Borderline Personality (BPD) Counselling in Chessington
My clients are adults and teens who want to understand themselves more deeply. You might be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed or burnt out, struggling in relationships or at work, or carrying the impact of difficult past experiences. Some are exploring possible neurodivergence or adjusting to an ADHD or autism diagnosis. Together we slow things down, make sense of patterns in your life, and explore new ways of relating to yourself and others so you can move forward with more clarity and choice.
My clients are adults and teens who want to understand themselves more deeply. You might be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed or burnt out, struggling in relationships or at work, or carrying the impact of difficult past experiences. Some are exploring possible neurodivergence or adjusting to an ADHD or autism diagnosis. Together we slow things down, make sense of patterns in your life, and explore new ways of relating to yourself and others so you can move forward with more clarity and choice.
I am an integrative therapist. This means that I have received training in a number of therapeutic approaches and can draw upon their various core philosophies and techniques. These approaches include: humanistic/person-centered, Ericksonian hypno-psychotherapy, depth-oriented brief therapy, eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR), self-relations psychotherapy, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), and Internal Family Systems Therapy. So, whatever issue you may be facing, I can tailor my approach to best meet your individual needs.
I am an integrative therapist. This means that I have received training in a number of therapeutic approaches and can draw upon their various core philosophies and techniques. These approaches include: humanistic/person-centered, Ericksonian hypno-psychotherapy, depth-oriented brief therapy, eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR), self-relations psychotherapy, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), and Internal Family Systems Therapy. So, whatever issue you may be facing, I can tailor my approach to best meet your individual needs.
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Welcome to my profile, I work with adolescence & adults with a variety of problems that cause difficulties and may have a knock on effect with your loved ones. We often suffer in silence, truth is talking about your troubles, historical or current, can help to understand yourself better, to live a quality of life that best suits you. I facilitate this process, ensuring working within realistically achievable parameters. I qualified from Wealden Psychology Institute in East Sussex. Registered Member of NCPS. I have worked in schools with 11-18 year olds, I have a private practice offering counselling, supervision & EMDR.
Welcome to my profile, I work with adolescence & adults with a variety of problems that cause difficulties and may have a knock on effect with your loved ones. We often suffer in silence, truth is talking about your troubles, historical or current, can help to understand yourself better, to live a quality of life that best suits you. I facilitate this process, ensuring working within realistically achievable parameters. I qualified from Wealden Psychology Institute in East Sussex. Registered Member of NCPS. I have worked in schools with 11-18 year olds, I have a private practice offering counselling, supervision & EMDR.
Are you a parent feeling worried and helpless as your child or teenager struggles with anxiety, low self-esteem, or the overwhelming pressures of school, friendships, and growing up? Maybe you see them struggling with their identity, feeling isolated, or finding it hard to balance life between two cultures.
As an Indian therapist with a deep understanding of South Asian & British culture, I specialise in supporting children, teenagers, and young adults who face emotional struggles, anxiety and low mood. We’ll work on building healthier coping strategies, improving emotional regulation, and developing their confidence and resilience
Are you a parent feeling worried and helpless as your child or teenager struggles with anxiety, low self-esteem, or the overwhelming pressures of school, friendships, and growing up? Maybe you see them struggling with their identity, feeling isolated, or finding it hard to balance life between two cultures.
As an Indian therapist with a deep understanding of South Asian & British culture, I specialise in supporting children, teenagers, and young adults who face emotional struggles, anxiety and low mood. We’ll work on building healthier coping strategies, improving emotional regulation, and developing their confidence and resilience
Have you been entertaining the idea of therapy for some time, or is this an impulse search? Have you asked yourself questions such as: “Why me?”, “Who am I?”, “How did I get here?”, “Is this the rest of my life?”, "Is this really happening to me", "Why does this always happen to me?", “How do I get where I want to be?” Have you or others have labelled yourself as "down", "depressed", "anxious" or "stressed"? Are you worried about feeling a certain way, or not living the life you were meant to live? Do you carry on your shoulders more than you bargained for and feel you can't share with anyone? I am here for you.
Have you been entertaining the idea of therapy for some time, or is this an impulse search? Have you asked yourself questions such as: “Why me?”, “Who am I?”, “How did I get here?”, “Is this the rest of my life?”, "Is this really happening to me", "Why does this always happen to me?", “How do I get where I want to be?” Have you or others have labelled yourself as "down", "depressed", "anxious" or "stressed"? Are you worried about feeling a certain way, or not living the life you were meant to live? Do you carry on your shoulders more than you bargained for and feel you can't share with anyone? I am here for you.
Are you looking for support that
respects your unique background? Whether that’s family expectations, childhood trauma, social inequalities, or the weight of structural racism, seeking professional mental health support can help you make sense of these
difficulties and guide you to cope better in spite of your struggles.
People seek therapy for many reasons, and there is no ‘right’ way to start. Whether you are looking to process the past or learn coping strategies, I offer a safe space for you.
Are you looking for support that
respects your unique background? Whether that’s family expectations, childhood trauma, social inequalities, or the weight of structural racism, seeking professional mental health support can help you make sense of these
difficulties and guide you to cope better in spite of your struggles.
People seek therapy for many reasons, and there is no ‘right’ way to start. Whether you are looking to process the past or learn coping strategies, I offer a safe space for you.
DBT is aimed towards people who struggle to regulate emotions and maintain healthy relationships, including people diagnosed with BPD / EUPD.
Connecting Minds are a collective of highly qualified and experienced psychological practitioners including Consultant Clinical and Counselling Psychologists and psychotherapists. We are dedicated to helping people of all ages improve their wellbeing.
We come from a diverse range of background professions and specialities and have all worked for a minimum of ten years within NHS statutory services. Through connecting with each other, pooling our expertise and resources we can better support your unique therapy journey. We pride ourselves on the ability to provide a range of services in a timely and compassionate manner.
DBT is aimed towards people who struggle to regulate emotions and maintain healthy relationships, including people diagnosed with BPD / EUPD.
Connecting Minds are a collective of highly qualified and experienced psychological practitioners including Consultant Clinical and Counselling Psychologists and psychotherapists. We are dedicated to helping people of all ages improve their wellbeing.
We come from a diverse range of background professions and specialities and have all worked for a minimum of ten years within NHS statutory services. Through connecting with each other, pooling our expertise and resources we can better support your unique therapy journey. We pride ourselves on the ability to provide a range of services in a timely and compassionate manner.
You've reached this page for many reasons, from being diagnosed with a mental health problem to feeling stuck and unable to progress in particular areas of life. I work from the premise that you are an active participant in therapy and hold choice and responsibility in how you want to move forward, whether this includes making sense of, accepting and processing things that have happened to you, or developing existing skills and building new strategies to cope with life's challenges.
You've reached this page for many reasons, from being diagnosed with a mental health problem to feeling stuck and unable to progress in particular areas of life. I work from the premise that you are an active participant in therapy and hold choice and responsibility in how you want to move forward, whether this includes making sense of, accepting and processing things that have happened to you, or developing existing skills and building new strategies to cope with life's challenges.
Do you feel stuck in patterns you can’t break out of? Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious or just unhappy? With many years of experience in helping people to overcome negative patterns and emotional difficulties, I can help you to find a new way of relating to yourself and others. I want to help you to get your life back. The approach I use is evidence based and I will tailor the therapy to address the particular areas you need help with. Together we will think about what you are finding difficult, what your strengths are and how we can work together to help you progress towards recovery and to a richer and more fulfilling life.
Do you feel stuck in patterns you can’t break out of? Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious or just unhappy? With many years of experience in helping people to overcome negative patterns and emotional difficulties, I can help you to find a new way of relating to yourself and others. I want to help you to get your life back. The approach I use is evidence based and I will tailor the therapy to address the particular areas you need help with. Together we will think about what you are finding difficult, what your strengths are and how we can work together to help you progress towards recovery and to a richer and more fulfilling life.
I am an integrative psychotherapist, registered with the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I have a background in psychology, experience working with young people (16+) and adults, and work with a variety of mental health conditions such as eating disorders, anxiety, depression, addiction, trauma and personality disorders.
Whether you are experiencing specific behaviours, or you struggle is more internal, this is often linked to difficulties with attachment, relationships (self, romantic and family), self esteem, identity and/or anxiety. If you are interested in exploring these please get in touch.
I am an integrative psychotherapist, registered with the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I have a background in psychology, experience working with young people (16+) and adults, and work with a variety of mental health conditions such as eating disorders, anxiety, depression, addiction, trauma and personality disorders.
Whether you are experiencing specific behaviours, or you struggle is more internal, this is often linked to difficulties with attachment, relationships (self, romantic and family), self esteem, identity and/or anxiety. If you are interested in exploring these please get in touch.
I am a multilingual Chartered Principal Psychologist (English, Italian and Spanish speaking) recognised by the professional bodies Health and Care Professions Council and British Psychology Society, currently offering both online therapy (which consistently shows itself to be as effective as traditional therapy) and face to face therapy at Kensington, Wimbledon, Chiswick and West Hampstead. I work both for the NHS and as a Director of my own psychology company. With over 15 years’ experience, I provide a range of evidence based psychological therapies in line with NICE guidelines guarantying a confidential and non-judgmental space.
I am a multilingual Chartered Principal Psychologist (English, Italian and Spanish speaking) recognised by the professional bodies Health and Care Professions Council and British Psychology Society, currently offering both online therapy (which consistently shows itself to be as effective as traditional therapy) and face to face therapy at Kensington, Wimbledon, Chiswick and West Hampstead. I work both for the NHS and as a Director of my own psychology company. With over 15 years’ experience, I provide a range of evidence based psychological therapies in line with NICE guidelines guarantying a confidential and non-judgmental space.
In a challenging and fast pace world we all need our optimum Self to deal with the demands of life; maintaining and keeping relationships, keeping up the functional aspects of our lives, pursuing dreams and interests, pleasure activities, being at ease when alone, and being comfortable in social settings - friends, events, education and work. Meeting the extra demands that life often presents - relationship breakups, divorce, loss of work, bereavement, mental health issues, loss of home and financial collapse, family turmoil or dysfunctionality, traumatic events, loss of health - requires a robust sense of Self, enabling change.
In a challenging and fast pace world we all need our optimum Self to deal with the demands of life; maintaining and keeping relationships, keeping up the functional aspects of our lives, pursuing dreams and interests, pleasure activities, being at ease when alone, and being comfortable in social settings - friends, events, education and work. Meeting the extra demands that life often presents - relationship breakups, divorce, loss of work, bereavement, mental health issues, loss of home and financial collapse, family turmoil or dysfunctionality, traumatic events, loss of health - requires a robust sense of Self, enabling change.
Struggling with intense emotions or feeling overwhelmed by sensitivity? We specialise in working with people who experience emotional intensity, impulsivity, and relationship struggles—helping them build resilience, balance, and deeper self-understanding. Our intensive Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) programme is designed to equip you with practical skills to manage overwhelming emotions, impulsive behaviours, and patterns that no longer serve you. If you feel that your emotions often take over, this structured, evidence-based approach can help you regain control and build a more stable, fulfilling life.
Struggling with intense emotions or feeling overwhelmed by sensitivity? We specialise in working with people who experience emotional intensity, impulsivity, and relationship struggles—helping them build resilience, balance, and deeper self-understanding. Our intensive Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) programme is designed to equip you with practical skills to manage overwhelming emotions, impulsive behaviours, and patterns that no longer serve you. If you feel that your emotions often take over, this structured, evidence-based approach can help you regain control and build a more stable, fulfilling life.
I am trained as an Existential Psychotherapist, qualifying from Regents University. I work with clients to examine the world around them, including looking at their life choices and what has influenced and led them to those choices. I hope to empower the client in whatever life path they might be on and help them to explore their place in the world and the relationships in their life. I work by helping the client to explore their life path, where they can consider what has influenced their choices and discuss if there are any regrets or expectations within their current life. By examining the impact of past choices on current life
I am trained as an Existential Psychotherapist, qualifying from Regents University. I work with clients to examine the world around them, including looking at their life choices and what has influenced and led them to those choices. I hope to empower the client in whatever life path they might be on and help them to explore their place in the world and the relationships in their life. I work by helping the client to explore their life path, where they can consider what has influenced their choices and discuss if there are any regrets or expectations within their current life. By examining the impact of past choices on current life
We are a team of experienced therapists providing specialist support for people living with emotion regulation difficulties whose challenges get described in the medical world as " borderline personality disorder" ( BPD/EUPD).
DBT and MBT programmes consist of both individual therapy and group component. We are committed to providing model-adherent therapies which means that our priority is that the quality of the therapeutic process we offer sticks fast to the way both DBT and MBT were developed by the Linehan Institute and Anna Freud Centre.
We are a team of experienced therapists providing specialist support for people living with emotion regulation difficulties whose challenges get described in the medical world as " borderline personality disorder" ( BPD/EUPD).
DBT and MBT programmes consist of both individual therapy and group component. We are committed to providing model-adherent therapies which means that our priority is that the quality of the therapeutic process we offer sticks fast to the way both DBT and MBT were developed by the Linehan Institute and Anna Freud Centre.
Do you want to understand why you always act the way you do? Does it seem to you that your behavior follows repetitive patterns and you'd like to be able to change it, but you tend to always fall back into the same ruts? How about starting from the beginning and trying to understand what's going on?
Do you want to understand why you always act the way you do? Does it seem to you that your behavior follows repetitive patterns and you'd like to be able to change it, but you tend to always fall back into the same ruts? How about starting from the beginning and trying to understand what's going on?
Perhaps you’re experiencing difficulties in past relationships. Maybe you lack confidence in social situations or generally finding it hard to cope with low self-esteem. Perhaps you are experiencing work-related stress or generalised anxiety, depression or panic attacks. It might be that you simply found yourself stuck in life and can’t find the way forward. Sometimes stressful life events can be so emotionally overwhelming, that we no longer wish to cope alone. I understand how overwhelming life can be at times.
Perhaps you’re experiencing difficulties in past relationships. Maybe you lack confidence in social situations or generally finding it hard to cope with low self-esteem. Perhaps you are experiencing work-related stress or generalised anxiety, depression or panic attacks. It might be that you simply found yourself stuck in life and can’t find the way forward. Sometimes stressful life events can be so emotionally overwhelming, that we no longer wish to cope alone. I understand how overwhelming life can be at times.
I welcome all survivors of violence and abuse, but especially those historically silenced or pathologised: people diagnosed with what psychiatry calls personality disorders (especially BPD), survivors of colonial violence, and those dismissed as “insane” or materialistically reduced into being owners of a "faulty" brain or genes.
I specialise in the study of violence and evil — the lived aftermath of the so-called “trauma” — and in the study of structural injustice impacting mental distress, especially as it relates to concepts of health, propriety, and misappropriation of scientific knowledge (medico-biological, physical, and linguistic).
I welcome all survivors of violence and abuse, but especially those historically silenced or pathologised: people diagnosed with what psychiatry calls personality disorders (especially BPD), survivors of colonial violence, and those dismissed as “insane” or materialistically reduced into being owners of a "faulty" brain or genes.
I specialise in the study of violence and evil — the lived aftermath of the so-called “trauma” — and in the study of structural injustice impacting mental distress, especially as it relates to concepts of health, propriety, and misappropriation of scientific knowledge (medico-biological, physical, and linguistic).
I specialise in addictions, and other mental health issues; personality disorders including BPD/EUPD/NPD.
I am a flexible, modern & inclusive practitioner, integrating various modaliites to suit individual need & preference, incl; Person Centred, Psychodynamic, CBT, Compassion Focused Therapy & DBT. I provide support for many issues, including; Helping individuals move from a place of “Stuckness” or feeling Overwhelmed; Exploring how Current or Past Events have affected their Life & Well Being; Anger, Sadness, Irritability, difficulty Regulating Emotions; Life Transitions. Managing Complex Mental Health needs. I offer an Unbiased Perspective and Safe Space to talk through sensitive Issues in Complete Confidence
I specialise in addictions, and other mental health issues; personality disorders including BPD/EUPD/NPD.
I am a flexible, modern & inclusive practitioner, integrating various modaliites to suit individual need & preference, incl; Person Centred, Psychodynamic, CBT, Compassion Focused Therapy & DBT. I provide support for many issues, including; Helping individuals move from a place of “Stuckness” or feeling Overwhelmed; Exploring how Current or Past Events have affected their Life & Well Being; Anger, Sadness, Irritability, difficulty Regulating Emotions; Life Transitions. Managing Complex Mental Health needs. I offer an Unbiased Perspective and Safe Space to talk through sensitive Issues in Complete Confidence
Hello and welcome, my name is Nicola. I am a qualified and experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. I support and work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide range of issues from, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, separation, divorce, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement. I have worked in a variety of settings including the Relate institute, counselling agencies, and as part of a mental health team. I now work mainly in private practice. My practices are situated in Coulsdon Surrey CR5 and Balham.London SW17.
Hello and welcome, my name is Nicola. I am a qualified and experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. I support and work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide range of issues from, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, separation, divorce, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement. I have worked in a variety of settings including the Relate institute, counselling agencies, and as part of a mental health team. I now work mainly in private practice. My practices are situated in Coulsdon Surrey CR5 and Balham.London SW17.
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Borderline Personality (BPD) Counsellors
What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.
What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?
Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.
What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?
DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.
What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?
The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.