Counselling for Elderly in Chigwell

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Karen Bolton
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
I value the uniqueness of each individual experience and will tailor my approach to meet you where you are in your life – working with you so that you no longer feel stuck, unhappy or alone, reducing your anxiety, stress or depression and finding ways to make positive changes that improve your self-acceptance, self-esteem and personal confidence. We can work together so that you are able to address difficult past experiences and gain positive ways to manage your future thoughts, feelings and behaviour. I work with people who are neurodivergent, adapting my practice to ensure specific needs of autism and ADHD are met.
I value the uniqueness of each individual experience and will tailor my approach to meet you where you are in your life – working with you so that you no longer feel stuck, unhappy or alone, reducing your anxiety, stress or depression and finding ways to make positive changes that improve your self-acceptance, self-esteem and personal confidence. We can work together so that you are able to address difficult past experiences and gain positive ways to manage your future thoughts, feelings and behaviour. I work with people who are neurodivergent, adapting my practice to ensure specific needs of autism and ADHD are met.
07480 821478 View 07480 821478
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Hayley Collins
Counsellor, BACP
Online Only
Are you struggling with feelings of not being good enough, or finding it hard to cope with anxiety and low moods?. It is always good to be able to talk to somebody, especially somebody who has no connection to you and will show you no judgement. I offer a listening ear and support that helps you to address your thoughts and feelings. Which helps you to think about your next steps and how you can start to make that change that you need.
Are you struggling with feelings of not being good enough, or finding it hard to cope with anxiety and low moods?. It is always good to be able to talk to somebody, especially somebody who has no connection to you and will show you no judgement. I offer a listening ear and support that helps you to address your thoughts and feelings. Which helps you to think about your next steps and how you can start to make that change that you need.
020 3004 2358 View 020 3004 2358
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Amy Watts
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
3 Endorsed
Online Only
People come to therapy for many reasons. Some are dealing with anxiety, low mood, stress, or relationship issues; others feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of their next steps. Many want a space where they can talk openly, feel heard, and understand themselves better. Therapy can support people in making sense of emotions and experiences, managing challenges, and developing skills that help them feel more balanced, confident, and connected to themselves. Therapy with me is just that, it's tailored to you and your unique needs and therapy goals.
People come to therapy for many reasons. Some are dealing with anxiety, low mood, stress, or relationship issues; others feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of their next steps. Many want a space where they can talk openly, feel heard, and understand themselves better. Therapy can support people in making sense of emotions and experiences, managing challenges, and developing skills that help them feel more balanced, confident, and connected to themselves. Therapy with me is just that, it's tailored to you and your unique needs and therapy goals.
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Fleur Hocking
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am passionate about helping people find a happier and more fulfilled way of life. You may be struggling with depression, anxiety, recent or past trauma or you may be concerned about your relationship, having difficulty communicating or dealing with the aftermath of an affair. I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental and safe place to explore whatever your difficulties are and work through these side by side. I draw upon different approaches to provide a bespoke service to each of my client's particular issues. I have extensive experience working for Relate and in private practice with individuals and couples.
I am passionate about helping people find a happier and more fulfilled way of life. You may be struggling with depression, anxiety, recent or past trauma or you may be concerned about your relationship, having difficulty communicating or dealing with the aftermath of an affair. I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental and safe place to explore whatever your difficulties are and work through these side by side. I draw upon different approaches to provide a bespoke service to each of my client's particular issues. I have extensive experience working for Relate and in private practice with individuals and couples.
07400 349407 View 07400 349407
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Finding Yourself Therapy - Lucy Graves
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Do you struggle to understand who you are and what you want in life? Working through your difficulties can help you discover why you feel the way you do and make positive changes in your life. My approach is empathetic, understanding and tailored to your needs. I have a special interest in working with neurodivergent clients and have lived experience in ADHD, Autism and Dyslexia. The core of what I do is to support my clients emotionally as well as using practical techniques to help them understand themselves. This can empower the client to gain deeper self-awareness as well as manage their daily lives more effectively.
Do you struggle to understand who you are and what you want in life? Working through your difficulties can help you discover why you feel the way you do and make positive changes in your life. My approach is empathetic, understanding and tailored to your needs. I have a special interest in working with neurodivergent clients and have lived experience in ADHD, Autism and Dyslexia. The core of what I do is to support my clients emotionally as well as using practical techniques to help them understand themselves. This can empower the client to gain deeper self-awareness as well as manage their daily lives more effectively.
01708 596056 View 01708 596056
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Hugh Farrelly
Psychotherapist, BACP
Serves Area
Life can be very hard at times. Strong feelings and emotions making day to day living a real challenge. You may be feeling stuck, unhappy or overwhelmed dealing with life changes that have brought up past anxieties. Whatever brings you to Therapy, we can work through it together to explore and make sense of your feelings, identify choices available to you, develop new perspectives on your past and develop strategies that can improve your strength and resources in challenging times.
Life can be very hard at times. Strong feelings and emotions making day to day living a real challenge. You may be feeling stuck, unhappy or overwhelmed dealing with life changes that have brought up past anxieties. Whatever brings you to Therapy, we can work through it together to explore and make sense of your feelings, identify choices available to you, develop new perspectives on your past and develop strategies that can improve your strength and resources in challenging times.
01634 561287 View 01634 561287
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Cheryl Lyn Burgess
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
My passion is supporting people with Anxiety, trauma (including childhood trauma showing up in adulthood), attachment issues, bereavement, and relationship challenges. My approach is relational and integrative, meaning I tailor therapy to your unique needs rather than using a one‑size‑fits‑all method. You can expect a warm, grounded, non‑judgemental space. Someone who listens deeply and helps you feel understood. Who can support to break unhelpful patterns and reconnect with yourself, provide greater clarity, connnection with others, confidence and self compassion. A collaborative process where we move at your pace
My passion is supporting people with Anxiety, trauma (including childhood trauma showing up in adulthood), attachment issues, bereavement, and relationship challenges. My approach is relational and integrative, meaning I tailor therapy to your unique needs rather than using a one‑size‑fits‑all method. You can expect a warm, grounded, non‑judgemental space. Someone who listens deeply and helps you feel understood. Who can support to break unhelpful patterns and reconnect with yourself, provide greater clarity, connnection with others, confidence and self compassion. A collaborative process where we move at your pace
01325 796770 View 01325 796770
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NOW Therapy | Angela DePastino
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
NOW Therapy is a contemporary & dynamic therapeutic service which sees you as an equal - a HUMAN being who's figuring life out in a messy, complicated world - not as someone who's broken and needs fixing. Whatever's going on for you, NOW Therapy can work with you. ​There's no time like NOW! Contact via Email or WhatsApp today.
NOW Therapy is a contemporary & dynamic therapeutic service which sees you as an equal - a HUMAN being who's figuring life out in a messy, complicated world - not as someone who's broken and needs fixing. Whatever's going on for you, NOW Therapy can work with you. ​There's no time like NOW! Contact via Email or WhatsApp today.
020 4538 5734 View 020 4538 5734
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The Connected Self Therapy
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Hi, it’s nice to meet you. My name is Pavan. I’m based in London and work online with clients across Europe. I work with individuals tired of pretending they’re fine: thoughtful, capable and outwardly together, yet anxious, burnt out or quietly lost. I offer a deeper, non-clinical space where you don’t have to perform or explain yourself. Shaped by both training and my own therapy, I work gently and honestly. I’m drawn to sensitive, intuitive people who learned to survive by being strong or accommodating. Therapy becomes the place you get to soften and be seen.
Hi, it’s nice to meet you. My name is Pavan. I’m based in London and work online with clients across Europe. I work with individuals tired of pretending they’re fine: thoughtful, capable and outwardly together, yet anxious, burnt out or quietly lost. I offer a deeper, non-clinical space where you don’t have to perform or explain yourself. Shaped by both training and my own therapy, I work gently and honestly. I’m drawn to sensitive, intuitive people who learned to survive by being strong or accommodating. Therapy becomes the place you get to soften and be seen.
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Abigail Louise Andrews
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Confidential, warm and friendly. I work with those experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, the effects of abuse, ADHD and autism. My aim is to help support clients in bringing back the happiness, confidence, normality and strength to their lives. I operate my private practice in Buckhurst Hill, offering both individual, couples and family counselling. Using the person centred approach I aim to build rapport with my clients and empathise with them using a compassionate and nurturing style.
Confidential, warm and friendly. I work with those experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, the effects of abuse, ADHD and autism. My aim is to help support clients in bringing back the happiness, confidence, normality and strength to their lives. I operate my private practice in Buckhurst Hill, offering both individual, couples and family counselling. Using the person centred approach I aim to build rapport with my clients and empathise with them using a compassionate and nurturing style.
07403 935119 View 07403 935119
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Adele Sannie-Lamptey
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Is a current situation challenging you? Or perhaps you feel affected by a past experience? Do you find yourself repeating patterns of behaviour that you'd like to change? Or would you like to explore your identity in more depth and work on building self acceptance? I'm an Integrative Counsellor with over 6 years experience in Private Practice and here to help you process and address what has been troubling you.
Is a current situation challenging you? Or perhaps you feel affected by a past experience? Do you find yourself repeating patterns of behaviour that you'd like to change? Or would you like to explore your identity in more depth and work on building self acceptance? I'm an Integrative Counsellor with over 6 years experience in Private Practice and here to help you process and address what has been troubling you.
020 8016 3730 View 020 8016 3730
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Deepak Shantilal Sankhla
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I work with adults experiencing the effects of trauma, including PTSD, anxiety, emotional dysregulation, and the lasting impact of difficult life experiences. Many clients come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, despite trying to cope on their own. I provide a compassionate, evidence-based approach, integrating EMDR, CBT, and DBT to help clients process trauma, develop practical coping skills, and build resilience so they can move forward with greater confidence, wellbeing, and hope.
I work with adults experiencing the effects of trauma, including PTSD, anxiety, emotional dysregulation, and the lasting impact of difficult life experiences. Many clients come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, despite trying to cope on their own. I provide a compassionate, evidence-based approach, integrating EMDR, CBT, and DBT to help clients process trauma, develop practical coping skills, and build resilience so they can move forward with greater confidence, wellbeing, and hope.
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Debbie Hunt
Psychologist, CPsychol
Serves Area
Everybody struggles from time to time and sometimes it can get in the way of our lives. Have you noticed changes in your life? Are you worrying more than usual and finding it hard to relax? Maybe you are feeling sad, low in mood or get cross and irritable more quickly? Is it hard to put yourself first or just saying no? Do you feel less motivated or less enjoyment in life? Or have you noticed difficulties with sleeping? Perhaps you don’t feel the way you want. Or do you just feel ‘stuck’? These struggles could be getting in your way or affecting relationships with those closest to you. If so, these are things I can help you with.
Everybody struggles from time to time and sometimes it can get in the way of our lives. Have you noticed changes in your life? Are you worrying more than usual and finding it hard to relax? Maybe you are feeling sad, low in mood or get cross and irritable more quickly? Is it hard to put yourself first or just saying no? Do you feel less motivated or less enjoyment in life? Or have you noticed difficulties with sleeping? Perhaps you don’t feel the way you want. Or do you just feel ‘stuck’? These struggles could be getting in your way or affecting relationships with those closest to you. If so, these are things I can help you with.
07588 673038 View 07588 673038
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Julia Ellingham
Counsellor, BACP
Serves Area
We hear so much about the benefits of looking after our physical health but often forget our mental health is just as important. In the fast paced, stressful world we live in today, we face many struggles and often find our emotions can start to feel overwhelming. Counselling provides a safe space to talk through whatever you may be going through to help improve your wellbeing. I am a fully qualified Counsellor with a Professional Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and I have experience of working with both adults, young people and children.
We hear so much about the benefits of looking after our physical health but often forget our mental health is just as important. In the fast paced, stressful world we live in today, we face many struggles and often find our emotions can start to feel overwhelming. Counselling provides a safe space to talk through whatever you may be going through to help improve your wellbeing. I am a fully qualified Counsellor with a Professional Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and I have experience of working with both adults, young people and children.
07411 293719 View 07411 293719
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Serenity Pathways Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a person-centred counsellor offering a warm, empathetic and non-judgemental space where clients can explore their thoughts and feelings safely and at their own pace. I believe that a strong therapeutic relationship, built on trust and respect, is central to effective counselling. In our work together, you can expect to be listened to with care, respect, and without judgement. I will not tell you what to do, but will support you in exploring your thoughts and feelings, helping you to gain clarity and a deeper understanding of yourself and your experiences.
I am a person-centred counsellor offering a warm, empathetic and non-judgemental space where clients can explore their thoughts and feelings safely and at their own pace. I believe that a strong therapeutic relationship, built on trust and respect, is central to effective counselling. In our work together, you can expect to be listened to with care, respect, and without judgement. I will not tell you what to do, but will support you in exploring your thoughts and feelings, helping you to gain clarity and a deeper understanding of yourself and your experiences.
020 4634 9938 View 020 4634 9938
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Samantha Cumberbatch Mbacp
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
My Approach I offer an integrative, client-centred and evidence-based approach to counselling, tailoring therapy to your unique needs and goals. Working collaboratively, I provide a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space where you can explore challenges, build resilience, gain self-awareness and create meaningful change. As a Christian counsellor, I can incorporate faith into our work if this is important to you, always respecting your beliefs and preferences. My aim is to help you find clarity, renewed hope, confidence and emotional wellbeing.
My Approach I offer an integrative, client-centred and evidence-based approach to counselling, tailoring therapy to your unique needs and goals. Working collaboratively, I provide a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space where you can explore challenges, build resilience, gain self-awareness and create meaningful change. As a Christian counsellor, I can incorporate faith into our work if this is important to you, always respecting your beliefs and preferences. My aim is to help you find clarity, renewed hope, confidence and emotional wellbeing.
01708 987264 View 01708 987264
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Lorraine Baines
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Are you feeling you need to talk to someone, to help with whats going on now? Do you feel you need to talk to someone about something you have been carrying for years? Then maybe I can help you. I can offer you time and space to unpick, process and explore thoughts and feelings. Or we can look at stress and anxiety and how to manage these better and move forward in a more positive way. This can be achieved in either long term or short term therapy. We can decide together what will be the best option for you. Give me a call and we can have a brief 15mins chat and then you can make the decision to start counselling with me.
Are you feeling you need to talk to someone, to help with whats going on now? Do you feel you need to talk to someone about something you have been carrying for years? Then maybe I can help you. I can offer you time and space to unpick, process and explore thoughts and feelings. Or we can look at stress and anxiety and how to manage these better and move forward in a more positive way. This can be achieved in either long term or short term therapy. We can decide together what will be the best option for you. Give me a call and we can have a brief 15mins chat and then you can make the decision to start counselling with me.
020 3984 8524 View 020 3984 8524
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Anthony John Manning
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Serves Area
My focus in therapy is on a person's life and relationships, past and present. I regard symptoms or behaviour patterns as expressions of distress connected to life circumstances. My style is fairly active, but I'm careful to listen and check what I have heard. I pay attention to a person's narrative, including successes as well as difficulties. I am happy to share knowledge that might help my client or point to resources. Most of my work is relatively short term (12 sessions or less). Typically I start off with a questionnaire which includes client ideas about the goals of our work together.
My focus in therapy is on a person's life and relationships, past and present. I regard symptoms or behaviour patterns as expressions of distress connected to life circumstances. My style is fairly active, but I'm careful to listen and check what I have heard. I pay attention to a person's narrative, including successes as well as difficulties. I am happy to share knowledge that might help my client or point to resources. Most of my work is relatively short term (12 sessions or less). Typically I start off with a questionnaire which includes client ideas about the goals of our work together.
07400 291012 View 07400 291012
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Mirna Ahilan
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
You might be feeling low, overwhelmed, or not quite yourself, and finding it hard to understand why. On the outside you may be functioning, managing work, relationships, and daily demands, while internally feeling stuck, anxious, or drained. I work with people facing anxiety, trauma, and childhood experiences that impact current relationships, often showing up as repeating patterns, fear of rejection, or difficulty feeling secure. With over 15 years’ experience, I offer integrative therapy tailored to you, helping explore the past, understand its impact on relationships, process experiences, and build more grounded ways of coping.
You might be feeling low, overwhelmed, or not quite yourself, and finding it hard to understand why. On the outside you may be functioning, managing work, relationships, and daily demands, while internally feeling stuck, anxious, or drained. I work with people facing anxiety, trauma, and childhood experiences that impact current relationships, often showing up as repeating patterns, fear of rejection, or difficulty feeling secure. With over 15 years’ experience, I offer integrative therapy tailored to you, helping explore the past, understand its impact on relationships, process experiences, and build more grounded ways of coping.
020 4538 8773 View 020 4538 8773
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Bola Shonubi
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I am a BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor with over 20 years' experience providing psychodynamic psychotherapy to adults and couples. I have a particular interest in working with executives, partners, entrepreneurs, professionals and leaders whose demanding roles can leave little space to reflect on the emotional pressures that accompany success. My work explores the unconscious patterns that influence decision-making, relationships, confidence, leadership and resilience, helping clients develop greater self-understanding alongside lasting psychological change.
I am a BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor with over 20 years' experience providing psychodynamic psychotherapy to adults and couples. I have a particular interest in working with executives, partners, entrepreneurs, professionals and leaders whose demanding roles can leave little space to reflect on the emotional pressures that accompany success. My work explores the unconscious patterns that influence decision-making, relationships, confidence, leadership and resilience, helping clients develop greater self-understanding alongside lasting psychological change.
07492 882406 View 07492 882406
FAQ - About Therapy for Seniors
Is one ever too old for mental health therapy?
Individuals of all ages can benefit from mental health therapy. Indeed, older adults in particular may benefit from the social and psychological support a therapist can provide; the topics that older adults address in therapy may simply differ from those of younger clients. Seniors should seek out a therapist who has experience working with older individuals and who is well-versed in addressing common concerns among elderly individuals, such as depression, anxiety, loneliness, and physical mobility challenges.

How is counselling for elderly different from counselling for other age groups?
In general, counselling offers an opportunity for clients to process difficult life events and develop coping skills they can use outside of the therapy session. Therapists who specialise in working with elderly clients generally have the same framework but may place a special emphasis on specific topics, such as caregiver relationships and reducing loneliness. They may be specially equipped to deal with certain physical conditions or facilitate discussion surrounding end-of-life topics. Counselling for the elderly may also place a greater emphasis on social work-type topics to ensure that geriatric clients have access to necessary resources, such as food, a safe home environment, and healthcare.

How can therapy improve the quality of life of aging individuals?
Therapy for aging adults can greatly improve quality of life by providing an opportunity for them to process difficult emotions related to end-of-life, navigate relational or caregiver challenges, and develop coping skills for common mental health conditions, like anxiety or depression. Subsequent reductions in negative emotions and mental health disorder symptoms can make day-to-day living much more manageable for aging adults and those that care for them. The ongoing relationship with a trusted therapist can also help seniors combat loneliness and provide a sense of structure for their routine.

What are the qualities to look for in therapists who see seniors?
Seniors counsellors, like mental health counselors in general, should be kind, empathetic, skilled at listening, and knowledgeable about their particular area of expertise. Counsellors specialising in working with the senior population should be very familiar with the aging process in general and the common conditions that the elderly can face, such as dementia, depression, loneliness, and/or physical illness. Many senior counsellors are also well-equipped to help caregivers and families navigate the aging process of their loved ones, and they may draw on Interpersonal Therapy to help facilitate improved interactions between seniors and those that care for them.