Borderline Personality (BPD) Counselling in Chester le Street

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Emma Shickle EMDR Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
If you think something in your past is continuing to impact you in a negative way. If you are constantly being triggered, if you have tried other talking therapies and are still being triggered, likelihood is that you have unresolved trauma and need EMDR. I have seen remarkable results in my clients in just a few sessions to really shift the feelings often trapped in the body. The feelings that put us on edge, make us jumpy and things we can't stop dreaming about and that keep us awake. Getting rid of these symptoms is what people want. I have years of experience in helping people with this and have seen the difference it makes.
If you think something in your past is continuing to impact you in a negative way. If you are constantly being triggered, if you have tried other talking therapies and are still being triggered, likelihood is that you have unresolved trauma and need EMDR. I have seen remarkable results in my clients in just a few sessions to really shift the feelings often trapped in the body. The feelings that put us on edge, make us jumpy and things we can't stop dreaming about and that keep us awake. Getting rid of these symptoms is what people want. I have years of experience in helping people with this and have seen the difference it makes.
0191 743 9438 View 0191 743 9438
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Talk Works
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Life is hard. Talking helps. Talk Works deliver counselling, CBT, EMDR and psychology to individuals who require mental health support. Therapy offers you a safe, confidential place to talk about your life and anything that may be distressing. Whenever we get people talking, great things happen.
Life is hard. Talking helps. Talk Works deliver counselling, CBT, EMDR and psychology to individuals who require mental health support. Therapy offers you a safe, confidential place to talk about your life and anything that may be distressing. Whenever we get people talking, great things happen.
0191 743 4109 View 0191 743 4109
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Through The Woods Well-Being Service CIC
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
We all have a unique story filled with accomplishments as well as those really tough times where we can feel alone and burdened with pressures in our lives. We focus on supporting you through the difficulties that are affecting you emotionally. If you want to gain a deeper understanding of your thoughts and feelings or change your mindset,  we can explore this together. We understand the daily struggles with chronic pain and are committed to supporting you with the emotional and psychological challenges that accompany this.
We all have a unique story filled with accomplishments as well as those really tough times where we can feel alone and burdened with pressures in our lives. We focus on supporting you through the difficulties that are affecting you emotionally. If you want to gain a deeper understanding of your thoughts and feelings or change your mindset,  we can explore this together. We understand the daily struggles with chronic pain and are committed to supporting you with the emotional and psychological challenges that accompany this.
0191 743 1782 View 0191 743 1782
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Faye Wood - FVW Psychology
Psychologist, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I am an HCPC registered Practitioner Psychologist and EMDR therapist offering one to one integrated EMDR therapy to adults. My belief is that the relationship between client and therapist is the most important part of therapy and I strive to build a connection based on trust, warmth, acceptance, and integrity. I have a naturally warm and empathic style which allows clients to feel comfortable and safe. My passion is helping people overcome the bad things that have happened to them in a compassionate, non-judgemental way.
I am an HCPC registered Practitioner Psychologist and EMDR therapist offering one to one integrated EMDR therapy to adults. My belief is that the relationship between client and therapist is the most important part of therapy and I strive to build a connection based on trust, warmth, acceptance, and integrity. I have a naturally warm and empathic style which allows clients to feel comfortable and safe. My passion is helping people overcome the bad things that have happened to them in a compassionate, non-judgemental way.
0191 743 2386 View 0191 743 2386

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Victor John Payne
Psychologist, PhD, CPsychol
Verified Verified
Online Only
I have experience of helping people with, trauma effects, borderline personality disorder, dissociation, depression, anxiety and relationship difficulties.
I use the person centred approach to develop a therapeutic relationship with my clients. I also use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, DIalectical Behavioural Therapy and Schema Therapy where they would be helpful for you, the client. I offer online therapy only.
I have experience of helping people with, trauma effects, borderline personality disorder, dissociation, depression, anxiety and relationship difficulties.
I use the person centred approach to develop a therapeutic relationship with my clients. I also use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, DIalectical Behavioural Therapy and Schema Therapy where they would be helpful for you, the client. I offer online therapy only.
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Louise Redfern Counselling & Psychotherapy Service
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
While I treat a wide range of concerns, I have particular experience in supporting clients with trauma/PTSD, borderline personality disorder ( BPD), and depression.
Many of my clients are struggling with anxiety, trauma, low mood, or emotional overwhelm. Some are processing past abuse or loss, while others feel stuck or disconnected and want to understand themselves better. You may be seeking relief, clarity, or a calmer mind. Whether you have clear goals or just need someone to talk to, I offer a supportive, non-judgemental space where we can work at your pace. I primarily work with adult individuals and couples aged 18 and over. In some cases, I also see young people aged 14 and above, depending on their individual circumstances and presenting needs.
While I treat a wide range of concerns, I have particular experience in supporting clients with trauma/PTSD, borderline personality disorder ( BPD), and depression.
Many of my clients are struggling with anxiety, trauma, low mood, or emotional overwhelm. Some are processing past abuse or loss, while others feel stuck or disconnected and want to understand themselves better. You may be seeking relief, clarity, or a calmer mind. Whether you have clear goals or just need someone to talk to, I offer a supportive, non-judgemental space where we can work at your pace. I primarily work with adult individuals and couples aged 18 and over. In some cases, I also see young people aged 14 and above, depending on their individual circumstances and presenting needs.
0191 743 4419 View 0191 743 4419
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Lindsay Wilkinson
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Jarrow NE32
I specialise in working with individuals who have difficulties in managing their emotions and therefore struggle with things like relationships, drinking, substance use, self harming and other impulsive behaviour. You don't need a formal diagnosis to work with me, but I do have a speciality of working with people with personality disorders. I also have lots of experience of working with people who have had traumatic histories and are struggling to manage as a result. This might mean they are depressed, anxious or just finding trusting people hard. As well as these specialities, I also work with all major mental health issues
I specialise in working with individuals who have difficulties in managing their emotions and therefore struggle with things like relationships, drinking, substance use, self harming and other impulsive behaviour. You don't need a formal diagnosis to work with me, but I do have a speciality of working with people with personality disorders. I also have lots of experience of working with people who have had traumatic histories and are struggling to manage as a result. This might mean they are depressed, anxious or just finding trusting people hard. As well as these specialities, I also work with all major mental health issues
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Wendy Clochet
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Online Only
I am a Chartered Holistic Counselling Psychologist with 11 years of experience working in services for common and complex mental health difficulties both in the NHS and in private practice. I take a very holistic mind body approach and I am therefore also a nutritional therapist in training. I am a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT), Accredited Cognitive Analytic Therapist (CAT), Accredited Mindfulness teacher, Accredited Substance Misuse worker and EMDR Therapist. I take an integrative approach to my work.
I am a Chartered Holistic Counselling Psychologist with 11 years of experience working in services for common and complex mental health difficulties both in the NHS and in private practice. I take a very holistic mind body approach and I am therefore also a nutritional therapist in training. I am a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT), Accredited Cognitive Analytic Therapist (CAT), Accredited Mindfulness teacher, Accredited Substance Misuse worker and EMDR Therapist. I take an integrative approach to my work.
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Sharon Temple
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waitlist for new clients
Hi im Sharon. I offer a warm non-judgemental space where you can explore and express what's troubling you. Sometimes you might become stuck and not really know why or how to change your situation. At other times you might be looking for someone to provide support because of something specific.
Hi im Sharon. I offer a warm non-judgemental space where you can explore and express what's troubling you. Sometimes you might become stuck and not really know why or how to change your situation. At other times you might be looking for someone to provide support because of something specific.
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Karena Serdecka
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Whether working through significant change, life event or trying to manage/resolve longer term issues which prevent you from thriving and reaching your fullest potential in life, relationships, family or work – I can work with you in a fully supportive, non-judgemental, empathic way. I am a warm, relational and person-centred integrative psychotherapist and EMDR specialist Dip Psych & DPC (child and adolescent), also clinical hypnotherapist (Adult). Additionally -Dip CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Art and Couples Therapies. I lecture in psychotherapy, psychology and counselling and have worked with clients 5 yrs old to 80yrs+.
Whether working through significant change, life event or trying to manage/resolve longer term issues which prevent you from thriving and reaching your fullest potential in life, relationships, family or work – I can work with you in a fully supportive, non-judgemental, empathic way. I am a warm, relational and person-centred integrative psychotherapist and EMDR specialist Dip Psych & DPC (child and adolescent), also clinical hypnotherapist (Adult). Additionally -Dip CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Art and Couples Therapies. I lecture in psychotherapy, psychology and counselling and have worked with clients 5 yrs old to 80yrs+.
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My Family Psychologist
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Morpeth NE61
My work is to empower you to understand and manage your own and your family's psychological wellbeing. From initial confusion and hopelessness the end game is enlightenment and clarity. I rely on data, clear aims, objectives, and objective measurement.
My work is to empower you to understand and manage your own and your family's psychological wellbeing. From initial confusion and hopelessness the end game is enlightenment and clarity. I rely on data, clear aims, objectives, and objective measurement.
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Cheryl Fenech-Soler
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Welcome to My Profile! Hi, I’m Cheryl. Reaching out for help can feel overwhelming, but it’s okay to ask for support. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship struggles, or daily stress, I’m here to help you take that first step. In therapy, we’ll create a safe, supportive space where you can be heard without judgment. Together, we’ll address your challenges and build the tools to thrive. You’ll gain clarity, emotional well-being, and strategies for growth. I’m here to guide you on your journey with compassion and understanding.
Welcome to My Profile! Hi, I’m Cheryl. Reaching out for help can feel overwhelming, but it’s okay to ask for support. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship struggles, or daily stress, I’m here to help you take that first step. In therapy, we’ll create a safe, supportive space where you can be heard without judgment. Together, we’ll address your challenges and build the tools to thrive. You’ll gain clarity, emotional well-being, and strategies for growth. I’m here to guide you on your journey with compassion and understanding.
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Lixson J Cyriac
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Durham DH1
I am a counsellor and psychotherapist offering both short- and long-term therapy for adult individuals and couples. As an experienced practitioner, I am here to offer you a safe and confidential space in which we together can explore what is troubling you. Sometimes it is about unpacking the present situation, other times exploring the influence of past experiences and finding new ways to approach life. whatever your issues are, together we can develop our sessions to suit your unique situation.
I am a counsellor and psychotherapist offering both short- and long-term therapy for adult individuals and couples. As an experienced practitioner, I am here to offer you a safe and confidential space in which we together can explore what is troubling you. Sometimes it is about unpacking the present situation, other times exploring the influence of past experiences and finding new ways to approach life. whatever your issues are, together we can develop our sessions to suit your unique situation.
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Nicola Hymers
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Online Only
Hi, I'm Nicola, an integrative counsellor, providing online and telephone counselling. I offer a safe, confidential space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings without judgment. I have experience of working with anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, trauma and abuse, as well as grief, loss and bereavement. My approach is adaptable and shaped to fit your individual needs and situation, allowing us to collaboratively find a way forward that works for you.
Hi, I'm Nicola, an integrative counsellor, providing online and telephone counselling. I offer a safe, confidential space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings without judgment. I have experience of working with anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, trauma and abuse, as well as grief, loss and bereavement. My approach is adaptable and shaped to fit your individual needs and situation, allowing us to collaboratively find a way forward that works for you.
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Debra Baker-Heriot
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Whatever you may be having difficulty with in life I offer non-judgemental support to help explore it with you. I understand it can feel scary to think about contacting & talking to someone & I would hope to help you feel okay & safe in our initial chat. I'm an experienced psychotherapist & counsellor & we can work out together whether I'm the right therapist for you. I offer support for many issues including feelings of anxiety, low mood, bereavement, loss, trauma, depresssion, relationships, life transitions, or feeling empty in life. Counselling can be about seeking clarity, personal growth or working through confusing feelings.
Whatever you may be having difficulty with in life I offer non-judgemental support to help explore it with you. I understand it can feel scary to think about contacting & talking to someone & I would hope to help you feel okay & safe in our initial chat. I'm an experienced psychotherapist & counsellor & we can work out together whether I'm the right therapist for you. I offer support for many issues including feelings of anxiety, low mood, bereavement, loss, trauma, depresssion, relationships, life transitions, or feeling empty in life. Counselling can be about seeking clarity, personal growth or working through confusing feelings.
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Calonlan Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Morpeth NE61
Calonlan Counselling and Psychotherapy, ensure a private, secure, and compassionate setting where you can address any issues that are causing distress or trouble, with the assurance of non-judgemental listening. Being an integrative person-centred counsellor, my role is to accompany you on your journey, providing an open space for candid and uninhibited discussions about the problems that impede your progress. With a diverse background in Counselling and Psychotherapy, specifically trained in Grief, Humanistic, Trauma, Attachment, and Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, I possess the versatility to adapt to my clients' unique needs.
Calonlan Counselling and Psychotherapy, ensure a private, secure, and compassionate setting where you can address any issues that are causing distress or trouble, with the assurance of non-judgemental listening. Being an integrative person-centred counsellor, my role is to accompany you on your journey, providing an open space for candid and uninhibited discussions about the problems that impede your progress. With a diverse background in Counselling and Psychotherapy, specifically trained in Grief, Humanistic, Trauma, Attachment, and Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, I possess the versatility to adapt to my clients' unique needs.
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Jo Weir
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
I consider myself to be an integrative therapist drawing from different modalities to provide a bespoke pathway to the clients needs as each journey is completely individual. I provide a trusted, supportive and safe space for the client (s) to heard and explored. When working with couples I acknowledge every relationship is unique, as are the individuals in the partnership. I work with issues such as ineffective communication, escalating arguments, infidelity, loss of intimacy, the impact of a loss of a child has on a relationship, coping with a separation or divorce and co dependency.
I consider myself to be an integrative therapist drawing from different modalities to provide a bespoke pathway to the clients needs as each journey is completely individual. I provide a trusted, supportive and safe space for the client (s) to heard and explored. When working with couples I acknowledge every relationship is unique, as are the individuals in the partnership. I work with issues such as ineffective communication, escalating arguments, infidelity, loss of intimacy, the impact of a loss of a child has on a relationship, coping with a separation or divorce and co dependency.
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Claire Bottomley
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Are you struggling with life? Perhaps you are tired of feeling anxious, low or have experienced a difficult life event which you are struggling to cope with. Do you find yourself consumed by worries and unable to break out of a negative cycle? Would you like a safe non-judgmental confidential space to be heard, understood and find new ways of coping? If so, then counselling, CBT or EMDR may be able to help you find your way forward. I have experience of working with both adults and young people who experience difficulties ranging from anxiety, panic, OCD, worry, low-mood, grief, trauma to relationship difficulties.
Are you struggling with life? Perhaps you are tired of feeling anxious, low or have experienced a difficult life event which you are struggling to cope with. Do you find yourself consumed by worries and unable to break out of a negative cycle? Would you like a safe non-judgmental confidential space to be heard, understood and find new ways of coping? If so, then counselling, CBT or EMDR may be able to help you find your way forward. I have experience of working with both adults and young people who experience difficulties ranging from anxiety, panic, OCD, worry, low-mood, grief, trauma to relationship difficulties.
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Katherine Banner
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
I specialise in the area of feeling 'overwhelmed', 'high anxiety' and your mental health feeling ignored. I am here to support these questions in life: -How can I feel like my self again? -How can I feel calmer? -how can I regain my autonomy -How can I start to trust again? My experience of working with the conscious and unconscious patterns in our life and relationships, enables us to gain a deeper understanding of what is impacting you. I work in a range of areas from high anxiety, bereavement, depression and psychological neglect.
I specialise in the area of feeling 'overwhelmed', 'high anxiety' and your mental health feeling ignored. I am here to support these questions in life: -How can I feel like my self again? -How can I feel calmer? -how can I regain my autonomy -How can I start to trust again? My experience of working with the conscious and unconscious patterns in our life and relationships, enables us to gain a deeper understanding of what is impacting you. I work in a range of areas from high anxiety, bereavement, depression and psychological neglect.
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Durham & Dales Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Are you looking for a professional who can safely and effectively respond to the emotional problems affecting you or someone you care about? As a Clinical Psychologist specialising in adult mental health I am trained to doctorate level, regulated by the Health and Care Professions Council, and registered with the British Psychological Society. I have a particular interest in working with complex and/ or longstanding difficulties. Therefore, if you wish to think in-depth about your emotional life, or if you have already tried a practical problem solving approach that felt like it was not what you really needed, I may be able to help.
Are you looking for a professional who can safely and effectively respond to the emotional problems affecting you or someone you care about? As a Clinical Psychologist specialising in adult mental health I am trained to doctorate level, regulated by the Health and Care Professions Council, and registered with the British Psychological Society. I have a particular interest in working with complex and/ or longstanding difficulties. Therefore, if you wish to think in-depth about your emotional life, or if you have already tried a practical problem solving approach that felt like it was not what you really needed, I may be able to help.
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Borderline Personality (BPD) Counsellors

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.