Divorce Counselling in Chislehurst
As a counsellor, I practice in a pluralistic way which means I draw upon different theoretical approaches when I work with you as an individual – after all, there is only one of you in the world! My aim is to attune to your individual needs and I strive to work in an authentic down to earth way that is interactive and collaborative. Counselling can be daunting so I will work with you at your pace, offering you a space that is non-judgemental, respectful and confidential. Everyone is different, but having a space to talk and actually be heard can be extremely powerful and healing; leading to a greater understanding of yourself.
As a counsellor, I practice in a pluralistic way which means I draw upon different theoretical approaches when I work with you as an individual – after all, there is only one of you in the world! My aim is to attune to your individual needs and I strive to work in an authentic down to earth way that is interactive and collaborative. Counselling can be daunting so I will work with you at your pace, offering you a space that is non-judgemental, respectful and confidential. Everyone is different, but having a space to talk and actually be heard can be extremely powerful and healing; leading to a greater understanding of yourself.
I'm an experienced anxiety and couples counsellor, supporting adults experiencing persistent anxiety, insomnia, burnout, and acute or complex trauma symptoms. I will help you feel understood, empowered and more in control of your emotional world.
In my couples therapy work, clients see conflict reduce, communication strengthen, trust rebuild, and emotional connection deepen.
I am also trained in CBT‑I, a structured 4–6 session, evidence‑based treatment for insomnia which reduces night‑time anxiety and rebuilds confidence in your ability to sleep.
I'm an experienced anxiety and couples counsellor, supporting adults experiencing persistent anxiety, insomnia, burnout, and acute or complex trauma symptoms. I will help you feel understood, empowered and more in control of your emotional world.
In my couples therapy work, clients see conflict reduce, communication strengthen, trust rebuild, and emotional connection deepen.
I am also trained in CBT‑I, a structured 4–6 session, evidence‑based treatment for insomnia which reduces night‑time anxiety and rebuilds confidence in your ability to sleep.
Sarah is a successful paralegal in the City who struggled with shameful feelings and self-disgust most of her life. Typically as Christmas was approaching and lots of parties invitations started to arrive on her desk, she would surrender into procrastination and self-criticism, in order to avoid a situation she felt likely to fail, supported by an exaggerated set of predictions about social embarrassment or other social disasters. Sarah struggles to improve her confidence and esteem - in spite of a successful academic and professional life. Her efforts are genuine but exhausting and she often is trapped by episodes of depression.
Sarah is a successful paralegal in the City who struggled with shameful feelings and self-disgust most of her life. Typically as Christmas was approaching and lots of parties invitations started to arrive on her desk, she would surrender into procrastination and self-criticism, in order to avoid a situation she felt likely to fail, supported by an exaggerated set of predictions about social embarrassment or other social disasters. Sarah struggles to improve her confidence and esteem - in spite of a successful academic and professional life. Her efforts are genuine but exhausting and she often is trapped by episodes of depression.
People struggle to talk frankly about their struggles: personal, relationships and sexual. Although difficulties arising from life transitions, sex and relationships are much more prevalent than most people think, only a few people can still share their struggles with others. Therefore, psychotherapy, psychosexual and relationship therapy offer a unique and confidential space to have those conversations with me, which means you can reach out for support in these areas regardless of your background, sexual preferences and relationship experiences.
People struggle to talk frankly about their struggles: personal, relationships and sexual. Although difficulties arising from life transitions, sex and relationships are much more prevalent than most people think, only a few people can still share their struggles with others. Therefore, psychotherapy, psychosexual and relationship therapy offer a unique and confidential space to have those conversations with me, which means you can reach out for support in these areas regardless of your background, sexual preferences and relationship experiences.
I provide therapy for anxiety, stress, & burn-out: if you’re constantly overwhelmed or emotionally exhausted, I’ll support you in a calm environment where you can talk openly, make sense of what you’re experiencing, and begin to feel better; physically and mentally.
I provide Couples therapy, helping you both with communication, sex problems, affairs & betrayals, supporting Monogamous, ENM couples and Poly relationships.
I work with Family Issues; conflicts with parents, siblings, or adult children, & estrangement, which can leave you feeling misunderstood or isolated. I’ll help to make sense of your family dynamic to move forward
I provide therapy for anxiety, stress, & burn-out: if you’re constantly overwhelmed or emotionally exhausted, I’ll support you in a calm environment where you can talk openly, make sense of what you’re experiencing, and begin to feel better; physically and mentally.
I provide Couples therapy, helping you both with communication, sex problems, affairs & betrayals, supporting Monogamous, ENM couples and Poly relationships.
I work with Family Issues; conflicts with parents, siblings, or adult children, & estrangement, which can leave you feeling misunderstood or isolated. I’ll help to make sense of your family dynamic to move forward
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
I trained as a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with the Tavistock and Portman NHS Trust. I have 20 years of experience working in the Public Sector with young people and adults with a range of emotional and mental health needs. I currently work in the NHS as a Highly Specialised Psychotherapist and have my own Private Practice. Please refer to my website horse4thought for information on Psychodynamic, EMDR and Equine Facilitated Therapy. I welcome people from all cultures and backgrounds. I work with adults, young people, and children with symptoms linked to trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship, and behavioural issues.
I trained as a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with the Tavistock and Portman NHS Trust. I have 20 years of experience working in the Public Sector with young people and adults with a range of emotional and mental health needs. I currently work in the NHS as a Highly Specialised Psychotherapist and have my own Private Practice. Please refer to my website horse4thought for information on Psychodynamic, EMDR and Equine Facilitated Therapy. I welcome people from all cultures and backgrounds. I work with adults, young people, and children with symptoms linked to trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship, and behavioural issues.
Perhaps you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or quietly struggling in ways others can’t see. You may look like you’re coping on the outside, but inside you feel anxious, low, disconnected, or unsure of who you are anymore.
Maybe you’re navigating relationship difficulties, loss, life transitions, work stress, or long-standing patterns that keep repeating. You might simply want a space where you don’t have to explain yourself, perform, or be “the strong one.”
At the heart of it, you want to feel heard. Understood. Accepted. You want clarity, confidence, and the freedom to be yourself without judgement.
Perhaps you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or quietly struggling in ways others can’t see. You may look like you’re coping on the outside, but inside you feel anxious, low, disconnected, or unsure of who you are anymore.
Maybe you’re navigating relationship difficulties, loss, life transitions, work stress, or long-standing patterns that keep repeating. You might simply want a space where you don’t have to explain yourself, perform, or be “the strong one.”
At the heart of it, you want to feel heard. Understood. Accepted. You want clarity, confidence, and the freedom to be yourself without judgement.
I am a qualified counsellor with 20+ years experience working with individuals & couples, with a particular expertise in issues relating to anxiety and depression, relationships, ADHD, and past trauma.
My ethos as a therapist is client-lead, my priority is creating a space which is welcoming and collaborative, allowing you to feel safe and effectively explore the issues you are struggling with.
I may be a good fit for you if you - feel stuck, overwhelmed, have a problem you can’t figure out, think you aren’t good enough, not where you want to be, want to move forward instead of circles and feel that you can’t make changes alone.
I am a qualified counsellor with 20+ years experience working with individuals & couples, with a particular expertise in issues relating to anxiety and depression, relationships, ADHD, and past trauma.
My ethos as a therapist is client-lead, my priority is creating a space which is welcoming and collaborative, allowing you to feel safe and effectively explore the issues you are struggling with.
I may be a good fit for you if you - feel stuck, overwhelmed, have a problem you can’t figure out, think you aren’t good enough, not where you want to be, want to move forward instead of circles and feel that you can’t make changes alone.
Starting counselling can feel like a big step, especially if you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure where to begin. I offer a calm, compassionate space where you can feel safe, heard, and accepted - just as you are.
I work with adults, teenagers (aged 16+), and couples. I have an additional diploma in couples and relationship therapy. If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, feeling overwhelmed, navigating relationship difficulties, or going through a big life change, we can explore it together. My approach is warm, caring, and down-to-earth. Each person has unique needs, and my sessions reflect that.
Starting counselling can feel like a big step, especially if you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure where to begin. I offer a calm, compassionate space where you can feel safe, heard, and accepted - just as you are.
I work with adults, teenagers (aged 16+), and couples. I have an additional diploma in couples and relationship therapy. If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, feeling overwhelmed, navigating relationship difficulties, or going through a big life change, we can explore it together. My approach is warm, caring, and down-to-earth. Each person has unique needs, and my sessions reflect that.
I am a specialist psychological therapist with over 10 000 hours of clinical practice. In our clinics we offer a range of therapeutic resources to support paediatric and young people in resolving mental health conditions and neurodiversity concerns. I am a qualified in EMDR and Trauma-focused CBT, and specialise in working with families with members with Autism and ADHD, amongst other therapies and have considerable training and experience managing traumatic presentations stemming from adverse life experiences. I also offer neuroscience-based psychological treatments for pain, chronic and terminal illness.
I am a specialist psychological therapist with over 10 000 hours of clinical practice. In our clinics we offer a range of therapeutic resources to support paediatric and young people in resolving mental health conditions and neurodiversity concerns. I am a qualified in EMDR and Trauma-focused CBT, and specialise in working with families with members with Autism and ADHD, amongst other therapies and have considerable training and experience managing traumatic presentations stemming from adverse life experiences. I also offer neuroscience-based psychological treatments for pain, chronic and terminal illness.
I am a qualified and experienced integrative counsellor working with both adults and adolescents. I have experience of working with clients struggling with anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, depression and loss/bereavement. I offer you the time and space free from judgement to express your feelings at your own pace.
I am a qualified and experienced integrative counsellor working with both adults and adolescents. I have experience of working with clients struggling with anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, depression and loss/bereavement. I offer you the time and space free from judgement to express your feelings at your own pace.
I consider myself to be highly empathic, intuitive and compassionate, I try to fully understand what my client is experiencing and feeling. My aim as your counsellor is to give you a "safe" space to talk openly and honestly with out fear of judgement.
I consider myself to be highly empathic, intuitive and compassionate, I try to fully understand what my client is experiencing and feeling. My aim as your counsellor is to give you a "safe" space to talk openly and honestly with out fear of judgement.
Let's Talk... Therapy gives you the opportunity to explore how life is for you, how you feel about it and how you react during certain situations, all with the aim of finding solutions that work for you. My aim is to provide a confidential, non-judgemental and accepting environment where I can help you explore your issues no matter what they are. Unresolved issues can cause great unhappiness and therapy can help to unlock suppressed feelings and emotions.
Let's Talk... Therapy gives you the opportunity to explore how life is for you, how you feel about it and how you react during certain situations, all with the aim of finding solutions that work for you. My aim is to provide a confidential, non-judgemental and accepting environment where I can help you explore your issues no matter what they are. Unresolved issues can cause great unhappiness and therapy can help to unlock suppressed feelings and emotions.
I’m Julieann, I work with the complexities of life. My experience is grounded in both professional understanding and lived experience allowing me to connect with clients in a genuine and human way. Life is not always straightforward. I work with anxiety, loss, family and relationship issues. Including complex background issues such as childhood sexual abuse and gang affiliiated issues.
Therapy is a collaborative process where you’ll feel heard, supported and empowered. if you’re here, you’ ve already taken an important first step - when you’re ready, message me to see if I am the right therapist for you.
I’m Julieann, I work with the complexities of life. My experience is grounded in both professional understanding and lived experience allowing me to connect with clients in a genuine and human way. Life is not always straightforward. I work with anxiety, loss, family and relationship issues. Including complex background issues such as childhood sexual abuse and gang affiliiated issues.
Therapy is a collaborative process where you’ll feel heard, supported and empowered. if you’re here, you’ ve already taken an important first step - when you’re ready, message me to see if I am the right therapist for you.
I work a lot with clients going through life transitions, from their twenties through to their nineties.
I have a lot of knowledge around ADHD/ autism and disabilities.
Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed,
Whatever has brought you to counselling, I offer a warm, supportive, non- judgemental space where we can explore what's troubling you and find a way forward together.
I have over 25 years experience as a counsellor and clinical supervisor. I have many tools and techniques to help with common issues such as anxiety, panic, depression. I like to get to know my clients and understand what is causing them emotional pain.
I work a lot with clients going through life transitions, from their twenties through to their nineties.
I have a lot of knowledge around ADHD/ autism and disabilities.
Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed,
Whatever has brought you to counselling, I offer a warm, supportive, non- judgemental space where we can explore what's troubling you and find a way forward together.
I have over 25 years experience as a counsellor and clinical supervisor. I have many tools and techniques to help with common issues such as anxiety, panic, depression. I like to get to know my clients and understand what is causing them emotional pain.
I can help you gain a clearer perspective and help you work through either a past trauma or a current issue such as bereavement, divorce, relationship difficulties, life changes or helping you find meaning in your life.
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, past trauma, or relationship difficulties? Know that there is hope, and change is within reach. Sometimes we can feel overwhelmed by life's pressures and difficulties and this can cause problems such as anxiety and depression. Past or present issues can cause emotional turmoil and it can be difficult to make sense of life's puzzle. I offer a space where you might be able to put some of the pieces back together and hopefully find a way forward.
I can help you gain a clearer perspective and help you work through either a past trauma or a current issue such as bereavement, divorce, relationship difficulties, life changes or helping you find meaning in your life.
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, past trauma, or relationship difficulties? Know that there is hope, and change is within reach. Sometimes we can feel overwhelmed by life's pressures and difficulties and this can cause problems such as anxiety and depression. Past or present issues can cause emotional turmoil and it can be difficult to make sense of life's puzzle. I offer a space where you might be able to put some of the pieces back together and hopefully find a way forward.
People usually seek therapy because they have reached a crisis point in their life and are struggling to cope alone. This can lead to feeling stuck or creating unhelpful behaviour patterns to cope which present them from living life to their full potential. We often feel confused, anxious, depressed, emotionally numb or trapped in our past without clear goals in life or clear identity. I can offer you a safe space to explore better internal understanding which promotes self awareness, personal growth and inner peace which enables you to feel full of hope and clarity to achieve personal success.
People usually seek therapy because they have reached a crisis point in their life and are struggling to cope alone. This can lead to feeling stuck or creating unhelpful behaviour patterns to cope which present them from living life to their full potential. We often feel confused, anxious, depressed, emotionally numb or trapped in our past without clear goals in life or clear identity. I can offer you a safe space to explore better internal understanding which promotes self awareness, personal growth and inner peace which enables you to feel full of hope and clarity to achieve personal success.
I understand that sometimes seeking support can feel daunting, but reaching out is a strong and meaningful place to begin. As a qualified person-centred counsellor, I offer a calm, confidential and supportive space for adults to explore whatever they may be going through, at their own pace.
Whether you're navigating anxiety, the impact of past experiences, relationship difficulties or a general sense that something doesn’t feel quite right, you don’t have to face it alone.
I understand that sometimes seeking support can feel daunting, but reaching out is a strong and meaningful place to begin. As a qualified person-centred counsellor, I offer a calm, confidential and supportive space for adults to explore whatever they may be going through, at their own pace.
Whether you're navigating anxiety, the impact of past experiences, relationship difficulties or a general sense that something doesn’t feel quite right, you don’t have to face it alone.
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
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Divorce Counsellors
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.