Infidelity Counselling in Cobham

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Vanessa Tait
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
I am an experienced Relate counsellor, specialising in single and couple relationship counselling. I help you improve communication, resolve conflict, process an affair, and rebuild trust and closeness. If you are having too familiar arguments, feeling unsatisfied in your relationship and considering separation or are just simply exhausted by the demands of young/old family, I am here for you. Talking to someone objectively, with no connection to yourself or your partner, is often all that is necessary to gain a more positive perspective.
I am an experienced Relate counsellor, specialising in single and couple relationship counselling. I help you improve communication, resolve conflict, process an affair, and rebuild trust and closeness. If you are having too familiar arguments, feeling unsatisfied in your relationship and considering separation or are just simply exhausted by the demands of young/old family, I am here for you. Talking to someone objectively, with no connection to yourself or your partner, is often all that is necessary to gain a more positive perspective.
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Barbara Cashman
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
If you are having difficulties in your relationship with your partner or your family, if you are at a crossroad where you need to reassess your present and your preferred future, do not hesitate to contact me. I have more than 14 years experience in Relationship counselling, I offer a warm friendly and confidential approach face to face or online. Counselling in French available
If you are having difficulties in your relationship with your partner or your family, if you are at a crossroad where you need to reassess your present and your preferred future, do not hesitate to contact me. I have more than 14 years experience in Relationship counselling, I offer a warm friendly and confidential approach face to face or online. Counselling in French available
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Louise Smith
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cobham KT11
Hello, and welcome to my profile. Making the decision to see a counsellor can take an immense amount of courage - acknowledging that you may need some help in talking through and making sense of some of the feelings causing you pain can feel a big step. There may be events, or even moments, that leave you fighting for breath. Feelings of shame or failure that you cannot seem to shift, or a sense of dread and foreboding, making everyday life a struggle. Perhaps the death of a loved one, conflict with family or friends, or a significant life change such as divorce or redundancy has caused you to feel off balance.
Hello, and welcome to my profile. Making the decision to see a counsellor can take an immense amount of courage - acknowledging that you may need some help in talking through and making sense of some of the feelings causing you pain can feel a big step. There may be events, or even moments, that leave you fighting for breath. Feelings of shame or failure that you cannot seem to shift, or a sense of dread and foreboding, making everyday life a struggle. Perhaps the death of a loved one, conflict with family or friends, or a significant life change such as divorce or redundancy has caused you to feel off balance.
01474 554939 View 01474 554939
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Dr Rob - Clinical Psychologist - Online Therapy
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11  (Online Only)
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more. I am a chartered clinical psychologist and EMDR therapist with over 15 years NHS experience of working in mental health and now work full time in private practice online.
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more. I am a chartered clinical psychologist and EMDR therapist with over 15 years NHS experience of working in mental health and now work full time in private practice online.
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Emma Cotterill
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
I am a Principal Clinical Psychologist, Chartered with the BPS and registered with HCPC. I work with adolescents and adults experiencing mental health difficulties, including depression, anxiety, panic, trauma, ptsd, phobias, OCD, stress. I also work with neurological difficulties and brain injuries. I use an individualised integrative therapy approach, drawing on CBT, ACT, Motivational Interviewing and Mindfulness. I am also skilled in behavioural management approaches and am trained in EMDR for trauma. I also have excellent Clinical Psychologists working with me.
I am a Principal Clinical Psychologist, Chartered with the BPS and registered with HCPC. I work with adolescents and adults experiencing mental health difficulties, including depression, anxiety, panic, trauma, ptsd, phobias, OCD, stress. I also work with neurological difficulties and brain injuries. I use an individualised integrative therapy approach, drawing on CBT, ACT, Motivational Interviewing and Mindfulness. I am also skilled in behavioural management approaches and am trained in EMDR for trauma. I also have excellent Clinical Psychologists working with me.
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Dr Louise Banham
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
I'm a Senior Clinical Psychologist, practising since 2000 and have worked in the NHS, Charity and Corporate sectors. I provide evidence-based, tailored psychological interventions to individuals aged 18+ using a variety of therapeutic models. I work collaboratively with you to understand your specific difficulties and work towards a solution. My specialty is helping clients experiencing relationship difficulties, attachment trauma or those managing transitional points, eg childbirth, career change, menopause, health problems, disability, divorce or bereavement.
I'm a Senior Clinical Psychologist, practising since 2000 and have worked in the NHS, Charity and Corporate sectors. I provide evidence-based, tailored psychological interventions to individuals aged 18+ using a variety of therapeutic models. I work collaboratively with you to understand your specific difficulties and work towards a solution. My specialty is helping clients experiencing relationship difficulties, attachment trauma or those managing transitional points, eg childbirth, career change, menopause, health problems, disability, divorce or bereavement.
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Jacky Power
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
Feeling the fallout of a loved one’s addiction? Addiction affects the whole family. It affects how you communicate, how you behave and how you feel. Trust is often broken - so knowing who to reach out to can feel risky. Turning to family and friends only leave you feeling more isolated and misunderstood. Maybe you have tried self help groups but they haven’t quite ‘hit the mark’. Turning to the person you love with an addiction only leaves you feeling frustrated and mistrusting. But… Relax. Here, you don’t have to do it alone. Download my free guide for those dealing with a loved one's addiction here on my website.
Feeling the fallout of a loved one’s addiction? Addiction affects the whole family. It affects how you communicate, how you behave and how you feel. Trust is often broken - so knowing who to reach out to can feel risky. Turning to family and friends only leave you feeling more isolated and misunderstood. Maybe you have tried self help groups but they haven’t quite ‘hit the mark’. Turning to the person you love with an addiction only leaves you feeling frustrated and mistrusting. But… Relax. Here, you don’t have to do it alone. Download my free guide for those dealing with a loved one's addiction here on my website.
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Cecily Criminale
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cobham KT11
In a confidential, welcoming space, we talk about sex. I offer a safe, compassionate place to talk about intimacy, relationships, sexual behaviours, erotic and sexual orientations, sexual bodies, and real vs. fantasised experiences. We look for a positive way forward to deal with something that feels stuck or unmanageable, in a therapy space that welcomes and understands sexual differences and experiences, and treats you with respect.
In a confidential, welcoming space, we talk about sex. I offer a safe, compassionate place to talk about intimacy, relationships, sexual behaviours, erotic and sexual orientations, sexual bodies, and real vs. fantasised experiences. We look for a positive way forward to deal with something that feels stuck or unmanageable, in a therapy space that welcomes and understands sexual differences and experiences, and treats you with respect.
020 4538 5896 View 020 4538 5896
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Charlotte Sharpe
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11  (Online Only)
I provide collaborative, client-led therapy for working through life’s challenges, changes, losses, and relationships. I am trained as an integrative therapist which allows me to use a range of therapeutic tools to fit your individual needs and therapeutic goals. I believe it is important to view each person as a whole and therefore my approach allows me to work holistically. ​
I provide collaborative, client-led therapy for working through life’s challenges, changes, losses, and relationships. I am trained as an integrative therapist which allows me to use a range of therapeutic tools to fit your individual needs and therapeutic goals. I believe it is important to view each person as a whole and therefore my approach allows me to work holistically. ​
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The Love Clinic-Individual, Couple, Family Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
Welcome to TLC. I am Andrea Tibbitts, a relationship specialist with a heart for you as an individual, as a couple and as a family, to break painful recurring cycles and live a life you love. Whether it is a cycle of unhappiness within you, or a raw spot with others, TLC is here for you. Maybe you are longing to live as your best self, and re-discover that in your loved ones too, but you are stuck in anxiety, depression, communication breakdown, escalating conflict, a lack of intimacy, growing distance or distress. Maybe you feel alone in your hurt and disconnected from those you love. This is your invitation to 'come home to happy'
Welcome to TLC. I am Andrea Tibbitts, a relationship specialist with a heart for you as an individual, as a couple and as a family, to break painful recurring cycles and live a life you love. Whether it is a cycle of unhappiness within you, or a raw spot with others, TLC is here for you. Maybe you are longing to live as your best self, and re-discover that in your loved ones too, but you are stuck in anxiety, depression, communication breakdown, escalating conflict, a lack of intimacy, growing distance or distress. Maybe you feel alone in your hurt and disconnected from those you love. This is your invitation to 'come home to happy'
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Ann Cassidy
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
Hi, I'm Ann, an experienced, qualified and BACP accredited integrative psychotherapist and supervisor, working in Esher and Bank EC2. I offer an empathic, collaborative and individualised approach to therapy, to help you gain perspective and make sense of the challenges you are facing. As an integrative psychotherapist, I draw on different psycho-therapeutic models to find the best approach for you, to help equip you to move forward in life with greater ease, and give you greater potential for further positive change.
Hi, I'm Ann, an experienced, qualified and BACP accredited integrative psychotherapist and supervisor, working in Esher and Bank EC2. I offer an empathic, collaborative and individualised approach to therapy, to help you gain perspective and make sense of the challenges you are facing. As an integrative psychotherapist, I draw on different psycho-therapeutic models to find the best approach for you, to help equip you to move forward in life with greater ease, and give you greater potential for further positive change.
01372 230577 View 01372 230577
Photo of Nic Perrins, Psychotherapist in Cobham, England
Nic Perrins
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
Depressed? Feeling sad? Anxious? Panic attacks? Grieving? I'm here to listen to and support you in your journey to wellness. I'm a qualified therapist experienced in helping clients work through their thoughts and emotions. I've been honoured to be helping people on their journey toward mental well-being for several years now.
Depressed? Feeling sad? Anxious? Panic attacks? Grieving? I'm here to listen to and support you in your journey to wellness. I'm a qualified therapist experienced in helping clients work through their thoughts and emotions. I've been honoured to be helping people on their journey toward mental well-being for several years now.
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Dr Zarina Prayag
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11  (Online Only)
I am a Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years’ experience working with clients with a range of difficulties, including low mood, self-esteem issues, worry, anxiety, social anxiety, OCD, phobias, relationship issues, trauma, psychosis, schizophrenia, and bipolar affective disorder. I have a special interest in working with clients with anxiety-related difficulties, and self-esteem and self-confidence issues. I am experienced in working with clients in the corporate sector, and people in sport. I also have experience working with clients with Asperger’s Syndrome, and adapt therapy to meet the needs of my clients.
I am a Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years’ experience working with clients with a range of difficulties, including low mood, self-esteem issues, worry, anxiety, social anxiety, OCD, phobias, relationship issues, trauma, psychosis, schizophrenia, and bipolar affective disorder. I have a special interest in working with clients with anxiety-related difficulties, and self-esteem and self-confidence issues. I am experienced in working with clients in the corporate sector, and people in sport. I also have experience working with clients with Asperger’s Syndrome, and adapt therapy to meet the needs of my clients.
01883 779613 View 01883 779613
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Catherine Elizabeth Butler
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11  (Online Only)
I provide a safe, therapeutic, non-judgmental and confidential environment where you can talk freely and honestly about what is concerning you. Together, we can take the time to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours as well as reflecting on your life, relationships and work. Working together, each week, we can piece together the reasons that underly your issues, and enable you to bring about lasting improvements in the way you feel and act. I work with individuals and couples to facilitate meaningful and lasting change for a greater sense of wellbeing.
I provide a safe, therapeutic, non-judgmental and confidential environment where you can talk freely and honestly about what is concerning you. Together, we can take the time to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours as well as reflecting on your life, relationships and work. Working together, each week, we can piece together the reasons that underly your issues, and enable you to bring about lasting improvements in the way you feel and act. I work with individuals and couples to facilitate meaningful and lasting change for a greater sense of wellbeing.
07453 798674 View 07453 798674
Photo of Harriet Marciano, Psychotherapist in Cobham, England
Harriet Marciano
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
Whether you are looking for support or trying to make sense of your life, I'm here to help. During the sessions you are given the space needed to wonder, reflect and explore new ways/perspectives about yourself, gaining insight in order to make positive changes. My strengths as a therapist include showing compassion, empathy, patience and sensitivity to create a safe environment to explore difficult feelings freely.
Whether you are looking for support or trying to make sense of your life, I'm here to help. During the sessions you are given the space needed to wonder, reflect and explore new ways/perspectives about yourself, gaining insight in order to make positive changes. My strengths as a therapist include showing compassion, empathy, patience and sensitivity to create a safe environment to explore difficult feelings freely.
020 3959 7355 View 020 3959 7355
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Alexandra Lee Therapy, BA(Hons), FdSc, MBACP
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11  (Online Only)
Life can be a struggle challenging and confusing. Sometimes it can be difficult to talk openly to the people in your life. As an experienced psychotherapist I provide a safe, confidential space to explore whatever is on your mind. I can support you in finding your way through the difficulties you’re experiencing, or have experienced in the past, in a way that feels right for you, and at a pace that feels comfortable. We can work together to make sense of what you’re thinking, feeling and going through, allowing you to develop a sense of healing, establish goals and grow towards them, and gain a greater understanding of yourself.
Life can be a struggle challenging and confusing. Sometimes it can be difficult to talk openly to the people in your life. As an experienced psychotherapist I provide a safe, confidential space to explore whatever is on your mind. I can support you in finding your way through the difficulties you’re experiencing, or have experienced in the past, in a way that feels right for you, and at a pace that feels comfortable. We can work together to make sense of what you’re thinking, feeling and going through, allowing you to develop a sense of healing, establish goals and grow towards them, and gain a greater understanding of yourself.
020 4538 3754 View 020 4538 3754
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Patrizia Mazzoli
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
You may be asked the question "How are you?" many times, but how often have you been able to respond to that question truthfully? You may hold back your emotions and feel anxious, confused and overwhelmed by life difficulties. You may feel that you cannot share what is inside you for fear of being judged, misunderstood or simply you cannot trust people around you. It may feel safer to reply: "I am ok!" and life goes on without giving a voice to your deep needs. My aim is to offer you a warm and non judgemental space where together we can explore the source of your emotional difficulties. Your emotional wellbeing is my priority.
You may be asked the question "How are you?" many times, but how often have you been able to respond to that question truthfully? You may hold back your emotions and feel anxious, confused and overwhelmed by life difficulties. You may feel that you cannot share what is inside you for fear of being judged, misunderstood or simply you cannot trust people around you. It may feel safer to reply: "I am ok!" and life goes on without giving a voice to your deep needs. My aim is to offer you a warm and non judgemental space where together we can explore the source of your emotional difficulties. Your emotional wellbeing is my priority.
01372 235676 View 01372 235676
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Angela Browne
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
Transform your life and navigate life's challenges with the support of a caring ally who is committed to your well-being. MindfulTransformation. Together we can create a space to explore your needs in a way that feels right for you. Therapy allows us to make sense of our feelings, behaviours and daily challenges, so we can overcome them with confidence and understanding. Anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relationship issues with partners, friends, our careers and most importantly with ourselves, are all important challenges we face in our lives. Navigating them is not always easy. I can help you with this and more.
Transform your life and navigate life's challenges with the support of a caring ally who is committed to your well-being. MindfulTransformation. Together we can create a space to explore your needs in a way that feels right for you. Therapy allows us to make sense of our feelings, behaviours and daily challenges, so we can overcome them with confidence and understanding. Anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relationship issues with partners, friends, our careers and most importantly with ourselves, are all important challenges we face in our lives. Navigating them is not always easy. I can help you with this and more.
01372 233780 View 01372 233780
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Jo Bird
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
We all struggle with life at times. situations and people can challenge us and the feeling of being alone or not knowing where to turn can be overwhelming.When you can no longer see joy in the world maybe you need some help finding yourself again. I will help you lift that heavy weight that is keeping you down. If anxiety is affecting your life we can explore the triggers and find ways to alleviate the symptoms and bring control back to your life.  This will improve sleep and allow you to access the world fully again.
We all struggle with life at times. situations and people can challenge us and the feeling of being alone or not knowing where to turn can be overwhelming.When you can no longer see joy in the world maybe you need some help finding yourself again. I will help you lift that heavy weight that is keeping you down. If anxiety is affecting your life we can explore the triggers and find ways to alleviate the symptoms and bring control back to your life.  This will improve sleep and allow you to access the world fully again.
01306 775129 View 01306 775129
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Life Check Therapy - Depression, Stress & More
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
You matter. No matter what you've done or what you're going through, you deserve to be heard and have a safe space where you can be 100% yourself. I realise that it can be really daunting looking for a counsellor or coach to connect with and I really appreciate that you're reading my profile right now. Whatever you are going through, whatever pain, troubles, difficulties or road blocks you may be experiencing, I'd love to connect and help you look at the options available to improve your quality of life. I'm passionate about supporting my clients. Thank you again for your time and I hope that you find the support that you need.
You matter. No matter what you've done or what you're going through, you deserve to be heard and have a safe space where you can be 100% yourself. I realise that it can be really daunting looking for a counsellor or coach to connect with and I really appreciate that you're reading my profile right now. Whatever you are going through, whatever pain, troubles, difficulties or road blocks you may be experiencing, I'd love to connect and help you look at the options available to improve your quality of life. I'm passionate about supporting my clients. Thank you again for your time and I hope that you find the support that you need.
020 4538 9834 View 020 4538 9834

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.