Sex Therapists in Cobham

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Dr Gagan Bangar
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
3 Endorsed
Cobham KT11
Alongside my expertise in working with common mental health difficulties, I have a special interest in helping people talk about areas such as relationships, sex, sexuality, gender, race, and culture.
I have many years of experience in delivering therapy to adults and young people with a variety of mental health difficulties. My style of work aims to help you to understand difficult patterns that may reoccur in your life and how to change them. I adopt an integrative approach, utilising relational approaches such as psychodynamic thinking alongside CBT.
Alongside my expertise in working with common mental health difficulties, I have a special interest in helping people talk about areas such as relationships, sex, sexuality, gender, race, and culture.
I have many years of experience in delivering therapy to adults and young people with a variety of mental health difficulties. My style of work aims to help you to understand difficult patterns that may reoccur in your life and how to change them. I adopt an integrative approach, utilising relational approaches such as psychodynamic thinking alongside CBT.
01372 233629 View 01372 233629
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Dr Rob - Clinical Psychologist - Online Therapy
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more.
As a psychologist, I am trained in more than 1 type of therapy & integrate approaches to best help the person I am working with. This may include exploring how the issues might have developed, learning practical strategies to help overcome the issues, processing past trauma, connecting more with oneself, & providing a confidential space to enable change.
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more.
As a psychologist, I am trained in more than 1 type of therapy & integrate approaches to best help the person I am working with. This may include exploring how the issues might have developed, learning practical strategies to help overcome the issues, processing past trauma, connecting more with oneself, & providing a confidential space to enable change.
01525 659965 View 01525 659965
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Dr Debbie Lovell
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a clinical sexologist/ sex therapist.
The interplay of mind and body is also central to the common mental health concerns I typically work with such as anxiety, anger, depression, trauma, eating disturbances and difficulties with sleep. I also work with related issues such as body dysmorphia, low self esteem, shame and relationship distress.
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a clinical sexologist/ sex therapist.
The interplay of mind and body is also central to the common mental health concerns I typically work with such as anxiety, anger, depression, trauma, eating disturbances and difficulties with sleep. I also work with related issues such as body dysmorphia, low self esteem, shame and relationship distress.
020 3909 9821 View 020 3909 9821
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The Love Clinic-Family, Couple, Individual Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Welcome to TLC. I am Andrea Tibbitts, a family and romantic Relationship Therapist and Coach. My heart and my expertise is for you to break painful recurring relational cycles and live a life you love. Whether it is a raw spot you keep landing on with your children, or your partner, or unhappiness within you, TLC is here for you. Maybe you are longing to restore relational harmony and connection but you are stuck in communication breakdown, escalating conflict, intimacy issues, growing distance or distress. Maybe you feel alone and sad about the disconnection from those you love, then this is your invitation to 'come home to happy'.
Welcome to TLC. I am Andrea Tibbitts, a family and romantic Relationship Therapist and Coach. My heart and my expertise is for you to break painful recurring relational cycles and live a life you love. Whether it is a raw spot you keep landing on with your children, or your partner, or unhappiness within you, TLC is here for you. Maybe you are longing to restore relational harmony and connection but you are stuck in communication breakdown, escalating conflict, intimacy issues, growing distance or distress. Maybe you feel alone and sad about the disconnection from those you love, then this is your invitation to 'come home to happy'.
01372 677570 View 01372 677570
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Adam Nanayakkara
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Online Only
It's understandable that seeking psychological support can feel daunting, especially for those who feel forced to adopt a public persona, are apprehensive about judgement or have a demanding schedule. Many of my clients, including those not familiar with accessing therapy, people concerned about privacy, and those with a public profile, find that online psychotherapy offers a convenient solution. Whether you're considering therapy for the first time or giving it a second chance after a previous experience, I'm here to provide tailored support that fits into your life, including availability of evening sessions if preferred.
It's understandable that seeking psychological support can feel daunting, especially for those who feel forced to adopt a public persona, are apprehensive about judgement or have a demanding schedule. Many of my clients, including those not familiar with accessing therapy, people concerned about privacy, and those with a public profile, find that online psychotherapy offers a convenient solution. Whether you're considering therapy for the first time or giving it a second chance after a previous experience, I'm here to provide tailored support that fits into your life, including availability of evening sessions if preferred.
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Neil Coburn
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
If you are looking for couples therapy, or if you are seeking individual counselling with a focus on relationships (whether intimate, work or family) I can potentially help. I trained to MA level at a leading centre for relationship therapy, and I'm one of very few men working in the field. When working with couples, my aim is to enable better conversations, build understanding, so that both partners can be more content. With individuals, it's often about having a conversation with yourself, and to consider how you are in relation to others.
If you are looking for couples therapy, or if you are seeking individual counselling with a focus on relationships (whether intimate, work or family) I can potentially help. I trained to MA level at a leading centre for relationship therapy, and I'm one of very few men working in the field. When working with couples, my aim is to enable better conversations, build understanding, so that both partners can be more content. With individuals, it's often about having a conversation with yourself, and to consider how you are in relation to others.
01372 679976 View 01372 679976
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Keely Reichardt
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
Before becoming a therapist, I completed a masters degree in Gender, Sexuality & Society whilst at the same time volunteering for a helpline that supports survivors of sexual violence.
I’m Keely Reichardt MSc MBACP, an integrative therapist committed to creating a compassionate space where you can begin to explore and reconnect with yourself. I have a vested interest in supporting those who have experienced domestic abuse or any other form of gender based violence. I also specialise in supporting those who identify as neurodivergent and those who may be struggling with any form of addiction. My approach is relational and flexible. I work in the here and now, but when it’s relevant or needed, we may revisit earlier experiences to understand how they might still be shaping your current patterns. I believe in
Before becoming a therapist, I completed a masters degree in Gender, Sexuality & Society whilst at the same time volunteering for a helpline that supports survivors of sexual violence.
I’m Keely Reichardt MSc MBACP, an integrative therapist committed to creating a compassionate space where you can begin to explore and reconnect with yourself. I have a vested interest in supporting those who have experienced domestic abuse or any other form of gender based violence. I also specialise in supporting those who identify as neurodivergent and those who may be struggling with any form of addiction. My approach is relational and flexible. I work in the here and now, but when it’s relevant or needed, we may revisit earlier experiences to understand how they might still be shaping your current patterns. I believe in
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Dr Cristian A Nica
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
Progress means change, rehearsing new ways of thinking or a range of strategies to iterate development safely. The result: a genuine approach for you to always find a better way forward. My goal is to provide you with a strong mental platform and the skills to help you keep your life within reach. Registered in clinical, counselling, health, and occupational psychology. Providing services using eclectic CBT interventions (ACT, DBT, ST) — the most effective and intuitive psychological framework. I address all psychopathologies (supervisor).
Progress means change, rehearsing new ways of thinking or a range of strategies to iterate development safely. The result: a genuine approach for you to always find a better way forward. My goal is to provide you with a strong mental platform and the skills to help you keep your life within reach. Registered in clinical, counselling, health, and occupational psychology. Providing services using eclectic CBT interventions (ACT, DBT, ST) — the most effective and intuitive psychological framework. I address all psychopathologies (supervisor).
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Harriet Marciano
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Whether you are looking for support or trying to make sense of your life, I'm here to help. During the sessions you are given the space needed to wonder, reflect and explore new ways/perspectives about yourself, gaining insight in order to make positive changes. My strengths as a therapist include showing compassion, empathy, patience and sensitivity to create a safe environment to explore difficult feelings freely.
Whether you are looking for support or trying to make sense of your life, I'm here to help. During the sessions you are given the space needed to wonder, reflect and explore new ways/perspectives about yourself, gaining insight in order to make positive changes. My strengths as a therapist include showing compassion, empathy, patience and sensitivity to create a safe environment to explore difficult feelings freely.
020 3959 7355 View 020 3959 7355
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Cecily Criminale
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Not accepting new clients
In a confidential, welcoming space, we talk about sex.
Therapy can offer a variety of ways to support you including: psychosexual education; trauma work; exploration of thoughts, feelings, and behaviours that don't make sense; or just having someone you can speak to who 'gets it' and gives you a space to discuss sex and intimacy without judgement.
In a confidential, welcoming space, we talk about sex.
Therapy can offer a variety of ways to support you including: psychosexual education; trauma work; exploration of thoughts, feelings, and behaviours that don't make sense; or just having someone you can speak to who 'gets it' and gives you a space to discuss sex and intimacy without judgement.
020 4538 5896 View 020 4538 5896

More Therapists Nearby

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Healthy Mind Healthy Body Therapeutic Services
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Serves Area
I am a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist (PGDip University of Dundee) as well as a sex and relationship therapist (PGDip/University of Hull/RELATE).
As a sex and relationship therapist I support couples and individuals to repair, improve, and enrich their relationships. I specialise in treating sexual issues, including compulsive sexual behaviour. I have a PGDip in Couple Counselling and a PGDip in Psychosexual Therapy.
I am a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist (PGDip University of Dundee) as well as a sex and relationship therapist (PGDip/University of Hull/RELATE).
As a sex and relationship therapist I support couples and individuals to repair, improve, and enrich their relationships. I specialise in treating sexual issues, including compulsive sexual behaviour. I have a PGDip in Couple Counselling and a PGDip in Psychosexual Therapy.
0141 673 8072 View 0141 673 8072
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Dr Katie Yon
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am a Clinical Psychologist specialising in working with individuals and couples presenting with concerns about sex and relationships.
I completed my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology at UCL. Recently I held a position as a Clinical Tutor on a Clinical Psychology Doctorate Programme at a London-based University, lecturing on various topics in the field including psychosexual therapy and depression. Alongside my clinical work I am an author of several publications in peer-reviewed journals.
I am a Clinical Psychologist specialising in working with individuals and couples presenting with concerns about sex and relationships.
I completed my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology at UCL. Recently I held a position as a Clinical Tutor on a Clinical Psychology Doctorate Programme at a London-based University, lecturing on various topics in the field including psychosexual therapy and depression. Alongside my clinical work I am an author of several publications in peer-reviewed journals.
020 4538 1487 View 020 4538 1487
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Deborah Sless
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
London NW5
I am a fully qualified experienced and accredited psychotherapist working with individuals and couples (since 1992). I am also an accredited COSRT Psychosexual and Relationship therapist. My aim is to build a safe and holding space for a trusting relationship to develop where you can explore and share your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and problems/difficulties. I believe that you have many of the answers you are seeking within yourself.
I am a fully qualified experienced and accredited psychotherapist working with individuals and couples (since 1992). I am also an accredited COSRT Psychosexual and Relationship therapist. My aim is to build a safe and holding space for a trusting relationship to develop where you can explore and share your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and problems/difficulties. I believe that you have many of the answers you are seeking within yourself.
020 3984 7837 View 020 3984 7837
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Irina Timonina
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London SE1
I welcome individuals and couples of any culture, sexuality, and gender, offering short and long-term therapy, face-to-face or online.
Are you feeling stuck in painful relationship dynamics, struggling with intimacy or sexual challenges, or navigating the complexities of cultural transition and identity? Do you feel like some parts of you are lost, wounded, or out of sync - with your partner, your body, or your sense of self? You may be carrying stories that no longer serve you, shaped by culture, past relationships, or unspoken wounds. As an integrative counsellor, psychosexual and relationship therapist, I offer a space where all of you is welcome - where we slow down, listen deeply, and gently reconnect you with who you are, and how you want to live and love.
I welcome individuals and couples of any culture, sexuality, and gender, offering short and long-term therapy, face-to-face or online.
Are you feeling stuck in painful relationship dynamics, struggling with intimacy or sexual challenges, or navigating the complexities of cultural transition and identity? Do you feel like some parts of you are lost, wounded, or out of sync - with your partner, your body, or your sense of self? You may be carrying stories that no longer serve you, shaped by culture, past relationships, or unspoken wounds. As an integrative counsellor, psychosexual and relationship therapist, I offer a space where all of you is welcome - where we slow down, listen deeply, and gently reconnect you with who you are, and how you want to live and love.
020 3870 3817 View 020 3870 3817
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Amanda Watson
Psychotherapist, PsychD
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am also able to support clients with psychological and emotional issues around sex, love, relationships (of all kinds), as well as sex/porn addictions, sexual abuse, BDSM/Kink, ENM/Poly and affairs.
I offer psychotherapy/counselling to individuals and couples/partnerships of all sexual orientations with a supportive and non judgemental approach. I work from an integrative perspective using a range of theories and strategies to suit the specific needs of the client and I specialise in Psychosexual and Relationship issues. I have a 25 year background in Education and Teaching. Together we can work on things to allow you to live the best life possible
I am also able to support clients with psychological and emotional issues around sex, love, relationships (of all kinds), as well as sex/porn addictions, sexual abuse, BDSM/Kink, ENM/Poly and affairs.
I offer psychotherapy/counselling to individuals and couples/partnerships of all sexual orientations with a supportive and non judgemental approach. I work from an integrative perspective using a range of theories and strategies to suit the specific needs of the client and I specialise in Psychosexual and Relationship issues. I have a 25 year background in Education and Teaching. Together we can work on things to allow you to live the best life possible
020 4538 2359 View 020 4538 2359
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Charlotte Smith
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
London WC1H
Are you feeling overwhelmed by physical or mental health problems or weight? Does your body or mind feel out of your control? Perhaps you've been diagnosed with a new condition or can't get your head round an existing one? Are any of these issues impacting on your emotions or relationships with others? I can help. I value supporting people with finding their own path, standing out from the crowd, building connection and relationships. I am not a fixer and I don't have all the answers, although I know that I am OK to sit with people in chaos. I strongly believe people can be empowered to find their own way, on their own terms.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by physical or mental health problems or weight? Does your body or mind feel out of your control? Perhaps you've been diagnosed with a new condition or can't get your head round an existing one? Are any of these issues impacting on your emotions or relationships with others? I can help. I value supporting people with finding their own path, standing out from the crowd, building connection and relationships. I am not a fixer and I don't have all the answers, although I know that I am OK to sit with people in chaos. I strongly believe people can be empowered to find their own way, on their own terms.
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Bob Lynton
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I specialise in working with individuals and couples on relationship and sexual issues. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for adults of all ages, cultural backgrounds, and sexual orientations. I believe each relationship is unique, so I take a flexible approach depending on the individual's or couple's needs and objectives. In addition to my private practice, I work at Tavistock Relationships - the world-leading centre of excellence for clinical work, research and training in couple counselling. I also have several years' experience of working in the NHS at St Bartholomew's and The Royal London hospitals.
I specialise in working with individuals and couples on relationship and sexual issues. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for adults of all ages, cultural backgrounds, and sexual orientations. I believe each relationship is unique, so I take a flexible approach depending on the individual's or couple's needs and objectives. In addition to my private practice, I work at Tavistock Relationships - the world-leading centre of excellence for clinical work, research and training in couple counselling. I also have several years' experience of working in the NHS at St Bartholomew's and The Royal London hospitals.
01748 901685 View 01748 901685
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Working Through
Counsellor, MA, COSRT General
London EC2M
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
020 8103 5619 View 020 8103 5619
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Rosalind Simpson
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
2 Endorsed
London N16
My approach is inclusive, trauma-informed, attachment-based, and sex-positive, creating a safe space to explore emotions, relationships, and identity.
I work with all mental health issues including sex, relationship, PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression and abuse, stress in the work place and addiction. City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide i am LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
My approach is inclusive, trauma-informed, attachment-based, and sex-positive, creating a safe space to explore emotions, relationships, and identity.
I work with all mental health issues including sex, relationship, PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression and abuse, stress in the work place and addiction. City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide i am LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
020 3856 8640 View 020 3856 8640
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Richard Absalom
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am what is known a Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist.
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health. Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
I am what is known a Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist.
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health. Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
01872 304527 View 01872 304527
Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.