Infidelity Counselling in Chessington
I have lots of experience in and offer therapy sessions for a variety of life challenges and difficulties including: Addictions (drugs, alcohol, food, sex, love, gambling), Anxiety, depression, low self esteem and panic attacks, Financial issues, Abuse, Couples/ Relationship/family issues, Divorce/separation, Affairs/betrayals, Infertility and miscarriage.
I support people to live happier, healthier and more fulfilling lives, by reducing emotional distress and challenging unhelpful or rigid thought patterns. I have practiced privately for a number of years, and have also worked at the Priory Hospital, an addiction support agency and within numerous colleges. I work with individuals and with couples. Perhaps you are fed up with feeling, living or thinking in a certain way, and this is affecting your work life, your romantic relationships, your friendships or your self-esteem.
I have lots of experience in and offer therapy sessions for a variety of life challenges and difficulties including: Addictions (drugs, alcohol, food, sex, love, gambling), Anxiety, depression, low self esteem and panic attacks, Financial issues, Abuse, Couples/ Relationship/family issues, Divorce/separation, Affairs/betrayals, Infertility and miscarriage.
I support people to live happier, healthier and more fulfilling lives, by reducing emotional distress and challenging unhelpful or rigid thought patterns. I have practiced privately for a number of years, and have also worked at the Priory Hospital, an addiction support agency and within numerous colleges. I work with individuals and with couples. Perhaps you are fed up with feeling, living or thinking in a certain way, and this is affecting your work life, your romantic relationships, your friendships or your self-esteem.
I am a fully trained & qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor with a First-Class BA (Hons) degree in Integrative-Relational Counselling, Middlesex University. I use various therapeutic approaches (psychodynamic, person-centred, Gestalt, CBT) depending on your individual needs. I offer a safe space where I can help you explore your struggles & find ways to improve your emotional well-being. In the last 8 years I have been working with a wide range of clients in a GP surgery & privately. I am a Member of the British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP) & abide by their Ethical Framework. I am fully insured & DBS-checked.
I am a fully trained & qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor with a First-Class BA (Hons) degree in Integrative-Relational Counselling, Middlesex University. I use various therapeutic approaches (psychodynamic, person-centred, Gestalt, CBT) depending on your individual needs. I offer a safe space where I can help you explore your struggles & find ways to improve your emotional well-being. In the last 8 years I have been working with a wide range of clients in a GP surgery & privately. I am a Member of the British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP) & abide by their Ethical Framework. I am fully insured & DBS-checked.
You may be looking at this website because something has got out of hand, it isn’t quite right, you may be feeling overwhelmed, a bit stressed or anxious and experiencing feelings of being unable to cope. Perhaps your doctor, friend or another health therapist has suggested you consider talking through your dilemma to help seek clarity to see your situation from a different perspective. If this sounds like you then you have come to the right place and I may be able to help you gain understanding of your situation. The symptoms you are experiencing are simply a sign something is wrong. Through collaboration I can help you.
You may be looking at this website because something has got out of hand, it isn’t quite right, you may be feeling overwhelmed, a bit stressed or anxious and experiencing feelings of being unable to cope. Perhaps your doctor, friend or another health therapist has suggested you consider talking through your dilemma to help seek clarity to see your situation from a different perspective. If this sounds like you then you have come to the right place and I may be able to help you gain understanding of your situation. The symptoms you are experiencing are simply a sign something is wrong. Through collaboration I can help you.
My clients are adults and teens who want to understand themselves more deeply. You might be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed or burnt out, struggling in relationships or at work, or carrying the impact of difficult past experiences. Some are exploring possible neurodivergence or adjusting to an ADHD or autism diagnosis. Together we slow things down, make sense of patterns in your life, and explore new ways of relating to yourself and others so you can move forward with more clarity and choice.
My clients are adults and teens who want to understand themselves more deeply. You might be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed or burnt out, struggling in relationships or at work, or carrying the impact of difficult past experiences. Some are exploring possible neurodivergence or adjusting to an ADHD or autism diagnosis. Together we slow things down, make sense of patterns in your life, and explore new ways of relating to yourself and others so you can move forward with more clarity and choice.
I am an integrative therapist. This means that I have received training in a number of therapeutic approaches and can draw upon their various core philosophies and techniques. These approaches include: humanistic/person-centered, Ericksonian hypno-psychotherapy, depth-oriented brief therapy, eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR), self-relations psychotherapy, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), and Internal Family Systems Therapy. So, whatever issue you may be facing, I can tailor my approach to best meet your individual needs.
I am an integrative therapist. This means that I have received training in a number of therapeutic approaches and can draw upon their various core philosophies and techniques. These approaches include: humanistic/person-centered, Ericksonian hypno-psychotherapy, depth-oriented brief therapy, eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR), self-relations psychotherapy, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), and Internal Family Systems Therapy. So, whatever issue you may be facing, I can tailor my approach to best meet your individual needs.
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Dr Rhiannon King Couples & Relationship Therapy
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Online Only
Are you struggling to communicate, connect, manage conflicts or difficult emotions, heal from loss of trust or an infidelity, establish or maintain healthy boundaries, manage family issues or adapt to change, life events or transitions?
Are you looking for a relationship MOT? From surviving to thriving, I specialise in providing highly collaborative, bespoke, fair, balanced & safe experiences where both partners feel understood, valued & supported. My therapeutic style is flexible, dynamic & creative focusing on the expectations, needs, personalities of the individuals & couple.
Are you struggling to communicate, connect, manage conflicts or difficult emotions, heal from loss of trust or an infidelity, establish or maintain healthy boundaries, manage family issues or adapt to change, life events or transitions?
Are you looking for a relationship MOT? From surviving to thriving, I specialise in providing highly collaborative, bespoke, fair, balanced & safe experiences where both partners feel understood, valued & supported. My therapeutic style is flexible, dynamic & creative focusing on the expectations, needs, personalities of the individuals & couple.
I work with people navigating relationship challenges — whether in dating, in partnerships or with family members. You might be thinking "I struggle to meet anyone..", "I can't stop thinking about my ex..", "I find it difficult to end my current relationship..", "I am anxious about filing for divorce..", "I seem to attract the wrong people all the time.." or "My mother or other family members create lots of stress in my life." Emotionally you might be feeling "I don't understand what's happening to me", "I don't feel like myself anymore..", or " I don't feel like I can manage it anymore and don't know how to move forward."
I work with people navigating relationship challenges — whether in dating, in partnerships or with family members. You might be thinking "I struggle to meet anyone..", "I can't stop thinking about my ex..", "I find it difficult to end my current relationship..", "I am anxious about filing for divorce..", "I seem to attract the wrong people all the time.." or "My mother or other family members create lots of stress in my life." Emotionally you might be feeling "I don't understand what's happening to me", "I don't feel like myself anymore..", or " I don't feel like I can manage it anymore and don't know how to move forward."
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
Welcome. Finding a therapist can be a daunting task, particularly finding someone who will understand you. I am an experienced psychotherapist working with individuals and couples. Are you tired of repeating old patterns? Do you find that relationships are hard work? Are you sick of feeling stuck and unhappy? Does change feel frightening? Is it difficult to speak about sex and desire? Do you want to open up your relationship but struggle with feelings of jealousy? I get it.
Welcome. Finding a therapist can be a daunting task, particularly finding someone who will understand you. I am an experienced psychotherapist working with individuals and couples. Are you tired of repeating old patterns? Do you find that relationships are hard work? Are you sick of feeling stuck and unhappy? Does change feel frightening? Is it difficult to speak about sex and desire? Do you want to open up your relationship but struggle with feelings of jealousy? I get it.
Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
Something brought you here. Maybe a relationship that feels frayed, an anxiety that won't let you rest, or a quiet sense that something needs to change. Reaching out is already an act of willingness, and that's where effective therapy begins.
I'm a psychotherapist with a double Masters in Counselling and 1,400+ hours of practice. I work relationally. The relationship between us isn't just the container for the work. It is the work. As an Indian/UK Counsellor fluent in English, Hindi, and Kannada, I understand the particular weight of South Asian family dynamics and cultural expectations,you won't need to translate your world for me.
Something brought you here. Maybe a relationship that feels frayed, an anxiety that won't let you rest, or a quiet sense that something needs to change. Reaching out is already an act of willingness, and that's where effective therapy begins.
I'm a psychotherapist with a double Masters in Counselling and 1,400+ hours of practice. I work relationally. The relationship between us isn't just the container for the work. It is the work. As an Indian/UK Counsellor fluent in English, Hindi, and Kannada, I understand the particular weight of South Asian family dynamics and cultural expectations,you won't need to translate your world for me.
I have over 18 years experience working with couples and individuals as a sex and relationship psychotherapist. I have worked, privately as well within the charity and NHS sectors. Often in relationships, and in life in general, we go through periods of ups and downs. Therapy may help you to express your needs and wants to partner, as well understanding your needs and wants.
We as human can become a little bit lost in communicating effectively, which in turn can cause other challenges for ourself and possibly our partners. Therapy allows you the chance to explore any on-going patterns that exist, in a way that allows reflection.
I have over 18 years experience working with couples and individuals as a sex and relationship psychotherapist. I have worked, privately as well within the charity and NHS sectors. Often in relationships, and in life in general, we go through periods of ups and downs. Therapy may help you to express your needs and wants to partner, as well understanding your needs and wants.
We as human can become a little bit lost in communicating effectively, which in turn can cause other challenges for ourself and possibly our partners. Therapy allows you the chance to explore any on-going patterns that exist, in a way that allows reflection.
I work with individuals and couples navigating relationship stress, emotional overwhelm, and life transitions. You may be facing conflict, disconnection, or challenges with communication, trust, or intimacy. I offer a calm, supportive space to explore patterns, deepen understanding, and strengthen your relationships—helping you move forward with clarity, confidence, and lasting change.
I work with individuals and couples navigating relationship stress, emotional overwhelm, and life transitions. You may be facing conflict, disconnection, or challenges with communication, trust, or intimacy. I offer a calm, supportive space to explore patterns, deepen understanding, and strengthen your relationships—helping you move forward with clarity, confidence, and lasting change.
I aim to help ease emotional pain and confusion and to find better ways of living a more fulfilled and happier life. Sharing your problems, particularly if it's for the very first time can feel quite daunting. Therefore, it is important for me to create a comfortable and safe environment so we can get straight to heart of the process. I also work deeply linking past experiences to present difficulties and may at times focus our relationship in the moment. This powerful way of working brings insight, which helps you find solutions and ways forward that is best suited to you and your life.
I aim to help ease emotional pain and confusion and to find better ways of living a more fulfilled and happier life. Sharing your problems, particularly if it's for the very first time can feel quite daunting. Therefore, it is important for me to create a comfortable and safe environment so we can get straight to heart of the process. I also work deeply linking past experiences to present difficulties and may at times focus our relationship in the moment. This powerful way of working brings insight, which helps you find solutions and ways forward that is best suited to you and your life.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.
I have a solid background in couples counselling and over 17 years of experience helping people.
I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.
I have a solid background in couples counselling and over 17 years of experience helping people.
We are all, in some way, trying to make sense of ourselves. The contradictions and polarities. The feelings we can't explain. The ways we love imperfectly and are loved imperfectly back. The parts that want connection and want to be seen and the parts that are afraid of it. This isn't dysfunction. This is being human.
I am an MBACP integrative Psychotherapist and Relationship Counsellor and I work with individuals carrying anxiety, grief, and the quiet weight of unlived things. I work with couples who still love each other but have lost the thread, and something vital has gone quiet.
We are all, in some way, trying to make sense of ourselves. The contradictions and polarities. The feelings we can't explain. The ways we love imperfectly and are loved imperfectly back. The parts that want connection and want to be seen and the parts that are afraid of it. This isn't dysfunction. This is being human.
I am an MBACP integrative Psychotherapist and Relationship Counsellor and I work with individuals carrying anxiety, grief, and the quiet weight of unlived things. I work with couples who still love each other but have lost the thread, and something vital has gone quiet.
My ideal clients are individuals or couples who feel emotionally or relationally stuck, unsettled, or caught in painful patterns. They may be dealing with anxiety, shame, trauma, loss, intimacy difficulties, trust ruptures, family conflict, or repeated arguments that no longer feel workable. Often they come at a point of rupture or transition, or simply because something doesn’t feel right. They want greater clarity, emotional freedom, stronger boundaries, deeper understanding, and more satisfying ways of relating to themselves and others.
My ideal clients are individuals or couples who feel emotionally or relationally stuck, unsettled, or caught in painful patterns. They may be dealing with anxiety, shame, trauma, loss, intimacy difficulties, trust ruptures, family conflict, or repeated arguments that no longer feel workable. Often they come at a point of rupture or transition, or simply because something doesn’t feel right. They want greater clarity, emotional freedom, stronger boundaries, deeper understanding, and more satisfying ways of relating to themselves and others.
Things like vaginismus, infidelity, conflict resolutions and sexual desire
I work with ladies and couples on their sexual dysfunctions or relationships issues to help them have the relationship they deserve. I also work on indefinitely and injuries happened within the relationship.
Things like vaginismus, infidelity, conflict resolutions and sexual desire
I work with ladies and couples on their sexual dysfunctions or relationships issues to help them have the relationship they deserve. I also work on indefinitely and injuries happened within the relationship.
My name is Hamid Farahani. I integrate evidence-based methods from various therapeutic approaches, such as DBT, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and CBT, into my practice. My approach is grounded in compassion, respect, and a dedication to providing the highest quality care. I also use Systematic Family/ Couple Therapy, which I find invaluable for addressing issues within families and couples. These approaches are essential in my work, helping to alleviate symptoms associated with various mental health conditions like ADHD, EUPD, BPD, trauma, depression, anxiety disorders, suicidal ideation and personality disorders.
My name is Hamid Farahani. I integrate evidence-based methods from various therapeutic approaches, such as DBT, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and CBT, into my practice. My approach is grounded in compassion, respect, and a dedication to providing the highest quality care. I also use Systematic Family/ Couple Therapy, which I find invaluable for addressing issues within families and couples. These approaches are essential in my work, helping to alleviate symptoms associated with various mental health conditions like ADHD, EUPD, BPD, trauma, depression, anxiety disorders, suicidal ideation and personality disorders.
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Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.