapies.
I'm Caroline Hudson, a BACP senior accredited counsellor and UKCP accredited psychotherapist with over 25 years experience in working as a therapist. I run a private therapy centre in Beverley where we have eight therapists who offer a range of therapies.
07949 340943 View 07949 340943
Niki Palmer Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am interested in Abuse and Trauma and carry out pre-trial work, as well as many others issues.
Hello, I am Niki, I have a warm, caring, genuine and honest personality. I am people person, who has a passion for helping others improve their current situation to have a more fulfilled and meaningful life. I believe counselling needs to be a down to earth experience, I believe in an equal relationship between client and counsellor. I will not judge, place my opinions or beliefs on you, but walk beside you in your journey in therapy. I offer a professional service and am flexible in my way of working, adapting the work to meet your needs.
I am interested in Abuse and Trauma and carry out pre-trial work, as well as many others issues.
Hello, I am Niki, I have a warm, caring, genuine and honest personality. I am people person, who has a passion for helping others improve their current situation to have a more fulfilled and meaningful life. I believe counselling needs to be a down to earth experience, I believe in an equal relationship between client and counsellor. I will not judge, place my opinions or beliefs on you, but walk beside you in your journey in therapy. I offer a professional service and am flexible in my way of working, adapting the work to meet your needs.
07401 278970 View 07401 278970
Tracey Rees
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
We all feel challenged and overwhelmed at times. Whatever the greatest challenge is in your life right now, I aim to give you simple, straightforward strategies that could help you to live a happier life starting straight away. The thought of talking to a stranger might be daunting for some people, and that's perfectly normal. I can promise you a safe, non-judgemental and totally confidential environment where your thoughts and concerns are the most important thing and where you can talk openly about whatever is bothering you. You will be treated with the upmost respect - your happiness and wellbeing is important to me.
We all feel challenged and overwhelmed at times. Whatever the greatest challenge is in your life right now, I aim to give you simple, straightforward strategies that could help you to live a happier life starting straight away. The thought of talking to a stranger might be daunting for some people, and that's perfectly normal. I can promise you a safe, non-judgemental and totally confidential environment where your thoughts and concerns are the most important thing and where you can talk openly about whatever is bothering you. You will be treated with the upmost respect - your happiness and wellbeing is important to me.
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Suzanne Oades
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Clients often value the warmth, humanity, humour, and co-creative nature of the space I offer — somewhere you can think, feel, reflect, and move at your own pace in the presence of a real person.
Clients often value the warmth, humanity, humour, and co-creative nature of the space I offer — somewhere you can think, feel, reflect, and move at your own pace in the presence of a real person.
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Claire Bell
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I've successfully worked with clients struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, sexual trauma, relational trauma, divorce, domestic abuse, emotional abuse, sight loss, physical disabilities and loss of identity.
Neurodiversity-Affirming Therapy for People (16+) If you're autistic, have ADHD, or are dyslexic, you may have faced challenges that neurotypical people don't encounter as often — depression, anxiety, trauma, or bullying. Perhaps you've spent years masking who you are to fit in, leading to exhaustion and burnout. Maybe you've been told you're "too sensitive," or had your needs dismissed or misunderstood. You might be wondering if you're part of a generation that grew up undiagnosed. Or perhaps you're trying to understand your child better and recognizing aspects of yourself in them, curious whether you might be neurodivergent too.
I've successfully worked with clients struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, sexual trauma, relational trauma, divorce, domestic abuse, emotional abuse, sight loss, physical disabilities and loss of identity.
Neurodiversity-Affirming Therapy for People (16+) If you're autistic, have ADHD, or are dyslexic, you may have faced challenges that neurotypical people don't encounter as often — depression, anxiety, trauma, or bullying. Perhaps you've spent years masking who you are to fit in, leading to exhaustion and burnout. Maybe you've been told you're "too sensitive," or had your needs dismissed or misunderstood. You might be wondering if you're part of a generation that grew up undiagnosed. Or perhaps you're trying to understand your child better and recognizing aspects of yourself in them, curious whether you might be neurodivergent too.
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Chapter Two Therapy
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
I also have experience working with those affected by domestic abuse, providing a sensitive and empowering space to process trauma, rebuild trust, and reconnect with your sense of self.
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Alex Thomson
Counsellor, BACP
York YO61
From anxiety and depression, to survivors of abuse.
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Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
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1 Endorsed
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Hazel Williams
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Are things getting on top of you, so that your day to day living is a struggle, and your relationships with others are strained? Do you feel like past, or current, events are effecting how you cope with life today? I help people feel more confidence in their relationships by identifying the hurdles that are holding them back. I help people to find peace of mind by managing their anxiety or low mood. I support people through their bereavement to enable them to enjoy life again. Let me help you to make sense of your difficulties, so that you can connect more positively with your loved ones and the world.
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Domestic Abuse Counsellors
What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognise that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.

When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.

What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.

How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.