Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Colchester
I am kink aware and kink active!
Therapy can be useful for a whole myriad of reasons. From needing to get things off your chest, to stopping living in the past. I offer a safe space to explore, and really feel what is going on in your life. Working together in a therapeutic alliance, we will aim to settle feelings and build resilience. Talking Therapy can be a good place to let go of pent up emotion, and help organise and sort yourself in a way that can help you feel ready to go and be more present in the day!
I am kink aware and kink active!
Therapy can be useful for a whole myriad of reasons. From needing to get things off your chest, to stopping living in the past. I offer a safe space to explore, and really feel what is going on in your life. Working together in a therapeutic alliance, we will aim to settle feelings and build resilience. Talking Therapy can be a good place to let go of pent up emotion, and help organise and sort yourself in a way that can help you feel ready to go and be more present in the day!
Life often feels overwhelming, filled with challenges that tug at our inner peace. If you’ve been searching for a space to reconnect, to process, and to grow, I’m here to guide you with a holistic and empowering approach. My practice has evolved to go beyond traditional methods. My sessions now integrate a blend of talk therapy, hypnotherapy, and personalized self-guidance tools to empower you to take ownership of your healing process. At the heart of my work is the belief that transformation arises when we feel safe, seen, and supported.
Life often feels overwhelming, filled with challenges that tug at our inner peace. If you’ve been searching for a space to reconnect, to process, and to grow, I’m here to guide you with a holistic and empowering approach. My practice has evolved to go beyond traditional methods. My sessions now integrate a blend of talk therapy, hypnotherapy, and personalized self-guidance tools to empower you to take ownership of your healing process. At the heart of my work is the belief that transformation arises when we feel safe, seen, and supported.
Whether you're looking for a place to talk through your worries, are experiencing difficult changes, or want to explore more of who you are, I offer a relaxed, accepting space where you can simply be yourself. I take a genuine, human approach to counselling that meets you where you are at. I am a person-centred therapist at my core but collaborate with you to explore different styles of therapy that work for you.
I have worked in mental health services for 7+ years, supporting people experiencing anxiety, depression, mood disorders and complex needs. I also work with many clients who identify or are diagnosed autistic and/or ADHD.
Whether you're looking for a place to talk through your worries, are experiencing difficult changes, or want to explore more of who you are, I offer a relaxed, accepting space where you can simply be yourself. I take a genuine, human approach to counselling that meets you where you are at. I am a person-centred therapist at my core but collaborate with you to explore different styles of therapy that work for you.
I have worked in mental health services for 7+ years, supporting people experiencing anxiety, depression, mood disorders and complex needs. I also work with many clients who identify or are diagnosed autistic and/or ADHD.
Sometimes we all need additional support to navigate difficult times and making a decision to seek help for our personal problems can be daunting. I believe in creating a safe space to work together, where you are the expert in your own experiences and I have the experience and expertise in psychological theories and techniques. I believe that by bringing together this expertise we can work together to enable you to achieve your unique personal goals. Some of the relationship problems I work with include communication issues, affairs and betrayals, family issues, parenting issues, separation and divorce.
Sometimes we all need additional support to navigate difficult times and making a decision to seek help for our personal problems can be daunting. I believe in creating a safe space to work together, where you are the expert in your own experiences and I have the experience and expertise in psychological theories and techniques. I believe that by bringing together this expertise we can work together to enable you to achieve your unique personal goals. Some of the relationship problems I work with include communication issues, affairs and betrayals, family issues, parenting issues, separation and divorce.
I am an experienced Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor, this means I create an individual, personalised approach that is specific to your needs. As a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy I am able to work with male or female clients, couples and regularly help young people from the age of 12 and above. I have helped many clients with a diverse range of issues, including; Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar, Panic Attacks, Phobias, Postnatal Depression, Anger management, Eating disorders, Affairs, Addictions etc
I am an experienced Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor, this means I create an individual, personalised approach that is specific to your needs. As a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy I am able to work with male or female clients, couples and regularly help young people from the age of 12 and above. I have helped many clients with a diverse range of issues, including; Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar, Panic Attacks, Phobias, Postnatal Depression, Anger management, Eating disorders, Affairs, Addictions etc
Many of my clients are insightful, capable people who find themselves quietly carrying burdens that are difficult to name; a sense of disconnection, grief, stress, or uncertainty about who they are and what they truly need. You might be doing all the right things like showing up in your work and relationships, but feel like something’s missing or slowly coming undone.
Therapy with me offers a safe, confidential space to pause, reflect, and explore what’s really going on beneath the surface. Together, we look at the deeper patterns shaping your experience, and gently work toward greater clarity and self-understanding,
Many of my clients are insightful, capable people who find themselves quietly carrying burdens that are difficult to name; a sense of disconnection, grief, stress, or uncertainty about who they are and what they truly need. You might be doing all the right things like showing up in your work and relationships, but feel like something’s missing or slowly coming undone.
Therapy with me offers a safe, confidential space to pause, reflect, and explore what’s really going on beneath the surface. Together, we look at the deeper patterns shaping your experience, and gently work toward greater clarity and self-understanding,
Specialist in Trauma, PTSD, Burnout, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, Low self-esteem and abuse to name few. I have a variety of trainings and experiences included CBT, Gestalt, Attachment therapy, Child Gigogne theory in therapeutic process. This means, I am able to tailor your session, finding the right way of working for you. I have good knowledge and understanding of ethnic backgrounds and faiths, and also an interest in working with members of the sexual minority. I am working both face to face and online. In addition to my one to one session, I also work with groups, both individuals and couple counselling in a groups setting.
Specialist in Trauma, PTSD, Burnout, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, Low self-esteem and abuse to name few. I have a variety of trainings and experiences included CBT, Gestalt, Attachment therapy, Child Gigogne theory in therapeutic process. This means, I am able to tailor your session, finding the right way of working for you. I have good knowledge and understanding of ethnic backgrounds and faiths, and also an interest in working with members of the sexual minority. I am working both face to face and online. In addition to my one to one session, I also work with groups, both individuals and couple counselling in a groups setting.
I work affirmatively and areas of expertise include relationship issues, kink and fetish, erection and ejaculation difficulties, painful sex, orgasm difficulties, low desire and mismatch, sex and the fuller figure, and problematic pornography/sex use.
Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist for couples and individuals – Zoom and in Essex.
I am often called a sex therapist and work with couples and individuals experiencing difficulties with sex, intimacy and communication. I offer sessions via Zoom and in-person in north Essex.
You may be dealing with low desire, painful sex, erection or arousal difficulties, porn-related concerns, affairs, or growing distance in your relationship. I provide a confidential, non-judgemental space to talk openly and to develop practical strategies to move forward.
I work affirmatively and areas of expertise include relationship issues, kink and fetish, erection and ejaculation difficulties, painful sex, orgasm difficulties, low desire and mismatch, sex and the fuller figure, and problematic pornography/sex use.
Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist for couples and individuals – Zoom and in Essex.
I am often called a sex therapist and work with couples and individuals experiencing difficulties with sex, intimacy and communication. I offer sessions via Zoom and in-person in north Essex.
You may be dealing with low desire, painful sex, erection or arousal difficulties, porn-related concerns, affairs, or growing distance in your relationship. I provide a confidential, non-judgemental space to talk openly and to develop practical strategies to move forward.
Clients have come to me for many different reasons. From dealing with past traumas, connecting with their emotions and understanding their reactions, to working on a better sense of self and building confidence. Each client comes to therapy seeking a safe and non-judgmental space to unpack their thoughts and emotions. They often come because they don't feel heard in their day-to-day life, or need somewhere to explore emotions without fear of reactions or feelings of guilt.
Clients have come to me for many different reasons. From dealing with past traumas, connecting with their emotions and understanding their reactions, to working on a better sense of self and building confidence. Each client comes to therapy seeking a safe and non-judgmental space to unpack their thoughts and emotions. They often come because they don't feel heard in their day-to-day life, or need somewhere to explore emotions without fear of reactions or feelings of guilt.
Perhaps you're feeling down or anxious, maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. Therapy I offer represents a safe, accepting, confidential space to look at whatever issues you may be facing right now, and find a way forwards. I can offer a chance to be heard and seen, an opportunity to work through your thoughts and feelings, and a time to develop new skills. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support.
Perhaps you're feeling down or anxious, maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. Therapy I offer represents a safe, accepting, confidential space to look at whatever issues you may be facing right now, and find a way forwards. I can offer a chance to be heard and seen, an opportunity to work through your thoughts and feelings, and a time to develop new skills. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support.
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Anthony Richard Fletcher Clarke
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Extreme trauma exists in PTSD but in some way all of us experience trauma from the school bully to the manager who does not listen. We all have states of anxiety and depression. What is a normal state and how do we know if we are heading for a breakdown. What is a balanced happy life? We can have control of some things in our life and other things come along and smack us in the face. What therapy with me does is give you a space for observation without personal judgement or criticism , questions from me so that I understand your motivations and help shape your goals. Sometimes your answers are in the past, often in the present.
Extreme trauma exists in PTSD but in some way all of us experience trauma from the school bully to the manager who does not listen. We all have states of anxiety and depression. What is a normal state and how do we know if we are heading for a breakdown. What is a balanced happy life? We can have control of some things in our life and other things come along and smack us in the face. What therapy with me does is give you a space for observation without personal judgement or criticism , questions from me so that I understand your motivations and help shape your goals. Sometimes your answers are in the past, often in the present.
You may feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or stuck in patterns you don’t fully understand. You might struggle with anxiety, low mood, emotional regulation, or relationship difficulties, or feel disconnected from yourself or others. Some clients feel numb, while others feel constantly on edge or burnt out. You may have experienced trauma, loss, or long-standing stress, or spent years coping, masking, or putting others first. You may want greater calm, clarity, self-understanding, and the ability to respond differently rather than just push through.
You may feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or stuck in patterns you don’t fully understand. You might struggle with anxiety, low mood, emotional regulation, or relationship difficulties, or feel disconnected from yourself or others. Some clients feel numb, while others feel constantly on edge or burnt out. You may have experienced trauma, loss, or long-standing stress, or spent years coping, masking, or putting others first. You may want greater calm, clarity, self-understanding, and the ability to respond differently rather than just push through.
Feeling like you've lost You? Or maybe you're not sure who You even were to begin with?
I work as a Counsellor with people like you who are struggling with who they are, what they want, and how to make changes.
Together, we work out what’s really going on for you, whether that’s at home, in your relationships or at work. We’ll then use that knowledge to determine what you truly want from therapy and keep our sessions moving in a direction that’s beneficial to you.
Feeling like you've lost You? Or maybe you're not sure who You even were to begin with?
I work as a Counsellor with people like you who are struggling with who they are, what they want, and how to make changes.
Together, we work out what’s really going on for you, whether that’s at home, in your relationships or at work. We’ll then use that knowledge to determine what you truly want from therapy and keep our sessions moving in a direction that’s beneficial to you.
Hi, I'm Mary (she/her), I'm passionate about supporting people with anxiety, suicidal thoughts, and relationship issues. Is your mind constantly racing, worrying whether you said or did the right thing? Wondering if people like you? Did you make the right decision? Do you find yourself beating yourself up when you feel like you've got something wrong and find it hard to let go of things. Maybe you find it hard to stand up for yourself. Life can be so overwhelming sometimes we can feel like we don't want to be here. It's exhausting isn't it! I'm guessing you're here because you're fed up and want something to change. I can help you.
Hi, I'm Mary (she/her), I'm passionate about supporting people with anxiety, suicidal thoughts, and relationship issues. Is your mind constantly racing, worrying whether you said or did the right thing? Wondering if people like you? Did you make the right decision? Do you find yourself beating yourself up when you feel like you've got something wrong and find it hard to let go of things. Maybe you find it hard to stand up for yourself. Life can be so overwhelming sometimes we can feel like we don't want to be here. It's exhausting isn't it! I'm guessing you're here because you're fed up and want something to change. I can help you.
Sam Nash: Integrative Psychotherapist
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Bury Saint Edmunds IP33
Waitlist for new clients
With nearly 10 years of experience supporting adults, adolescents, and families in both private practice and various mental health settings, I bring a wealth of expertise to the field. As a senior lecturer with extensive experience teaching postgraduate counselling students, I have a deep understanding of counselling, psychotherapy, and integrative therapeutic approaches. Additionally, I actively engage in current research and hold certification in trauma-informed therapy.
With nearly 10 years of experience supporting adults, adolescents, and families in both private practice and various mental health settings, I bring a wealth of expertise to the field. As a senior lecturer with extensive experience teaching postgraduate counselling students, I have a deep understanding of counselling, psychotherapy, and integrative therapeutic approaches. Additionally, I actively engage in current research and hold certification in trauma-informed therapy.
I believe that we are a product of our pasts but that does not define who we are today. With belief in our capacity to change, and integration of mind and body I will support you to live the life you want today. I will endevour to work openly, truthfully and consistantly with you to overcome the problems that you are experiancing, to find easier ways of coping so you can ultimatly live a satisfying fulfilling life. I also offer Auricular Acupuncture & Reiki which can be combined with counselling, each other or alone. These both help release painful emotions indirectly, and mentally prepare you for counselling.
I believe that we are a product of our pasts but that does not define who we are today. With belief in our capacity to change, and integration of mind and body I will support you to live the life you want today. I will endevour to work openly, truthfully and consistantly with you to overcome the problems that you are experiancing, to find easier ways of coping so you can ultimatly live a satisfying fulfilling life. I also offer Auricular Acupuncture & Reiki which can be combined with counselling, each other or alone. These both help release painful emotions indirectly, and mentally prepare you for counselling.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, offering both online and face-to-face therapy sessions. With specialist training and clinical experience with a Relate service, I have a strong background in couples therapy, supporting partners through a wide range of relationship challenges. My therapeutic approach is client-centred and integrative, drawing on Psychodynamic Therapy, CBT, Mindfulness, and Sensate Focus to support behavioural change, enhance communication, and improve sexual functioning.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, offering both online and face-to-face therapy sessions. With specialist training and clinical experience with a Relate service, I have a strong background in couples therapy, supporting partners through a wide range of relationship challenges. My therapeutic approach is client-centred and integrative, drawing on Psychodynamic Therapy, CBT, Mindfulness, and Sensate Focus to support behavioural change, enhance communication, and improve sexual functioning.
I work with adults who are figuring out who they are, what matters to them, and how to navigate life’s changes and transitions. Many are exploring identity, purpose, and big existential questions while managing anxiety, low mood, low self-esteem, or the lasting impact of past experiences. They may feel stuck, torn, or disconnected, trying to understand how their past, environment, relationships, and personal context shape them, and reconnect with the different parts of themselves. They want clarity, self-understanding, and the space to live authentically.
I work with adults who are figuring out who they are, what matters to them, and how to navigate life’s changes and transitions. Many are exploring identity, purpose, and big existential questions while managing anxiety, low mood, low self-esteem, or the lasting impact of past experiences. They may feel stuck, torn, or disconnected, trying to understand how their past, environment, relationships, and personal context shape them, and reconnect with the different parts of themselves. They want clarity, self-understanding, and the space to live authentically.
Anxiety, depression, trauma, menopause – whatever has brought you here today - I understand because I’ve been where you are right now. What you’re looking for is a way out of the dark space you’re in; to be guided by someone who knows the way; someone who has been there themself. Nothing gives me more joy than guiding people along a path that has been trodden by not just me, but many others just like you!
I offer a warm and friendly welcome, either in our lovely space here in the Suffolk countryside - where the kettle is always on! Or from the comfort of your own home via Zoom.
Anxiety, depression, trauma, menopause – whatever has brought you here today - I understand because I’ve been where you are right now. What you’re looking for is a way out of the dark space you’re in; to be guided by someone who knows the way; someone who has been there themself. Nothing gives me more joy than guiding people along a path that has been trodden by not just me, but many others just like you!
I offer a warm and friendly welcome, either in our lovely space here in the Suffolk countryside - where the kettle is always on! Or from the comfort of your own home via Zoom.
I am an Integrative therapist working with adults and young people to provide therapy and counselling services. My aim is to give you a safe space to express how you feel, understand your goals for therapy and work together to take steps towards achieving those goals. Through my experience working in different settings such as an Addiction Therapist for Inspire, Staff counsellor at ChildLine, staff therapist in multiple counselling agencies and a private therapist, I am able to work at your pace, provide an approach that is specific to your needs and give a therapy that works for you.
I am an Integrative therapist working with adults and young people to provide therapy and counselling services. My aim is to give you a safe space to express how you feel, understand your goals for therapy and work together to take steps towards achieving those goals. Through my experience working in different settings such as an Addiction Therapist for Inspire, Staff counsellor at ChildLine, staff therapist in multiple counselling agencies and a private therapist, I am able to work at your pace, provide an approach that is specific to your needs and give a therapy that works for you.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.