Infidelity Counselling in Chesterfield

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Therapy & Lifestyle Clinic (TLC)
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Chesterfield S40
TLC is a clinic of experienced and highly qualified professionals working towards helping you better yourself. We work with individuals, couples and groups to offer a confidential service where clients can discuss sensitive issues with no judgement. Sian’s (the founder) career has been namely mental health and sexual health, two areas which she is hugely passionate about. At TLC we work with a range of difficulties including anxiety disorders, sexual difficulties, bereavement, stress, bullying, low self-esteem and offer Autism assessments, to name a few. All our professionals are registered with COSRT, BABCP, BACP, HCPC or BPS.
TLC is a clinic of experienced and highly qualified professionals working towards helping you better yourself. We work with individuals, couples and groups to offer a confidential service where clients can discuss sensitive issues with no judgement. Sian’s (the founder) career has been namely mental health and sexual health, two areas which she is hugely passionate about. At TLC we work with a range of difficulties including anxiety disorders, sexual difficulties, bereavement, stress, bullying, low self-esteem and offer Autism assessments, to name a few. All our professionals are registered with COSRT, BABCP, BACP, HCPC or BPS.
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Photo of Bex Fennell, Psychotherapist in Chesterfield, England
Bex Fennell
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Chesterfield S40
Hi, I am Bex and I am an Accredited Integrative Psychotherapist (NCS/ MBACP) and Counsellor with over 20 years’ experience of working within mental health. I work with both adults and children. I know that seeking counselling can be a daunting process, however, I offer a warm, supportive and non- judgemental space where we can explore any issues that could be preventing you from living a more fulfilling life. My years of training and experience in becoming a counsellor have taught me that each client is unique with their own perspective and understanding- it is my work to sit alongside you and understand your pain.
Hi, I am Bex and I am an Accredited Integrative Psychotherapist (NCS/ MBACP) and Counsellor with over 20 years’ experience of working within mental health. I work with both adults and children. I know that seeking counselling can be a daunting process, however, I offer a warm, supportive and non- judgemental space where we can explore any issues that could be preventing you from living a more fulfilling life. My years of training and experience in becoming a counsellor have taught me that each client is unique with their own perspective and understanding- it is my work to sit alongside you and understand your pain.
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Hannah Ruby
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chesterfield S40  (Online Only)
Hello, I'm Hannah, welcome to my page! I offer both long and short term individual therapy for adults and young people aged 16 and above. I am trained in integrative counselling and psychotherapy. This means that I use a range of theories to suit the client, including cognitive behavioural therapy, person-centered counselling and attachment theory. I have lots of experience in working with young people and adults in a therapeutic setting. No matter what form of support you need, I believe that the client-therapist relationship is most important. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and feelings.
Hello, I'm Hannah, welcome to my page! I offer both long and short term individual therapy for adults and young people aged 16 and above. I am trained in integrative counselling and psychotherapy. This means that I use a range of theories to suit the client, including cognitive behavioural therapy, person-centered counselling and attachment theory. I have lots of experience in working with young people and adults in a therapeutic setting. No matter what form of support you need, I believe that the client-therapist relationship is most important. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and feelings.
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Photo of Jonathan Fletcher, Psychotherapist in Chesterfield, England
Jonathan Fletcher
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chesterfield S40
Hi, my name is Jonny, and I am a fully qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist registered with COSRT. Embarking on a therapeutic journey can initially feel daunting, but it can become a life-changing and affirming experience. It is my job to provide a safe, empathetic, and non-judgemental space to explore whatever issue is troubling you, although engaging in therapy can be hugely beneficial even without a specific problem.
Hi, my name is Jonny, and I am a fully qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist registered with COSRT. Embarking on a therapeutic journey can initially feel daunting, but it can become a life-changing and affirming experience. It is my job to provide a safe, empathetic, and non-judgemental space to explore whatever issue is troubling you, although engaging in therapy can be hugely beneficial even without a specific problem.
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Dawn White - Chesterfield Sheffield Dronfield
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chesterfield S41
I understand how hard the first step can be to ask for help, sometimes you just want to be heard and listened too, you may be feeling depressed, anxious, angry, or frustrated with moving your life forward. You may be feeling confused, and unsure about where your life is heading. I can help you become stronger and find new ways of coping, whilst understanding yourself, and others around you. You are a unique person and have already begun your unique journey of recovery, I am passionate about you taking back control over your life. I aim to support you through this by tailoring my approach to you.
I understand how hard the first step can be to ask for help, sometimes you just want to be heard and listened too, you may be feeling depressed, anxious, angry, or frustrated with moving your life forward. You may be feeling confused, and unsure about where your life is heading. I can help you become stronger and find new ways of coping, whilst understanding yourself, and others around you. You are a unique person and have already begun your unique journey of recovery, I am passionate about you taking back control over your life. I aim to support you through this by tailoring my approach to you.
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Photo of Dawn White - Relationship Living, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Dawn White - Relationship Living
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chesterfield S41
As a sex and relationship therapist I aim to provide an open space where people can discuss, and explore their intimate concerns and experiences in a non judgemental way. I work with both couples, individuals and multiple partnered people, whilst honouring all sexual orientations and practices. People that are experiencing sexual, emotional or deeper relationship issues, contact me to explore and understand what they can change and control, and also what patterns are repeating in their relationships. I am a sex positive therapist and have over 20 years extensive experience as a therapist.
As a sex and relationship therapist I aim to provide an open space where people can discuss, and explore their intimate concerns and experiences in a non judgemental way. I work with both couples, individuals and multiple partnered people, whilst honouring all sexual orientations and practices. People that are experiencing sexual, emotional or deeper relationship issues, contact me to explore and understand what they can change and control, and also what patterns are repeating in their relationships. I am a sex positive therapist and have over 20 years extensive experience as a therapist.
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Photo of Sarah Knee, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Sarah Knee
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chesterfield S41
Welcome. Whatever you’re going through right now, I’m glad you’re here. I work with a wide range of issues, and have additional skills and experience in working with neurodiversity, parenthood and palliative care. I work in an affirmative way and invite you to come as you are - with snot and tears, fidgety or nervous, or not knowing where to start - just come.
Welcome. Whatever you’re going through right now, I’m glad you’re here. I work with a wide range of issues, and have additional skills and experience in working with neurodiversity, parenthood and palliative care. I work in an affirmative way and invite you to come as you are - with snot and tears, fidgety or nervous, or not knowing where to start - just come.
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Photo of Caz Perry, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Caz Perry
Counsellor, MSc, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Chesterfield S40
I work with individuals, couples, and throuples, who are experiencing relationship and/or sexual issues. I am warm, present, and enjoy enabling people to more fully inhabit their relational and sexual selves. Alongside private practice, I work for Relate, and have over 15 years experience helping people to feel more comfortable talking about sex and relationships. I take a biopsychosocial approach, working with at the whole person/people and their relational dynamic. I welcome all sexualities, genders, neurodivergence, and faiths (or non).
I work with individuals, couples, and throuples, who are experiencing relationship and/or sexual issues. I am warm, present, and enjoy enabling people to more fully inhabit their relational and sexual selves. Alongside private practice, I work for Relate, and have over 15 years experience helping people to feel more comfortable talking about sex and relationships. I take a biopsychosocial approach, working with at the whole person/people and their relational dynamic. I welcome all sexualities, genders, neurodivergence, and faiths (or non).
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Photo of Sarah Stephenson, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Sarah Stephenson
Counsellor, MA, COSRT Affiliate
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chesterfield S40
It feels right to start with an introduction. My name is Sarah, and I am an integrative Therapist, trained to Masters level, and I am one of the therapists working at Our Shared Space. Are you feeling overwhelmed by personal challenges or struggling to navigate your relationships and family dynamics? Do you yearn for deeper connections and personal fulfilment? You are not alone. As a compassionate and experienced therapist, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore their concerns, cultivate personal growth, and enhance their relationships.
It feels right to start with an introduction. My name is Sarah, and I am an integrative Therapist, trained to Masters level, and I am one of the therapists working at Our Shared Space. Are you feeling overwhelmed by personal challenges or struggling to navigate your relationships and family dynamics? Do you yearn for deeper connections and personal fulfilment? You are not alone. As a compassionate and experienced therapist, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore their concerns, cultivate personal growth, and enhance their relationships.
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Photo of Piotr Slaczka, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Piotr Slaczka
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Sheffield S12  (Online Only)
Hi, I am Piotr. Thank you for taking the time to check my profile. I am an integrative therapeutic counsellor and feel privileged to invite you on the journey of discovery, healing and transformation. I can help you gain clarity and overcome obstacles to living a balanced and fulfilling life. The life we all deserve. I work with people undergoing many different forms of crisis, struggling with depression, anxiety, addictions, eating disorders and various problematic behaviours. I provide a safe, confidential and warm environment where we can explore your difficulties and work towards accepting yourself and change.
Hi, I am Piotr. Thank you for taking the time to check my profile. I am an integrative therapeutic counsellor and feel privileged to invite you on the journey of discovery, healing and transformation. I can help you gain clarity and overcome obstacles to living a balanced and fulfilling life. The life we all deserve. I work with people undergoing many different forms of crisis, struggling with depression, anxiety, addictions, eating disorders and various problematic behaviours. I provide a safe, confidential and warm environment where we can explore your difficulties and work towards accepting yourself and change.
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Photo of Roger Harrison, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Roger Harrison
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Sheffield S17
I provide an authentic, caring, gentle and trusted confidential safe space, free from judgement, which is trauma informed, where differences are cherished as you let go, express, make sense, and become more of who you are.
I provide an authentic, caring, gentle and trusted confidential safe space, free from judgement, which is trauma informed, where differences are cherished as you let go, express, make sense, and become more of who you are.
0161 524 7711 View 0161 524 7711
Photo of Myszka Fox, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Myszka Fox
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Wirksworth DE4
Therapy is individual, not off the peg… When we feel that those around us do not understand us, or do not accept us, it can feel like a lonely, uphill struggle. I have a long-held interest in what makes us all tick, and the strategies that we can access to better manage the ups and downs in our lives. It has become evident to me, through many life changes, that we work much better together than we do alone.
Therapy is individual, not off the peg… When we feel that those around us do not understand us, or do not accept us, it can feel like a lonely, uphill struggle. I have a long-held interest in what makes us all tick, and the strategies that we can access to better manage the ups and downs in our lives. It has become evident to me, through many life changes, that we work much better together than we do alone.
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Photo of Jeanette Barratt, Psychotherapist in Chesterfield, England
Jeanette Barratt
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Alfreton DE55
If you have found your way here I appreciate you are reaching out for support. Taking the first step to reaching out to someone; especially a stranger takes courage. Maybe you are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, experiencing a life transition: divorce, grief, becoming a parent, children leaving home. Unable to find the strength to cope with change and difficult decisions. Counselling can be a life changing experience; our present struggles and feelings can be a turning point towards a new direction. Counselling is a collaborative task and it is my endeavour to travel alongside you on your journey as you discover new ways to move forward
If you have found your way here I appreciate you are reaching out for support. Taking the first step to reaching out to someone; especially a stranger takes courage. Maybe you are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, experiencing a life transition: divorce, grief, becoming a parent, children leaving home. Unable to find the strength to cope with change and difficult decisions. Counselling can be a life changing experience; our present struggles and feelings can be a turning point towards a new direction. Counselling is a collaborative task and it is my endeavour to travel alongside you on your journey as you discover new ways to move forward
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Photo of Debra Newton, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Debra Newton
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Alfreton DE55
Hello my name is Debra. Would you like a quiet and relaxed space where you can begin to explore whatever is on your mind. I am committed to providing confidentiality and empathy in a non-judgmental and safe environment to help you to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences and feel empowered in your chosen way forward. Counselling can help with many problems such as anxiety, depression, bereavement and loss, disability, life stages, changes and adjustments and help with self-esteem and confidence feelings and other personal issues. I qualified as a Counsellor in 2003 and work in a person centred way.
Hello my name is Debra. Would you like a quiet and relaxed space where you can begin to explore whatever is on your mind. I am committed to providing confidentiality and empathy in a non-judgmental and safe environment to help you to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences and feel empowered in your chosen way forward. Counselling can help with many problems such as anxiety, depression, bereavement and loss, disability, life stages, changes and adjustments and help with self-esteem and confidence feelings and other personal issues. I qualified as a Counsellor in 2003 and work in a person centred way.
07723 456052 View 07723 456052
Photo of Frazer Smith, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Frazer Smith
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Sheffield S12
Many of us face a variety of ups and downs throughout our lifespan. While family or friends can often help us, this may not always be possible, or additional support may be needed. A qualified counsellor can help to explore or change something in our lives which may be holding us back. We will explore your thoughts and feelings together, within a safe and confidential space with sessions adapted depending on individual needs. Through training and attending sessions myself I understand the difference it can make and am passionate about the process. I look forward to meeting you should you decide to take the leap and get in touch.
Many of us face a variety of ups and downs throughout our lifespan. While family or friends can often help us, this may not always be possible, or additional support may be needed. A qualified counsellor can help to explore or change something in our lives which may be holding us back. We will explore your thoughts and feelings together, within a safe and confidential space with sessions adapted depending on individual needs. Through training and attending sessions myself I understand the difference it can make and am passionate about the process. I look forward to meeting you should you decide to take the leap and get in touch.
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Photo of Dr Adam Hill, Psychologist in Chesterfield, England
Dr Adam Hill
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sheffield S8  (Online Only)
Do you find that despite your very best efforts to cope with difficult thoughts and feelings such as anxiety, depression and/or anger, your difficulties are still holding you back? Do you find that your ways of coping can make things worse in the long-term? You may be finding that your relationships with others are suffering as a result, and you might be finding it difficult to talk to friends and family about your difficulties. Are you struggling to find a way to move forward? Do you feel like you’ve lost touch with what’s important to you, and lost your sense of direction in life?
Do you find that despite your very best efforts to cope with difficult thoughts and feelings such as anxiety, depression and/or anger, your difficulties are still holding you back? Do you find that your ways of coping can make things worse in the long-term? You may be finding that your relationships with others are suffering as a result, and you might be finding it difficult to talk to friends and family about your difficulties. Are you struggling to find a way to move forward? Do you feel like you’ve lost touch with what’s important to you, and lost your sense of direction in life?
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Photo of Lilian Clesham, Psychotherapist in Chesterfield, England
Lilian Clesham
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Sheffield S2
Welcome! . Life can be hard and challenging sometimes. The uncertain times we live give arise to anxiety, fear and often confusion. It might help to talk to explore your inner landscape and be supported in your understanding and choices that might be open to you. It takes courage sometimes to live life- change always take great courage. Psychotherapy is a collaborative journey where I help you into a different, perhaps more satisfying relationship with yourself. You might want to set goals, heal past hurts, find new ways of dealing the past and prepare for a different future.
Welcome! . Life can be hard and challenging sometimes. The uncertain times we live give arise to anxiety, fear and often confusion. It might help to talk to explore your inner landscape and be supported in your understanding and choices that might be open to you. It takes courage sometimes to live life- change always take great courage. Psychotherapy is a collaborative journey where I help you into a different, perhaps more satisfying relationship with yourself. You might want to set goals, heal past hurts, find new ways of dealing the past and prepare for a different future.
0114 553 1758 View 0114 553 1758
Photo of Lara Myers, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Lara Myers
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Hope Valley S32
I work with clients who have experienced relational trauma in childhood or as adults and the difficulties that arise : PTSD, depression, low self esteem, shame, anger and problems forming safe trusting relationships. I also specialise in bereavement Issues. I use an integrative approach which means I offer a non directive, non judgemental space to : develop coping mechanisms; explore what has happened and make sense of what you are experiencing; share information to increase understanding of how/why we respond as we do ; try out new ways of being and interacting with people; understand and trust yourself and your intuition.
I work with clients who have experienced relational trauma in childhood or as adults and the difficulties that arise : PTSD, depression, low self esteem, shame, anger and problems forming safe trusting relationships. I also specialise in bereavement Issues. I use an integrative approach which means I offer a non directive, non judgemental space to : develop coping mechanisms; explore what has happened and make sense of what you are experiencing; share information to increase understanding of how/why we respond as we do ; try out new ways of being and interacting with people; understand and trust yourself and your intuition.
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Photo of Ali Hayward, Psychotherapist in Chesterfield, England
Ali Hayward
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sheffield S8
Hello, I’m Ali (she/her). I’m a fully qualified Integrative Psychotherapist and Counsellor living in Sheffield. I offer a warm, welcoming, compassionate environment, whether online, on the phone or in person, where you can explore your feelings without feeling judged, criticised or labelled. The main approach I use is Person-Centred therapy, supporting you as you explore your personal challenges, emotions, beliefs, behaviours, and worldview. Through this you gain more awareness of your choices, working towards freedom from anything that may hinder your progress and achieving the self-empowerment you desire.
Hello, I’m Ali (she/her). I’m a fully qualified Integrative Psychotherapist and Counsellor living in Sheffield. I offer a warm, welcoming, compassionate environment, whether online, on the phone or in person, where you can explore your feelings without feeling judged, criticised or labelled. The main approach I use is Person-Centred therapy, supporting you as you explore your personal challenges, emotions, beliefs, behaviours, and worldview. Through this you gain more awareness of your choices, working towards freedom from anything that may hinder your progress and achieving the self-empowerment you desire.
0114 697 1764 View 0114 697 1764
Photo of Jayne Daniels Counselling & Supervision Services, Counsellor in Chesterfield, England
Jayne Daniels Counselling & Supervision Services
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Alfreton DE55
ARE YOU SUFFERING WITH ANXIETY, DEPRESSED, WORTHLESS, IN CRISIS, UNABLE TO COPE BUT DON'T KNOW WHY? DO YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO AND LISTEN TO YOU? I CAN HELP. CONTACT ME NOW FOR A FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION. My name is Jayne Daniels; I am an experienced, qualified integrative counsellor and Clinical Supervisor. I offer different ways of working to suit your individual needs, including CBT, person centered and psycho dynamic. Counselling can help you make sense of what is happening in your life, support you through difficult and traumatic times and help you to live a happy and fulfilling life.
ARE YOU SUFFERING WITH ANXIETY, DEPRESSED, WORTHLESS, IN CRISIS, UNABLE TO COPE BUT DON'T KNOW WHY? DO YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO AND LISTEN TO YOU? I CAN HELP. CONTACT ME NOW FOR A FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION. My name is Jayne Daniels; I am an experienced, qualified integrative counsellor and Clinical Supervisor. I offer different ways of working to suit your individual needs, including CBT, person centered and psycho dynamic. Counselling can help you make sense of what is happening in your life, support you through difficult and traumatic times and help you to live a happy and fulfilling life.
07480 786480 View 07480 786480

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.